This is helpful! I did it alll wrong before.. when I was a luke warm Christian.. I dated anybody. Soo many tears & heartbreaks. But now I am more intentional with my walk & whom I date, so definitely allowing God to lead & no more unequally yoked relationships for me!! 🥴
Omgoodness your video literally popped up when I was asking God about a dream concerning a guy I like. A little backstory: I'm a Christian but he is not a believer (he was a PK, raised in the church). We first met in college summer course (lol same) but when he first saw me in college it was like this instant connection and he kept staring at me. I thought it was weird at first but we started developing feelings. I thought he was a Christian but he wasnt even though he allowed me to talk about God to him. In my mind, I thought maybe I could change him. But it didn't happen. Fast forward 3 yrs later now and were talking again but, I just dont want to be too emotionally attached to him because I am a Christian and he isn't. Please pray for me! I really dont want to fall, but I really do love him. I have been looking for a Christian story similar to mines and I haven't found one until yours popped up! I am taking that as a sign, God bless you both and continue with your videos, new subbie here 😊💕
Wow that's crazy timing! Lol. We're so glad that you found our channel and that you decided to subscribe!! We definitely understand what you're going through and are really glad that our video could be helpful for you. Thank you so much for sharing part of your story with us!! ☺️
Thank you for telling the truth. So many Christian couples do not tell the complete truth about how they met. If both were believers and if they believed in sex before marriage. Instead they give us an after school special about their origin story. God-bless you.
This was such a great episode! So glad I gotta chance to hear about your start. I love the wisdom you shared about not being "discipled by someone that romantically is involved." That was a lesson that I had to learn after multiple dates with non-believers. So called missionary dating was never a good look! So glad that you both ended up together - such an incredible couple.
Love when people are transparent! Thanks for sharing guys. I love the part when you guys talked about the relationship between your spirituality and the kind of person you are dating
Two days ago I had went on a date with an amazing woman. Even though every woman is different, but she’s very real and open minded, independent, and junk like that. She’s someone who I feel I could really grow something with long term and in certain ways like me to an extent. The thing is, she’s not exactly a Christian but she’s willing to learn. She grew up in church and always loved it, I remember she told me she was on fire and read from Genesis and on and had a good amount of notes in her Bible of what verses that stood out to her she thought meant. However, during Covid it kinda died down because she got very overwhelmed with figuring out what was wrong and what was good which I can somewhat relate and understand because it happens to me too at times. That caused her to step back a bit from the faith. I think she’s into the spirituality stuff but not really, I know for sure she believes there’s a high power (I also think she’s pansexual from a post on her social media but we never go to that conversation). What led to us talking about our faith is that when we were about to eat, I expressed that before I eat I pray and she told me that she hasn’t prayed in awhile. From her telling me all of this from only talking to me on twice in person and hanging out with each other alone once, tells me she has a big heart but I’m very scared on if I should continue because I don’t want to feel like I’m trying or forcing to change who she is, I certainly don’t want to feel like I’m alone in my faith in a relationship if I decide to continue things with her, and I feel like I know what I should and have to do but I’m just really scared and I’ve been thinking about this all day and it’s making my head spin. I could also just be in my head overthinking something that’s not deep.
Very creative video I like the way that you put it together. Thanks for sharing your experiences and sharing lessons that we can use to transform our own lives. Your story is so unique and I am happy that you both made a choice to follow the Lord.
I listened with real interest cos I’m not married yet and I think the message is for people in my phase. It was so real and I loved the video whole heartedly and yee!! Your wife is soooo beautiful 😊
This was great and encouraging :) Just subbed, and looking forward to hearing more about what God did in your lives :D All glory to God for bringing both of you close to Him 🙌
So I find the non-Christians are much more intentional than the Christians, Obedience is better than sacrifice ... so i shouldnt date the nonchristian. its hard
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We both were unbelievers when we started dating. We love each other, want to build a future together and are talking about marriage. I have recently become a believer (literally a few days ago) and am now realizing that it is a sin to marry an unbeliever. He is such a wonderful boyfriend - it seems cruel to break up. If I was already married, the bible taught me it would be ok to stay with him. Knowing what I know now, I would obviously not choose an unbeliever any more. Any insights? Please help.
Bless you, I'm sorry I didn't see this message earlier and that no-one replied. I'm assuming something has moved on from now but I just wanted to say congratulations on your new faith - I hope you know by now there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus, I know many people who are in 'mixed marriages' and still faithful to God. I guess it is more about whether you feel you could marry someone who didn't share your faith. I convinced myself I could for a long time but when it came to the crunch I couldn't. It was agony ending our relationship and by no means easy in the following years even but it has made my relationship with God stronger and by putting that relationship first I am much more at peace. Love to you and know that Jesus loves you whoever else does too! X
Very cool hearing your story! It was nice to hear that your intention in dating was to get married. I think fewer people are thinking that way these days. It absolutely throws a wrench in things if one isn't a believer. God's hand was clearly at work.
I hear you but I think there is a difference between knowing about God and actually believing in him. They seem to just know God exists but not as far as believing
Hey! It is a play on words for that reason but it's also because we believe that our being, our spiritual growth, and our love story was engineered by God. Thanks for asking 🙂
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch our video! We have a Cannon M50 camera and the Cannon EF-M 22mm f2 lens. We didn't use that lens for this video though but we did for our last 2 videos and it was a game changer.
As a black atheist woman, I was really hoping this was going to be about a genuine relationship between a christian and an atheist. But, oh, well. This one of the reasons why I could never be a god(s) believer (particularly a christian), I would never choose a fellow human.
This is helpful! I did it alll wrong before.. when I was a luke warm Christian.. I dated anybody. Soo many tears & heartbreaks. But now I am more intentional with my walk & whom I date, so definitely allowing God to lead & no more unequally yoked relationships for me!! 🥴
Ayyyeeee!! So happy to hear that God has been working on your heart and causing you to change the way you approach your relationships 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Do you believe you should be dating?
Omgoodness your video literally popped up when I was asking God about a dream concerning a guy I like. A little backstory: I'm a Christian but he is not a believer (he was a PK, raised in the church). We first met in college summer course (lol same) but when he first saw me in college it was like this instant connection and he kept staring at me. I thought it was weird at first but we started developing feelings. I thought he was a Christian but he wasnt even though he allowed me to talk about God to him. In my mind, I thought maybe I could change him. But it didn't happen. Fast forward 3 yrs later now and were talking again but, I just dont want to be too emotionally attached to him because I am a Christian and he isn't. Please pray for me! I really dont want to fall, but I really do love him. I have been looking for a Christian story similar to mines and I haven't found one until yours popped up! I am taking that as a sign, God bless you both and continue with your videos, new subbie here 😊💕
Wow that's crazy timing! Lol. We're so glad that you found our channel and that you decided to subscribe!! We definitely understand what you're going through and are really glad that our video could be helpful for you. Thank you so much for sharing part of your story with us!! ☺️
So how did it go?
Love hearing your testimony! I’m glad you both know the Lord now!! Love your honesty about what you did wrong as well. God worked it out!!
He definitely did! Thank you for watching!
Thank you for telling the truth. So many Christian couples do not tell the complete truth about how they met. If both were believers and if they believed in sex before marriage. Instead they give us an after school special about their origin story. God-bless you.
Thank you!
I agree. This is so true.
Beautiful couple...engineered by God😍💓.. "Undercover "😂😂... I like your story. Reminds me of mine.
This was such a great episode! So glad I gotta chance to hear about your start. I love the wisdom you shared about not being "discipled by someone that romantically is involved." That was a lesson that I had to learn after multiple dates with non-believers. So called missionary dating was never a good look! So glad that you both ended up together - such an incredible couple.
Thank you 😊. I never heard of the term "missionary dating" 😂 I am gonna use that term now
Love when people are transparent! Thanks for sharing guys. I love the part when you guys talked about the relationship between your spirituality and the kind of person you are dating
Thank you so much for watching! We are glad you appreciated it!
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband, thanks, God bless you ...
Two days ago I had went on a date with an amazing woman. Even though every woman is different, but she’s very real and open minded, independent, and junk like that. She’s someone who I feel I could really grow something with long term and in certain ways like me to an extent. The thing is, she’s not exactly a Christian but she’s willing to learn. She grew up in church and always loved it, I remember she told me she was on fire and read from Genesis and on and had a good amount of notes in her Bible of what verses that stood out to her she thought meant. However, during Covid it kinda died down because she got very overwhelmed with figuring out what was wrong and what was good which I can somewhat relate and understand because it happens to me too at times. That caused her to step back a bit from the faith. I think she’s into the spirituality stuff but not really, I know for sure she believes there’s a high power (I also think she’s pansexual from a post on her social media but we never go to that conversation).
What led to us talking about our faith is that when we were about to eat, I expressed that before I eat I pray and she told me that she hasn’t prayed in awhile.
From her telling me all of this from only talking to me on twice in person and hanging out with each other alone once, tells me she has a big heart but I’m very scared on if I should continue because I don’t want to feel like I’m trying or forcing to change who she is, I certainly don’t want to feel like I’m alone in my faith in a relationship if I decide to continue things with her, and I feel like I know what I should and have to do but I’m just really scared and I’ve been thinking about this all day and it’s making my head spin. I could also just be in my head overthinking something that’s not deep.
It is deep… what do you feel God is saying to you when you pray about it?
Very creative video I like the way that you put it together. Thanks for sharing your experiences and sharing lessons that we can use to transform our own lives.
Your story is so unique and I am happy that you both made a choice to follow the Lord.
Thank you so much for watching! I am definitely glad I made the choice as well!
This is a good topic! Thanks for sharing your story and covering this topic so well.
Aww thank you 😊
Wow! This is different ( in a good way)! I totally enjoyed watching this, and I like how you analysed it at the end to draw out the 'dos and don'ts'.
I listened with real interest cos I’m not married yet and I think the message is for people in my phase. It was so real and I loved the video whole heartedly and yee!! Your wife is soooo beautiful 😊
Thank you so much! You are so sweet😊
-Jasmine
Thanks so much for the video still a very young girl but this helps and encourages a lot to keep staying with christ
Loved the video! Thanks for sharing your story!! ❤️😀
Hey Dave!! Thank you for watching! ☺️
You guys are doing a great job I love how you shared your story.
This was great and encouraging :) Just subbed, and looking forward to hearing more about what God did in your lives :D All glory to God for bringing both of you close to Him 🙌
Thank you so much for watching our video and subscribing!
haha, you're Christian, right?! DANG. The shade.
So I find the non-Christians are much more intentional than the Christians, Obedience is better than sacrifice ... so i shouldnt date the nonchristian. its hard
Where do you guys feel you are today as it relates to your love for Christ relative to your spouse?
We actually plan on making a video about that but in short it's a work in progress
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We both were unbelievers when we started dating. We love each other, want to build a future together and are talking about marriage. I have recently become a believer (literally a few days ago) and am now realizing that it is a sin to marry an unbeliever. He is such a wonderful boyfriend - it seems cruel to break up. If I was already married, the bible taught me it would be ok to stay with him. Knowing what I know now, I would obviously not choose an unbeliever any more. Any insights? Please help.
Pretty much in the same boat as you. She is willing to learn but does that mean I wait there’s hope for us? Still unsure
Bless you, I'm sorry I didn't see this message earlier and that no-one replied. I'm assuming something has moved on from now but I just wanted to say congratulations on your new faith - I hope you know by now there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus, I know many people who are in 'mixed marriages' and still faithful to God. I guess it is more about whether you feel you could marry someone who didn't share your faith. I convinced myself I could for a long time but when it came to the crunch I couldn't. It was agony ending our relationship and by no means easy in the following years even but it has made my relationship with God stronger and by putting that relationship first I am much more at peace. Love to you and know that Jesus loves you whoever else does too! X
Very cool hearing your story! It was nice to hear that your intention in dating was to get married. I think fewer people are thinking that way these days. It absolutely throws a wrench in things if one isn't a believer. God's hand was clearly at work.
We joke about it but we both went to college for two reasons... 1. to find a spouse and 2. to get a degree.
In that order! lol
That DoorDash driver would’ve got 3 stars for banging on my door like that! Lol
🤣🤣🤣
I love the scene at the beginning! #Theatre #Couples
Trying new things you know
You guys did a great job presenting your story, I was definitely fascinated. Appreciated your advice at the end as well. Great job.
Thank you Chris! ☺️
Great testimony God bless 👍
What a great and uplifting story . Very moving
Thanks for listening
Dont call them non believers if they believe in God
I hear you but I think there is a difference between knowing about God and actually believing in him.
They seem to just know God exists but not as far as believing
Is your channel name because you were an Engineer?
Hey! It is a play on words for that reason but it's also because we believe that our being, our spiritual growth, and our love story was engineered by God. Thanks for asking 🙂
Spot on!
Great video! God bless you both! New subbie.
Thank you and welcome and thank you for joining our channel! Good bless you as well!
Great educative video
Loved your intro! Y'all so funny!
Thank you so much!!
Subscribed ❤️
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Listening to your story now! What do you use to record your videos?
Wow I play piano too!
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch our video!
We have a Cannon M50 camera and the Cannon EF-M 22mm f2 lens. We didn't use that lens for this video though but we did for our last 2 videos and it was a game changer.
@@justinlolu7240 NICE!!!
@@EngineeredByGod Wow thanks I hopefully will upgrade to an M50 or something better soon!
As a black atheist woman, I was really hoping this was going to be about a genuine relationship between a christian and an atheist. But, oh, well. This one of the reasons why I could never be a god(s) believer (particularly a christian), I would never choose a fellow human.