Everything You Need To Know About Stoicism.

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  • Stoicism is an ancient Greek philosophy that aims to take us from being vulnerable to the chaotic nature of the Universe to being calm and indifferent to it. It’s a way to fortify yourself for lasting peace of mind. But as with every practice that involves changing your attitude or disposition, work is involved and, often, sacrifice. The stoic’s work is to recognize what’s in our control and what isn’t. And the only thing in our control is our reaction to what happens, not the event itself. Obviously, we can influence what happens, but nothing is entirely in our control. Misfortunes are unpredictable and often inevitable.
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  • @self-inflictedphilosophy
    @self-inflictedphilosophy 7 місяців тому +307

    10 Ways to Be More Stoic:
    1.) Transform everyone into a teacher.
    2.) Say no to the easy way, seek out challenges.
    3.). Be strict with yourself but tolerant of others.
    4.) Allow the journey to be the thing.
    5.) Transform envy into emulation.
    6.) Stand on the shoulders of giants.
    7.) Forgive yourself and forgive others.
    8.) Fall in love with Fate.
    9.) Always practice courage, temperance, and humor.
    10.) Remember, the obstacle is the path.
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    • @MassMultiplayer
      @MassMultiplayer 7 місяців тому +1

      good wording original and inspiring. emulation was a good one. stric tolerant, teacher. love fate, humor.
      my boss love my stoicism. i become a funny robot that do everything he want. we both get richer, things get done. win win.
      positive nihilism is huge life changer for me.
      clown victories till we rot in dirt.

    • @somedudeok1451
      @somedudeok1451 7 місяців тому

      Half of these points don't even mean anything. Bet you couldn't explain half of them with anything that isn't just a completely mundane and banal "insight".

    • @richy1988
      @richy1988 4 місяці тому +3

      @@somedudeok1451
      I'm going to try...
      @self-inflictedphilosophy
      3 months ago (edited)
      10 Ways to Be More Stoic:
      1.) Transform everyone into a teacher. - this means always want to learn, be the student in as many situations as possible, everyone has something to give so let them teach you
      2.) Say no to the easy way, seek out challenges. - in your daily routines and habits there are probably lots of "easy" versions of your tasks, but they will not benefit your future self and do not do enough benefit to you now, so do the more difficult, proper way and you will prosper
      3.). Be strict with yourself but tolerant of others. - don't get dessert but don't judge anyone who does
      4.) Allow the journey to be the thing. - there is no The End to life where all the subplots get resolved and it all makes sense finally, so you just have to exist fully in each moment, be aware and look around and enjoy whatever is happening, because it won't happen forever
      5.) Transform envy into emulation. - if you do want something that someone else has, look at how they're living and take inspiration from their lifestyle and habits, learn from those you "envy"
      6.) Stand on the shoulders of giants. - ask for help, after you have made reasonable efforts to find your own solution
      7.) Forgive yourself and forgive others. - your past doesn't matter, stop holding onto it, you are just here, now; everyone makes mistakes, don't hold someone else's mistake inside you, let it go
      8.) Fall in love with Fate. - whatever will happen will happen - we can set everything up for the maximum benefit of our future self, and be pleased when that set up pays off, but we must also know and accept that anything can and will interrupt those plans, and all we can do is deal with it
      9.) Always practice courage, temperance, and humor. - read The Courage To Be Disliked; don't drink (much); list things in 3s
      10.) Remember, the obstacle is the path. - the only way for you to go through your life is literally *through* it, any "obstacle" is not an obstacle, it's just what you must deal with now

    • @renanxavier4720
      @renanxavier4720 Місяць тому

      ​@@somedudeok1451mal amado !

  • @Mutalimon
    @Mutalimon 7 місяців тому +131

    "Man is affected, not by events, but by the view he takes of them." words that changes many lifes.

    • @somedudeok1451
      @somedudeok1451 7 місяців тому

      And untrue words. They only lead to apathy and are mostly only spoken by privileged people who have no real sorrows, so it's easy for them to say. Try to convince a palestinian or a ukranian that the bombs who killed their loved ones are merely a problem of their own perspective. Stoicism is BS when you think about it for more than 10 minutes.

    • @elvismidega
      @elvismidega 5 місяців тому +1

      By who ?

    • @wilfredosauce8001
      @wilfredosauce8001 5 місяців тому +1

      @@elvismidegaEpictetus

    • @somedudeok1451
      @somedudeok1451 5 місяців тому

      @@elvismidega Likely nobody really, if you look it up in any serious literature.

  • @ajr993
    @ajr993 7 місяців тому +269

    There's a way to do competition in a way that doesn't breed jealousy or envy and is consistent with stoicism. You have to frame competition as just a mechanism for personal growth. Like reducing the food down to its compenents, you can reduce a concept down to its foundation to avoid the problems associated with it. So competition becomes a mechanism by which we use each other as a ladder to improve and climb higher than would be possible as an individual. In this way competition becomes a team exercise in essence. Competition is in fact absolutely crucial to drive humanity forward. This is important because stoicism which rejects growth and progress as ways to be unhappy are fallacious. They've assumed that you'll never be happy because you'll never achieve perfection, but I would argue that actually hitting perfection would cause unhappiness because the journey and the progress is the goal to make us happy.

    • @joleaneshmoleane8358
      @joleaneshmoleane8358 7 місяців тому +9

      This is so well said. Thank you!

    • @rexal7923
      @rexal7923 7 місяців тому +2

      Very true, its because we give ourselves a reason to move forward that we do. If we loose the reason to move forward, to keep on living. Then we wouldn't be happy at all.

    • @Sal3600
      @Sal3600 7 місяців тому +2

      Iron sharpens iron

    • @nicholaskoenig3106
      @nicholaskoenig3106 7 місяців тому +4

      Does stoicism reject growth and progress...? That is not my interpretation of it...but I know very little about it as I pracrice the classic concepts. I try and live the idea that the joy of life is in the journey. But competition is certainly a part of my day to day journey within myself. I respect your reply and it should be read by all.

    • @theoferenczy9987
      @theoferenczy9987 7 місяців тому

      Good stuff

  • @ariaekholm4033
    @ariaekholm4033 4 місяці тому +10

    my dad would comfort me after unexpected harsh things happened by reciting the serenity prayer. it always stuck with me and i’ve lived my life by it for as long as i can remeber i think it perfectly describes stoicism “God, grant me the serenity
    to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

    • @chughes415
      @chughes415 2 дні тому

      I have said the exact same thing about the serenity prayer re stoicism

  • @JoeAllenCarnivore
    @JoeAllenCarnivore 7 місяців тому +10

    This is my favorite UA-cam channel! I’ve been watching UA-cam since 2010 and no other channel captivated me like this one ❤

  • @pontusolssonPrivat
    @pontusolssonPrivat 6 місяців тому +9

    So yeah, I'm a stoic now. Not because of this video but because i chose this way of life even from the begining. I was already practicing alot of what is mentioned within stoic belief before i read the meditations but it still completely changed my life. And still is. Just dont forget that this is a practice. Being in control of every emotion in your body takes alot of time to master. The better you become the more you can let yourself feel your emotions without making decisions based on those feelings. I have practiced alot on allowing myself to feel the good emotions and enjoy life but never go over the line and making a fool of myself.

  • @janetbaker7848
    @janetbaker7848 5 місяців тому +13

    I've been studying these videos and it's really strange but my dad taught me to be a stoic and I didn't even know it. It was how I was raised to be.

    • @BDiligent
      @BDiligent 4 місяці тому

      Everything happens for a reason Sonny Boy!

  • @evandercaldwell9993
    @evandercaldwell9993 5 місяців тому +2

    Amazing!! Thank You So Much for All Your Time And Effort My Friend!! May We Reach On Forward And Reach Our Purpose In This Life!!! ♥️🙏💯✨

  • @ikari814
    @ikari814 7 місяців тому +5

    Why do i feel so deja vu after a little more than quarter of the video? Somehow feels like i listened to this part before😭😭

  • @rexal7923
    @rexal7923 7 місяців тому +84

    ”The imposter is always among us“
    -Epictetus

  • @iamstateofbeing7330
    @iamstateofbeing7330 5 місяців тому +10

    I never realized I’ve been living by most of the principles of Stoicism until I came across this video late last night.
    It will be a hard road to follow but it’s surely a road I feel I’m meant to follow. I believe you have a video about how Spirituality is about relieving suffering and that is something I’ve been following since I was 17. I never quite realized how closely related spirituality and stoicism is. To live is to suffer, but to be is to let go. You can’t control much of anything in life, but you can control your reactions and way of living. I never knew stoicism involved meditation as well. Thank you for this video it really opened my eyes.

    • @rosanajackson4668
      @rosanajackson4668 3 місяці тому

      I've been in church all of my life: that's all l have known. My parents were religious I follow The Ten Commandments.

    • @Ross-vh6uc
      @Ross-vh6uc 2 місяці тому

      @@rosanajackson4668when..?

  • @evandercaldwell9993
    @evandercaldwell9993 5 місяців тому +1

    Definitely Subscribed after having listened to this video!! Thank You for this wonderful video!! Love the music in the background too!! 🙏♥️💯✨

  • @WTFnecktatto
    @WTFnecktatto 6 місяців тому

    Even with your millions of subscribers, I want you to know your comprehensive outlooks on stoicism has brought me too chills perhaps changed my outlook for week; , ive ready meditations multiple times as well.

  • @nomoruyi
    @nomoruyi 7 місяців тому +12

    Your Video came at the perfect moment. I was feeling down so bad, which I do very seldom, and thanks to your video and some meditation I regained my composure and peace of mind. Thank you so much, and never stop teaching ❤️

  • @AndriMagdych
    @AndriMagdych 6 місяців тому

    this is an amazing channel, please keep doing this, I recommend your channel to all of my friends

  • @8eodosiaa
    @8eodosiaa Місяць тому

    your videos are amazing, so glad I found you! love from ancient Greece

  • @bugsbunny8691
    @bugsbunny8691 7 місяців тому +6

    Thank you for all the content you provide. You are a true Jedi Knight.

  • @BDiligent
    @BDiligent 4 місяці тому

    Your work is a masterpiece in and of itself. Thank you.

  • @DINO-888
    @DINO-888 7 місяців тому +2

    💯
    Needed this message.

  • @abdel-wahabahmed2289
    @abdel-wahabahmed2289 7 місяців тому +6

    Many thanks for this well researched comprehensive video.

    • @tazerwazerman
      @tazerwazerman 7 місяців тому

      5:08-5:11 needs to be fixed to "roll your windows down". Some people will do it with a child in the back seat.

  • @abdrahim2076
    @abdrahim2076 Місяць тому

    Thanks for this great video, I have always lived with a mindset of stoicism since my childhood but never actually released it is stoicism, or that it is a philosophy, I have always thought that am just different from others, unemotional, think logically more than most people and lack the emotional understanding of others, but now thanks to you I know what my mindset is and I can improve it properly instead of trying to change it to something that I am not

  • @user-dw7vm2dw5e
    @user-dw7vm2dw5e 6 місяців тому

    thank you for your hard and smart work, I wish you well and just rewards for you

  • @theklucz1319
    @theklucz1319 7 місяців тому +3

    This video gave me the motivation i was searching for when i had to pull myself out of a hole. A very insightful breakdown of a collection of great minds. Thank you

  • @lnz804
    @lnz804 7 місяців тому +9

    I think your videos sould be as podcast on Spotify as well 🫶🏼

  • @CHRISTIANCOLTRANE
    @CHRISTIANCOLTRANE 19 днів тому

    Great stuff man!

  • @btdoubles4859
    @btdoubles4859 6 місяців тому +4

    59:07 funny thing is, is that the worst breakup of my life so far has caused me to look into stoicism and learning to let go of such things that are out of my control.

  • @jessiedemoss2088
    @jessiedemoss2088 4 місяці тому

    Love this content, great creator

  • @zohrehellison12
    @zohrehellison12 Місяць тому

    Thank you for your explanation. Very clear, methodical, great work. Thank you again and Aloha🌈

  • @alexwilliams8970
    @alexwilliams8970 6 місяців тому

    I LOVEEEE the voice of the narrator, it’s like music to my ears.😍

  • @Karma-uv2ve
    @Karma-uv2ve Місяць тому

    Love learning every day 💪❤️💪

  • @Kerohalim
    @Kerohalim 7 місяців тому

    Love you content ❤️

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 5 місяців тому +2

    "People are not disturbed by things, but by the views they take of them." - Epictetus

  • @drhilltube
    @drhilltube 7 місяців тому

    Thanks!

  • @S33K3R
    @S33K3R 7 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙂 👏👏👏

  • @jessdemoss8881
    @jessdemoss8881 5 місяців тому

    I love this guy's content especially stoic content

  • @kingk314
    @kingk314 7 місяців тому +19

    It's crazy how this channel is pure AI

    • @dhprojects3296
      @dhprojects3296 7 місяців тому +5

      Yea it's all stock footage, not all of the dialogue and voice is though you can tell that's mostly him

    • @celicobain8270
      @celicobain8270 7 місяців тому

      @@dhprojects3296ai voices can copy the user by sampling their voice. So it’s ai but it’s interpretation of your voice.

  • @zgarrido
    @zgarrido 3 місяці тому

    The fear of being judged and the importance of being aproved is a reminiscence from our childhood when we feel dependent of the adults that take care of us, and need their love and validation in order to be well taken cared, and feel secure.

  • @christiandabila4333
    @christiandabila4333 7 місяців тому +14

    I’ve always seen stoicism as the healthier way of the “alpha male” mentality. Rather than going off on the opposite gender on podcast after podcast or the whole macho man alpha camp, top G and a bunch of other nonsensical edits on the patriarchy were always…too in your face at times. The message is there but sometimes it gets misconstrued, don’t get me wrong, I appreciate the sentiment but it can be done better. Stoicism teaches us just that and helps us understand that things are out of our control but we are in control of our own lives, our own minds and who we keep close. I enjoy that even though things are out of my control at times. I am appreciative with all I have, all I am building and all that I will leave.

  • @jordanrobinson9064
    @jordanrobinson9064 7 місяців тому +3

    Mental health is mental wealth!

  • @SneakySteevy
    @SneakySteevy 7 місяців тому +16

    « You can’t be right against reality. » Stoicism

    • @everettstormy
      @everettstormy 7 місяців тому +1

      I'm always right tho. Always. So I think I'm right with the universe. Or the universe is wrong

    • @rexal7923
      @rexal7923 7 місяців тому +2

      @@everettstormybro what💀

    • @everettstormy
      @everettstormy 7 місяців тому +3

      @@rexal7923 I said it right the first time

    • @fireblossom564
      @fireblossom564 7 місяців тому

      ​@@everettstormyambatukam

    • @everettstormy
      @everettstormy 7 місяців тому

      @@fireblossom564 translate

  • @KadeemJames
    @KadeemJames 6 місяців тому +1

    Took me some days to finish this video .. but all in all it was a good video 💪🏿

  • @cari5803
    @cari5803 7 місяців тому

    thank you

  • @ThoiChienTrungHoa
    @ThoiChienTrungHoa 6 місяців тому +2

    "If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine.
    You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss, or situation.
    You are not alone, you are loved, you have the right to feel bad and good, you have the right to feel.
    Be blessed by these positive vibes and live your life to the fullest.
    I am sending my love to the universe so that I can reach you."

  • @pulse3554
    @pulse3554 7 місяців тому +16

    If you want to master stoicism, I’d recommend a major source which is Indian thought! Zeno of Citium, the founder of stoicism was like a samkhyin, and the Indian source of Hellenistic ethics is well known.
    Reading portions of Vedic thought will blow your mind, since it tends to be a superset of Hellenistic philosophy in Greece
    There’s a reason why there’s so many parallel in stoicism with Buddhist thought - it’s not a coincidence!

  • @ikust007
    @ikust007 6 місяців тому

    Excellent. Merci .

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 7 місяців тому

    Excellent

  • @Stoiculture
    @Stoiculture 7 місяців тому +1

    Love the message, I'm starting my own channel about stoicism, much love to all ❤

    • @somedudeok1451
      @somedudeok1451 7 місяців тому

      Follow the winds of the grift. Suddenly stoicism videos are popping up all over youtube. Don't miss the hype! Maybe you can cash in. Good luck.

  • @user-bj6lh5wf8i
    @user-bj6lh5wf8i Місяць тому

    Thanks.

  • @dark-half9233
    @dark-half9233 5 місяців тому

    insightful

  • @jonyfive9786
    @jonyfive9786 6 місяців тому +1

    🤩🙏
    Happiness is not a destination it is a way of life
    If we can’t be happy with what we have we will never be happy
    “True wealth is not in having many possessions but in having few wants”..

  • @unknown.9277
    @unknown.9277 7 місяців тому +1

    can you provide me source material you used for this wonderful video ? big fan btw

  • @jimmygibson911
    @jimmygibson911 7 місяців тому +5

    The courage to be disliked, I'm actually reading a book of that title. Great content in this video, thank you 💪 👍

    • @MattCrypto
      @MattCrypto 7 місяців тому

      Whats the book please? I seriously need to start learning how to not give a fuck about certain people

    • @jimmygibson911
      @jimmygibson911 7 місяців тому +2

      THE COURAGE TO BE DISLIKED

    • @jimmygibson911
      @jimmygibson911 7 місяців тому

      @@MattCrypto ua-cam.com/video/95jFc6tMeuM/v-deo.htmlsi=AzpUueDYbNZIiWS0

  • @LightOurDirection
    @LightOurDirection 7 місяців тому +2

    I am a woman and becoming stoic has greatly benefited me

  • @chattingwithmarci1624
    @chattingwithmarci1624 16 днів тому

    This is knowledge and wisdom

  • @QuotesS7
    @QuotesS7 4 місяці тому

    Just explored 'Everything You Need To Know About Stoicism' and it's a goldmine of wisdom! This video brilliantly demystifies Stoicism for the modern mind. Curious to know, who else found a new perspective on life after watching?

    • @n1ckster055
      @n1ckster055 4 місяці тому

      Read meditations by Marcus Aurelius it’s even better then this

  • @astro-jin
    @astro-jin 7 місяців тому +7

    I'm making my path in life from many philosophies put together which includes stoicism, nihilism, absurdism, and epicureanism. Yes, sometimes they can be completely opposite but when put together they make a perfect combo to live a peaceful and not perfect but still perfect life...

    • @KheptlaxaXonu
      @KheptlaxaXonu 7 місяців тому +1

      look into hermeticism

    • @astro-jin
      @astro-jin 7 місяців тому +2

      @@KheptlaxaXonu no, an atheist here

    • @bruhda7469
      @bruhda7469 6 місяців тому +1

      @@astro-jinok and? There’s still something there to listen to. I personally haven’t researched this philosophy, but u shouldn’t be turned away because it’s religion. Try an understand it’s key points

    • @astro-jin
      @astro-jin 6 місяців тому

      @@bruhda7469 no I searched and it's like the basis of religion

  • @JohnAranita
    @JohnAranita 6 місяців тому

    For me, currently, being happy is learning on UA-cam.

  • @a.d.clarke4990
    @a.d.clarke4990 7 місяців тому

    1:01:00 nope that’s the wrong way to approach it. NOW! I started my weight loss journey a couple of years ago now a couple of months BEFORE New Year. Take control NOW! It’s a good mindset to have.

  • @nocta2121
    @nocta2121 5 днів тому

    I listen to this while I do my makeup everyday until I finish this

  • @Leon_welshSicilian75
    @Leon_welshSicilian75 7 місяців тому +1

    This channel speaks of 'Time' like it actually exists. All we ever have is the present. Time is a human concept created to record the passing of events. Had to get that off my chest x

  • @evo1ov3
    @evo1ov3 7 місяців тому +3

    They say we got Stoicism from Socrates. I couldn't see that from reading Plato. But then I read Xenophon's account of Socrates.... Socrates is STOIC AF. Marcus Aurelius, Epicitus, Cato the Younger, and "America's Cato" George Washington are just a few examples. But yeah, read Xenophon.

  • @naksan656
    @naksan656 7 місяців тому

    Thank You! I needed this video! (Sorry it's a measly amount :( ............)

  • @artuer3685
    @artuer3685 7 місяців тому

    Yes this is good

  • @jt4369
    @jt4369 6 місяців тому

    See, I’m at a fundamental philosophical conundrum. I’m a determinist: I don’t fundamentally believe in free will. I believe we react and at best, we’re watching our lives as if we were watching a movie.
    And yet, I’d like to delude myself into believing that I exert control over my emotions as my friends call me stoic. I even “act” as if I have free will in that I “tell” myself -or maybe I’m experiencing “myself tell myself” to stay calm and exercise control-in stressful situations.
    Ultimately, I don’t know what this means for stoicism as something that can be practiced because I certainly don’t believe in compatibilism.

  • @evo1ov3
    @evo1ov3 7 місяців тому +1

    Think I got stoicim figured out. It's about self understanding. Justice Courage Temperance Wisdom are the guides.

  • @LilSmokio420
    @LilSmokio420 6 місяців тому

    Im wearing headphones, the rain at the beginning jump scared me 😂😅

  • @mdselimibn
    @mdselimibn 6 місяців тому +1

    What will be the meaning of life to a stoic?

  • @HumbleAfrikan
    @HumbleAfrikan 22 дні тому

    Good night everyone

  • @GiddyRob
    @GiddyRob 6 місяців тому +1

    Great, but ruined with too many adverts. Breaks the flow of the vid.

  • @stoicguard
    @stoicguard 5 місяців тому

    This 'Everything You Need To Know About Stoicism' video is an excellent crash course on the fundamental principles of Stoicism.
    The clarity and simplicity with which it covers key concepts, from focusing on what's within our control to embracing the impermanence of life, make it an ideal starting point for anyone interested in this ancient philosophy.
    The emphasis on cultivating resilience, mindfulness, and gratitude provides practical insights for navigating the complexities of modern life. A big thank you for demystifying Stoicism and making it accessible for everyone. Looking forward to more content like this!

  • @willkit1
    @willkit1 4 місяці тому

    I love most of the stoic principles but Definitely will not accept the wrong food or bad food at a restaurant.
    It is perfectly fine to politely ask for what you ordered or decline bad food.

  • @kissingthedirt
    @kissingthedirt 6 місяців тому

    I like experiencing emotion

  • @omarag6419
    @omarag6419 5 місяців тому

    Whats the music that starts at 15:35?

  • @ThorPalsson
    @ThorPalsson 7 місяців тому

    Perhaps there is a benefit in the sense of natural selection to dissatisfaction

    • @everettstormy
      @everettstormy 7 місяців тому

      You right I'm not perfect. I should feed myself to a bear

  • @JuliosStudio
    @JuliosStudio 7 місяців тому +1

    27:59

  • @Bomberman64x
    @Bomberman64x 7 місяців тому +3

    Why are we men only respected or valued when we follow stoic behaviour

    • @nicholaskoenig3106
      @nicholaskoenig3106 7 місяців тому +1

      Maybe because of the control over the mind that it requires? Good question.

    • @adoptic6342
      @adoptic6342 7 місяців тому +1

      The only people who "respect" you are other men because stoicism falls in line with the social norms of men not being allowed to be emotionally mature

  • @mattlattanzi1289
    @mattlattanzi1289 Місяць тому

    I quickly realized how inept I am at this the moment another one of the (far too many) advertisements interrupted, at once overwhelming my perceived stoic demeanor. Damn damn dammit.
    I’m OK now😊

  • @charlessoukup1111
    @charlessoukup1111 7 місяців тому

    To be honest, I think I didn't even Notice if any other people thought something about me one way or the other. Waaaaay out there.
    Self actualized at 5 years old?
    Just never thought about it, what someone might think about Me?
    Why would they?

  • @HaidenG39
    @HaidenG39 3 місяці тому

    people talk about stoicism when things get difficult, but what about when you are on the street and have nothing and need to start over? I have nobody , not sure why I am listening to this because its not going to feed me.

  • @jayjiggered4103
    @jayjiggered4103 6 місяців тому

    Doesnt mean you cant enjoy things, but you cant be dependent on them

  • @everlasting_me
    @everlasting_me 7 місяців тому +3

    I feel that a key point people forget is that everything is in your control until you give up that control. At that point, it is no longer something worth reacting negatively over.
    What do I mean?
    If you give your car to a mechanic and just blindly trust them, you are relinquishing your control.
    If they steal it, oh well.
    However, if you were to have researched deeply about the mechanic, taken some time to observe them through your interaction, and perhaps even placed counter measures such as an Apple tag in the car, once your control is relinquished to them you are still *in* control, somewhat.
    I mean to say, if you made a stupid mistake don't hate yourself but don't love yourself for it either.
    Aim to make no mistakes, but do not be surprised when you do.

  • @LozeyoMiemban
    @LozeyoMiemban 7 місяців тому

    galing

  • @Martin-zl7lh
    @Martin-zl7lh 5 місяців тому

    Is the older women her mother?.....and did she say: ,, she's just starting out?" This makes me really sad. The daughter is a bit ashamed, but not enough to save her own father from being ashamed, her mother seems to be not ashamed at all, maybe thinks that number is still low and the father looks so disappointed.....you can never take this back.....I am sure he felt sick at this moment and never sees his daughter the same again

  • @orhun2212
    @orhun2212 7 місяців тому

    altyazıları niye açmadınız

  • @likebot.
    @likebot. 7 місяців тому +5

    My father was stoic. I am a stoic.
    The difference is I learned to stop complaining.

  • @skidcaesar
    @skidcaesar 7 місяців тому

    momento mori? 💀
    more like *momento MONEY* 💰
    love this channel. stay excellent.

  • @habituatedstoic
    @habituatedstoic 5 місяців тому

    Ya, Those are Best Stoic Ways To be Habituated.

  • @notsogoodat
    @notsogoodat 4 місяці тому

    accept life right or wrong and be humble

  • @user-ex6vr9lf2f
    @user-ex6vr9lf2f 7 місяців тому

    just enjoy life and improve
    control emotions
    you don't need fancy things
    u are already a stoic

  • @theosayad5146
    @theosayad5146 6 місяців тому

    3:21 If a mechanic you called ends up being a charlatan the cause is not external as you are the one who chose him and hence made an incorrect judgement of his legitimacy.
    For this example to be correct, it would have to be that you carefully chose the mechanic which you concluded with evidence had the most expertise but yet he was a charlatan.

  • @CoolCoolYams
    @CoolCoolYams 7 місяців тому +1

    Is that CDawgVA in the thumbnail?

  • @theaustraliansuburbs
    @theaustraliansuburbs 5 місяців тому

    I told you man gotta get rid of that cart

  • @jahmair862
    @jahmair862 6 місяців тому

    Much of this parallels my life as a man who doesn’t enjoy what life has to offer. I just take the blows as they come and focus on my end goal. Not enjoying anything and trying to fix the things that harm me. I wish it would all end, but it won’t and it can’t. So I have to live with all of this. Things that hurt regular people don’t hurt me, things that make a regular person happy don’t make me happy. I care about the soul of the person who's hurting me. If I expected better, I won’t get over it. If I didn’t expect better, I brush it off and hope they better themselves. I distance myself.

    • @RaiseUpndShine
      @RaiseUpndShine 6 місяців тому

      Happiness is within , don` t seek it out .🎉🎉🎉

    • @jahmair862
      @jahmair862 6 місяців тому

      @@RaiseUpndShine okay my inner happiness would come from dying, what now?

  • @TheChimpoko1
    @TheChimpoko1 6 місяців тому +1

    Run as fast as the cart or get dragged? Wrong. Run faster than the cart and drag it where you want to go in life

  • @WisdomisPower-10inminute-dn5no
    @WisdomisPower-10inminute-dn5no 5 місяців тому

    💥 'Everything You Need To Know About Stoicism.' opens a Pandora's box of ideas, but did they tell you everything? Join the debate on my channel for the full story.

  • @KingFriday274
    @KingFriday274 3 місяці тому

    Dude, speak for yourself. I live in Portland Oregon, and I freak out about the rain all the time. I swear it never stops for like 8 months out of the year and it makes people insane.

  • @planet_of_wisdom
    @planet_of_wisdom 7 місяців тому

    Check out our latest stoic video:
    ua-cam.com/video/5Mt2hryIK9c/v-deo.html

  • @FupaDoncic
    @FupaDoncic 7 місяців тому

    I’m pretty sure stoicism isn’t gonna get me that swole.

  • @bradklemmer4251
    @bradklemmer4251 6 місяців тому

    Don't speak out against Big Pharma. jkbnr I love your videos brother.

  • @Eddie_Sto
    @Eddie_Sto 7 місяців тому

    This video came hours after I posted a post called Eddie Stoicism.🤷🏾‍♂️ talk about coincidence.