Ben Howard - End Of The Affair

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  • @marinastant5249
    @marinastant5249 2 роки тому +215

    I just discovered his music a few days ago and I can't get his songs out of my mind.. his music is transformative, healing, and so raw. I've never really experienced music just like his. So original!

    • @jamesfoster4106
      @jamesfoster4106 2 роки тому +14

      Exactly how I felt when I first heard him. Enjoy! Going to see him live is on my bucket list

    • @narclothix
      @narclothix 2 роки тому +6

      Marina, i have only in the last year found this track myself and my partner, the break and the uptempo beat dropping is fucking genius and I have to say that anyone who considers themselves to be a musician or just a music fan and doesn't rate this is a fraud

    • @MrBogus213
      @MrBogus213 2 роки тому +10

      The Burgh Island EP is amazing.

    • @fredymendez855
      @fredymendez855 2 роки тому +3

      only his new albums dont get enough credit because they are very different from his folk background with India Bourne and Co....but the Defeat from Noonday ALlbum is a gem as its nothing like he has ever produced. Then you have the current album where you see more of the defeat but tones it down a bit as Crowhurst meme is much like the defeat and my favorite far out. During the Pandemic i bought a guitar because I love Bens music and here I am as a guitarist. Enjoy this artist Albums as all are gems.

    • @Raisin_Girl
      @Raisin_Girl 2 роки тому +3

      Check out Hozier 'To Be Alone', Ryan Montbleau 'Ships in the Night', Matt Duke 'I Got Atrophy on the Brain' @WTMD & , Sean Hoots 'Watch Your Mouth'. I hope you find some things you can vibe with. Love their music.

  • @mfro4422
    @mfro4422 Рік тому +33

    This is incredibly raw. It makes me reminisce about so many things in the past. I am so grateful for my wife.

    • @dionoliveira4058
      @dionoliveira4058 Рік тому +2

      bless you brother.

    • @amandagrant1982
      @amandagrant1982 Рік тому +1

      Bless both of you and your bond🤍🤍🤍

    • @dbthreshold
      @dbthreshold 9 місяців тому

      I have met the love of my life too and grateful is exactly how this song makes me feel
      And how the time spent in heart break you can never get back

  • @LaNk16o2
    @LaNk16o2 Рік тому +35

    Been trying to live with a broken heart for nearly a decade now. This song and all Ben’s music has helped me get through dark days.

    • @ricardopereira6873
      @ricardopereira6873 Рік тому +1

      Damn !! A decade ?! What happened ? ... if you dont mind me asking, of course. Ive been going thru it myself, 2 months in ... will this shit ever end ??!!!
      Stay strong, bro.

    • @Puertoricanprincess566
      @Puertoricanprincess566 Рік тому +5

      I'm 5 years in, just know you're not alone.

    • @jakebeatstheworld
      @jakebeatstheworld Рік тому +4

      "Time is a great healer", said by people that have never felt heartbreak. 20 odd years, new loves, only just experiencing days when she is not in my head.

    • @tizz.89
      @tizz.89 10 місяців тому

      You're certainly not alone , I'm sorry you've been having that internal feeling.. ... the worst for was discovering Ben with that person back in 2012, took until 2020 until I felt better. And it was thanks to Ben, yet again, discovering him with her , then being able to feel at peace by him yet again... full circle.. you'll feel better soon xx I promise

    • @worththekeeping
      @worththekeeping 10 місяців тому

      Sorry to hear you are struggling... Ben and a band called Frightened Rabbit are the two things that get me through difficult times...
      "And tomorrow will always come
      And tomorrow may well bring the sun"

  • @johnMJacobsen-do7vn
    @johnMJacobsen-do7vn Рік тому +19

    Hits the heart like a jackhammer, crashes through the soul like a avalanche, enters the deepest parts of the mind like a thief in the dark of night.

    • @dionoliveira4058
      @dionoliveira4058 Рік тому

      The "heart" and the bodies intelligence does not need the programmed compliant mind. When we learn to tap into this we transcend.

    • @boozalm3715
      @boozalm3715 Рік тому

      An avalanche*

  • @matthewwallace9452
    @matthewwallace9452 5 років тому +28

    Living without her, living at all..
    Goddamn that hits like destruction to my soul.

    • @ricardopereira6873
      @ricardopereira6873 10 місяців тому +2

      Your comment was 4 years ago ... Are you better, these days ? Amazing live performance, aint it ?

  • @MrBogus213
    @MrBogus213 2 роки тому +20

    6:12 he's singing into the body of his acoustic guitar! Never seen anyone else do that!

    • @spencerr2323
      @spencerr2323 6 місяців тому +2

      So damn good. The way he screams “this is hell” “this is desert” kills my soul, but brings it to life too idk how to describe it.

  • @SalemEries
    @SalemEries 2 роки тому +6

    ….down the Ben Howard river I go…. ..God , I love to float.

  • @alexanderspear9464
    @alexanderspear9464 Рік тому +9

    It's possibly one of THE greatest tracks of ALL time

  • @dalefrary
    @dalefrary 2 роки тому +29

    Never heard of this dude before. I'm going to explore his back catalogue.

    • @aaronwall1190
      @aaronwall1190 2 роки тому +5

      A Genius

    • @subarolla
      @subarolla 2 роки тому +7

      Well prepare to have your mind blown.

    • @staygold902
      @staygold902 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/vGXFAmUZ8Mk/v-deo.html thank me later. One of his best 👌

    • @johnholmes2541
      @johnholmes2541 2 роки тому +3

      He is phenomenal Dale so enjoy

    • @MrBogus213
      @MrBogus213 2 роки тому +3

      He has some incredible music

  • @epicadventure01
    @epicadventure01 2 роки тому +42

    Lyrics
    The end of the after
    The weight of a war
    The kindness gone to bed
    The weight of your laughter
    Alive in the hall
    Did he hear, did he hear
    The fumbled words you said?
    Living without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Hell, I don't know
    Do I care, do I care
    The thunder's rumbled sound
    Now I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friends
    The end of the after
    The weight of a war
    The kindness gone to bed
    The threat of your laughter
    Alive after all
    Did he hear, did he hear
    The fumbled words you said?
    Living without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Pale light on all
    Do I care, do I care
    The thunder's rumbled sound
    Now I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friends
    Now I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friends
    This is it?
    Well this is desert
    Go to him
    What the hell, love?
    What the hell, love?
    This is it?
    Well this is desert
    And go to him
    What the hell, love?
    What the hell?
    This is it
    What the hell, love?
    What the hell, love?

  • @Cac.53
    @Cac.53 Рік тому +1

    ❤friend just now introduced me to Ben and I'm like IT feel his words and voice in my 🖤❤️‍🔥 thanks TDS, as always most special to me and your music library is beyond any I've ever known, u r a 💫🌟to me, thanks and much Love ❌⭕🫂🫂🫂❣️

  • @atlantafilmseries
    @atlantafilmseries 4 місяці тому +5

    I can't stop listening to this song.

  • @JA-io8nx
    @JA-io8nx 5 років тому +47

    This is so pure and brilliant it's scary

  • @1982PRA
    @1982PRA 2 роки тому +12

    Just found Ben’s music. Absolutely beautiful

  • @arcacoma3524
    @arcacoma3524 Рік тому +13

    One of only a few musicians who can be categorised at genius level that are currently with us...There's not too many either...This guy will stand the test of time and history will be kind to him unlike the drivel like Styles,Sheeran,Westlife etc etc and other Canon fodder the musically uneducated are force fed by money making media driven record executives and the like..

  • @anthonyalonzo6185
    @anthonyalonzo6185 Рік тому +2

    i listen to this song everyday! incredible how music can make you feel

  • @abbyh1312
    @abbyh1312 7 років тому +13

    'Could you be, could you be alone ?
    My hatred, my hate will bring me close '

  • @rwb_gary6355
    @rwb_gary6355 2 роки тому +8

    Seen him live twice, Dublin and London and I get goosebumps still after all these years. Incredible, really incredible ☘️

    • @sirmikeypikey
      @sirmikeypikey 2 роки тому +1

      same here, man. to me one of the most underrated artist of our time, at least here in Germany....

    • @rwb_gary6355
      @rwb_gary6355 2 роки тому +1

      @@sirmikeypikey so underrated! Love him ✌🏽

    • @emmafillingham464
      @emmafillingham464 11 місяців тому

      6:55

    • @emmafillingham464
      @emmafillingham464 11 місяців тому

      6:55

  • @davidjmckinney
    @davidjmckinney Рік тому +5

    the live sound engineers on this deserve a gd medal

  • @Thefall3n33
    @Thefall3n33 Рік тому +1

    I’ll always miss the way it felt like you knew me more then I knew myself 💔❤️‍🩹 I’ll always love you Tyler

  • @wcarp4231
    @wcarp4231 Рік тому +2

    Love this! I get so lost in his music, in a good way.

  • @elliemckinlay3945
    @elliemckinlay3945 3 місяці тому

    Sums up in one song exactly the emotions of a shit ending to a very important relationship. The words and music fits almost perfectly to how you feel in the moments of dispare

  • @jonathonhansen6005
    @jonathonhansen6005 Рік тому +4

    Wonderful music!

  • @mikemalo6336
    @mikemalo6336 2 роки тому +5

    HOLY SHIT WHAT A SONG!!!

  • @greyether777
    @greyether777 Рік тому +1

    Some of my favorite people & music on the planet.

  • @paulwade7806
    @paulwade7806 Рік тому +5

    when u sing into a guitar mic for a emotional change in a ever changing track, u know

  • @theoryfish3491
    @theoryfish3491 Рік тому +12

    So good, he earns two places on my all time top 100. This and the legendary Jools Holland slot. Gotta love when you find genius as an intuitive...

  • @agiantecho
    @agiantecho Рік тому +1

    What a great song by Ben H!!!! Love it!!!

  • @emmybegood12
    @emmybegood12 4 роки тому +21

    One my favourite performances of this song!

  • @sols4102
    @sols4102 4 роки тому +7

    at the end of the song the way he puts his hands in his face... Thats ben howard: someone who is 100% himself throught pain sadness or hapiness and for himto give is full in a song he must live throught the emotion of the song. This is why he never king ever kingdom anymore, thats not him anymore

  • @rebeccanorthey7335
    @rebeccanorthey7335 Рік тому +3

    Another level this guy just awesome

  • @datheamore6395
    @datheamore6395 Рік тому +2

    This is transcendent. Amazing!

  • @narclothix
    @narclothix Рік тому +1

    There's no words to do this song justice. I new nothing of this guy until I went to a mumford and sons gig. And this song the passion and love real music

  • @Theevilzoltar
    @Theevilzoltar 7 місяців тому

    Such an amazing artis,t tortured by his success. The difference between his first and album are remarkable and massive. He stepped away from the spotlight and in doing so produced absolute raw emotional magic. Not pandering to the populus and folding to the tecord company his given us the best of what he can be as an artist. ❤

  • @mattsouza7184
    @mattsouza7184 2 роки тому +1

    I'm here again... Thanks Ben for everything

  • @SteelUnreal
    @SteelUnreal 2 роки тому +6

    what the heck... How am I finding this only now?

  • @darvyowolf
    @darvyowolf 2 роки тому +8

    this completely destroyed me it broke the bottle I had every emotion shoved down into and sealed off he just leveled it I guess it was what I needed

    • @mariesprowl2348
      @mariesprowl2348 2 роки тому

      That’s the healing beauty of music - helps us release deeply repressed feelings ❤

  • @amandagrant1982
    @amandagrant1982 Рік тому

    Stunning 🔐🌬🤍⚖️

  • @stevehicks5780
    @stevehicks5780 4 місяці тому +1

    Best of British. True, raw talent

  • @speckyhotdog84anderson6
    @speckyhotdog84anderson6 2 роки тому +5

    Masterful performance this was prime Ben Howard right there 👏 🙌

  • @PauloFernandes67
    @PauloFernandes67 Рік тому +1

    Just great...🎶💙

  • @jlynn-p6p
    @jlynn-p6p Рік тому +2

    Amazing, great work!

  • @daniell.dingeldein9717
    @daniell.dingeldein9717 6 років тому +9

    simply an amazing artist...gifted

  • @joschfromthelake
    @joschfromthelake 2 роки тому +1

    such really big music - i have no words for

  • @TheGinge1973
    @TheGinge1973 Рік тому

    Breathtaking, outstanding performance

  • @mannyj9829
    @mannyj9829 7 років тому +13

    Im so into cello gal...

    • @minotaur953
      @minotaur953 6 років тому +2

      Manny J her name is India Bourne

  • @skyler1559
    @skyler1559 2 роки тому +1

    Absolutely beautiful ❤️

  • @JF-tu5hx
    @JF-tu5hx 2 роки тому +2

    Absolute Scenes ❤️✨❤️ chilling and gripping in everyway I have goosebumps all over me this is Art

  • @NaNcy-wl8wt
    @NaNcy-wl8wt 2 роки тому +1

    So lovely, i adore this voice and passion, the guitar, everything just

  • @josephwest659
    @josephwest659 8 років тому +6

    Awesome

  • @udx-483muddbucket5
    @udx-483muddbucket5 2 роки тому +6

    I really like his style of playing. You may look at Billy Strings. His is Blue Grass but a very similar style of playing. I like this a lot.✌

  • @garethstanden3732
    @garethstanden3732 2 роки тому +2

    only ever seen the Jools Holland show version. you can see the emotional drain on this at the end. His zenith for sure...

  • @Fireneedsair
    @Fireneedsair Рік тому

    The album (which this song is on)I forgot where we were is pure genuis. The ones that followed were different and didn’t grab be quite as much. But bens on a journey and he will explore. The fear off his previous album is a great song and wonderful video

  • @2steepanddeep
    @2steepanddeep 2 роки тому +1

    Juicy unification of contrast.

  • @MrStrido
    @MrStrido Рік тому

    This is the last time I say this is awesome without deleting

  • @StuartCox-te5ns
    @StuartCox-te5ns 7 місяців тому +1

    Big love to india

  • @Souprsix
    @Souprsix 2 роки тому +1

    Miss you, Benny

  • @darksideofthelewis
    @darksideofthelewis 4 роки тому +1

    Absolutely superb

  • @rubensrechtsanwalt
    @rubensrechtsanwalt 2 місяці тому

    Sehr gut!

  • @michellekulovany5076
    @michellekulovany5076 2 роки тому +1

    WOW !

  • @antso9817
    @antso9817 2 роки тому

    simply brilliant

  • @jimnicosia7046
    @jimnicosia7046 7 років тому +20

    "What the hell, love?"

    • @In_time
      @In_time 5 років тому

      ❤️⛏😭

  • @angelramos2799
    @angelramos2799 2 роки тому +1

    All u could say is wow

  • @eugeniochorbadjian1380
    @eugeniochorbadjian1380 2 роки тому +2

    Don't you hide back there Mr Cline,we all saw you!

  • @samanthaquigley9678
    @samanthaquigley9678 Рік тому

    Living without you...living at all

  • @mariesprowl2348
    @mariesprowl2348 2 роки тому

    WOW

  • @francisdewar2850
    @francisdewar2850 2 роки тому

    Wow

  • @mischawatson9548
    @mischawatson9548 Рік тому +2

    When you discover that the person you love in the end has already moved on

  • @LackedMushroom0
    @LackedMushroom0 8 років тому +17

    I hate it when people applaud too early..

  • @katharinam5512
    @katharinam5512 2 роки тому

  • @aileenbudway8341
    @aileenbudway8341 Рік тому

    Fuck yea!

  • @BillyHofford
    @BillyHofford 4 місяці тому

    Anyone notice the cello bass player on drums??🫡🙌❣️

  • @vjd247
    @vjd247 Рік тому

    Hello Alfie! Okay to share this? Video's still playing, was the format that grabbed me, would share in a Culture, Music & Art page and with your permission on my personal twitter and facebook.

  • @pseudonymlifts2
    @pseudonymlifts2 2 роки тому +2

    His voice is kinda similar to lindsey buckingham when he goes up there.

    • @mikemalo6336
      @mikemalo6336 2 роки тому

      Totally, i was thinking Supertramp could have done such a cover of this. Not kinda similar, he has the same yell.

  • @andrewdarley3373
    @andrewdarley3373 5 років тому +1

    InJecT

  • @ronaldbear1
    @ronaldbear1 Рік тому +1

    Who broke this guys heart

  • @onealspence8548
    @onealspence8548 Рік тому

    Ed sheeran. Can piss off
    This next level DONE

  • @craig3111
    @craig3111 Рік тому

    Who’s the cellist?

  • @jenynce
    @jenynce Рік тому +1

    People shouting at the wrong time in this song . They should be quiet specially when the good bit starts towards the end

    • @tizz.89
      @tizz.89 11 місяців тому

      Annoys me so much . Its nice they comnect and feel it though , its important but annoys me at times haha, even worse when gigs are on and they sing along so loud ruins it.. then again its probably the feels they feel while they're actually there.. but fuck , let us listen to Ben's screams without the interference lol ❤

    • @jenynce
      @jenynce 10 місяців тому

      @@tizz.89oh yes 100 percent agreed there’s a time and a place to do that . This is defo the place when he goes wild audience should go wild too but when he is doing his bit when it’s quiet and he is building up nice and gentle people should just enjoy that part rather than screaming and shouting at that part haha ruins it

  • @katalyst567
    @katalyst567 Рік тому

    I've never been married but this is the closest thing to the worst sex I've ever had.

  • @nocando5365
    @nocando5365 2 роки тому +1

    Loved his first album, but he hasn't followed it up with anything near as good., since.
    Happens all the time. The first great albums usually have some songs that are years old. When a new album is due they have to work on a clean slate. That's where new albums are normally not as good. That's where the top creative song writing talents float to the top and the mediocre next ablum usally sinks to the bottom.
    Fingers crossed he finds some inspiration from somewhere for his next work as his first album was up there with some of the greats

    • @Fireneedsair
      @Fireneedsair Рік тому +1

      Lol. This is his MASTERPIECE

    • @nocando5365
      @nocando5365 Рік тому

      @@Fireneedsair What you talking about, boy!

  • @fromParis2011
    @fromParis2011 Рік тому

    Il n'y a que moi qui trouve qu'il chante faux ? On dirait.

  • @TheGSRaW
    @TheGSRaW 2 роки тому

    жалкое подобие Pink Floyd

    • @MrBogus213
      @MrBogus213 2 роки тому

      No, it's a perfect Ben Howard. No need to compare the two. He writes from his heart and soul. If you don't like it, move on.

  • @domenicpetrino6835
    @domenicpetrino6835 8 місяців тому

    This is intense, he's amazing.

  • @skyler1559
    @skyler1559 2 роки тому +3

    Absolutely beautiful and special ❤️