@@jordancave3089 Can't fix stupid as they say! If your spouse cheats, something is wrong with THEM! No telling what they would bring home to YOU...show them the DOOR!!!
I've been a woman for 48 years, been with the same man for 20. Neither of us have ever cheated, and we love boring! Turn on sports if you're bored like we do! Play a damn board game or cards!
I think it’s the nature of this world and social media and constant need for attention and validation. The words play both ways, young men and women are really in a messed up state
Ma'am you're not from the younger generations. Women are not the same because they have more tools (tools men created). Men are the same, we just have more toys (also toys men created).
Lol in the comments and online is always like this women say what is supposed to be correct for example: here in the comments all the women are saying no i don't like it... but we all know it's BS because statistically many women be with well known cheaters... but online none admit 😂
She is why men will never tell women the truth. Just look at her statement. You tell them the truth not only will they hate you for it, they will WISH YOU DEAD.
He's right, most women don't want boring (or routine). Over time, if things don't change... that's boring. You work long and hard and just need to relax on the weekend... your boring. You work hard and make enough money for her to be a stay at home women... she'll get bored. If you don't care to, or can't afford to travel... you're boring. Etc... Not every woman, but many WILL get bored and just a bit of attention from another man will be exiting and set her on the path to possibly cheating on you.
True for a lot of women but not for all. I think a lot of women just want their men to pay attention to them and not sit on the sofa all weekend long and ignore them. I get it that most men are trying hard to provide for their families and need to relax a bit on the weekends, but when it becomes where every weekend the man is not interacting with his family and hanging out with his friends watching the game, there is something really wrong with that. This is definitely boring for a woman AND the kids.
@@aprilmurray4315 Obviously this doesn't apply to all women, statements like these generally mean it applies to the majority. And yes, the guys themselves can't just turn into lumps on the weekends (keeping in mind however, how hard and burned out he may get during the week). But I'm not talking about a guy who disengages from the relationship.
I just want my husbands attention. Most guys get complacent and lazy about flirting and making you feel wanted/desired/loved/appreciated after being married for a while and then wonder why their wife is moody and nags. Love is an action, not just a feeling. We don’t want to be glorified roommates. We want to feel like women still and feel loved and valued. If a man is really loving his wife with his actions, there’s now way for her to need anything else. Unless he married a hoe. That’s on him for ignoring red flags though, because they’re ALWAYS there. And it goes both ways. We have to keep taking care of ourselves and making our husbands feel loved and appreciated and respected. If we stop, then we can expect the entire dynamic of the marriage to shift. People need to keep giving their marriage their all rather than getting lazy and then getting upset when their spouse comes to them saying they need to change things in their marriage. I hear that sooo often and people just say the other partner got “bored”. No, you got lazy 🤷🏻♀️
I've been married for 27 years since I was 18 years old. We had went to school together since kindergarten 6 years old. We love each other we do everything together we don't want to be without each other. We have two children and everyone is happy so it's doable
@@jillw892 Beautiful! True love, loyalty, commitment, trust, Fidelity, your lives are more enriched, whole…you’re building something meaningful, lasting.. people that cheat, are destroyers…
To say that you have to cheat on them to keep them is total garbage. A woman who really thinks like that has other issues that need to be dealt with. And that's not a woman who's ready to be in a relationship.
Not me and my wife we’ve been together for 13 years and it’s been the best relationship I’ve ever had. She doesn’t cheat. I don’t cheat. We’re both extremely boring and we love it.
If my man gives me something to worry about, he's gone. I don't just like my "boring dude"... I absolutely LOVE him! You guys need to find better women! I don't know a single woman like what is being described in this show.
You asked stupid and the wrong women. I don’t need my significant other to cheat so I can have excitement in my life. I have hobbies to keep from being bored. Travel, exercise, watch sports and going to sporting events, casinos. . My significant other is my best friend but we spend quality time together and enjoy being with each other. I want my man all to myself.
Your statement, if it's true. Means you're not the modern woman KS is speaking of. Blessings to your family and you for having functionality in these BS times.
@@succinctlylong No, her statement proves the underlying point, women want a man who isn't all over, who has hobbies and actually respected and desired in society
I was wondering too what women they talked too. I like boring, I'm boring..well I don't think so much but most I meet smoke and drink, I do not so they might think I'm boring. I like to have fun.. I just don't drink and smoke
@@princessluvvsg1967none of you are men and have no idea what a man's world is like acting offended that men share experiences about women but never want to be mad or question the women being spoken about YOUR SPECIES creates the problem go ask them
I've never been married, but I noticed the same thing the last time I was in a relationship. When I was single, it was hard for me to land a girl. I eventually dated a chick I was friends with who liked me. She was extremely average, but she was nice. As soon as it became publicly known that we were dating, I had girls coming at me left and right. I was shocked to see that not only were some of the more attractive girls in our department suddenly interested in me, but a vast majority of the girls who were giving me green lights were girls my gf was friends with. It made me realize how underhanded women can be towards one another, especially when it comes to them trying to win over a guy.
I like boring and routine. I was in one of those dramatic ass relationships for 3 years and wanted to die. Now I have calmness and a routine relationship. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been
@@KanjiEngKorean I have zero obligation to you to make you feel better. If you’re butthurt over women, focus on yourself and getting better. Good luck out there
Lol! This is why so many women are staying single these days. My ex-boyfriend cheated. I left him immediately. You can keep that sh*t. Been with my husband for 12 years and he is "boring" I will take that anytime over some cheater or some prick that wants to test me.
If you’re actually suggesting men are the problem in relationships today, I can’t take you seriously. Women are staying single because they *choose* to be single and they live single lifestyles. You’ve been married for over a decade so you don’t understand how women move today. You’re out of touch
@truthtelleranon, she’s not actually out of touch lol… some women actually wants to settle down and find the right partner. Kudos for her finding the right one ☝️ In the situation you are talking about is that some women will find good men and get bored of them then cheat or they will pass on the decent guys then when years goes by they regret their choices missing the right guys.
@@truthtelleranonwhat, but she's a woman herself? I can say the majority of modern men and women don't know what they want but some do, I'm 20 myself and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he's perfect to me and I plan on spending the rest of my life with him. I don't care about status or what other people think about him, that's my man. I'd rather have him, over than a cheater or a "man with status" cause that means nothing to me. I always look forward to him after work.
@@truthtelleranonur too emotional my boy. She was giving an anecdotal perspective from her personal experience in which he would take a boring guy over a cheater any day.
I’m divorced with two kids. Ex wife cheated. I dated for about 5 years after divorce and he ain’t wrong. I finally got tired of it all and decided it’s not worth it. I couldn’t be happier. A LOT more money, total freedom and zero stress.
@@memyself5924 that should be the last option tbh, he should try again and see if he can still attract women in general first unless he wants to attract the fake women that only likes him because he's American!
@@shawndturner my everyday smoke is nub maduro 4x60. Great little everyday smoke. I have three favorites. They are too expensive for everyday though. Oliva serie v melanio wrapper. Those are amazing. The other two are Fuente Don Carlos number 2, and Perdomo vintage 12 year bourbon barrel aged.
He means keeping them on their toes, always having boundaries, and not slacking off, to where if she lets go off everything and get lazy and too comfortable or disrespectful can cause risk of losing you, this makes them involved and also keeps them on their toes and not bored. Also not simping non stop . On the cheating part if a man is enough of high status and income a lot of women will still stay with him because they cant replace him , now i dont do that, but if theres men of high status that come forth with this first and the woman still accepts it , then its all their business a none of mine.
Every time I try to act to impress women they never like it but when I do and say the dumbest things they come flocking. I literally do and say the wildest just to see the limit and they never question it. Ex: "Honey ima rob a bank on the way home from getting us something to eat" usually the reply is never telling me not to do it, its more of like "How much do you think you'll get?". I know that's low value type woman but all of them are willing to do some of the wildest stuff, no limits type vibe from most. My point is to the guys out there, don't let a woman use you for entertainment because they have no limits. Respect yourself brother. Also test your women to see where their heart is. Call her with a issue and see her reply, act like you got fired and ask to barrow something light like a $100 until Friday.
@mp6640 before coming to the terms of cheating? I'd say it's still not even a last resort. If someone is willing to even consider it, they should just have the decency, dignity, morals, ethics and values to just fucking leave. Why stoop that low and cause damage to everyone involved. Society is so fkd. Glad I've gone my own way this past 12 years. I wouldn't trade my peace for anyone at this point, the Juice isn't worth the squeeze.
@Derek_Monk, I totally agree with you Derek that’s why I was saying cheating shouldn’t be a resort or something that should be on the table for consideration. If it’s not working out just move on that way you don’t hurt the person in the relationship.
That means that y’all aren’t right for each other & don’t love each other if you’re “so called bored.” Just be single if you’re not happy. It’s that simple.
@@Fitkid7672 Pretty true. There's a difference between men and women feeling bored generally though. Men can be bored and content. Women become anxious and need attention/stimulation whether good or bad, they will either nag you to create the good for them... or they will create the negative. Either one is a win for most women, attention is attention. If you're not giving them enough, good or bad... They will seek it elsewhere. For some reason they choose drama for excitement more than men. Most men are able to be content in solitary moments, without much stimulus. Why does every day off have to be filled with one activity after the next, errands and shopping sprees. Trust me. "Just be single if you're not happy". I divorced my ex-wife 12 years ago, and I would never marry again. I had the dignity to do it the right way, unlike people who tell you to cheat for things to work. Knowing how you fit into society brings peace. I don't need drama and destruction in my life for the fickle needs of someone's daily rollercoaster of emotions.
They're missing the whole point on what Kevin was saying. Women need(not all but alot) drama and something to complain about. Women's whole thing of fun as a concept means if they ain't got stuff to shit talk to their other friends about they'll feel their life is boring. Women can't just create fun for themselves with each other, they need incidents to happen that will get their social creature juice flowing so they can conjugate with one another and have that experience of bashing men lmao.
Married to first wife 30 years (she passed a way) married to 2nd wife 11 years, never cheated or been cheated on. The secret is always tell your wife how desirable she is, fake jealousy often, so she thinks she is desirable and she will not need to prove it!
Personally I don't like jealousy, real or fake. I get it though. I'd rather have people just appreciate their partner and love them, but as humans thats not how we're built.
Kevin Samuels was a good man that was trying to help our community of brothers and sisters while keeping us grounded to reality despite the messages or deliveries not being pleasant. God rest his soul. We lost a good one.
Absolute nonsense. Men that cheat disgust me, women that enable it by sleeping with cheaters disgust me more and OBVIOUSLY, the women he’s interacting with are a toxic nightmare.
He was such a POS. I watched 30-40 of his videos, he was so far off the mark it was laughable. Yet thousands of men fell for his crap and started a new "He man woman haters club".
@@jwil2414 right. They just want the feeling that they’re with someone better than them, which is insane with young women thinking they’re better than they are cuz of social media. An adulterous man is a weaker man, but women want to be with a man other women want and want to prove to cheating man that they’re good enough for them. 🥲🙃
@@jwil2414only a woman without self respect would stay with a guy who cheats on her. Same goes for a man. Lot of guys go for looks and find out there is no character and then label all young women as trash.
I always laughed with y'all but I think you guys brought in y'all's tech guys in and it's even better now. I didn't get to watch y'all for awhile. Y'all crazy funny
I’m a woman and when I get bored I subconsciously create drama in my head that gets projected onto my partner. I convince myself he’s doing something bad and I deserve to be treated better. That’s what the voice tells me. Then I look for reasons to justify this thought pattern. My wide array of emotions keep me from staying bored. I’ve only come to these realizations after years of dedicated meditational practices and self awareness. Most women who experience this lie to themselves and have no awareness to it.
@@PutThatonaPole really? How old is "too old" to date, get married, have a sexual relationship? I'm really interested as to the current judgement on that.
It is not because they are boring, it is because they are not compatible. She wants comfort and leaving out desires for the wrong person. Don't focus on the needs of an individual but the desire of the person. But then again, it depends on many other things.
@@warrenpeterson8446 a lot of women aren’t as gold-minded as you’d think. The issue is you and a lot of other men look at the Instagram models and think that’s how all women are.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things.
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
LOL~ B-b-b-b-beta~ I bet ur scared of anime and movies too, "man dat shits for kids". Meanwhile, the kids and adult are being taught through popular media and ur left wondering why everything is falling apart while yelling at the sky. Relinquish recreation to crazy's at you're own risk.
If women don't love cheaters, why is it that they always complain about men cheating? When the majority of men are single but somehow they always end up with cheaters
He isn’t saying they want a cheater. He said they get bored and cheaters are excited. He said give them something to think/worry about. This isn’t all women but a lot get… bored. But relationships are inherently boring
Also these are not his opinions. He was a scientist with a speciality in mathematics. He always has facts to back him up. He was a very high quality individual and whatever he says - you can take it to the bank. All clips of him are taken out of context. I miss him so much.
This is not true. Im a black woman who wants a faithful black man. I would absolutely love and appreciate his attention and never get bored bc I'm boring. And i do not want a guy that everyone else wants.These kind of men are hard to find.
Tell that to those that broke up or divorced cos of cheating.... And I myself have been cheated on and cheated!!! I broke up with my ex's cos cheating is the issue, and not because you are boring!!!
This was a great show! My husband and I have always flirted when we go out. We just know how far we can go, sure if I start to get jealous he knows when to stop & I do too! We've been married 30 years! We have never argued in public about this either. He's white and I'm a latina go figure.
Lmao! A great way to keep things random and exciting: Take a paper and pen. Fold it in 4. In the top corner write 1-7 and the weekdays M-Sun. Bottom left: Write 6 Compliments Top Right: 6 Affectionate Actions like hugging, kissing, etc. bottom right: 6 minor gifts like flowers, etc. Now, take a 1-6 side di and roll it. Roll 1: The day Roll 2: 1-3,4-6: Determines what activity Roll 3: The action. Example, rolling a 1, 3, 1= Monday you buy her flowers.
Terrible advice. No wisdom!! My parents married 50 years till my Fathers passing. My dad and mom NEVER committed Adultry! It’s disloyal, selfish, weak when a man or woman cheats! You made a COMMITMENT! Be a man/woman of YOUR WORD! Disgusted by all the infidelity going around in the world…
Not this one my stupid as husband laid out ONE time came home at 4:30 in the morning and his shit was on the back porch and the doors were blocked and i told him act out i will call the cops .We Are Done .i divorced him and told him done i am not listening to your 💩💩💩💩💩
You don’t need to “cut that out” Keith. I’ve been with my husband since I was 17. We’ve been together for 23 years, and we’ve never cheated on each other. I’m not bored of him, and I never will be. He did say modern women, and maybe I don’t count because I’m 40, but this new generation? 😔 I have very little hope for them. Dat gum land whales out here saying they want a 6’ 4” dude making six figures, and want to be treated like a princess is crazy.
Women don't want men who cheat nor men who is with someone. These men are making things up. You're a woman. Ask yourself, do you want a man who is with someone else. No. That makes the man less attractive. These men are influencing men to behave unethical so that those other men are less attractive to women.
LOL crazy as hell. the only type of women saying this are extremely toxic. sure they don't want to be bored, that's why you try new things, go on fun adventures, learn more, etc. NOT cheat....
These types of men simply teach men to behave unethically. Their influence on men is based on making up false information about women. These are the men who increase their value by making other men less wanted by women.
Well I don't agree on the cheating but definitely not around each other 24/7 unless the world's ending hell even then I gotta hunt down breakfast and dinner lol😂
Well I’m not a modern woman… I wish I could find a Godly man that has the old fashion values.. I loved being a homemaker. The man is the head of the house.
They don't openly say it they try to get the cheaters. They will go for the guy that has dozens of women and been with a different girl on his arm daily and go that is the perfect bf. Few days later cry when he has a different girl on his arm. I seen this first hand a few times in my teens and early twenties.
Cheating would be a no go for me. Although, I do agree with the boredom. There’s plenty of ways to keep it spicy and interesting without breaking each other’s hearts. This new generation loves drama though, and I think they have it much harder being raised with so much access to everything via the internet. Nothing is left to the imagination anymore. The first time I watched Kevin Samuels I was blown away!! In a good way, such a smart, bold, man.
I was faithful to my first wife for 17 years. I passed up so many opportunities to cheat. She ended up cheating on me and leaving. I cheated on my second wife the whole time we were together and I loved every minute of it. She broke up with me because she was bored. The moral of the story is they’re going to leave you no matter what. You might as well enjoy yourself. 😂
Women cheat more than men. They're just better at hiding it, otherwise you wouldn't have the President of France banning paternity test because 2/3 of the population would rise up. Can you imagine two out of every three men that you see with kids aren't raising their kids. The worst possible thing a man could do is find out that the kid isn't his and that he has put a dime into that kid's mouth instead of the other mouth. It's why patrilineal lines of succession and agriculture come in at the same time because men don't want to raise other men's kids, but sometimes biologically the better man isn't the man who is the most physically resource equipped to raise the child. So women have evolved a duel mating strategy. It is heinous, and morally corrupt to engage in it yes. To drive this point home, I want you to realize that genetically speaking you have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors, this is because half of men die without children. So it is quite obvious who cheats more and it is women. You're welcome
@@herschelsquirts2338it's true but you missed one part in the equation ..women will accept cheating form certain men... like they said the one other women want... that's the most important component in this matter
@@mohammeds7576 you just have to be that man. It’s not difficult. Have confidence, shower everyday, groom properly, and above all else, have confidence and a sense of humor. They’ll eat out of the palm of your hand!! 😂
I don't like taking relationship advice from somebody who's been divorced twice. Why aren't people who've been married for 40 years ain't giving advice on relationships?
If your girl flirts with other men in front of you, she's got to go.
Yup
Yea it happened to my brother. His ex cheated on him and he avoided seeing the red flags like that
Right? ...
If she is willing to do that, she’ll do much more when you’re not around! I would just tell her ass to go be with him and don’t bother me! 😂😂
Asap
To admit your girl flirts with dudes in front of you is wild.
They always do it
They just don't say it directly
😬😬
his wife is disrespectful and thats a red flag. dude still has a lot to learn...
@@footballforlife2643it’s still disrespect, do it a few times and you’re out
Fuck that. If I see it once, I'm out.
Boring people get bored.
My mom use to say stupid people get bored easy😂😂
@@jordancave3089 Can't fix stupid as they say! If your spouse cheats, something is wrong with THEM! No telling what they would bring home to YOU...show them the DOOR!!!
Always lots to do even in a small town
@@jordancave3089😂 I like that
"if you cheat, they'll take half." brother if you dont, they'll take half lmao
Exactly
😂 lol!
Tsk tsk. No faith.
😂😂😂😂True
@@erikaLS305 The next thing you know, she'll be shebang-a-bangin your best friend.
I'm a 40-year-old, and my grandma always told me to never take your partner for granted, i guess generation changes
Kevin Samuel’s would’ve been amazing on your podcast , RIP to the Godfather
*He's right tho*
*Im gonna give y'all another example*
*Women will be loyal in a toxic relationship*
*But they will cheat in a healthy relationship*
Imo I think bro was murdered
Hell no they aren't intelligent enough to understand Kevin Samuels!! They talk too much like simps when talking about their wives
@@jack-ci8je he was probably drugged
Kevin singles died in the arms of a prostitute that everyone kept calling a nurse😅😅😅
men like that, and woman like that, deserve each other.
*He's right tho*
Women will be loyal in a toxic relationship
But they will cheat in a healthy relationship
All women are like thay
No as a man I don't want my woman being wanted by other men... that's why I married a rural village girl know body know
I totally agree
@@mohammeds7576*nobody
He's not TRYING to say anything. He said IT. Women are out there leaving GOOD men for this very reason 💯
I've been a woman for 48 years, been with the same man for 20. Neither of us have ever cheated, and we love boring! Turn on sports if you're bored like we do! Play a damn board game or cards!
I think it’s the nature of this world and social media and constant need for attention and validation. The words play both ways, young men and women are really in a messed up state
@@linonator facts, that's why a lot of people are calling this society a matrix.
Ma'am you're not from the younger generations. Women are not the same because they have more tools (tools men created). Men are the same, we just have more toys (also toys men created).
That's what I'm saying. Take a damn vacation 😂😂
@@linonatorspeak for yourself. I'm good. 😂
The Godfather RIP Kevin Samuels.
I STILL watch Kevin’s channel. Routinely.
His logic and philosophy are universal, regardless of race. Love this man!
He may be dead, but his message will forever live
Ditto! I miss him. He was such a reasonable man with divine wit.
I dont love cheaters! I need loyalty and trust!
Lol in the comments and online is always like this women say what is supposed to be correct for example: here in the comments all the women are saying no i don't like it... but we all know it's BS because statistically many women be with well known cheaters... but online none admit 😂
This man was so correct when he spoke to women. He is missed. Fit. Feminine. Friendly. That was his message. He would tell a single woman the truth
No he is so wrong, I'm glad he can't spread hatefulshit anymore into young people's lives...
@@samlsd9711awe sounds like you been the type of women he was speaking about 😂
She is why men will never tell women the truth. Just look at her statement. You tell them the truth not only will they hate you for it, they will WISH YOU DEAD.
He's right, most women don't want boring (or routine). Over time, if things don't change... that's boring. You work long and hard and just need to relax on the weekend... your boring. You work hard and make enough money for her to be a stay at home women... she'll get bored. If you don't care to, or can't afford to travel... you're boring. Etc...
Not every woman, but many WILL get bored and just a bit of attention from another man will be exiting and set her on the path to possibly cheating on you.
True for a lot of women but not for all. I think a lot of women just want their men to pay attention to them and not sit on the sofa all weekend long and ignore them. I get it that most men are trying hard to provide for their families and need to relax a bit on the weekends, but when it becomes where every weekend the man is not interacting with his family and hanging out with his friends watching the game, there is something really wrong with that. This is definitely boring for a woman AND the kids.
@@aprilmurray4315 no shit...
@@aprilmurray4315 Obviously this doesn't apply to all women, statements like these generally mean it applies to the majority.
And yes, the guys themselves can't just turn into lumps on the weekends (keeping in mind however, how hard and burned out he may get during the week). But I'm not talking about a guy who disengages from the relationship.
I just want my husbands attention. Most guys get complacent and lazy about flirting and making you feel wanted/desired/loved/appreciated after being married for a while and then wonder why their wife is moody and nags. Love is an action, not just a feeling. We don’t want to be glorified roommates. We want to feel like women still and feel loved and valued. If a man is really loving his wife with his actions, there’s now way for her to need anything else. Unless he married a hoe. That’s on him for ignoring red flags though, because they’re ALWAYS there. And it goes both ways. We have to keep taking care of ourselves and making our husbands feel loved and appreciated and respected. If we stop, then we can expect the entire dynamic of the marriage to shift. People need to keep giving their marriage their all rather than getting lazy and then getting upset when their spouse comes to them saying they need to change things in their marriage. I hear that sooo often and people just say the other partner got “bored”. No, you got lazy 🤷🏻♀️
I've been married for 27 years since I was 18 years old. We had went to school together since kindergarten 6 years old. We love each other we do everything together we don't want to be without each other. We have two children and everyone is happy so it's doable
@@jillw892 Beautiful! True love, loyalty, commitment, trust, Fidelity, your lives are more enriched, whole…you’re building something meaningful, lasting..
people that cheat, are destroyers…
He’s talking about modern women
If that's you in your profile picture, You don't look old enough, And your husband is 1 lucky man 😮
Sounds like codependency 😂
Odds say one of you has cheated in some way...we do not believe what you say
Man overtime Chris laugh is so fucking funny 😂🤣🤣🤣 cracks me up everytime
Me too 😂
To say that you have to cheat on them to keep them is total garbage. A woman who really thinks like that has other issues that need to be dealt with. And that's not a woman who's ready to be in a relationship.
💯💯💯💯
Are you sure
Spot on
@@Gymthingzif you choosing these women that’s on you broski 🤷♂️
I didn't hear him say that
He said might take half. Bull shit. Mine never worked and the judge in Alabama gave her about 3/4.
🤣funny but not funny, hardest i laughed all week...my stomach hurt from laughing at this🤣
Brutal
" if he was still alive, he could've saved raygun. "
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅 Raygun isnthr truth😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
They do hate being bored. You can't stop being yourself when you are in relationships.
Yep, and it’s always the man’s fault for their boredom
They should learn impulse control. Self regulation is very much needed.
@@saifullahkhan1202 And they should get a real hobby (outside of social media).
@@saifullahkhan1202 women? Learn impulse control? You got jokes lol
@@cic6002 I don't. Controlling your desires and thoughts should be practiced, women come up all sorts of shenanigans when bored, men don't.
Not me and my wife we’ve been together for 13 years and it’s been the best relationship I’ve ever had. She doesn’t cheat. I don’t cheat. We’re both extremely boring and we love it.
If my man gives me something to worry about, he's gone. I don't just like my "boring dude"... I absolutely LOVE him! You guys need to find better women! I don't know a single woman like what is being described in this show.
At your job, all up and down your IG feed, at the beauty salon or nail spot....they're everywhere
KS is an OG. 🙌🏾
You asked stupid and the wrong women. I don’t need my significant other to cheat so I can have excitement in my life. I have hobbies to keep from being bored. Travel, exercise, watch sports and going to sporting events, casinos. . My significant other is my best friend but we spend quality time together and enjoy being with each other. I want my man all to myself.
Your statement, if it's true. Means you're not the modern woman KS is speaking of. Blessings to your family and you for having functionality in these BS times.
@@succinctlylong No, her statement proves the underlying point, women want a man who isn't all over, who has hobbies and actually respected and desired in society
I was wondering too what women they talked too.
I like boring, I'm boring..well I don't think so much but most I meet smoke and drink, I do not so they might think I'm boring. I like to have fun.. I just don't drink and smoke
Why would you call your "husband" your "significant other"? That's just weird
@@princessluvvsg1967none of you are
men and have no idea what a man's world is like acting offended that men share experiences about women but never want to be mad or question the women being spoken about YOUR SPECIES creates the problem go ask them
50 years ago, I struggled to hook up, then I got married, and oh my how I was suddenly and relentlessly hounded by every girl in town.
My fiance said he was relentlessly pursued when he got married.
I've never been married, but I noticed the same thing the last time I was in a relationship. When I was single, it was hard for me to land a girl. I eventually dated a chick I was friends with who liked me. She was extremely average, but she was nice. As soon as it became publicly known that we were dating, I had girls coming at me left and right. I was shocked to see that not only were some of the more attractive girls in our department suddenly interested in me, but a vast majority of the girls who were giving me green lights were girls my gf was friends with. It made me realize how underhanded women can be towards one another, especially when it comes to them trying to win over a guy.
I like boring and routine. I was in one of those dramatic ass relationships for 3 years and wanted to die. Now I have calmness and a routine relationship. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been
Are you saying that to make us "feel" better? I already know how you women will lie just to make others "feel" good! 😂
@@KanjiEngKorean I have zero obligation to you to make you feel better. If you’re butthurt over women, focus on yourself and getting better. Good luck out there
These men are falsely accusing women and teaching other men to behave unethically.
How long you in this loving relationship
He had you for THREE years. You proved Kevin's point
Lol! This is why so many women are staying single these days. My ex-boyfriend cheated. I left him immediately. You can keep that sh*t. Been with my husband for 12 years and he is "boring" I will take that anytime over some cheater or some prick that wants to test me.
You're a real woman unlike these little girls who prefer any man (even a cheater) that gives them constant dopamine or makes them "feel good"!
If you’re actually suggesting men are the problem in relationships today, I can’t take you seriously. Women are staying single because they *choose* to be single and they live single lifestyles. You’ve been married for over a decade so you don’t understand how women move today. You’re out of touch
@truthtelleranon, she’s not actually out of touch lol… some women actually wants to settle down and find the right partner. Kudos for her finding the right one ☝️
In the situation you are talking about is that some women will find good men and get bored of them then cheat or they will pass on the decent guys then when years goes by they regret their choices missing the right guys.
@@truthtelleranonwhat, but she's a woman herself? I can say the majority of modern men and women don't know what they want but some do, I'm 20 myself and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he's perfect to me and I plan on spending the rest of my life with him. I don't care about status or what other people think about him, that's my man. I'd rather have him, over than a cheater or a "man with status" cause that means nothing to me. I always look forward to him after work.
@@truthtelleranonur too emotional my boy. She was giving an anecdotal perspective from her personal experience in which he would take a boring guy over a cheater any day.
This man is the chosen one. He speaks the truth.
That's why they took him out
Kevin was the truth. RIP
Promoting infidelity isn’t truth. Good women are out there, just few and far between.
Was, died from hypertension.
Nope, ho's get bored! My husband is not a cheater and i don't flirt and we have been together happily for 25 years ❤
Kevin Samuel was Hella BASED!!!!
R.I.P. Bro....
I’m divorced with two kids. Ex wife cheated. I dated for about 5 years after divorce and he ain’t wrong. I finally got tired of it all and decided it’s not worth it. I couldn’t be happier. A LOT more money, total freedom and zero stress.
Trust me better be single than married in the west
Cigars.......I love it. What is your Favorite everyday SMOKE?
Be a passport bro
@@memyself5924 that should be the last option tbh, he should try again and see if he can still attract women in general first unless he wants to attract the fake women that only likes him because he's American!
@@shawndturner my everyday smoke is nub maduro 4x60. Great little everyday smoke. I have three favorites. They are too expensive for everyday though. Oliva serie v melanio wrapper. Those are amazing. The other two are Fuente Don Carlos number 2, and Perdomo vintage 12 year bourbon barrel aged.
If I ever have to become a cheater to keep a woman, I'd rather be alone forever.
I hate when people try to sound profound but really they just sound stupid
He means keeping them on their toes, always having boundaries, and not slacking off, to where if she lets go off everything and get lazy and too comfortable or disrespectful can cause risk of losing you, this makes them involved and also keeps them on their toes and not bored. Also not simping non stop . On the cheating part if a man is enough of high status and income a lot of women will still stay with him because they cant replace him , now i dont do that, but if theres men of high status that come forth with this first and the woman still accepts it , then its all their business a none of mine.
Every time I try to act to impress women they never like it but when I do and say the dumbest things they come flocking. I literally do and say the wildest just to see the limit and they never question it. Ex: "Honey ima rob a bank on the way home from getting us something to eat" usually the reply is never telling me not to do it, its more of like "How much do you think you'll get?". I know that's low value type woman but all of them are willing to do some of the wildest stuff, no limits type vibe from most.
My point is to the guys out there, don't let a woman use you for entertainment because they have no limits. Respect yourself brother. Also test your women to see where their heart is. Call her with a issue and see her reply, act like you got fired and ask to barrow something light like a $100 until Friday.
He's right about being bored, but cheating isn't the fix.
Definitely not, there are so many solutions out there before coming to the terms of cheating
@mp6640 before coming to the terms of cheating? I'd say it's still not even a last resort. If someone is willing to even consider it, they should just have the decency, dignity, morals, ethics and values to just fucking leave. Why stoop that low and cause damage to everyone involved. Society is so fkd. Glad I've gone my own way this past 12 years. I wouldn't trade my peace for anyone at this point, the Juice isn't worth the squeeze.
@Derek_Monk, I totally agree with you Derek that’s why I was saying cheating shouldn’t be a resort or something that should be on the table for consideration. If it’s not working out just move on that way you don’t hurt the person in the relationship.
That means that y’all aren’t right for each other & don’t love each other if you’re “so called bored.” Just be single if you’re not happy. It’s that simple.
@@Fitkid7672 Pretty true. There's a difference between men and women feeling bored generally though. Men can be bored and content. Women become anxious and need attention/stimulation whether good or bad, they will either nag you to create the good for them... or they will create the negative. Either one is a win for most women, attention is attention. If you're not giving them enough, good or bad... They will seek it elsewhere. For some reason they choose drama for excitement more than men. Most men are able to be content in solitary moments, without much stimulus. Why does every day off have to be filled with one activity after the next, errands and shopping sprees.
Trust me. "Just be single if you're not happy". I divorced my ex-wife 12 years ago, and I would never marry again. I had the dignity to do it the right way, unlike people who tell you to cheat for things to work. Knowing how you fit into society brings peace. I don't need drama and destruction in my life for the fickle needs of someone's daily rollercoaster of emotions.
They're missing the whole point on what Kevin was saying. Women need(not all but alot) drama and something to complain about. Women's whole thing of fun as a concept means if they ain't got stuff to shit talk to their other friends about they'll feel their life is boring. Women can't just create fun for themselves with each other, they need incidents to happen that will get their social creature juice flowing so they can conjugate with one another and have that experience of bashing men lmao.
Married to first wife 30 years (she passed a way) married to 2nd wife 11 years, never cheated or been cheated on. The secret is always tell your wife how desirable she is, fake jealousy often, so she thinks she is desirable and she will not need to prove it!
Personally I don't like jealousy, real or fake. I get it though. I'd rather have people just appreciate their partner and love them, but as humans thats not how we're built.
sounds like slavery 🤣🤣.
Kevin Samuels was a good man that was trying to help our community of brothers and sisters while keeping us grounded to reality despite the messages or deliveries not being pleasant. God rest his soul. We lost a good one.
Absolute nonsense. Men that cheat disgust me, women that enable it by sleeping with cheaters disgust me more and OBVIOUSLY, the women he’s interacting with are a toxic nightmare.
100% agree!!
He was such a POS. I watched 30-40 of his videos, he was so far off the mark it was laughable. Yet thousands of men fell for his crap and started a new "He man woman haters club".
You are from a different generation. These young women are different.
@@jwil2414 right. They just want the feeling that they’re with someone better than them, which is insane with young women thinking they’re better than they are cuz of social media. An adulterous man is a weaker man, but women want to be with a man other women want and want to prove to cheating man that they’re good enough for them. 🥲🙃
@@jwil2414only a woman without self respect would stay with a guy who cheats on her. Same goes for a man. Lot of guys go for looks and find out there is no character and then label all young women as trash.
I always laughed with y'all but I think you guys brought in y'all's tech guys in and it's even better now. I didn't get to watch y'all for awhile. Y'all crazy funny
- Never did watch his vids in full other than viral clips that made the rounds, but rest in peace Mr. Samuels nonetheless - 🙏🏼
You should especially when Kevin Samuel's goes one on one with a woman!
Do yourself a favor and check out some of his full episodes you won’t regret it
I’m a woman and when I get bored I subconsciously create drama in my head that gets projected onto my partner. I convince myself he’s doing something bad and I deserve to be treated better. That’s what the voice tells me. Then I look for reasons to justify this thought pattern. My wide array of emotions keep me from staying bored. I’ve only come to these realizations after years of dedicated meditational practices and self awareness. Most women who experience this lie to themselves and have no awareness to it.
SHOUT OUT to Kevin Samuels and the HodgeTwins YEAH!
*He's right tho*
Women will be loyal in a toxic relationship
But they will cheat in a healthy relationship 😂😂😂
I hate a liar. I hate a drunk/druggie. I hate a cheater. Just NO.
lol good luck .
@@Toyota4Life I've managed for 63 years, I think I'm good.
@@athenathegreatandpowerful6365your already out of the market anyways
@@PutThatonaPole really? How old is "too old" to date, get married, have a sexual relationship? I'm really interested as to the current judgement on that.
Facts
He's right but you can keep it new in another way. If it ain't new, it's through.
It is not because they are boring, it is because they are not compatible. She wants comfort and leaving out desires for the wrong person. Don't focus on the needs of an individual but the desire of the person. But then again, it depends on many other things.
I rather die alone, save 85 percent of my energy.
And income 😂
Women do love drama
I don't!
Hahaha and men be talking smack about woman to boost there ego and look good when they ugly in the inside and outside.
Also, they relieve their guilty conscience by accusing their man of things they are more guilty of. They love a mental scapegoat.
Lol no shit Sherlock
@@lindawhite-id3lydid you like it when you were younger?
As a woman, he is absolutely 100% wrong!
you forgot one thing. we don't listen to women anymore, we look at their actions and their responses. completely different things.
Said one woman right before she got bored and dumped the BF
@@Daleunmod😂😂
Wrong for over generalization,sure,but there are women out there who find loyal men “boring “.
As a Man your opinion is invalid last time I checked men date women and only our experiences dictate what’s true.
I love all y’all, laughed throughout this whole episode.
Advice is way off…why would you want a man you can’t trust?? I’m sure there’s other ways to keep someone from being bored in the relationship.
Look at the rapper, future. How many baby mamas does he have?
so they can get a divorce and get the money genius 😂
Basketball culture are teaching men to behave unethically. They slowly slip in their lack of integrity in their influence.
@@warrenpeterson8446 a lot of women aren’t as gold-minded as you’d think. The issue is you and a lot of other men look at the Instagram models and think that’s how all women are.
a brother is about to know what red pill is
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things.
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks
You wont regret it.
LMAO😂🤪🤣 You gone mess around and find out...
“Me and my wife play video games…”
I’m out
LOL~
B-b-b-b-beta~
I bet ur scared of anime and movies too, "man dat shits for kids".
Meanwhile, the kids and adult are being taught through popular media and ur left wondering why everything is falling apart while yelling at the sky.
Relinquish recreation to crazy's at you're own risk.
R.I.P KEVIN SAMUELS ONE OF THE GOAT 🐐
Kevin Samuel's spoke nothing but truth. RIP
I agree with alottt of what Kevin Samuel's has said, but I disagree with the idea that women want a cheater.
It's out of context. If you watch his entire video, you would see who he is talking about. He also talks in generalities.
If women don't love cheaters, why is it that they always complain about men cheating? When the majority of men are single but somehow they always end up with cheaters
He isn’t saying they want a cheater. He said they get bored and cheaters are excited. He said give them something to think/worry about. This isn’t all women but a lot get… bored. But relationships are inherently boring
Also these are not his opinions. He was a scientist with a speciality in mathematics. He always has facts to back him up. He was a very high quality individual and whatever he says - you can take it to the bank. All clips of him are taken out of context. I miss him so much.
Explain why women are attracted to players women stay longer with men who cheat abuse them it’s facts
I said it before and I’ll say it again. “Boredom is the source of all evil.”
This is not true. Im a black woman who wants a faithful black man. I would absolutely love and appreciate his attention and never get bored bc I'm boring. And i do not want a guy that everyone else wants.These kind of men are hard to find.
Feelings speak louder than words! 😊
They are teaching other men to behave unethically based on things they make up. They don't know any women.
They are influencing abuse and claiming their victim like their abuse.
😂
Tell that to those that broke up or divorced cos of cheating.... And I myself have been cheated on and cheated!!! I broke up with my ex's cos cheating is the issue, and not because you are boring!!!
This was a great show! My husband and I have always flirted when we go out. We just know how far we can go, sure if I start to get jealous he knows when to stop & I do too! We've been married 30 years! We have never argued in public about this either. He's white and I'm a latina go figure.
R.I.P. legend
That's absolute bull shit!!!
They're teaching other men to behave unethically in relationships.
I feel like this only applies to a certain kind of woman; I do agree that women dislike their man being joined at their hip
He could have saved Raygun 😂😂😂
He spoke to black women. Raygun is white. lol
@@Fitkid7672he spoke to the men and women who chose to listen.
Lmao!
A great way to keep things random and exciting:
Take a paper and pen.
Fold it in 4.
In the top corner write 1-7 and the weekdays M-Sun.
Bottom left: Write 6 Compliments
Top Right: 6 Affectionate Actions like hugging, kissing, etc.
bottom right: 6 minor gifts like flowers, etc.
Now, take a 1-6 side di and roll it.
Roll 1: The day
Roll 2: 1-3,4-6: Determines what activity
Roll 3: The action. Example, rolling a 1, 3, 1= Monday you buy her flowers.
Terrible advice. No wisdom!! My parents married 50 years till my Fathers passing. My dad and mom NEVER committed Adultry! It’s disloyal, selfish, weak when a man or woman cheats! You made a COMMITMENT! Be a man/woman of YOUR WORD! Disgusted by all the infidelity going around in the world…
same 😔😭
How would you know that for sure???
@@ccdsds3221 it’s common sense mate smh 🤦
@@LovelyBeachCoast-us1ec It's common sense your parents did not commit adultery??? I think you should check what ''common sense'' means...
That's good for your father and mother. Trust me that is really really rare
That’s why you have kids no time to be bored..
Not this one my stupid as husband laid out ONE time came home at 4:30 in the morning and his shit was on the back porch and the doors were blocked and i told him act out i will call the cops .We Are Done .i divorced him and told him done i am not listening to your 💩💩💩💩💩
Ugh. Sounds like he lucked out. Illiterate and unattractive are a bad combination.
You don’t need to “cut that out” Keith.
I’ve been with my husband since I was 17. We’ve been together for 23 years, and we’ve never cheated on each other. I’m not bored of him, and I never will be.
He did say modern women, and maybe I don’t count because I’m 40, but this new generation? 😔 I have very little hope for them. Dat gum land whales out here saying they want a 6’ 4” dude making six figures, and want to be treated like a princess is crazy.
Women don't want men who cheat nor men who is with someone. These men are making things up. You're a woman. Ask yourself, do you want a man who is with someone else. No. That makes the man less attractive. These men are influencing men to behave unethical so that those other men are less attractive to women.
Kevin will always be right RIP 🙏
LOL crazy as hell. the only type of women saying this are extremely toxic. sure they don't want to be bored, that's why you try new things, go on fun adventures, learn more, etc. NOT cheat....
I'm sorry but he has to be talking about black women in specific.
😂😂
Or white/mixed women who act black 😂
No. These men don't date black women. They view black women as undesirable and less than other women.
No. These men do not date black women. They view black women as undesirable and less than other women.
When you're in a relationship space is necessary
As a woman… the truth hurts. Boys and girls need Dads while growing up… Good Dads that tell them they are worth something!!!!
True. Dads need to be there for their children and even more so for their spouse so the kids can see what a healthy relationship is.
so in other words its best to stay single and dont bother with relationship its not worth it.
There's always one night stands! You just have to know how to talk to women though.
@@KanjiEngKorean Nope, I won't even bother with that.
@@KanjiEngKorean How would you know if he does ot not don't assume it's hard for a men in this society with these chicks seriously
These types of men simply teach men to behave unethically. Their influence on men is based on making up false information about women. These are the men who increase their value by making other men less wanted by women.
Well I don't agree on the cheating but definitely not around each other 24/7 unless the world's ending hell even then I gotta hunt down breakfast and dinner lol😂
Well I’m not a modern woman… I wish I could find a Godly man that has the old fashion values.. I loved being a homemaker. The man is the head of the house.
What state are you in?
yeah this guy's the master. he knows all.
I don't know any woman that say HEY I wanna date a cheater lol 😅
They don't say but they wanna think about it , that's his point
You're missing the point...
Smh of course they won't say it. Come on now
@@ccdsds3221right!!!
They don't openly say it they try to get the cheaters. They will go for the guy that has dozens of women and been with a different girl on his arm daily and go that is the perfect bf. Few days later cry when he has a different girl on his arm. I seen this first hand a few times in my teens and early twenties.
so much facts bro
“If you dont cheat you’re boring “. His theory is way off.
Probably self projecting lol 😅
*He's right tho*
Women will be loyal in a toxic relationship
But they will cheat in a healthy relationship😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Stats don’t lie bruh, you either cheating or swinging. Married people are such capers
Yes. These men are projecting and trying to influence other men to behave unethically.
@@atomicgun2491yeah but if you’re swinging, that means both parties have agreed & are ok with it. It’s not cheating. That’s the difference.
Cheating would be a no go for me. Although, I do agree with the boredom. There’s plenty of ways to keep it spicy and interesting without breaking each other’s hearts. This new generation loves drama though, and I think they have it much harder being raised with so much access to everything via the internet. Nothing is left to the imagination anymore. The first time I watched Kevin Samuels I was blown away!! In a good way, such a smart, bold, man.
ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE! HELL NO! NOT A REAL MATURE WOMEN WOULD NOT TOLERATE THAT AT ALL!!
He is talking about modern women not traditional women.
Do "real mature women" type in all caps when conveying a message?
oh u cheat for sure 😂
*He's right tho*
Women will be loyal in a toxic relationship
But they will cheat in a healthy relationship😂😂😂
keep telling urself that buddy LMAO!
This may be true for the typical woman but it’s not all of them there are good women out there who are loyal and trustworthy
All I got from this was… DONT GET MARRIED…..
I guess im a weirdo who likes a faithful man. Been with mine for 18 years (since we were teenagers!)
I just make sure to treat her like shit from time to time. But I'm also spontaneous and i bring gifts out of nowhere. Keep that on rotate.
If she cries from time to time you’re doing a good job 😂
Let her know you will leave the moment she stops being the woman she should be, because you will. And that goes both ways.
What utter tosh ... my man cheat, that man GONE!!
And this is why Hispanics are the best women, they're just built different
Gross
Most Hispanic families are religious, so they are taught good morals and respect family values. Even more so if they are from other countries
@@roystroble3354tf you mean gross..😒
No thanks, I'm not into cheaters. I love my boring guy!!
Going to say this all the time until I'm dead single people talking about people being in relationships makes literally no f****** sense
Good point..
I remember being a young teenager. A friend’s mother told me about women. “We get bored easily. We like to be entertained.”
What is the point of that loud ass music in that edit?
😂😂 that create a player is insidious
Men like this because it benefits them. There is no scenario where cheating improves my life.
I was faithful to my first wife for 17 years. I passed up so many opportunities to cheat. She ended up cheating on me and leaving. I cheated on my second wife the whole time we were together and I loved every minute of it. She broke up with me because she was bored. The moral of the story is they’re going to leave you no matter what. You might as well enjoy yourself. 😂
@@herschelsquirts2338 You love being a POS don't you? Laughing about it too...
Women cheat more than men. They're just better at hiding it, otherwise you wouldn't have the President of France banning paternity test because 2/3 of the population would rise up. Can you imagine two out of every three men that you see with kids aren't raising their kids. The worst possible thing a man could do is find out that the kid isn't his and that he has put a dime into that kid's mouth instead of the other mouth. It's why patrilineal lines of succession and agriculture come in at the same time because men don't want to raise other men's kids, but sometimes biologically the better man isn't the man who is the most physically resource equipped to raise the child. So women have evolved a duel mating strategy. It is heinous, and morally corrupt to engage in it yes. To drive this point home, I want you to realize that genetically speaking you have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors, this is because half of men die without children. So it is quite obvious who cheats more and it is women. You're welcome
@@herschelsquirts2338it's true but you missed one part in the equation ..women will accept cheating form certain men... like they said the one other women want... that's the most important component in this matter
@@mohammeds7576 you just have to be that man. It’s not difficult. Have confidence, shower everyday, groom properly, and above all else, have confidence and a sense of humor. They’ll eat out of the palm of your hand!! 😂
Kevin Samuels said A LOT OF TRUTHS !!!!!! RIP to a very good man.
I don't like taking relationship advice from somebody who's been divorced twice.
Why aren't people who've been married for 40 years ain't giving advice on relationships?
You don’t have to go through with the cheating…. Just make her believe you are cheating. It’s been working for me since 2022.