Ace by Angela Chan - Part 2 | A Guide to Asexuality | Eng Subs | The Book Show ft. RJ Ananthi

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  • @-Liyash-
    @-Liyash- Рік тому +28

    Asexual
    -experiencing no sexual feelings or desires; not feeling sexual attraction to anyone.
    This is not a crime nor a sin.
    Just another way of living.
    Let people live the life they want.
    Thanks ananthi for bringing this topic to light.👌👍❤️

  • @thanushree2248
    @thanushree2248 Рік тому +16

    Yes I am asexual and I so happy that I am not alone and someone like who is tamil too.
    I became and choose to be a asexual because the Chid abuse I faced. Accept my family members I feel so insecure to even stand next or speak directly to my opposite gender. The question that rise with in me that is sex all about life and relationships? Made me a asexual as a girl I don’t feel awkward too

  • @ashwiniist
    @ashwiniist Рік тому +19

    Thank you for reviewing this book. ❤️ Also, cool and subtle way to come out. 🏳️‍🌈

  • @travisgreg
    @travisgreg Рік тому +18

    I have a friend who says she is Asexual, I hope this video and reading the book will help me to understand her and keep up our friendship.

    • @travisgreg
      @travisgreg Рік тому

      @@Hindustan2469 May I know what was the question?

    • @-Liyash-
      @-Liyash- 5 місяців тому +1

      If you really love your friend you wouldn't be bothered whether he/she is asexual
      You are not a friend
      you are a boomer.
      😂😂😂

    • @travisgreg
      @travisgreg 5 місяців тому

      @@-Liyash- one should know the other person's sexuality, it prevents many emotional turmoil to the other person who believes that friend is a straight person.
      If this is wrong, I'm okay to be a boomer.

  • @VarahanAndBrindha
    @VarahanAndBrindha Рік тому +24

    Understanding iladhadhala 1% nu ninaikaren. I relate to this & I am part of the 1%. I thought most women were asexual 😆

  • @nivethavarthan
    @nivethavarthan Рік тому +2

    Such a great learning..... Never knew such a feeling exists.... Thank you Anandhi dear for bringing to light all these insights..... Very useful dear for all of us.... Appreciate your courage for exploring such complicated and unique topics........
    ❤❤❤ you set an example to all the girls to be themselves without adhering to the societal norms........hats off dear..... Wish you loads of success and happiness🎉🎉🎉🎉Keep doing amazing things like this

  • @kirubadossd.2002
    @kirubadossd.2002 Рік тому +6

    Very nice,
    Can you review “பெண் ஏன் அடிமையானால்”?
    I think, you are right person to review this and you are bold enough to do it.
    We are waiting to see your view on book, also consider when ( the social, economic, political situation of that time) it was written.

  • @aishwaryarathinam1698
    @aishwaryarathinam1698 Рік тому +1

    So loud and clear..My heart is full whenever I watch your videos. Thank you!!

  • @dharinipadmanaban5618
    @dharinipadmanaban5618 Рік тому +6

    Bravo Ananthi girl! Proud to hear you loud and clear..

  • @karthikmohan136
    @karthikmohan136 Рік тому +2

    Unmaidhan namma eppadi irukkanumnnu nammadhan mudivedukkavendum. Society nammalla force panni kalyanamm physical relationship ellame. Endha oru manidharayumm kayappaduththamma nammaloda vazhkaiyai nammadhan vazhanumm. That's is right thing. I like your thoughts about life process.👍👍👍👍🙏💯.

  • @inbapriya2914
    @inbapriya2914 Рік тому +7

    Even me Asexual
    I got married just because of this we r having some misunderstanding,Now I got to know what's the exact think for that problem thank you for explain about it.

  • @sarathysm
    @sarathysm Рік тому

    Thank you so much for making us aware of Asexual. Hearing this term very first time. I totally love your channel because I like reading books. I'm getting to know new books and topics with review makes me feel happy. Thank you so much Ananthi. Keep your book work.😊👍

  • @soulwinner8687
    @soulwinner8687 Рік тому +3

    good info. New revelation/perspective about people. In order to bring such awareness and education, I personally feel India should bring new laws to ban arranged marriage concept. This will solve many problems. And it will help us to develop a better version of human kind. I am not joking. Just think about it.

  • @abinayas7141
    @abinayas7141 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for reviewing this book❤😇

  • @Aryayayin
    @Aryayayin Рік тому +1

    Thanks a lot for reviewing this book! I'm an asexual trans man. And as the ace FTM in the book said, it was easy for me to deny sex when society saw me as a woman. But as a man, it's hard. Most of my guy friends turn everything into something sexual and pass a lot of A jokes. They don't even know why they are doing that. When I came out about my gender, most of my guy friends said, "Ok, hereafter we can sight girls together". It felt like one ''should be'' hypersexual to be a man. Even when it comes to consent people usually say, "Even if it's your wife, you need to ask permission". Which is true. But shouldn't it rather be, "Even if it's your partner, you need to ask permission"? Just like cis heteronormativity, the idea that men are ready/ looking for sex 24/7 is normalized. It's like, "If you pass up an opportunity to have sex, are you even a man bro?" It's sad.

  • @Akilakamuthurai
    @Akilakamuthurai Рік тому

    Bravo Ananthi… so bold of you to post this video

  • @Babu12334
    @Babu12334 Рік тому +9

    Many men as high as 41% of Indian are turning into asexual after reaching 30 years old. And their choice should be respected. And 70% of them are from South India. Highly progressive mindset people should stop criticising such people and learn to appreciate them and accept them.

  • @minime5064
    @minime5064 Рік тому +2

    Ten years munadi intha mathiri videos pathiruntha better ah irunthirukum. Enaku oru pona pudichiruku nu thairiyama sola kuda mudiyatha stage la irunthom apo. I didn't want have sex with her but we were kissed eachother hugged eachother rompa neram hug panitu irunthurukom yarukum theriyama maranchu maranchu. Intha mathiri society la irukuranga apdingra idea ve apo illa. Suddenly she got married ava permission kuda ketkama avanga vitla mudivu panitanga. I was broken on that time.we ,friends were went to her marriage before a day. On that night without knowing anyone she kissed me. Deep kiss and last kiss. After I got marriage with a man I didn't have intrest in sex at all.but atha enala open ah en partner kita sola mudiyala. He thought na payapaduren apdinu. Payangara depression. Stressed. Na ena pananum epdi ena mathikanum apdinu than yosichen. Lesbians pathi full ah thericha apuram k nanum ithuthan.it is natural apdinu thericha apuram than i feel relaxed.because anyway I got married enala ena mathikavum mudiyathu athuku avasiyam illa. athuku apuram avar mela kovam illa.avara enoda nalla friend ah ethukiten.ipo avaruku thevayanatha na kudukuren without having any stress.but ipavum avar en kita ketkira question unaku intha asa illaya. Ne epovum vanthu initiate panamatekura. Ithelam na epdi avarkita solrathu, sirichu malupitu irukuren. Ipo intha video pathathuku apuram i get even more clarity.Neenga epdi ivlo open ah solringa ananthi unga sexuality ah🫡👍

  • @ciscotech123
    @ciscotech123 Рік тому +2

    Asexual is amazing 🏳️‍🌈✌️💞

  • @vishvanthsaravanakumar3078
    @vishvanthsaravanakumar3078 Рік тому +2

    it takes a lot to come out. thank you Ananthi for normalising and easing it to have more conversations about gender/ sexual identities and orientation.
    a personal thought: I find an ace person choosing their love partner is purer than that of a non-ace simply because they don't really have the incentive of sexual drive yet they chose a person through emotions and love. (not that sexual attraction is wrong by any means, but passiye edukama if somebody eats then it means they really thought about why they need to eat and what's good for them than doing it in addition to the drive of hunger)

  • @pavithrasrinivasan-pz9zf
    @pavithrasrinivasan-pz9zf Рік тому

    Thank you akka for ur video which is social awareness

  • @bts-lil-panda1053
    @bts-lil-panda1053 Рік тому +4

    Hii akka, I'm also the one person from the 1% of the person ☺️.

  • @aishwaryaganesan2939
    @aishwaryaganesan2939 Рік тому +2

    Arthamulla hindu matham book
    review panunga sister

  • @anumay9769
    @anumay9769 Рік тому +3

    Hi anandhi it’s quiet weird but still I wanna know is there any book talks about jealousy possessive and is dat normal or how to come out of those feelings by knowing depth about it 😊

  • @saransk6072
    @saransk6072 Рік тому

    Thank you for article review
    learn more and understand, change something

  • @jeevasatansgod8957
    @jeevasatansgod8957 Рік тому +2

    15:01 let's all share this world - dialogue nalla iruku 👏👏👏

  • @gowthamtalks2987
    @gowthamtalks2987 Рік тому +1

    Ithavida nalla yaraleyum explain panna mudiyathu thank u Ananthi

  • @jameelarifaya1749
    @jameelarifaya1749 Рік тому +2

    Thank you anandhini for opening up and you content on LGBTIAQ+. Sad that still many aint aware of existance of the term inclusive meaning accepting the fellow human being as who they are irrespective of their gender identity,expression and sexual orientation.

  • @harrinidevi1214
    @harrinidevi1214 Рік тому

    Great one ❤ As usual 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @nathiyasaravanan8750
    @nathiyasaravanan8750 Рік тому +1

    Amazing Book, Thanks sis

  • @Learn-Thingss
    @Learn-Thingss Рік тому +9

    I am homosexual. I am staying in hostel with 3 hetrosexual people. They are asking me to change myself. They say don't be like this. They say be like men. They are saying that I am weird.😭 What to do?
    (Recomend book related to 'How can a homosexual people be with hetrosexual people).

  • @alshaif4246
    @alshaif4246 Рік тому

    What are you thinking about LGBTQ I want to know in your perception....

  • @cooldude6796
    @cooldude6796 Рік тому

    Enna book review ithu

  • @angel_love577
    @angel_love577 Рік тому

    Such a bold girl you are akka❤

  • @RK-28
    @RK-28 Рік тому +1

    Nice explanation. But you can also deal with topics other than sex.
    There are lot of useful topics to discuss.

  • @mohankumarmallika3796
    @mohankumarmallika3796 Рік тому +1

    I'm Fray-sexual

  • @SuperiorCake386
    @SuperiorCake386 Рік тому +4

    I Don't like Humans Why

  • @mohanamohana4532
    @mohanamohana4532 Рік тому

    Sis same nanum ungala Mari dhan feel panren.

  • @entobaiyunagaraju7565
    @entobaiyunagaraju7565 Рік тому +1

    Please recommend Gentle parenting Tamil book mam

  • @baburaju30
    @baburaju30 Рік тому

    In this video is enough

  • @divyasri1291
    @divyasri1291 Рік тому

    Actually i have one doubt how to unlearn ourself?pls tell me sometipsss

  • @keshveeresh4382
    @keshveeresh4382 Рік тому +1

    Can you explain about bisexual

  • @gowrisubramaniyan6836
    @gowrisubramaniyan6836 Рік тому

    With out sex before mrg set agum but after mrg ena pana mudium baby nu topic pesa thane seiraga

  • @Selvaram
    @Selvaram Рік тому +3

    i am a boy does it mean i have to go to work and have a car own house 5 digit salary to get married 😂😇

  • @GokulHardy7
    @GokulHardy7 Рік тому +2

    Talk about incest, polycamy and Zoophilia

    • @GokulHardy7
      @GokulHardy7 Рік тому

      @Rishi Kishore incest na close relation kuda sex vachikirathu , Zoophilia means sexual attraction towards animals

  • @sriranjan5345
    @sriranjan5345 Рік тому

    Kindly review one last stop book LGBTQ genere only very interesting book.

  • @veeraragavan6455
    @veeraragavan6455 Рік тому

    Hi I recently started to watch your videos, but we have lots of books to read, nowadays your videos regarding sexual books,i don't want like this video, please uploaded nice books videos.
    Thank you

  • @dravmo3479
    @dravmo3479 Рік тому

    I like your dad and mom❤❤❤...

  • @thiru7703
    @thiru7703 Рік тому +2

    Asexual na ninga marriage panika matingla

  • @UchihaMadara-hb5uc
    @UchihaMadara-hb5uc 7 місяців тому +1

    JFF (just for fun)
    what the full name of this book PORTGAS D Ace or fire fist ACE🔥🔥🔥. AH

  • @karuppasamyssn
    @karuppasamyssn Рік тому +1

    Jagadish sollurathu ellame thappu dan.

  • @ramvlogger7995
    @ramvlogger7995 Рік тому +1

    Sir 2013ல் தமிழ்நாட்டில் 3500 பெண்களுக்கு நடந்த கொடுமையை பற்றி பேசுங்கள் sir. உங்களுக்கு சந்தேகம் என்றால் Google சென்று தேடிப்பாருங்கள் 3500 Fake Register marriage certificate case,chennai உண்மை தெரியும்.😢😢

  • @shamb8915
    @shamb8915 Рік тому

    Respect Dear ❤

  • @keerthanarajendran4028
    @keerthanarajendran4028 Рік тому +2

    Akka... i am 24... i am not interested in sex..but i watched porn videos that nothing makes me feel.. but interested in romance like whenever watching romance in movies or something, going to another world..(nan epo ithellam experiance pana porenu eagerly waiting..) ithuku per enna solvanga🤔... the bitter truth is i am still single..

    • @rjayaprakash1368
      @rjayaprakash1368 Рік тому

      Unmayava solringa? Konja vinothamana case ah irruke

    • @deekshapanth3218
      @deekshapanth3218 Рік тому

      Same story here, I am also 24 and single 🤣

    • @Hindustan2469
      @Hindustan2469 8 місяців тому

      I'm a male and asexual,
      searching for asexual partner,
      please reply ,
      kindly inform to me ,if you know anyone

  • @rleefowzan1938
    @rleefowzan1938 Рік тому

    "nalla music." payemuruthuthu mmmmoooo

  • @durairajanbalaji
    @durairajanbalaji Рік тому +2

    Yours voice so cute 💗🥰 darling 💋💞

  • @balavignesh7845
    @balavignesh7845 Рік тому

    Ur so beautiful ever

  • @pravi2k-kid
    @pravi2k-kid Рік тому +6

    ‼️ஆனந்தி அப்பாவி பெண்களை கெடுக்காதீர்கள்.ஏனென்றால் அவர்களுக்கு குடும்பம் இருக்கிறது.அவளுடைய உடை, வாழ்க்கை முறை, நடத்தை போன்றவற்றைப் பற்றி கேட்க அவளது குடும்ப உறுப்பினர்களுக்கு,
    மற்றும் உறவுகள்,நண்பர்கள்
    இவர்கள் எல்லோருக்கும் கேட்க உரிமை உண்டு.நீ உன் இஷ்டத்திற்கு இருக்க வது போல் இங்கு எல்லோராலும் இருக்க முடியாது.நான் பார்த்ததிலேயே மிகவும் நச்சுப் பெண்ணியவாதி நீங்கள்தான்.

  • @muthuvelsengamalai5683
    @muthuvelsengamalai5683 Рік тому +1

    Nowadays you are describing sex related books.Is there any particular reason?.Any way carryon..

  • @balakrishnabalu4704
    @balakrishnabalu4704 Рік тому

    🙏🙏

  • @krishnamoorthy7045
    @krishnamoorthy7045 Рік тому +1

    Speak any one language you speak fully english some tamil

  • @vmv1544
    @vmv1544 Рік тому +1

    ஆனந்தி போன்ற ஆட்கள் ஏன் வாடகை தாயாக மாற கூடாது?
    ஒரு எண்ணம் வந்தது
    இதனால் இன்னொருவருக்கு உதவி தானே?

  • @saivikramcdm
    @saivikramcdm Рік тому +1

    17 ஆம் நூற்றாண்டிற்கு முன்பு வரை உலகம் முழுவதிலும் பெண்களுக்கு ஒரே கட்டுப்பாடு
    அதாவது பெண்ணின் கண்ணிதிறை கிழிய கூடாது திருமணத்திற்கு முன்பு
    Greese, Rome, India and some countries

  • @starwin2586
    @starwin2586 Рік тому +4

    அப்பா சாமி இவள் Channela subscribe பன்னிட்டு நான் படுற பாடு இருக்கே அய்யோ....

  • @Rajkumar7276-l3s
    @Rajkumar7276-l3s Рік тому +2

    விஷம்....விஷமத்தை பெண்ணியம் என்ற பேரில் கக்குகிரது

  • @scopis
    @scopis 17 днів тому

    👍