Inside the World of Thai Bar Girls: Unveiling Truths and Myths

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  • Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
  • Explore the hidden truths and myths surrounding the experiences of foreign men with Thai bar girls. From motivations to financial dynamics, language barriers, and cultural nuances, this video delves into a controversial aspect of Thailand's tourism.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 326

  • @williamgralton7468
    @williamgralton7468 4 місяці тому +38

    From bitter experience I swore I would never marry again but I used to go to Thailand for the parties. Beer and lots of women. In 1996 I met a cheeky bar girl and we clicked immediately. She has been a wonderful wife.

    • @FINfinFINfinFINfin
      @FINfinFINfinFINfin Місяць тому

      @williamgralton7468 She's playing the long game Billy. Give it another 28 years and the axe will fall. 😛

    • @paulmcfarlane3250
      @paulmcfarlane3250 9 днів тому

      @@williamgralton7468 l like the cheeky girls as well

  • @PattayaTom91
    @PattayaTom91 4 місяці тому +10

    Loving these videos, genuine and honest. Gotta say you must be a winner with the BGs with that finger action 😂

  • @Nordic_Sky
    @Nordic_Sky 4 місяці тому +21

    There is no reason to date a bar girl. Finding a "regular" girl is not hard, even if you are on vacation. How? Go online 2-3 months before your arrival. You'll be shocked at how much interest you'll get. Be honest about what you are looking for. Most of the "good" girls seek serious relationships. So, if you're looking for a vacation girlfriend only, be upfront. I followed this playbook and got a true stunner. I've been to Thailand 5 times now to see her, and she's been great.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      An excellent comment. Thank you.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 місяці тому +2

      my first trip over I already had a chance for 3 Girl Friends not bars well maybe one whom I befriended playing pool and good banter - but it is not the reason I am there for and to be honest 6 months or 1 year in my case before I would see her again I do not see the point - I just relax and have the time of my life

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      @@marksallai2289 Great attitude.

    • @milkybar6276
      @milkybar6276 2 місяці тому

      Which sites are best?
      Thanks

    • @billhall6128
      @billhall6128 2 місяці тому

      go on line where?

  • @alistairnewton8898
    @alistairnewton8898 4 місяці тому +86

    First rule with a bar girl you are a customer , second rule you are a customer , third rule you are a customer , NEXT customer ? .

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +8

      Fourth rule, she is a hired performer.

    • @chrisjuricichxl5
      @chrisjuricichxl5 4 місяці тому +4

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand there's the rub, eh. I think men, particularly older ones, appreciate a bargirl who is able to let you believe that they're enjoying themselves with you sexually even if you aren't in your prime (not that it'd be any different with a young man necessarily). A customer will appreciate being 'liked' personally--there's no difference between a flight attendant's friendly attention or a waitress laughing at your jokes...it's just the tip and service fee are different. When I'm laughing with some bargirl in Thailand or even here in the Philippines, I know I'm 'fun' and 'charming' so a couple of hours with me is not an egregious experience...but past the lady drinks and good chatting fun, I am always straightforward with them and give them a nice tip for having spent their time with me. Yeah, I know--it's their job...but there's no payoff for them with me for time spent with a walk to the nearby hotel--so I always leave a tip at the end. It's not as much as for their full services, but it's fair.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +3

      @@chrisjuricichxl5 yes, there's the rub.

    • @BillyTheKid-l5j
      @BillyTheKid-l5j 4 місяці тому +1

      Geez who would want to marry one of them ??

    • @simba6483
      @simba6483 3 місяці тому

      Sounds about right

  • @MrEye4get
    @MrEye4get Місяць тому +13

    Anyone thinking they will meet the love of their lives in a bar is seriously deluded.

  • @alastairtopham5939
    @alastairtopham5939 4 місяці тому +9

    Excellent informative video about relationships with bar girls and also generally about Thai women. Thank you!

  • @erikrisdal3974
    @erikrisdal3974 4 місяці тому +14

    If a guy comes to Thailand without a lady companion he is close to 100% sure to make use of a bar or massage girl. I have seen this after more than 30 years in Asia.

  • @alexspano6970
    @alexspano6970 4 місяці тому +13

    I've been going to Pattaya for nearly 20 yrs. I have always found Girls / Freelancers on the streets, Beach Rd (Coconut Bar) I have never had a problem. I make sure they have all Id cards, check them in @ your hotel. No Id cards etc then no girl. Never go to a short time room of their choosing unless you have someone with you to hold your phone, money etc. I very rarely get a Girl from a Bar. I rarely go to Walking St or Soi 6. I like the Soi Buakhao, LK Metro, Soi Pothole area's.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +3

      If I were still in the game, I would not choose a freelancer.

    • @alexspano6970
      @alexspano6970 4 місяці тому +7

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand But a lot of (not most) freelancers are girls who are "Freelancing" on their day or days off or after hours. But I can only talk on my own experiences & the people I go to Pattaya with.

    • @jimgoodreau1245
      @jimgoodreau1245 3 місяці тому +1

      My first time in pattaya, i herd beach road at 1.30 am was a great spot to meet! I am 77 years old and a bit nervous. A girl smiled and i knew. Explaining i might need a little help,she exclaimed enthusiastically i guarantee it. Mission accomplished

    • @BillyTheKid-l5j
      @BillyTheKid-l5j 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@jimgoodreau1245
      Was the bar girl 77 ?...
      🤣🤣🤣😅🤣

    • @regnorse
      @regnorse 3 місяці тому +1

      @@jimgoodreau1245 isnt 1.30am like climbing everest at 77??

  • @MalMilligan
    @MalMilligan 4 місяці тому +6

    Very good report as usual. The "monthly" pay bar girls get is usually a series of 10 day contracts they call "tags". I have no idea where the word "tag" comes from but many use that phrase. SO they might get 8,000 baht for selling 50 drinks in 10 days as a bonus. Plus 50 bat per drink. Some live at the bar if there are rooms upstairs for free during their tag.

  • @vickarch
    @vickarch 4 місяці тому +4

    Yours is the Best presentation of working girls in Thailand. Truths only. Thank you.
    I look forward to viewing your videos on their downside, which are very weighty.

  • @bucsimon
    @bucsimon 4 місяці тому +3

    First time ever to your video. You have a great potential to be great Thailand UA-camrs.

  • @maxmaxwell8200
    @maxmaxwell8200 3 дні тому +1

    very informative ty

  • @travelwithdebandnick
    @travelwithdebandnick 28 днів тому +3

    Wow that was really interesting thank you for sharing

  • @dirkdiggler164
    @dirkdiggler164 3 місяці тому +6

    Informative + True enough. I would add that you are in the hands of a professional and well,out of your depth. I am a long term resident and seldom indulge now, the conversation is near identical and normally liberally laced with BS. The golden thread that runs through most Bar Girls is this: Greed. Once apparent, get rid asap. Rare as it may be, there are decent Women pushed into bar work through circumstance, and a need to make quick money. They may appear initially aloof, often late 30’s early 40’s. Single parents and do not appear to quite fit. Bar work also changes women quickly, alcohol, cynicism and disrespect uncommon in most mainstream Thai women. Never forget, this is a business, and a Foreigner is all you will ever be. Learning a little Thai is certainly “Very enlightening”

  • @fanyong7883
    @fanyong7883 4 місяці тому +11

    Not all bar girls are bad, just be careful

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +3

      I am well aware of that and have never said they were all bad.

    • @jonjonmark
      @jonjonmark 4 місяці тому +2

      You have to understand the mindset and why personally I would never start a relationship with a woman that works in the bar because there may be 200 other men lined up for what you want with her

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +4

      @@jonjonmark I personally don't want a woman who's had more pricks than a second hand dartboard.

  • @Truthseeker371
    @Truthseeker371 3 місяці тому +17

    Isn't it the same backhome? Money can buy sex, but not sincere love.

  • @user-qp6lm9zt3c
    @user-qp6lm9zt3c 2 місяці тому +8

    Every human interaction is transactional.
    Every male-female interaction involves a quid pro quo.

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 місяці тому +1

      i have spent so much money on all of my ex's. Even females that I say, I dont want you, they still ask for money. time, money, chores, women are always trying to extract stuff from men and many times with no intention of any type of repayment.

  • @tonyhamilton6948
    @tonyhamilton6948 4 місяці тому +9

    I agree with you Sir, Bar Girls aren't Bad, they are like you said, either try to look after themselves and/or their family and using what they have. If I was their, Yes I would be one of their customers but I would try my best to be one good terrms with them so when they do tell their friends, it can be within Respect and Kindness, cause my Motto in Life is simply "Be Cool".

  • @jimmyzarkis6276
    @jimmyzarkis6276 2 місяці тому +3

    i like how this is simple and easy to follow. Boring side, but no crazy sound and noise and bright lights to distract you. Still find it funny that the girls that hit me up on Thai Fr ly are giving me high prices. 3k short term and 5k long term. Some double that. The ones that do it, I am like why would I pay for you? I can get better for free where I am. I guess some girls have to work harder then others.

  • @chrisjuricichxl5
    @chrisjuricichxl5 4 місяці тому +5

    as ever, simple talk and explanations without judgment. I never worry too much about any attachments to Thai bargirls as 1) I'm married and have a wife to return to 2) dipping my wick into that potential venereal pool of STDs and HIV is offputting...but not enough to NOT enjoy their company and the tiny, illicit thrills of flirting. I always let them know that I'm not taking them back to my hotel room or to a local room. If they enjoy our company and you keep the ladydrinks flowing, fun can be had.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +3

      Sounds like you have the right attitude, keep it up.

    • @gunnaronholiday916
      @gunnaronholiday916 Місяць тому

      YEZZZ I do the same, lots of fun, lots of nice girls/people to meet, only the hard-core girls in the hard-core places walks away after the first drink. I give the nice girls not only lady drinks but a nice tip when I go home. Its only sometimes destroid by hard core mamasans that want me to buy drinks to many girls at same time, if they dont stop I just walk away to next bar. Lots and lots of good fun.

  • @invisiblerevolution
    @invisiblerevolution 4 місяці тому +2

    RESPECT the honesty 👏🏾
    Unlike....
    "Sunshine Shoulders" who has 7 children, tellin men to stop thinkin only about WOMEN.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      He seems to have many listeners.

    • @christopherhill7131
      @christopherhill7131 4 місяці тому +1

      What does Sunshine Shoulders have to do with this? He’s in the Philippines.

    • @invisiblerevolution
      @invisiblerevolution 4 місяці тому +1

      @christopherhill7131
      The same game is being played over there in the Philippines too... and you already know this!

  • @AzerPaul
    @AzerPaul 4 місяці тому +5

    All good info to know. Thanks.

  • @vader779
    @vader779 Місяць тому +4

    Not all passport bros are naive to the game. Many are former military and have been to many countries so it’s not their first visit

  • @frazbgy
    @frazbgy 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for sharing,I am planning my first trip to Thailand.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      Good luck, wear a raincoat when it's wet, stay safe and don't leave your big head at the airport

    • @mikehunt5637
      @mikehunt5637 4 місяці тому +2

      Dude. Either go to a soapy massage parlor or Cafe Thermae. An hour for a soapy massage will cost about $74 for a regular room and it is full service. As soon as you decide on the type of room a ton of girls for you to choose will line up for you to chose one of them (or two if you pay for it). Cafe Thermae is good if you want to take a girl back to your room, but she will probably cost just a little bit more at (around $81) for an hour. Don't choose the same girl twice.
      If you go to a soapy massage parlor, you shouldn't have any worries about your money/wallet. If you take a girl back to your hotel room, ALWAYS have your valuables (anything you consider valuable) in the hotel safe and when your girl goes into the shower, go ahead an put your wallet in the safe too and don't take it out until she goes back into the shower to clean up.

  • @MrPat59
    @MrPat59 4 місяці тому +7

    It’s a business to the girls, simple as that, they have to pay for their education and families,

  • @KPyoutube24
    @KPyoutube24 4 місяці тому +3

    nice video with a lot of pertinent info....thank you....have you visited many of the bars on Soi 6?....i have recently come across one of the few bars there that still do a Live Stream (Desire on Soi 6), where the girls ask for you to buy them a drink....they basically don't do much but flirt with you, stand around looking pretty, and jive talking with you through a couple of the workers who know some English....i really feel sorry for them that they have to be in this kind of profession, but i understand that life is often hard, so no judgement here....i have grown fond of a few of the ladies at that club, and if i ever become a wealthy person, i would visit Pattaya and Desire on Soi 6, and give the ladies some real cash....maybe enough for her to get out of that profession and do something more rewarding and with less risk of danger....don't want a relationship with these bar girls, but would love to help if i could....

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому

      You are a rare gem.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 місяці тому

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand - thank you....

    • @regnorse
      @regnorse 3 місяці тому

      what danger?

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 2 місяці тому

      @@regnorse - bad treatment from foreign men who are only looking to 'cut another notch under their belt' and just looking to use the ladies for their own selfish purposes....the risk of STD's....etc.

  • @DanStratocaster1
    @DanStratocaster1 7 днів тому +2

    Good job.

  • @tariqahassan5692
    @tariqahassan5692 Місяць тому +4

    Actually, I learned so many new English words in this video except the word "cobbers" Anyone can explain its meaning pls..

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  Місяць тому +3

      Definitions of cobber. noun. Australian term for a pal. type of: brother, buddy, chum, crony, pal, sidekick.

  • @les8518
    @les8518 4 місяці тому +2

    Excellent video. Thank you.

  • @jimgoodreau1245
    @jimgoodreau1245 2 місяці тому +5

    You miss a good point! Many bars have short time rooms available an premises, no need to take out and no bar fines!😊

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 місяці тому +1

      @@philipdupont2308 thats what i heard. bar fine taking them out or keeping them in. kind of think bringing someone to your hotel room or condo is kind of scary. What happens when you fall asleep? are you going to wake up?

    • @davidhartwell4826
      @davidhartwell4826 Місяць тому

      @@jimmyzarkis6276 Fall asleep? Can't you keep going all night?😜

  • @BlackTiger-p8s
    @BlackTiger-p8s 26 днів тому +4

    The land of smiles is much better than the west for men!

  • @alexjackson4558
    @alexjackson4558 Місяць тому +6

    GREAT INFORMATION. IT SOUNDED GREAT UNTIL I THOUGHT ABOUT POSSIBLY CONTRACTING H.I.V. THEN YOU LOST ME!!

  • @AJ_real
    @AJ_real Місяць тому +6

    From looking at the videos on here, I think Pattaya is a sh!thole, I'd never go there.

  • @FINfinFINfinFINfin
    @FINfinFINfinFINfin Місяць тому +9

    I'm surprised nobody has said it, I pay them to leave. I don't want a GF nor a romance. I want my pipes flushed and then I'll drink a beer with me mates.

  • @user-fv8lm8hs9s
    @user-fv8lm8hs9s 4 місяці тому +5

    Absolutely 💯 correct

  • @allenhill1223
    @allenhill1223 2 місяці тому +5

    I like argentina myself.🎉

  • @caperboy1169
    @caperboy1169 4 місяці тому +8

    It’s not a very smart thing to do. Imagine the STD ?

  • @sgtzulu2507
    @sgtzulu2507 3 місяці тому +1

    Great information thank you sir.

  • @KMOinT
    @KMOinT 4 місяці тому +10

    I am sure there are many bar girls in Thailand that would like to have a real relationship, and a normal job.
    However… due to circumstances beyond their control, such as lack of education, and/or family responsibilities, they must work doing what they can to make money.
    I actually had a relationship with a bar girl when I first arrived in Thailand.
    While we did have sex, I never paid for it. I would however buy her food and coffee in the mornings.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      You are correct, I doubt they graduated high school with the dream of becoming a bar girl (well some may have).

    • @KMOinT
      @KMOinT 4 місяці тому +2

      It is what they have chosen for a job. 7-11 workers probably make 9-10k per month.
      I can see what lures these girls into the bar scene at a young age.
      Once they realize that is not the job they really wanted, it is already too late.
      Just my thoughts on it.

    • @jimlawrence4046
      @jimlawrence4046 4 місяці тому +3

      Unfortunately some realise that with there limited opportunities, the money they can as a prostitute , with other dubious income streams such as sponsorship from several people is better than being in a normal relationship

    • @terrymedlicott3580
      @terrymedlicott3580 3 місяці тому +6

      None of it is beyond their control , it is a lifestyle choice . Most squander the money they get. A little bit is sent to families, do not fall for the hard luck stories.

    • @BillyTheKid-l5j
      @BillyTheKid-l5j 3 місяці тому +1

      We rescued a dog in walking st pattaya back in 1999 poor dog, we brought him back home and named him Noi, only problem was he would "hump" any thing ! Even the cat and chickens on the farm ....

  • @taalofaa
    @taalofaa 4 місяці тому +8

    I remember my first year in Los Angeles , Ca . USA. Dance halls with Mexican ,Chicana and Latina girls were everywhere. To this day not one hispanic can point out the difference between the three. Anyhow these dance halls were packed full of girls. To dance with them you had to buy tickets which were 50 cents for a minute. Zero desired to slow dance so there you were dancing to a mike jackson songs 50 cents a minute. A typical song cost you 1.50 - 2.50. I know it does not sound like a lot but if you got up and danced an hour with a girl it add up. Drinks were 75 cents even for water.
    Thailand back then a girl would go home wit you for 5 dollars as a comparison

    • @pietromora2297
      @pietromora2297 Місяць тому

      Yeah even the early 90,s the ladies were going back to your room for 200 or 300 baht, 12 to 15 bucks.
      I think these days it's just to easy for them to make money on their drinks.
      Although that's when you play hardball, see I,ve always had a theory about The typical Thai bar girl, that is the more money she makes the more she can spend on her hair,nails, shopping, gold and let's not forget her family and secret Thai boyfriend. And of course her friends out in the night clubs flashing all your money around fkn Classic game mate 😂

  • @maydolonghydroponicslettuc7267
    @maydolonghydroponicslettuc7267 4 місяці тому +8

    My husband is there right now having fun while me depressed.enjoying he’s life without he’s family waiting for him to come back.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +5

      I really don't know how to respond to your situation.

    • @28pbtkh23
      @28pbtkh23 4 місяці тому +2

      Why do you put up with this?

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 4 місяці тому +5

      Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
      Troll 🧌 identified.

    • @KoKo-kf4nt
      @KoKo-kf4nt 4 місяці тому +7

      He’ll come back with renewed energy, don’t be calling him with ur depressive chats FFS l leave him alone for a few weeks❤

    • @user-dz5js7jy9i
      @user-dz5js7jy9i 4 місяці тому +4

      Think you need to look at yourself as to why he wants to go there. I'm guessing the fun has filtered away from the relationship? Can't really blame him

  • @phillippe9458
    @phillippe9458 4 місяці тому +1

    Right, right and right. Can only agree. If you seriously looking for a Thai relation why not consider another city then the 3 mentioned? A relation with a beer bar "lady" is a great way to spend lots of Baht. And at the end...? I came to Thailand the first time 2006 and worked in a beer bar for two years. One emplyee told me as a joke: tee rak, rak mak,mak (darling I love you very much)..but i LOVE YOUR MONEY MORE. And, frankly, in a beer bar is it all about money. Your money. Don´t send money when you return home. If you finally like to settle down, don´t build a house in her small village. Consult a lawer and speak with expats. Start with this: I don´t have money.

  • @WychardNL
    @WychardNL 4 місяці тому +4

    The Thai girl want to hold hands while walking to send the message to other Thai girls that her farang is occupied...

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      Thai girl, yes. Thai bar girl, I think it is part of the act to convince you she cares for you.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 місяці тому +2

      and have to watch out for the the loosing face thing

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 місяці тому +1

      @@marksallai2289 - what is 'loosing face' in their country?

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 місяці тому +2

      @@KPyoutube24 in there Head loosing face is you picking up a different girl from her bar or even walking past with another girl - but she can have as many blokes or customers as she wants work that one out - sometimes it depends on the girl or you make it clear from the start you are a Butterfly and will choose other girls

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 місяці тому

      @@marksallai2289 - i understand....but i am not there to be used, either....

  • @robhythe
    @robhythe 4 місяці тому +6

    Most of the bargirls are ordinary caring ladies trying to make some money for there families as you say , alot are there for a few years and hope to go back or get other jobs ! They have a salary so most won't go with a fella if they don't want too ! They get better at getting lady drinks !
    I go to Thailand as it's beautiful and visit all over the country seeing all the temples etc , so don't put all men in the same boat ! I do visit Bangkok and Pattaya and enjoy what's on offer and on average pay £1500 for long time ! Some ladies do really want relationships with foreign men !
    Most as I said are caring and want to be loved but obviously need money for there families!
    Please don't stereotype all of them !
    Ive been going for alot of years !

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +3

      I do not judge bar girls and am well aware they have few choices to support themselves and their families. Freelancers, on the other hand are another breed of cattle.

    • @28pbtkh23
      @28pbtkh23 4 місяці тому +3

      He did not stereotype them. He explicitly said that he does not think that these girls are bad, and that they do this job merely due to circumstances, namely poverty and limited education.

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 4 місяці тому

      If they don't go with fellas they don't get salary.
      It's more Commission based work.

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 4 місяці тому

      ​@@28pbtkh23actually many are BAD.

    • @robhythe
      @robhythe 4 місяці тому

      Understood ! What I should have put was anyone watching shouldn't judge or stereotype ! As alot of people do !

  • @keepitreal1547
    @keepitreal1547 4 місяці тому +5

    WOW that 80% figure is huge.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      It does seem large but I can only repeat what research shows me.

    • @keepitreal1547
      @keepitreal1547 4 місяці тому +2

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand
      Sure Ray & maybe it is correct.

  • @denegodinho2617
    @denegodinho2617 4 місяці тому +1

    I don't mind taking up a job there and working there in Thailand.

  • @matthewbaker6177
    @matthewbaker6177 Місяць тому +3

    One group of men you did not cover is people like me, who really do not want to get married. I am happy to enjoy short term casual relationships. But there it ends. I get all the tricks played on me and I laugh and walk away.

  • @606pretty
    @606pretty 4 місяці тому +3

    I really want to go for my 60th Birthday in June. I've traveled for love or the feeling of in Colombia and The DR. You really do fall for these chics! Yes knowing what they do! In America there is no dating with attractive women @ @n older age!!!!

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 місяці тому +2

      Correct. As an older guy, you have to head to SE Asia.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      As long as you are in good health, finding true love in Thailand is not difficult.

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 місяці тому +5

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand I think it is basically impossible to stay single in Thailand. It is the polar opposite of the west, where so many of the women are bossy, entitled, overweight and bitter.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +3

      @@Nordic_Sky You describe them pretty well. I have been married to my Thai lady for 14 years and if we parted, I would not even consider dating a western woman.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 місяці тому +3

      Yes an Older man can live again in Thailand 100% - when you come back from Thailand Western girls will hardly cross your mind any more in fact you tend to avoid them

  • @mangostickyrice555
    @mangostickyrice555 4 місяці тому +2

    Thumbs up 👍 Ray

  • @geraldrakers4746
    @geraldrakers4746 2 місяці тому +1

    You my friend are 100%correct😂.

  • @user-tz4zm7fv9d
    @user-tz4zm7fv9d 4 місяці тому +1

    Same here in the USA, over here more younger and have pimp to correct money sometimes I feel sorry for the girls 😢😢

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому

      I suspect it is somewhat different but I understand your point.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 місяці тому

      with looking at videos and doing some other research, i too am starting to feel sorry for a lot of these young girls and ladies that have to work in this type of industry, and give much of themselves, just to not get much in return from their job....i don't agree with it, and i think anyone that get's scammed in this information technology age is just a foolish person, but i can see why many of these girls result to trying to scam anyone they can that can get them the money they need to take care of themselves and their families....it's often a cruel world out here....

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      @@KPyoutube24 You obviously understand the way it is. I personally have a lot of sympathy for girls with no choice but to screw fat, smelly old me to earn a living.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 місяці тому

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand - yes, i agree, especially for women who may not have any other means to make a living because of the poor conditions of their country....

  • @johnerdelyi4208
    @johnerdelyi4208 4 місяці тому +2

    It's worth all the risks just do it 😊 !

  • @tyreeballard
    @tyreeballard 7 днів тому +1

    Yeah, ima pass.

  • @606pretty
    @606pretty 4 місяці тому +1

    Whats the date site?

  • @pete531
    @pete531 4 місяці тому +1

    Scene game covered very well.

  • @jdshemp
    @jdshemp 4 місяці тому +5

    Bar Girls Can't eat Love...

  • @2thdriller1
    @2thdriller1 4 місяці тому +1

    maybe a lavalier microphone needed?

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      Maybe you are correct, but for me this non-monetized channel is a pensioner's unpaid hobby, thus I didn't spend thousands to set up a professional studio. Sorry if it does not meet your standards.

  • @606pretty
    @606pretty 4 місяці тому

    Thx u kindly👏👏

  • @jerichojohnson3219
    @jerichojohnson3219 3 місяці тому

    Sir, What's a "cobber" - I'm Filipina

  • @minttrax
    @minttrax 3 місяці тому +1

    nicely done sir love ur work

  • @davidforbes6250
    @davidforbes6250 3 місяці тому +2

    Beauty Newc!

  • @dannyw2313
    @dannyw2313 Місяць тому +3

    How accurate is it please, that most freelancers have HIV and such like. This is why they don’t work in a bar?

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  Місяць тому +3

      According to my research, many bars require the girls to be tested regularly for STDs, this is not true for freelancers.

    • @matthewbaker6177
      @matthewbaker6177 Місяць тому

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand actually many bars do not test anymore. They did when it was considered a thing. Only a few actually have the girls tested now. And yes freelancers are a mix of those who can't or shouldn't work in the bars due to their disease carrying status, but also ladies after a bit of extra cash. It really is a lottery and one I am not prepared to play. I avoid all freelancers personally.

    • @tinacollins9213
      @tinacollins9213 29 днів тому

      620,000 have HIV in Thailand 10,060 new cases in Pattaya

  • @vinz224
    @vinz224 4 місяці тому +2

    All thought most of the gals ive run across in the bars demand condoms I wonder are they required to test regularly for HIv and other STD?

  • @hakkikilic4503
    @hakkikilic4503 4 місяці тому +1

    I really wonder the bar girl's average monthly salary including everything. I guess it's 20000 baht a month.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      Including everything I would guess closer to 50k plus.

    • @pete531
      @pete531 4 місяці тому

      dont worry, they make BANK, i've seen it

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 місяці тому +2

      Not even close. More like 30-50K baht.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      @@Nordic_Sky probably a lot more in many cases.

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 місяці тому +1

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand No doubt there are a small number who are busy all the time and have several foreign sponsors. They can make much more. However, I think the vast majority of them are in the 30-50K range, which is still attractive compensation for an uneducated girl whose alternative is an 8K factory job in Isaan, or 10-15K in a dead-end job in BKK. But most of these women have a kid at home being raised by grandma, so they need the money.

  • @user-pz2mj1cu8w
    @user-pz2mj1cu8w 4 місяці тому +3

    If renting girl for night, is there a blood check place to get tested for social deceases and hiv? That's what i'd do or wear a rubber

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      Yes, there are labs, clinics, and hospitals that can check but it is easier to just be sensible and wear a raincoat.

    • @user-pz2mj1cu8w
      @user-pz2mj1cu8w 4 місяці тому

      Thank you I'm suscribed. Like your channel

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому

      @@user-pz2mj1cu8w thanks for your support.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 місяці тому +2

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand - pretty risky, even if wearing a jimmy....they can sometime come loose or break....sex with loose women, wherever you are, is always a risk....should probably try to just get to know her for several days, and see if you feel comfortable taking the next step to the sack....

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      @@KPyoutube24 How will you ascertain whether someone has an STD by chatting? I doubt they will volunteer this info, and I know they are well versed actresses.

  • @Dutch-Buddha
    @Dutch-Buddha 4 місяці тому +3

    on 04.33 u say 6.000 per month bud u mean 60.000 i think

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +5

      Not 60,000 per month. 6,000 -9,000 is the average salary paid by the bar owner.

    • @Dutch-Buddha
      @Dutch-Buddha 4 місяці тому +1

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand so she have 500 barfine and then 6,000 Monthly salary paidt by the bar oner and then wat she Negotiates whit the costumur

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      @@Dutch-Buddha yep, 6000. Some bars give some of the fine, but not all. Yep, she keeps all the client pays.

    • @arttynes3558
      @arttynes3558 4 місяці тому

      60,000 would be the low end
      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +3

      @@arttynes3558 if you are referring to gross income from sex services, you are probably correct but the 6000 - 9000 is on average what the bar owner pays as monthly salary.

  • @shanehester5317
    @shanehester5317 Місяць тому +4

    i have a question.why go through all that when in a developed country getting an escort is a phone call away.

    • @Kalervo80
      @Kalervo80 Місяць тому +1

      I guess depends on the country, but in some countries its 1 hour of poor service for almost 10x of the price that a full day of good service would cost in Thailand

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  27 днів тому +1

      Are you implying that Thailand is undeveloped?

    • @TheSuperdodgy
      @TheSuperdodgy 4 дні тому

      Have a good long look at the quality of the escort that shows up. A 40+ clapped out old ugly moll.

  • @denegodinho2617
    @denegodinho2617 4 місяці тому +2

    I am looking for a serious relationship with a bar girl from Thailand. If all goes well I will marry her.
    Now I am living in Bangalore, India. Hoping to make a trip to Thailand after couple of months. Its 10:10pm now in India

  • @johnrburr
    @johnrburr 2 місяці тому +3

    Many of the girls are looking for a good husband, and a usual precursor to this has the man return to his country and pay her money monthly to 'reserve' her, as it were. He'll return, perhaps many times, as the relationship progresses.
    Some girls maintain several such men who are unaware of the others, having been convinced that they're the only one. A big giveaway is her unavailability when you expect to be able to have exclusive access, and get your money's worth.
    Although such deceptions can be highly lucrative for a girl, many - most - must support their children after the father has abandoned them, and their entire extended family may be relying on their income. Additionally, it's unlikely they'll ever be able to save money, or even have it occur to them to ferret any away for a rainy day!

    • @sambog2635
      @sambog2635 2 місяці тому

      u mean use commonsense???

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 місяці тому

      this just in, women in the US maintain a roster list of guys that may or may not know about each other that pay all their bills. nothing special there just more open.

    • @giggergigger1
      @giggergigger1 12 днів тому

      Relationship bro really ? rofl 😂

  • @eyermolochis6707
    @eyermolochis6707 Місяць тому +1

    How much is 4000b

  • @SeanBunzick
    @SeanBunzick 2 місяці тому +1

    Great video and TOTALLY True but the airport IS pronounced "Soo-Wanna-Poom", NOT "Soo-Varna-Bhumi"...;-)

  • @davidsmith5239
    @davidsmith5239 4 місяці тому +2

    Never heard of a bargirl’s getting 50% of the barfine!! Usually only 100 baht 🤨

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      I stressed "sometimes, but not often", the girl gets 1/2.

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 4 місяці тому

      ​@@AllAboutLifeInThailandhard to believe

    • @pete531
      @pete531 4 місяці тому +1

      i have seen it, they share barfine sometimes. i mean girls gets a cut of the BF you paid

    • @michaelwolff264
      @michaelwolff264 3 місяці тому

      Actually some girls tip the mamasan on top

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 2 місяці тому +6

    Passport bros are incredibly naive. They really are blind to see they are being taken for a ride

    • @PM-lz5gs
      @PM-lz5gs 2 місяці тому

      They obviously still beat western women hands down!

    • @muppet64
      @muppet64 17 днів тому

      At least I'm only losing $100 with a Thai girl. A western Girl will take My kids, house, half my salary and pension. Do the maths @Scorned. Most guys that go to Thailand have been burned already by a western girl, that's why they prefer the arrangement in Thailand.

  • @stevelaconte8802
    @stevelaconte8802 4 місяці тому +1

    Sad but sounds like fun lol

  • @michaelhume7694
    @michaelhume7694 28 днів тому +1

    Is there any lesbian women in thiland

  • @TheDrakulie
    @TheDrakulie 2 місяці тому +6

    i don't like iusing condoms

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  2 місяці тому +5

      Then take your chances.

    • @TheDrakulie
      @TheDrakulie 2 місяці тому +4

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand Not worried about getting any girl pregnant but more worried about catching HIV

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 місяці тому +1

      thats what every one in the US says to me too. I also take a pill for that as well. Not sure if they have something like that similar in other countries. Still don't trust just using it. But i use condoms and the anti viral pills. and i still dont trust them both.

    • @boixos46
      @boixos46 Місяць тому

      @@TheDrakulie when its raining i take allways a rain jacket for not get sick

    • @davidhartwell4826
      @davidhartwell4826 Місяць тому +1

      Who does but it's necessary when having sex with strangers to prevent spread of STI's. Most working girls will insist they be used. Answer is to have one regular girlfriend but that is like going to Skegness for your holiday every year. You know, been there, done that, know every inch of it and it's often a bit dull.

  • @TL-xw6fh
    @TL-xw6fh 15 днів тому +2

    I have always boycott flying to Thailand simply because of this seedy part of the country. It has gained such a bad reputation that no sensible family man will even want to go there.

    • @GeFarr
      @GeFarr 8 днів тому +1

      Too bad for you living your life like that. Tijuana has a bad rep to but geuss what it's also AWESOME. THAILAND ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ you're a 🤡

    • @TheSuperdodgy
      @TheSuperdodgy 4 дні тому

      Sorry to hear that you are denying yourself such a fantastic experience.

  • @Crazyhorse71
    @Crazyhorse71 24 дні тому

    omg 180 thb...555

  • @LonglingEriksen
    @LonglingEriksen Місяць тому +3

    she did hurt you?

  • @singas2854
    @singas2854 4 місяці тому +1

    Dates 😂😂😂

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +1

      A good option.

    • @singas2854
      @singas2854 4 місяці тому +2

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand paid visits more like it 😂😂

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 місяці тому +2

      @@singas2854 In some cases highly overpaid with poor service.

    • @singas2854
      @singas2854 4 місяці тому +4

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand 😂😂😂 upto you

    • @GeeCeeWU
      @GeeCeeWU 4 місяці тому

      @@singas2854 It's never up to you as they will haggle.

  • @user-qs8lq7ok9d
    @user-qs8lq7ok9d 4 місяці тому +4

    I love Thai girls.

  • @taalofaa
    @taalofaa 4 місяці тому +3

    Good presentation. I have trust isues and since my first stop in thailand was pat pong saw bar girls so old they had cobwebs on their legs and ass prints on the seats.

  • @MrKen-mc4bu
    @MrKen-mc4bu Місяць тому +3

    You are out of touch with the current prices for bar fines in Pattaya. The prices for bar fines have increased dramatically since COVID finished. I've seen bar fines alone of 2,000 Baht - and - even HIGHER on Walking Street and in LK Metro! In addition to that - some girls are asking for 5,000 Baht for SHORT TIME!!

    • @user-on2se7eo1q
      @user-on2se7eo1q 28 днів тому +1

      @@MrKen-mc4bu Why would you ever go to Walking Street or an A-Go-Go bar? Ridiculous prices.

    • @muppet64
      @muppet64 17 днів тому +2

      The only reason Girls quote 5,000 Baht for short time is because they really DON'T want to go back to your room. They are saving face, instead of saying no, they quote the high price. So either you are fat, old, boring, smelly or all of the above!!! Believe me, if it was a fit 19 YO they wanted to be with, the price would be a lot lower.

  • @tomc.2808
    @tomc.2808 19 днів тому +2

    I hope that girls have some oxygen masks for these older customers...🩺🧯