They're LYING About Retiring In These North Carolina Towns!

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  • An algorithm shouldn't decide where you retire. In today's video I look at some terrible places to retire, then at 4 of my favorites!
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  • @Myr25636
    @Myr25636 Місяць тому +93

    This is why you should rent an apartment for a year in your planned location to see if you actually like the place. If you do, then buy a house there.

    • @tangobear3536
      @tangobear3536 28 днів тому +7

      Correct!

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 27 днів тому +7

      Yes , but you can't always pick your neighbors, sometimes you move in , it seems good and stable then the house next door to you sells to someone horrible from out of town and it's" game over."

    • @erstwhile3793
      @erstwhile3793 26 днів тому +5

      Also, who can afford to rent?

    • @skylarsartnphotography3450
      @skylarsartnphotography3450 26 днів тому +6

      ​@@erstwhile3793Very good point! Years ago, no problem to rent, but its a different story these days!

    • @CliftonBowers-pc2xu
      @CliftonBowers-pc2xu 22 дні тому +2

      Did in sol cal but actually can afford Malibu..so there .

  • @scotgarland7526
    @scotgarland7526 24 дні тому +28

    The real problem is the local people sold their heritage. They traded their way of life for a new Mercedes and now they have neither... hold on to your land

    • @SmooveBee1
      @SmooveBee1 13 днів тому +2

      If you just left your community behind and down-sized to a very simple 'lifestyle' (eat out of styrofoam boxes 2X per day, and walk the dog) - so now you are bored and lonely; next, you get diagnosed with cancer, so you drive two hours one-way, every Friday, for Chemo; then you pay a caretaker three days a week to change your diaper and cook a meal or three and bring your groceries off the porch for you; now you are too week to load a weapon; and six months into this - you will not care where you are, but will probably wish you were 'home'. So, the question you need to ask, after about 65 - where is your home? Important to know, bc you may need to go home. You could get even more un-lucky, your spouse could die before you die. Anyway, ... yeah, the weather is pretty nice, but, don't be surprised, if you have no idea what to do with yourself near the beach or the warmed saltwater pools or near the Ripley's Believe it Or Not Museum. Yes, the young people are fleeing, just as Ellen said. Click your heels and say aloud, "there is no place like home ..." (unless it is NJ or PA or NY, it goes wo saying).

  • @trex860
    @trex860 Місяць тому +58

    Charlotte is insanely overpriced, nightmare traffic, no thanks. Years ago the developers drove down old two lane country roads around Charlotte and they bought every acre of land they could get their hands on. So a developer would acquire 1,000 acres of land and build 5,000 houses. Each house has at least 2 cars, so now the old two lane country road has 10,000 cars on it every day. My wife would sit in a 7 mile traffic jam every day trying to get to our neighborhood. Now imagine this scenario being repeated 30 times in every direction, North, South, East and West of Charlotte.

    • @ilovemytribe
      @ilovemytribe Місяць тому +3

      Sounds like a nightmare. I live in Burlington and try to avoid Charlotte like the plague...

    • @tangobear3536
      @tangobear3536 28 днів тому +7

      Charlotte has become Atlanta Part 2. Moved to Charlotte in 1987, work moved me out five years later. I do not recognize the city anymore. It used to be great, a nice place. Now it's just insane driving and prices.

    • @tallyrc
      @tallyrc 27 днів тому +2

      Retirement doesn't always mean budget friendly. Lots of folks retire well off and enjoy a feature rich city with all it offers. Charlotte is big to many here but it's actually quaint if you're coming from a big city.. just offering perspective..

    • @akita96th
      @akita96th 27 днів тому

      Charlotte is just another big nasty city nothing there but big city BS not a good place to live you hAVE TO GO FARTHER WEST to find the good place.

    • @trex860
      @trex860 26 днів тому +7

      @@tangobear3536 I’m afraid so. At least Atlanta has 6 lanes on their highways. In Charlotte they added two lanes to I-77 North, but they made those new lanes progressive toll roads. Unbelievable. If you lived in Mooresville it would cost you $20 bucks each way during rush hour, every day. Or you could sit in traffic for at least 45-60 minutes each way. Very few people can stomach paying $40 dollars in tolls every day, so the original two lanes of highway are backed up the entire 28 miles to Mooresville, every day. So glad we got the hell out of there.

  • @garylancaster3995
    @garylancaster3995 Місяць тому +71

    I have lived in NC all my life. This is my opinion it use to in my OPINION the best place to live and I have lived in a lot of different states. What happened is a bunch of people from all over the country started moving in with their money and buying up the better old family farms and mountain land and coastal lands and slowly turned it into exactly what they were trying to get away from. Asheville Raleigh Charlotte are all prime example. Sometimes less is more.

    • @mooslionheart
      @mooslionheart Місяць тому +9

      News Flash we are all immigrants - unless you are Native American you are Not ‘from here’ - it is not the people or whether they are Yankees it is the values they bring. Change can be good and sometimes can be great🦊

    • @garylancaster3995
      @garylancaster3995 Місяць тому +23

      @@mooslionheart I rest my case.

    • @mooslionheart
      @mooslionheart Місяць тому

      @@garylancaster3995 stay on your rock’n chair on the porch greybeard and memaw will bring you a jug of shine … we’ll be down in the hollar raising hell 😹

    • @garylancaster3995
      @garylancaster3995 Місяць тому +3

      @mooslionheart not a bad idea, take care and keep the hell raising clean and fun.

    • @cumberlandquiltchic1
      @cumberlandquiltchic1 Місяць тому +2

      The real problem? People sold out to those people who came in here and bought up those places. They did NOT have to! They chose to. Same as going up to michigan to work and send $ home etc. the locals say how bad it was etc etc. they didn’t have to do that. Anyway, here we are… so I see many campgrounds, hilltops being bulldozed etc
      So.. let’s fat forwsrd 50-100 years
      Is it my fault if I sell and it’s a shopping center?
      I mean, I’m a way, it will happen when I die. Can we blame the people who bought out house 50-100 years ago? Isn’t it the same?

  • @paulawarwick4905
    @paulawarwick4905 7 місяців тому +73

    She is absolutely correct on the healthcare in Western NC. It's terrible. Drove 5 hrs to have my surgery at Duke and do all my follow-up in SC

    • @user-hb1ge5vz4d
      @user-hb1ge5vz4d 6 місяців тому

      How is the healthcare in South Carolina?

    • @robinlippy4799
      @robinlippy4799 3 місяці тому +2

      Wish I had seen this before we moved to the coast!

    • @cumberlandquiltchic1
      @cumberlandquiltchic1 Місяць тому +9

      I’ve lived here over 11 years full time. I’ve been through at least 10 primary doctors (they leave, relocate, merging of hospitals, blah blah blah… you have to start over)
      Nobody researches that. You will die here.

    • @cumberlandquiltchic1
      @cumberlandquiltchic1 Місяць тому +4

      Look up mission healthcare lawsuit In NC
      North Carolina county seeks damages in HCA Mission lawsuit
      Buncombe County wants to join a lawsuit from the state alleging HCA degraded care quality after acquiring Mission Hospital in 2019.
      Published April 9, 2024
      Missions is in trouble

    • @cumberlandquiltchic1
      @cumberlandquiltchic1 Місяць тому +4

      The county is seeking to join the North Carolina attorney general’s lawsuit against HCA. The lawsuit, filed in December, alleges the health system “significantly degraded” the quality of care at Mission after HCA acquired the Mission Health system.

  • @LoriFoster
    @LoriFoster Місяць тому +20

    My sister pointed out “she’s in the Medical field” after my Mother had a bad stroke which after 3 months took her, all access to medical needs were 25 to 30 miles from her home. In some circumstances care wasn’t even in the state she lived in.

  • @nightowl6260
    @nightowl6260 22 дні тому +15

    When you are retirement age, it is very hard to really find new friends. Local retirees have family, grandchildren and lifelong friendships and alliances. If you are from out of state and have an accent that is different, you may find people avoid you, since you are too different.

    • @cathymc116
      @cathymc116 15 днів тому +2

      Unless you live in a community where the retirees are moving to I droves, like Horry County.

  • @sheilac3836
    @sheilac3836 27 днів тому +21

    As someone who has been in N.C. since 1988 I agree she got a lot correct…. I also found it funny that multiple references of Mayberry were used, but Mount airy was never mentioned the actual Mayberry.

    • @StefanaHarris
      @StefanaHarris 15 днів тому

      My. Airy is the birthplace of Andy Griffith.

  • @big566bunny
    @big566bunny 25 днів тому +11

    She likes Raleigh and Charlotte. Both are two super-sprawling towns with serious traffic/commuting problems. Homes are more expensive. (Raleigh is the capital, so it's full of bureaucrats, lawyers, and lobbyists.) They have nothing of charm of smaller NC towns

  • @CraftHarlot
    @CraftHarlot 26 днів тому +7

    The housing market here in the Triangle is insane. We moved here 20 years ago. We couldn't afford to live here now if we hadn't bought a house back then. My husband is an engineer and I'm a nurse. Our house is worth 3½ times what we paid. Taxes have tripled. Essentially, you'd be buying at the height of this market, and it's bound to drop.

  • @stephencarrier6465
    @stephencarrier6465 29 днів тому +24

    The entire country has gone to shit, there's NOWHERE worth retiring to. The best you can hope for is to just survive with a reduced amount amount of struggling and criminals.

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 27 днів тому +5

      You can run but you can't hide....trouble is often just a few steps behind you.

    • @skylarsartnphotography3450
      @skylarsartnphotography3450 26 днів тому +4

      I actually do often think about relocating to another country

    • @elizabethpeterson56
      @elizabethpeterson56 8 днів тому

      double amen

    • @damonmelendez856
      @damonmelendez856 3 дні тому

      The BLM people are allowed to live anywhere now, we can thank the Civil Rights Act for that! Happy Juneteemf to all!

  • @tinac945
    @tinac945 26 днів тому +12

    I agree, the SOUTH IS FULL. Prices are high, taxes are high, crime increasing along w/traffic. No mention of the bad gang problem in Charlotte?

    • @Nun195
      @Nun195 22 дні тому

      None of this is true.

    • @erikaamerica4546
      @erikaamerica4546 18 днів тому +1

      That’s true because so many flocked there from the rest of the country

  • @glorgau
    @glorgau 27 днів тому +9

    Me, I ride a bike around the area. You can see everything at a street level. Also, you'll find out how many people yell at you or throw crap out of their cars.
    Also, try and do a walk around in the later evening, say about 9 pm on a saturday. That way you get a real feeling for the inhabitants of the area on their off time.

  • @ncmathsadist
    @ncmathsadist 27 днів тому +7

    We moved to Chapel Hill 24 years ago and I retired 2 years ago. When we came, we bought a one-floor house in a central location. We ain't budgin'.

  • @CentralPlainsEnt
    @CentralPlainsEnt 28 днів тому +11

    Sorry I'll pick a small rural town without a lot of services and without the crime and the problems that come with most large cities.

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 28 днів тому +1

      Up to a point yes, I can see being in a smallish rural town that still has some services, dial a ride bus for old folks to get to the grocery store , doctor etc., It's nice to have a couple of auto repair joints nearby, maybe a car rental place. Typically if the town is bigger than 10,12,000 you'll probably have most of that. the town could be away from larger metros and still be servicable...maybe a very small college town. Although one of the down sides to being very rural is having to drive a couple hours to an airport to catch a flight from a pricy minor airport or driving 6 hours to get to a regional/hub type airport..

    • @eattherich9215
      @eattherich9215 28 днів тому +3

      'I'll pick a small rural town without ... crime and the problems that come with most large cities.' I suggest you steer clear of the Appalachians where drug abuse and crime are practically a way of life in some areas.

    • @churchofpos2279
      @churchofpos2279 27 днів тому

      @@eattherich9215 True. I got lucky. LIve in a small rural town that does have low crime. It does have an issue with Meth, but doesn't seem to be rampant.

    • @rubyparchment5523
      @rubyparchment5523 27 днів тому +1

      Rural towns - check the Sex Offender Registry, crime statistics for drug arrests.

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 27 днів тому

      @@rubyparchment5523 Yep, and hope the elementary school down the street doesn't close (releasing the distance limit) or get converted into low cost housing because that's where they're all gonna move to just down the street from you.

  • @jaimesanta847
    @jaimesanta847 22 дні тому +7

    I am shocked at the retirees' health these days. It's this Rockefeller "medicine" that has gotten us so sick over the years and we turn to them to treat us? Learn to Dr. yourself the way your great grandmother did. It's more effective and the cost... well that's a no brainer. I am looking for nice property and people and could care less about how many Dr.'s are in the town or how good they are - it's just not important to my wife and I.

  • @dhix2388
    @dhix2388 26 днів тому +8

    the lady from Hendersonville said it RIGHT. otherwise you may find there's a limit to Southern Hospitality.

  • @saveurselves989
    @saveurselves989 23 дні тому +7

    If you believe in after life, you don't need to worry about dying!

  • @redbagsrambler9326
    @redbagsrambler9326 Місяць тому +39

    " An algorithm shouldn't determine where you live...." Agreed. Nor should a realtor with a potential financial stake in directing you to some of the state's most expensive housing markets.

    • @Laura-mi3nv
      @Laura-mi3nv 28 днів тому +4

      For a retiree, medical care is a huge factor and she is absolutely right about it being a top spot for medical care. That's why the Raleigh/Durham area would be a great place to retire if you can afford it. But, yes, it's getting more expensive every day. An amazing second option would be Greensboro. I just moved over here from Raleigh because everything was getting more expensive and I work from home, so I don't have to take that L anymore. Greensboro also has amazing medical care and it's less expensive. An ER visit to the hospital in Raleigh for kidney stones cost over $10K. Same thing in Greensboro? $6K - and the people here were MUCH nicer. Dentistry is the same, much cheaper here. We have great oncology care here as well, we get a lot of clinical trials and if needed they will refer you to Duke. I had cancer here in 1989. They did my surgery here, but sent me to Duke for a clinical trial for treatment. We have 2 hospitals that provide amazing care. We're only an hour from Raleigh, so we also get doctors from those amazing schools. I think Winston-Salem is even cheaper.

    • @dalepollett
      @dalepollett 26 днів тому +1

      ​@@Laura-mi3nvI retired in the Greensboro Triad area in a rural area near my kids. I have access to Greensboro, Winston-Salem and High Point medical services, recreation/entertainment options are bountiful. 3 international airports within a 75 minute drive. Rural living with all the benefits of a large metro area. 3 hour drive to beach, less to mountains and Blue Ridge Parkway.

  • @jonyoung6253
    @jonyoung6253 26 днів тому +4

    We moved to Hendersonville 4 years ago and couldn't be happier.

  • @teresablack4771
    @teresablack4771 21 день тому +6

    I’m from Asheville and amazed at the hype encouraging people to come here. I used to love going downtown. Now it’s all about the homeless beggars, needles, used condomes as a surprise in parking lots . One large church had to replace all their mulch beds because there were so many needles. (I saw a very overweight woman walking down the street with no clothes above the waist- not cute). The cost of living here is astronomical. Homes have literally doubled in price in the last 4 years. Property taxes are so high the old retired locals who own their homes can’t afford to live here, have to sell and move.Schools are overcrowded due to so many illegals, traffic is getting worse every year. Job market is pathetic. If you can spend your days hiking in the mountains, away from Asheville, that might make it worth the move.

    • @laurarush
      @laurarush 18 днів тому +1

      right)

    • @trauma50disaster1
      @trauma50disaster1 16 днів тому

      The crazy, woke, nut libs have ruined beautiful cities for democrats. Took the kids on vacation to Asheville and might as well been in D.C. What a mess, they will never get a tourist cent from me nor my kids who won't return when they grow up.

    • @EricFullwood
      @EricFullwood 13 днів тому +1

      Asheville went deep blue and turned into a dump.

  • @stephtraveler7378
    @stephtraveler7378 27 днів тому +6

    The Dr's in those western towns are mostly semi-retired living in their vacation homes part time. Hard to get an appointment with a good doc in western NC. There are exclusively two kinds of people in Western NC: Wealthy second home retirees and dirt poor people living on welfare. Not many in between.

  • @user-ur6lk7xf7t
    @user-ur6lk7xf7t 27 днів тому +1

    Well done. Thank you for researching all of this and sharing your conclusions, including "the algorithm". I'm blocking some of the entities I receive feed from as a result.

  • @Adam-pw4jt
    @Adam-pw4jt Місяць тому +22

    I’ve lived in NC since 1984. I lived in Charlotte for the first six years. I can’t imagine anything worse than retiring in Charlotte or Raleigh. It would be like retiring to Cleveland, or Richmond. I live in Western North Carolina, and if I came down with cancer, I’d go to Duke to get treatment. It’s no big deal.
    No, if you don’t want to retire to McDowell County, rather, go to Waynesville, Hendersonville, Hickory, etc. of course, everything is a matter of opinion, and when I lived in Charlotte, Most people would love to have been there. I was happy to see it in my rearview mirror. The town had no soul, and in my opinion hasn’t obtain one in the meantime.

    • @ltcajh
      @ltcajh Місяць тому +1

      There's an older black couple in church who fled Raleigh due to the crime.

    • @glennhubbard5008
      @glennhubbard5008 28 днів тому

      Charlotte was boring when I was there.

    • @akita96th
      @akita96th 27 днів тому +2

      You should go to piedmont in Georgia it is just a stones'' throw across the border AND it is not 5 hours away.

    • @sideler7057
      @sideler7057 27 днів тому +1

      Agreed. I don't choose a place where the top priority is living with cancer. If a cancer center is within a couple of hours that will do. If I get old enough and sick enough to require a weekly hospital visit then I'll move.

  • @joesmith3501
    @joesmith3501 23 дні тому +5

    Too many people are moving to NC.

  • @itsnotme07
    @itsnotme07 2 місяці тому +15

    Totally agree to never consider a move somewhere without talking to a local. Sure a local Realtor like Ellen here wants to sell/rent you a place, but they also usually live in those areas too, meaning they aren't just a Realtor, they are a local. For me, I moved back to Texas in 2010 after being away a few years. Even though I'd been there for 12+ years before, I decided to rent first when I got back. Wanted to see how the local vibe was and worst case, if I didn't like it, well it was only a year lease and I could move on. I ended up finding it was the place for me, so I bought a place. That was 13 years ago. Not sure if I'll stay for retirement due to rising costs....but I'll use the same formula. Talk to a LOCAL Realtor first. They know their stuff!
    If you can, find an AirBnB or VRBO place for rent....stay there 2-3 weeks or more to get a good feel for the area without a commitment.

  • @GonzoTheRosarian
    @GonzoTheRosarian Місяць тому +9

    To me North Carolina is like a well worn pair of jeans,comfortable. You are spot on with your recommendations.

  • @MichaelW166
    @MichaelW166 7 місяців тому +15

    I totally agree with you on medical care. I live in Chapel Hill and we have the best (Duke , UNC, Wake Med etc) Nothing compares to the RTP area

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  7 місяців тому +2

      It really is night and day….

    • @annb1
      @annb1 Місяць тому +4

      True but most can’t afford to live here now.

  • @jessegarman7899
    @jessegarman7899 Місяць тому +44

    This NC local says that we are full. Full of retirees clogging the streets. Full of raising our taxes. Full of raising housing prices so our own children can’t even afford to live here. Stay where you are. Fix where you are.

    • @gregpasser2448
      @gregpasser2448 25 днів тому +2

      So much for southern hospitality!

    • @akita96th
      @akita96th 24 дні тому

      Taxes here are cheap you dont know what you are saying.

    • @Nun195
      @Nun195 22 дні тому

      Taxes have been going down for a decade…

    • @jessegarman7899
      @jessegarman7899 9 днів тому

      @@akita96th BS, My taxes have been going up.

    • @jessegarman7899
      @jessegarman7899 9 днів тому

      @@Nun195 Not where I live.

  • @raffinataonline
    @raffinataonline 2 місяці тому

    Thank you!

  • @HerbalSurvivalist
    @HerbalSurvivalist Місяць тому +2

    Excellent video I am currently looking in a more than serious fashion to move to NC from ny

    • @lizzabbott
      @lizzabbott Місяць тому

      Same !

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  Місяць тому

      Please both reach out to me here and schedule a call with me! I would love to help you with your move! www.harmonyrealtytriangle.com/contact-harmony/

  • @Un-Reconstructed
    @Un-Reconstructed 27 днів тому +19

    The South is full. No vacancy. Go somewhere else.

  • @andreabee9474
    @andreabee9474 2 дні тому

    a lot of great points

  • @phillipcowan1444
    @phillipcowan1444 20 днів тому +4

    I'm originally from Wilmington but I've lived in Chicago for the last 35 years. I still love Wilmington and it will always be home to me but I don't think I could afford to live there now. Retirees from the North have basically over run the town and ruined it with high prices and aweful traffic. It's an old school seaboard town that grew up organically. It was never meant to have that many people.

    • @laurarush
      @laurarush 18 днів тому

      I'm from Chicago now in WNC very different but I'm also in a different stage in my life..

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften 17 днів тому

      Not planned out well, out all.

    • @trauma50disaster1
      @trauma50disaster1 16 днів тому

      can't you just move farther out to the suburbs or even another 15 min farther to the mostly rural area at it will be fine?

    • @phillipcowan1444
      @phillipcowan1444 16 днів тому

      @@trauma50disaster1 I'm an avid cyclist. To be honest my hometown is too flat and boring. I need hills and scenery! Will retire in the western part of NC.

  • @happynurse8706
    @happynurse8706 23 дні тому +3

    Well for sure you got one thing right my wife and I retired to Hendersonville 7 years ago from Charlotte we absolutely love it here so glad to be out of the big city in the traffic of Charlotte

  • @BETTERWORLDSGT
    @BETTERWORLDSGT Місяць тому +10

    Haven't You heard, Camden NJ is the top retirement spot!

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 27 днів тому +1

      They have VERY colorful trash cans!.

    • @Hopdvil
      @Hopdvil 27 днів тому

      Hah, this is awesome. I don’t think anyone would complain about Camden being gentrified.

    • @Brandi6666
      @Brandi6666 23 дні тому +1

      My home town for 18 yrs🤫

  • @paulmoss7940
    @paulmoss7940 23 дні тому +4

    Ms. Pitts , respectfully , Your profession is one that has denigrated NC. Somewhat akin to lawyers and car salesman. I own four pieces of property in NC , one in Virginia, none bought through a realtor. I guess you figure someone will do it, might as well be you. I don't blame you , just stating fact. I'm glad you are headlining Charlotte and Raleigh, but I know why. The world runs on Benjamins and it comes down to the root of all evil. The shenanigans going on lately don't affect me directly, my race is already run and won. But I do really feel sorry for the youth of this region. Unless they have a leg up ,its gonna be really tough for them.

  • @derekmaness2926
    @derekmaness2926 Місяць тому

    What resource did you show for health related outcomes? Looked like good info.

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  Місяць тому +1

      US News and World Report! 😊

  • @ReadTheBible33
    @ReadTheBible33 2 місяці тому

    I really like your videos I live in Columbus County we moved out here expecting community but really didn't find much . we come from the Big City H-Town to be exact we don't regret the move but we are open to other areas. Look forward to checking out your other videos to see what else North Carolina has to offer I've been here for about 3 and a half years by the way.

    • @johnrenterprises2604
      @johnrenterprises2604 Місяць тому

      You will do better to drop “the big city”. If that’s what you want NC isn’t it. As the lady said you come and adjust we don’t plan to with no apologies.

  • @carefulconsumer8682
    @carefulconsumer8682 27 днів тому

    Excellent.

  • @user-ms4ef8xz9t
    @user-ms4ef8xz9t 4 місяці тому +8

    Spent most of my life in NC. I would never ever move back.

  • @lizzabbott
    @lizzabbott Місяць тому +1

    First time viewer , & brand new subscriber here from Buffalo , NY. NC is in my future ! My daughter & her Family moved to the triangle & yeppp …. I will relocate to be near them ! My Grand Daughter is 2 & 1/2 years old & we are very close . Itz tough being far away. I’m fortunate to visit when I can tho . Returning in a month for my 4th visit since they moved to NC last August! Thx so much ! Liz

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  Місяць тому

      I left my contact info on another comment but here it is in case you didn’t see it. I’m glad to have a call with you to help you narrow down your locations! www.harmonyrealtytriangle.com/contact-harmony/

    • @jessegarman7899
      @jessegarman7899 Місяць тому +7

      Stay where you are we have no more room. The only people that want you here are the realtors.

  • @thedisconnectedwife4165
    @thedisconnectedwife4165 Місяць тому +5

    Honestly though, who picks up and moves to a town without seeing it in person first????

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  Місяць тому +2

      You would be shocked how many people do!

    • @aliannarodriguez1581
      @aliannarodriguez1581 Місяць тому +2

      And then they don’t like it and try to sell it for far more than they paid just a year later. It’s a huge red flag for the property when they move out that quickly.

    • @Nun195
      @Nun195 22 дні тому

      Most people go where the work is.

  • @divingduck9
    @divingduck9 Місяць тому +8

    virginia's better, u can legally grow ur own herb. nc economy: pigfarms(stink), banks, bioweapons & bigpharm (suck)

  • @toots810usa6
    @toots810usa6 15 днів тому +1

    This is happening in my location in Southern Colorado. People are buying property sight unseen. We are a food desert, have horrible medical care so you have to drive far to get a decent doctor. I can't get a vet here either. Definitely rent for a year before buying.

  • @airborneranger-ret
    @airborneranger-ret 20 днів тому

    Liked and subbed

  • @Angler180DC
    @Angler180DC Місяць тому +6

    Thriving pickleball communities is the number 1 priority for many and having a walkable downtown area. That eliminates about 99%

    • @divingduck9
      @divingduck9 Місяць тому +2

      pickleball?? u r trippin. only if ur too weak or unskilled to play tennis

    • @robinhowells159
      @robinhowells159 29 днів тому +1

      @@divingduck9Ikr, Pickleball😂😂

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 27 днів тому

      Yep, until you snap an ankle then the pickelball isn't quite as important any longer..

    • @akita96th
      @akita96th 27 днів тому

      Murphy NC is an awesome place to live.....But if you are a Trump supporter lol then dont come here lol

    • @skylarsartnphotography3450
      @skylarsartnphotography3450 26 днів тому

      ​@@akita96thI love it here! But thank goodness, being a non-voter, as I've been for the past 15 years, I no longer have problems like that 😊 Half the time, I can't even tell ya whose running during an election year lol

  • @bigredracingdog466
    @bigredracingdog466 26 днів тому +1

    We're in historic Hillsborough. It's near both Duke and UNC hospital systems. Orange County has great senior centers. Property taxes are low. Traffic is light. Durham is 15 minutes away and Raleigh is 45 minutes away if you need to do big city stuff.

    • @graylyns
      @graylyns 26 днів тому

      Please don't give them any ideas.

  • @PAHighlander24
    @PAHighlander24 24 дні тому +1

    The issues discussed are worth consideration if you are moving to any state. Friends from NJ wanted to retire to Florida, a popular retirement destination. They had the wisdom to go into a one year rental to get a better idea of life there before investing in ownership. They were glad they did. They found they missed having 4 seasons, and several other factors made them realize the didn't like living in FL. They found a very nice smaller home in a rural community in NE PA, but south of the poconos, near enough to major medical centers in Allentown and Bethlehem, and love it there. Taxes are low, and although they don't have all the shopping conveniences locally, they are within 20 minutes, and that isn't a serious consideration. Do your research up front and find the real pros and cons before you move to an area you don't know.

  • @garybowler5946
    @garybowler5946 Місяць тому +4

    Always visit first for a week, research on site.

  • @markbajek2541
    @markbajek2541 28 днів тому +3

    I repeatedly vacationed in a town year after year , visiting in high and low seasons , good weather and bad over about a 4 year time. It's a completely different kettle of fish living year round there and just visiting 2 weeks at a time. It has its high points and low points but I didn't really notice the drug problem the town had as a sporatic visitor nor the increasing homelessness the area in now experiencing. But people do stop to assist large turtles to cross 3 and 4 lane highways with holiday traffic zooming by so there is that.

    • @akita96th
      @akita96th 27 днів тому +1

      The homeless problem is not as bad as you think it is I only see a few heare and there and as for drugs show me a town in the USA that does not have a drug problem.

  • @keithpoindexter6758
    @keithpoindexter6758 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for accurate information about the Beautiful Crystal Coast, where we live & is by far the Best retirement area for us, we live on Atlantic Beach @ is the Perfect small town for beach lovers, like us !!!!! If you need advanced medical care, the Triangle is not that far away, but certainly wouldn’t want to live there - Small Town life is simply the Best for us 😎😎😎

    • @paulmoss7940
      @paulmoss7940 23 дні тому

      AB is a rich man town now. You should have seen it in the 60's. I wish it was still like that.

  • @lynnhensley4326
    @lynnhensley4326 26 днів тому +1

    We live in Jamestown near 3 larger cities, High Point, Greensboro, and Winston-Salem. We have good health care. Rural areas do not have as good of care, but most rural areas in the USA are in the same boat. In the Piedmont area there are many activities. Depends what you want in retirement. You should visit areas you are considering not just go by what you read on the internet. Most people, who retire from my experience, want to be near their families.

  • @stickyfox
    @stickyfox 26 днів тому +1

    I have a family history of cancer and friends who've had cancer, and I would advise not to choose your residence based on how close it is to cancer treatment. That's letting cancer control your life. Cancer costs an average of $150,000 to treat in the USA. What's a few more in rent in a city with good cancer doctors while you need them?

  • @glennmorris1807
    @glennmorris1807 Місяць тому +4

    Cashiers avg. Home price 2024 - 1.6 million

  • @christschool
    @christschool 23 дні тому +3

    Hendersonville is a dump. Blowing Rock would be far better. Triangle area? Absolutely NOT. It's expensive and you will be trapped in traffic all the time, it is the WORST place for a retiree. Same for Charlotte. Pinehurst is oppressively hot. Nothing to do there but golf if that is your thing.

    • @1harmless1
      @1harmless1 20 днів тому

      Hendersonville is so over-crowded and still more apartments/houses being built everywhere!

  • @ironwill3035
    @ironwill3035 10 днів тому

    Thank-you for your time and stats . I'm 59 yrs old and was looking into NC. Because I've has some friends that live there ,mostly toward Winston Salem. . However I still would like to work @ lease a partime my profession has been truck driver so if I can due something like a shuttle bus driver .What else can you tell a out NC. ?

  • @dahak972
    @dahak972 26 днів тому +3

    All these retirement states are great if you’re healthy and wealthy. Otherwise you are screwed.

  • @stebethstar100
    @stebethstar100 7 місяців тому +1

    Great analysis Ellen. Your recommendations are spot on. I can attest because I am a newly retired transplant from the West Coast here in Holly Springs. Absolutely love it. As word continues to get out there will be more newly retired folks coming to the area. Thanks again for the great video.

  • @bjsteinhoff9810
    @bjsteinhoff9810 Місяць тому

    Deciding where to move/live in retirement can be either easy or difficult. Research & visits are definitely recommended. Sadly, that's not always enough to give you the complete picture of what it's like to actually "live" in a particular town/area.
    Most importantly, make certain to have adequate resources to enable a second move, if necessary, to find the "right" community.

  • @donaldcurtis9229
    @donaldcurtis9229 21 день тому +3

    I don't know where you got your data from.I live in Lenoir County, North Carolina.I've 3 miles from everything I want and I live in a rural area.Have no neighbors for half a mile.Either way get your Facts right

    • @trauma50disaster1
      @trauma50disaster1 16 днів тому

      why so hostile and offended? We can't go through 100 counties finding every jem, this is a 15 min video Donny...

    • @donaldcurtis9229
      @donaldcurtis9229 15 днів тому +1

      I'm sorry I didn't mean to be hostile.It's just beautiful down here.I like it very much sorry if I offended you

  • @dubliners0999
    @dubliners0999 7 місяців тому +7

    I LOVE Hendersonville, NC! The fact that it's so close to Asheville is a real plus.

    • @chanchan5349
      @chanchan5349 Місяць тому +5

      Do you live here? We NEVER go to Asheville anymore! The open drug use & large homeless population has turned it into a non-safe zone, especially for families.

    • @johnharper2016
      @johnharper2016 Місяць тому +4

      Asheville has turned to the dark side. Friend is Uber driver in Asheville area. Lived here his whole life. Many areas in Asheville he will not go into for fear of crime. I live in Hendersonville and go to Greenville, SC if I want some city life.

    • @tallyrc
      @tallyrc 27 днів тому +1

      ​@@chanchan5349 I live here and travel to Asheville regularly with my family. We walk the streets for dinner and desserts or drinks.. stay safe in your bubble..

  • @user-mu9zn6ty7j
    @user-mu9zn6ty7j 16 днів тому

    After my last move, I swore I would rent an apartment the next time I moved (especially if I moved out of state) to see if I liked the new place and also to get my bearings on other possibilities if I didn't like it. I understand there are caveats financially in doing this, especially if you sell your home and have to transfer that 'wealth' into a new home within a time frame, but I would be happier if I knew a few things about a potential new community before I moved there.

  • @akita96th
    @akita96th 27 днів тому +4

    I live in Western NC and Georgia Piedmont hospital is 30 minutes away and if you want to talk about heart problems or cancer these hospitals are the best. Western NC has Doctors and a hospital and they have air ambulance service and any problem you have that is critical means you are less than a half hour away from any hospital in Georgia and Tennessee....So trying to tell everyone that East NC is the best for medical care is a lie . I have had two heart attacks and I was in a cardiac hospital in no time and they saved my life I am happy to be from western NC and this is the most beautiful part of NC with the smoky mountains and views the best water lots of rain and we even have two casinos...and an airport. So dont let her fool you about western NC it is the best part of NC plus we are 2 hours away driving from any big city like atlanta or asheville or chattanooga.....The mountains are worth it.

  • @UPdan
    @UPdan Місяць тому +4

    Marquette, Michigan. Great hospital. Beautiful everything.

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 28 днів тому +1

      Yep , it has some strong points, could use better air connections and a bit more snow.

    • @tallyrc
      @tallyrc 27 днів тому

      Beautiful town.. but aren't we taking NC?

    • @Hopdvil
      @Hopdvil 27 днів тому

      I grew up there. I could never see it getting overcrowded.

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 26 днів тому +1

      @@Hopdvil IF something were to happen to TC , like some type of beach oil spill or something else, I could see Marquette getting more people. Just gotta throw a free Parka and a snowblower with the house sale..

    • @Hopdvil
      @Hopdvil 26 днів тому

      lol, we used to swim at the beach by the power plant. The coolant exhaust pipes were right there and kept the water temp reasonable.😂

  • @donaldcurtis9229
    @donaldcurtis9229 21 день тому +1

    I moved here two thousand and eight I love it never roll back up north for anything

  • @GregBalzer
    @GregBalzer 7 місяців тому +1

    Appreciate the personal (rather than generic) recommendations here. Hope to retire to NC someday and find the info here very helpful for advance planning.

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  7 місяців тому

      Glad it was helpful! If there’s any other content you would enjoy don’t hesitate to ask! 😊

  • @richardroberts-jl9sv
    @richardroberts-jl9sv 2 місяці тому +4

    Next year we're moving from Apex to Pinehurst. Apex has been a great place to live until recently it's just turning into gross suburban sprawl.

    • @WTHenry2023
      @WTHenry2023 Місяць тому +1

      C'mon. You are leaving "The peak of good living". All jokes aside, Apex is just suburban sprawl now and not the quiet little town it was 30 years ago. I was driving on Highway 64 recently on a Sunday and the traffic was bumper to bumper! Holly Springs and Fuquay Varina are sprawling too. Cary, which was very nice 30 years ago, has become way too crowded. We will be moving out of the area for retirement to a more rural area. I can always drive to to the best hospitals for medical care.

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  Місяць тому

      @WTHenry2023 let me know if you need help selling your home! You can schedule a call with me here: www.harmonyrealtytriangle.com/contact-harmony/

    • @tallyrc
      @tallyrc 27 днів тому

      ​@@EllenPitts I was gonna say you probably have people lined up to buy it.

    • @katydidnt3228
      @katydidnt3228 11 днів тому +1

      We did this 2 years ago. Sold the big, 2-storey family home for 3x what I bought it for in 1999 and bought a single storey on a golf course. Life is great and I wake up to bird song (which I hadn't heard in Apex for a number of years).

  • @TaxTheChurches.
    @TaxTheChurches. 15 днів тому

    If you live in a high water table area, your septic system, septic tank will probably be cracked at some point. Because there's water on the outside as well as the inside. I had to have mine dug up, emptied, repaired, and re-buried.

  • @joelcure7287
    @joelcure7287 Місяць тому +4

    What do you think about New Bern?

    • @jessegarman7899
      @jessegarman7899 9 днів тому

      NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!We are too full!!!!!!!!! No doctors!! 2 months for an appointment. and Hope that you like jet noise as the military is expanding here too. Gangs. traffic. Might look nice but it has gone downhill a lot.

  • @gordonmumbulo2495
    @gordonmumbulo2495 20 днів тому +2

    A lot of drugs and gangs in rural towns too! Very depressing!

    • @corby6956
      @corby6956 20 днів тому

      they’re everywhere :(

  • @davidtomasetti8520
    @davidtomasetti8520 14 днів тому

    I considered moving to Raleigh because my son lives there but there are SOOO many people and it’s growing way too fast. Which is why I moved out of Florida to begin with.

  • @sideler7057
    @sideler7057 27 днів тому

    Great advice not to believe website rankings. They're mostly bogus, some office drone sitting in a cube pulling up stats and making up a list. Before buying a house rent first.
    Also focus on the county population, not just the city population. Some central downtowns have small boundaries but draw upon a much larger county population which explains their amenities which are more than expected.
    Regarding renting first, I love the culture, wildlife and winters in Florida but after six months of sitting inside parked next to the A/C I'm glad I rented for a year.

    • @skylarsartnphotography3450
      @skylarsartnphotography3450 26 днів тому +1

      And now, its welcome to AI generated articles and reports. Get ready for all kinds of craziness when it comes to journalism

  • @swlancaster1964
    @swlancaster1964 2 місяці тому +7

    I think it is sad the poor get a sucky life.

  • @Mr626667
    @Mr626667 26 днів тому +1

    Man, this is a happy group

    • @jessegarman7899
      @jessegarman7899 9 днів тому

      You woldn't be happy if your hometown got overrun either.

  • @Teeveepicksures
    @Teeveepicksures Місяць тому +12

    I know everyones trying to rush to find the next GREAT PLACE to retire and live like King. I'm telling you, drop the fantasies and stop counting nickles.
    New England is STILL where it's at. Sure, you may not get a poorly made 6br mini-mansion for pennies but you'll have quality of life and access to LITERALLY some of the best healthcare on the planet. Some things are more expensive but live small, consume small, and enjoy your life. The time for earning and hoarding is over. Go LIVE.

    • @Suelabrie
      @Suelabrie 28 днів тому +4

      😂 i couldn’t get out of there fast enough

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 28 днів тому +1

      I thought Montana was "the last best place"

    • @Teeveepicksures
      @Teeveepicksures 28 днів тому

      @@markbajek2541 Montana is incredible but it all depends on your wants and needs. Diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks and so on and so on and doobie doobie doo be.

    • @glorgau
      @glorgau 27 днів тому +1

      @@markbajek2541 hahahahahaha! Usually takes about 2 winters before the occupiers retreat ;-)

    • @tallyrc
      @tallyrc 27 днів тому +1

      It's beautiful but so many people are too soft for cold weather.

  • @WTHenry2023
    @WTHenry2023 Місяць тому +7

    "The Triangle is booming". Yes, because it is booming, my wife and I no longer recognize the city we grew up in and loved for 55 of the past 60 years and that is why we will be leaving in a few years when we retire. It is becoming a very large city with large city problems including housing costs, traffic, crime and a less friendly population losing the Southern charm it once had. "Large cities are where the soul goes to die" or as Thomas Jefferson also observed: "'When we get piled upon one another in large cities, as in Europe, we shall become as cor,rupt as Europe." or in the words of Joni Mitchell "They paved paradise and put up a parking lot".

    • @eattherich9215
      @eattherich9215 29 днів тому +1

      Corrupt as Europe, are you living in some other America?

    • @raymonddeflaviis2306
      @raymonddeflaviis2306 29 днів тому

      @@eattherich9215 he was quoting Jefferson-250 years ago 😊

    • @raymonddeflaviis2306
      @raymonddeflaviis2306 29 днів тому

      Southern Charm?
      Bwahahaha
      Phony baloney!
      I’m with James Dickey!
      Hillbillies have no redeeming qualities!
      Southerners have a wide cruel streak- just like Cody Roberts.
      Cody Roberts is the poster boy for Southern Charm! ❤
      I wish you well! ❤

  • @johnb5231
    @johnb5231 Місяць тому +26

    fwiw, Asheville is no gem either, it’s a ultra liberal manure pit. Horrible place to retire.

    • @cumberlandquiltchic1
      @cumberlandquiltchic1 Місяць тому +2

      Beggars with signs on very corner…

    • @Desertbiker617
      @Desertbiker617 27 днів тому +2

      Better than conservatives places.

    • @akita96th
      @akita96th 27 днів тому

      Ashville is a clean town and a friendly town and it appreciates the arts.....You must be one of them whiny TrumpHumpers or MAGAT if you will and we are glad you left lol. Trump fools are never welcome in friendly towns.

    • @rustynail7866
      @rustynail7866 26 днів тому +2

      @@Desertbiker617 LOL🤣🤣🤣no

    • @jimhanty8149
      @jimhanty8149 24 дні тому +4

      Ashville used to be great … and classy ..I wouldn’t board my dog there now..trendy,woke, nose-ring yupsters ..may as well move to San Francisco.

  • @NotShowingOff
    @NotShowingOff 28 днів тому +3

    AI screws us again.

  • @palmermccall7309
    @palmermccall7309 22 дні тому +2

    McDowell, Avery, and Mitchell Counties are hell holes that should be crossed off anyone's list.

    • @rainymctrixie1
      @rainymctrixie1 20 днів тому

      Disagree. Beautiful safe areas.

    • @BryanClark-gk6ie
      @BryanClark-gk6ie 19 днів тому

      Burke county also' look up the crime rate compared to much larger areas and the law let's them get by with it.

  • @kjts33
    @kjts33 23 дні тому

    Very informative. I would like to relocate to NC for my adult son with autism. What can you tell me about residential housing for adults with autism. Thanks

  • @kennixox262
    @kennixox262 7 місяців тому +7

    I think college towns are always good for retires. Western NC is beautiful to visit but probably best for a vacation.

  • @bonitak8483
    @bonitak8483 3 місяці тому +1

    Im retiring in the next few months and would like to visit. Is there someone you could suggest I could reach out to for help with my small retirement relocation to Raleigh?

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  3 місяці тому

      Send me an email and I can help you! Ellen.pitts@compass.com

    • @davidhorne2326
      @davidhorne2326 Місяць тому

      Why Raleigh? Traffic is terrible!

    • @jessegarman7899
      @jessegarman7899 9 днів тому

      @@EllenPitts Realtors would sell condos at Auschwitz if it meant a buck

  • @kalbert2
    @kalbert2 26 днів тому +1

    You need to be near a teaching or a university hospital, not a for-profit hospital.

  • @WhiteWizard44
    @WhiteWizard44 Місяць тому

    Yet if you find a town where the barber is also the town surgeon, dentist and veterinarian, it's one stop shopping and you might get a multi-service discount...👍

  • @judyshepard1425
    @judyshepard1425 Місяць тому +15

    We’ve lived here near the coast for all our lives and will continue to. If you move here please respect our culture and loved it as we do. Also, no liberals please!

    • @aliannarodriguez1581
      @aliannarodriguez1581 Місяць тому

      You may have met real liberals that you liked and not even realized it. Most are nothing like the bizarre cartoons created in certain types of media to frighten and distract you.

  • @ToddThomas-ds1nc
    @ToddThomas-ds1nc 7 місяців тому +5

    I don’t even want to live in this state. Sure will not retire here.

    • @bane2256
      @bane2256 6 місяців тому

      How come

    • @ToddThomas-ds1nc
      @ToddThomas-ds1nc 6 місяців тому +1

      @@bane2256 This is second time living in this state. History is repeating itself. Work a year or 2 and get laid off. Wages are low. No opportunity. Plus this time my allergies are very severe.

    • @skylarsartnphotography3450
      @skylarsartnphotography3450 5 місяців тому

      ​@@ToddThomas-ds1ncWhere are you moving then? Where is the best place to live?

    • @ToddThomas-ds1nc
      @ToddThomas-ds1nc 5 місяців тому

      @@skylarsartnphotography3450Los Angeles California

    • @keithpoindexter6758
      @keithpoindexter6758 Місяць тому

      @@ToddThomas-ds1nc😂😂😂

  • @chanchan5349
    @chanchan5349 Місяць тому +1

    Western NC is beautiful, healthcare is beyond horrible. Driving to Duke was painful and expensive. They don’t offer resources for overnight stays & driving there and back in one day is impossible. Traffic has increased to make it twice as difficult. Do your research beforehand! Asheville lacks a good hospital system (one I would readily go to). When you’re younger it doesn’t seem so important so it isn’t on the checklist. We look for schools. But children need healthcare too.

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 27 днів тому

      Our hospital doubles as the barber shop. But the beach is nice.

  • @1harmless1
    @1harmless1 20 днів тому

    No more advertising Hendersonville. We are over-crowded.

  • @SherriShipley-rd1dr
    @SherriShipley-rd1dr 4 місяці тому +1

    Homes for sale in Hendersonville, area on waterfront

  • @wendywhite2642
    @wendywhite2642 13 днів тому

    Oh my God! Not even a Walmart! oh my God, I could never live there😮

  • @pamt3915
    @pamt3915 День тому

    Healthcare is the most frustrating part of moving to NC. Everything requires a referral, regardless of what type of insurance you have. In NJ, you have greater autonomy & can phone any physician or specialist you want an appointment with. Only HMO policies are typically the only type that require a referral.

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  День тому

      That has not been my experience here at all, at least in the Raleigh area. I’ve been here 24 years and I don’t think I have ever needed a referral from a referring doctor

    • @pamt3915
      @pamt3915 20 годин тому

      I’ve lived in Catawba & Harnett counties. In both counties your primary physician electronically puts in a referral & the referred physician’s office calls you within a week to schedule an appointment. If you call any specialist on your own, they won’t allow you to schedule an appointment until your primary puts in a referral. Also, Level 1 Trauma Centers offer more extensive care than community or rural hospitals in every US state.

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  18 годин тому

      @pamt3915 I’ve lived in Wake county and Granville county. I was in Granville for 4 years and I honestly don’t remember but in wake I schedule stuff without a referral all the time. Sometimes my doctor will even refer me to someone and I’ll find a different doctor and go to them instead

  • @jarvisstradford7211
    @jarvisstradford7211 7 місяців тому +1

    I know right

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  7 місяців тому

      Hey, Jarvis!! How ya doing?

    • @jarvisstradford7211
      @jarvisstradford7211 7 місяців тому +1

      @@EllenPitts I'm fine Ellen how are you

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  7 місяців тому

      @jarvisstradford7211 can’t complain!!

    • @jarvisstradford7211
      @jarvisstradford7211 7 місяців тому

      @@EllenPitts I got a complaint with that computer North Carolina also South Carolina is two of the best place to retire

    • @EllenPitts
      @EllenPitts  7 місяців тому

      @jarvisstradford7211 they are both beautiful states!

  • @waterbug1135
    @waterbug1135 Місяць тому +2

    I'm a single man. I seriously considered moving to the mountains of N Carolina. Then I started running into women from other countries messaging me on dating sites. Why are young very attractive women messaging me? What's the scam? I checked into it and turns out to be legit. Crazy. Now planning to move to SE Asia.
    Pays to research.

    • @kristihannabumgarner2817
      @kristihannabumgarner2817 Місяць тому +1

      Be careful

    • @churchofpos2279
      @churchofpos2279 27 днів тому +1

      These young women are looking for a sugar daddy and a green card. Be careful. Once the money is gone, they will dump you. I have had several male friends fall for this scam. If you marry them. you will be expected to financially support the parents and siblings and sponser them to come over to the US. In addition, you will get calls/message from her relatives asking for financial help .

    • @tinac945
      @tinac945 26 днів тому

      Sounds like you DIDN'T do your research. The scam is they want your MONEY. Do you really think a young, attractive girl is attracted to a much older man from another country? There's no fool like an old fool.

    • @paulmoss7940
      @paulmoss7940 23 дні тому +3

      They just want a comfy life with a retiring American you has a dollar or two.

    • @dondgc2298
      @dondgc2298 7 днів тому

      I assume your post is a joke.

  • @CP-os1pc
    @CP-os1pc 29 днів тому +1

    Wake has great medical care Wake Med Hospital, for me wasn’t great . Raleigh Area, unaffordable. Lots of very poor in periphery

  • @LetsGoChaseThatTrain
    @LetsGoChaseThatTrain 29 днів тому +1

    Think I'll pass on the checkers.

  • @LeftysLefty
    @LeftysLefty 27 днів тому +1

    Slightly off-topic - i recently moved from a close-in DC suburb to an exurb out at the very edge of the DMV - and i am def noticing huge diffetences in local health care availability, which surprised me. As we get older hese things matter. In the past i had considering relocating to a Red State because i thought it would be cheaper, but turns out availability of health care is important that I dont want to live in a cash-starved state where health care resources are limited and where the COVID pandemic exposed those areas where existing health care systems were not up to the challenge. Im a city guy and i dont drive. My NC relatives all spend way too much time in their cars - even the ones who live in urban areas in the Triangle. So I guess it wont be NC for me.

  • @MichaelGreenham
    @MichaelGreenham 25 днів тому

    Living in N Raleigh fire 20 years I don't think you could be more wrong about the triangle. Sure if you want to live in a senior living center maybe. Traffic, over built, poor transportation options so make this place less than desirable. We want to retire to slower, smaller and less crowded. Wake co is the largest county of the 100 in NC.

  • @user-jn9gv9ve6e
    @user-jn9gv9ve6e Місяць тому +1

    if you move some place without checking it out yourself your not to swift. rent an apartment for a year before you buy anything.

  • @charlesbuchanan4623
    @charlesbuchanan4623 3 дні тому

    These might be great recommendations if you win the lottery lived in NC for 30 years and I can tell you all her recommendations will cost a small fortune