Hi everyone!! Thank you so much for your kind comments! Just to clarify, I’m sticking around and will be stamping. You just won’t see many Stampin’ Up! products from me! Also, the bundle has sold! Thank you!
This is the first time I have seen your video. It was an odd one to see for the first time because I do not know you or your work . I just want to say that I admire what you are doing. We must be and do what is good for us. Crafting is fun for me but I could never keep up with it if it was a job and I needed to do all of the work that crafting entails as a job. It’s a lot of work. Good luck. I look forward to seeing you again
I’m so sorry to hear about you leaving SU. I’ve watched your utubes and I enjoyed watching the projects you created. Because you are so crafty I’d hate to see you give up everything. Have you heard of Creative Memories? I love that company. I actually rejoined about a year ago. Before Katrina I was a CM consultant for 13 years and back then you had to order monthly. I lost my customer base so I had to quit. I really missed CM and I rejoined as an Advisor (that’s what you are called now). It’s was a no brainer. You join for $49.99 and you DON’T have to order monthly. You don’t have to sell products if you don’t want. I love scrapbooking photos both regular meaning place photos in an album and I have created a digital photo album. I think that with your talent you could be a good advisor and share CM with your customers that followed you with SU. If you are interested in any info about CM please let me know and I’d be happy to provide any info. I myself don’t need CM as my income. I have been retired now going on eight years. I understand if CM is not for you but here is my website in case you want to see what CM has to offer. We have paper, tools etc like SU and you can create cards but have no stamps like SU. So here is my site if you want to check it out. Https://creative memories.com/user/leslie-morton. I do live in La but there are Advisors all over the place. Hope you check it out. Thanks Leslie
This is the first time I’m seeing you. You popped up on my feed. I’m glad you are doing what you need to do for yourself. That is very important. Funny this popped up because I’ve been searching for the whale tail paper punch. Maybe that’s why. It’s near impossible to find that punch. I even keep checking the thrift stores. If you know anyone let me know. Stay healthy!
Just cuz your leaving SU, doesnt mean you need to stop crafting... take a break & come back & have fun...dont understand why your selling everything... i joined in June to build up my supplies& theirs Bunches of fun product, ... interaction with others is healthy.. good for everyone😀 Be safe & look forward to seeing you again soon💕🎉🌈
I started learning through joining a group that did Stampin' Up classes. That was my introduction to card-making. There was never any pressure for me to join but around 2014 or 15 I learned how much more there was to the stamping and card-making world. So, I branched out and started buying other products. It opened up a WHOLE NEW WORLD of creativity. It was wonderful. I knew I could never keep up with "selling" for a company like SU, and I didn't want to be beholden to them. I started selling my cards on Etsy and then later created my own website. I now do a lot of custom card orders for people. I ALSO have chronic illness/pain, so I get it! You are not alone in your suffering and struggle to want to be creative and know that it helps you but also not wanting it to be something that drags you down when it comes to selling. So, I guess what I am saying is "YOU DO YOU". You do what works for you and make it fun. You can do it! I've never watched your videos before. Your video popped up in my feed and so I watched. But, I feel a kinship, so HUGS to you. Hang in there.
I hope you know you're not alone in this health/anxiety/depression thing, and that watching you create with love and joy is a lifeboat for some people, including me.
Sweetie, Life is short.... do what makes you happy. I do it as a hobby, also. That enables me to buy and use whatever I want. I don't like selling either. It is stressful and at my age, 71, I don't need any more stress. Hugs to you. It is nice to hear your reasonings. You did it with class and you did not feel the need to run down the company to justify why you are following your own path. Good for you. May everything work out for you. I will be popping in to watch you create.
GIRL~! I think you are beautiful. Sometimes in life we have to stand still for a few moments...and more often we need to take a step back to get a new footing. Even falling on one's face is still a forward motion. Your health has to come first. Once you get that settled down your beatutiful creative mind can soar. People out here care. Be strong, be safe and trust your instincts. the world doesn't end in a minute from now. Blessings
Laura Raven , what a brilliant saying, “even falling on ones face is a forward motion” that is an inspirational quote that I am going to remember, it is so encouraging. This is the first time I have watched this lady and I really like her, she has an honest face and demeanour. I am a crafter but not a card maker, so don’t know about the products, but I have subbed.
I really like what you had to say, I am someone who dreams of creating pretty things but has no skills or clue as to make it happen, I do not have an eye for putting colors or patterns or anything together and thinking it looks good. I have been trying to be “crafty” for about a year and I am very seldom happy with the outcome, but I keep trying. My family encourages me because they have liked things, such as cards I have made. But I just love watching you and many others create with such beautiful papers, dies, stamps, inks, etc. and it keeps me going. My joy comes from people like you who put your talents out there so people like me can “learn” from them. I will definitely continue watching and be forever learning. Thank you for all you do!
I just happened upon you and this video so I have never watched any videos of yours. I just want to tell you how much I already love you after watching this! You are real and thats what I have been looking for! I look forward to watching and following you! 💕
I appreciate what you’re saying. I started stamping with Stampin Up and it seems over the years they just copy or come up with their own version of ideas that are already out there.
I can completely understand where you are coming from. When I first got into card making, I thought it would be cool to be on a crafter team. After watching hundreds of videos on YT and Instagram.... It became apparent that the requirements would be demanding and take the fun out of being creative. Good for you, to be able to come to a decision that allows you to enjoy your hobby.
I was a hobby demo and dropped out as I wasn't able to afford to make my quota. I had watched many of your videos and enjoyed them. I fully understand why you are not doing it anymore. Praying that your health improves and bless you in what ever you do in the future.
I am an SU demo but only as a hobbyist - I probably don’t know any better as have never used other products. I completely understand why you are pulling out - the constant cost to stay as a demo is hard and now so many catalogues. Good luck to you whatever you do - you only have one life so embrace the future - Carol, Surrey, England
There are TONS of releases. My favorite youtubers tell us to use what we have. I am sorry that you have had so many health challenges. I truly hope your health becomes easier to manage. You are a wonderful woman, take care of yourself.
Best of luck! I was a hobby demo but made the decision to leave; i was basically just “collecting” stuff. And still have way too much which is can be overwhelming,
I am an SU demo and while I loved the stuff, and the classes, I’ve realized that I put myself under so much stress by doing these classes every month. Since this lockdown, I’ve been watching a lot of UA-cam videos, and have gotten into other products. I’ve gotten a lot of Arteza stuff, - watch Vianney Luna - she uses all kinds of products and is incredibly talented. So I’m subscribing to your channel hoping to see new and different stuff. PS - you have a beautiful complexion and are very pretty, well- spoken, and that makes you enjoyable to watch. Good luck!
I love Vianney (Vianney Creates) and I watch her every day. She is also very honest and tells it like it is s she reviews products from many, different companies.
I am from Switzerland i asked many time to buy from stamping up but stamping up dont sale in my coutry so as i love scrapbooking i found many other shop..I wish you all the best Misty
Hey Misty!. I understand and respect your decision. I order from "everyone and everywhere" and I don't/never wanted to be "locked" with one Company. I also joined 5 "Adult Coloring Groups", so much fun!!! I sell my stuff, but at my pace. My "Passion for Crafting".. is my "therapy" and will always be Priority!:)
So where do you find Adult Coloring groups. I feel the same way about stamping up, being locked down. An an artist I don’t use “one brand” of paint. So I search for stamps I love. Sometimes on Altenew (also expensive) some Micheals, HobbyvLobby, I mean there are choices.
@@MayaRivka...Good morning Lynn!. These Coloring groups are called "Adult, meaning, no one under I think 17 can join. They're not explicit or nothing like that!..,lol..just go Facebook search " Adult Coloring Groups"...its so much fun, helping each other, sharing coloring tips, making friends:)
I understand. I'm a hobby demonstrator. I love the stamps and how everything matches, but I just can't recruit and sell. I really enjoy making cards and sending them to people. I have to admit, SU is almost "cultish" and it gets to me sometimes.
My first full time job was at a computer store, supposed to sell computers. I am not a salesperson either. I like to help people, not pressure them or rob them. If they had a problem and I could tell them how a computer and certain software could help them solve their problem, I might sell a computer. After awhile management noticed and instead of selling so much, we offered a free hour of "training and setup" for every $1,000 they spent. And I went to their homes and unboxed everything, put it where they wanted it, set it up for them. Taught them how to turn it on and off, how to install the software and got them up and going. It was a better fit for my temperament and skill set than trying to make people part with their money. I ended up going from there to the main headquarters for the franchise and working in technical support on the phone lines. We aren't all cut out to be sales people. It is sad that sales people make more money, but it's really the customer service people that keep a customer coming back to buy again, right?
I've left so many companies and utility services due to bad customer service alone, and I stick with those who are interested in helping customers, regardless if they're a little more expensive. I wish all companies had staff (representatives) like you. You wouldn't believe how thankful we are to have you. So, Thankyou! 👍
I was a demonstrator many years ago when you had to do parties. At first the dollar amount you needed to meet was not that much then they raised it and I quite forever. I have bought a few things from them over the years but I have never liked their shipping cost when other companies do so much better. Don’t ever feel bad for making your decision there is so much life out there to enjoy and it never, never matters what others think. It’s your life not theirs.
Thank you for expressing your thoughts about this. I also recently became a demonstrator but realized every video I watched that showed using the products was 50% selling other products. After a while, I hated that because I already had those products - don't waste my time trying to sell them again! I have felt sick at the amount of money I spent in the first 3 months - I have everything in a drawer that I have never used because I can't figure out how I feel. Basically sick to my stomach when I see that drawer. I understand how you feel. I hope your health stays strong.
I think it is great you were able to get back to what matters to you and what is important and fun for you. I’m a type 1 diabetic and not knowing how you’re going to feel or be able to accomplish each day is such a distraction and impact on every day. I’m learning to set small goals and be happy with the things I can get done. Look forward to watching upcoming videos and seeing that beautiful new desk 💙
Misty, I admire your courage. I myself am struggling with whether or not I should keep going. I have so many other things that interfere with SU. I just got two downline but they are remaining hobby. I can’t get into a groove or routine. I’m spending an incredible amount of money. I love the hobby and sending cards and things I have made to family and friends, but I think I need to take the pressure off and stop worrying about it. I need to stop buying what I “think” I can sell or demo, because I’m spending and not making anything in return. Anyway, I just spilled my heart to you. I look forward to seeing you in the future.
I agree with you! I love what I do, but hated the MLM way that my company did things. It was a 3 year struggle to give them the boot, but after 16 years of dealing with the MLM structure, I walked away and have never been happier. I can now focus on what I love and enjoy and share the marvelous products that other companies have. My favorite companies are the ones that have products that compliment each other and can be used multiple ways. Good luck to you
Well done Misty 💪🏼⭐️🎉❤️ You’ll feel so much better for having this weight off your shoulders. And you probably won’t realise how much weight it was until months down the track. I was a Creative Memories consultant back in the early 2000’s. It was incredibly limiting when scrapbooking was really exploding and so much new exciting stuff was coming onto the market - and I was trying to remain loyal to CM. Like you, I didn’t want to sell...I just wanted to scrap with others and show them great product. And CM product IS wonderful...it’s just expensive. And to maintain that amount to retain my consultant status was quite stressful. I just watched a video on Maremi’s Small Art channel about her leaving all the design teams she was on and her reasons. It was the stress and anxiety related to meeting deadlines etc (and so much more obviously) but a wonderful video to watch if you want to have a look at hers too. You have definitely done the right thing. You have a wonderful heart and I hope you feel so much better for your decision. Stop worrying about offending everyone, your mental health comes first. 🥰 I’m definitely subscribing as I’ve just found you. I look forward to seeing your journey from here. Congratulations Misty. 🥰🥳🙏🏼🌸🌈❤️🎉👏🏼
Stay safe precious, we are having a surge of covid here too. It's not as bad as what I'm hearing about Texas, but it could get that way if people don't stay home!
It’s so dang aggravating and my doctor insisting that I have to go into the office makes me livid. I’m doing my best to stay safe and they aren’t helping.
This is my first video of yours that I've watched. I'm glad you decided to do what YOU need to do and not be pressured . I look forward to watching any and all of your technique videos as an inspiration for my own cardmaking using different produces that I have on hand and not feeling like I need to get exactly what the demonstrator is using. I've spent way too much money on items that I think I need that are still lying around waiting to be used. Hang in there and have a blessed day!
I am so with you! I did SU for 5 years and I know I am not a salesperson. I did this as a hobby & for the discount. When the virus happened I wondered what SU would do as a workaround. Like you said, so many people were out of work or needed to watch their budget SU did nothing! There was no information to demonstrators telling us there was an extension or some sort of reprieve to meeting minimums. You are so right. Creating and demonstrating requires selling with SU. I use many products and LOVE Stamps Of Life and the interaction products from Lawnfawn. Good luck love! You will soar with this new venture you are about to partake. 💕
Cass J they did offer help - they told us to contact them if we were struggling to meet our quarterly minimums. This was posted in their weekly updates.
I just saw your video and it is 12/23/21. So, wanted to say two things: first, do what you love and love what you do; second, I hope you are back in your happy place! Merry Christmas.
Hi Misty! I'm excited to see your new, re-modeled craft room! I've been an SU demo for almost 16 years and I love it! I'm more than a hobby demo, but not a business demo. When things have been "normal", I have about 6 Stamp Camps per year. I just make cards and my stamping friends (I guess I could call them customers) love to come over here and stamp and we have a lovely time, and some of them buy things! Some don't buy that night, but they might buy another time. And I'm VERY low-pressure, and if a newbie gives me an order full of things that don't make sense, I talk to them about what they want to make, and I help them choose things that will help them make what they want to make and get the most for their crafting dollars. Sadly, the last two Sale-a-brations weren't great for me because last January I had a huge shoulder surgery and was in rehab through June! This. year I had a knee replacement in early February, and if it wasn't for the virus, I would've been ready to have Stamp Camps again by early April. But then there's the virus. I was blessed to have some of my customers still ordering from time to time, and happily, a gal who was actually in my downline for a year or two about 7 years ago contacted me and wanted to sign up again! Then today I got a phone call from another customer who hadn't ordered in several years and she placed a nice order. I told my hubby its was like Old Home Week!! So I still love it. For me, the money I make through SU helps pay for my own purchases. So maybe I'd call myself a break-even demo, except that I buy way more than I make, so I'd LIKE to be a break-even demo. One of my dearest friends is someone I met at Convention in 2008 and we're very close. Another close friend is a downline and we love sharing our creations with each other through text (she moved to another state, unfortunately). My customers are very loyal and one gal (and now her friends) has been coming here to stamp since January of 2005!! But I'm not an online demo and I don't make videos, though hubby is saying that maybe I should have a Zoom session to show them what I'm making and such. So that's kind of my Stampin' Up story. I'll still be watching your stamping videos and I wish you all the best with your health struggles. I'm a lot older than you (Medicare age! ) and I've had health struggles too.
I just happened to come by your video. I'm also a SU demo. and am waffling back and forth. I like there products but also like others. I don't have customers ,I do it for me. Was thinking of doing videos also. My complaint about SU is they keep changing colors and the new ones aren't much different from the old. I can't keep up.I will be following you from now on. I really like your personality!
Don't worry. Things will be better soon. I have to tell you that I loooove your tutorials. I really enjoy them. You are very creative. The most important thing here is to enjoy what you do, so congratulations on your decisions. You did what you had to do. Take care, health and happiness go first. I wish you the BEST in all aspects of your life!!! Hope to see your new and fresh and elfie creative ideas soon. I don't care what products you use. YOU are GREAT!!!!!!!! Have a very merry time during all this new process steps. Take your time, relax and scrap! Hugs from Costa Rica!
This is the first I have seen your video. The title caught my eye so I watched the whole thing. I have been a Stampin' UP! demonstrator for less than 2 years but I understand what you are saying completely. There is a very fine line between encouraging upline people and pressure to grow and sell. I am not a good direct sales person. And sometimes I feel like I'm not doing something right. Then I remind myself, I'm doing this as a hobby, not to make a living or achieve stardom. I love making cards and I enjoy teaching others how to make them. So thank you for your words which have encouraged me to be true to myself! I have subscribed to your channel because I want to follow your progress! Keep taking care of yourself the best you can!
I understand how you feel. I’m not a seller either. I joined to make friends. I’m currently a hobby SU demo and it is getting harder and harder to stay interested. I can’t wait to see your new room and to learn about Patreon.
Look at the 2 stamp clubs at Maymay made it she is awesome and her stamps are awesome. I love everything she sells all of the stamps the Glue the paper packs the tape the tape the does the inks the wreath kits etc. Watch her videos and you will let great inspiration. Hope you find what you need in life. God Bless You!
Good for you. Crafting should be fun and when you feel like it. I wish you the best and look forward to seeing what the future brings for you. (There are so many cool things to try)
Bless you for your honesty. You are not alone in your unrest about selling in a multilevel marketing company. I’ve been there, done that. The term ingenuous is quite accurate. I was told to view people as potential customers rather than friends and acquaintances. If you become moderately successful the pressure increases and you’re on a treadmill. I admire your for not putting the blame on SU. it boils down to our own choices and whether we want to make the necessary sacrifices and reshape our consciences to achieve the goals set out for us by the company. Like you, I didn’t have the heart to be an aggressive salesperson. The fact that you had health issues on top of all that pressure broke my heart. I’m so happy you’ve set yourself free by admitting the root of the problem and going public! Sweetie, you’ve endeared yourself to me and a whole lot of people who’ve been down that same road. Thank you for bearing your soul to us.
Good for you, Misty, in going with your heart and doing what feels right for you. Crafting is supposed to be joyful and if it is not, something is wrong. I enjoy your videos and will continue to watch whatever content you post. Love you right back.😍
Hi Misty, I just happen to be craft surfing and came across your site. I like you already and will be waiting to see you again. Thank you for being here, and being yourself.
Thank You so much for your honest and caring video. I left Etsy for almost the same reason. One day I was feeling over anxious looking at my supplies for bottle decorating, jewelry making, card making, etc. And I was about sick to my stomach looking at all my "Stuff"! so I talked to my Angels and they subtly told me to destash; quit Etsy, and do what I want to do. I felt SO LIBERATED once I got all my stuff together, priced everything I don't want/need and put it all in my guest room until the summer is over and the pandemic as well, and have a BIG DESTASH GARAGE SALE outside. Leaving Etsy was the best decision for me. What I found by doing this is I'm NOW CREATING and LEARNING new things without the pressure of making something to sell (hopefully) and this was everyday for years. Once the sales were less and less, and the time put into creating, taking the pic, uploading the pic and writing a description, then waiting for a hit, was getting too overwhelming. SO SWEET LADY, you're going to be fine, and being FREE from all the expectations which eventually becomes WORK, you're going to find so much peace that your CREATIONS will be YOURS!!! GOD BLESS YOU. You're beautiful!!!
Hello from Blackpool, Misty , you are not alone !two of the most lovely successful,ladies ,one in Ireland and one in Holland have also come to the same conclusion ,(different company’s) and they are so much happier , and this is absolutely apparent in the lightness of their spirit . Sweetie everyone deserves to be happy
Girl! I could have written the transcript for your reasons for leaving SU! lol I joined in 2016 left in 2018, only to join again in 2019, then let it go again shortly after. The first time I left, it was because I realized I was spending way more than I was making, time and money. But I loved creating and sharing what I made. I went the route of “other” stamp companies, but found it overwhelming to have SO much to choose from! SO I returned to SU! on a whim, because I loved their products and they were familiar to me. The selling aspect always bothered me as well. I felt like I was “begging” people to buy from me, when all I wanted to do was share what I learned with others. I love that you are still creating and sharing without the pressure of selling the product. It certainly is freeing!
Thank you for being so honest, I will be following this is the first time seeing you and you have support it takes a lot to let go sometimes and I'm glad you have made your decision to so. Looking forward to following you in the future.
Hello Misty, this is the first time your video popped up. I appreciate your story and how genuine you are. I was a SU demonstrator about 12 years ago so I understand the minimum orders each month. You don’t need the stress just the joy. Dare 2B Artzy is my family owned stamp company. We now have an affiliate program. We would love to have you join our Artzy Community on Facebook. Sending you hugs and prayers for good health.
Hi Misty, just want to say I enjoy your video and of course I will continue to follow you and I also, want you to know that you will be missed at SU, as well! I pretty sure, you and we’re both a part of the chics paper ink group. I look forward to seeing all your new goodies, new craft room and all the beautiful things you make with them! I will keeping you in my prayers! Hugs 🤗 Kim
You need to do what is best for you. Can understand the stressful of what you going through with a lot of people getting there items for free. Glad to see you love your work take care just use the items you have and make cards with those items so you shouldn't be stress out.
I am thankful for you and love the content you provide! I will continue to watch and your choice to walk away sounds like the best choice for you! Thank you so much for your honesty and integrity. You are talented and amazing. Never lose your amazing "spark"!!
Good morning! This is my first time watching you and I can so much relate" I was also in a multi level company, your biggest competitor, actually. Lately I have been in a place of not wanting to sell anymore also and try to just enjoy crafting! We all go through phases in our life, where we need to pause, reflect and make decisions that make our soul feel the peace and serenity. My journey started when my daughter died a year ago June 26. I just know now that awareness and gut feelings are to be heard. Pleasing others is good but it needs to start with us. I will look up for you. Thanks for sharing and being so honest!
You have to do you! I’ll stick around 100%! You didn’t let me down at all!!! Your a great up line!! I’m glad that you got me into stampin up!! Your an amazing person and friend!!! ❤️
I love your honesty and totally understand about the sales thing. I have subscribed to your channel and look forward to seeing what you will video next. I wish you much success in your future endeavors!
A great video. I love watching several of the stampin up demonstrators and have learned a lot of cool techniques, but I get really annoyed with the ones that you can tell are pushing to sell products. A lot of their stuff is great but the prices are ridiculous and I have to REALLY love something to buy. So many options out there that are similar and more affordable. Your honesty is refreshing. Wish you health and good luck in your new journey.
This the first time I have watched your video, you made me laugh, cry and it made my day. I'm a scrap booker by nature and as therapy. I purchase and use a ton of different products. I will be continuing to watch you.
Hey girl, stay happy & healthy. I’m sorry they opened too fast in TX. I’m in eastern Pennsylvania and we pretty much did things right here, despite some resistance. Thank you for sharing and keep on creating. Stay positive!
This is my first video of yours that I'm watching and just subscribed. I hope you're feeling better! And enjoy where our creative juices take you! I just joined SU for the discount. I have stamps from tons of companies. And am so on your page about selling - so not my bag! I'm in awe of people who can do it and have the personality type to do it, it's just not me. I'd rather create. Kudos to you for following your passion!!! 🌺
Background: I heard of you because I watch Denise Soden tutorials, reviews, etc, and she mentioned you concerning markers. I started watercolor in January and I love it, thanks to people like Denise. I saw this particular video first. I’m too new to your channel to offer an opinion so I’ll just say I understood what you were saying and agreed. I just finished one of your older videos, when you were selling, and I felt strangely proud, considering I don’t know you...of the decision you made. I love your channel so far but I applaud anyone who has opportunity to lessen the stress levels that are inherent in selling. I look forward very much to your future videos. You are so talented. Way to go!
@@TheJollyFatElf I’m sorry as I watch so many. At the time however I was researching either brush pens or color pencils. You might know her by “In Liquid Color”. She referred to your greater knowledge on the subject and called her your friend 😊. I did noticed you’ve commented on the “Struggling with Ink” video.
Hi. This is the first time I've watched any of your videos. You've had a really tough time if it and I could see from your face how sad it made you. I've subscribed so I'm now looking forward to you videos and learning from you. Stay safe and hold you head high you're amazing 😘😘
Thank you for sharing ,stay strong , glad you will be still posting ,sometimes when I am in my craft room I can feel overwhelmed ,I took a few weeks break but I feel better now .hugs to you hope your health gets better .
I just happened to 'happen' on this video and watched it out of curiosity and my heart went out to you. Nothing is worth slogging at if it makes you feel ill and stifles your creativity rather than stimulates it, even if it has helped you in the past. I'm nothing to do with Stampin Up, I'm just an occasional buyer of some of their products, usually second-hand via Ebay, as they are too expensive for me to buy new. I know that I certainly would not be able to cope with the stress of the big sell. So I wish you well in whatever you decide to do in the future and I hope you regain your love and passion for crafting. A well-wisher from England. God bless!
I SAW you selling all your stuff on Facebook! Tonight I found your channel for the first time! Planning to follow you from here on out! Totally understand. Good luck! I'm excited to see future videos.
Beautiful girl.. I have never seen any of your videos.. But I hit my subscribe halfway into listening to you.. I so relate to the way you feel about MLM, selling and the stress.. Especially when it's something you love and this was taking you far from it... I was in an accident myself I needed to learn to walk without a cane and 2 heart surgeries to save my life.. I so related to you.. You are such a beautiful person... Feel better and do things your way... Best wishes
All the best Misty. I can totally get what you’re saying. I’ve found it all too much for the past 7months which was when I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid arthritis and raynoids. Jan🤗
I just watched your personal video and I'm impressed with how you presented yourself with what you are and have been through. Love your videos and will be looking forward to your NEW adventures.
You are a special person and I am glad that you have made your decision based on what's best for you. I will try to keep up with you. I joined stampin up to get some things I wanted and feel like I have let "my leader" down by not selling. Been there and done that. My hobby became a chore instead of fun.
I understand. I had to quit Mary Kay Cosmetics many years ago when my health began suffering from stress. I was already working full time, with other activities and a family, and this added activity was too much. So, you need to do what you need to do, when you need to do it. Glad you made the decision that you feel is best for you, and I hope your health will improve.
I’ve never seen one of your videos before and I have to say you were so honest and so caring. Just trying to give your side of why you did what you did. I am a crafter, cake decorating , wreath making, diy’s, tried chalk couture, starting in paper crafting and have bought a few stamps at Michael’s, I am looking forward to watching you do what you love, being happier and taking care of your health! Way to go!!
Roughly a month later and on the other side of the world from you in Melbourne, Australia, we've just gone into hard level 4 lockdown for six weeks thanks to Covid-19. It just keeps onnnn going! 😢
Congratulations on making a decision that is best for you. I am a fairly new stamper and have waffled over the idea of becoming a SU hobby demonstrator. After hearing of your experience, I am really glad to have decided to just buy things I love. So very glad that your destash went well. I look forward to seeing your work with your new supplies. BTW, I am from Texas, too. Please be careful and stay well.
Hi Misty! I enjoy you and your Creations! Stampin Up is great but it's not the end all be all. I'm discovering my love for alcohol markers and watercolor pencils from brands like Faber Castell and Ohuhu and Copic. Can't wait to see what you Create!
Hi Misty when something doesn't serve you anymore or sucks the life out of you = listen to yourself and turn away. I think you are a genuine, wonderful, kind person and ifyou continue doing Stamping Up! you will loose the real you. I hope you will find you joy and to be able watch you again. kindess regards Lorraine x
Sorry to hear about your health! I totally understand! I have Lupus, RA, Carpal Tunnel, Nurapathy and Fibromyalgia also have issues with my stomach that cause me to get sick at times. I have been with Stampin' Up for a year and I have been stressed out because of not having no customers. I work myself to death and I get nothing! I changed my channel name and everything and I have now gotten to where I feel like no one watches my videos anymore because of what I do. When you don't have any money for the products it's very stressful! I thought about quitting too back before the new catalog came out but I desided to hang in since I was still good. I am always a little late it seems on my orders because we just don't have the money right away. Just got the August - December catalog and I am trying to decide on what to get. So much in both catalogs I want and need but just no funds to get anything! I asked my husband for $100. so I could put in my order. Like you I am not a sales person and I hate feeling like I am begging for money! It's bad enough that I am fighting to get people to just watch my videos now and give them a thumbs up. I am lucky to get one or two on a video and I have way over 1,000 subscribers. Don't know what is going on! I tried to do some live videos and I heard crickets🦗it was so quiet! No one came on! Broke my heart! To be honest I think my subscribers are not interested in Stampin' Up or they are selling it also. I can't even get anyone to leave a comment to let me know what they want to see. Don't know if there getting notifications or what. I even got so sad that almost quit UA-cam last year! But if I did that what would I do.. I would get depressed for sure being home every day in pain not doing anything! UA-cam and Stampin' Up what's been helping keeps me going every day. I think that's why I haven't quit! God bless and stay safe and healthy😇Tammy💜
I totally understand, I'm a hobbyist demo and I do private videos in a private group for lessons and this helps me meet my quarterly quotas as I don't have customers. I wish you all the best, I must say I do love stampin up and I sell off all my retired sets each year then I buy all new sets. Craft is my happy place, please stay safe and look after yourself. Ange Australia xoxo
You are awesome and my cup of tea. I am just a SU purchaser but have not been happy with their line in a couple of years and I felt bad because I buy from a good friend. I think we should always chase our joy. Chase it and catch in and live in it if we can. Go chase yours.
Hello dear Misty. I’m so sorry that you have had to make your decision no longer sell SU. Their products are truly amazing. However, like you said, very expensive. I also suffer from depression and general anxiety disorder. Thank you , for sharing your thoughts. You are truly a blessing to me.
You are the first person I followed when I started in the planning/crafting community. I really do love your craftiness. I really miss your plan with me video’s. Hope you start making them again.
I'm relatively new with Stampin Up. Just had to spend too much money to maintain my status. I love WAY too many stamp companies to commit to just one! Lawn Fawn, Mama Elephant etc. I'm collecting Copic Sketch markers and enjoying the adult coloring world. I'm so tickled to find your channel. Do what you love, and just do you!
Glad I stumbled upon this video. I think you're wonderful and I totally understand your decision.im also disabled and crafting and art is my outlet. I've subscribed to your channel and I'm excited to grow along side of you. WELCOME TO THE CRAFTING COMMUNITY! Kim Julius Oh, you're so pretty, your skin is GORGEOUS!
I agree with all of your points. I have a channel and I am new as a UA-camr, but a long time card maker. I like encouraging people to use what they have. I use discontinued items that I love and plug in just to be a part of the community. I am not trying to sell anything. I just want to craft, share and chat with others in the hobby.
All the best from someone who also has serious back problems and trigeminal neuralgia, and the depression that goes with chronic pain... Just found your channel and am so pleased to subscribe!
I had a friend who started to sell SU over 14 yrs ago. I went to her first party, and I was horrified at the prices, so they are likely even higher now. I felt obligated to buy something and I ended up spending $200 for a few things. It was difficult because she would send out emails about new catalogs, and I couldn’t afford to support her business and I felt pressured. I think it was because she had to sell so much to keep going with SU. I think it’s great that you’re doing what’s best for you. This pandemic is going to change how we spent our money and companies like SU are going to have to change!
Thank you so much for your honesty. 🙂 I only joined to receive the discount. But now that my family is really financially struggling, I will no longer be able to continue being a hobby demo. I too am not a salesperson. I do not know how people can make a living through selling these products, especially where I live. First there was an economic collapse. And then Covid devastated our economy. I got too caught up in the "infomercials", where it left me thinking that I needed it all. And left me feeling inadequate because I could not spend hundreds of dollars every month...Also very disappointed that products are not available barely after the release of the catalogue. Perhaps SU should have delayed the release until they could have had a better supply stockpile. Just a thought...Thank you again, and stay safe. 😊❤
Hi everyone!! Thank you so much for your kind comments! Just to clarify, I’m sticking around and will be stamping. You just won’t see many Stampin’ Up! products from me! Also, the bundle has sold! Thank you!
This is the first time I have seen your video. It was an odd one to see for the first time because I do not know you or your work . I just want to say that I admire what you are doing. We must be and do what is good for us. Crafting is fun for me but I could never keep up with it if it was a job and I needed to do all of the work that crafting entails as a job. It’s a lot of work. Good luck. I look forward to seeing you again
I’m so sorry to hear about you leaving SU. I’ve watched your utubes and I enjoyed watching the projects you created. Because you are so crafty I’d hate to see you give up everything. Have you heard of Creative Memories? I love that company. I actually rejoined about a year ago. Before Katrina I was a CM consultant for 13 years and back then you had to order monthly. I lost my customer base so I had to quit. I really missed CM and I rejoined as an Advisor (that’s what you are called now). It’s was a no brainer. You join for $49.99 and you DON’T have to order monthly. You don’t have to sell products if you don’t want. I love scrapbooking photos both regular meaning place photos in an album and I have created a digital photo album. I think that with your talent you could be a good advisor and share CM with your customers that followed you with SU. If you are interested in any info about CM please let me know and I’d be happy to provide any info. I myself don’t need CM as my income. I have been retired now going on eight years. I understand if CM is not for you but here is my website in case you want to see what CM has to offer. We have paper, tools etc like SU and you can create cards but have no stamps like SU. So here is my site if you want to check it out. Https://creative memories.com/user/leslie-morton. I do live in La but there are Advisors all over the place. Hope you check it out. Thanks Leslie
This is the first time I’m seeing you. You popped up on my feed. I’m glad you are doing what you need to do for yourself. That is very important. Funny this popped up because I’ve been searching for the whale tail paper punch. Maybe that’s why. It’s near impossible to find that punch. I even keep checking the thrift stores. If you know anyone let me know. Stay healthy!
Just cuz your leaving SU, doesnt mean you need to stop crafting... take a break & come back & have fun...dont understand why your selling everything... i joined in June to build up my supplies& theirs
Bunches of fun product, ...
interaction with others is healthy.. good for everyone😀 Be safe & look forward to seeing you again soon💕🎉🌈
Just wondering if you have sold everything.
Hi: This is my first time watching you, and I would like to keep following you! You are very genuine. Thanks for your honesty.
O boy I know I sold Tupperware it got to the point every 2 wks I had to budget my regular paycheck to buy products.
I add my voice...My first time, and hope to keep watching you.
Quit apologizing. Time for you to be you and have fun!
I started learning through joining a group that did Stampin' Up classes. That was my introduction to card-making. There was never any pressure for me to join but around 2014 or 15 I learned how much more there was to the stamping and card-making world. So, I branched out and started buying other products. It opened up a WHOLE NEW WORLD of creativity. It was wonderful. I knew I could never keep up with "selling" for a company like SU, and I didn't want to be beholden to them. I started selling my cards on Etsy and then later created my own website. I now do a lot of custom card orders for people. I ALSO have chronic illness/pain, so I get it! You are not alone in your suffering and struggle to want to be creative and know that it helps you but also not wanting it to be something that drags you down when it comes to selling. So, I guess what I am saying is "YOU DO YOU". You do what works for you and make it fun. You can do it! I've never watched your videos before. Your video popped up in my feed and so I watched. But, I feel a kinship, so HUGS to you. Hang in there.
I hope you know you're not alone in this health/anxiety/depression thing, and that watching you create with love and joy is a lifeboat for some people, including me.
Thank you!
Yes I'm chronic. There's no way I could possibly keep up selling.
Sweetie, Life is short.... do what makes you happy. I do it as a hobby, also. That enables me to buy and use whatever I want. I don't like selling either. It is stressful and at my age, 71, I don't need any more stress. Hugs to you. It is nice to hear your reasonings. You did it with class and you did not feel the need to run down the company to justify why you are following your own path. Good for you. May everything work out for you. I will be popping in to watch you create.
GIRL~! I think you are beautiful. Sometimes in life we have to stand still for a few moments...and more often we need to take a step back to get a new footing. Even falling on one's face is still a forward motion. Your health has to come first. Once you get that settled down your beatutiful creative mind can soar. People out here care. Be strong, be safe and trust your instincts. the world doesn't end in a minute from now. Blessings
Laura Raven , what a brilliant saying, “even falling on ones face is a forward motion” that is an inspirational quote that I am going to remember, it is so encouraging. This is the first time I have watched this lady and I really like her, she has an honest face and demeanour. I am a crafter but not a card maker, so don’t know about the products, but I have subbed.
Exactly what @normski Beat said - brilliant quote that I will use going forward. I hope that's okay.
I really like what you had to say, I am someone who dreams of creating pretty things but has no skills or clue as to make it happen, I do not have an eye for putting colors or patterns or anything together and thinking it looks good. I have been trying to be “crafty” for about a year and I am very seldom happy with the outcome, but I keep trying. My family encourages me because they have liked things, such as cards I have made. But I just love watching you and many others create with such beautiful papers, dies, stamps, inks, etc. and it keeps me going. My joy comes from people like you who put your talents out there so people like me can “learn” from them. I will definitely continue watching and be forever learning. Thank you for all you do!
I just happened upon you and this video so I have never watched any videos of yours. I just want to tell you how much I already love you after watching this! You are real and thats what I have been looking for! I look forward to watching and following you! 💕
Thank you so much!
I accidentally hit thumbs down but quickly clicked thumbs up!! OOoopsy!! :-)
I also suffer from depression and anxiety so I do know what you mean! 💕
AMEN Melissa...what a beautiful woman she is. I love her caring heart and the love of the craft...
I appreciate what you’re saying. I started stamping with Stampin Up and it seems over the years they just copy or come up with their own version of ideas that are already out there.
I can completely understand where you are coming from. When I first got into card making, I thought it would be cool to be on a crafter team. After watching hundreds of videos on YT and Instagram.... It became apparent that the requirements would be demanding and take the fun out of being creative. Good for you, to be able to come to a decision that allows you to enjoy your hobby.
I was a hobby demo and dropped out as I wasn't able to afford to make my quota. I had watched many of your videos and enjoyed them. I fully understand why you are not doing it anymore. Praying that your health improves and bless you in what ever you do in the future.
I am an SU demo but only as a hobbyist - I probably don’t know any better as have never used other products. I completely understand why you are pulling out - the constant cost to stay as a demo is hard and now so many catalogues. Good luck to you whatever you do - you only have one life so embrace the future - Carol, Surrey, England
There are TONS of releases. My favorite youtubers tell us to use what we have.
I am sorry that you have had so many health challenges. I truly hope your health becomes easier to manage.
You are a wonderful woman, take care of yourself.
Best of luck! I was a hobby demo but made the decision to leave; i was basically just “collecting” stuff. And still have way too much which is can be overwhelming,
Thank you!
I am an SU demo and while I loved the stuff, and the classes, I’ve realized that I put myself under so much stress by doing these classes every month. Since this lockdown, I’ve been watching a lot of UA-cam videos, and have gotten into other products. I’ve gotten a lot of Arteza stuff, - watch Vianney Luna - she uses all kinds of products and is incredibly talented. So I’m subscribing to your channel hoping to see new and different stuff. PS - you have a beautiful complexion and are very pretty, well- spoken, and that makes you enjoyable to watch. Good luck!
I love Vianney (Vianney Creates) and I watch her every day. She is also very honest and tells it like it is s she reviews products from many, different companies.
I am from Switzerland i asked many time to buy from stamping up but stamping up dont sale in my coutry so as i love scrapbooking i found many other shop..I wish you all the best Misty
I noticed her beautiful complexion also!
Hey Misty!. I understand and respect your decision. I order from "everyone and everywhere" and I don't/never wanted to be "locked" with one Company. I also joined 5 "Adult Coloring Groups", so much fun!!! I sell my stuff, but at my pace. My "Passion for Crafting".. is my "therapy" and will always be Priority!:)
Thanks for sharing!!
@@TheJollyFatElf ...Anytime!!!!:)
So where do you find Adult Coloring groups. I feel the same way about stamping up, being locked down. An an artist I don’t use “one brand” of paint. So I search for stamps I love. Sometimes on Altenew (also expensive) some Micheals, HobbyvLobby, I mean there are choices.
@@MayaRivka...Good morning Lynn!. These Coloring groups are called "Adult, meaning, no one under I think 17 can join. They're not explicit or nothing like that!..,lol..just go Facebook search " Adult Coloring Groups"...its so much fun, helping each other, sharing coloring tips, making friends:)
I understand. I'm a hobby demonstrator. I love the stamps and how everything matches, but I just can't recruit and sell. I really enjoy making cards and sending them to people. I have to admit, SU is almost "cultish" and it gets to me sometimes.
My first full time job was at a computer store, supposed to sell computers. I am not a salesperson either. I like to help people, not pressure them or rob them. If they had a problem and I could tell them how a computer and certain software could help them solve their problem, I might sell a computer. After awhile management noticed and instead of selling so much, we offered a free hour of "training and setup" for every $1,000 they spent. And I went to their homes and unboxed everything, put it where they wanted it, set it up for them. Taught them how to turn it on and off, how to install the software and got them up and going. It was a better fit for my temperament and skill set than trying to make people part with their money.
I ended up going from there to the main headquarters for the franchise and working in technical support on the phone lines. We aren't all cut out to be sales people. It is sad that sales people make more money, but it's really the customer service people that keep a customer coming back to buy again, right?
I've left so many companies and utility services due to bad customer service alone, and I stick with those who are interested in helping customers, regardless if they're a little more expensive. I wish all companies had staff (representatives) like you. You wouldn't believe how thankful we are to have you. So, Thankyou! 👍
I was a demonstrator many years ago when you had to do parties. At first the dollar amount you needed to meet was not that much then they raised it and I quite forever. I have bought a few things from them over the years but I have never liked their shipping cost when other companies do so much better. Don’t ever feel bad for making your decision there is so much life out there to enjoy and it never, never matters what others think. It’s your life not theirs.
Thank you for expressing your thoughts about this. I also recently became a demonstrator but realized every video I watched that showed using the products was 50% selling other products. After a while, I hated that because I already had those products - don't waste my time trying to sell them again! I have felt sick at the amount of money I spent in the first 3 months - I have everything in a drawer that I have never used because I can't figure out how I feel. Basically sick to my stomach when I see that drawer. I understand how you feel. I hope your health stays strong.
I think it is great you were able to get back to what matters to you and what is important and fun for you. I’m a type 1 diabetic and not knowing how you’re going to feel or be able to accomplish each day is such a distraction and impact on every day. I’m learning to set small goals and be happy with the things I can get done. Look forward to watching upcoming videos and seeing that beautiful new desk 💙
Misty, I admire your courage. I myself am struggling with whether or not I should keep going. I have so many other things that interfere with SU. I just got two downline but they are remaining hobby. I can’t get into a groove or routine. I’m spending an incredible amount of money. I love the hobby and sending cards and things I have made to family and friends, but I think I need to take the pressure off and stop worrying about it. I need to stop buying what I “think” I can sell or demo, because I’m spending and not making anything in return. Anyway, I just spilled my heart to you. I look forward to seeing you in the future.
I only ever buy if I can think of 5 different projects and only in my own style because I know if I don’t like it I won’t use it.
I agree with you! I love what I do, but hated the MLM way that my company did things. It was a 3 year struggle to give them the boot, but after 16 years of dealing with the MLM structure, I walked away and have never been happier. I can now focus on what I love and enjoy and share the marvelous products that other companies have. My favorite companies are the ones that have products that compliment each other and can be used multiple ways. Good luck to you
Well done Misty 💪🏼⭐️🎉❤️ You’ll feel so much better for having this weight off your shoulders.
And you probably won’t realise how much weight it was until months down the track.
I was a Creative Memories consultant back in the early 2000’s.
It was incredibly limiting when scrapbooking was really exploding and so much new exciting stuff was coming onto the market - and I was trying to remain loyal to CM.
Like you, I didn’t want to sell...I just wanted to scrap with others and show them great product.
And CM product IS wonderful...it’s just expensive. And to maintain that amount to retain my consultant status was quite stressful.
I just watched a video on Maremi’s Small Art channel about her leaving all the design teams she was on and her reasons. It was the stress and anxiety related to meeting deadlines etc (and so much more obviously) but a wonderful video to watch if you want to have a look at hers too.
You have definitely done the right thing. You have a wonderful heart and I hope you feel so much better for your decision.
Stop worrying about offending everyone, your mental health comes first. 🥰
I’m definitely subscribing as I’ve just found you. I look forward to seeing your journey from here.
Congratulations Misty. 🥰🥳🙏🏼🌸🌈❤️🎉👏🏼
Stay safe precious, we are having a surge of covid here too. It's not as bad as what I'm hearing about Texas, but it could get that way if people don't stay home!
It’s so dang aggravating and my doctor insisting that I have to go into the office makes me livid. I’m doing my best to stay safe and they aren’t helping.
This is my first video of yours that I've watched. I'm glad you decided to do what YOU need to do and not be pressured . I look forward to watching any and all of your technique videos as an inspiration for my own cardmaking using different produces that I have on hand and not feeling like I need to get exactly what the demonstrator is using. I've spent way too much money on items that I think I need that are still lying around waiting to be used. Hang in there and have a blessed day!
I am so with you! I did SU for 5 years and I know I am not a salesperson. I did this as a hobby & for the discount. When the virus happened I wondered what SU would do as a workaround. Like you said, so many people were out of work or needed to watch their budget SU did nothing! There was no information to demonstrators telling us there was an extension or some sort of reprieve to meeting minimums. You are so right. Creating and demonstrating requires selling with SU. I use many products and LOVE Stamps Of Life and the interaction products from Lawnfawn. Good luck love! You will soar with this new venture you are about to partake. 💕
Thank you!
I kept wondering what they were going to do to help us out as well! And you’re right, they did nothing! I have to say, that really hurt!
I wish you peace!
Cass J actually SU said they would extend on a case by case basis. All you have to do is call
Cass J they did offer help - they told us to contact them if we were struggling to meet our quarterly minimums. This was posted in their weekly updates.
I just saw your video and it is 12/23/21. So, wanted to say two things: first, do what you love and love what you do; second, I hope you are back in your happy place! Merry Christmas.
Hi Misty! I'm excited to see your new, re-modeled craft room! I've been an SU demo for almost 16 years and I love it! I'm more than a hobby demo, but not a business demo. When things have been "normal", I have about 6 Stamp Camps per year. I just make cards and my stamping friends (I guess I could call them customers) love to come over here and stamp and we have a lovely time, and some of them buy things! Some don't buy that night, but they might buy another time. And I'm VERY low-pressure, and if a newbie gives me an order full of things that don't make sense, I talk to them about what they want to make, and I help them choose things that will help them make what they want to make and get the most for their crafting dollars. Sadly, the last two Sale-a-brations weren't great for me because last January I had a huge shoulder surgery and was in rehab through June! This. year I had a knee replacement in early February, and if it wasn't for the virus, I would've been ready to have Stamp Camps again by early April. But then there's the virus. I was blessed to have some of my customers still ordering from time to time, and happily, a gal who was actually in my downline for a year or two about 7 years ago contacted me and wanted to sign up again! Then today I got a phone call from another customer who hadn't ordered in several years and she placed a nice order. I told my hubby its was like Old Home Week!! So I still love it. For me, the money I make through SU helps pay for my own purchases. So maybe I'd call myself a break-even demo, except that I buy way more than I make, so I'd LIKE to be a break-even demo. One of my dearest friends is someone I met at Convention in 2008 and we're very close. Another close friend is a downline and we love sharing our creations with each other through text (she moved to another state, unfortunately). My customers are very loyal and one gal (and now her friends) has been coming here to stamp since January of 2005!! But I'm not an online demo and I don't make videos, though hubby is saying that maybe I should have a Zoom session to show them what I'm making and such. So that's kind of my Stampin' Up story. I'll still be watching your stamping videos and I wish you all the best with your health struggles. I'm a lot older than you (Medicare age! ) and I've had health struggles too.
Thank you!
I just happened to come by your video. I'm also a SU demo. and am waffling back and forth. I like there products but also like others. I don't have customers ,I do it for me. Was thinking of doing videos also. My complaint about SU is they keep changing colors and the new ones aren't much different from the old. I can't keep up.I will be following you from now on. I really like your personality!
Don't worry. Things will be better soon. I have to tell you that I loooove your tutorials. I really enjoy them. You are very creative. The most important thing here is to enjoy what you do, so congratulations on your decisions. You did what you had to do. Take care, health and happiness go first. I wish you the BEST in all aspects of your life!!! Hope to see your new and fresh and elfie creative ideas soon. I don't care what products you use. YOU are GREAT!!!!!!!! Have a very merry time during all this new process steps. Take your time, relax and scrap! Hugs from Costa Rica!
Im Happy that i found another "normal" card maker to learn from. Looking forward to watching ur videos
I just ran across you today. I totally get where you're coming from, and I feel your heart. I look forward to seeing more 👍
It is so important to enjoy life and let go of the things that you "dread." You only live once. BTW, I think your hair is so cute!
This is the first I have seen your video. The title caught my eye so I watched the whole thing. I have been a Stampin' UP! demonstrator for less than 2 years but I understand what you are saying completely. There is a very fine line between encouraging upline people and pressure to grow and sell. I am not a good direct sales person. And sometimes I feel like I'm not doing something right. Then I remind myself, I'm doing this as a hobby, not to make a living or achieve stardom. I love making cards and I enjoy teaching others how to make them. So thank you for your words which have encouraged me to be true to myself!
I have subscribed to your channel because I want to follow your progress! Keep taking care of yourself the best you can!
I understand how you feel. I’m not a seller either. I joined to make friends. I’m currently a hobby SU demo and it is getting harder and harder to stay interested. I can’t wait to see your new room and to learn about Patreon.
Look at the 2 stamp clubs at Maymay made it she is awesome and her stamps are awesome. I love everything she sells all of the stamps the Glue the paper packs the tape the tape the does the inks the wreath kits etc. Watch her videos and you will let great inspiration. Hope you find what you need in life. God Bless You!
Good for you. Crafting should be fun and when you feel like it. I wish you the best and look forward to seeing what the future brings for you. (There are so many cool things to try)
Thank you so much!
Bless you for your honesty. You are not alone in your unrest about selling in a multilevel marketing company. I’ve been there, done that. The term ingenuous is quite accurate. I was told to view people as potential customers rather than friends and acquaintances. If you become moderately successful the pressure increases and you’re on a treadmill. I admire your for not putting the blame on SU. it boils down to our own choices and whether we want to make the necessary sacrifices and reshape our consciences to achieve the goals set out for us by the company. Like you, I didn’t have the heart to be an aggressive salesperson. The fact that you had health issues on top of all that pressure broke my heart. I’m so happy you’ve set yourself free by admitting the root of the problem and going public! Sweetie, you’ve endeared yourself to me and a whole lot of people who’ve been down that same road. Thank you for bearing your soul to us.
Good for you, Misty, in going with your heart and doing what feels right for you. Crafting is supposed to be joyful and if it is not, something is wrong. I enjoy your videos and will continue to watch whatever content you post. Love you right back.😍
Thank you so much!
Hi Misty, I just happen to be craft surfing and came across your site. I like you already and will be waiting to see you again. Thank you for being here, and being yourself.
Thank you so much!!
Thank You so much for your honest and caring video. I left Etsy for almost the same reason. One day I was feeling over anxious looking at my supplies for bottle decorating, jewelry making, card making, etc. And I was about sick to my stomach looking at all my "Stuff"! so I talked to my Angels and they subtly told me to destash; quit Etsy, and do what I want to do. I felt SO LIBERATED once I got all my stuff together, priced everything I don't want/need and put it all in my guest room until the summer is over and the pandemic as well, and have a BIG DESTASH GARAGE SALE outside. Leaving Etsy was the best decision for me. What I found by doing this is I'm NOW CREATING and LEARNING new things without the pressure of making something to sell (hopefully) and this was everyday for years. Once the sales were less and less, and the time put into creating, taking the pic, uploading the pic and writing a description, then waiting for a hit, was getting too overwhelming. SO SWEET LADY, you're going to be fine, and being FREE from all the expectations which eventually becomes WORK, you're going to find so much peace that your CREATIONS will be YOURS!!! GOD BLESS YOU. You're beautiful!!!
Hello from Blackpool, Misty , you are not alone !two of the most lovely successful,ladies ,one in Ireland and one in Holland have also come to the same conclusion ,(different company’s) and they are so much happier , and this is absolutely apparent in the lightness of their spirit . Sweetie everyone deserves to be happy
Hi Misty, I’m sorry to see you leave SU but totally understand. I joined 6 years ago and I am a “hobbiest”.
Girl! I could have written the transcript for your reasons for leaving SU! lol I joined in 2016 left in 2018, only to join again in 2019, then let it go again shortly after. The first time I left, it was because I realized I was spending way more than I was making, time and money. But I loved creating and sharing what I made. I went the route of “other” stamp companies, but found it overwhelming to have SO much to choose from! SO I returned to SU! on a whim, because I loved their products and they were familiar to me. The selling aspect always bothered me as well. I felt like I was “begging” people to buy from me, when all I wanted to do was share what I learned with others. I love that you are still creating and sharing without the pressure of selling the product. It certainly is freeing!
Thank you for being so honest, I will be following this is the first time seeing you and you have support it takes a lot to let go sometimes and I'm glad you have made your decision to so. Looking forward to following you in the future.
Hello Misty, this is the first time your video popped up. I appreciate your story and how genuine you are. I was a SU demonstrator about 12 years ago so I understand the minimum orders each month. You don’t need the stress just the joy. Dare 2B Artzy is my family owned stamp company. We now have an affiliate program. We would love to have you join our Artzy Community on Facebook. Sending you hugs and prayers for good health.
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Hi Misty, just want to say I enjoy your video and of course I will continue to follow you and I also, want you to know that you will be missed at SU, as well! I pretty sure, you and we’re both a part of the chics paper ink group. I look forward to seeing all your new goodies, new craft room and all the beautiful things you make with them! I will keeping you in my prayers!
Hugs 🤗 Kim
I'm glad to hear you'll still be around. I love your videos. We all have to do what is best for us. Hugs.
You need to do what is best for you. Can understand the stressful of what you going through with a lot of people getting there items for free. Glad to see you love your work take care just use the items you have and make cards with those items so you shouldn't be stress out.
I am thankful for you and love the content you provide! I will continue to watch and your choice to walk away sounds like the best choice for you! Thank you so much for your honesty and integrity. You are talented and amazing. Never lose your amazing "spark"!!
Good morning! This is my first time watching you and I can so much relate" I was also in a multi level company, your biggest competitor, actually. Lately I have been in a place of not wanting to sell anymore also and try to just enjoy crafting! We all go through phases in our life, where we need to pause, reflect and make decisions that make our soul feel the peace and serenity. My journey started when my daughter died a year ago June 26. I just know now that awareness and gut feelings are to be heard. Pleasing others is good but it needs to start with us. I will look up for you. Thanks for sharing and being so honest!
You have to do you! I’ll stick around 100%! You didn’t let me down at all!!! Your a great up line!! I’m glad that you got me into stampin up!! Your an amazing person and friend!!! ❤️
I appreciate that! Thank you so much :)
First time watching you , I admire your honesty and openness . I have subbed so really hope you continue with whatever products u choose xx
I love your honesty and totally understand about the sales thing. I have subscribed to your channel and look forward to seeing what you will video next. I wish you much success in your future endeavors!
A great video. I love watching several of the stampin up demonstrators and have learned a lot of cool techniques, but I get really annoyed with the ones that you can tell are pushing to sell products. A lot of their stuff is great but the prices are ridiculous and I have to REALLY love something to buy. So many options out there that are similar and more affordable. Your honesty is refreshing. Wish you health and good luck in your new journey.
This the first time I have watched your video, you made me laugh, cry and it made my day. I'm a scrap booker by nature and as therapy. I purchase and use a ton of different products. I will be continuing to watch you.
Thanks for sharing. Only you know what you have to do, so I hope people can respect your decision. Good luck!
Hey girl, stay happy & healthy. I’m sorry they opened too fast in TX. I’m in eastern Pennsylvania and we pretty much did things right here, despite some resistance. Thank you for sharing and keep on creating. Stay positive!
I got the catalog. Nothing spoke to me.
I've heard that from a lot of people.
This is my first video of yours that I'm watching and just subscribed. I hope you're feeling better! And enjoy where our creative juices take you!
I just joined SU for the discount. I have stamps from tons of companies. And am so on your page about selling - so not my bag! I'm in awe of people who can do it and have the personality type to do it, it's just not me. I'd rather create.
Kudos to you for following your passion!!! 🌺
Background: I heard of you because I watch Denise Soden tutorials, reviews, etc, and she mentioned you concerning markers. I started watercolor in January and I love it, thanks to people like Denise. I saw this particular video first. I’m too new to your channel to offer an opinion so I’ll just say I understood what you were saying and agreed. I just finished one of your older videos, when you were selling, and I felt strangely proud, considering I don’t know you...of the decision you made. I love your channel so far but I applaud anyone who has opportunity to lessen the stress levels that are inherent in selling. I look forward very much to your future videos. You are so talented. Way to go!
Could you share which specific videos?!? I had never heard of her before and would love to watch the video!
@@TheJollyFatElf I’m sorry as I watch so many. At the time however I was researching either brush pens or color pencils. You might know her by “In Liquid Color”. She referred to your greater knowledge on the subject and called her your friend 😊. I did noticed you’ve commented on the “Struggling with Ink” video.
@@TheJollyFatElf I could if I searched and searched through my history! Lol. ua-cam.com/video/a_o4cjABQqk/v-deo.html Around 2:18
@@TheJollyFatElf I also meant to say let me know if I made a mistake. I don’t think I did because that’s how I found you 😊
Hi. This is the first time I've watched any of your videos. You've had a really tough time if it and I could see from your face how sad it made you. I've subscribed so I'm now looking forward to you videos and learning from you. Stay safe and hold you head high you're amazing 😘😘
I can't wait to watch your Christmas card videos!! I just love your passion for the holiday! Thank you!!
I can relate to your story. Life is about change. Good luck in your new ventures.
Thank you for sharing ,stay strong , glad you will be still posting ,sometimes when I am in my craft room I can feel overwhelmed ,I took a few weeks break but I feel better now .hugs to you hope your health gets better .
I just happened to 'happen' on this video and watched it out of curiosity and my heart went out to you. Nothing is worth slogging at if it makes you feel ill and stifles your creativity rather than stimulates it, even if it has helped you in the past. I'm nothing to do with Stampin Up, I'm just an occasional buyer of some of their products, usually second-hand via Ebay, as they are too expensive for me to buy new. I know that I certainly would not be able to cope with the stress of the big sell. So I wish you well in whatever you decide to do in the future and I hope you regain your love and passion for crafting. A well-wisher from England. God bless!
I SAW you selling all your stuff on Facebook! Tonight I found your channel for the first time! Planning to follow you from here on out! Totally understand. Good luck! I'm excited to see future videos.
Go where your heart leads you. Looking forward to your future videos. Best of luck and health!!
Thank you!
Beautiful girl.. I have never seen any of your videos.. But I hit my subscribe halfway into listening to you.. I so relate to the way you feel about MLM, selling and the stress.. Especially when it's something you love and this was taking you far from it...
I was in an accident myself I needed to learn to walk without a cane and 2 heart surgeries to save my life.. I so related to you.. You are such a beautiful person... Feel better and do things your way... Best wishes
It sounds like you are in a good place and I’m looking forward to your content as one of your new subscribers. Best!
All the best Misty. I can totally get what you’re saying. I’ve found it all too much for the past 7months which was when I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid arthritis and raynoids. Jan🤗
just listened to 10 minutes here. hang in there honey! you're beautiful and apparently talented, i'm sure you'll shine whatever you do!
I just watched your personal video and I'm impressed with how you presented yourself with what you are and have been through. Love your videos and will be looking forward to your NEW adventures.
You are a special person and I am glad that you have made your decision based on what's best for you. I will try to keep up with you. I joined stampin up to get some things I wanted and feel like I have let "my leader" down by not selling. Been there and done that. My hobby became a chore instead of fun.
So glad I watched your video today! Thanks for sharing!!
I understand. I had to quit Mary Kay Cosmetics many years ago when my health began suffering from stress. I was already working full time, with other activities and a family, and this added activity was too much. So, you need to do what you need to do, when you need to do it. Glad you made the decision that you feel is best for you, and I hope your health will improve.
I’ve never seen one of your videos before and I have to say you were so honest and so caring. Just trying to give your side of why you did what you did. I am a crafter, cake decorating , wreath making, diy’s, tried chalk couture, starting in paper crafting and have bought a few stamps at Michael’s, I am looking forward to watching you do what you love, being happier and taking care of your health! Way to go!!
You are wonderful. Thank you for your honesty and being so genuine. Wishing you the very best wherever life takes you! Hugs.
Roughly a month later and on the other side of the world from you in Melbourne, Australia, we've just gone into hard level 4 lockdown for six weeks thanks to Covid-19. It just keeps onnnn going! 😢
Congratulations on making a decision that is best for you. I am a fairly new stamper and have waffled over the idea of becoming a SU hobby demonstrator. After hearing of your experience, I am really glad to have decided to just buy things I love. So very glad that your destash went well. I look forward to seeing your work with your new supplies. BTW, I am from Texas, too. Please be careful and stay well.
My first time watching I enjoy because u r being honest .I will continue to watch u.
Hi Misty! I enjoy you and your Creations! Stampin Up is great but it's not the end all be all. I'm discovering my love for alcohol markers and watercolor pencils from brands like Faber Castell and Ohuhu and Copic. Can't wait to see what you Create!
I've found some good deals with Arteza. Really like their watercolor pens.
Karen Piermarini me too! 😊. Products are pretty good. 👍
I am loving Copics too. I have some Prismacolor pencils, zig watercolor pens...lots of things I want to play with going forward!
I’m happy to hear that you will continue to craft..I’ve enjoyed and missed watching you...Stampin Up or not..Thanks, Misty...
Thank you
Hi Misty when something doesn't serve you anymore or sucks the life out of you = listen to yourself and turn away. I think you are a genuine, wonderful, kind person and ifyou continue doing Stamping Up! you will loose the real you. I hope you will find you joy and to be able watch you again. kindess regards Lorraine x
Sorry to hear about your health! I totally understand! I have Lupus, RA, Carpal Tunnel, Nurapathy and Fibromyalgia also have issues with my stomach that cause me to get sick at times. I have been with Stampin' Up for a year and I have been stressed out because of not having no customers. I work myself to death and I get nothing! I changed my channel name and everything and I have now gotten to where I feel like no one watches my videos anymore because of what I do. When you don't have any money for the products it's very stressful! I thought about quitting too back before the new catalog came out but I desided to hang in since I was still good. I am always a little late it seems on my orders because we just don't have the money right away. Just got the August - December catalog and I am trying to decide on what to get. So much in both catalogs I want and need but just no funds to get anything! I asked my husband for $100. so I could put in my order. Like you I am not a sales person and I hate feeling like I am begging for money! It's bad enough that I am fighting to get people to just watch my videos now and give them a thumbs up. I am lucky to get one or two on a video and I have way over 1,000 subscribers. Don't know what is going on! I tried to do some live videos and I heard crickets🦗it was so quiet! No one came on! Broke my heart! To be honest I think my subscribers are not interested in Stampin' Up or they are selling it also. I can't even get anyone to leave a comment to let me know what they want to see. Don't know if there getting notifications or what. I even got so sad that almost quit UA-cam last year! But if I did that what would I do.. I would get depressed for sure being home every day in pain not doing anything! UA-cam and Stampin' Up what's been helping keeps me going every day. I think that's why I haven't quit! God bless and stay safe and healthy😇Tammy💜
I hope you are feeling well, and thought your video was very open and forthcoming. Do you !!!
I totally understand, I'm a hobbyist demo and I do private videos in a private group for lessons and this helps me meet my quarterly quotas as I don't have customers. I wish you all the best, I must say I do love stampin up and I sell off all my retired sets each year then I buy all new sets. Craft is my happy place, please stay safe and look after yourself. Ange Australia xoxo
You are awesome and my cup of tea. I am just a SU purchaser but have not been happy with their line in a couple of years and I felt bad because I buy from a good friend. I think we should always chase our joy. Chase it and catch in and live in it if we can. Go chase yours.
Good that you are doing what is best for you. Have subscribed and look forward to seeing what you come up with. Just be happy.
I am not in it for the money. I love sharing my creations for friends and family. I'm loving what makes Me Happy. Do whatever makes YOU happy.
Hello dear Misty. I’m so sorry that you have had to make your decision no longer sell SU. Their products are truly amazing. However, like you said, very expensive. I also suffer from depression and general anxiety disorder. Thank you , for sharing your thoughts. You are truly a blessing to me.
You are the first person I followed when I started in the planning/crafting community. I really do love your craftiness. I really miss your plan with me video’s. Hope you start making them again.
I'm relatively new with Stampin Up. Just had to spend too much money to maintain my status. I love WAY too many stamp companies to commit to just one! Lawn Fawn, Mama Elephant etc. I'm collecting Copic Sketch markers and enjoying the adult coloring world. I'm so tickled to find your channel. Do what you love, and just do you!
Oh. My. Gosh. YES! It is like the beauty community! So glad to find you! New subbie, and I look forward to crafting with you! ❤️
Glad I stumbled upon this video. I think you're wonderful and I totally understand your decision.im also disabled and crafting and art is my outlet. I've subscribed to your channel and I'm excited to grow along side of you. WELCOME TO THE CRAFTING COMMUNITY! Kim Julius
Oh, you're so pretty, your skin is GORGEOUS!
I agree with all of your points. I have a channel and I am new as a UA-camr, but a long time card maker. I like encouraging people to use what they have. I use discontinued items that I love and plug in just to be a part of the community. I am not trying to sell anything. I just want to craft, share and chat with others in the hobby.
All the best from someone who also has serious back problems and trigeminal neuralgia, and the depression that goes with chronic pain... Just found your channel and am so pleased to subscribe!
I had a friend who started to sell SU over 14 yrs ago. I went to her first party, and I was horrified at the prices, so they are likely even higher now. I felt obligated to buy something and I ended up spending $200 for a few things. It was difficult because she would send out emails about new catalogs, and I couldn’t afford to support her business and I felt pressured. I think it was because she had to sell so much to keep going with SU. I think it’s great that you’re doing what’s best for you. This pandemic is going to change how we spent our money and companies like SU are going to have to change!
Thank you so much for your honesty. 🙂 I only joined to receive the discount. But now that my family is really financially struggling, I will no longer be able to continue being a hobby demo. I too am not a salesperson. I do not know how people can make a living through selling these products, especially where I live. First there was an economic collapse. And then Covid devastated our economy. I got too caught up in the "infomercials", where it left me thinking that I needed it all. And left me feeling inadequate because I could not spend hundreds of dollars every month...Also very disappointed that products are not available barely after the release of the catalogue. Perhaps SU should have delayed the release until they could have had a better supply stockpile. Just a thought...Thank you again, and stay safe. 😊❤
Signed up to your channel.. thank you so much for sharing your journey with us all. I look forward to sharing ideas with you 🦋