I love this comment. 😂 agreed. I’ve been married 31 yrs and never have I ever been treated this way. When he said Kelly is a much better wife than she’ll ever be, I wouldn’t be able to hold back. He would be looking at his wallet in his back pocket. 😂😂😂
I quote my own mother-in-law. 'It is not the wife's job to buy the husband's mother her mother's day gift. If the wife wants to give one, then it is a very sweet gesture.'
@@markmcelroy8722No doubt you’re kidding;) cause calling someone stupid is very inappropriate, knocking someone’s teeth out with a skillet is assault. Sure, they’d be a toothless asshat, but you’d be a felon😉
The abusive way he talks to her at the start is 100% grounds for divorce...but starving a pregnant woman is palpable physical abuse, and grounds for denial of child custody. After all, who's to say they wouldn't look at the NATURALLY chubby arms & legs of a baby, declare the child is "too fat" and then deny that child food?
This dude is ridiculous, berating her for not buying a Mother’s Day gift for HIS mother. Just another husband who doesn’t treat his wife with basic human respect.
I had a friend whose 1st husband made her eat salads when she got pregnant... I think that, and the stress he put her through caused her to miscarry... thankfully, she left him. She's now remarried and has 2 kids with her new hubby... I told her that 1st one didn't count... lol
Good for your friend, my cousin had a miscarry of twins, it was stress from another person, my cousin is a revend and a good man and now they have two wonderful little girls, alboth are a year a part, they are twins though
John: "It's your duty as my spouse to obey me and do as I say." Me: "And it's my duty as her family to take you out behind the shed and kick your head in with a steel toe boot."
Nancy should never have gotten pregnant with John's baby. He would only have talked to me like that one time and I would have been gone. Boy he was psychologically abusive for a long time. What a jerk.
I know. I thought the story was going to START with her already pregnant, but that happened months after the Mother's Day crap? And he drinks and wastes money? Nope. I would make sure I didn't get pregnant as I planned my escape.
I don't know if murder could be done in these stories I mean we've seen stories where people die of natural causes or in accidents honestly I would like one where the wife does snap and just beats the ever-loving crap out of the abusive spouse
I was waiting on her to ask him, “since we are to think about each other’s parents, what did you send MY mom?” When my wife starts in on things she expect me to do for her family I always ask….”did you do that for MY mom/sister/etc?” For some reason that argument dries up rather quickly
That worked for me as well! I stopped doing it for everyone and they all got pissed at me but by that time I didn’t care anymore ETA, I used to get very ill 🤒 EVERY holiday or throw my back out so I had to do it for my own self presentation
She should have answered his statement that"if it wasn't for his moether they would have never met" with "I'll try not to hold that against her, but it'll be really hard."Then again somebody would only speak to me the way he speaks to her ONCE drunk or sober and then they'd be left choking on my dust.
I don't know. Even you seem a little tame, it'd be seriously hard to not put myself in jail.... even if it's just for putting his most prized possession in a woodchipper.
@Lucretcia Seven Personally, I'd rather be hit than that manipulative self-esteem destroying sh*t. Feeling like how he wants her to feel is so much worse than the physical pain. 😥
If John thinks that being abusive and drinking a lot makes you a big man, he should be kicked repeatedly until his voice permanently goes to the tenor end of the scale.
11:51 - "AFTER THAT: I never did what he told me to do. Instead, I packed all my belongings, placed some divorce documents on the kitchen table and left. He was then unable to go to work because his car was still at his office, angering his boss because he was supposed to attend an ultimately crucial business meeting that morning. He got home after getting fired, found the divorce papers, failed to call me because I ghosted him. Since then, he never knew my whereabouts and I don't really care what happened after that!" Karma: "But wait!! This video is 35 minutes long!!" 🤣
Thinking about getting his own mother a gift for mother’s day is not his job? How would he know what a “good wife” is when he’s not even a good son or husband? They are getting really good at creating despicable characters.
well, many of these "husbands" sadly have wives, who let the husbands trample on them for too long, or never really learned to stand up for themselves. so it works out for them for years of even decades. the US had a president, whose mindset is still that, and even women are voting for him.
They assumed Nancy was just fat.....and denied her any lovin' But that's not really fat, that's a bun in the oven And when a woman gets pregnant, she eats for two But John overlooked this on purpose, and his parents did too So guys, the moral of this video that's entirely too long Is that starvin' your wife when she's pregnant is dead wrong
John: Constantly insults and berates his wife. Also John: You're leaving!? Why!? What did I even do? All I did was abuse you on a constant basis. Come on! You're making a big deal out of nothing.
Op should have told him and his family to Back Off!, with her parnets and a hard assed lawyer, her dad holding a shotgun and her mom a large cast iron pan
When I asked mother where did she meet my father, she said:"If I knew I will meet him that day, I would stay home and cook rice. One bean at the time!" 😅😅😅 This is that kind of a man. Well... an excuse for a man And as much as I know, if you try to get a pregnant woman's and her baby's life and health in danger, by not feeding her properly, her family should be the ones to beat the guy up and at least break few bones on him and tell him what will happen to him if he disrespects, or hurts the woman who is carying his child. If he doesn' t get the memo even then, well then you just need to beat him some more and beat his parents up. They participated in this. Also, look what they raised
I have never seen a woman who lets a man run over them like this. About two lines of talking to my wife and my teeth would be on the floor. And she would be out the door. My wife is not so meek lol.
This is one of those stories that I wish I could reach through the screen and shake the shit out of the heroine. Ain't no way in hell she didn’t see a little red flag waving over this whole family at some point. And yeah, i know I'm being kinda ridiculous about a piece of fiction. 😂
My dear sianted aunt, who passed away of cancer four years ago, was 'married' ( she should have Never dated) this male person, will remind nameless, he was a loud, oboiuxus emetionly abusive thing of shit, who would always be drunk when he was with my family, he was a creepy 'nice guy' who used harassment on me and my younger cousins and other young women in front of people, I wish it had been him that passed away, not my aunt, who was my dad's sister
@@jaclynsanture6643 I'm so sorry your aunt and your family suffered from that man. My father was an alcoholic and decades after his death , I still have problems. Hope you are well.
This is why Alcoholics Anonymous have the rule that you must, in front of others in the organization, that you are an alcoholic. It gets you to be honest from the get-go.@@jet4415
She’s being too damn nice. I’d say dude it’s your mother your job especially since she’s so picky. And he would not be allowed to speak to me in that manner
In Gilmore Girls, Paris had the best saying to that jerk who might have cheated on Rory 'he is nothing, but a spoiled brat, and if disappent from the earth now, no one expant his parnets would miss him'
My mother in law complained once something I gave her (something she said she wanted) and I told my husband his mom his responsibility from then on. It is his responsibility.
After she died, I found almost every gift I bought for my MIL NEW with tags and receipts. She had never not acted appreciative or said anything nasty. I was sad, but respected the fact that she never wanted to hurt my feelings.
My mil complained about a gift I bought her for Christmas that she chose and she complained. The next year I bought her a gift certificate to a store she loved and she got mad she didn’t get a regular gift. I never bought her another gift.
She is his mother so he should get a gift 🎁 for her since he is her freaking son and both his parents including John are the absolute worst. Also being a single mother is better then being around John.
They make stainless steel napkin dispensers. Very retro, 50s diners aesthetic. They make a very satisfying "bong" when struck empty. I would recommend she make music with that using his head.
Less than 10 minutes in and I'm pissed at both of them. Him for being an abusive A-hole, her for apologizing and promising to do better. I know, I used to be like that when I was involved with someone that could be this dude's twin. That makes this especially painful to watch. Even otherwise strong and intelligent people can be manipulated into an abuse cycle, it's insidious.
With that kind of talk from the husband, he will receive a punch from me if I were the wife! And I will immediately divorce him! He doesn’t deserve any love from me!
God, John and the in-laws are the worst. I may not be pregnant, but I wouldn't doubtat all its tiring [sorry if i spelled it wrong]. Pregnant women are gonna get big, thats because of the baby. You know what I'm saying?
Yes, my kind, sweet sil is pregnant and my brother is having her eat right, he is going to make a wonderful father, unlike this narasstic, abusive male person in the story
John if continue to be abusive you are going to lose your doormat disrespected wife and unborn baby. The audacity of this nasty waste of space and his family, cheeky monstor.
Usually, the woman will be discussing the possibility of being pregnant as soon as she misses her period. And as soon as she knows she'd be talking her man, texting if he's not around. There's a very good reason she only told him when he was drunk!
I would have told him she's your mom not mine so you get her a gift. then I would have presented him with divorce papers. I would never allow anyone to talk to me like that.
Your mother, your responsibility to get her a gift. This guy reminds me so much of my late husband. I'll admit that this one was a bit rough to listen to.
The fact that every time they talk or chat he call her stupid or names, and also she always saying sorry, cant stand it.. I wont stay as a wife if my husband treat me like that..
Honestly, this guy ís just a complete jerk!! His abusive language is a harbinger of abusive physical behavior. Having a baby with this snake? Utter madness...
My husband and I didn’t always get along, but one thing he did was he did not let his mother do or say anything negative about me, whether I was there or not. Geez, this guys voice alone is pissing me off.
That husband does not deserve to be married and become a father if he thinks his wife being pregnant is going to be too fat and not give her the food she wanted, he deserves what comes to him, and his parent's too
Child support and visitation rights are two separate issues, I wish the authors of these stories would realize this fact. Even when the husbands are jerks.
Well then if that's the case, in the States, if you don't havea name on the birth certificate, he technically can't do anything. If he took her to court for a dna test, he'd need to give reasoning and her too....he would definitely NOT get custody (maybe not even supervised cause he put HER life in danger). She was right. That was domestic abuse and reckles endangerment with his own child.
It’s very annoying and aggravating to hear the blue box people in some stories just allows the abusers walk, and talk all over them like this lady. Why should she give the one who made her accident a gift when she never gave birth to her.
His Mom didn't raise her, so no, she doesn't really need to give her a present. It's nice, but if the woman is awful when she receives a gift then no, never get her another one, lol Ladies, NEVER let a man talk to you like that. Just no. And for Pete's sake don't get pregnant by a guy like that.
My ex husband use too talk too me like that when we were married 30 years later he tried to talk to me like that again an I put him in his place I told him I don’t know who in the HELL do you think you’re talking to he couldn’t believe that I wouldn’t take his shit anymore cause I’m Not your wife anymore that person doesn’t exist anymore got it
Just because you marry a man , does NOT mean you have to give your mother in law anything ever . its her sons responsibility to give a gift to HIS mother for mothers day . i have five bonus kids , i would NEVER demand they give me things for mothers day as i am NOT theri mother . my daughter gets me stuff for mothers day . good gravy . who comes up with these stories .
A pregnant woman can't survive on just "Salad".. that doesn't have enough, if any, nutritional value for both mother and fetus.. I was over him when he told her to only send HIS mom a mother's day gift but not hers.. I wished my hubby would.. that's his mother, not hers, she doesn't have to send her shyt if she doesn't want to.. his abusive behavior wouldn't of gotten any better.. it would've just gotten 100× worse once the baby is here.. disrespectful little turd.. first off, he doesn't need to be there for child support to be discussed.. child support, custody, spousal support will all be discussed during a divorce proceedings.. his checks/bank account would just get garnished and he'd be held in contempt of court for not showing up for court..
The fact he was trying to be smug & act like he had the last laugh before a time skip later begging to see his son & another time skip later desperately begging Nancy to remarry him & ask her dad to help him get a job. I'm guessing the new girlfriend didn't last long since she isn't mentioned past Nancy being aware he got with someone after the divorce. I also kinda want to imagine some of the issues at work might have been because he told everyone his wife got pregnant & ran away. I hope his parents/family get some punishment cause they're just as much at fault as the ex-husband. Especially the ex-MIL for her behavior. Hope OP might one day find a better person to be with if she decides to remarry. Also hope the ex-husband eventually is forced to pay the missing child support along with what he still owes. Maybe also his family getting shunned cause people found out what happened to OP. His family forced to leave in shame just like him.
I've been married 50 years if my husband ever treated or talked to me that way he would be looking for his teeth.
If MY husband spoke to me like that he would be an ex.
Mine would be looking for his gonads lol
I totally agree! I’d burn his clothes too 😊
As a wedding present I received a cast iron pan, called “the husband trainer”, I’ve never had to use it in 36 years of marriage!❤️👍🏻
I love this comment. 😂 agreed. I’ve been married 31 yrs and never have I ever been treated this way. When he said Kelly is a much better wife than she’ll ever be, I wouldn’t be able to hold back. He would be looking at his wallet in his back pocket. 😂😂😂
I quote my own mother-in-law. 'It is not the wife's job to buy the husband's mother her mother's day gift. If the wife wants to give one, then it is a very sweet gesture.'
That's a very sweet saying.
Exactly!!!!
esactly my dad has never made my mom get his mother a gift. he asks for help but never makes her.
First time my husband called me stupid would be the last time I talked to him. I’d be done.
Before I said my last word, I would hand my husband his teeth after I knocked them out with a cast iron skillet.
@@markmcelroy8722No doubt you’re kidding;) cause calling someone stupid is very inappropriate, knocking someone’s teeth out with a skillet is assault. Sure, they’d be a toothless asshat, but you’d be a felon😉
He's just a B. That would be the last time he spoke to me at all. Divorce will be the alternative lifestyle he would need to adapt to.
"A boy needs his father"
Not if his father was an abusive PoS to his mother WHILE SHE WAS CARRYING HIM.
The abusive way he talks to her at the start is 100% grounds for divorce...but starving a pregnant woman is palpable physical abuse, and grounds for denial of child custody. After all, who's to say they wouldn't look at the NATURALLY chubby arms & legs of a baby, declare the child is "too fat" and then deny that child food?
Thank you! John and his family starved *_pregnant_* Nancy!
They're aliens I tell ya.
Umm.. Does the AI that writes this know that alcoholism is a thing that has NOTHING to do with the abusive husband, momma's boy storyline?
I don’t think it’s an AI that writes these.
@@scoopydaniels8908 ????
This dude is ridiculous, berating her for not buying a Mother’s Day gift for HIS mother. Just another husband who doesn’t treat his wife with basic human respect.
In the meantime has Total disregard and disrespect towards his wife and soon to be child.
dude get your own mother a gift. she's your mom and not the DIL's responsibility.
I know he wouldn't give Nancy a soon to be mom gift
I had a friend whose 1st husband made her eat salads when she got pregnant... I think that, and the stress he put her through caused her to miscarry... thankfully, she left him. She's now remarried and has 2 kids with her new hubby... I told her that 1st one didn't count... lol
Good for your friend, my cousin had a miscarry of twins, it was stress from another person, my cousin is a revend and a good man and now they have two wonderful little girls, alboth are a year a part, they are twins though
John: "It's your duty as my spouse to obey me and do as I say."
Me: "And it's my duty as her family to take you out behind the shed and kick your head in with a steel toe boot."
Followed by a walk in the woods......
@@carolroberts4614 A VERY enthusiastic walk. Yes, my comment is a reference to Hellsing Ultimate Abridged. Alucard likes going on enthusiastic walks.
Love your reply😊
And a nice quiet walk back alone!
@@joancampbell1377 Thank you. Be excellent to each other.
Nancy should never have gotten pregnant with John's baby. He would only have talked to me like that one time and I would have been gone. Boy he was psychologically abusive for a long time. What a jerk.
Exactly
I know. I thought the story was going to START with her already pregnant, but that happened months after the Mother's Day crap? And he drinks and wastes money?
Nope. I would make sure I didn't get pregnant as I planned my escape.
Especially since disorders like her husband has are inherited thru DNA.
She should not married him in the first place. Full stop! She deserves way better.
Dump that jerk. Stat.
That husband is the most abusive hateful excuse for a human
Calling him a human is to good for him, I've seen animals with better manners
Sometimes I wish these evil abusive husband stories would end more like an episode of “Snapped”, except with the wife getting away with the homicide!
I don't know if murder could be done in these stories I mean we've seen stories where people die of natural causes or in accidents honestly I would like one where the wife does snap and just beats the ever-loving crap out of the abusive spouse
Exactly
So funny. I laughed so loud that I woke up my husband. I totally agree. Some of these spouses are ridiculous.
Indeed. I have never wanted to shoot anybody so bad.
It's infuriating... But, my coping mechanism is imagining calling I.M.P. Oh, Blitzo would LOVE to give him what he deserves.
I was waiting on her to ask him, “since we are to think about each other’s parents, what did you send MY mom?”
When my wife starts in on things she expect me to do for her family I always ask….”did you do that for MY mom/sister/etc?” For some reason that argument dries up rather quickly
He’d probably say that her mother doesn’t matter but his mother means the world to him.
That worked for me as well! I stopped doing it for everyone and they all got pissed at me but by that time I didn’t care anymore
ETA, I used to get very ill 🤒 EVERY holiday or throw my back out so I had to do it for my own self presentation
After the first conversation, consult a divorce lawyer. After the second , divorce papers would have been left on the table.
She should have answered his statement that"if it wasn't for his moether they would have never met" with "I'll try not to hold that against her, but it'll be really hard."Then again somebody would only speak to me the way he speaks to her ONCE drunk or sober and then they'd be left choking on my dust.
I don't know. Even you seem a little tame, it'd be seriously hard to not put myself in jail.... even if it's just for putting his most prized possession in a woodchipper.
So true
@@theconfusedvampire Nah, I wouldn't jam myself up for for a mouthy drunk like that unless they put hands on me and then all bets are off.
@Lucretcia Seven Personally, I'd rather be hit than that manipulative self-esteem destroying sh*t. Feeling like how he wants her to feel is so much worse than the physical pain. 😥
@@theconfusedvampire That's why I said it would happen just ONCE with me and I'd be gone so fast he'd get whiplash from seeing me leave.
Don’t you love how people change their tune the second the spouse says they want a divorce? 😮😮😮
It's just confirmation that they are losers.
Exactly he is just a bullying loser just wish she would leave him and his family please Mary divorce asap😢
Of course they don't actually think they'll go through with it😂
It's scary to think that there are real people out there, just like these people.
It is disgusting!!
Nancy should buy her mother in law a big box of incontinence pads.
Im scared I'd bail money! He is a total.arrogant chavist bastard!
Used. 😂
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Or a box of pick up sticks
Lol
If John thinks that being abusive and drinking a lot makes you a big man, he should be kicked repeatedly until his voice permanently goes to the tenor end of the scale.
I say kick him in the crotch with a steel toe boot. Make him sing soprano.
Nah keep going until he hits a castrati soprano.
Cast iron pan or mental baseball bat?
Cobat or cowboy boots, or a horse?
@@jaclynsanture6643hedge clippers. Dull ones.
11:51 - "AFTER THAT: I never did what he told me to do. Instead, I packed all my belongings, placed some divorce documents on the kitchen table and left. He was then unable to go to work because his car was still at his office, angering his boss because he was supposed to attend an ultimately crucial business meeting that morning. He got home after getting fired, found the divorce papers, failed to call me because I ghosted him. Since then, he never knew my whereabouts and I don't really care what happened after that!"
Karma: "But wait!! This video is 35 minutes long!!" 🤣
Thinking about getting his own mother a gift for mother’s day is not his job? How would he know what a “good wife” is when he’s not even a good son or husband? They are getting really good at creating despicable characters.
He is a vile nasty person treats his wife like a maid😢
Omg what a nasty individual 😢
Do any of these husbands in any of these stories WANT TO STAY MARRIED!!!!!
I think not
well, many of these "husbands" sadly have wives, who let the husbands trample on them for too long, or never really learned to stand up for themselves. so it works out for them for years of even decades. the US had a president, whose mindset is still that, and even women are voting for him.
I looked it up. In 2022, 41% of first time marriages end in divorce. I wonder what the rate is for 2nd or 3rd marriages? 😁
@@z.stone9016 damn
I'm going with "no"
The fact that she apologized to that "useless" jerk at all is what is "ridiculous."
They assumed Nancy was just fat.....and denied her any lovin'
But that's not really fat, that's a bun in the oven
And when a woman gets pregnant, she eats for two
But John overlooked this on purpose, and his parents did too
So guys, the moral of this video that's entirely too long
Is that starvin' your wife when she's pregnant is dead wrong
And red meat has some things in it that are helpful to a pregnant woman.
He's here all weeks, folks!
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@@BIGBLOCK5022006 facts! I craved beef while pregnant with my son. It was crazy 😆
Nancy hates John's guts? That's odd. How can she hate something that doesn't exist?
I think it's a HEART he is missing. I suppose CHUTZPAH can technically qualify as guts...
@@daynechastant I'm guessing he's actually minus both. Guts and heart, that is, not chutzpah. The SOB has that in spades.
Good one.
@@daynechastant 😊
No guts, no heart, and no glory. John basically said, "I have no soul" with demon fire and monster laughing in the background
John literally told his wife that his family are way more important than her family.
Bull he's deluded😢
He was trying to icealie Op, with his gaslighting
I would have left that POS immediately after the first time he put me down, and I'm sure the Mothers' Day incident wasn't the first time.
John: Constantly insults and berates his wife.
Also John: You're leaving!? Why!? What did I even do? All I did was abuse you on a constant basis. Come on! You're making a big deal out of nothing.
Op should have let the judge throw the book at him and him family
Seriously, are John and his parents are too blind and stupid to see the difference between body fat and pregnancy??!
Any man who starts a sentence with "Its your job as my wife to--" should not be allowed to finish that sentence without a divorce paper being signed 🙃
Nah. He would be getting a framing hammer to the head. Maybe some rather vigorous percussive maintenance would fix his attitude.
A steel toed boot to the nuts right after the framing hammer.
Op should have told him and his family to Back Off!, with her parnets and a hard assed lawyer, her dad holding a shotgun and her mom a large cast iron pan
Oh, this is ridiculous. Nancy’s parents is just as important as John’s.
I cannot imagine doing what is necessary to become pregnant with someone who speaks to me like that and treats me like that.
It's his Mom! Get her the gift for your mom
The way he kept insisting to see his son, I half expected her to say, "she's your daughter, actually" whereupon he immediately losed all interest.
When I asked mother where did she meet my father, she said:"If I knew I will meet him that day, I would stay home and cook rice. One bean at the time!" 😅😅😅
This is that kind of a man. Well... an excuse for a man
And as much as I know, if you try to get a pregnant woman's and her baby's life and health in danger, by not feeding her properly, her family should be the ones to beat the guy up and at least break few bones on him and tell him what will happen to him if he disrespects, or hurts the woman who is carying his child. If he doesn' t get the memo even then, well then you just need to beat him some more and beat his parents up. They participated in this. Also, look what they raised
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John is mad because he didn't get a mother's day gift lol
Does John ever think about Nancy's mom? It seems the only mom's in these stories are the son's mother, never the wife's.
These doormat (wives) stories are bad for my blood pressure. Wow!
2 minutes in and I would be changing the locks. He is such a jerk.
I have never seen a woman who lets a man run over them like this. About two lines of talking to my wife and my teeth would be on the floor. And she would be out the door. My wife is not so meek lol.
as soon dude said "you tricked me" ok i did it is time to call my lawer
This is one of those stories that I wish I could reach through the screen and shake the shit out of the heroine. Ain't no way in hell she didn’t see a little red flag waving over this whole family at some point. And yeah, i know I'm being kinda ridiculous about a piece of fiction. 😂
Little? That red flag was the size of Texas. 😁
@@CattyTomfoolery I was trying to be nice! 🤣
@@BruinPhD2009 oh I could tell. 😁
@@CattyTomfoolery Thinking more like Africa and Europe combined.
I’m with you on that. Shake her and remove his dangly parts to ensure he will never procreate
Most alcoholics blame everyone but themselves. Speaking from experience.
Horrible!
My dear sianted aunt, who passed away of cancer four years ago, was 'married' ( she should have Never dated) this male person, will remind nameless, he was a loud, oboiuxus emetionly abusive thing of shit, who would always be drunk when he was with my family, he was a creepy 'nice guy' who used harassment on me and my younger cousins and other young women in front of people, I wish it had been him that passed away, not my aunt, who was my dad's sister
@@jaclynsanture6643 I'm so sorry your aunt and your family suffered from that man. My father was an alcoholic and decades after his death , I still have problems. Hope you are well.
@@z.stone9016 Im doing okay, but some of the time, I still remerber on special days, such as my aunt's birthday, she was doing fine single
This is why Alcoholics Anonymous have the rule that you must, in front of others in the organization, that you are an alcoholic. It gets you to be honest from the get-go.@@jet4415
She’s being too damn nice. I’d say dude it’s your mother your job especially since she’s so picky. And he would not be allowed to speak to me in that manner
Abuse on sooo many levels. financial, mental, emotional, physical.......
And the answer should be " she's your mother, you get her one".
I love her voice she's the one that don't take sh..
If John just … vanished one day … after all that nonsense he put Nancy through…seems to me he might be a ‘Missing Person’ that no one actually misses
Yes, please let that happen
In Gilmore Girls, Paris had the best saying to that jerk who might have cheated on Rory 'he is nothing, but a spoiled brat, and if disappent from the earth now, no one expant his parnets would miss him'
She should go to court for child support. If he doesn't show, judges usually end up giving mom whatever she's asking for, sometimes more.
My mother in law complained once something I gave her (something she said she wanted) and I told my husband his mom his responsibility from then on. It is his responsibility.
After she died, I found almost every gift I bought for my MIL NEW with tags and receipts. She had never not acted appreciative or said anything nasty. I was sad, but respected the fact that she never wanted to hurt my feelings.
My mil complained about a gift I bought her for Christmas that she chose and she complained. The next year I bought her a gift certificate to a store she loved and she got mad she didn’t get a regular gift. I never bought her another gift.
...what is the point of marriage when husbands are going to be like this?!
My husband just walked in and heard me listening to the first 5 minutes and said "If I spoke to you that way, I'd still be dead!"
She is his mother so he should get a gift 🎁 for her since he is her freaking son and both his parents including John are the absolute worst. Also being a single mother is better then being around John.
Exactly she needs to divorce him 😢
She goes gome alone???
She's only allowed to eat salad? Uh, pregnant women gain weight during pregnancy . FINALLY she goes bacj ti her parents.😮
They make stainless steel napkin dispensers. Very retro, 50s diners aesthetic. They make a very satisfying "bong" when struck empty. I would recommend she make music with that using his head.
Less than 10 minutes in and I'm pissed at both of them. Him for being an abusive A-hole, her for apologizing and promising to do better.
I know, I used to be like that when I was involved with someone that could be this dude's twin. That makes this especially painful to watch.
Even otherwise strong and intelligent people can be manipulated into an abuse cycle, it's insidious.
With that kind of talk from the husband, he will receive a punch from me if I were the wife! And I will immediately divorce him! He doesn’t deserve any love from me!
Good evening, everyone. First few mintues, too many red flags.
Cut up all the credit cards so he can’t use them 😂
I'm pretty sure that if my ex-husband had ever talked to me like this, I would probably end up on an episode of Dateline.
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I know this is a story, but i wanted to reach thru the phone and slap him. LoL
God, John and the in-laws are the worst. I may not be pregnant, but I wouldn't doubtat all its tiring [sorry if i spelled it wrong]. Pregnant women are gonna get big, thats because of the baby. You know what I'm saying?
Yes, my kind, sweet sil is pregnant and my brother is having her eat right, he is going to make a wonderful father, unlike this narasstic, abusive male person in the story
John if continue to be abusive you are going to lose your doormat disrespected wife and unborn baby. The audacity of this nasty waste of space and his family, cheeky monstor.
Since she didn't really know his mom, money is always a good gift.
One could be accused of gifting too little cash tho
One of those "I would have treated you better but i never thought you would leave me" situations...
Usually, the woman will be discussing the possibility of being pregnant as soon as she misses her period. And as soon as she knows she'd be talking her man, texting if he's not around. There's a very good reason she only told him when he was drunk!
as a mother i have always told my family not to bother with mothers day, dont know why people make such a fuss over it, i
He could call me anything he wanted, but it would be from a distance!!!!
I dont need a husband like this man, i might box him
I would have told him she's your mom not mine so you get her a gift. then I would have presented him with divorce papers. I would never allow anyone to talk to me like that.
These scripts are unreal. Nobody would respond that calmly to that kind of treatment. What’s the goal here?
Your mother, your responsibility to get her a gift.
This guy reminds me so much of my late husband. I'll admit that this one was a bit rough to listen to.
This one is bringing back some very bad memories of being married to a guy like him.
John comes home..takes a nap..
Wakes up to the sound of a gun cocking followed by a loud sound of a gun firing..
Then he NEVER has to worry again.
Ohh, yes, with Garth Brooks singing in The Thruder Rolls' in the background
Or Carrie Underwood 'Two blacks Cacillics'
Court? Judge? Child support? Wage garnishment? That’s usually what you do when they won’t pay.
If my husband spoke to me like that, he’d need dental work and medical attention.
The fact that every time they talk or chat he call her stupid or names, and also she always saying sorry, cant stand it.. I wont stay as a wife if my husband treat me like that..
After that first talk, I’d be gone!
Honestly, this guy ís just a complete jerk!! His abusive language is a harbinger of abusive physical behavior. Having a baby with this snake? Utter madness...
Why do so many men think that as soon as they get married their wives are responsible for every damn thing? I’m not a social secretary.
My husband and I didn’t always get along, but one thing he did was he did not let his mother do or say anything negative about me, whether I was there or not. Geez, this guys voice alone is pissing me off.
Yeah, so I would never allow a man to talk to me like this. Geez! I could have never been submissive back in the day. Lol
According to Google the last time Mother's day was May 8th was 2022. I'm guessing this is an old story.
Literally last year
I made a similar post.
and soon thereafter "6 months later".
let's see if 2022 still works.
That husband does not deserve to be married and become a father if he thinks his wife being pregnant is going to be too fat and not give her the food she wanted, he deserves what comes to him, and his parent's too
If my husband of 34 years even talked to me half of this disrespectful he would find his stuff out on the lawn!!!
I'm glad she got her father involved
Don't Understand Why These Women Allow Themselves To Be Treated AND Spoken To So Bad And Disrespectful .
This is abuse from the start. If your partner makes you feel useless they are trash, run away fast and far. What a worthless PoS John is
Child support and visitation rights are two separate issues, I wish the authors of these stories would realize this fact. Even when the husbands are jerks.
Well then if that's the case, in the States, if you don't havea name on the birth certificate, he technically can't do anything. If he took her to court for a dna test, he'd need to give reasoning and her too....he would definitely NOT get custody (maybe not even supervised cause he put HER life in danger). She was right. That was domestic abuse and reckles endangerment with his own child.
Why is Nancy apologizing to John? Like who are you talking to like that. That’s your mother, not mines
I think it is the way in certain countries to expect this so wrong!!!😮
It’s very annoying and aggravating to hear the blue box people in some stories just allows the abusers walk, and talk all over them like this lady. Why should she give the one who made her accident a gift when she never gave birth to her.
His Mom didn't raise her, so no, she doesn't really need to give her a present. It's nice, but if the woman is awful when she receives a gift then no, never get her another one, lol
Ladies, NEVER let a man talk to you like that. Just no. And for Pete's sake don't get pregnant by a guy like that.
John: "....well good. Be that way....."
This guy is hilarious!
My ex husband use too talk too me like that when we were married 30 years later he tried to talk to me like that again an I put him in his place I told him I don’t know who in the HELL do you think you’re talking to he couldn’t believe that I wouldn’t take his shit anymore cause I’m Not your wife anymore that person doesn’t exist anymore got it
Under what rocks are these women finding these " men"? Because everyone needs to avoid those rocks
I once heard a saying that applies here. "If you act as a doormat for ppl they'll just complain you aren't flat enough."
Damn OP
Just because you marry a man , does NOT mean you have to give your mother in law anything ever . its her sons responsibility to give a gift to HIS mother for mothers day . i have five bonus kids , i would NEVER demand they give me things for mothers day as i am NOT theri mother . my daughter gets me stuff for mothers day . good gravy . who comes up with these stories .
A pregnant woman can't survive on just "Salad".. that doesn't have enough, if any, nutritional value for both mother and fetus.. I was over him when he told her to only send HIS mom a mother's day gift but not hers.. I wished my hubby would.. that's his mother, not hers, she doesn't have to send her shyt if she doesn't want to.. his abusive behavior wouldn't of gotten any better.. it would've just gotten 100× worse once the baby is here.. disrespectful little turd.. first off, he doesn't need to be there for child support to be discussed.. child support, custody, spousal support will all be discussed during a divorce proceedings.. his checks/bank account would just get garnished and he'd be held in contempt of court for not showing up for court..
I hate the words "be a good wife" or "women work"
worse, when they address their wife as stupid woman. I mean, they really try to turn woman into a derogative term.
@Robert Heinrich I know right!?
Wow this opens with GLARING red flags and just gets worse
The fact he was trying to be smug & act like he had the last laugh before a time skip later begging to see his son & another time skip later desperately begging Nancy to remarry him & ask her dad to help him get a job.
I'm guessing the new girlfriend didn't last long since she isn't mentioned past Nancy being aware he got with someone after the divorce. I also kinda want to imagine some of the issues at work might have been because he told everyone his wife got pregnant & ran away.
I hope his parents/family get some punishment cause they're just as much at fault as the ex-husband. Especially the ex-MIL for her behavior.
Hope OP might one day find a better person to be with if she decides to remarry. Also hope the ex-husband eventually is forced to pay the missing child support along with what he still owes. Maybe also his family getting shunned cause people found out what happened to OP. His family forced to leave in shame just like him.
I hope that happens as well, to abusers and Op meets a Real man, not another spoiled manboy