FQ CRAZY SEXY COOL S2 EP 2 | Carlos Ebony

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • The Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast hosted by Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez and Tempress. This week, we are joined by Carlos Ebony. We discuss the sexualization of transmen, mental health within the community and much more! Subscribe and turn on notifications for new WEEKLY episodes!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 113

  • @sefinaaulei
    @sefinaaulei 4 місяці тому +21

    The GROWTH of this show in this short span of time is OVAH. I am so happy and proud to see these ladies and the show take up all the space! This is what we need ❤❤❤ Sending so much love ❤❤❤

  • @db60615
    @db60615 4 місяці тому +6

    So glad I watched this! I'm loving the variety of guests. Each episode has it's gems in it's own way! Carlos is so well spoken and I can't believe they gave him 9 years for a bar fight. I said it before and I'll say it again.....no matter how progressive and "liberal" New York claims to be, it is one of the most racist places in our country.

  • @jamilaabb.
    @jamilaabb. 4 місяці тому +18

    thank you for having a queer muslim on and giving room for his history. this representation means so much to me. and to carlos may Allah swt make you firm upon His path. being queer is a blessing from Allah swt, the test is for others how they will treat us and for us if we turn to Him in hardship or turn away

    • @FQCrazySexyCool
      @FQCrazySexyCool  4 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @robertcollison4127
      @robertcollison4127 Місяць тому

      Being queer is not a blessing from God. It is confusing, and makes one feel shameful and alone and scared. One would rather not feel this way. Fighting against your honest and “natural” desire is hard, especially if they aren’t natural in the grand scheme of things. Denying yourself is hard but one person makes it easy. Jesus Christ. Come to him, for his yoke is easy and his burden is light. You will find rest for your soul in him and he will remove the lust spirit, sexual perversion spirit, and homosexuality spirit from you. You will be free for whom the son sets free is free indeed. When alone, when you are weary of the yoke of being queer or anyway that is burdening you and you seek freedom from what is oppressing you, call on his name and humbly, honestly express your desire. He will grant it for you. You have more than my word you have his. Let it be know Jesus Christ is the one true, living God. No one else compares. Try him and see for yourself. God bless whoever needed this. May you Seek him and find him. In Jesus name, amen.

  • @GrandPrizeFitnesAJAY
    @GrandPrizeFitnesAJAY 4 місяці тому +34

    As a community, we actually failed Carlos. I hope he receives retribution and peace from this terrible experience. He didn't deserve this.

  • @terryharvey3604
    @terryharvey3604 4 місяці тому +10

    I really hope that he gets justice 😢 this platform is so important!!! Thank you ladies for this enlightenment! 🙏🏾

  • @Fashionswarrior
    @Fashionswarrior 4 місяці тому +12

    I don't know that man from a can of paint prior to this but that apology had me in tears!!!!! This was great

  • @sweetipiecutie
    @sweetipiecutie 4 місяці тому +10

    Carlos as a born Muslim, I’m happy you’ve found peace in your religion and to hear your story. May Allah SWT be with you, always ❤

    • @parisz
      @parisz 3 місяці тому

      What's his ethnicity please

  • @christopherstreet6841
    @christopherstreet6841 4 місяці тому +9

    Glad I found this page and now a new subbie. From Leyna Bloom to Carlos Ebony-great interviews. When I see him , I think of Jihad Ebony (RIP). Even though I was never in ballroom when I came out in 1991 NYC Golden era, Ballroom was around me so I knew many in Ballroom at that time. The house of Ebony as a whole represented to me I can still be a masculine gay Black man and be remain real. Glad to know Carlos is still in one piece and speaking his truth.

  • @ericgrey98
    @ericgrey98 4 місяці тому +9

    Please keep this show going 🤞🏽this episode was so good ❤️

  • @ajbrown2425
    @ajbrown2425 4 місяці тому +13

    Another amazing episode!! P.S - y’all ATE that thumbnail ❤❤❤❤

  • @Tsunamipunani
    @Tsunamipunani 4 місяці тому +2

    this was powerful.. thank you to all 4 of yall for making change and spreading awareness ❤️

  • @sebastienb1032
    @sebastienb1032 3 місяці тому +1

    I grew up in NYC when this happened and remember the way it was reported. Thank you ladies I always wondered what happened to Carlos and thank you for being a safe and honest space to represent the truth.

  • @TwirlingTechGoddess
    @TwirlingTechGoddess 4 місяці тому +3

    This was such an important episode. I'm really happy that we got to hear Carlos' story direct from his lips. Tabytha, you were really in your interviewer BAG on this episode. EXCELLENT episode!!!

  • @darrelldorsey3119
    @darrelldorsey3119 4 місяці тому +2

    Carlos has always been one of my inspiration in realness and everyday life , if it wasnt for his guidance idk where id been ❤️❤️❤️. So glad he’s doing good and seeing him home ❤

  • @andrewhite4525
    @andrewhite4525 4 місяці тому +9

    I DEEPLY HOPE THAT THIS SHOW DON’T GO ANYWHERE. IT’s SOOOO REFRESHING!

    • @betrapvideos
      @betrapvideos 4 місяці тому

      Let's revise this sentence hunny. Grammar and diction hunny

  • @julopliom5540
    @julopliom5540 4 місяці тому +1

    This show was sooooo deep, I wasn't expecting this, but it was so necessary. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 to you ladies for platforming this! My new favorite show❤

  • @davidwill-pu4wp
    @davidwill-pu4wp 4 місяці тому +6

    You girls looked amazing this week as always! Tabytha that hair color was sitting on u.

  • @ferre77
    @ferre77 4 місяці тому +1

    I remember when all this happened it was devastating then and it is now. I hope Carlos gets all his things and wins all his pending cases. Nobody should have to go through what he went through. Wishing him good health, healing and happiness in his future.

  • @HevanL
    @HevanL 4 місяці тому +2

    My favourite podcast!!!!!!! Sending love from Amsterdam ❤.

  • @ItGirlNTimeWorldMystery
    @ItGirlNTimeWorldMystery 4 місяці тому +3

    Honestly this was the best episode hands down. My jaw has hit the floor and I’m soooooooo empathic to Carlos. Like what he went through is insane!

  • @houseofkareola
    @houseofkareola 2 місяці тому

    thank you so much for these podcasts, i ve been watching the past few weeks and the more i go on the more you tackle subjects that are so important. being the trailblazers of the Greek ballroom, a predominantly white scene so far, these topics are so valuable for all of us to be discussed, but also as white people who want to be aware of what white heteoropatriarchal institutions do to oppressed bodies. thank you so much, keep talking and educating 💛

  • @detrickharris7515
    @detrickharris7515 4 місяці тому +5

    Tabytha is giving the new NeNe Leakes Vibes❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @king-xj9ki
    @king-xj9ki 4 місяці тому +4

    Asia always looks fabbbbbbbbb

  • @quaydabaddie23
    @quaydabaddie23 4 місяці тому +1

    Much love to Carlos…such a strong individual ❤️💯 I hate that he had to go through something like that 😔

  • @itsbellaocasio
    @itsbellaocasio 4 місяці тому +2

    loved this episode down !!! i would luv to see a meet and greet as an event or like a live show with an audience for an episode like the season finale

  • @Tobias_2024
    @Tobias_2024 4 місяці тому +2

    Amazing show!!! Keep up the good work. Can't wait for the books to come out. Shout outs to "F2L"

  • @darkskinss
    @darkskinss 4 місяці тому +2

    This was such an interesting and meaningful interview and episode. You ladies are constantly storming.
    I hope Carlos finds happiness and peace now that he is out of prison. What a horrible and unfair situation he was placed in! I am outraged. Such injustice.

  • @DonKe32
    @DonKe32 4 місяці тому +2

    Im a dedicated fan i literally love every episode

  • @atlsuperstar
    @atlsuperstar 4 місяці тому +1

    Woooooooow! This story is crazy! I would love to hear Tabatha’s story now.

  • @leejid5042
    @leejid5042 4 місяці тому +3

    Wow this is tough. I’m so grateful y’all sharing your stories.

  • @lia.ashburn
    @lia.ashburn 4 місяці тому +1

    Another amazing episode! ❤️‍🔥

  • @keonalewis775
    @keonalewis775 4 місяці тому +2

    such and amazing and poignant story thank you brother Carlos for sharing your story I'm praying justice will prevail for i know you to be a great man and to be dealing with this injustice and racism it's unbelievable but a reality in the world we live in today. thank you for this You are so Loved.

  • @rochee105
    @rochee105 3 місяці тому

    Wow I’m speechless at his testimony. I’ve always wondered where he was. I hate to hear this . I really like this man he has always been an amazing person. I pray he get the justice he deserves.

  • @lenerouse9977
    @lenerouse9977 4 місяці тому +1

    I just subscribed to your channel loving the vibes 🎉

  • @madisontoliver4553
    @madisontoliver4553 4 місяці тому +2

    i liveeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Havent missed a episode

  • @ItsLcTv
    @ItsLcTv 4 місяці тому +1

    This was a good episode, hopefully he can come back when his cases are closed so he can be more clear, and not be afraid to duck to smoke lol.

  • @user-fv7cb6uf2m
    @user-fv7cb6uf2m 4 місяці тому +2

    Powerful interview girls… a lot of gays think jail is cute sadly… jail is traumatic period

  • @TyroneClark-bu7ml
    @TyroneClark-bu7ml 4 місяці тому +2

    I love you guys as a whole sitaution especially asia snowden .. im a butchqueen but im crushing lightly on asia .. alll the ladies are pretty

  • @quaydabaddie23
    @quaydabaddie23 4 місяці тому +1

    YALL ATE AS USUAL, I LOVE YALL

  • @Reijiiee
    @Reijiiee 4 місяці тому +2

    Love from Dallas Texas ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NiyaNiya-ux6rs
    @NiyaNiya-ux6rs 4 місяці тому

    This Was Definitely Needed And It Was Great To Hear His Side ❤

  • @caesarjay1665
    @caesarjay1665 4 місяці тому

    This is definitely my favorite show 💙🤎

  • @saiyanbro
    @saiyanbro 4 місяці тому +1

    Not gone lie, that video was crazy. His back was to you when you bashed him in the head with that chair

    • @JustObserving313
      @JustObserving313 3 місяці тому

      Once he said some stranger that recorded it went home and doctored it….🤨 i said..oh ok…😐 ch…i didn’t even watch the video but didn’t need to after that statement and your comment.

  • @alext1054
    @alext1054 4 місяці тому +3

    Tabytha has such a sweet and genuine aura around her! Makes you wish she was your friend, sister, or aunt! Asia Snowden literally serves every episode! 🤍 Like a Beyoncé IG post, "NO CAPTION NEEDED"!! I love you, ladies!

  • @tennillemckinney5513
    @tennillemckinney5513 2 місяці тому

    His voice is sooooothing

  • @jahmatv2157
    @jahmatv2157 Місяць тому

    It's so upsetting that someone can receive nine years just for defending themselves and then be subjected to a distorted narrative, as if they were being discriminatory towards others in the LGBT community when they are actually a part of it. This is terrifying, but at least he shared his side of the story, which was definitely emotional and brought some tears.😢

  • @BigShirley_MsGigi_FP
    @BigShirley_MsGigi_FP 22 дні тому

    People from the The house of Ebony & The house of Chanel should get together and have a miniball to honor this black king 👑 🕌💪🏾😘 and give him the proceeds from the money 💰 made off the door 🚪 that would be a sense of community 🌈 #NYC #midwest #atlanta #Chicago #Detroit #LosAngeles

  • @Kardashiansaladbowl
    @Kardashiansaladbowl 4 місяці тому +1

    Yall are definitely all sexy&cool
    🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @leahpao4874
    @leahpao4874 4 місяці тому

    Okay why is he giving TRADE BOOTS!!! He can 100% get it and the comment about him seeing it for particular FQ’s.. I wanna be one of them so bad! 🤣🤣🤣 I loved his vulnerability and transparency and I really hope he gets the justice he deserves. Karma will get the white gays that tried him. Know that. Love this podcast so much!!!!!!

  • @TwirlingTechGoddess
    @TwirlingTechGoddess 4 місяці тому +1

    THE THUMBNAIL THOOOOO

  • @arieslibra
    @arieslibra 3 місяці тому

    I watched the video…unfortunate situation. Glad he appears to be well.

  • @fukwitme
    @fukwitme 4 місяці тому +2

    You ladies have something special. Loved this interview.

  • @Ming_LeeNatashaSurge
    @Ming_LeeNatashaSurge 3 місяці тому

    37:55 🗣️🎙️I immediately remember this story and never thought he was straight i was wondering why his ballroom clips wasn't showed on the News right after this happened 🥴 I'll do you one better i got charged with assault for throwing a cellphone charger at lady and the charger didn't even hit her 🥴

  • @joelpolmer9083
    @joelpolmer9083 4 місяці тому

    what ball did tabytha just win at? i wanna see the clip!! love to yall

  • @RaymondRivera-q6m
    @RaymondRivera-q6m 4 місяці тому

    Riker's Island has special housing for LGBTQ but straight dudes play gay to run that house.Don't know if that's happening now but in the 90's it definitely was. Powerful episode! Ya are fucking chewing it. Season 2 ya are not fucking playing any games AND I THANK U

  • @zayza
    @zayza 4 місяці тому

    The universe is wild. As i’m watching this omw home from work, I literally just got hate speeched by some random white dude in the subway. Then dude stepped to me, so I had to park his ass in my defense. Mind you i’m not confrontational at all and rarely experienced hate crime but whew. I had to share this ironic experience 😭 especially after just watching this & deep diving into Carlos story

    • @bornblondi3723
      @bornblondi3723 4 місяці тому

      Was this the A line

    • @zayza
      @zayza 4 місяці тому +1

      @@bornblondi3723 yupp 😳

    • @bornblondi3723
      @bornblondi3723 4 місяці тому +1

      @@zayza chile I saw him at The Jay street stop lol

  • @malox61589
    @malox61589 4 місяці тому

    Wow they did him wild dirty. Peace be into him I hope he wins a major lawsuit. Ridiculous.

  • @CHURCHBWOI
    @CHURCHBWOI 4 місяці тому +1

    Not Boot Camp! More Like STAR DEVELOPMENT!!

  • @Kanarylee
    @Kanarylee 4 місяці тому

    Will tamiyah be on szn 2 we want to know more abt her story 🥹

  • @LoseMyFocus
    @LoseMyFocus 4 місяці тому

    Asia was too quiet but great show. I feel she was taking the story and info in tho

  • @BigShirley_MsGigi_FP
    @BigShirley_MsGigi_FP 22 дні тому

    OMG 😊 Didn’t know this happened to him I was wondering were he was at. I had the biggest crush on him when he was in #Detroit I used to call him #SugeKnight he definitely made the girls feel safe he is the definition of a #REALMAN that’s so sexy

  • @Blessed2bhere34
    @Blessed2bhere34 3 місяці тому

    54:47 Lord have mercy. He did all that time for nothing. This is a true testament to how media and clips can be detrimental and not fact worthy without a true account of what happened. They said he was gay bashing but he is gay himself. 10 years in a maximum prison for a chair?! Talk about angry! I am upset AF for him and all the ppl who get f%#*ed by the court system.

  • @ladylovearchive
    @ladylovearchive 3 місяці тому

    Tribute to Cheyenne 🥹

  • @jahmatv2157
    @jahmatv2157 Місяць тому

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @sheesh161
    @sheesh161 4 місяці тому +2

    🌸🌺🌹

  • @BigShirley_MsGigi_FP
    @BigShirley_MsGigi_FP 22 дні тому

    OMG after hearing his story I honestly think he should have never moved to #NYC they have some fucked up #LAWS #DETROIT was one ☝🏾 of the safest places form him because we have the largest muslim population 🕌in America 🇺🇸 #Dearborn plus #Detroit is we’re The nation of Islam was started. I JUST LOVE 💕 IS PERSONALITY AND HOW HE IS CHANGING THE NARRATIVE OF THE CULTURE 🌈🕌 WITH HIS JOURNEY AND STORY. This country is racist as hell it’s sad 😢

  • @kitaboo2245
    @kitaboo2245 4 місяці тому +4

    Chile... can we find out what happened?! All this rambling. Lets get to the point!

  • @Warrior57238
    @Warrior57238 4 місяці тому

    The melenated community has to do better as a whole gay or straight , that's the problem all the jealously , and hate

  • @niafoxxtheproblem3915
    @niafoxxtheproblem3915 4 місяці тому

    💓💓💓🙏🏽

  • @Warrior57238
    @Warrior57238 4 місяці тому

    That's a mess

  • @queenbess001
    @queenbess001 4 місяці тому

    Ladies I’ve watched three episodes from season one and watching this one makes my third one for season two, and It’s beyond imperative for me to acknowledged that this interview with Carlos Ebony And Leyna Bloom is your best two by far imo. I say this because both Leyna Bloom and Carlos Ebony dropped so many pearls of wisdom that can be used to empower the American Black LGBTQ+ community.
    I want to say thank you Carlos for sharing your story because it causes me to reflect on my blessings and realize the importance of speaking up for the betterment of our black American community as a whole ✊🏾
    Carlos Ebony thank you for having the backs of The Dolls 🏳️‍⚧️ and may you get reparations, healing, and the support you deserve from the system and the black LGBTQ+ community 🤲🏿
    Also, it’s commendable that you acknowledge your spiritual beliefs being a Muslim ☪️ and a part of the Queer community 🏳️‍🌈 because it’ll inspire so many others to step up and speak their truth.
    Congratulations Ladies the extraordinary hostesses of FQ Crazy, Sexy, Cool May y’all continue to step into greatness and continue blessings in all y’all endeavors 🤲🏿 Thank you to the wonderful crew, producers, and those behind the scenes that help to bring this show to fruition 🙏🏾 Wow, this man is bringing tears of joy to my eyes for how he’s speaking of affirming the Black American Trans community 👌🏾 He’s Amazing 👏🏾!!!!!!

  • @toyamongard5808
    @toyamongard5808 3 місяці тому

    Y’all pay attention to Ms. Thing’s feet with those red bottoms on… As a girl that wears the shoe too, baby they are wearing her out no shade! 😂😂😂😂 I can tell and feel your pain hunny but a look is a look ❤❤❤ 🫶🏽

  • @RealNickiBandz
    @RealNickiBandz 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow wow wow! Amazing job ladies. It’s good to spread awareness about the good, the bad, and the injustices in our community. Thank you for that!🙏🏽

  • @Smoothoperator89
    @Smoothoperator89 4 місяці тому +1

    His Sexual Discretion created a Domino effect on his life! Why didnt he just step into the LIGHT and tell the Truth on his sexuality. That could have open up the door of discussion and end accusations

  • @LadyJay12
    @LadyJay12 4 місяці тому

    This was a great interview ladies! I think one of the legends he’s talking about is Tic Tic 🫠