The Morlan Family: Our Teenage Adoption Story

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024
  • Ron and Karen Morlan are proud parents of 4 kids: Lauren (17), Abbie (14), Andrew (12), and Isaac (12). The Morlan family previously had plenty of excitement with Abbie and twin boys. One of the twin boys, Andrew, has had many health issues including a kidney transplant. Still, there was a calling to foster care. God had clearly called Karen first, but slowly through patient conversations, Karen and Ron both felt they were supposed to become foster parents. The “agreement” was to foster babies. A room with a crib was prepared. In 2010, Karen and Ron welcomed a 12-year-old girl into their home, proving that God certainly has an awesome sense of humor! Not long after, the Morlan family forever changed when Lauren was legally adopted.
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  • @anotherdeadaccount1321
    @anotherdeadaccount1321 8 років тому +168

    Thanks for sharing. When I grow up and have finished college and am married, I'm going to adopt a teenager.

    • @Lavender_Louis
      @Lavender_Louis 8 років тому

      In the last two days I saw your comment under two videos and I really liked what you had to say:)

    • @anotherdeadaccount1321
      @anotherdeadaccount1321 8 років тому

      +PX Xaver Thank you! I like to share my opinions on videos just for fun. I hope one day that the people who are in the video see my comment. :)

    • @Lavender_Louis
      @Lavender_Louis 8 років тому +2

      Petranellam04 Yes that's what i like about You Tube it's also great to have (positive) discussions in the comments:)

    • @anotherdeadaccount1321
      @anotherdeadaccount1321 8 років тому +2

      +PX Xaver agreed :)

    • @SmoshOfy
      @SmoshOfy 8 років тому +12

      I'm 20 and I am going to do the same! :) God blessed me with so many great friends who were adopted (many in their late teens), and since I have two illnesses that would result in awful complications and me not being able to even hold or pick up a toddler. I love teens so much (even though I am just recently an adult) and it just seems like such an awesome way to show someone you see them, and love them, and are ready for anything they can throw at you.

  • @katrinakelly925
    @katrinakelly925 8 років тому +139

    I was a teenage foster child. Now being 22 years old I am finding a passion for reaching out to people like me. I am hoping to start something to work with foster children and families. Your family is like the perfect example. I would love to talk to you all and reach out.

    • @ultra8142
      @ultra8142 6 років тому +1

      Katrina Kelly hii...

    • @jadewing997
      @jadewing997 6 років тому +2

      Katrina Kelly I'm a Foster child and I want to help out children when I'm older

    • @lanemusa1528
      @lanemusa1528 3 роки тому

      i know I am kind of randomly asking but do anybody know a good website to stream newly released movies online?

    • @koltonsantana2236
      @koltonsantana2236 3 роки тому

      @Lane Musa i watch on FlixZone. Just google for it =)

    • @blakekaleb3124
      @blakekaleb3124 3 роки тому

      @Kolton Santana Yup, I have been watching on Flixzone for years myself :D

  • @hadleytucker7451
    @hadleytucker7451 6 років тому +34

    I can’t wait to adopt a teen! I really sympathize with teens in the foster care system. They deserve homes with a loving family. I know how it feels to be deprived of that.

    • @mikewrasman5103
      @mikewrasman5103 4 роки тому +1

      Most people think teenagers are too damaged to adopt and only want to adopt babies.

  • @jlfreedom2
    @jlfreedom2 8 років тому +34

    What a beautiful story! I have wanted to be a foster parent since I was 19 yrs old. I'm 34 now. My husband and I took classes, but were turned down saying we had too many kids already- we had 3 at the time. We now have 6 bio, but still feel our hearts being drawn to foster/adopt. I'm a CASA now waiting for the courage to try again to become a foster parent. We are anticipating any child that we would be a good fit for between ages 1 day old to 1 day away from aging out.

    • @crocodile20101
      @crocodile20101 8 років тому +5

      you'll get your child ....and you'll both know its the right one he or a
      she is waiting

    • @eyem4freedom
      @eyem4freedom 5 років тому

      I thought you could have 6 total?

    • @mikewrasman5103
      @mikewrasman5103 4 роки тому +2

      Find another agency. Now.
      I think you have a case with your state children's services department in your state capital for appeal. Find an Attorney who specializes in adoption to represent you.

    • @mikewrasman5103
      @mikewrasman5103 3 роки тому +1

      It should've be any business of the agency to say that. Agencies are wanting people to adopt, but they put really stupid roadblocks in the way.

    • @queleene84
      @queleene84 2 роки тому +2

      Sometimes I see adoptive families with 10 kids. I think if you have enough space and can afford to take care of them, who cares how many kids you have. I have a heart for teen adoption and have 6 bio kids. I would be heartbroken if that stopped us from being a family for a child who needs one

  • @timlol4374
    @timlol4374 9 місяців тому +1

    She deserves to be loved!!❤❤

  • @lynnpeppa1
    @lynnpeppa1 7 років тому +11

    What a beautiful story and what a beautiful young lady! I'm so happy for all of them! God bless all of you! ❤️

  • @sarah-anneavers3143
    @sarah-anneavers3143 5 років тому +16

    I’ve been called to adopt preteens and teens (yes several) since I was about 7. I am now twenty five, and the Lord has laid it on my heart to pray for my children. I’m excited to see what He has in store for my beautiful future children. I’m young, and not yet married but I know that i want to learn as much as I can to prepare for them :) thank you for sharing your story, it’s so nice to know that others understand the calling and acknowledge the Lords band in all of it :)

  • @jillianlea9690
    @jillianlea9690 7 років тому +12

    These children go through such heavy heavy emotions and experiences

  • @myke_bota7590
    @myke_bota7590 5 років тому +11

    May our loving God continue to bless your family. Embrace everyday as if it were our last. In Jesus's Name!

  • @luz9700
    @luz9700 8 років тому +11

    Beautiful family. And what a strong girl. I wish you all the best!!!

  • @MagicalSoulMindStorm
    @MagicalSoulMindStorm 8 років тому +16

    Thank you for sharing your adoption story. I'm glad God placed you all together.

  • @jennhoff03
    @jennhoff03 6 років тому +11

    I can't believe kids are still carting around their belongings in a trash bag. That just seems so inhumane! I always think that's going to change, but it's still what I'm hearing. Wow. Anyway, beautiful story! Beautiful family.

  • @Karenshow
    @Karenshow 8 років тому +20

    Beautiful, thanks for sharing.

  • @celestewilson9139
    @celestewilson9139 Місяць тому +1

    Beautiful beyond words ❤

  • @debbiep99
    @debbiep99 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your story.
    Looking for more of the larger picture, the good and the bad the raw story. These stories are great to hear but they don't give the whole picture.

    • @RonMorlan
      @RonMorlan 4 роки тому +4

      Liz P you are very correct in that a short video can't possibly tell the whole story (I'm Ron from the video). Foster/adopting a teen is hard...probably the hardest thing we've ever done! The relationships are complicated...the trauma runs deep. I'd never want to paint the picture that it was easy and the story mirrors some sort of fairy tale...'cause it doesn't. I DO want to paint the picture that it is WORTH IT and love often looks different than we expect!! (though I do like those darn Hallmark movies!!)

    • @mydailyreward2090
      @mydailyreward2090 4 роки тому

      @@RonMorlan beautiful story and testimony. Ron, do you have any advice for how I should approach my husband and who doesn't feel the calling to adopt, but I do. Specifically older kids. I am trying to be kind and loving and patient etc...but it's so incredibly hard. I just want to shake him! Back me up here Karen! 🥰

  • @julialimbrick333
    @julialimbrick333 4 роки тому +1

    Wow, thanks for sharing your story. What a beautiful testimony of God's faithfulness when you were willing to step out on a limb and take a risk.

  • @HStntsue
    @HStntsue 8 років тому +23

    This video is a real blessing.

  • @bridgettegeorge
    @bridgettegeorge 8 років тому +9

    Beautiful story! God bless!

  • @carol-leelane721
    @carol-leelane721 7 місяців тому

    Spiritual perception is a precious guide.

  • @rosemarycarter2415
    @rosemarycarter2415 3 роки тому

    Praise God for what beautiful things He does!!!

  • @hilda1170
    @hilda1170 8 років тому +9

    Blessings for all.

  • @donaldschaefer6860
    @donaldschaefer6860 2 роки тому

    I loved hearing your story. What a blessing. I too have a heart for adoption.

  • @blairariavanderkamp3405
    @blairariavanderkamp3405 6 років тому +1

    What a beautiful story. She's a very fortunate girl. She got to live with her biological family and then get adopted much later by a wonderful family. Didn't like the parts in between. Those detention centres were horrible

  • @jillteerink2555
    @jillteerink2555 8 років тому +8

    I would love to know what the book was that change the way you thought about adoption.

  • @mydailyreward2090
    @mydailyreward2090 4 роки тому +1

    Karen, what advice do you have for other women (myself) who has a husband who is adamantly against adoption but you feel God hasn't just laid this on your heart but tucked it in with a nice blanket to boot.

    • @olatadeokunola5200
      @olatadeokunola5200 4 роки тому +2

      The hearts of kings are in His hands. He hardens and softens hearts. He can soften and turn your husband's heart. I hope it works out for you.

  • @marybrown557
    @marybrown557 8 років тому +21

    Can you share what book you read that made you feel more convicted? My husband and I just turned in the paperwork to start fostering to adopt an older child or sibling groups. I have a lot of worries and heard Ron talk about the book he read?

    • @fefeandthebadone
      @fefeandthebadone 8 років тому +2

      Chap 2 of "Forgotten God" by Francis Chan

    • @larryaf1806
      @larryaf1806 7 років тому +5

      I believe they were talking about "Forgotten God" by Francis Chan

    • @thegoodboy1821
      @thegoodboy1821 5 років тому +1

      Can u adopt me please

    • @k.fuentes7448
      @k.fuentes7448 4 роки тому

      What a beautiful girl. Glad she found a good home at such a pivotal age. Now she’s headed in a positive direction.

  • @mrs.tiffany
    @mrs.tiffany 6 років тому

    aww I am so happy for them

  • @joytotheworld6804
    @joytotheworld6804 8 років тому +5

    Awesome! X

  • @staceylangstraat7531
    @staceylangstraat7531 4 роки тому +2

    check out triggs adoption cus he is my brother

  • @elliesouza717
    @elliesouza717 Місяць тому

    @pauljamison3340 We all know only children living in specific areas deserve families. Smh 🙄. I wonder how many children you've adopted since you are so sincerely concerned for them

  • @cameronperry00
    @cameronperry00 8 років тому +2

    I'm just curious what you meant by international adoption just "wasn't for you" ?

    • @beautyamidsttheashes6102
      @beautyamidsttheashes6102  8 років тому +19

      +Cameron Perry We just felt we were to begin the foster care process. We are ALL FOR international adoption though!

    • @cameronperry00
      @cameronperry00 8 років тому +1

      Beauty Amidst The Ashes Ah okay! thanks for replying!

    • @mairahmanzini2928
      @mairahmanzini2928 5 років тому +4

      There are a lot of international adoption scams. Parents who are still around being told that their kids are actually going for an overseas scholarship till their 18. They are shocked to find out that their kids won't be coming back and when they do come back they don't know their language or culture etc. They even become afraid of their own people. It's super sad but until local governments can intervene for these kids it will keep happening cause there is a lot of money to be made with international adoptions. Do lots of research.

    • @mairahmanzini2928
      @mairahmanzini2928 5 років тому +3

      Nepal Vietnam Ethiopia India Russia and others have all eventually instituted bans on international adoptions. India will allow Indians living in the US to adopt however.

  • @tallgirlhappyme
    @tallgirlhappyme 3 роки тому

    🔴What was the name of the book? (Thank you)

    • @ca147
      @ca147 3 роки тому

      Forgotten God by Francis Chan, Chapter 2

  • @rosiesteelevlogs6070
    @rosiesteelevlogs6070 8 років тому +4

    Amazing. What s loving an brave family! I hope we will be in this position one day. Please could you have a look at my little channel and meet my family? X

  • @pauljamison3340
    @pauljamison3340 2 роки тому

    So glad you adopted from home and didn't follow your friends to adopt from overseas!!!

  • @ryanvankoevringe353
    @ryanvankoevringe353 4 роки тому

    I am abdouted with my sister