3 things I wish I knew BEFORE I transitioned FTM
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I wish I knew how important nutrition and hydration are. That hit me like a train
Remember to always stay true to yourself no matter where you are in your journey.
I was only 17 when I realized I was trans and it was in the pandemic and I was isolated so I was forced to terms with my identity while living vicariously through people on the internet, where I started to try and erase all other aspects of myself and what I enjoyed pre transition, when in reality it’s only to still like those “girly” things that you liked growing up. It’s still you and that’s okay. Don’t limit yourself from enjoying what you love because dysphoria, and fear of being judged.
Also don’t be afraid to be misgendered, it isn’t the end of the world. If you’re picking up your meds and they call you by your legal name or by wrong pronouns, it’s okay. You can choose to correct them or not but not much can be done unless you change it legally and with insurance. Or I bc public someone misgenders you when you were SURE you looked like you were passing. It’s alright, it’s pretty common and most times isn’t out of ill-intent on the other persons part. They’re strangers and you will be able to move on from that. As Devon says patience is important.
Great advice as usual. You bring so much value to the community💯💪🏿
Thank you for real!!
Thanks man. Just came out to my mom yesterday which is a very big step for me, i wanna take my transition slow and see what feels right
yo actual perfect timing with your advice man, just started T and have been so damn tempted to keep upping the dose - will relax about it a little now, thank you for your work !
That’s awesome! I too was once where you are now and am about 6 months on T, trust the process bro, it really does get better and it’s the small things that add up💪🏼 I was once impatient too and would get frustrated when certain changes weren’t happening right away, however I now have most of what I wished for thanks to patience and time, an important reminder that I’d like to make is to always remember where you started and how far you’ve really gone!!
I'm finally coming to terms with needing starting T, and I always felt like if I start, Im gonna go full dosage as much as I can, so this is amazing advice, thanks a ton for all your videos, it's rough out there, and you're helping the community so much
The use vs. them mentality is a real one. Trans communities online can get really defensive for understandable reasons. But you can't carry that into your daily life.
Learn what your actual dosage of T is. .2 ml isn't enough information to determine how much you're actually taking. If your vial of T is 100 mg/ml, then .2ml is 20mg of T. However, if your vial is 200 mg/ml, then your dosage is 40mg. That information is important to know.
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Hell yeah 🔔🤝
Great video, really needed to hear this 👏🏻💯
Great video.
I think I actually regret going a little too slow I'm almost 2 years and yet I'm only very hairy I don't have much of a deep voice but just up my dose to .5 I wait to see what will happen
I think I have way too many expectations of what I want out my trans journey since this February. I had to learn that that those expectations I have is not reality . I had to learn time and patience and to be gentle with myself. Learning is the best part of the journey it seem like I was rushing it when I shouldn’t. Probably because before I got used to my shots I felt shitty too but it’s only temporary I have to understand that. It’s only a experience 🫡🤷🏽♂️.
Time will pass and all the patience will be worth it. I remember being so hard on myself in the beginning and it wasn’t worth it because It all worked out
I really like that “ learning is the best part of the journey” statement however we really only realize that in the aftermath of our experience! At least we’re mindful of that now and can experience other new things with a different perspective. Thank you for watching ❤️🔥
@@Soulglltch yeh bro , just gotta keep the gratitude 💪🏽🫡.
@@DevonSpears right ! That’s very well put 💪🏽… and No problem I enjoy the content bro
Do you still take finasteride en how is you’re experience with it ?
How do you still have dysphoria?
he said that
"live as my true self" is such an Orwellian phrase, literally means the opposite of what it says 😂😂
I wish I knew that I would have a mini phase where I was sexually attracted to men. Lasted from 2 weeks to one month. It would only happen when my dose would change. I’m not gay, just went through that weird phase and I questioned myself so hard that I gave myself panic attacks.
2. I wish I knew that my aggression(I was already an ass before T) would definitely evolve and explode. I had the urge to be the “Alpha Male” around other men. I could literally smell and feel the pheromones in the air and sense “competition”. I wanted to beat ass at all times.
3!!!!
Lots of my interests changed…well more like developed. Anything that I suppressed(hobbies or activities, emotions) CAME OUT.
humans dont have a vomeronasal organ, so we can't sense pheromones like other animals do. there are no solid studies showing that humans even release pheromones, its all just speculation and some guess work.
i had the same feeling around men too, i think its alot more of a mental thing, wanting to prove you're a real man and enough of a man. nothing to do with pheromones