MY LABOUR & BIRTH STORY| Being Pregnant at 21
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- Опубліковано 11 гру 2024
- Hey Modern Fam,
Today I'm sharing my labour story with you. Yes, a decade later!
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Looking at my subscription list right now the pattern I notice is that the people are either very talented, they offer useful information, or they are just very entertaining.
I love how you articulate yourself. Your points make so much sense. Thank you for the story time
For me it’s your authenticity that made me subscribe… you’re not trying to be anyone 😍
I subscribed to your channel specifically because of the relatable content around being a woman and wife.
Aah 🥰🤗 Relatability! Got it....thanks
I loved your storytelling!! 😂😂😂😂 Angisahleki. I'm sorry kodwa that you had such a tough experience, I'm glad ubaby uright and Happy 10th now 12th birthday, akhule akhule!!
Also ive subscribed, I hope uzobuya and post again ❤
I enjoyed this a lot. I’ve heard some public hospital staff are not kind to people. So happy that people like your aunt are still around.
Thank you sisi ❤️ oh yes shme, there are still a few good nurses out there....
For me... It's because I support you , you being my Squiza, also that you are relatable and what you portray izinto ezikhona for Modern wives and also potential wives
Aah thank you my Squiza ❤️ this is so sweet 😂
I can truly relate to you went through the same labour for almost 2 days what pain lord eventually I was taken for emergency csection .I am always thankful to be alive 🙏. I'm sorry you had went through so much aswell.
I’m really sorry you had to go through that as well, no one deserves that....
I understand what you mean about the superiority. I was shook the first time I called an office to acquire about a position they were advertising, and the lady on the other line was kind. I couldn't believe it, I expected a rude person.
Contractions are the MOTHER!!!!! Yho lol I was scheduled for a c-section Dec 20th and my son decided to want to come on Dec 13th. My goodness... it was tough hahahaha.
Oh man those were very long hours of contractions and pain. You’re amazing ♥️
Lol, your son was ready for the December holidays 😂
It was long hours indeed but I’ve heard worse....thank you hun ❤️
Yoh listening to your story made me recal my 1st delivery 😭😭 sorry for the pain and all❤️
Thank you Sisi, I’ve healed now....I’m sorry about yours too if it wasn’t a great experience
@@ModernWife it's good to hear. Mine was crazy and it was twins making my pregnancy high risk and stuff. But I'm good now🤰😊
I lost a friend two months ago from delivering in a public hospital. Very petite in height and body, had 3 previous babies through C-section in private hospital, was anaemic, two weeks overdue which means her baby was huge for her pelvis, they made her push, she bled and baby choked on the blood and died during birth. She passed on a couple of hours later. I still cry when I think about what she endured.
The reason she ended up in public is because she got off the medical aid and so with lockdown babies she fell pregnant last year and I don’t understand how medical aid didn’t cover her in the new year.
🤍😞Im so sorry to hear about that .
Sending strength & prayer
Yhoo this is so painful, I’m really sorry to hear this sisi. My heart and prayers goes to you and her family. May God provide healing to you ❤️
This makes me wonder how did they do it in the 50s kanti? My mother was born at her home grand mother had 8 kids all born naturally at home
Remember the other thing is in those days people started having children younger and had no chronic conditions then. You must search on UA-cam about a South African midwife who caused the death or lifetime disabilities of babies she birthed at home due to ignoring red flags before delivery.
@@faithsdollsville2662 I did. You right. I gave birth in a public hospital in Cape town I found out four days before giving birth that I was pregnant. It was a premature, 7 months. Nurses were great except for one witch from kzn , people want to meet that lady outside, I don't know if she has any idea of the enemies she created
New subscriber... great narrating skills❤
My goodness, i feel like you are narrating exactly what I went through with my first baby. Heeey ndabuva ubuhlungu yhooooo 😫 it felt like i was losing my mind
I'm really sorry about that hun.....these people are really a blessing but the amount of pain we sometimes go through? Lol
And u went on and have another baby? Hahaha
The quality 🔥🔥🔥. Love it fam
And the glow💫❤❤
Thank you very much fam ❤️❤️
First ♥️ hey beautiful!! You look so incredibly gorgeous. You have a whole 10 year old... ah maan. You guys have done so well ♥️
A whole 10 year old....a pre-teen. Send help 😂
Content on 💯. Visuals on 🔥.
Thank you for the video beautiful 🌻🍃
Did you ever heal from this traumatic experience? It seems like it’s still raw and fresh in your psyche. I am genuinely sorry that you went through this and I am glad that you and your baby were well and healthy after everything 🌻🍃
@@wandilehlabangane3484 thank you very much Sisi 🙏🏾 yes I think I did, I’m just still very much passionate about parenting, child development etc. I always try and share my experiences so that other people don’t get to make the mistakes that I did ❤️
I remember requesting a c section in a public hospital, luckily i had my own Dr. the Nurses ignored me and I ended up calling my Dr to come in, i had an emergency c section
I'm really sorry about that sisi, thanks God you had your own doctor.....We all know that natural birth is the "safer" option but surely they can communicate that better instead of making us feel like we are talking nonsense
It's sad to watch this posted 2years ago and we still experiencing the same treatment.
Ugowile shame , sorry about this experience. Sidenotr : Umhle Mrs Somi🔥🔥🔥
Too much 🤣🤣 thank you sisi ❤️
I am so sorry mummy
♥️.
Quality is 🔥🔥🔥
Good content...please keep it English only ..I dont understand some psryd6
This makes me wonder whats happening kanti in these modern days. My grandmother had seven children all born natural at their home and this was the 1940,50,60s
So true hey, same with my granny and my mother also had natural birth with all her children... I don’t know whether doctors are getting lazy or greedy. We are all just happy to be alive
Awumhle mani🥰🥰❤️
Thank you very much sisi
Public hospital nurses are rude honestly ahhh your story made me cry, one nurse told me to sit or she will slap me if I don't lie. Down on the bed, and said that I must open my legs like how I opened for the father the baby to check my son after she wants to laugh with me aii but lucky I had family in laws there
Eish, I'm really sorry about your experience...I'm glad you were okay and eventually had a successful delivery.
You'd swear they go somewhere to be trained n how treat patients rudely, andiyaz mna lento....even they, don't want to go to public hospitals
Hey Siphokazi. Sorry for your bad experience dear. Have you had any more kids after that first one and if yes, did you go to private for your next pregnancies and how was your experience then?
Thank you sisi 🙏🏾😊 Yes I’ve had a child after my first one, he is almost 5 now (I waited a whole 5 years 😂). I went to a private hospital sis and the experience was way way better. I opted for a c-section bcoz that the reason for my first c-section was CPD so my gynae not much would hv changed after 5years
@@ModernWife oh thats lovely. I see! Happy you had a better 2nd experience 😊
Yuuh you went through the most. Sorry sis
Thank you mommy ❤️
Birth control is not a size one fits all 🤔 this is unethical.
Mna I was asked shame, what would I prefer, pill or injection. So I opted for 3months injection. That was 4years ago. I still take the injection nangoku coz it works well for me.
😂 😂 😂 One would think these old nurses skipped psychology in first year, the mid wife is unnecessarily rude.
If i become a nurse please Lord help me not to work at the public hospital..
Lol, I’m sure some public hospitals are better than others
The public hospitals need women who are aware like you to make the changes that are sorely needed. Please go to work there and treat patients with compassion so that other professionals can learn from you.
Shame sorry for your experience.
😊🙏🏾