Maybe you should quit your job because before you get your license/certificate, you should already learn about “symptoms” which your wife had been showing but you “CHOSE” to ignore because you did not care about her enough or like you said, it’s just your wife.. For someone that learns about the humans body and feelings, yet still this clueless with this many hints, you do not deserve her at all. She is not that different from all those women you talked to, which you know so much about. When someone cries, you do not need them to tell you they are sad for you to know. 🤦🏻♀️ I have no words for the way you reacted to her pain and all of your excuses. I wish the wife all the love in the world and for her to find happiness in whatever she chooses to do in life. 😭❤️
I'm sorry but you need to speak to your family member, especially your spouse, in a respectful manner. Family comes 1st & others come 2nd in my life. That should be how it is. Tsi txhob ua zoo zoo rau cov qhua sab rauv tiamsis treat yus tsev neeg like crap.
You didn't want to nurture your relationship and had an emotional affair with other women. Big flag when relatives ask you to do private counseling knowing their intentions in the past. Appreciate what you have before its too late! Glad you learned your lesson and god bless your wife for giving you a second chance.
I don’t feel sorry for you. It’s your profession & you should appreciate & speak well to your wife & children just like your clients too or even better.
Ab cas txoj neej neeg no nim yog kiag kuv lub neej ntag tkuv mloog mas kuv los los kua muag li kuv tus txiv ces pab lwm tus poj niam mam pab tshaj li tab si yus thov nws pab yus mas ntev ntev mamtwb tsi nco nqab los pab yus li tu siab tshaj li ib hnub twg ntshe kuv kawg khiav ntsiag tos li tus niam tsev no xwb lauu
You’re wrong to begin with … you need use the same concept as you use those nice words to other outside too or else that’s the cause of your marriage going downhill. If you use the same language and treat your wife family same as you use for outside people then your wife wouldn’t be so sad. You wanted love and nice words too so same thing! Lack of communication and everything else that’s why your wife feels like she does.
We live and we learn from the mistakes we make, I'm so glad that you have the opportunity or second chance to fix your mistakes with your wife, I wish that all man's and all women's who's mistreating their spouse should listen to your life story here and ii believe that it will change alot of people who mistreating their spouse and willing to admit their wrong...
Ua cas koj Zaj no yuav khws kuv lub Neej kawg thiab. Kuv yuav mus hai lub zoo zog rua kuv tus poj niam tsawm taus. Yeej yog li koj hai. Cov poj niam nquag yeej tsawm taus. Ua tsaug os.
You knew that exactly what you did. Take responsibility for your actions. You choose to ignore your wife’s symptoms but continue to treat other women well with nice words. Men like you need to lose their women to know what they had.
U have to love urself first. 2nd is to love, respect and nurture your wife and kids. 3rd are your parents and siblings. Than you can spread ur love to outsiders. It should start within u and ur family. U had it backwards. U are lucky she came back to u.
Ua neeg Nyob tsis need koj poj niam los hais qhias rau koj, yog koj hlub koj tus poj niam txaus ces koj yeej tsis need mus tham lwm tus poj niam, you never see your problem. You are so self centered, only care about your self and not the people who love you. You are what they called, “you never practice what you preach”!!!!
Txiv neej mas yog ntsej muag dev tiag tiag. Thaum nws tus niam tsev tseem nyob ruaj khov hauv lub vaj lub tsev mas cov niag txiv dev yeej saib tsis muaj nqi li. Thaum luag tusiab khiav mus kiag lawm mas nim mus ua dev pliab dev phu ntsej muag tuab cuag log cam thov kom rov los. Txiv neeg hmoob mas tseem tseem dev tsoob muaj es thiaj txawj lim hiam tshaj plaws.
So glad that she was smart enough to endure the hardship you treated her until she couldn’t regret anymore when she left. You soft spoken to others but failures counseling her emotionally, physically couldn’t give her the advice she needed, you knew her well enough but purposefully will not change. She was your wife worked hard trying to protect you & her marriage but you looked outside to cheated her heartbreaking. Your behavior, can no longer tolerate to the point she decided to leave you, never want to return but left you to others, those your have feelings for. When the hurtful you establish in her heart will not the same anymore! Hope this is a lesson learned for us all!
Coob tus poj niam muaj txiv lawm muaj phem ncauj tsiv lus li koj tus no out there thiab. Tsis muaj leej twg out there yuav kho tau kom lawv muaj zoo ncauj yog lus rau lawv tej txiv. Tus kho tau yog nws tus kheej los yog lawv rov kho lawv xwb. Cov tib neeg coj li no tsis txawj luj lus hais los yog luj lus cem thee leej twg li.
Yeej yog tim koj xwb los mas thaub. Koj tsis hais lus mos thiab qab zib rau nws li koj hais rau luag sab nrauv nws thiaj tu siab rau koj los mas. Tsis tas li ntawv koj tseem nyiag tham hluas nkauj tib si poj niam thiaj lwj siab thiab chim rau koj.
Ib txhia txiv neej yeej tsis sawm zoo thaum luag tseem nrog yus nyob tsis pom luag zoo yus mus pom tus sab nrauv zoo hais lus mas nim hais ntsaj laws rau tus sab nrauv hos tus hauv tsev mas hais 1 los tsis txog txij twg los nthe thiab cem hais tias tsis zoo npaum ub npaum no cia luag tawm plaws lawm mas nim mus quaj kua muag kua ntswg hlauv leg tseem pe heev tshaj li thaum nyuam qhuav yuav luag mus ua tshoob es pe lawm thiab tiag
Bro, how could and how do you know how to say nice words to the outside but not the one next to you that is your significant other. It is your fault for not respecting your wife and not loving her!!! Shame on you
You neglected your wife, giving other women your attention when your wife was suffering. All she wanted from you was to show her your love, by words and physical, being there for her when she needs you the most. You failed your marriage.
Yawm txiv aw! Tus poj niam uas thaum pom koj tham hlias nkauj es chim siab tshaj plaws los tsis hais dab tsi hlo thiab tus uas pom koj tham hluas nkauj es khaws riam los hom rau koj cem cuag poj qaib tsauj qe ob tug no ces tus coj ntsiag to li koj tus poj niam yog tus thaum nws tau mus lawm ces tsis rov los lawm ov nco ntsoov tsam tsis muaj zaum ob lawm.nawb
Tav no koj mam kawm tiav los tus phooj ywg yus lo lus zoo yus twb xub hais rau tus hauv tsev mam mus txog rau tej kwv tij phooj ywg thiab tu qhua sab nrauv ho cov txawj hai lu zoo rau tus nrauv los txog hauv tsev mas nthe nkau xwb no ces tej laus lawv hu ua dev vwm no nam
Kuv dhuav cov txiv coj li koj kawg nkaus li tiag. Koj tus hauv tsev koj tsis hlub li es tus sab nrauv ces ho hais lus mos lus muag rau. Koj siab phem thiab ov
Why you keep repeating saying that your wife never say anything about you never gentle or say good words to her. She did say, but you keep denying and refuse to acknowledge what she asking you, and telling you.
Your wife no alone 10.000 hmong women walked same shoes as your wife .muab soj ntsuam los txiv neej hmong yog cov g kam muab los lus zoo los hais 6 tus niam tab cuab .kuv tus txiv ces yog kiag koj tus ntxaib thiab os tus me txiv tsev aw LOL
You claim you’re a professional but you don’t talk like one to your family members. I would feel very sad too if I were your wife. You took her for granted. You think because she doesn’t complain, she has no heart? You think because she’s old and no longer desirable that she can’t leave you. What did you expect, you spoke to others, especially other women with love and respect but not to your wife, the mother of your children.
Koj ces kawg tuag laus, ua hauj lwm mental health ces koj yog mental lawm. Hais lus rau tus tej me muam npaws qub kiav roj es hais qab zib, “koj zoo nkauj, es kuv hlub koj, koj yog neeg zoo”. Siaj, koj ces kawg tuaj laus. Yog li koj tus poj niam hais lawm koj ces lam zoo rau xab nrauv xwb os. Ib txias txiv neej ces zoo li ntawv….koj ces ruam dhaus lawm os, ua hauj lwm li koj, koj puas paub hais thias “muaj conflict of interest no nawb”. Koj niag muam npaws ntawv yuav tau mus saib mental health worker outside family and not inside family nas. Koj xav2 nrov mus tham koj niag muam npaws Mos xwb mas. You lack respect for your wife.
Txiv neej hmoob ces yeej zoo li no yuav luag txhua tsis paub hlub pojniam lawv muab pojniam ua qhev nkaus xwb…. Koj mas yog li koj tus ntxhais hais to stupid Tsuav koj yog leej txiv xwb ces yeej hais tsis tau stupid rau koj li los ?
Sounds like the counselor needs a counselor.
Maybe you should quit your job because before you get your license/certificate, you should already learn about “symptoms” which your wife had been showing but you “CHOSE” to ignore because you did not care about her enough or like you said, it’s just your wife.. For someone that learns about the humans body and feelings, yet still this clueless with this many hints, you do not deserve her at all. She is not that different from all those women you talked to, which you know so much about. When someone cries, you do not need them to tell you they are sad for you to know. 🤦🏻♀️ I have no words for the way you reacted to her pain and all of your excuses. I wish the wife all the love in the world and for her to find happiness in whatever she chooses to do in life. 😭❤️
I'm sorry but you need to speak to your family member, especially your spouse, in a respectful manner. Family comes 1st & others come 2nd in my life. That should be how it is. Tsi txhob ua zoo zoo rau cov qhua sab rauv tiamsis treat yus tsev neeg like crap.
You didn't want to nurture your relationship and had an emotional affair with other women. Big flag when relatives ask you to do private counseling knowing their intentions in the past. Appreciate what you have before its too late! Glad you learned your lesson and god bless your wife for giving you a second chance.
Ntuj aw… Peb cov poj niam txoj kev ntshaw tshaj ces yog ntshaw nej cov txiv txoj kev hai lus zoo txhawb peb lub zog es peb nim tu tu siab kawg
I’m glad you realize what you did wrong. When I listen to this, I purposely listen close to my husband hoping he’ll learn from it 😂
I don’t feel sorry for you. It’s your profession & you should appreciate & speak well to your wife & children just like your clients too or even better.
Lom zem Tas tas. Ua tsaug ntau
Ab cas txoj neej neeg no nim yog kiag kuv lub neej ntag tkuv mloog mas kuv los los kua muag li kuv tus txiv ces pab lwm tus poj niam mam pab tshaj li tab si yus thov nws pab yus mas ntev ntev mamtwb tsi nco nqab los pab yus li tu siab tshaj li ib hnub twg ntshe kuv kawg khiav ntsiag tos li tus niam tsev no xwb lauu
Lam yog txiv neej xwb tsis yog txiv neej yawg. Lam yog txiv xwb tsis yog txiv tsev.
You’re wrong to begin with … you need use the same concept as you use those nice words to other outside too or else that’s the cause of your marriage going downhill. If you use the same language and treat your wife family same as you use for outside people then your wife wouldn’t be so sad. You wanted love and nice words too so same thing! Lack of communication and everything else that’s why your wife feels like she does.
We live and we learn from the mistakes we make, I'm so glad that you have the opportunity or second chance to fix your mistakes with your wife, I wish that all man's and all women's who's mistreating their spouse should listen to your life story here and ii believe that it will change alot of people who mistreating their spouse and willing to admit their wrong...
I'm that kind of wife. I don't beg for attention or love, if you love me you will do it. I see what you're doing and keep it inside.
Dag tiag tiag ib tug txix es txawj hais zoo rau luag tiam sis tsis txawj hais rau yus tus dag tiag tiag neeg siab phem quav dev dlau
Ua cas koj Zaj no yuav khws kuv lub Neej kawg thiab. Kuv yuav mus hai lub zoo zog rua kuv tus poj niam tsawm taus. Yeej yog li koj hai. Cov poj niam nquag yeej tsawm taus. Ua tsaug os.
Some people always see grass greener on the other side! You don’t appreciate the one you have until it’s gone !
Kuv lub neej ces zoo li txoj neej neeg no kuv mloog ces kuv thiaj txawj yog kua muag ntw si xwb
You knew that exactly what you did. Take responsibility for your actions. You choose to ignore your wife’s symptoms but continue to treat other women well with nice words. Men like you need to lose their women to know what they had.
U have to love urself first. 2nd is to love, respect and nurture your wife and kids. 3rd are your parents and siblings. Than you can spread ur love to outsiders. It should start within u and ur family. U had it backwards. U are lucky she came back to u.
Thaum peb poj niam quaj twv ywg ua kuam muam ntw sim ces lawv twb tus tus siab lawm ma
Ua neeg Nyob tsis need koj poj niam los hais qhias rau koj, yog koj hlub koj tus poj niam txaus ces koj yeej tsis need mus tham lwm tus poj niam, you never see your problem. You are so self centered, only care about your self and not the people who love you. You are what they called, “you never practice what you preach”!!!!
Haub yaub cas sawv koj ntxov ua luaj lauj Lau twb yuav tuag mam txawj hais lus zoo naj
Txiv neej mas yog ntsej muag dev tiag tiag. Thaum nws tus niam tsev tseem nyob ruaj khov hauv lub vaj lub tsev mas cov niag txiv dev yeej saib tsis muaj nqi li. Thaum luag tusiab khiav mus kiag lawm mas nim mus ua dev pliab dev phu ntsej muag tuab cuag log cam thov kom rov los. Txiv neeg hmoob mas tseem tseem dev tsoob muaj es thiaj txawj lim hiam tshaj plaws.
Hmong woman will always forgive..
Mr..if your wife sweet talk to another man what will you do? Txiv neej awb duam
You so lucky got her back!
My God u sound like my husband 😢. We women strong n the heart lawm os
Hmong men are like that..mu spouse too.
Wow, at least koj learn koj qhov lesson mas!
So glad that she was smart enough to endure the hardship you treated her until she couldn’t regret anymore when she left.
You soft spoken to others but failures counseling her emotionally, physically couldn’t give her the advice she needed, you knew her well enough but purposefully will not change. She was your wife worked hard trying to protect you & her marriage but you looked outside to cheated her heartbreaking. Your behavior, can no longer tolerate to the point she decided to leave you, never want to return but left you to others, those your have feelings for. When the hurtful you establish in her heart will not the same anymore! Hope this is a lesson learned for us all!
You need to talk to our wife like you talk to your client or GF! If you do, she will not be so sad, lonely, confused and unhappy!
Coob tus poj niam muaj txiv lawm muaj phem ncauj tsiv lus li koj tus no out there thiab. Tsis muaj leej twg out there yuav kho tau kom lawv muaj zoo ncauj yog lus rau lawv tej txiv. Tus kho tau yog nws tus kheej los yog lawv rov kho lawv xwb. Cov tib neeg coj li no tsis txawj luj lus hais los yog luj lus cem thee leej twg li.
Sounds like my husband he always said nice things/or words to others but he doesn’t said nice things!
Hom neeg hais lis zoo ko ces yog hom siab dub siab phem tsaj pim kom ua dev nqov ntuj ces tsim nyog kawg lawm
Yeej yog tim koj xwb los mas thaub. Koj tsis hais lus mos thiab qab zib rau nws li koj hais rau luag sab nrauv nws thiaj tu siab rau koj los mas. Tsis tas li ntawv koj tseem nyiag tham hluas nkauj tib si poj niam thiaj lwj siab thiab chim rau koj.
Ib txhia txiv neej yeej tsis sawm zoo thaum luag tseem nrog yus nyob tsis pom luag zoo yus mus pom tus sab nrauv zoo hais lus mas nim hais ntsaj laws rau tus sab nrauv hos tus hauv tsev mas hais 1 los tsis txog txij twg los nthe thiab cem hais tias tsis zoo npaum ub npaum no cia luag tawm plaws lawm mas nim mus quaj kua muag kua ntswg hlauv leg tseem pe heev tshaj li thaum nyuam qhuav yuav luag mus ua tshoob es pe lawm thiab tiag
Bro, how could and how do you know how to say nice words to the outside but not the one next to you that is your significant other. It is your fault for not respecting your wife and not loving her!!! Shame on you
Koj zam no tu siab ua luaj li. 😢😢
You neglected your wife, giving other women your attention when your wife was suffering. All she wanted from you was to show her your love, by words and physical, being there for her when she needs you the most. You failed your marriage.
Koj tsi yog neeg tso siab koj tsi yog neeg tsi paub haig lug zoo koj yug neeg siab đub muab tug sab nrau saib muaj qi đua tu nrog koj nyob txhiv txhua koj naj txiv hmoob siab phem
Cas ho Kam hais lus zoo rau tus sab nraud ....es ho tsis lus zoo rau tus hauv tsev....
Thooj li kuv tus txiv li os
Wow Buddy!!! You really are a dum dum and so lucky your wife loves you so much!!
Qhov tseeb koj twb ua lees txaus lawm twb ze tusg laem thisj lam mus tos rov los tsev xwb. Kev npam ze ze laem
Cas tseem muaj ntsejmuag coj tuaj piav thiab lod niag txivdev ruam, emotionally your wife was already dead inside…
Siab phem kawg nkauj nrab yuav zaws koj yam niag nyuv xwb mas txiv dev aw
Tibneeg ces tsis tas luag yuav qhia rau yus, yus yuav tsum kawm los paub xwb thiaj muaj qab haus. Your story ended with happiness.
Your so wrong. Why talk so nice to other ppl but not to your wife.
Isn't that your job to find the diagnoses?
Yawm txiv aw! Tus poj niam uas thaum pom koj tham hlias nkauj es chim siab tshaj plaws los tsis hais dab tsi hlo thiab tus uas pom koj tham hluas nkauj es khaws riam los hom rau koj cem cuag poj qaib tsauj qe ob tug no ces tus coj ntsiag to li koj tus poj niam yog tus thaum nws tau mus lawm ces tsis rov los lawm ov nco ntsoov tsam tsis muaj zaum ob lawm.nawb
Of course how dare you not say or use good words towards or to your wife, she should be the one who gets the most kind words from you
I think he did worst then what he's making it sound. He probably cheated on his wife with his cousin and all his patients.
Es koj nim need koj tus wife qhia koj thiab lo. Koj yeej tsim nyog paub why lawn. Ruam tiag
F hee let her go. Women always expect us to read thier mind.
Haha ras tsis txoh tias tus poj hmoob yuav khiav tau hhhh
Cov txiv zoo li tus no mas ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws nws tsuas txawj ua zoo rau tus sab nrauv xwb nws tus nws hos tsis txawj hais tsis txawj hlub.
Yus siab phem yus cas tseem Liam rau dab thiab.cas yuav Tim lawv li Tim lawv xwb
Tav no koj mam kawm tiav los tus phooj ywg yus lo lus zoo yus twb xub hais rau tus hauv tsev mam mus txog rau tej kwv tij phooj ywg thiab tu qhua sab nrauv ho cov txawj hai lu zoo rau tus nrauv los txog hauv tsev mas nthe nkau xwb no ces tej laus lawv hu ua dev vwm no nam
Good excuse bro, the beginning of a cheating relationship. I’m with your wife.
Thaub, niag neeg siab phem tab txawm yog kuv kiag los yog thaum yuav khiav koj yeej tsis qhia ib yam. Nim txawj txawj hais lus mos lus zoo rau luag sab nrauv tabsi tus hauv tsev mas hais lus loj.li loj xwb.
Kuv dhuav cov txiv coj li koj kawg nkaus li tiag. Koj tus hauv tsev koj tsis hlub li es tus sab nrauv ces ho hais lus mos lus muag rau. Koj siab phem thiab ov
Yog kawg koj yeej ruam tshaj plawg lis koj lam yog ib niag txiv neej ruam tiag tiag..
Koj yeej siab phem es koj tej lus zoo zoo xub xub hais rau koj tus niam tsev. Ntuj aw koj nim hlub hlub mos vuag yawg vwm koj npab nauj siab phem tshaj plaws
Why you keep repeating saying that your wife never say anything about you never gentle or say good words to her. She did say, but you keep denying and refuse to acknowledge what she asking you, and telling you.
Your wife no alone 10.000 hmong women walked same shoes as your wife .muab soj ntsuam los txiv neej hmong yog cov g kam muab los lus zoo los hais 6 tus niam tab cuab .kuv tus txiv ces yog kiag koj tus ntxaib thiab os tus me txiv tsev aw LOL
You claim you’re a professional but you don’t talk like one to your family members. I would feel very sad too if I were your wife. You took her for granted. You think because she doesn’t complain, she has no heart? You think because she’s old and no longer desirable that she can’t leave you. What did you expect, you spoke to others, especially other women with love and respect but not to your wife, the mother of your children.
I don't buy it
Don't make any sense
Koj ces kawg tuag laus, ua hauj lwm mental health ces koj yog mental lawm. Hais lus rau tus tej me muam npaws qub kiav roj es hais qab zib, “koj zoo nkauj, es kuv hlub koj, koj yog neeg zoo”. Siaj, koj ces kawg tuaj laus. Yog li koj tus poj niam hais lawm koj ces lam zoo rau xab nrauv xwb os. Ib txias txiv neej ces zoo li ntawv….koj ces ruam dhaus lawm os, ua hauj lwm li koj, koj puas paub hais thias “muaj conflict of interest no nawb”. Koj niag muam npaws ntawv yuav tau mus saib mental health worker outside family and not inside family nas. Koj xav2 nrov mus tham koj niag muam npaws Mos xwb mas. You lack respect for your wife.
Txiv neej hmoob ces yeej zoo li no yuav luag txhua tsis paub hlub pojniam lawv muab pojniam ua qhev nkaus xwb…. Koj mas yog li koj tus ntxhais hais to stupid
Tsuav koj yog leej txiv xwb ces yeej hais tsis tau stupid rau koj li los ?