*NEW* Conspiracy Theories and WE GOT OUR SPERM TESTED!!! ua-cam.com/video/FIdT0mTDTmI/v-deo.html *NEW MAIN CHANNEL VIDEO* ua-cam.com/video/W-lV-VaQkQ0/v-deo.html Hope you guys enjoy the episode!! Thank you for all the love and sweet messages about Ryland and I’s announcement.
I can't even express how much I love Ryland's responses whenever someone calls in and says that their partner is cheating... Everyone else is like "I'm sorry, that sucks, break up with him, tell him how you feel, etc." and Ryland is like "MURDER IS THE ANSWER"
I’m a bit embarrassed to post this but…my husband and I used to watch you guys every time a new podcast or vlog was posted. We love you guys, and also we were your neighbors in Parker and loved seeing the town on your videos, but this is the first podcast I watch without him since he suddenly passed three weeks ago of a heart attack. It’s such a weird feeling. Also, congrats on the twins! It’s a wild ride having children but very much worth it.
so sorry for ur loss omg pls maintain a positive mindset life will go on and u couldnt have done anything to stop it but atkeast u made him happy while he was alive pls be ok
Wow I have no words that could make you feel any better after everything you’ve been through. I cannot even imagine what kind of pain that you’re going through 😢. HUGE respect to you for opening up about SUCH a a difficult topic 😢❤. I really really REALLY hope that Shane sees this and I would make it my PERSONAL mission to try and get you and this comment and story noticed. As of course with a huge following like Shane has, it can be pretty difficult for him to see or acknowledge it (due to all of the comments) But I honestly believe that if he heard your story and what you’ve been through… that you both LOVED shane , his content etc and the tragedies that you have been through so recently… I honestly believe that Shane would be flattered, honoured and absolutely sympathetic towards you and your recent loss 😢😔 If you ever need to talk to someone about this, my personal recommendation would be to open up as best as you can😔. I’m sure that what you’ve been through is one of the worst things imaginable and if Shane found out and heard your experience I believe he’d comfort you and shout him out in their (your partners) memory ❤️ I don’t know what else to say other than you’re an ABSOLUTE LEGEND AND SURVIVOR!! And I’ll be thinking of you today and praying for your well-being. Thank you for being a beautiful human being and sharing your story because I’m sure you’re helping so many others in not feeling alone and because it’s so recent and fresh, I applaud you for your bravery and it may not feel this way rn but eventually you will be stronger and will help others who go through the same thing by sharing ❤️❤️stay strong so sorry for your loss and thinking of you ❤❤❤
@@MillenialMellow omg… don’t know what to say…this has lifted my spirits like you have no idea. We’re on our way this morning to spread his ashes in the ocean. We’ve been having a hard time since his passing but we’re safe and alright and moving forward. I think he would love this message and get a big kick out of Shane or Ryland liking this or comento g. He’d probably be laughing. We did once see Ryland driving around Downtown Parker. We were chuckling and saying ‘oh my gourd’ as we drove behind him.
Respectfully, as a mom who breastfed, "letdown" most typically refers to the point in time where a baby is breastfeeding and your milk starts flowing. It can also happen if your boobs decide "I'm full and not waiting for baby to be ready". It can be itchy, or painful, or have a wave of emotion or feeling of relief. It is different for every woman.
Definitely different for every woman. I unfortunately never got to breast feed. My milk never came in...I never knew that could even happen but it happened..my boobs never swelled..never leaked..never hardened...never nothing..I was so disappointed.
Thank you! This is what I came to say as well. I have breastfed both my kids. Had different experiences with PPD and also the let down sensations were totally different with both. I didn’t have the emotional piece with my first, but did with my second. It depends on the person and situation.
exactly. I hate the podcasts where their whole channel depends on other people creating drama and then they talk about it for as long as they can. Shane's podcast brings their own entertainment and doesn't depend on any other content
You’re tired of it but you made a random comment bringing it up anyway? Nothing about that was talked about in this video.. but y’all will still find a way to bring it in the conversation lol. If you don’t like drama then stop talking about it and bringing it up anytime you get a chance. Even if it’s supposed to be a compliment; your logic just doesn’t make sense. Drama only survives as long as people feed into it and talk about it. Sounds like you guys love drama lmao
SHANE PLEASE SHOW THE VIDEO OF THE GIRL ON THE PLANE SAYING SOMEONE WAS FAKE. it actually sounded real and like she was scared, i wanna hear yall talk about it
"Let down" in regards to breast feeding is when the breast milk flows. I remember when my son was an infant, I could think of him, or even just see his picture when we were apart and that would stimulate my breasts to begin leaking. It's an unbelievable and intense bond between the mother and baby. Extremely beautiful experience!
Yes! Came to comment this, because his research on let down wasn’t the same as what I was told. Your comment is what happens to me or when milk just starts to free flow during a feed
I've known that to be called a MILK DOWN. I remember I was in the store and my daughter wasn't even with me and a baby started crying.. So I started leaking lmao. Babies are a damn mess 😂😂
This episode got me so excited! Shane and Ryland having twins soon, Jerid's new music, Chris thriving life, I'm so happy for all of you!!!! This episode has a lot of surprises!! It's like the balloons that carry presents in the Animal Crossing games!!!
i’ve never really understood the appeal of podcast where a group of friends just sits and talks about random things… i started watching your podcast a few days ago and have had them on constantly ever since. y’all are hilarious, entertaining, thoughtful, and truly caring and empathetic people. i’m a long time shane fan and usually gravitated towards the more produced videos and series, but now can also say i love these more casual chit chat videos! i’m almost done with all the episodes and can’t wait for more! and congrats on your wonderful news! 🎉
One thing that I’d love to share with you that you might find great to share with your own kids is…. that they were VERY planned. When you are born out of the “norm” it helps to hear how much your parents fought to have you. My dad had his vasectomy reversed (after 3 kids before he met my mom and my mom raised a son on her own). Even though they are a straight couple, they made the decision for no more kids until they met each other. they really really wanted to have a kid together. Odds were against them, There was the possibility it wouldn’t work.. cost a lot of money, surgery, etc…but it did. They tell me all the time “we loved you before we knew you and you were VERY very very planned” ♥️ it’s weird to say but makes me feel so genuinely connected because even in a world where it couldn’t happen.. they did everything to have me here♥️ your babies already have the best parents. So happy for you both! @shane @shane2
As a mama who’s been pregnant and or breastfeeding for almost 4 years…a let down is actually a tingling sensation that happens in your boob at the start of a feed and then your milk will essentially spray out. What you’re talking about is called D-MER, it’s where you become sad, depressed, homesick feeling while you’re feeding your baby. I haven’t personally experienced it but have seen mamas that have and they gave up breastfeeding because it was so draining on their mental health.
Twin momma you saw at Buy Buy baby here: Don’t count on that due date, my twins came on Thanksgiving (36 weeks 0 days). Original due date was 12/22/22. So happy for you guys!!!
It's crazy how I started to watch Shane when I was 14, and now I'm 27 and having a baby in a few weeks also 😭 OG UA-cam really is growing together, take for example Pewdiepie and these two.. ❤
I’ve been watching Shane since I was about 9, and he’s got me thru all the phases of my life, being a clueless kid an angsty confused teen. Last month June 8th my girlfriend passed of an overdose. I’ve struggled with drugs myself and didn’t really know how I was gonna combat this loss and sobriety. I never really thought I’d smile again. But I always get excited when I see a new video, and I just wanted to say thank you to this wonderful group, and pour my heart out to Shane♥️ I love all of you and thank you for being such positive people
I’m pretty sure what he’s talking about is actually DMER, right? And I don’t think most moms experience it. I’m on my third year of breastfeeding two children and I’ve never experienced it
I thought 'let down' was after the boobs get the milk for the first time, balloon into giant hard rocks that are excruciatingly painful, then the milk flows out. That's what happened to me anyway, 10 days after birthing, i had to formula feed before that and daughter was never able to latch properly. Anyway, i assumed 'let down' was when the milk comes...
So the “letdown” thing doesn’t happen for every person in the way that you’re describing. What you’re describing is D-MER which stands for dysphoric milk ejection reflex. When a letdown happens, which is the body releasing/letting the milk flow from the breast, it can be accompanied with feelings of sadness, anxiety, irritability, and those feelings of depression you’re talking about! So they’re two separate things but also both very real 💕☺️
Came here say that too.. am a breastfeeding mumma atm and was like eh? My letdown is just milk coming out of boobs, usually when feeding from the other haha
I am breastfeeding and do experience D-MER during let downs! I don’t experience feelings of depression but I most definitely experience the anxiety and irritability for about a minute or two during a feed before it goes away!! I was really shocked and impressed that shane had researched this and knew a little about it 💛 you’re going to be great dads!
@@JewelGates he’s definitely describing D-MER but just used the term as the letdown which is part of the experience but it isn’t super common so not as well known. Happens often with exclusively pumping which I did and read about bc of it. Some people describe it as just feeling dread/doom/sadness/overwhelming but it’s only during the letdown and shortly after. I believe it can sometimes be tied to PPD/PPA though but those are definitely an entirely different animal on their own not associated with letdowns💕
@@JewelGatesNo. Post-partum depression is a continuous disorder that happens after giving birth. What he's describing is a temporary fluctuation in emotions caused by hormone fluctuation while lactating. Hormone fluctuations are what causes the milk to flow out of the breast (this is the let down). He's most likely confusing it with D-MER, or dysphoric milk ejection reflex, which happens to up to 10% of women breastfeeding and is indeed caused by the let down. All breastfeeders get let down (milk releasing from the breast) but only some people experience the intense negative feelings (D-MER).
Mommy here 🙋🏼♀️ “let down” usually refers to milk coming out and is usually triggered by your baby feeding , “let down” can leak out of the other breast. It can even be triggered by a baby crying. It’s like your body just knows when it’s time to feed to let down will start to come out and if you don’t release it, your boobs could really hurt bc they’re full . The girl may have just been having those emotions while feeding unfortunately.
Thank you for this!! I already put my own comment on this video but certainly agree with you. I do know when I pumped I was VERY touched out - like NO ONE could touch me, it just made me feel so overwhelmed. But after I was done the feeling went away. But I NEVER experienced thoughts like in the video. I stopped BF a few months ago but I still get weird body urges when I hear a baby crying - even other peoples lol
I looked into this and it’s actually called Dysmorphic Milk Ejection Reflex, or D-MER. It’s from a rush of hormones (and decrease in dopamine!) that help the body to release the milk, which can cause 5-9% of women to have feelings of dread/anxiety/sadness. It’s completely caused by the hormones and not something someone has control over feeling and is something different than just feeling too full and needing the release.
7:41 I'm sobbing. Congratulations Shane & Ryland! You've both come so far & I'm so proud of you. I'm so happy for you, I grew up with you Shane & I'm just beyond words for the Yaw babies!!! I've never been so happy for someone. It's like an old friend - seeing their growth. It's beautiful. You're beautiful. Sending you well wishes & all of the good vibes. I love you both, you're going to be the best dad's. Those babies are going to be SO loved. ❤ And hey, send some baby dust my way too!! 🤞🏻
Already having watched Chris's video when watching this episode, it makes me SO sad that Chris is so down on himself about it. It was a really good video and I would watch anything he put out. He's so talented, as are his co-hosts on this podcast. Chris and Shane are very similar when it comes to self doubting their talent for videos and I wish you guys could see yourselves through, if not my eyes, the eyes of everyone who watches your stuff.
as a juggalo who's been watching this podcast since the beginning and all of y'all's channels for years I was NOT expecting the shout-out but I love it 😂💖 love you guys! Whoop whoop!
This is genuinely the only podcast I could ever watch without ever getting bored, It's a part of my routine, EVERYDAY I watch an old episode and when there's a new one I plan everything around it😭
Since you guys have already done mario and animal Crossing you guys should do sonic for a theme Chris- tails Ryland- amy Shane- sonic Jered- Dr egg man
Chris is such an Angel and he deserves everything good in the world 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶 and I’m so happy for Shane & Ryland & congratulations!!!! And that’s awesome congratulations Jerid!
Congrats to becoming twin fathers!!! I'm looking forward to the day you guys will finally meet the twin babies!!! Also Ryland's isabelle makeup looks amazing!!! This is one of the coolest episodes as a fan of Animal Crossing!!! :)
A milk down is the a rush of milk coming in for about 20-30 seconds. What you’re explaining Shane is sensation of discomfort woman feel when it happens. Some women get very uncomfortable during letdowns and overstimulated but some feel a sense of tingling and no discomfort whatsoever. Depends on the momma!
Shane the only videos I watch on yt are these podcast, literally they make my day. My grandmother recently died.. and I’ve been in my room not able to get out.I’ve watching the podcast episodes on repeat.
Me, five months pregnant and absolutely tearing up at the news and sound of the heart beat of Rylans & Shane’s babies!!!!🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️ so happy for you guys and incredibly proud of the whole team!!!
Shane, seeing u become a dad makes my heart smile. I’ve watched u since I was in kindergarten and now I’m about to turn 20 and I’ve watched every step of the way. It may sound hella weird, but it always felt like you were like a father figure or part of my family just because I’ve watched you age and go through different phases of life and it’s so dope.Ur videos have helped me through life. Ik ur going to b an amazing dad. ❤
im so happy you talked about postpartum depression, its so heartwarming when not only mothers are talking about it! I made a video about this when I was currently in my postpartum depression, it was insane..im writing this so maybe there are some new moms here who can use some help!:)
Even tho I've been a fan of ryland for a long time, i really enjoy seeing him in shane's videos and podcast cuz he looks relaxed and and becomes naturally funny and honest 💛
Okay so breastfed 3 babies and the “letdown” is typically only painful in the first couple weeks after birth. I didn’t experience depression in any of my letdowns, I haven’t heard of that. But the term “letdown” is specifically when the milk comes out at a very fast and continuous state for about 15-30 seconds and it’s when the baby gets the most volume of milk. It also happens on its own when it’s time to breastfeed the baby or when baby is crying. Your boobs literally tell you it’s time lol. It tingles too 😂
Omg the tingles it brings on freaked me out so badly the first couple of times 😂 like a strange ripple feeling from the out side of the breast to the nipple ((shivers)) 😅
Right?? I came here to see if anyone else was like 🤔 when he was describing it lol. I breastfed for two years and there were definitely times I was hormonal but that’s not what the let down is lol
I thought that's what it was called. No one mentioned that term to me but i assumed that's what it was. It was painful, my boobs were like giant hard rocks, at least 500mls came out of them in that time, but i was in so much pain and wasn't expecting it because no one told me about it, i wasn't able to make sure to save it, i just grabbed a random bowl to leak into and it wasn't clean, so that sucked. It;s a problem when hospital staff, midwives, health visitors, and family who have gone through it all don't share crap-all information with young first-time mothers(i was 25yrs old).
Letdown is literally when your milk comes out out of nowhere lol. It's your milk coming down and out. It usually happens when you hear a baby cry (doesn't always have to be your own) and its a tingly sensation that can feel overwhelming and you instantly have this need or desire to help the crying baby
Theyre not talking about the letdown the action of milk release, they’re talking about The Letdown, the book written about and by a woman experiencing D-MER (dysphoric milk ejection reflex) some mothers dopamine bottoms out instead of just dipping to allow lactin to flow, and this causes extreme waves of negative emotion at milk letdown, very much like Shane described. I had it with both babies and actually managed to feed for 3yrs with my second, despite multiple waves at every feed right up to weaning. Waves usually last about 30 seconds but hit you like an absolute gut punch, very hard to explain how you can go from mid conversation to completely side swiped by this Boulder of sickening emotions… and then a few seconds later go back to feeling completely normal
@@shadowlincoln1293 it’s about 12 minutes in. He does a good job of explaining how it feels but he was wrong that it doesn’t happen to all women, the exact number isn’t known still as it’s such a newly named condition but it does happen more than was originally thought. X
I’m a breastfeeding mama right now and you can feel the milk coming in. The amount of anxiety from breastfeeding, and if I’m producing enough etc was so high. I like that Ryland brought that up! Having a baby is so hard but so fun at the same time! I also did IVF so I feel like I can relate
I have 2 kids and don’t want more but I feel v nostalgic when I see babies breastfeeding. It was so lovely. I was worried I’d be sad when I had to stop but it just naturally petered out at the 15 month mark for each xox
It’s so hard isn’t it. There’s definitely not enough information or support especially for breastfeeding mums. Lactation consultants are amazing & that’s what saved my BF journey! Such an amazing thing to experience too, I’m about to have my 2nd ❤
I had a really rough day yesterday, so this podcast was much needed to elevate my mood. I’m watching for the second time because I fell asleep with Hendrix (my Frenchie) earlier this afternoon when I was watching. Congratulations again Shane and Ryland! 🎉 You are going to be incredible parents! 🥰
I think Shane’s advice for Lucas is great! I thought the same thing because he’s taking interest in something she loves while showing interest in her. It’s a great move. She’d be so impressed
Legit didn’t even recognize Ryland, great theme boys! In THE BEST PODCAST NEWS, Shane and Ryland expecting twins tops EVERYTHING!!! I just know that parenting is going to come so natural to the both of you. I am hoping that we will get to see some “reaction videos” of y’all telling Rylands fam, Shane’s fam, friends, etc! Praying for a healthy baby boys and can I just say I absolutely LOVE their names! I can already see Rylands mom being the cutest Gma, so so excited for y’all!
I love how happy Shane is♡ I've been watching him since the start and I came back to watching YT/shane after 5 years♡ It makes me so unbelievably happy to see him thriving!!!! and having twins!!!! Nobody desrves it more than him and Ryland. You're going to kill it Queens. ♡
Hey Shane!! This is Amy…i have been a LONG time fan for years! Anyways.. I know that you get THOUSANDS of comments on the videos so I know you won’t even see this message but ima try give this a chance.. I have been wanting to comment since he told us the WONDERFUL news!!Seeing Shane with a genuine smile makes me so VERY happy! I am happy for you and your hubby and glad to see you enjoying your next chapter in your life!! I will tell you from somebody who has a baby/little one being a parent is the most difficult and life-changing things you will go thru, but it is very rewarding! Also I am visiting COLORADO for the first time ever! I am going to do a Paranormal Investigation in Victor Colorado not to far from Colorado Springs! So I’ll be kinda close to you: Very much love from Amy from Kansas!
A let down means the milk rushes to the breasts. For me it kinda felt like how legs fall asleep and get tingly, then my boobs got hard and I sprayed milk everywhere lol Maybe don't trust the internet for everything 😆
Exactly! Let down just means the milk is coming down. I never felt like I wanted to die. 🤣. Also, breastfeeding was very fulfilling for me, it didn’t make me feel empty.
been watching through thick and thin since 2008, started to cry at the twin announcement and then started sobbing because they’re due on my birthday i can’t 😭💜
Regarding breastfeeding and the let down phenomenon- not all women get this and also tons of women think there is something wrong with them when it does happen because we aren’t taught all of this crazy stuff about our bodies! I never had the bad feelings with let down - it was exactly opposite (overwhelming love and emotion for my baby while breastfeeding) you both are going to be great parents to your boys ❤
With what Jared said, ‘just be honest’ about relationships, if someone came up to me and said ‘hey i’ve been admiring you for a while and i’d love to get to know you better’ I would be so floored and I’d want to learn about that person. It would be so nice.
The hardest thing with a baby for me was when I was pregnant I had people check on me all the time but once the baby was here, it was like back to normal she must be fine. Which I’m fact pp was so much harder than being pregnant and being on labor. It sucked thag no one checked in on me. (Main fam did, friends and coworkers did not)
It breaks my heart when people as amazing as Chris have so much self doubt. We all love you!! ❤ Please believe in yourself at least half as much as everyone else does. 😊 You'll never doubt yourself again!
I love when you can hear them breathe when they’re trying to be really quite 😂😂 someone’s holding their breath and it’s so relatable 😂 Love you guys 💗💗 please do this every week
A lot of people have no idea how much work goes into IVF. Especially from like the egg doner side of things, and how expesive it is. I've found it really intresting to see you guys share the process of your journey to become parents, because it shows the process of getting there and maybe lets people see how it's not as "easy" as they seem to think it is. I say that from a place of being infertile and people asking "why not just do IVF?" when we told them after the years of trying and no success that we were stopping. Also wanted to put in I had a friend who couldn't breast feed her first baby because her milk never came in. It's rare from what she made me understand when I was trying to cheer her up about it, her second baby had issues latching, breast feeding is so complicated from what I understand lol.
I still struggle with post partem depression, I have depression and anxiety. I had my twins in 2016 and my first baby in 2014. Twins are amazing. CONGRATS
OMG, Jerid with the Uke... Colleen Ballinger vibes. I laughed so hard!!!! PLEASE start doing these weekly. You said you were going to. I am sad I can't get this every week. It comes out on my first day of work every week and really sets my work week off right. Congrats on the babies!!! So excited to sort of being with you on this journey. You guys are going to be incredible parents. God Bless! PS. We need more Chris videos!!!! We loved the first one.
As a girl, I personally like to take pictures of myself when I’m crying because it humbles me. I’ll stop crying so much faster if im taking photos or videos of myself while it’s happening
Shane that is not what let down is 😂 It’s a sensation when the milk starts to flow from the breast. It does sometimes happen randomly but it’s just milk starting to come out
No the letdown reflex is not like that! Not for me at least it’s just the most tingly feeling I can’t even explain it, soooo odd! My son is 13 months and he still nurses a few times a day, but it is not near as intense. But I am so so happy for y’all, you two will be the best parents 🩵🩵
Midwifestudent here!🤰🏼 I would love them quizzing about pregnancy and female anatomy/ sexuality. Shane asking “if there’s any women out there watching porn” - and Ryland asking “do you ever accidentally hit the “”urinary meats”” I was DEAD 🤣🤣
The letdown is when the milk finally comes out but during that time you can feel intense emotions. I would cry every time and never understood why until I did some research. I breastfed for 2 years and it eventually got better but never went away ❤
The fact I've been on an animal crossing binge this passed 2 weeks and played every day.... this just all came full circle with this podcast outfits today and im absolutely here for it 😂
Postpartum and let-down. I had it super intense whole first year, and then had a milder version for eight years. So you are spot on! Thank you for talking about this!
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Hope you guys enjoy the episode!! Thank you for all the love and sweet messages about Ryland and I’s announcement.
YES WE LOVE THE CONSISTENCY
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Congratulations, Dads!! You deserve everything good in the world! ❤❤❤
We love you so much
Never thought I’d be scared of Ryland
I am HORRIFIED 😂
Honestly tho😂😂😂
LITERALLY 😂
Why did he commit to the fit 10x harder than everyone else 😭😭
I think we r all gonna have nightmares for awhile cause of ryland 😂
I can't even express how much I love Ryland's responses whenever someone calls in and says that their partner is cheating... Everyone else is like "I'm sorry, that sucks, break up with him, tell him how you feel, etc." and Ryland is like "MURDER IS THE ANSWER"
Lol same! he’s that best friend everybody needs to get through a breakup.
I need a Ryland and Shane around lol. I'm the same way about cheaters. Can't stand them
Well I mean it usually is 😂😂
I noticed this too. And it's every single time😂😂😂
I’m a bit embarrassed to post this but…my husband and I used to watch you guys every time a new podcast or vlog was posted. We love you guys, and also we were your neighbors in Parker and loved seeing the town on your videos, but this is the first podcast I watch without him since he suddenly passed three weeks ago of a heart attack. It’s such a weird feeling. Also, congrats on the twins! It’s a wild ride having children but very much worth it.
so sorry for ur loss omg pls maintain a positive mindset life will go on and u couldnt have done anything to stop it but atkeast u made him happy while he was alive pls be ok
@@Fatcat561 thank you so much!
Sorry for your loss. Sending you positive vibes and hoping you have a good support system to help you through your healing journey. 💕
Wow I have no words that could make you feel any better after everything you’ve been through.
I cannot even imagine what kind of pain that you’re going through 😢.
HUGE respect to you for opening up about SUCH a a difficult topic 😢❤.
I really really REALLY hope that Shane sees this and I would make it my PERSONAL mission to try and get you and this comment and story noticed.
As of course with a huge following like Shane has, it can be pretty difficult for him to see or acknowledge it (due to all of the comments)
But I honestly believe that if he heard your story and what you’ve been through… that you both LOVED shane , his content etc and the tragedies that you have been through so recently… I honestly believe that Shane would be flattered, honoured and absolutely sympathetic towards you and your recent loss 😢😔
If you ever need to talk to someone about this, my personal recommendation would be to open up as best as you can😔. I’m sure that what you’ve been through is one of the worst things imaginable and if Shane found out and heard your experience I believe he’d comfort you and shout him out in their (your partners) memory ❤️
I don’t know what else to say other than you’re an ABSOLUTE LEGEND AND SURVIVOR!! And I’ll be thinking of you today and praying for your well-being.
Thank you for being a beautiful human being and sharing your story because I’m sure you’re helping so many others in not feeling alone and because it’s so recent and fresh, I applaud you for your bravery and it may not feel this way rn but eventually you will be stronger and will help others who go through the same thing by sharing ❤️❤️stay strong so sorry for your loss and thinking of you ❤❤❤
@@MillenialMellow omg… don’t know what to say…this has lifted my spirits like you have no idea. We’re on our way this morning to spread his ashes in the ocean. We’ve been having a hard time since his passing but we’re safe and alright and moving forward. I think he would love this message and get a big kick out of Shane or Ryland liking this or comento g. He’d probably be laughing. We did once see Ryland driving around Downtown Parker. We were chuckling and saying ‘oh my gourd’ as we drove behind him.
Chris is finding his confidence and it's sweet of Shane to be so supportive :)
I love how serious the conversation is then it pans to Ryland looking like my sleep paralysis demon
Loool I was about to say this 😂😂😂😂can’t take anuthing seriously
This is the best comment on the internet 🤣🤣
Right hah
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Lmaoo
Respectfully, as a mom who breastfed, "letdown" most typically refers to the point in time where a baby is breastfeeding and your milk starts flowing. It can also happen if your boobs decide "I'm full and not waiting for baby to be ready". It can be itchy, or painful, or have a wave of emotion or feeling of relief. It is different for every woman.
Man is it painfullllllll
Definitely different for every woman. I unfortunately never got to breast feed. My milk never came in...I never knew that could even happen but it happened..my boobs never swelled..never leaked..never hardened...never nothing..I was so disappointed.
To me it’s like my boobs feel really horny and then once the letdown happens it’s a huge relief 😂
Ya I was looking for this comment. Cu that’s what I know as the let down lol
Thank you! This is what I came to say as well. I have breastfed both my kids. Had different experiences with PPD and also the let down sensations were totally different with both. I didn’t have the emotional piece with my first, but did with my second. It depends on the person and situation.
I actually like that yall dont talk about the drama on UA-cam. I'm tired of that crap. Nice to listen to a fun podcast
exactly. I hate the podcasts where their whole channel depends on other people creating drama and then they talk about it for as long as they can. Shane's podcast brings their own entertainment and doesn't depend on any other content
You’re tired of it but you made a random comment bringing it up anyway? Nothing about that was talked about in this video.. but y’all will still find a way to bring it in the conversation lol. If you don’t like drama then stop talking about it and bringing it up anytime you get a chance. Even if it’s supposed to be a compliment; your logic just doesn’t make sense. Drama only survives as long as people feed into it and talk about it. Sounds like you guys love drama lmao
@@anonymoustryagain😂
It really is so much fun, I forgot about it for awhile but clicked on it today when it popped up in my feed and I’m loving it all over again
@@anonymoustryagainyou’re the one who wrote a book about it, you must be the one who really loves it 😒 kinda hilarious really
SHANE PLEASE SHOW THE VIDEO OF THE GIRL ON THE PLANE SAYING SOMEONE WAS FAKE. it actually sounded real and like she was scared, i wanna hear yall talk about it
Definitely think the gov did something to her to make her quiet and say it was something else and/or lie about it.
"Let down" in regards to breast feeding is when the breast milk flows. I remember when my son was an infant, I could think of him, or even just see his picture when we were apart and that would stimulate my breasts to begin leaking. It's an unbelievable and intense bond between the mother and baby. Extremely beautiful experience!
I love this comment 💙
Yes! Came to comment this, because his research on let down wasn’t the same as what I was told. Your comment is what happens to me or when milk just starts to free flow during a feed
I've known that to be called a MILK DOWN. I remember I was in the store and my daughter wasn't even with me and a baby started crying.. So I started leaking lmao. Babies are a damn mess 😂😂
Came here just to say this! ❤
i love being a women & a mother. the things our bodies do are incredible ❤
As a twin myself, I’m SO EXCITED FOR YOU GUYS!! The bond twins have is absolutely unreal and it’s such a blessing.
Why do I always get so sad when it's time for Rylands Recap 😭 I don't want it to end
Right
Same!!!!!
thats why i skip it.. so that it won't actually end
@@glitter1314Infinite replay loop?
I swear Ryland being so proud of Shane doing his makeup was so genuine and hilarious. Love it. Lol
Yes ❤❤
This episode got me so excited! Shane and Ryland having twins soon, Jerid's new music, Chris thriving life, I'm so happy for all of you!!!! This episode has a lot of surprises!! It's like the balloons that carry presents in the Animal Crossing games!!!
cute comment 🥰
Ryland is always ready to unalive people and get his revenge! Love a king who isn't afraid of confrontation!
i’ve never really understood the appeal of podcast where a group of friends just sits and talks about random things… i started watching your podcast a few days ago and have had them on constantly ever since. y’all are hilarious, entertaining, thoughtful, and truly caring and empathetic people. i’m a long time shane fan and usually gravitated towards the more produced videos and series, but now can also say i love these more casual chit chat videos! i’m almost done with all the episodes and can’t wait for more!
and congrats on your wonderful news! 🎉
Yeah, I'm hooked too
I cant with Ryland. It's the best cosplay he's done hands down. Love you guys! Btw I'm a guy and I watch the podcast! It's the only podcast I watch.
Thank you for always coming through when our real lives are BS
Preach 🙌
We applaud Ryland's level of dedication to the pod not everyone would go full on paralysis demon 👏😂💛
😭😭😭😭😂😂
He really does always go all out
I just laughed soooo inappropriately loud at the gym because of your comment 😂😂😂
@@HeatherWho11.10 he really does and we love him for it :)))
@@desert_holly 😂😂😂
i love how committed ryland is to the character for the entire episode !!! what an icon lmao
One thing that I’d love to share with you that you might find great to share with your own kids is…. that they were VERY planned. When you are born out of the “norm” it helps to hear how much your parents fought to have you. My dad had his vasectomy reversed (after 3 kids before he met my mom and my mom raised a son on her own). Even though they are a straight couple, they made the decision for no more kids until they met each other. they really really wanted to have a kid together. Odds were against them, There was the possibility it wouldn’t work.. cost a lot of money, surgery, etc…but it did. They tell me all the time “we loved you before we knew you and you were VERY very very planned” ♥️ it’s weird to say but makes me feel so genuinely connected because even in a world where it couldn’t happen.. they did everything to have me here♥️ your babies already have the best parents. So happy for you both! @shane @shane2
This has to be one of the most beautiful things I've ever read. ❤
Aww this is so beautiful!!!! I loved this!!!
Beautiful!!!❤
wait why does this make me want to cry 😭
@shane!!!
As a mama who’s been pregnant and or breastfeeding for almost 4 years…a let down is actually a tingling sensation that happens in your boob at the start of a feed and then your milk will essentially spray out. What you’re talking about is called D-MER, it’s where you become sad, depressed, homesick feeling while you’re feeding your baby. I haven’t personally experienced it but have seen mamas that have and they gave up breastfeeding because it was so draining on their mental health.
Yes was thinking this the whole time haha good info for them ☺️
YES! THIS. I couldn’t remember what the term was but thank you for clarifying for everyone lol
Considering roughly half the human population goes through motherhood at some point, it's insane how little is understood about it.
In everyone's defence, it can vary wildly for everyone. There's so many variables, there's just no way you could know every part of the experience.
Twin momma you saw at Buy Buy baby here: Don’t count on that due date, my twins came on Thanksgiving (36 weeks 0 days). Original due date was 12/22/22. So happy for you guys!!!
It's crazy how I started to watch Shane when I was 14, and now I'm 27 and having a baby in a few weeks also 😭 OG UA-cam really is growing together, take for example Pewdiepie and these two.. ❤
Same!!
I’ve been watching Shane since I was about 9, and he’s got me thru all the phases of my life, being a clueless kid an angsty confused teen. Last month June 8th my girlfriend passed of an overdose. I’ve struggled with drugs myself and didn’t really know how I was gonna combat this loss and sobriety. I never really thought I’d smile again. But I always get excited when I see a new video, and I just wanted to say thank you to this wonderful group, and pour my heart out to Shane♥️ I love all of you and thank you for being such positive people
We love you , stay strong 💪🏼😇have an amazing day
im so sorry for your loss ❤️ i know exactly how you feel same thing w my ex.
We love you as well!
🩷🩷
Sending prayers to you and your family❤❤
As a long time follower, I truly can’t wait to see this new journey for Shane & Rylan becoming parents 🥹🫶🏻
me too i remember when they got together. it’s crazy i’ve been watching since i was in 7th grade and now i don’t even go to school anymore
I’m a labor and delivery nurse and listening to 4 men talk about pregnancy and breastfeeding is hilarious.
😂😂😂
It was “the letdown” for me 🤣🤣🤣
The letdown 😂😂😂
I’m pretty sure what he’s talking about is actually DMER, right? And I don’t think most moms experience it. I’m on my third year of breastfeeding two children and I’ve never experienced it
Lol yes the let down that was funny just weaned my son about two months ago and just listening to them talk about it was too darn funny
I thought 'let down' was after the boobs get the milk for the first time, balloon into giant hard rocks that are excruciatingly painful, then the milk flows out. That's what happened to me anyway, 10 days after birthing, i had to formula feed before that and daughter was never able to latch properly. Anyway, i assumed 'let down' was when the milk comes...
i LOVE chris. it's so beautiful to see him come out of his shell more he seems like wayyyyyy more confident and i just love him lol.
So the “letdown” thing doesn’t happen for every person in the way that you’re describing. What you’re describing is D-MER which stands for dysphoric milk ejection reflex. When a letdown happens, which is the body releasing/letting the milk flow from the breast, it can be accompanied with feelings of sadness, anxiety, irritability, and those feelings of depression you’re talking about! So they’re two separate things but also both very real 💕☺️
I think he was attempting to explain "postpartum depression"❤
Came here say that too.. am a breastfeeding mumma atm and was like eh? My letdown is just milk coming out of boobs, usually when feeding from the other haha
I am breastfeeding and do experience D-MER during let downs! I don’t experience feelings of depression but I most definitely experience the anxiety and irritability for about a minute or two during a feed before it goes away!! I was really shocked and impressed that shane had researched this and knew a little about it 💛 you’re going to be great dads!
@@JewelGates he’s definitely describing D-MER but just used the term as the letdown which is part of the experience but it isn’t super common so not as well known. Happens often with exclusively pumping which I did and read about bc of it. Some people describe it as just feeling dread/doom/sadness/overwhelming but it’s only during the letdown and shortly after. I believe it can sometimes be tied to PPD/PPA though but those are definitely an entirely different animal on their own not associated with letdowns💕
@@JewelGatesNo. Post-partum depression is a continuous disorder that happens after giving birth. What he's describing is a temporary fluctuation in emotions caused by hormone fluctuation while lactating. Hormone fluctuations are what causes the milk to flow out of the breast (this is the let down). He's most likely confusing it with D-MER, or dysphoric milk ejection reflex, which happens to up to 10% of women breastfeeding and is indeed caused by the let down. All breastfeeders get let down (milk releasing from the breast) but only some people experience the intense negative feelings (D-MER).
Mommy here 🙋🏼♀️ “let down” usually refers to milk coming out and is usually triggered by your baby feeding , “let down” can leak out of the other breast. It can even be triggered by a baby crying. It’s like your body just knows when it’s time to feed to let down will start to come out and if you don’t release it, your boobs could really hurt bc they’re full . The girl may have just been having those emotions while feeding unfortunately.
Came to make sure this was clarified lol
@@JessDeyJal same same same! haha
Thank you for this!! I already put my own comment on this video but certainly agree with you. I do know when I pumped I was VERY touched out - like NO ONE could touch me, it just made me feel so overwhelmed. But after I was done the feeling went away. But I NEVER experienced thoughts like in the video. I stopped BF a few months ago but I still get weird body urges when I hear a baby crying - even other peoples lol
I looked into this and it’s actually called Dysmorphic Milk Ejection Reflex, or D-MER. It’s from a rush of hormones (and decrease in dopamine!) that help the body to release the milk, which can cause 5-9% of women to have feelings of dread/anxiety/sadness. It’s completely caused by the hormones and not something someone has control over feeling and is something different than just feeling too full and needing the release.
Right. I could shoot milk across the room when the milk let down, lol. I never had depression when my milk let down.
7:41 I'm sobbing. Congratulations Shane & Ryland! You've both come so far & I'm so proud of you. I'm so happy for you, I grew up with you Shane & I'm just beyond words for the Yaw babies!!! I've never been so happy for someone. It's like an old friend - seeing their growth. It's beautiful. You're beautiful. Sending you well wishes & all of the good vibes. I love you both, you're going to be the best dad's. Those babies are going to be SO loved. ❤
And hey, send some baby dust my way too!! 🤞🏻
PLEASE ADD THE JUDGING A VIEWER SEGMENT TO EVERY SHOW!!! I laughed so hard. Best podcast ever guys. You always knock it out of the park Shane!
Yes this was my favorite!!
Already having watched Chris's video when watching this episode, it makes me SO sad that Chris is so down on himself about it. It was a really good video and I would watch anything he put out. He's so talented, as are his co-hosts on this podcast. Chris and Shane are very similar when it comes to self doubting their talent for videos and I wish you guys could see yourselves through, if not my eyes, the eyes of everyone who watches your stuff.
so true really hope Chris decides to post more
I swear each episode gets better and better, i will literally pay for weekly episodes 😭
as a juggalo who's been watching this podcast since the beginning and all of y'all's channels for years I was NOT expecting the shout-out but I love it 😂💖 love you guys! Whoop whoop!
Ryland saying “I’d burn the house down and kill him too” at 27:51 while in this Isabelle costume was the scariest thing I’ve ever seen lol
U HAVE ME 🤣🤣
For me it’s 59:45
This is genuinely the only podcast I could ever watch without ever getting bored, It's a part of my routine, EVERYDAY I watch an old episode and when there's a new one I plan everything around it😭
Jerid's quick comebacks and jokes are always so subtle but hilarious
I just love that everyones having serious conversations - cut to Ryland twiddling and twirling his pigtails 🤣🖤
Since you guys have already done mario and animal Crossing you guys should do sonic for a theme
Chris- tails
Ryland- amy
Shane- sonic
Jered- Dr egg man
Omg Jerid would make the best egg man 🤣🤣
@@Beachykeen22why, cause he’s fat?
YESSS
omfg yes
i LOOOOOOVE this!
I love Ryland!!!! 💀 definitely funny to see him this way! He is always down to do anything and the confidence he has is amazing!
Chris is such an Angel and he deserves everything good in the world 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶 and I’m so happy for Shane & Ryland & congratulations!!!! And that’s awesome congratulations Jerid!
I appreciate you so much! 😭🙏❤️
He’s literally so sweet I just want the world for him!!
i can’t even put into words how much i love ryland .
Congrats to becoming twin fathers!!! I'm looking forward to the day you guys will finally meet the twin babies!!! Also Ryland's isabelle makeup looks amazing!!! This is one of the coolest episodes as a fan of Animal Crossing!!! :)
A milk down is the a rush of milk coming in for about 20-30 seconds. What you’re explaining Shane is sensation of discomfort woman feel when it happens. Some women get very uncomfortable during letdowns and overstimulated but some feel a sense of tingling and no discomfort whatsoever. Depends on the momma!
Yes please shane is kinda unintentionally spreading misinformation here
Yess well explain i love it 😊
Currently wondering why Jerid isn’t a private investigator bc he can read people so well… 👀
Chris is such a sweetheart! Hope he has a lifetime of happiness in his future ♥️
I love rewatching these and seeing how much Chris has came out of his shell since the first episode 🥰🥰
You guys should take a dna ancestry test and open the results on the podcast❤
Yesss
shane had done something like that before on his channel a few years ago!
Ooo I love this idea
yeesssssss
@@em1ly227they meant for the baby…
Shane the only videos I watch on yt are these podcast, literally they make my day. My grandmother recently died.. and I’ve been in my room not able to get out.I’ve watching the podcast episodes on repeat.
u don’t understand how excited i get for these episode’s, it genuinely brightens my day and makes me so happy
Me, five months pregnant and absolutely tearing up at the news and sound of the heart beat of Rylans & Shane’s babies!!!!🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️ so happy for you guys and incredibly proud of the whole team!!!
Shane, seeing u become a dad makes my heart smile. I’ve watched u since I was in kindergarten and now I’m about to turn 20 and I’ve watched every step of the way. It may sound hella weird, but it always felt like you were like a father figure or part of my family just because I’ve watched you age and go through different phases of life and it’s so dope.Ur videos have helped me through life. Ik ur going to b an amazing dad. ❤
This comment is everything 🖤🖤🥺
im so happy you talked about postpartum depression, its so heartwarming when not only mothers are talking about it! I made a video about this when I was currently in my postpartum depression, it was insane..im writing this so maybe there are some new moms here who can use some help!:)
Even tho I've been a fan of ryland for a long time, i really enjoy seeing him in shane's videos and podcast cuz he looks relaxed and and becomes naturally funny and honest 💛
Okay so breastfed 3 babies and the “letdown” is typically only painful in the first couple weeks after birth. I didn’t experience depression in any of my letdowns, I haven’t heard of that. But the term “letdown” is specifically when the milk comes out at a very fast and continuous state for about 15-30 seconds and it’s when the baby gets the most volume of milk.
It also happens on its own when it’s time to breastfeed the baby or when baby is crying. Your boobs literally tell you it’s time lol. It tingles too 😂
Omg the tingles it brings on freaked me out so badly the first couple of times 😂 like a strange ripple feeling from the out side of the breast to the nipple ((shivers)) 😅
I was thinking the same thing! I breastfed my two kids and my “letdowns” were as you described. No depression feeling
and this is why tiktok is so toxic 🤪 poor guys are being really misinformed lol #LetDownGate 😆
As a breastfeeding mom .. the let down is when your milk starts like spraying out lol it can hurt if you have a powerful let down
Right?? I came here to see if anyone else was like 🤔 when he was describing it lol. I breastfed for two years and there were definitely times I was hormonal but that’s not what the let down is lol
I was listening to them talk about the let down and I'm like no, that's not right lol
I thought that's what it was called. No one mentioned that term to me but i assumed that's what it was. It was painful, my boobs were like giant hard rocks, at least 500mls came out of them in that time, but i was in so much pain and wasn't expecting it because no one told me about it, i wasn't able to make sure to save it, i just grabbed a random bowl to leak into and it wasn't clean, so that sucked. It;s a problem when hospital staff, midwives, health visitors, and family who have gone through it all don't share crap-all information with young first-time mothers(i was 25yrs old).
@@krististandon5583Same! I was like HOLD UP. Haha
I’m so glad there were others thinking the same thing.
I’m crying at Chris finding out it’s twins!! I’m so happy for you both and your family!! ❤ Those babies are going to be so loved❤
Letdown is literally when your milk comes out out of nowhere lol. It's your milk coming down and out. It usually happens when you hear a baby cry (doesn't always have to be your own) and its a tingly sensation that can feel overwhelming and you instantly have this need or desire to help the crying baby
Theyre not talking about the letdown the action of milk release, they’re talking about The Letdown, the book written about and by a woman experiencing D-MER (dysphoric milk ejection reflex) some mothers dopamine bottoms out instead of just dipping to allow lactin to flow, and this causes extreme waves of negative emotion at milk letdown, very much like Shane described. I had it with both babies and actually managed to feed for 3yrs with my second, despite multiple waves at every feed right up to weaning. Waves usually last about 30 seconds but hit you like an absolute gut punch, very hard to explain how you can go from mid conversation to completely side swiped by this Boulder of sickening emotions… and then a few seconds later go back to feeling completely normal
Can I get a timestamp where he is discussing D-MER/Letdown??@@Deenurr
@@shadowlincoln1293 it’s about 12 minutes in. He does a good job of explaining how it feels but he was wrong that it doesn’t happen to all women, the exact number isn’t known still as it’s such a newly named condition but it does happen more than was originally thought. X
I’m a breastfeeding mama right now and you can feel the milk coming in. The amount of anxiety from breastfeeding, and if I’m producing enough etc was so high. I like that Ryland brought that up! Having a baby is so hard but so fun at the same time! I also did IVF so I feel like I can relate
I have 2 kids and don’t want more but I feel v nostalgic when I see babies breastfeeding. It was so lovely. I was worried I’d be sad when I had to stop but it just naturally petered out at the 15 month mark for each xox
I could never produce enough with my first baby, so much anxiety. And I’m broke af so formula just was not even an option.
It’s so hard isn’t it. There’s definitely not enough information or support especially for breastfeeding mums. Lactation consultants are amazing & that’s what saved my BF journey!
Such an amazing thing to experience too, I’m about to have my 2nd ❤
@@devindaniels8871did you determine that by pumping and seeing the amount?
Can you make making assumptions of your fans a segment from now on? I absolutely love it and need more content of you guys judging people 🤣
yes please!!!!!!!!
ALWAYS PUBLISHING AT THE RIGHT TIME SHANE. I LOVE YOU.
jerid knowing that julie was russian right away just from the picture she sent of her crying was so impressive ngl lmao
Cause Julia is a pretty Common Slavic name
@assiend it's certainly not ethnically specific though. Julia is pretty internationally used.
I had a really rough day yesterday, so this podcast was much needed to elevate my mood. I’m watching for the second time because I fell asleep with Hendrix (my Frenchie) earlier this afternoon when I was watching. Congratulations again Shane and Ryland! 🎉 You are going to be incredible parents! 🥰
I think Shane’s advice for Lucas is great! I thought the same thing because he’s taking interest in something she loves while showing interest in her. It’s a great move. She’d be so impressed
Legit didn’t even recognize Ryland, great theme boys!
In THE BEST PODCAST NEWS, Shane and Ryland expecting twins tops EVERYTHING!!! I just know that parenting is going to come so natural to the both of you. I am hoping that we will get to see some “reaction videos” of y’all telling Rylands fam, Shane’s fam, friends, etc! Praying for a healthy baby boys and can I just say I absolutely LOVE their names! I can already see Rylands mom being the cutest Gma, so so excited for y’all!
Jared and I are on the same wavelength and he’s asking all the questions I’m asking in my head. I love it. And I love this 😊
I love how happy Shane is♡ I've been watching him since the start and I came back to watching YT/shane after 5 years♡ It makes me so unbelievably happy to see him thriving!!!! and having twins!!!! Nobody desrves it more than him and Ryland. You're going to kill it Queens. ♡
Also I almost forgot; Congratulations Ryland and Shane! I’m so excited for the babies! Jet and Max are so lucky to have you both!
Hey Shane!! This is Amy…i have been a LONG time fan for years! Anyways.. I know that you get THOUSANDS of comments on the videos so I know you won’t even see this message but ima try give this a chance..
I have been wanting to comment since he told us the WONDERFUL news!!Seeing Shane with a genuine smile makes me so VERY happy! I am happy for you and your hubby and glad to see you enjoying your next chapter in your life!!
I will tell you from somebody who has a baby/little one being a parent is the most difficult and life-changing things you will go thru, but it is very rewarding!
Also I am visiting COLORADO for the first time ever! I am going to do a Paranormal Investigation in Victor Colorado not to far from Colorado Springs! So I’ll be kinda close to you:
Very much love from Amy from Kansas!
The 711 thing should be a regular on the show! It felt like a mini game show
A let down means the milk rushes to the breasts. For me it kinda felt like how legs fall asleep and get tingly, then my boobs got hard and I sprayed milk everywhere lol
Maybe don't trust the internet for everything 😆
Yes, this haha
Exactly! Let down just means the milk is coming down. I never felt like I wanted to die. 🤣. Also, breastfeeding was very fulfilling for me, it didn’t make me feel empty.
I personally do get very depressed and nauseous during my letdowns, I think it’s actually rare. I’ve been breastfeeding for 3 years now
I was just commenting on this lol. He was talking about something called D-MER, it’s crazy that some mamas go through it. That would break my heart 😭
What he described sounds like DMER or Dysphoric Milk Ejection Reflex, which happens during a let down
Congratulations to Shane and Ryland, they will be amazing dad’s ❤
I smoked way too much weed and got way to high and almost had a little freak out but then saw this video and omg the relief I feel. My comfort show ❤️
I cant wait to see the jurney with the twins. We're all gonna cry when you meet them. Jet and Max are lucky to have you guys as parents. ❤❤❤❤
I had PPD from breastfeeding and changing to bottle helped soo much with it. Congrats on the babies excited to see yall change full dad modes
Chris being so emotional and happy for you. My heart cried joy with him!
Jerid is the goat keep him on the show. He has a authoritative tone that is incredible
been watching through thick and thin since 2008, started to cry at the twin announcement and then started sobbing because they’re due on my birthday i can’t 😭💜
Regarding breastfeeding and the let down phenomenon- not all women get this and also tons of women think there is something wrong with them when it does happen because we aren’t taught all of this crazy stuff about our bodies! I never had the bad feelings with let down - it was exactly opposite (overwhelming love and emotion for my baby while breastfeeding) you both are going to be great parents to your boys ❤
With what Jared said, ‘just be honest’ about relationships, if someone came up to me and said ‘hey i’ve been admiring you for a while and i’d love to get to know you better’ I would be so floored and I’d want to learn about that person. It would be so nice.
The hardest thing with a baby for me was when I was pregnant I had people check on me all the time but once the baby was here, it was like back to normal she must be fine. Which I’m fact pp was so much harder than being pregnant and being on labor. It sucked thag no one checked in on me. (Main fam did, friends and coworkers did not)
It breaks my heart when people as amazing as Chris have so much self doubt. We all love you!! ❤ Please believe in yourself at least half as much as everyone else does. 😊 You'll never doubt yourself again!
I love how ryland is never afraid to go all out ! 😂
I love when you can hear them breathe when they’re trying to be really quite 😂😂 someone’s holding their breath and it’s so relatable 😂
Love you guys 💗💗 please do this every week
A lot of people have no idea how much work goes into IVF. Especially from like the egg doner side of things, and how expesive it is. I've found it really intresting to see you guys share the process of your journey to become parents, because it shows the process of getting there and maybe lets people see how it's not as "easy" as they seem to think it is. I say that from a place of being infertile and people asking "why not just do IVF?" when we told them after the years of trying and no success that we were stopping. Also wanted to put in I had a friend who couldn't breast feed her first baby because her milk never came in. It's rare from what she made me understand when I was trying to cheer her up about it, her second baby had issues latching, breast feeding is so complicated from what I understand lol.
I still struggle with post partem depression, I have depression and anxiety. I had my twins in 2016 and my first baby in 2014. Twins are amazing. CONGRATS
The timing of this podcast is everything. Always drops right on my lunch break 🙌🏻
Omg same
Wtf same
Same lol
Only problem is I can’t finish it during my break. But it’s ok. I’d rather it stay long. I’ll finish it later. 😅
@@TeamBroccoli YESSS. That just means we've got something to enjoy immediately after work too!
I could not stop laughing everytime Ryland is shown😂😂😂
Especially when he was freaking out about Joey from friends 🤣 (can’t remember his name, never watched the show)
OMG, Jerid with the Uke... Colleen Ballinger vibes. I laughed so hard!!!! PLEASE start doing these weekly. You said you were going to. I am sad I can't get this every week. It comes out on my first day of work every week and really sets my work week off right. Congrats on the babies!!! So excited to sort of being with you on this journey. You guys are going to be incredible parents. God Bless! PS. We need more Chris videos!!!! We loved the first one.
Omg I was going to comment the same thing. I was going to say oh ok Jerad. What are you going to try and not apologize for?!😂
@@jillmarie4240 right? I was waiting for him to break out in song. The toxic conspiracy train. 😂
Ryland smiling continuously and everytime the camera goes towards him my heart jumps 🥲😂
As a girl, I personally like to take pictures of myself when I’m crying because it humbles me. I’ll stop crying so much faster if im taking photos or videos of myself while it’s happening
However I’d never send them into a podcast 😂
fr cause then i look at the picture and im like "ew im ugly" and stop crying
Shane that is not what let down is 😂 It’s a sensation when the milk starts to flow from the breast. It does sometimes happen randomly but it’s just milk starting to come out
Was waiting on this comment!!
HAHAH YESS I WAS LAUGHING
No the letdown reflex is not like that! Not for me at least it’s just the most tingly feeling I can’t even explain it, soooo odd! My son is 13 months and he still nurses a few times a day, but it is not near as intense. But I am so so happy for y’all, you two will be the best parents 🩵🩵
Midwifestudent here!🤰🏼
I would love them quizzing about pregnancy and female anatomy/ sexuality.
Shane asking “if there’s any women out there watching porn” - and Ryland asking “do you ever accidentally hit the “”urinary meats”” I was DEAD 🤣🤣
Ryland looks like something straight out of my nightmares 😩😂
HAHAHA
rylands trying out for a jeepers creepers remake😂
The letdown is when the milk finally comes out but during that time you can feel intense emotions. I would cry every time and never understood why until I did some research. I breastfed for 2 years and it eventually got better but never went away ❤
The fact I've been on an animal crossing binge this passed 2 weeks and played every day.... this just all came full circle with this podcast outfits today and im absolutely here for it 😂
Postpartum and let-down. I had it super intense whole first year, and then had a milder version for eight years. So you are spot on! Thank you for talking about this!