Pregnant and Suddenly Single - How To Cope.

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  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
  • Are you pregnant and single? Have you been dumped and only just become a parent? If you are finding becoming a single parent difficult to cope with or your relationship has suddenly ended then this video will help you find a way through. For tips on how to cope and coaching advice for moving forward watch now. If you have a question you would like me to answer on my show then please email sara@saradavison.com. For information about coaching with me, my Breakup Recovery Retreats or becoming a Breakup and Divorce Practitioner please do visit www.saradavison.com or email me to set up a call.

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  • @user-ik2rs6eg1c
    @user-ik2rs6eg1c 4 місяці тому +14

    Spent 8 years with my boyfriend and now am pregnant,we found out already the bump was 4months …he just left me n his living his life…am left all alone heavily pregnant and praying everyday 🙏🏾

    • @user-ls6vj2ir2q
      @user-ls6vj2ir2q 3 місяці тому +2

      um going through dat situation n its hard

    • @mahlatsimakgai-bf2hg
      @mahlatsimakgai-bf2hg 3 місяці тому +1

      Me too he left me found someone and he's now a stepfather like who leaves a 23weeks baby growing in the womb and go to become a stepfather

    • @MyCatsChannel841
      @MyCatsChannel841 2 місяці тому

      🙏🙏🙏omg so sorry your going through this it does get better I was a single mom left heavily pregnant also even drove myself in labor to the hospital 8 years ago and I did everything alone no family very few friends it feels awful am married and happy now but I feel the pain like it was yesterday and all I told myself is stay strong God has my back yes there were hard times but lead me to my destiny and to the right one that is a wonderful father to my daughter. I also had no parents nothing and it breaks my heart people doing these things now days . Try focusing on little things each day to keep positive even in hard times no Women should ever have or going through that it’s disheartening honestly and I pray 🙏 may God bless you tremendously you got this 👏👏👏

    • @user-ik2rs6eg1c
      @user-ik2rs6eg1c 28 днів тому

      @@MyCatsChannel841thank you so much

  • @Nayahpooh012
    @Nayahpooh012 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m in my first trimester with me first child. My partner has a son from a previously relationship and a codependent sister, her prioritizes his sister and son and I’ve ended up alone during this entire pregnancy thus far. I just ended our relationship today. Not sure what I am going to do, but I already feel relief knowing that I won’t have him to stress about.

  • @WhateverNWhatNot
    @WhateverNWhatNot Рік тому +7

    It takes a village. I feel like a lioness with my pride and I helped them with their cubs and now its my turn

  • @misswaychannel9186
    @misswaychannel9186 6 місяців тому +6

    My boyfriend just broke up with me. while 7 weeks pregnant.. this is sooo sudden because I wasn't expecting this AT All. We were just planning our future in the morning and 7 hours after he's broken up with me whilst on holiday on another country. I almost ended it all but Thank God for my family.. im still in shock and still on this holiday. to think im going back home alone is crazy.

    • @successcentral766
      @successcentral766 5 місяців тому

      Same here . May sound crazy but let me know if you’d like to reach out and talk. I literally have no one and my bipolar ex put me through hell and left me for another ex and because his mom kept enabling him with everything he did to me. Turns out he used me and didn’t try to fix us because I was “too dark”.

    • @hanifohagihamud7441
      @hanifohagihamud7441 5 місяців тому

      Damn i feel bad for you sis cus i know how ypu could feel in ur worst days in ur pregnancy specially when you are over 2 months pregnant

    • @misswaychannel9186
      @misswaychannel9186 5 місяців тому

      I just had a miscarriage, im so numb.

    • @successcentral766
      @successcentral766 5 місяців тому +1

      @@misswaychannel9186 I am so sorry you’re going through this. I know a sorry won’t make it better but just know , you have a prayer for peace, understanding and strength to your mind heart and soul❤️ miscarriages are not easy. I had one and it tore me up. I wasn’t even sure I wanted the baby but I did when I lost it unfortunately. Love, it’s going to be alright I promise you. You take as much time as you need to yourself and heal . Sending lots of love to you mama ❤️🙏

  • @alienzzz229
    @alienzzz229 Рік тому +13

    I like how calming you are but how you start should be how you end as if I wasn't so isolated and had nobody really to turn to I wouldn't be searching on here and listening to advice here :(

  • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
    @rubicunduseratiudas1264 Рік тому +9

    Women, get pregnant ONLY when you decide and want to get pregant by the man you choose to become pregnant from. Includding the man into your choice would also be a good idea.

    • @martam1995xx
      @martam1995xx Рік тому +11

      Easily said. Sometimes men pretend they are something else then once they find out the partner is pregnant they show their true colours.

    • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
      @rubicunduseratiudas1264 Рік тому

      @@martam1995xx Again, sometimes women pretend they are something else once they get married and have children who end up being the woman's hostages to squeeze all the living from the man. Any woman over 18 who gets pregnant is only BECAUSE SHE DECIDED AND WANTED TO GET PREGNANTWITHOUT INCLUDING THE MAN IN HER DECISION. Same happens when she decides to abort. ¿Where is the equality you so much demand? If you condone that behavior, you are just another festering parasite.

    • @jessicajesus3557
      @jessicajesus3557 10 місяців тому +7

      Ten years. Planned baby. Being treated like shit. Falling into depression. Its not mathemathical. You cant control whatever goes on the other persons head. You can only do whats best for you and the baby. Usually means the woman is alone on this journey.

    • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
      @rubicunduseratiudas1264 10 місяців тому +1

      @@jessicajesus3557 Well, hope one day you learn that what you believe to be the best for the baby might not be actually the best and might not be what the father believes to be the best for his child. Men are also alone on this journey, so welcome to reality. Being treated like shit? Men know about it. You have also and certainly treated a man like shit. Falling into depression? Men, too. Women control access to sex and pregnancy without the father's consent or approval. Men control access to relationships and marriage.

    • @jian_shii
      @jian_shii 8 місяців тому

      You don't realise the truth until you get pregnant for the man you've been with,and they suddenly change..leaving you pregnant

  • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
    @rubicunduseratiudas1264 2 роки тому +5

    My advise is to submit to her child's father. He's the best person to guide her and help her.

    • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
      @rubicunduseratiudas1264 Рік тому

      @Lada: With Jesus I will! Of course, if he is not a criminal and if he is a responsible person. Agree.

    • @melindamercier6811
      @melindamercier6811 Рік тому +9

      That is terrible advice if they are unmarried. A woman is only to submit to her husband, and her husband alone. Not just any partner even if he is the father of her child. Also, the woman has no one to submit to anyway if they are single and pregnant. The person who should be there for her is not because he is an irresponsible fool who forsook his duty as a partner and parent. To add to that, many women leave a relationship for their own safety and the safety of their child. Regardless of marital status in that situation, submission is just not possible nor is it wise. It’s not as easy as “submit”.

    • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
      @rubicunduseratiudas1264 Рік тому

      @@melindamercier6811 I am sayin that if she is marrying a high-value man (intelligent, responsible, healthy, wealthy, faithful, successful and hardworking), my advice for a woman lucky enough to have found such a man is to submit to her husband, raise the children, become a homemaker and follow his lead.

    • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
      @rubicunduseratiudas1264 Рік тому

      @@melindamercier6811 Unless she was raped, a woman who gets pregnant while being single is an irresponsible fool who forsook her freedom all by her own choice. She should face the outcome of HER OWN CHOICES and now work to support her child. It's really very simple: her body, her choice, her life. Let's respect women's autonomy.

    • @rosendungu8051
      @rosendungu8051 Рік тому +3

      ​@@rubicunduseratiudas1264did you know that marriage is not for everyone, but there are those of us who would consider having kids with a present father?