Ariana Grande's lack of self reflection is concerning

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  • Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
  • Today we're talking about the new single from Ariana Grande and how it just... wasn't giving. but that's just my opinion. let me know your thoughts!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 57

  • @livinginthepines
    @livinginthepines 5 місяців тому +67

    It's not giving 7 rings 😂

  • @internetperson.
    @internetperson. 5 місяців тому +81

    I also felt slightly annoyed by the lyrics in the song. I honestly could've vibed with the song, but the lack of self-accountability left a sour taste in my mouth. She could've just ignored the drama and not talked about it at all, even that would've been more palatable, but, alas. 🙄 Out of touch is the perfect way to describe it, because she talks about a boy putting on makeup in the song and owning his style, which makes me feel as though she's equating the very real struggle of being a boy who's interested in makeup (clearly meant to speak to members of the queer community), to the completely self-inflicted drama that comes from being a homewrecker. It's tone-deaf at best, and insidious at worst. Just, major ick. I wish she'd just... learn to validate herself in a way that isn't at the expense of other women.
    TL;DR This song is not very fetch of her.
    Note: I don't read replies. Toodle-oo. ✨

    • @OmeriShkur
      @OmeriShkur 4 місяці тому

      Than don’t ready any of you get them simple 😂

  • @agf6276
    @agf6276 4 місяці тому +19

    Imagine if ethan’s and ari’s exes get together

  • @Wheres_Ana
    @Wheres_Ana 4 місяці тому +17

    Fake Smile executed better than whatever this is 😭

  • @jaquelineoliveira8853
    @jaquelineoliveira8853 4 місяці тому +7

    i wish she got something close to dangerous woman album. the production is so nice there. yes, and? it's just eh

  • @_KayBee_
    @_KayBee_ 5 місяців тому +6

    OMG! Where have you been? Welcome back.

  • @lyd4610
    @lyd4610 4 місяці тому +20

    I feel so bad from Ari husband and Ethan’s wife

    • @OmeriShkur
      @OmeriShkur 4 місяці тому +3

      You’re feeling bad for dalton ?? when he’s the one who’s was going out on dates with other women cheating on Ariana ???? Ohh okkk

    • @Prod.Triton
      @Prod.Triton 4 місяці тому +4

      Dalton cheated on ari and did even care about throughout most of their relationship

    • @funkunko
      @funkunko 4 місяці тому +1

      they didn’t cheat.. y’all continue to prove you don’t actually care abt what you talk abt you just listen to rumors. they were both separated before getting together.

  • @jasoninthea.m7471
    @jasoninthea.m7471 5 місяців тому +3

    Oh hi! you're back. YAY.

  • @_angd.oodles_4186
    @_angd.oodles_4186 4 місяці тому

    couldn't agree more

  • @scarletkittyeyes
    @scarletkittyeyes 5 місяців тому +2

    ur back!!! 😚~❤❤

  • @sashamcdonald4673
    @sashamcdonald4673 4 місяці тому

    Stop i feel like this is in jones tower either way I feel like I relate to you so much

  • @NonaMoreau
    @NonaMoreau 4 місяці тому +15

    ✨IRRELEVANT✨ sent me

  • @_KayBee_
    @_KayBee_ 5 місяців тому +4

    Positions is Ari’s BEST album. Followed by DW, like what are we talking about. 🤨

    • @aliyahunleashed
      @aliyahunleashed  5 місяців тому +9

      this is incorrect i’m so sorry

    • @_KayBee_
      @_KayBee_ 5 місяців тому

      @@aliyahunleashed 😭😭😭

    • @kristens8718
      @kristens8718 4 місяці тому +1

      Personally, I think sweetener is the best with dw being a close 2nd. Positions was kinda bland.

    • @_KayBee_
      @_KayBee_ 4 місяці тому

      @@kristens8718 Not bland!? OMG 😭

    • @Subplaylist1111
      @Subplaylist1111 4 місяці тому

      Thank u next is the best album

  • @tsdifferent
    @tsdifferent 3 місяці тому

    I didn’t like “yes, and?” at first. It had to grow on me

  • @rylan_wm
    @rylan_wm 4 місяці тому +11

    this is so embarrassing since all of these allegations have been proven false, by the ex wife herself.

    • @Lishie
      @Lishie 4 місяці тому +3

      honestly, its so dumb how everyone believes all the crap they see online

    • @rylan_wm
      @rylan_wm 4 місяці тому

      @@Lishie literally!!

    • @Chelseaaa626
      @Chelseaaa626 4 місяці тому +4

      Can you elaborate? I’m genuinely confused. It seems the wife said they didn’t do anything no wrong but she does believe Ariana grandes close proximity to SpongeBob during wicked did contribute to their marriage breaking up.

    • @rylan_wm
      @rylan_wm 4 місяці тому +2

      @@Chelseaaa626 thats called believing everything you see on the internet. there's no evidence of her thinking that.

    • @kamoko6295
      @kamoko6295 4 місяці тому +10

      Whether the allegations were proven false or not (which i honestly think is just page six backtracking like cowards after the release of her single) they're both still f'd up for what they did. Cheating or not, they both left their MARRIAGES and families behind for each other which definitely means that they had to have been feeling each other before they both divorced their partners. Ethan left his whole ass child and lover for 10 years for Ari who will most certainly leave him. They are both foul for that no matter which way her fans try to spin it. If Ariana was actually a girls girl, she would've left that woman's man alone no matter what feelings she had for him (considering she already had a man of her own as well😒). You can't just break up a family and your own family on a whim just because you feel like it. Whatever happened to committed relationships and faithfulness? That all goes away just cause you meet someone who you think is slightly cute? Still trash of her and she clearly shows no remorse in the song. I'm definitely still side eyeing her.

  • @krists4679
    @krists4679 4 місяці тому +4

    page six debunked the rumors lol

    • @ashleymc7959
      @ashleymc7959 4 місяці тому +4

      They just said “we don’t know what exactly happened, we only got what Lily Jay said”

    • @lifeofthannerpeace5056
      @lifeofthannerpeace5056 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ashleymc7959 that literally contradicts their own statement

    • @ashleymc7959
      @ashleymc7959 4 місяці тому +3

      @@lifeofthannerpeace5056you Can think that. however, I think the timing of them backtracking their authoritative statements just days after the single drops is very shady. Either way Lily Jay did say what she said and I have not found a statement that doesn’t say “ supposedly she regrets blah blah” everything is speculated outside of Lily’s words to page six, which is what has hold the most weight in the entire conversation.

  • @wifi539
    @wifi539 4 місяці тому +6

    oh you did not understand the song 💀

    • @Chelseaaa626
      @Chelseaaa626 4 місяці тому +10

      What was it trying to say? Cause I don’t think I understood it either then

    • @OmeriShkur
      @OmeriShkur 4 місяці тому +2

      Exactly 😂😂😂

  • @Mochimaker333
    @Mochimaker333 4 місяці тому +1

    To defend her: Imo the beginning ("Oh my god, did she really do that? I read it on the internet so it MUST be true.") it shows that it might be false allegations -- I think she is getting mad and petty back at the haters who assume the details of the story. That is the vibe I get. She felt she didn't she need an explanation. Most people don't even know what is going on in others' personal lives, even when they post on social media... so much can be going on behind the scenes that people don't talk about. Ari shouldn't feel forced to talk about it just because she is famous. I think she's just been going through things silently on her own. She is still a human who is trying to see things right.
    But yeah I still have some ick about it
    I don't like the lyric, ("Why do you care so much...?"), I would say "out of touch" because we care as a society about secure homes so if we are getting wild it is because of that. It can hurt a lot of people. That just makes sense. She has to know she has a cultural influence.
    It's just not enough info for me to judge Ari that she necessarily was the person who "stole" ethan or made the move first.. before I hear the album and seriously see something happening. It's all just been word of mouth. Page Six took back what they said so I'm not sure what really happened.
    So far, I'm suspicious and think they probably liked each other on set which sucks (but happens to like everyone but with self control it matters), but I am not sure cheating made them actually separate. Maybe Ethan realized he actually wasn't meant to be with Lilly, and made a big mistake. We just don't know imo.
    I wish she could have at least waited longer... but I guess Ari wanted to keep the attraction there, rather than just staying separate for the sake of public opinion & letting her connection with Ethan go.
    I'm not entirely sure how to defend her either, I just want to hear Eternal Sunshine already & figure this out.

  • @danielapardo9776
    @danielapardo9776 4 місяці тому +4

    Ya'll are acting like this is the whole album, the whole statement and all the things she has to say. Maybe wait unitl she realeses the whole thing so we can listen to her "self reflection"? Since ya'll are soooo concerned about that.

    • @aliyahunleashed
      @aliyahunleashed  4 місяці тому +2

      who is ya’ll? 💀 i literally said in the video i hope the rest of the album is better but that this was just not a good start. do y’all even watch videos before you comment anymore? lmao

    • @danielapardo9776
      @danielapardo9776 4 місяці тому

      @@aliyahunleashed my bad, is not ya'll then. But the point stands, not against you tho.

  • @funkunko
    @funkunko 4 місяці тому

    annoying

  • @lifeofthannerpeace5056
    @lifeofthannerpeace5056 4 місяці тому +4

    ur just gullible, believing every tabloid and not doing research. so ... yes, and?

    • @dotcom3015
      @dotcom3015 4 місяці тому +1

      Without even taking account the tabloids, just looking at how both of their official separation and divorce statements are around the same time is enough to side eye. And at least two exes of her boyfriends have implied she was a homewrecker. The past ten years of relationships don’t frame her well, it’s not just the tabloids

  • @anony1596
    @anony1596 5 місяців тому +2

    Leave Victoria alone lol

  • @jxhanlovesu
    @jxhanlovesu 4 місяці тому +2

    this reminds me of the doja drama, also lily jay said herself that her and ethan split up and ari had nothing to do with that, calling someone a homewrecker because a spongbob looking mf decided to play w her is not okay. if im being honest its ethan we should be hating because he left his family for a girl he knew was trying to heal from her divorce,

  • @mvruz
    @mvruz 4 місяці тому +3

    maybe before talking crap on the internet read a little bit and inform yourself because all those allegations have been proven false by ethan’s wife. both of them were separated from their respective partners months before engaging in their relationship, and also who tf cares?
    she said “i read it on the internet so it must be true” and you ran with that!!