The tattoo might have been seen as hideous to the bride because the bridesmaid got the tattoo right before the wedding! This could affect how an already stressed out bride feels about her big day.
I had a friend who got this hideous full sleeve 🙄 I told her it was hideous before she got it and she went ahead and got it. For years other people kept telling her it was beautiful and I was one of few that thought it looked like a pile of rubbish; and she made it her business to tell people am an awful friend. Well, well... fast forward six years and she's dating this guy and covering them when they're together and I cackle internally. Unfortunately her "good" friends told him about the sleeve and he promptly dumped her. Now I'm the good overlooked friend and for the first time saw them friends and their praises for the lies they were and is having the tattoo removed.
I think Jeannie is coming from feeling like she’s being physically judged her whole career from tv and hosting that she doesn’t want to feel that way around her friends, I understand both sides
@@nikkimohamed7814 *then they better not take it offensively when they decline to be apart of their wedding. take em as they are or watch em as they go lol*
@@nikkimohamed7814 Even if it was “my day” I want people to come, feel good about themselves, enjoy my wedding, and feel comfortable. Nothing will make me more mad on my day seeing people not enjoying “my day” with me. Wear appropriately. However you wanna accessorize is on you. Wanna show tats and dye your hair? Be my guest. Drink up bitches.
@PR RP youre making your wedding more about the visual aesthetic than it is about love. Bridesmaids are picked as love ones of significance not by who would look better in the role.
@@dnicole4236 It's just selfish in my opinion. Birthmarks are hard to cover and they are your actual identity. Weight is touchy because some people have real health issues that makes weight loss very challenging. But tattoos are exactly what Jeannie said, "accessories". They can be covered whenever the person who has them finds it distracting or if they're going to be a part of someone else big day. It's just one day!
@@mgmtgirlyeah7493 Not everyone covers their tattoos for any reason. If you have friends with tattoos and don't think tattoos are presentable then you probably shouldn't have friends with tattoos. I wouldn't want any friends that have judgments about me, because friends are supposed to love you completely. I would never call anyone a friend that I secretly have judgments about.
When my sister got married, I was a bridesmaid, she asked me to dye my hair a natural colour (it was bright blue and pink), remove my piercings and hide my tattoos. I did. It was her day not mine.
@@liefdragon5637 i have a neurological condition that causes me sensation issues and wigs cause me immense irritation, I would have if I could, would have been easier lol x
@@uniqueone5513 I think she meant it's completely different than asking to cover up tattoos. Who the hell would day lose weight for my wedding??!!! That's horrible!
This conversation is ridiculous. Jeannie just said that she covers her tattoos for certain looks because there is too much going on. Why wouldn't she do the same for a friend. Tattoos can look very busy with certain looks. That's why you choose the people you know would do their best to make your day special.
Nah you probably don't have tattoos. Tattoos are a very much a part of a person and can even be a spiritual or cultural rite of passage. If you have a friend with tattoos and you ask them to get it covered for a photo then you are basically saying I only want part of you in my photos, not all of you. You don't understand because you don't have tattoos. 🤷🏾♂️
@@Mandapuggo_ the problem is that we are so europeanised that we don't even realise it. Native traditions are shunned and made to seem less than presentable in our current culture. Like Jeannie said, people with tattoos and tattoos themselves are looked down on. There is no real legitimate reason why tattoos should have to be covered for a wedding photo other than that they are not seen as acceptable in society. I repeat, there's nothing wrong with our own heritage and culture that it should be hidden away for a special occasion. We have a lot of brainwashing to unlearn from colonization.
@@daria5846 your tattoos must not be for a religious or cultural purpose. I have a tattoo that represents my commitment to the Goddess. I would never cover it for any occasion, unless I want to by my own volition. There are many tribal rites of passage that include getting tattoos and they are special and holy to the people getting them. Can you even imagine asking a Hawaiian man to cover his sacred body tattoos for your Europeanised idea of a holy wedding? That would be totally disrespectful and a sign that you dont see their tattoos as wholesome, which is wrong on so many levels. People dont realised how deeply you've been conditioned by white society to believe our own native traditions are not holy or not presentable. Another example is asking a Celtic shaman to cover his spiral face tattoos for your wedding. If you have to ask someone to a hide a part of themselves that is sacred to them and a tradition of their heritage, which predates Christianity and colonization, then you are not a true friend at all in my eyes.
I honestly think Jeanie is making it a lot deeper than it actually is. I also have a few tattoos, some of them are very very visible and also hold a special meaning in my heart because of what they mean and the moment in my life I got them done. However, I'd have zero problems covering them up for my friend's special day. It's not about me, it's her wedding. I'll do it for her, it's not that serious. Honestly, I'd probably ask her myself if she'd prefer to have me cover them for the ceremony before she asked me lol
Giselle Valdez So are mine for me and their own for a lot of people who have tattoos as well. But ONE DAY is not gonna hurt anybody. She was being too sensitive.
It doesn’t matter. If you’ve agreed to be a bridesmaid you do as the bride says. If you can’t think about someone other than yourself for a few hours, don’t say yes
I have a back tattoo, when my sister got married i wore a dress with the back covered so it didnt cause a distraction. Im irish catholic and in a judgemental family regarding body modifications so just didnt want the headache. Didnt take offence i put my sister first on her wedding day!!
As you should...that's AWESOME! I agree 💯 because it's their day and should have what they want. If you feel you cannot do it then let them know I'm sorry but I wont be able to be in your wedding. It's all how it's done. Good for you for doing that on her day ❤💪🏾
@Shay91 Woah. Where to begin with this? From a biological standpoint of view. YOU ARE WRONG. We are all one species and it has been confirmed that mixing differe DNA leads to stronger offspring. From a social point of view. YOU ARE WRONG. Mixing cultures and different perspectives, inputs and experiences based on mutual respect and understanding leads to better and more thriving society. We are all today product of cultures and races interacting. From a spiritual point of view. YOU ARE WRONG. I don't know what religion or belief you hold, but at the core of every one that I know of is a human soul/spirit. We all have one - no matter our race - and when two souls connect on a spiritual level it is nothing short of divine. Personally I take it as a proof of existence of something more grand and meaningful than mere mortals life. It would be silly to let something like the level of melanin affect that connection. I could go on..But the point is - nothing evil in it. The two of them may or may not last. Who knows? But they have the right to choose that later, same way they chose each other now.
Shay91 stfu it’s 2019 anyone can love who they love, whether you love the same sex or a different race .get over yourself and keep your negativity to yourself you’re not in their relationship so don’t worry about it go live your sad judge-mental life to yourself .
Jeannie is being a little hypocritical. She’s saying that she covers them up for carpets and certain outfits to compliment them, but that’s exactly what Adrienne is saying. That people want a look for their bridal party so it doesn’t fit in with the collective look
For all the people that are entitled to the “It’s my day so do what I say”- if you’re paying for everything, including my whole outfit, hair and makeup..I’ll consider covering my tattoo. But if I’m paying for everything to BE your bridesmaid and to be there for you on your special day and you wanna ask me to cover my tattoo..girl bye.
Honestly, a wedding is about becoming one with your significant other. If you let a tattoo on your bridesmaid RUIN your entire wedding, you are totally forgetting the point.
I’m with Loni & Adrienne. If you ask your bridesmaids to do a specific hairstyle or jewelry (since Jeannie talking about accessories) that’s what you agree to as a bridesmaid, in my opinion . So covering the tattoos would follow, it’s not as deep as Jeannie made it
i dont think she got it right before like the bride stated any one who has tattoos most importantly women with tats ( i have seven ) know that you cant cover them with make up till at least 3 days after if its small and if its bigger and more details then you have to go long do to the fact that it can cause irration and thus infection .and how the bride said hideous too. tho i do agree with the brides wedding her choice.and some religions do tats as right of passage and to cover them is going against their religion even its it for a wedding. which is why im 50/50
That’s because you don’t understand that for some people it’s NOT an accessory. It IS like a birthmark. People have portraits of their dead parents of children. Tattoos to remember beating cancer or fighting suicide.
I’m rocking with Jeanie with this one. I would want my friends to come just as they are!!!! People do not have to be in your wedding or even support your marriage so for them to be in your wedding is a big deal!!!! 🤷🏾♀️ my bridesmaids will come just as they are and will be greatly appreciated for their love prayers and support💞💝💓
@@dianamunoz4296 So? Their fun/good memories. Their overcoming cancer, remembering a loved one, remembering a big chapter in your life that made you who you are! There late friday nights hanging out with your friends and remembering it.
@@marj4273 Tattoos represent none of those things, people get tattoos to bring attention to themselves it almost never has to do anything with the meaning supposedly associated. You can do other things to remember such things like write a book, get a pendant, or charm not mark your God given body. It's almost an instant subconscious reaction to view tattoos as trashy for some reason. It has nothing to do with the meant if the tattoo but the attention it brings to you.
As a person with a couple of visible tattoo's (one of them being pretty large), I definitely would not have an issue covering them for a friends wedding or special day. Yeah weddings are built around the couples aesthetic and tattoo's, or even facial piercings, might not be part of that particular aesthetic. So it makes sense that if they are not then, then why not ask to get them covered up? I definitely don't think it is as deep as Jeannie was making it out to be, and you can love someone for everything they are; but still hate their style, tattoo's, or piercings. You love a person for their spirit and heart, not necessarily what they do aesthetically with their bodies. Yeah coming to a conclusion I would definitely be interested to hear the story behind the brides maid getting a tattoo right before the wedding and not keeping the bride in the loop. Yeah I personally would not do that, just in case they did not like the design (art is subjective and just because you like a certain design, doesn't mean everyone does).
my thing is some religions do tats as a right of passage to cover them would be turning you back on your religion if they dont have tats for religious meanings then yes cover (i have seven myself non religious ) but if you know you friend is religious and thats what this is then just dont ask them to cover however we dont know what that tat is so it could be religous for all we know also yes they are in the pics but no body is looking at the bridesmaids every body wants to eye how beautiful the bride is on her day
I think people be worried about the wrong things. The purpose of a wedding is not supposed to be aesthetics. Flowers, table arrangements, etc are just such superficial things to worry about in my opinion. A wedding is a celebration of a union in which you promise yourself and your love and devotion, etc. to the one you love in the presence of all the people most important to you. So all else is really irrelevant. I don't understand making a whole production out of a wedding. I say the simpler the better, and receive everyone who loves you just as they are. Yeah, it's not that serious to cover a tattoo (if you have the right make up), but it's not that serious that you should have to.....
"It's the brides day, let her have her day" .... Uhm, yeah.. Excactly! It's the BRIDES day!? Nobody caaares about the bridesmaids tattoos 😂 Unless the theme is "inc free" - RELAX. It should'nt have be a discussion. I mean... Hair, dress and makeup is one thing - INKED SKIN is something else...
Inked skin is a cultural and holy tradition predating the Christianization of the holy union of man and woman. People often forget that weddingns existed before christianity and before we were taught that things like tattoos and other native traditions, like piercings and braids and other ancient rites, are somehow unholy or unpresentable. This really saddens me that people connect more with European standards of what is right and what is wrong than their own ancient rich heritage.
Sure, it is simple - Not my really point though.. And about that last comment. Sure, but I am pretty sure, that marriages originally did'nt have crazy themes going either and nor did they even have bridesmaids. But we can agree to disagree :-) I just PERSONALLY think, that we have gotten a bit to far of from true matter and what weddings and marriages should be about.
I see both sides but agree with Jeanie x For my wedding my sister asked me if I wanted her to dye her bright red hair back to brunette for my wedding “look”. It was a beach wedding and she also has multiple tattoos but I would not want her at my wedding or by my side any other way than her genuine self.
For a friends wedding I would cover my tattoos if I had some. Cos it would not look good in the pictures. I’m sorry, but if you real feel some type of way then you don’t have to be my bridesmaid. It has nothing to do with me not liking you as you are, it’s to do with the fact that it’s my wedding and I want everyone to look a certain way. I agree with Loni, give the bride her one day.
so you would leave somebody out of your wedding based on religion too then as some religions do tats as right of passage and to cover them for any reason is seen as turning your back to your religion
I have tattoos too but I'm sorry, you're gonna cover up those tattoos if it interferes with the overall look of the bridal party. If you dont want to cover it then you wont be in the wedding. Simple.
If you are asking them to be in your wedding your relationship should be strong enough that you can have an open conversation about it. It's completely dependent on the bride.
If I don’t want tattoos in my wedding, there will not be tattoos in my wedding. If you have a problem you won’t be in my wedding. I don’t care what the tattoo or how cute it is. 🤷🏽♀️😆 I agree with Loni.
That's harsh so you will not invite a relative or a close friends because of tattoo okay then what about if your friend has a headscarf or something that involves religion will you not invite. Just asking
@@ltsoul9751 so put the bride before your religion? some of religions do tats as right of passage and to cover them is seen as turning you back on you religion
I'm considering even covering my OWN tattoos for my wedding, so I would definitely ask someone else to do it too. It's about the style, look, and uniformity you're trying to portray for that one day you'll remember forever. The tattoos aren't going away, they are permanent whether there's makeup over it or not. But your wedding only happens once. (Or not :p)
angie4144 she wasnt being “too much”, its just the angle she sees it from and i actually do agree with her! and that i also understood what Loni and Adrienne had to say. she completely understood both sides and respected the other.
Adwoa Boateng i respect from that perspective and i wouldnt mind it either if my friend told me to do so honestly! if i were the bride and i had bridesmaids who happens to have tattoos, i’ll let her do whatever the hell she wants with it whether to cover it up or let it shown.
Don’t get me wrong I love Jeanie but she ALWAYS try’s to make things controversial and offensive. Like everything to her is offensive! It’s really not that deep. It’s the brides day and if she wants you to cover the tattoo just do it!
If someone asked me to cover up my tattoos for me to be apart of their wedding party, I would respectfully decline. I understand it’s their day & I’ll be there just not in the wedding party & rocking my tattoos.
right every one looked over the fact that if its fresh it could cause minor to dangerous infections my uncle is a tattoo artist in our town and when i heard right before and cover up i was like no honey no
I was bridesmaid at a friends wedding and she never asked me to cover up my tattoos or take out my piercings. This is ME. If you don’t want ME in the wedding don’t have me.
I’m getting married in 41 days and I have tattoos on my arms, shoulders total of 6. I will be wearing a strapless dress and my tattoos will be showing. My maid of honor and a bridesmaids have tattoos on there arms and I have not or will not be asking them to cover them. I knew they had them when I asked them.
I think you should include them as they are. It’s part of their skin. That’d be like I don’t want someone with a birth mark on their face,a skin color, or freckles in their wedding. You love them for them. Not the looks. If you have a look for the wedding make sure to choose a bridesmaid dress that covers them 🤷♀️
jeanie was definitely reading way too deep into it. If you're going to except your friend's invitation to be a bridesmaid in her wedding you should be willing to do anything she asks you to do concerning the look and vision she has for her special day. It's about her not you.
It’s kind of unfair to say “what if they have a birthmark”. As someone with tattoos, you don’t get to choose whether or not you have a birthmark! You do get to decide if you get a tattoo. Also, if the person gets asked to be a bridesmaid and then does something to alter their appearance, like getting a tattoo, I think the bride is well within her rights to ask her to cover it up. Because the bride asked you before you did that. And she is especially within her rights to ask you to cover it if you do it RIGHT before the wedding. You could have waited to get that tattoo.
I’m Team Loni and Team Adrienne... I have a few tattoos and I wouldn’t be offended if I had to cover them, it’s the brides day not mine... There are real problems in the world for me to be crying over a tattoo 🤷🏻♀️
It's might be the "bride's day" but it's also the friend's time and participation, and sometimes money. You have to respect everyone in your bridal party just like you expect it from them. Authenticity is more important than a look imo. I'd rather look back and see my loved ones as they were and not morph them into my version of what I think they should look like.
If you’re going to ask someone to be in your wedding, the right thing to do is make them feel comfortable and it’s given that you love/appreciate that person for who they are, if you don’t then why are you friends with that person? Anyways just like the Lord says ‘come as you are’ as believers of Jesus Christ, we should look like him in this way.
Come as you are but wear this kind of dress, in this kind of colour with these shoes and have your hair done in a sleek bun (or sth). They are not coming as they are, they are coming in a look the bride wants them - Jeannie was getting too deep. Having make-up over your tattoo for a day won't change who you are. It isn't a psych evaluation of your character it is a certain look. Jeannie herself said she covers them up for diff looks, so I don't know why is it an issue. There is of course a way to ask and not offend the tattoo wearing person.
Jeannie is making such a big deal out of it; it’s their day and if they don’t want big messy tattoos in their photos then that’s their decision. They’re not judging you, they’re trying to stick to a presentable aesthetic. I love tattoos and I have some, but if my bestie asked me to cover them up I would have no issue! It’s ONE freaking day. Jeannie needs to chill
Presentable? By who's standards? European standards? Tattoos are not shameful. They have deep spiritual meanings. If you have a friend with tattoos and don't want them and their tattoos in your picture then you are not a true friend. If I was asked to cover a tattoo for a wedding I simply wouldn't go and that relationship would instantly be cancelled for me. 👌🏾
Wxtch Bxtch some tattoos can look blotchy and badly done, others can look beautiful, artistic and detailed. To cancel a friendship because that person asked for a tattoo to be covered, by make up or garment, is pathetic. If a couple don’t want blotchy tattoos visible in their photos, the least a friend could do is just get over it and cover up for a few hours. Anyone would think these people were asking for permanent removal!
@@Jess140594 i think their point is some are done as religious tat and in some of these religions to cover the tat is turning your back on your religion even covering for a wedding is bad in their eyes.also if the bride is being truthfull and this was dont right before the wedding shew could cover any ways as up till three days to aply make up to a fresh tat could lead to infection hints why most actors get their tats when they arent working much or it can be covered but their characters costumes
Am with Loni and Adrienne on this one, that being said, I also get where Jeannie and Tamera are coming from, I personally wouldn’t care, as long you don’t ruin my wedding day with any shenanigans, then am cool. But if the bride as specific look for her day, then go with that.
I have tattoos and I actually asked the bride if she wanted me to cover them! It was a church wedding and didnt want it to take away from anything, however she was fine with them showing! 😊
Because it IS. When it’s your skin and has been for years and people judge you for it. It becomes you. When it is into signify a dead sibling or a survivor of sexual assault. It very MUCH is who you are. Perhaps, this discussion is just too deep for YOU.
I love tattoos and i would love if my bridesmaids showed theirs off. However im not opposed to one of my friends asking me to cover mine for their wedding. Its their day not mine.
Thank you Loni! I’m getting married and I agree, it’s her day just be respectful of someone’s wishes for ONE FREAKIN DAY! It’s a tattoo and it’s NOT ABOUT YOU!🤷🏾♀️
You probably don't care because you actually have a person you love that you're marrying so the damn aesthetic of everything isn't your number one concern. Some people have legit nervous breakdown because the colour of the flowers doesn't match the colour of the groom's handkerchief and socks. 🙄
Same! I'm not getting married until 2021 and I could care less if my girls had tattoos, piercings, purple hair, whatever. I love my friends the way they are and they are having to do a lot to be in a wedding like buy a dress, bridal shower, bachelorette party -- I could never imagine with what they are doing for me, I would make them change who they are. I want them to be comfortable!
What? Is it really that important what they look like? I find it so superficial. You can control the decor, the cake, the flowers, your own dress... but what other people look like? No!
I just feel like if you’re gonna be so concerned with “the look” of your wedding that you are willing to make your friend feel self-conscious about themselves then only ask people that have “the look” you want to be in your wedding.
I'm with Jeanie on both subjects today. I'd be offended if I was asked to cover mine up, because art is who I am. Art is my whole life, so much that I am covered in it. I believe you should love me the way I am, especially if I'm close enough to be a part of your wedding party. And yes, retail therapy works. Even if you just go to the dollar store, or hit the $5 racks in the front of Target. Something new helps your new beginning.
If you don’t want your friend to show their tattoos that’s like saying you think them having tattoos is wrong or ugly. That’s to me like asking someone to dye their hair, why do you care if they have tattoos??
Ok I’m gonna get Real about this right ?!?! So looking at Jeannie’s point right... Jeannie is a person who covers her tattoos on her own when it comes to WANTING a to be focused on what she has to say and has to offer rather than being focused on her tattoos... but she does that on her own... doing it willingly so you won’t be confronted versus being asked by a friend who met you with the tattoo shouldn’t want you to change apart of yourself just for a day! I get it’s the brides day but in HER case she doesn’t have tats that can take th attention of the bride... for example her lady bugs tattoos on her shoulder hold a very special meaning to her and tell a story ( if you watch Hello Hunnay then you know what I’m talking about )... so I’d rather her keep just because it’s not that serious... it’s just a tattoo & I’m inclusive & loving to all people tattoo or no tattoo !
Myronn Coleman I honestly think she is making it a lot deeper than it actually is. I also have a few tattoos, some of them are very very visible and also hold a special meaning in my heart because of what they mean and the moment in my life I got them done. However, I'd have zero problems covering them up for my friend's special day. It's not about me, it's her wedding. I'll do it for her, it's not that serious.
Kali and I understand that and wanting to be that person to do that for your friend... I just wouldn’t do it for myself... Because Tattoos are another piece of art and have sentimental value just like jewelry so i wouldn’t to have that awkward ass convo of “ yeah I know I met you with these tats but cover em up buttercup on my wedding “ 😂😂
But going along with her "tattoos sometimes telling the story that she doesn't want to present now", maybe the tattoos this person has are telling a story or painting the picture the bride doesn't want at her wedding.
TheLnGirl at that point I wouldn’t invite them if I have to do that... your story isn’t my choice to cover up , if u want to dine , if u don’t , ok ! Just come as you are
I totally get jeannie!❤️ I also loved tam was trying to calm down the situation ☺️ adrienne is actually pretty offensive-„its my day,...i dont want your ladybugs!“-bridezillatalk! If its the brides day,she should pic people who she loves,not who she can change..
marie meissnerin Adrienne was right though. It’s not about changing anybody it’s about the look of the Brides wedding. Jeannie was the one making this thing super personal and blowing it up.
For once, I whole heartedly disagree with Jeannie. And she was really getting under my skin... i definitely agree with Loni... 🤷🏻♀️ I was a bridesmaid and then maid of honor, back to back, and I VOLUNTARILY asked both of them if they wanted me to cover my tattoos. It’s not about me, it was their day to shine... thankfully they both said no. My best friend even reiterated that they were a part of me so why would she want it covered... love her to pieces, but on their day, whatever they want, they got. I will never be SELFISH on your day. Let Jeannie get married again and may the tables turn on her.
Jeannie is really in her feelings. I agree with Loni & A.. if the bride want a certain look in her wedding, than the bridesmaids should honor her requests. It's her day & and the bridesmaids should not feel a certain way.
My opinion is first if my friend asked me to be in her wedding and said hey I want you to be a bridesmaid but you will have to cover your tattoos then I get to make that choice if that's something I'm okay with. However, if my friend new I had a tattoo and didn't say anything until later that I would have to cover my tattoo I would be upset because she knew I had it why wait to say something. However the flip side if I asked someone to be in my wedding and they had no tattoos and then got one right before the wedding I would be upset. That bridesmaid should have waited or ask the bride if it was okay before getting it because if it's new she might not be able to cover it if it's not healed yet.
I'm so surprised by this conversation and also by the comment section! Maybe this is the culture in America but I'm from Spain and I think nobody should ever be forced to cover their tattoos or lose weight???!! I can't understand why the bride would be happier forcing people to do that. I will love and accept every person that comes to my wedding and I'll let them be themselves and dress however they want to as long as it's formal and appropriate for a wedding. I'm not telling anyone what they have to do, I don't care how you dress! I just want to have fun and enjoy my day with the people I love.
I don't know why but I am with Jeannie, you should accept your friends for who they are, or just don't put them in your bride things don't ask them to hide or lose pounds.
i think it depends on the tattoo. if i’m a christian getting married by a priest, no, i wouldn’t want a big upside down cross on my bridesmaids arm. but if it’s sentimental, and important to my bridesmaid, i’m going to respect their decision. it may be my day, but it’s their body, at the end of the day.
100% agree with jeannie. if it was my wedding, id care more about how the people are feeling and that they are comfortable - that way everybody would feel great and have fun.. i dont care about 'the look'
If a girl making it difficult to cover up, or comply with my "vision" for one day, and can't understand why it isn't personal, then I'm choosing someone else. You can support me from the seats. Its not about that person, a couple of hours covered up is not that deep. But i respect their choice. I won't take it personal
I'm not controlling like that 😒🙄 I would want my friends to come as they are. I have great discernment and surround myself with people who carry themselves with respect regardless. Now, Loni. The weight is another topic within itself!! No friend should ask you that...
To ask someone to cover up their tattoo is one thing, to say it's hideous like that one bride did is a whole other thing.
The tattoo might have been seen as hideous to the bride because the bridesmaid got the tattoo right before the wedding! This could affect how an already stressed out bride feels about her big day.
I had a friend who got this hideous full sleeve 🙄 I told her it was hideous before she got it and she went ahead and got it. For years other people kept telling her it was beautiful and I was one of few that thought it looked like a pile of rubbish; and she made it her business to tell people am an awful friend.
Well, well... fast forward six years and she's dating this guy and covering them when they're together and I cackle internally. Unfortunately her "good" friends told him about the sleeve and he promptly dumped her. Now I'm the good overlooked friend and for the first time saw them friends and their praises for the lies they were and is having the tattoo removed.
I think Jeannie is coming from feeling like she’s being physically judged her whole career from tv and hosting that she doesn’t want to feel that way around her friends, I understand both sides
Feeling? No. She is. Anyone with tattoos are.
I think she is too emotional smh like ma’am it’s not your day get over it!
@@nikkimohamed7814 *then they better not take it offensively when they decline to be apart of their wedding. take em as they are or watch em as they go lol*
@@wnterbird2976 *anyone with tattoos has a significant meaning behind them. don’t be mad your bird brain can’t recognize that*
@@nikkimohamed7814 Even if it was “my day” I want people to come, feel good about themselves, enjoy my wedding, and feel comfortable. Nothing will make me more mad on my day seeing people not enjoying “my day” with me. Wear appropriately. However you wanna accessorize is on you. Wanna show tats and dye your hair? Be my guest. Drink up bitches.
You dont choose your bridesmaids off of their looks. Its based off what they represent to you.
Hen watch your language
@PR RP youre making your wedding more about the visual aesthetic than it is about love. Bridesmaids are picked as love ones of significance not by who would look better in the role.
Hen she already explained why she covers them sometimes
@@dnicole4236 It's just selfish in my opinion. Birthmarks are hard to cover and they are your actual identity. Weight is touchy because some people have real health issues that makes weight loss very challenging. But tattoos are exactly what Jeannie said, "accessories". They can be covered whenever the person who has them finds it distracting or if they're going to be a part of someone else big day. It's just one day!
@@mgmtgirlyeah7493 Not everyone covers their tattoos for any reason. If you have friends with tattoos and don't think tattoos are presentable then you probably shouldn't have friends with tattoos. I wouldn't want any friends that have judgments about me, because friends are supposed to love you completely. I would never call anyone a friend that I secretly have judgments about.
When my sister got married, I was a bridesmaid, she asked me to dye my hair a natural colour (it was bright blue and pink), remove my piercings and hide my tattoos. I did. It was her day not mine.
Why not just wear a wig?
@@liefdragon5637 i have a neurological condition that causes me sensation issues and wigs cause me immense irritation, I would have if I could, would have been easier lol x
Ur a great sister
beccie jayne that and also you can put it all back lol
You're better than me lol
Jeannie - “What if it was Jesus?”
Tamera - “Maybe she got saved”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 that mess had me WEEEAAAKKK too
Tammmm is hilarious without meaning to be.
IJ Absolutely! That’s part of what makes her so adorable 🥰
If someone asked me to lose weight for a wedding I wouldn’t be attending TF
that's a whole different thing.
@@bejewled wym?
@@uniqueone5513 I think she meant it's completely different than asking to cover up tattoos. Who the hell would day lose weight for my wedding??!!! That's horrible!
This conversation is ridiculous. Jeannie just said that she covers her tattoos for certain looks because there is too much going on. Why wouldn't she do the same for a friend. Tattoos can look very busy with certain looks. That's why you choose the people you know would do their best to make your day special.
Nah you probably don't have tattoos. Tattoos are a very much a part of a person and can even be a spiritual or cultural rite of passage. If you have a friend with tattoos and you ask them to get it covered for a photo then you are basically saying I only want part of you in my photos, not all of you. You don't understand because you don't have tattoos. 🤷🏾♂️
She covers them on her own terms. Not on other people terms.
Wxtch Bxtch I have 9 and all of them are extremely important to me. Covering them for ONE DAY is not that big of a deal. You are being too sensitive.
@@Mandapuggo_ the problem is that we are so europeanised that we don't even realise it. Native traditions are shunned and made to seem less than presentable in our current culture. Like Jeannie said, people with tattoos and tattoos themselves are looked down on. There is no real legitimate reason why tattoos should have to be covered for a wedding photo other than that they are not seen as acceptable in society. I repeat, there's nothing wrong with our own heritage and culture that it should be hidden away for a special occasion. We have a lot of brainwashing to unlearn from colonization.
@@daria5846 your tattoos must not be for a religious or cultural purpose. I have a tattoo that represents my commitment to the Goddess. I would never cover it for any occasion, unless I want to by my own volition. There are many tribal rites of passage that include getting tattoos and they are special and holy to the people getting them. Can you even imagine asking a Hawaiian man to cover his sacred body tattoos for your Europeanised idea of a holy wedding? That would be totally disrespectful and a sign that you dont see their tattoos as wholesome, which is wrong on so many levels. People dont realised how deeply you've been conditioned by white society to believe our own native traditions are not holy or not presentable. Another example is asking a Celtic shaman to cover his spiral face tattoos for your wedding. If you have to ask someone to a hide a part of themselves that is sacred to them and a tradition of their heritage, which predates Christianity and colonization, then you are not a true friend at all in my eyes.
8:37 Somebody please tell Loni that asking someone to LOSE WEIGHT is totally different from covering tattoos 😒
Right!!! I'm surprised there aren't more comments about that! What is ten pounds?? And to ask someone to change their body ???
To be honest
I honestly think Jeanie is making it a lot deeper than it actually is. I also have a few tattoos, some of them are very very visible and also hold a special meaning in my heart because of what they mean and the moment in my life I got them done. However, I'd have zero problems covering them up for my friend's special day. It's not about me, it's her wedding. I'll do it for her, it's not that serious. Honestly, I'd probably ask her myself if she'd prefer to have me cover them for the ceremony before she asked me lol
Her tattoos are personal to her that's why.
I 100% agree
Absolutely. She was irritating me, like yes. Tattoos mean so much, but she’s asking for ONE DAY.
Giselle Valdez it’s just for a day and it’s not her day
Giselle Valdez So are mine for me and their own for a lot of people who have tattoos as well. But ONE DAY is not gonna hurt anybody. She was being too sensitive.
I think it depends on how you’re asked, is it in a polite way? or a demand?
also if their religious some religions do tats as right of passage and to cover them for any reason is seen as to turn you back on your religion
Agreed ❤️
It doesn’t matter. If you’ve agreed to be a bridesmaid you do as the bride says. If you can’t think about someone other than yourself for a few hours, don’t say yes
I have a back tattoo, when my sister got married i wore a dress with the back covered so it didnt cause a distraction. Im irish catholic and in a judgemental family regarding body modifications so just didnt want the headache. Didnt take offence i put my sister first on her wedding day!!
As you should...that's AWESOME! I agree 💯 because it's their day and should have what they want. If you feel you cannot do it then let them know I'm sorry but I wont be able to be in your wedding. It's all how it's done. Good for you for doing that on her day ❤💪🏾
Jeanie is the most real and open minded on the real AND THATS ON THAT!!!!!
Here after jeanie and jeezy finally made it official.....Who with me??😂❤❤
Can't wait for the new season and details on it 😁
@Shay91 Woah. Where to begin with this?
From a biological standpoint of view. YOU ARE WRONG. We are all one species and it has been confirmed that mixing differe DNA leads to stronger offspring.
From a social point of view. YOU ARE WRONG. Mixing cultures and different perspectives, inputs and experiences based on mutual respect and understanding leads to better and more thriving society. We are all today product of cultures and races interacting.
From a spiritual point of view. YOU ARE WRONG. I don't know what religion or belief you hold, but at the core of every one that I know of is a human soul/spirit. We all have one - no matter our race - and when two souls connect on a spiritual level it is nothing short of divine. Personally I take it as a proof of existence of something more grand and meaningful than mere mortals life. It would be silly to let something like the level of melanin affect that connection.
I could go on..But the point is - nothing evil in it. The two of them may or may not last. Who knows? But they have the right to choose that later, same way they chose each other now.
Shay91 stfu it’s 2019 anyone can love who they love, whether you love the same sex or a different race .get over yourself and keep your negativity to yourself you’re not in their relationship so don’t worry about it go live your sad judge-mental life to yourself .
Shay91 girl you must’ve skipped your dose..
Shay91 then don’t support it just keep your negativity and miserableness to yourself it’s that simple .
Jeannie is being a little hypocritical.
She’s saying that she covers them up for carpets and certain outfits to compliment them, but that’s exactly what Adrienne is saying. That people want a look for their bridal party so it doesn’t fit in with the collective look
She also said that she would do it. I think she was playing devil's advocate
You're missing the one big difference,choice. When you take away someone's right to choose to you've lost.
Glitter Mafia she can “choose” whether to follow the look or she can choose not to be a part of the wedding.
@Miri S thanks!!!
@@jodynanci yeah she definitely was
For all the people that are entitled to the “It’s my day so do what I say”- if you’re paying for everything, including my whole outfit, hair and makeup..I’ll consider covering my tattoo. But if I’m paying for everything to BE your bridesmaid and to be there for you on your special day and you wanna ask me to cover my tattoo..girl bye.
Honestly, a wedding is about becoming one with your significant other. If you let a tattoo on your bridesmaid RUIN your entire wedding, you are totally forgetting the point.
Im with Loni! You can’t compare birth mark to tattoo
I’m with Loni & Adrienne. If you ask your bridesmaids to do a specific hairstyle or jewelry (since Jeannie talking about accessories) that’s what you agree to as a bridesmaid, in my opinion . So covering the tattoos would follow, it’s not as deep as Jeannie made it
DJ Waterfalls frfrrr she was pmo 🤣 like why go towards a birth mark? She took it way tooo damn far
DJ Waterfalls frfrrr she was pmo 🤣 like why go towards a birth mark? She took it way tooo damn far
i dont think she got it right before like the bride stated any one who has tattoos most importantly women with tats ( i have seven ) know that you cant cover them with make up till at least 3 days after if its small and if its bigger and more details then you have to go long do to the fact that it can cause irration and thus infection .and how the bride said hideous too. tho i do agree with the brides wedding her choice.and some religions do tats as right of passage and to cover them is going against their religion even its it for a wedding. which is why im 50/50
That’s because you don’t understand that for some people it’s NOT an accessory. It IS like a birthmark. People have portraits of their dead parents of children. Tattoos to remember beating cancer or fighting suicide.
Apparently the bride waited till last min tho
Jeannie is the smartest girl at the table. Period. She is very emotionally intelligent
She was the main one wrong this segment 🤣
I’m rocking with Jeanie with this one. I would want my friends to come just as they are!!!! People do not have to be in your wedding or even support your marriage so for them to be in your wedding is a big deal!!!! 🤷🏾♀️ my bridesmaids will come just as they are and will be greatly appreciated for their love prayers and support💞💝💓
Imani Eunique exactly come as you are
Exactly!
You weren't born with tattoos though.
@@dianamunoz4296 So? Their fun/good memories. Their overcoming cancer, remembering a loved one, remembering a big chapter in your life that made you who you are! There late friday nights hanging out with your friends and remembering it.
@@marj4273
Tattoos represent none of those things, people get tattoos to bring attention to themselves it almost never has to do anything with the meaning supposedly associated. You can do other things to remember such things like write a book, get a pendant, or charm not mark your God given body. It's almost an instant subconscious reaction to view tattoos as trashy for some reason. It has nothing to do with the meant if the tattoo but the attention it brings to you.
As a person with a couple of visible tattoo's (one of them being pretty large), I definitely would not have an issue covering them for a friends wedding or special day. Yeah weddings are built around the couples aesthetic and tattoo's, or even facial piercings, might not be part of that particular aesthetic. So it makes sense that if they are not then, then why not ask to get them covered up? I definitely don't think it is as deep as Jeannie was making it out to be, and you can love someone for everything they are; but still hate their style, tattoo's, or piercings. You love a person for their spirit and heart, not necessarily what they do aesthetically with their bodies. Yeah coming to a conclusion I would definitely be interested to hear the story behind the brides maid getting a tattoo right before the wedding and not keeping the bride in the loop. Yeah I personally would not do that, just in case they did not like the design (art is subjective and just because you like a certain design, doesn't mean everyone does).
my thing is some religions do tats as a right of passage to cover them would be turning you back on your religion if they dont have tats for religious meanings then yes cover (i have seven myself non religious ) but if you know you friend is religious and thats what this is then just dont ask them to cover however we dont know what that tat is so it could be religous for all we know also yes they are in the pics but no body is looking at the bridesmaids every body wants to eye how beautiful the bride is on her day
maygan lewis then they should just attend the wedding and not the bridal party. They wont die bc they’re sitting with everyone else
I think people be worried about the wrong things. The purpose of a wedding is not supposed to be aesthetics. Flowers, table arrangements, etc are just such superficial things to worry about in my opinion. A wedding is a celebration of a union in which you promise yourself and your love and devotion, etc. to the one you love in the presence of all the people most important to you. So all else is really irrelevant. I don't understand making a whole production out of a wedding. I say the simpler the better, and receive everyone who loves you just as they are. Yeah, it's not that serious to cover a tattoo (if you have the right make up), but it's not that serious that you should have to.....
I'm with adrianne on this one. Jeannie baby it really isnt that deep
She makes every single thing too deep. It's not always that serious, like damn
@Emily M.R. Thanks!
Naaah loni a friend who tells you to loose weight for their wedding ain’t no friend!!!
ATINY!
I love your Yunho pic
Bamo i think she was lying anyway 🙄
Jeannie really compared tattoos to birthmarks 😂😂😂😂 i can’t with her sometimes
Marks that mark your life 🤷♂️. I can see why she would say Birth Mark.
"It's the brides day, let her have her day" .... Uhm, yeah.. Excactly! It's the BRIDES day!? Nobody caaares about the bridesmaids tattoos 😂 Unless the theme is "inc free" - RELAX. It should'nt have be a discussion. I mean...
Hair, dress and makeup is one thing - INKED SKIN is something else...
Kirstin Hansen Cover them up. It's that simple.
@@daria5846 no
Kali Exactly it’s not about the bridesmaids it’s about the bride. People so selfish at times. Either cover them or sit it out.
Inked skin is a cultural and holy tradition predating the Christianization of the holy union of man and woman. People often forget that weddingns existed before christianity and before we were taught that things like tattoos and other native traditions, like piercings and braids and other ancient rites, are somehow unholy or unpresentable. This really saddens me that people connect more with European standards of what is right and what is wrong than their own ancient rich heritage.
Sure, it is simple - Not my really point though.. And about that last comment. Sure, but I am pretty sure, that marriages originally did'nt have crazy themes going either and nor did they even have bridesmaids.
But we can agree to disagree :-)
I just PERSONALLY think, that we have gotten a bit to far of from true matter and what weddings and marriages should be about.
I see both sides but agree with Jeanie x For my wedding my sister asked me if I wanted her to dye her bright red hair back to brunette for my wedding “look”. It was a beach wedding and she also has multiple tattoos but I would not want her at my wedding or by my side any other way than her genuine self.
For a friends wedding I would cover my tattoos if I had some. Cos it would not look good in the pictures. I’m sorry, but if you real feel some type of way then you don’t have to be my bridesmaid. It has nothing to do with me not liking you as you are, it’s to do with the fact that it’s my wedding and I want everyone to look a certain way. I agree with Loni, give the bride her one day.
Xk8rsx Exactly
if you think you’re tattoos wouldn’t look good in pictures why get them? you don’t get tattoos just to cover them up.
The only reason your tattoos wouldn't look good in wedding photos is if they are ugly tattoos.
Why does what they look like matter?, surely it’s the person you care about not pictures??
so you would leave somebody out of your wedding based on religion too then as some religions do tats as right of passage and to cover them for any reason is seen as turning your back to your religion
I have tattoos too but I'm sorry, you're gonna cover up those tattoos if it interferes with the overall look of the bridal party. If you dont want to cover it then you wont be in the wedding. Simple.
Why ask then if you don’t want that in your wedding
If you are asking them to be in your wedding your relationship should be strong enough that you can have an open conversation about it. It's completely dependent on the bride.
Tamera: “what if it’s just a cute little heart”
Jeannie: “or what if it was JESUS”
🤣🤣🤣🤣
LONIS face beat and that lipstick Colour!! 🔥 🔥 🔥 YAASS QUEEN!!
it's not a big deal, if she asks and you decide to do it great. If you don't, then don't be in the picture.
thats pretty harsh though. if they ask why isnt she in the picture? oh its cause shes all tatted up
If I don’t want tattoos in my wedding, there will not be tattoos in my wedding. If you have a problem you won’t be in my wedding. I don’t care what the tattoo or how cute it is. 🤷🏽♀️😆 I agree with Loni.
That's harsh so you will not invite a relative or a close friends because of tattoo okay then what about if your friend has a headscarf or something that involves religion will you not invite. Just asking
@@sabrinabarkhadle3104 these brides are pathetic. Only caring about one fucking day. I would no longer be friends with people like her
@@sabrinabarkhadle3104 If they can't put the bride first, why should the bride put their feelings first? it works both ways.
@@sabrinabarkhadle3104 Um no, they will be present. Just not up front with the bride and groom 😂
@@ltsoul9751 so put the bride before your religion? some of religions do tats as right of passage and to cover them is seen as turning you back on you religion
I'm considering even covering my OWN tattoos for my wedding, so I would definitely ask someone else to do it too. It's about the style, look, and uniformity you're trying to portray for that one day you'll remember forever. The tattoos aren't going away, they are permanent whether there's makeup over it or not. But your wedding only happens once. (Or not :p)
Jeannie is too much sometimes. It wasn’t that serious.
angie4144 she wasnt being “too much”, its just the angle she sees it from and i actually do agree with her! and that i also understood what Loni and Adrienne had to say. she completely understood both sides and respected the other.
angie4144 💯💯💯
AMEN I understand what she saying but she mixing up her battles
ikamikadika she was being “too much”, you should be able to cover your tattoos for a few hours for your friends wedding day
Adwoa Boateng i respect from that perspective and i wouldnt mind it either if my friend told me to do so honestly! if i were the bride and i had bridesmaids who happens to have tattoos, i’ll let her do whatever the hell she wants with it whether to cover it up or let it shown.
Don’t get me wrong I love Jeanie but she ALWAYS try’s to make things controversial and offensive.
Like everything to her is offensive! It’s really not that deep. It’s the brides day and if she wants you to cover the tattoo just do it!
Josie agreed!
If someone asked me to cover up my tattoos for me to be apart of their wedding party, I would respectfully decline. I understand it’s their day & I’ll be there just not in the wedding party & rocking my tattoos.
You're not supposed to put makeup on a 2 Week Old tattoo... and you don't pick bridesmaids based on looks...
right every one looked over the fact that if its fresh it could cause minor to dangerous infections my uncle is a tattoo artist in our town and when i heard right before and cover up i was like no honey no
I was bridesmaid at a friends wedding and she never asked me to cover up my tattoos or take out my piercings. This is ME. If you don’t want ME in the wedding don’t have me.
Period! That's the opinion I was seeking for!
Agreed
I’m getting married in 41 days and I have tattoos on my arms, shoulders total of 6. I will be wearing a strapless dress and my tattoos will be showing. My maid of honor and a bridesmaids have tattoos on there arms and I have not or will not be asking them to cover them. I knew they had them when I asked them.
I think you should include them as they are. It’s part of their skin. That’d be like I don’t want someone with a birth mark on their face,a skin color, or freckles in their wedding. You love them for them. Not the looks. If you have a look for the wedding make sure to choose a bridesmaid dress that covers them 🤷♀️
Good point
Yes agreed
jeanie was definitely reading way too deep into it. If you're going to except your friend's invitation to be a bridesmaid in her wedding you should be willing to do anything she asks you to do concerning the look and vision she has for her special day. It's about her not you.
Lord have mercy, I did not care if my friends had tattoos while I was getting married
It’s kind of unfair to say “what if they have a birthmark”. As someone with tattoos, you don’t get to choose whether or not you have a birthmark! You do get to decide if you get a tattoo. Also, if the person gets asked to be a bridesmaid and then does something to alter their appearance, like getting a tattoo, I think the bride is well within her rights to ask her to cover it up. Because the bride asked you before you did that. And she is especially within her rights to ask you to cover it if you do it RIGHT before the wedding. You could have waited to get that tattoo.
I wonder what’s Tamera’s hair routine because her hair is always cute!!!
If you dont want to see my tattoos and want them covered, dont ask me to be part of your wedding party, easy as that
I love that Jeanie said “Let me finish!!” I hate when people cut me off and continue conversation s with other people
I am with Loni, I would need a drink for this tattoo convo.
I’m Team Loni and Team Adrienne... I have a few tattoos and I wouldn’t be offended if I had to cover them, it’s the brides day not mine... There are real problems in the world for me to be crying over a tattoo 🤷🏻♀️
It's might be the "bride's day" but it's also the friend's time and participation, and sometimes money. You have to respect everyone in your bridal party just like you expect it from them. Authenticity is more important than a look imo. I'd rather look back and see my loved ones as they were and not morph them into my version of what I think they should look like.
Uuugh Bobby Love I just love this comment so much! Totally agree!
Tattoos are a personal choice so that’s why this is offensive because it’s their body not the brides
If you’re going to ask someone to be in your wedding, the right thing to do is make them feel comfortable and it’s given that you love/appreciate that person for who they are, if you don’t then why are you friends with that person? Anyways
just like the Lord says ‘come as you are’ as believers of Jesus Christ, we should look like him in this way.
Kasandra Figueroa Totally agree appreciate them for who they are
Come as you are but wear this kind of dress, in this kind of colour with these shoes and have your hair done in a sleek bun (or sth).
They are not coming as they are, they are coming in a look the bride wants them - Jeannie was getting too deep. Having make-up over your tattoo for a day won't change who you are. It isn't a psych evaluation of your character it is a certain look. Jeannie herself said she covers them up for diff looks, so I don't know why is it an issue.
There is of course a way to ask and not offend the tattoo wearing person.
Jeannie is making such a big deal out of it; it’s their day and if they don’t want big messy tattoos in their photos then that’s their decision. They’re not judging you, they’re trying to stick to a presentable aesthetic. I love tattoos and I have some, but if my bestie asked me to cover them up I would have no issue! It’s ONE freaking day. Jeannie needs to chill
Presentable? By who's standards? European standards? Tattoos are not shameful. They have deep spiritual meanings. If you have a friend with tattoos and don't want them and their tattoos in your picture then you are not a true friend. If I was asked to cover a tattoo for a wedding I simply wouldn't go and that relationship would instantly be cancelled for me. 👌🏾
Wxtch Bxtch some tattoos can look blotchy and badly done, others can look beautiful, artistic and detailed. To cancel a friendship because that person asked for a tattoo to be covered, by make up or garment, is pathetic. If a couple don’t want blotchy tattoos visible in their photos, the least a friend could do is just get over it and cover up for a few hours. Anyone would think these people were asking for permanent removal!
@@Jess140594 i think their point is some are done as religious tat and in some of these religions to cover the tat is turning your back on your religion even covering for a wedding is bad in their eyes.also if the bride is being truthfull and this was dont right before the wedding shew could cover any ways as up till three days to aply make up to a fresh tat could lead to infection hints why most actors get their tats when they arent working much or it can be covered but their characters costumes
Jeanie it ain’t even that deep , it’s her wedding day .
the birth mark part... 😂😂 Jeanie never fails to push the envelope 🤣
Am with Loni and Adrienne on this one, that being said, I also get where Jeannie and Tamera are coming from, I personally wouldn’t care, as long you don’t ruin my wedding day with any shenanigans, then am cool. But if the bride as specific look for her day, then go with that.
Agree 100%
Jeannie needs to have several seats in this conversation
I agree with covering the tattoos for the bride
I have tattoos and I actually asked the bride if she wanted me to cover them! It was a church wedding and didnt want it to take away from anything, however she was fine with them showing! 😊
I just can't stop looking at Loni. She looks soooo good, so amazing. Loni you are beautiful.
Jeannie can be defensive sometimes for no reason🙄..... Why does she always have to make it "it's who I am"?
Because it IS. When it’s your skin and has been for years and people judge you for it. It becomes you. When it is into signify a dead sibling or a survivor of sexual assault. It very MUCH is who you are. Perhaps, this discussion is just too deep for YOU.
wnterbird yep
Sometimes it's just toooooooo muuuch
I think Jeannie is being a bit hypocritical here... she sees them as an accessory when its convenient for her
Her tattoos her story her choice
I love tattoos and i would love if my bridesmaids showed theirs off. However im not opposed to one of my friends asking me to cover mine for their wedding. Its their day not mine.
Thank you Loni! I’m getting married and I agree, it’s her day just be respectful of someone’s wishes for ONE FREAKIN DAY! It’s a tattoo and it’s NOT ABOUT YOU!🤷🏾♀️
I wouldn't care if there were tattoos in my wedding pictures lol. Who cares!
Loni love be looking gorgeous in this segment like Yaaas girl slay!!
I agree with Loni 🤷🏽♀️
Funny how Jeannie is the fashion conscious one, but the one not wanting to ask people to hide tattoos for a look. Love her.
I’m with Loni & A
I have to agree with jeannie on this one🤷🏻♀️
As someone getting married in May I could care less.
You probably don't care because you actually have a person you love that you're marrying so the damn aesthetic of everything isn't your number one concern. Some people have legit nervous breakdown because the colour of the flowers doesn't match the colour of the groom's handkerchief and socks. 🙄
Same! I'm not getting married until 2021 and I could care less if my girls had tattoos, piercings, purple hair, whatever. I love my friends the way they are and they are having to do a lot to be in a wedding like buy a dress, bridal shower, bachelorette party -- I could never imagine with what they are doing for me, I would make them change who they are. I want them to be comfortable!
What? Is it really that important what they look like? I find it so superficial.
You can control the decor, the cake, the flowers, your own dress... but what other people look like? No!
I just feel like if you’re gonna be so concerned with “the look” of your wedding that you are willing to make your friend feel self-conscious about themselves then only ask people that have “the look” you want to be in your wedding.
i’m on jeannies side, at the point just don’t ask me because i’m not changing myself for your wedding 🤷🏽♀️
I'm with Jeanie on both subjects today. I'd be offended if I was asked to cover mine up, because art is who I am. Art is my whole life, so much that I am covered in it. I believe you should love me the way I am, especially if I'm close enough to be a part of your wedding party. And yes, retail therapy works. Even if you just go to the dollar store, or hit the $5 racks in the front of Target. Something new helps your new beginning.
If you don’t want your friend to show their tattoos that’s like saying you think them having tattoos is wrong or ugly. That’s to me like asking someone to dye their hair, why do you care if they have tattoos??
How you gonna be friends with someone then they try to change them on your wedding day? Thats wild disrespectful.
Ok I’m gonna get Real about this right ?!?! So looking at Jeannie’s point right... Jeannie is a person who covers her tattoos on her own when it comes to WANTING a to be focused on what she has to say and has to offer rather than being focused on her tattoos... but she does that on her own... doing it willingly so you won’t be confronted versus being asked by a friend who met you with the tattoo shouldn’t want you to change apart of yourself just for a day! I get it’s the brides day but in HER case she doesn’t have tats that can take th attention of the bride... for example her lady bugs tattoos on her shoulder hold a very special meaning to her and tell a story ( if you watch Hello Hunnay then you know what I’m talking about )... so I’d rather her keep just because it’s not that serious... it’s just a tattoo & I’m inclusive & loving to all people tattoo or no tattoo !
Totally agree!
Myronn Coleman I honestly think she is making it a lot deeper than it actually is. I also have a few tattoos, some of them are very very visible and also hold a special meaning in my heart because of what they mean and the moment in my life I got them done. However, I'd have zero problems covering them up for my friend's special day. It's not about me, it's her wedding. I'll do it for her, it's not that serious.
Kali and I understand that and wanting to be that person to do that for your friend... I just wouldn’t do it for myself... Because Tattoos are another piece of art and have sentimental value just like jewelry so i wouldn’t to have that awkward ass convo of “ yeah I know I met you with these tats but cover em up buttercup on my wedding “ 😂😂
But going along with her "tattoos sometimes telling the story that she doesn't want to present now", maybe the tattoos this person has are telling a story or painting the picture the bride doesn't want at her wedding.
TheLnGirl at that point I wouldn’t invite them if I have to do that... your story isn’t my choice to cover up , if u want to dine , if u don’t , ok ! Just come as you are
I totally get jeannie!❤️ I also loved tam was trying to calm down the situation ☺️ adrienne is actually pretty offensive-„its my day,...i dont want your ladybugs!“-bridezillatalk! If its the brides day,she should pic people who she loves,not who she can change..
marie meissnerin Adrienne was right though. It’s not about changing anybody it’s about the look of the Brides wedding. Jeannie was the one making this thing super personal and blowing it up.
Jeannie u need ur own “tv” show already!💜💜💜💜💜💜
For once, I whole heartedly disagree with Jeannie. And she was really getting under my skin... i definitely agree with Loni... 🤷🏻♀️ I was a bridesmaid and then maid of honor, back to back, and I VOLUNTARILY asked both of them if they wanted me to cover my tattoos.
It’s not about me, it was their day to shine... thankfully they both said no. My best friend even reiterated that they were a part of me so why would she want it covered... love her to pieces, but on their day, whatever they want, they got. I will never be SELFISH on your day.
Let Jeannie get married again and may the tables turn on her.
Jeannie is really in her feelings. I agree with Loni & A.. if the bride want a certain look in her wedding, than the bridesmaids should honor her requests. It's her day & and the bridesmaids should not feel a certain way.
Jeanie arguing for the sake of just arguing...... she didn't make any sense at all
nana blue 💯
Loni's makeup is gorgeous in this video, I'm feeling her glam squad fo real
My opinion is first if my friend asked me to be in her wedding and said hey I want you to be a bridesmaid but you will have to cover your tattoos then I get to make that choice if that's something I'm okay with. However, if my friend new I had a tattoo and didn't say anything until later that I would have to cover my tattoo I would be upset because she knew I had it why wait to say something. However the flip side if I asked someone to be in my wedding and they had no tattoos and then got one right before the wedding I would be upset. That bridesmaid should have waited or ask the bride if it was okay before getting it because if it's new she might not be able to cover it if it's not healed yet.
yeah i dont think it was before the wedding as close as she makes it out to be you cant use make up on fresh tats with out risking infection
“My opinion is first” then you have no business being a bridesmaid. It ain’t about you.
@@bleudiamondbleuYou are right it isn't about the bridesmaid but my opinion is the same.
I like how every time he puts down the extra drink it’s in front of Loni 🤣🤣
“wHaT iF It WaS a BIrtHmARk”
I'm so surprised by this conversation and also by the comment section! Maybe this is the culture in America but I'm from Spain and I think nobody should ever be forced to cover their tattoos or lose weight???!! I can't understand why the bride would be happier forcing people to do that. I will love and accept every person that comes to my wedding and I'll let them be themselves and dress however they want to as long as it's formal and appropriate for a wedding. I'm not telling anyone what they have to do, I don't care how you dress! I just want to have fun and enjoy my day with the people I love.
Awe Loni❤ I feel yah in that turtle neck, coral lip🧡, && beautiful bob
aArIeS me toooo 😍😍😍😍
Jeannie being a hypocrit.. but you'll cover it up you don't like the overall aesthetic. Its not that deep.
I don't know why but I am with Jeannie, you should accept your friends for who they are, or just don't put them in your bride things don't ask them to hide or lose pounds.
i think it depends on the tattoo. if i’m a christian getting married by a priest, no, i wouldn’t want a big upside down cross on my bridesmaids arm. but if it’s sentimental, and important to my bridesmaid, i’m going to respect their decision. it may be my day, but it’s their body, at the end of the day.
100% agree with jeannie. if it was my wedding, id care more about how the people are feeling and that they are comfortable - that way everybody would feel great and have fun.. i dont care about 'the look'
Micok i Thankyou a bride has enough stress on her as it is then to be worried about somebodies tatoos
Yes, you should cover your tats at a wedding because a wedding is a sacred and formal event.
I'm with Jeannie, you take me for who I am. Take me or don't.
Anyone else binge watching old real videos missing just the 4??? Or at the very least the arraignment 😭
8:52 lmao Jeanie that's NOT THE SAME y'all reaching
If a girl making it difficult to cover up, or comply with my "vision" for one day, and can't understand why it isn't personal, then I'm choosing someone else. You can support me from the seats. Its not about that person, a couple of hours covered up is not that deep. But i respect their choice. I won't take it personal
I'm not controlling like that 😒🙄 I would want my friends to come as they are. I have great discernment and surround myself with people who carry themselves with respect regardless. Now, Loni. The weight is another topic within itself!! No friend should ask you that...
Thank GOD he doesn’t care how you look, he accepts you as you.