The DESIRE to Become Attractive to a Mate

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
  • The DESIRE to Become Attractive to a Mate. Today's discussion is about desire and that it is a form of suffering that is based on need, but not a free movement of your unconditional self. When freedom moves, it frees whatever it touches and in this way when you seek freedom first, you become inherently more attractive.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 39

  • @boredbadger5276
    @boredbadger5276 3 роки тому +2

    I just read Jason's book and loved it. The certainly was a compulsive urge/need to keep reading it. And finished the book in a few days. I loved that it was so down-to-Earth and relatable.

  • @Kwood10
    @Kwood10 5 років тому +4

    Sometimes I think I would like a relationship but it seems like everyone just meets on the Internet sites & I don’t want to do that . I’m working on my spiritual self right now & enjoying some hobbies that I never made time for when I was in a relationship.

  • @lynnemanning9553
    @lynnemanning9553 4 роки тому +1

    This is one of your best videos. "First, seek the unconditional from within"......"Finding in every moment what is self sustainable"......."Deepening the unconditional relationship with me and life"
    All of those one liners are very inspiring, and they have so much wisdom❗️ Yes, this helps me on my spiritual journey....thank you 💟☮️☯️

  • @oliveralecic2299
    @oliveralecic2299 5 років тому +7

    This is so brilliant!! Thank you so much!❤

  • @mammybelle7302
    @mammybelle7302 5 років тому +5

    Ouch! Truth hurts. Thanks Jason...x

  • @whatdoyoulivefor735
    @whatdoyoulivefor735 5 років тому +4

    Yaass. U the realest beauty guru on YT

  • @Sebsati0n
    @Sebsati0n 5 років тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video! Have a wonderful day everyone :)

  • @mrboobiesrider9212
    @mrboobiesrider9212 5 років тому +4

    Thanks man. For making all these videos and everything.

  • @ootfan5
    @ootfan5 5 років тому +3

    Thanks Jason!

  • @fatimabeirao5132
    @fatimabeirao5132 5 років тому +1

    You are amazing. I am so glad I found you. Thank you 🙏🤗🌟❤️

  • @janakakumara3836
    @janakakumara3836 5 років тому +2

    Thanks Jason! Appreciate putting it to words.

  • @annf8632
    @annf8632 5 років тому +1

    Jason..happy to see you. Thank you ..letting go of negative thoughts...🌹

  • @rvk2136
    @rvk2136 5 років тому +4

    I decided to be alone

    • @callemoreus794
      @callemoreus794 5 років тому

      Raghavan Ragav metoo, i realized im not in state of Life atm to consider and take responibilty for another person aswell, i gotta figure my own shit out first. Meaningless sex isnt that bad either

  • @mikedonnellan1302
    @mikedonnellan1302 5 років тому

    Thank You for another Great Awakening THAT IS definitely going to sharpen the sword of detachment. The True Self or Soul can not be effected by every little desire as gravity doesn't react to the weather. A Disclaimer to the spiritual consequences of mating in THIS "long strange trip". Always Grateful for Your Teachings

  • @Andrew22
    @Andrew22 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Jason

  • @dhrubapatgiri3986
    @dhrubapatgiri3986 5 років тому +1

    Tnku so much,

  • @kanavkenth506
    @kanavkenth506 2 роки тому

    Can anyone recommend videos similar to this one that Jason has also made

  • @dhrubapatgiri3986
    @dhrubapatgiri3986 5 років тому +2

    Ur new subscriber

  • @nonexistentfuture519
    @nonexistentfuture519 5 років тому +1

    I go in and out of self awareness ever since I started working...it’s exhausting and I’m numb.

    • @mildreddavis1684
      @mildreddavis1684 5 років тому +1

      Practice daily - quiet still meditation. Re-charge your batteries and ground yourself as to who and what you are. Connecting to Source can become the first and last goals of the day 💚

  • @AnnabethLee144
    @AnnabethLee144 5 років тому

    It's not easy...I like him...and he likes me...but his previous sufferings I sure can't cure...he is addicted to suffering, it seems nobody can make him happy. Yes, he turned to self love...at least that...still he wants to love and be loved...

  • @KKKKAAAARRRRYYYYNN
    @KKKKAAAARRRRYYYYNN 5 років тому

    Jason, could you talk about relationships more? If desire (for certain qualities in a person) is suffering, then how is wanting a stable home family life without co-dependence not desire? Oh I gotten myself confused.

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  5 років тому +5

      An expression of love is fine. But "needing" otherwise you suffer is the trap.

  • @ruchidhiman7052
    @ruchidhiman7052 2 роки тому

    How would one make life decisions if one is letting go of desire?! Should one remain in the constant environment one is in? Same job, same life routine and just enjoy the peace within without thinking of retirement and inflation?

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  2 роки тому

      Suffering doesn’t have to exist for wisdom to flourish. You’re misunderstanding DESIRE. Watch my video on desire. I explain it there.

    • @ruchidhiman7052
      @ruchidhiman7052 2 роки тому

      @@JasonJGallant I use my desires/ goals to navigate in life (to decide where/ whom to invest time in). If I were to give them up, and be at complete ease with what is I wouldn't know how I would make decisions in life. That's what I tried to write earlier.

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  2 роки тому

      @@ruchidhiman7052 Like I said, there is FALSE DESIRE and true DESIRE. Watch the video on the topic on this channel.

  • @buikacontenta1522
    @buikacontenta1522 5 років тому

    Thanks for bringing that up. I love somebody who asks for open relationship, meaning having other long term partners. I am not ok with that. I can't limit the love but I can and have the right to decide on boundries in relationship. I understand You say unconditional love would accept anything, yes? But what about my love for myself?

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  5 років тому +5

      I wasn't talking about multiple partner relationships. There are agreements between people in the relationship which is fine but love can exist, but the basis of this video is to overcome the NEED for a mate. At that point love is possible in a higher level with less conditions of such and such person has to meet my every expectation so that I'm happy. If you're already fulfilled then you will not be enslaving the other to your misery.

    • @buikacontenta1522
      @buikacontenta1522 5 років тому +1

      Thank You, I see. It is great to talk. Thank You for replying. I shared my situation, as maybe someone is going through a similar situation. I definitely do not want misery for anyone really :) I noticed making myself happy helps everyone around. All the best.

  • @Deepa16
    @Deepa16 5 років тому

    can you explain on spiritualbypass?

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  5 років тому +1

      It's a word someone is using to explain something. The context could mean anything depending on who's saying it. Terminology isn't important. Just receive what's in the video :)

    • @Deepa16
      @Deepa16 5 років тому

      @@JasonJGallant Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @OfficialGiannaAurora
    @OfficialGiannaAurora 5 років тому

    The arrow of time. It’s liner they say going nowhere but forward. I know that I’m in my own purgatory - in my mind, contemplating why we even matter in the sense that our Universal output of energy is about 3%. What is the meaning? There is not one human that has, or ever will be able to answer that question. Who are we to put a definition on anything anyway? Aren’t we all a bunch of theoretical lab rats anyway? What is exactly the purpose of purpose? We have made up everything - like a 10-year-old boy in the basement of the Nether World in the dusty basement of the Grandfather Clocks realm of make believe that reality doesn’t exist. Math, science, poetry, literature, religion etc. All made up from the persons that have no answers. We have come so far from the birth of the Universe to this moment in the Cosmic Calendar to what - guess it will never be discovered. Why is blue not red, and yellow not called door? Why is it so outstanding that we discovered the reason which we stay grounded to the floor? We are nothing but a speck of dust in the vacuum of space and time - words shouldn’t have a meaning even if they do rhythm. History, the future is in the horologist grasp - I fill like I’m in the Cosmic Silence with nothing to grasp. What is actually beauty if the eye of the beholder doesn’t have perfect vision? Are we all light and “earth “is our prism? The refraction is enlightenment - but what lurks in the dark. Aren’t we all but bioluminescent voiceless endangered finless sharks? I understand complex things like quantum tunneling, and wave-particle duality - but yet I’m a stay at home mother my sons are all brilliant but different than each other. But there is not one difference from a child in the past to one in the future - we are all birth out of the darkness and into the light with not one single clue on how we became the mirrored element of nitrogen, carbon, oxygen made of the same matter of the speed of light. I’m but stardust that has a conscience in the fishbowl of life - how can I stop the questions that plague the depths of the voice in the corners of my mind? I am nothing but a mass of flesh, thinking and wondering always if I’m doing my best. The words I use are made up by man - how much validly does that really have. My eyes are pressured to not release salt water because I’m too afraid not to be I anymore but here. How do I stop the madness in the rabbit hole in the dark expanding Universe made up by man?????

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  5 років тому +6

      Stop thinking. All of your comments are thoughts. Exit thought. Freedom is the result

    • @OfficialGiannaAurora
      @OfficialGiannaAurora 5 років тому

      @@JasonJGallant Thank you for your time - and response. Lol, it's hard for me to stop thinking - wonder, curiosity births some wonderful things. Being aware of what I am and where I exist is fantastic. Your videos are alluring - the way you speak as if time doesn't exist and all the planets have ears and are leaning in - I guess that is where my envy takes over. The Rambler - lol that's what I call my brain. How can I just stop? That's where the trouble lies. How do I silence the thoughts?

    • @owengropps9350
      @owengropps9350 5 років тому

      The Ghetto Physicist ya just gotta do it

  • @kanavkenth506
    @kanavkenth506 2 роки тому

    Can anyone recommend videos similar to this one that Jason has also made