Overcoming Grief & PTSD From The Loss Of A Child I The Speakmans

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 17 гру 2018
  • In March 2000, Anita suffered an unimaginable loss when her 3yr old son was killed by a dustbin lorry. Anita says she now just exists, has no quality of life, and has lost all the memories of her son. Whilst she had tried desperately to move on with her life by getting married and having two more children, she was sadly unable to do so as she had become emotionally detached and had never grieved her loss.
    Conquer Your Anxiety with The Speakmans' book: www.amazon.co.uk/Conquering-A...
    Subscribe to The Speakmans’ UA-cam channel for more tips: goo.gl/Lgzxjw
    Follow The Speakmans on TikTok: / thespeakmans
    Follow The Speakmans on Twitter: / thespeakmans
    Like The Speakmans on Facebook: / thespeakmans
    Follow The Speakmans on Instagram: / thespeakmans
    Discover more on The Speakmans' website: www.speakman.tv/

КОМЕНТАРІ • 33

  • @melaniedelorme7728
    @melaniedelorme7728 5 років тому +32

    There is no pain worse than the pain of losing a child. After losing my son, Garrett, in a hunting accident, I found it so helpful to connect with other parents who had also lost children. Time does heal. Thank you for your video.

  • @Awebreeze-zm3st
    @Awebreeze-zm3st 2 роки тому +25

    I lost my daughter a year and ten months ago. I can barely account for that time lapse. In my heart I grieve as I did the first week. I don't see it getting better. I just get lonelier for her. I wake myself up calling her name. It's like an amputation & half of me is gone. The only thing I've come to terms with is that this pain is forever and I'll carry it till I go to heaven.

    • @blacknbougie8021
      @blacknbougie8021 2 роки тому +6

      I'm terribly sorry. I loss my son 4 days ago and the pain is soul crushing. I'm wishing you peace and healing.

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 2 роки тому +4

      I'm so sorry.
      Does it help to know that your daughter is at peace? 💙🙏

    • @victoriawest6127
      @victoriawest6127 2 місяці тому

      I lost my daughter it's unspeakable be hard I look forward to the day I go to be with her again God bless you pray for me

  • @robertjoe7590
    @robertjoe7590 2 роки тому +6

    I held my breathless 27 day old son in my arms at the hospital he passed away in. The image won't leave my head, I held him for 4 hours. And everyday its in my head. I get the 1000 yard stare.

  • @blacknbougie8021
    @blacknbougie8021 2 роки тому +9

    I loss my baby 4 days ago and I'm just here to figure out how I can move forward. I really don't want to but I also don't wanna feel this pain anymore.
    I just want my baby back.

  • @ieatleftytears1953
    @ieatleftytears1953 2 роки тому +8

    I lost a baby, and I have another baby now. She choked on a piece of bread recently but survived. But when my wife put her in my arms she was limp...just like my late daughter...and the fear of her dying has crippled me for days since. She bumped her head tonight and I've broken down. I can't stop crying and thinking terrible things...I'm terrified

  • @lovingmayberry307
    @lovingmayberry307 2 роки тому +7

    I never had children, so i can't truly relate, but watching this was so painful that I can't even begin to imagine the pain a parent goes through when their child dies. Sending love to every parent who has had to endure such heartbreak. 💙🙏

  • @lizzy66125
    @lizzy66125 3 роки тому +6

    I have lost two children one through so brutally being beaten up whilst being 34 weeks pregnant that the baby had such severe injuries that he died 2 hrs after birth and a daughter through cotdeath.I have had a lot happen in my life but this I cannot get to grips with at all

  • @leighshajames422
    @leighshajames422 4 роки тому +10

    Thank you for being so open. My loss made me close up. I wish i had help like this. I pray time heals for you both. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @elijahsmomalicia5661
    @elijahsmomalicia5661 3 роки тому +25

    I'm caught up in a revolving door of memories and emotions😭 My 16 year old son was kidnapped and bludgeon to death and I have yet to have recovered my baby's remains going on 4 years now... I can't wrap my head around anything I lose things often I can't remember what I said 5 minutes prior in any conversation...and I'm no longer the person I used to be...

    • @brendadrumm9708
      @brendadrumm9708 3 роки тому +5

      Oh my god I'm crying for you I've lost my daughter and son my life has ended but your story is horrific I wish I could put my arms around you life is so cruel nothing on earth can I say to you to make you feel any better my poor lady xxx

    • @karlakyritsis6114
      @karlakyritsis6114 3 роки тому +5

      I am so sorry for your loss I can’t imagine. Not having his remains must be so difficult. I was able to lay my son to rest and I still can’t stop crying.

    • @angellakirabo5275
      @angellakirabo5275 2 роки тому +2

      This world no balance at all, so sorry dia

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 2 роки тому +2

      I'm so sorry, Alicia.
      RIP Elijah. 💙🙏

  • @sh1nypantsgaming661
    @sh1nypantsgaming661 4 роки тому +5

    No pain like losing your child, we lost our infant daughter and I still can’t cope with it.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  4 роки тому

      So very sorry for your loss. Perhaps seeking some therapy would help ease some of your pain. Sending you love and strength.

    • @sh1nypantsgaming661
      @sh1nypantsgaming661 4 роки тому

      The Speakmans - The Worlds Leading Life Change Therapists none in my area take my insurance.

  • @giamehlos5087
    @giamehlos5087 2 роки тому +3

    My heart goes out to you and your family. So glad you are able to find some healing. My only child passed 6mo ago, I am devastated. You are inspiring and it give me some hope.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  2 роки тому

      So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we are sending you love and strength 💕

  • @shabby4026
    @shabby4026 3 роки тому +1

    Oh my god can't believe this. 😪 this made me cry.

  • @Afghan-1919
    @Afghan-1919 2 роки тому

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I can understand it very well .....

  • @flowering1011
    @flowering1011 2 роки тому

    I am SO Sorry I feel bad for him if I was there I would give him flowers before he was killed!

  • @shirleyliggett776
    @shirleyliggett776 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @luketracey3269
    @luketracey3269 2 роки тому

    🍀

  • @tzukhi
    @tzukhi Рік тому

    I can’t get over my dogs death , i could not imagine loosing a child.

  • @Felicia-hz1qd
    @Felicia-hz1qd 3 місяці тому

    I don't get how he died