How to not give a f*ck (You're too nice)

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  • @SPACE_LI0N
    @SPACE_LI0N 4 місяці тому +82

    The youth need you bro... keep doing what u doing. You inspire so many men to not give up on themselves. Including myself. Real shit...

  • @HappyFountain-ye9sk
    @HappyFountain-ye9sk 4 місяці тому +100

    "If your a friend to everybody your an enemy to yourself" - Mike Tyson

  • @AE-sz7wn
    @AE-sz7wn 4 місяці тому +164

    Bro that key phrase “what ppl think don’t matter” I’m trying to get it to stick in my mind but from time to time I be drifting back to caring bout the shit that don’t matter

    • @iamzenhustler
      @iamzenhustler  4 місяці тому +52

      It's really like a muscle. The more you exercise it the stronger it gets

    • @AE-sz7wn
      @AE-sz7wn 4 місяці тому +9

      @@iamzenhustler facts

    • @thealchemist1951
      @thealchemist1951 4 місяці тому

      @@iamzenhustlerfacts

    • @sidneypope8174
      @sidneypope8174 4 місяці тому +1

      I agree, I'm like that as well, it's such a pain in the ass when caring about what others think of you, but overtime the more you work on yourself the more you won't care. It's something I'm still working on as well 😊

    • @AE-sz7wn
      @AE-sz7wn 4 місяці тому +1

      @@sidneypope8174 yeah I guess it’s an ongoing process we get better at it over time

  • @gabepehrson3845
    @gabepehrson3845 4 місяці тому +62

    More ppl need that confidence of “hell ya, I am all that, I am that guy/girl”. Like you should be proud of who you are and rock it. Thanks for the advice bro

  • @biggiesmalls3096
    @biggiesmalls3096 4 місяці тому +77

    People project theyre shit on you, you gotta remember that.

  • @infamouscha
    @infamouscha 4 місяці тому +46

    When you are your most authentic self, you draw the most authentic people to your life.

  • @brendan4844
    @brendan4844 4 місяці тому +37

    I had a whole group of women who targeted me almost everyday and I never understood it. Made me hate myself so much. Used to go home crying almost every night.

    • @CuttinInIdaho
      @CuttinInIdaho 4 місяці тому +6

      Sorry dude

    • @unmanifest6307
      @unmanifest6307 4 місяці тому

      Fuh dem witches man, reclaim thy power and stand tall

    • @riasb
      @riasb 4 місяці тому +11

      My heart is w you ❤ those “women” hate themselves and projected it onto you. Stay up, king

    • @reesefunkhouser1359
      @reesefunkhouser1359 4 місяці тому

      They sound like bitches, hope you’re doing fine!

    • @CalvinCandieMO
      @CalvinCandieMO 4 місяці тому

      No way years later as a grown man you're still crying about it 😂
      Man up lil bro, nobody cares about you. People literally make themselves victims lmao

  • @justdiego3745
    @justdiego3745 4 місяці тому +14

    "quit running from your true being"💯

  • @HappyFountain-ye9sk
    @HappyFountain-ye9sk 4 місяці тому +17

    "How can you be yourself when you do not know yourself" this man is spitting straight facts. I'm currently on my journey of rlly finding myself. My true self. For years I let peoples opinions and side comments determine how I acted. Being a ppl pleaser is not it. I've learned that the people that are for are for you and the ones that stop fuckin wit you for no reason it just wasn't meant to be.💯

  • @Thepapperman
    @Thepapperman 4 місяці тому +17

    This some powerful shit I work at amazon the night shift people is so judgmental they click up etc if you don't have a car they don't like you if your not a certain height wear a certain brand of clothing they don't like you if your not a learning ambassador a process assistant they don't like you I mind my business read books on break and do me thats a problem now they'll any reason not to like you but get there self estem from they clicks real talk fxxx people

    • @Johnhargrove18
      @Johnhargrove18 4 місяці тому +2

      This isn’t towards you but if you working at Amazon you have no right to judge anyone about having a car or wearing certain clothes🤣

    • @dudemoto
      @dudemoto 4 місяці тому

      I work at Amazon too BHN squad baby!!!

    • @Thepapperman
      @Thepapperman 4 місяці тому +1

      @dudemoto I has to go back to the day shift I couldn't do it so much phycoligacl warefare they got me reading books and going back to school it's probably my area but its ran like a prison and a high school down to the security and the aa folks I can't stand them lol

    • @SpaceCaptainJ
      @SpaceCaptainJ 4 місяці тому

      Bro please stop giving af what Amazon workers think

    • @atkaylenbarr
      @atkaylenbarr 4 місяці тому +2

      those ppl u work with have low self esteem themselves, because they attach they’re own self importance to what they have materially instead of what they posses internally. Find the right group of people and you’ll be good. It’ll take some time but you got this.

  • @andypope9222
    @andypope9222 4 місяці тому +12

    You’re the only one who knows yourself the most

  • @smabeats1437
    @smabeats1437 4 місяці тому +18

    You're born alone and you will die alone

  • @ld1552
    @ld1552 4 місяці тому +19

    Your villian arc started from a highschool girl lol glad you doing better

  • @MattsFreeChannel1
    @MattsFreeChannel1 4 місяці тому +5

    It's incredible how, seemingly, in a moment years later, one sentence somebody said to you would become (or just be) immediately available to you as, like, "This is the reason I'm walking like this." She said one thing, to you, and years later, it's like, "This is why I walk like this," as if you had just had that in the background, all those years. Man.

  • @33novas
    @33novas 2 місяці тому

    the wearing a beater to a restaurant part got me lmaoo i feel u

  • @strengthdexterity3653
    @strengthdexterity3653 4 місяці тому +9

    It’s so hard cause we’ve been conditioned I care too much and I overthink smhh

  • @cheslinscheepers2547
    @cheslinscheepers2547 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you bro, God sent this video in my life at the right time while I'm busy reflecting on getting rid of my people pleasing behavior.

  • @swatlover16
    @swatlover16 4 місяці тому +8

    Idk why you don’t have a million subs yet. Like I’m just waiting for it to happen at this point. I feel like I struck a hidden gem goldmine of info and it’s delivered so raw.

  • @0m3g4Dje
    @0m3g4Dje 4 місяці тому +2

    True spiritual lesson. I don’t have much stuff, but I stand. I got my Ancestors, some people that love me and the Creator. Peace God. May the Source fulfill us if it is our Destiny. ❤

  • @xisalive7927
    @xisalive7927 4 місяці тому +2

    i remember one i time i got an award for being smart (like honor or sum) and everyone was like yooo he’s actually smart and i think that changed how i saw myself. i was funny a class clown but i was really smart and got good grades but something in that moment changed who i am and how i conduct myself to this day

    • @zoesosa7524
      @zoesosa7524 4 місяці тому +2

      Yup being questioned on your intelligence is a wake up call to a degree. Ive had similar experiences always had honors and ap classes yet this one yard duty used to pick on me (an older woman at that). Came into my classes one day nd said infront of everyone “woah he’s actually working? Ive never seen him do work” and laughed about it. It triggered the hell out of me nd my gf at the time didnt understand fully how long those comments have been going on, so we kinda got into it nd made up. she reminded me why do i feel so passionate about what someone thinks if they arent me?Shits crazy how people can just assume you arent capable of something

  • @ChickenNugget-gq8kn
    @ChickenNugget-gq8kn 4 місяці тому +1

    Sometimes you don’t realize when stuff really affects you or change your life until you get older & really think to yourself like “dang why am I like this” that shadow work be something else man then you just remember so much stuff from your childhood. Childhood is everything and I’m currently seventeen at war with my parents because I’m being who I was called & set to be. It’s so hard to heal when your own parents tear you down just because you aren’t who they want you to be. & when I realized that I realized so much about everything and it broke my heart that parents are the root to why our generation is the way it is today but they don’t even realize it , everybody just lost & you can’t even blame them because they don’t know.

  • @LucidDream
    @LucidDream 4 місяці тому +1

    Needed to hear this. I've wasted so many years worrying about what others think of me, that I don't feel like I really know myself.

  • @stieg_smith
    @stieg_smith 4 місяці тому +2

    What’s crazy is she most likely liked you. I was bullied by a girl for a couple years until I moved. Later on she apologized and let me know it was because she liked me

  • @BIGGELATO
    @BIGGELATO 4 місяці тому +4

    5:10 that's right. Why take advice from people who aren't even on the same level as you mentally? It's like some billionaire taking financial advice from a homeless man. If some b** says you walk funny, or some mf saying you walkin stiff; you were in your own "vibration" so to speak, and they pulled you down. But you werent aware of it, you just wanted to be accepted, and that's the problem people face from a young age. If you don't build your own mindset and set of values, someone else will. If you knew this before, you would've kept walking the way you did, and never get all stiff, and your confidence would've taken you to a whole different world, but you would've never been this curious about self-development because you'd be too ignorant and think all is good and keep doing the same thing, unconsciously, and hopefully hang with better, successful people as you'd grow but you don't know this. Maybe it would've been worse. So thinking and assuming how life would've been is pointless. (just saying, in general) Which is why it's so important to mind your own business, focus on your strengths and weaknesses, identify your values, have some healthy vices to reward yourself, but any other vices should never be your focal point, never value a vice higher than it should...

  • @angeleyes6572
    @angeleyes6572 2 місяці тому

    Although I do not know you I can tell that you were already intelligent at a young age, because you knew what respect is.

  • @et.fonehome
    @et.fonehome 4 місяці тому +10

    I went through similar situations bruh. Can relate like a mf 🔥

  • @JaniceCarter-ws7lu
    @JaniceCarter-ws7lu 4 місяці тому +1

    There's no Janice without Nice
    😁...YES, and it's a good thing because the wicked feels your good energy, and it will confuse them when their trying to upset you🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @FungusUnited
    @FungusUnited 4 місяці тому +2

    ive been through too much shit at home with my parents fighting and me not doing shit so when it comes to people ever trying shit at school. I just respond with punches.

  • @rich5950
    @rich5950 21 день тому

    I can totally relate to this video! Good shit bro

  • @anthonydavis5365
    @anthonydavis5365 4 місяці тому

    Real message bro I once was that guy when I looked into the mirror one day and saw that wolf walking up
    Behind me life changed bro. Just to put some light on what you saying I once was that guy in school that got picked on never got ask to a prom school dance or whatever. School was like a place for me where the popular people prey on the non popular. Being to nice and a people pleaser gets you nowhere. Had to change my mindset. I say this to whoever needs to hear it. Your better Your enough Your amazing change that mindset and stop giving a F**K 💪🏾.

  • @jailenwebber982
    @jailenwebber982 4 місяці тому +1

    This the realist shit I heard in a minute

  • @macsiebert8503
    @macsiebert8503 4 місяці тому

    Spittin game months later, respect big bro. your words are a a truth in a world full of lies.

  • @alkhamiss
    @alkhamiss 3 місяці тому

    Absolute Truth brodah me ✌️😞

  • @thiagorfreitas
    @thiagorfreitas 10 днів тому

    another banger man, keep it up

  • @ssyxji659
    @ssyxji659 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm currently struggling with not knowing how to walk. I've heard the same comment too about walking too stiffly. Thank you

  • @beastjb76
    @beastjb76 26 днів тому

    Too real💯

  • @Powermoves1080
    @Powermoves1080 4 місяці тому

    Real spill thru n thru. No Fucks Given!!! And I don’t play with Nobody n I’m not to be played with. Salute!!! 🫡💯💪🏽

  • @kingvgkidzay5670
    @kingvgkidzay5670 2 місяці тому

    Ya in my youth the same shi happened to me no real guidance from my parents went beyond a year don’t recall the grade buh I deff walked stiff like till around freshman yr that made me learn aswell it’s nothing no one’s opinion is nothing it’s not even a ant not bacteria not alive nothing Aslong as u don’t let them live in ur head for rent free

  • @dotkavmusic
    @dotkavmusic 4 місяці тому +2

    You confirmed everything Ive been feeling thank you. I'm no slave I am DOT KAV

  • @israelc.8586
    @israelc.8586 3 місяці тому

    Stop chasing, Start attracting. Realest Stuff man.

  • @justinanderson1438
    @justinanderson1438 3 місяці тому

    Popped up at the right time cuz I went through being called some else but shi fuck what people say ! I kno who I am !

  • @sadboylocoese4835
    @sadboylocoese4835 4 місяці тому +1

    Real shi.. amigo watchin u all the way from tijuana mexico

  • @chasecsgo7041
    @chasecsgo7041 4 місяці тому

    Everything has a beginning and end, even your sadness, I'm almost 3 years clean from heroin I promise that it gets better!!!

  • @CuttinInIdaho
    @CuttinInIdaho 4 місяці тому

    There is a short book called the four agreements that breaks all this down. It is ancient wisdom that you figured out! good job dude!

  • @richardclarke3795
    @richardclarke3795 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for this brother 💯

  • @LifeofIb
    @LifeofIb 4 місяці тому

    I’m sorry but somebody needs to say this. Kids can be sooooo fuckin mean. Bless bro

  • @TheologyOPENStheLids
    @TheologyOPENStheLids 4 місяці тому +1

    the idea of what a nice guy or loving guy nowadays is portrayed badly theres nothing wrong with being caring but that doesnt mean let people control and walk over you and the idea of lstening to "your higher self" really makes no sense cause that would mean theres a part of you that has all the answers when at the same time you dont have the answers but you achieve this by "looking within" or just looking to yourself for answers as if you lived on earth since the beginning of time

  • @kunited9
    @kunited9 4 місяці тому

    Same experience here. Great message

  • @user-cu6mi1je3m
    @user-cu6mi1je3m 4 місяці тому +2

    Your videos are helping me so so much thank you brother🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Kanefit
    @Kanefit 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks man

  • @mitahalf
    @mitahalf 4 місяці тому +1

    I feel u!!

  • @Sky-ow7dl
    @Sky-ow7dl 4 місяці тому

    Thank you, you’re amazing 💛

  • @mikebee6633
    @mikebee6633 4 місяці тому +1

    Great info bro.

  • @tauricee3
    @tauricee3 4 місяці тому

    I can relate to you like everything you saying it been like this my whole life

  • @FresH_FPS_
    @FresH_FPS_ 4 місяці тому

    yo thank you for this video mate i needed this all the way from the uk bless bless

  • @DomasRama
    @DomasRama 4 місяці тому +4

    your hard as fuck brodi much love from uk

  • @Mrm-2102
    @Mrm-2102 4 місяці тому +5

    I just made a similar vid we all connected 💯🙏🏿 prosperity to you bro

  • @lour8862
    @lour8862 4 місяці тому

    Now imagine being a kid and your childhood narcissistic friend is always bringing you down

  • @official_lune
    @official_lune 4 місяці тому

    felt fr like more than ever this like talking to me I was the same way

  • @TiiMOTHYLiiT
    @TiiMOTHYLiiT 4 місяці тому

    This the one 🤝🏽

  • @andersalvarado5714
    @andersalvarado5714 2 місяці тому

    Thx

  • @slowsedation
    @slowsedation 4 місяці тому

    raw shit keep it up

  • @mommysuess
    @mommysuess 4 місяці тому

    Thank you 😢

  • @GermanyJerseyShore
    @GermanyJerseyShore 4 місяці тому +4

    you dont need the tribe
    when
    youre the
    tribal chief oohwah💪😈👊
    ..acknowledge me😈
    😏

  • @clipz245
    @clipz245 4 місяці тому

    What a vid 💯

  • @godlygoku-cr1zr
    @godlygoku-cr1zr 4 місяці тому

    you good bro 🤣😂😭

  • @lour8862
    @lour8862 4 місяці тому

    i wish i could watch this some years ago

  • @SharRonDaDon
    @SharRonDaDon 4 місяці тому

    GOOD SHIT BRO

  • @mommysuess
    @mommysuess 4 місяці тому

    The last part tickled me 14:56 😂

  • @ahmadoud94
    @ahmadoud94 4 місяці тому

    Understood 😊

  • @mitahalf
    @mitahalf 4 місяці тому

    I feel u

  • @mykirimimi693
    @mykirimimi693 3 місяці тому

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @TM-nb9zf
    @TM-nb9zf 4 місяці тому

    I know Redman when I see him

  • @TheLastSentientVolatile
    @TheLastSentientVolatile 4 місяці тому +1

    Good vid

  • @official_lune
    @official_lune 4 місяці тому

    omm fuk what they say ima be HIM

  • @beyondthematrix4443
    @beyondthematrix4443 4 місяці тому

    💯

  • @MadAlexfuego
    @MadAlexfuego 4 місяці тому +1

    🎯🎯🎯

  • @TLOH7
    @TLOH7 4 місяці тому +1

    Let Jesus Christ run your life. Period.

  • @mitahalf
    @mitahalf 4 місяці тому

    🙌🙌🙌🙌🌟

  • @goth1155
    @goth1155 4 місяці тому

    👏

  • @augustusbrown5320
    @augustusbrown5320 4 місяці тому

    💪🏿#SC

  • @realajwayne
    @realajwayne 4 місяці тому +1

    💯🦾🫡

  • @toluene21
    @toluene21 4 місяці тому

    1000%

  • @auraofhim
    @auraofhim 4 місяці тому

    What camera are you using?

  • @_.yvngrich
    @_.yvngrich 4 місяці тому

    😂

  • @joballa5339
    @joballa5339 4 місяці тому

    You look stiff rn bruh😭🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @Mountain_bonker
      @Mountain_bonker 4 місяці тому

      i can bet you dont have an education further than hs😂

  • @skatecado2897
    @skatecado2897 4 місяці тому

    Mf spittin

  • @premez4648
    @premez4648 4 місяці тому

    Thx

  • @aliciathereal
    @aliciathereal 4 місяці тому

    💯