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  • The TRUTH About Eboni K Williams & the “Queens” Who Defend Her | Boss Chicks Fake It Til You Make It #relationships #personalfinance #feminism
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  • @toddmaek5436
    @toddmaek5436 Рік тому +355

    I didnt see ANYTHING wrong with what Ms Williams said. And even with reasonings why she said it, she was asked a question and she answered it off cuff.

    • @nangaeboko6710
      @nangaeboko6710 Рік тому +186

      There isn't anything wrong with what she said. She should have leaned into it instead of moving the goal posts.

    • @jasonthemagnificent2.0
      @jasonthemagnificent2.0 Рік тому +355

      Pin of Shame 📌

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +122

      Ha. She was unprepared for a question like that. Iyanla treated her like a media rookie. Eboni should have known better with the amount of experience she has in media work. She is entitled to her opinion. She just kept digging even after finding herself in a whole.

    • @secondchance5080
      @secondchance5080 Рік тому +112

      There isn’t anything wrong but just be ready for the backlash . She stood 10 toes down on it so she has to own it and stop trynna save face . Enjoy the pin though

    • @williescott7317
      @williescott7317 Рік тому +2

      SIMP.

  • @lovelyluchiano9493
    @lovelyluchiano9493 Рік тому +480

    My husband is an ATM technician. He works full time and has allowed me to become a stay at home wife/mother. We're not rich but I'm comfortable and thankful for my husband's blue collar job.
    I appreciate all "blue collar" and essential workers. We need you💕

    • @pinkbooklessons
      @pinkbooklessons  Рік тому +36

      You’re all doing wonderful 🙏

    • @thecramptons
      @thecramptons Рік тому +5

      🎉🎉❤

    • @jackjack-bw8ks
      @jackjack-bw8ks Рік тому +13

      Continue to hold him down sister. We really appreciate it

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому +5

      Good for you; your choice. She, on the other hand, doesn't want to just be comfortable, she wants more; her choice. Let's learn to respect both.

    • @dapperfan44
      @dapperfan44 Рік тому +13

      ​@Nophilia Murphy You can accept it, you don't have to respect it.

  • @davidaustin2109
    @davidaustin2109 Рік тому +1228

    Once again, shout out to the “Blue-collar”, “Essential Workers”, “Military”, “Frontline workers”, etc. who protect and keeps the world 🌍 going !!!

    • @johncalhoun916
      @johncalhoun916 Рік тому +17

      Absolutely David, I agree!

    • @RemixxxDe
      @RemixxxDe Рік тому +9

      Agreed!

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 Рік тому +18

      Thank you very much. It’s about time we deserve some appreciation up in ere!‼️‼️‼️

    • @THERESTHAT89
      @THERESTHAT89 Рік тому +3

      That part.

    • @CantBELV74
      @CantBELV74 Рік тому +18

      Thank you.... shout out to the electricians

  • @davidaustin2109
    @davidaustin2109 Рік тому +377

    Eboni admitted to dated every color of the “rainbow 🌈 “ but still haven’t hit “gold”. The problem is her !!!

    • @LordHaveMurcielago
      @LordHaveMurcielago Рік тому +16

      🌈 🦋“Butterfly in the skyyyyyyyyyy. I can fly twice as hiiiiiiiiiggghhhh.” 🎶 😂

    • @Voodooray007
      @Voodooray007 Рік тому +10

      @@LordHaveMurcielago Twice as high to be fall out like Icarus.

    • @keepmoving2023-ku7nb
      @keepmoving2023-ku7nb Рік тому +9

      In five to ten years she will be crying where all the good men at

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому +2

      She didn't need to hit gold via dating, she's made gold from her own hard work. That's what's bothering you men. She finds you all (black, white, etc.) a luxury, never a necessity.

    • @austindahn7037
      @austindahn7037 Рік тому +9

      Thee common denominator is her 💯

  • @kclark777v
    @kclark777v Рік тому +146

    “Having a degree does not make her intelligent. Not having a degree doesn’t make you dumb.” Well said, PBL

  • @angelacox8322
    @angelacox8322 Рік тому +163

    I married a blue collar worker 19 yrs ago (love of my LIFE!) -- this man is not only a wonderful husband and father, he is a strong "take charge" (silent) type. He put us in a dream home several years ago (at a steal!), but can also fix ANYTHING that comes at us. Above all, he loves me in ways that make me a better person -- I wouldn't trade this man for any (ANY) thing in this world.
    Ladies, please don't miss the love of your life chasing after other single women's standards. ❤

    • @kingstrongwinstrong8201
      @kingstrongwinstrong8201 Рік тому +16

      Don't miss the boat waiting on a yacht

    • @toddmaek5436
      @toddmaek5436 Рік тому +5

      Thats bars

    • @CoolOnes5150
      @CoolOnes5150 Рік тому

      Many Bm who’re blue collar workers have degrees due to discrimination in white collar work environments.
      Police , Correctional Officers, Park Rangers Fire Fighters , Paramedics Building Inspectors is all Blue Collar work

    • @escrapplem9454
      @escrapplem9454 Рік тому +2

      💯 Say it loud so they can hear it in the back!

    • @stonerbaby895
      @stonerbaby895 Рік тому +3

      Preach girl same with me hubby has a blue collar job but makes good enough money where I'm comfortable and I can be a housewife he is a hard working loving kind understanding man that has made me a better person I'm so grateful to have him in my life been married for twelve years happiest years of my life! I will always and forever hold him down no matter what❤❤❤

  • @jasonthemagnificent2.0
    @jasonthemagnificent2.0 Рік тому +837

    "Having a degree does not make you intelligent"
    You can't fix stupid by sending it to college

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +21

      Hilarious 😂 😃 😄

    • @jrt2792
      @jrt2792 Рік тому

      You can send a dumbass to college, but you still have a dumbass.

    • @robertcamble3543
      @robertcamble3543 Рік тому +16

      I always tell people this .

    • @keepmoving2023-ku7nb
      @keepmoving2023-ku7nb Рік тому +6

      Exactly 💯 let the church say amen

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому

      Neither can you fix stupid by allowing it to remain stupid. If this woman was not a black man's preference we wouldn't even be having this conservation. These light-skinned preferences are afraid Ms. Williams is going to mess it up for them. They used to be on top until white men gave black men permission to have white women. So now they are in the fight for their lives and in comes light bright successful Ms. Williams talking about she wouldn't date a black bus driver. This is fun to watch!

  • @RaathloveTV
    @RaathloveTV Рік тому +414

    To all the blue collar workers out there. We appreciate what you do. You help keep this country running strong. Thank you👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому +3

      She never said she didn't appreciate what they do, she simply said she wouldn't date a bus driver. Her life, her choice!

    • @rokigang3681
      @rokigang3681 Рік тому +2

      Trucker bro 💪💪

    • @sosouth15
      @sosouth15 Рік тому +2

      *Commercial/Residential HVAC tech entered the chat*

    • @swint564
      @swint564 Рік тому +6

      Bus driver here

    • @rawrostar
      @rawrostar Рік тому

      @@757CitiesReppa why did you have to put bisexual damn u weirdos have problems just cause someone disagrees with u doesn’t make them narcissistic or any of the nonsense that u mentioned grow up

  • @Mr.CalCal
    @Mr.CalCal Рік тому +236

    They can continue to defend Eboni all they want the fact that she said she tried every race of men including “WHITE MEN” that some of these women like to put on a pedestal and it still didn’t work. She’s the problem. I’m sorry but every woman is not going to get a man that’s rich and have his own company if everybody is trying to be a boss whose going to do the other jobs that makes the world keep going? It’s okay to be a bus driver. They make money too. Not millions but they make enough to take care of themselves. Most women will NEVER get a rich man. It’s never going to happen.

    • @kidkid985
      @kidkid985 Рік тому

      Facts, women now days have unrealistic standards

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +19

      You dropped this 🎤

    • @mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940
      @mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 Рік тому +27

      True. Women need to understand that for every true rich or wealthy man there are like 50-100 pretty women. Shid maybe even 500 lol

    • @lameckonyango6347
      @lameckonyango6347 Рік тому +14

      Very true and not all men can b rich just like not all women can b boss babe.

    • @aae7583
      @aae7583 Рік тому +2

      Eboni makes too much money too settle. Her lifestyle just does not fit , with men who make less than $100k. That amount is still very dangerous.

  • @BlissfulMartini
    @BlissfulMartini Рік тому +68

    My fiancé is a truck driver, while he doesn’t currently own the trucks he drives he makes good money and it’s allowed us to travel together and see the country. The pandemic taught us what jobs really matter, whether you own those businesses or not.

    • @ameliadavis1979
      @ameliadavis1979 Рік тому +5

      No one would have anything if we didn't have truck drivers. They are the ones who don't see their families everyday because they are working so hard to bring the rich, average and poor families everything single thing in our homes. Then they go home to their families and enjoy quality time. They work very hard! Nothing at all to be ashamed of!

  • @Azay629
    @Azay629 Рік тому +74

    I said this before and I will say it again. As a 23 year old young lady . I am sooo glad I found your channel. I love how you speak the truth about how this world really is. Your content is clean and you dont curse. Its always a pleasure listening to you.❤

    • @pinkbooklessons
      @pinkbooklessons  Рік тому +7

      I appreciate you! Thanks for watching🙏

    • @namastewellness
      @namastewellness 8 місяців тому +1

      @@pinkbooklessonsI just found your channel too. I appreciate your forthrightness on what you think about all the foolishness people do in America. There are other Black (female) UA-camrs who I’ve unsubscribed from because they are wishywashy and don’t say what is Uber on to those of us who have sense (that’s not always common) and morals.

  • @TheDCGuitar13
    @TheDCGuitar13 Рік тому +450

    “You cannot mold stale bread”. So simple yet so effective. It’s true. Never argue with single mothers and/or old women. Simply show their results to young women and let them decide.

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 Рік тому +24

      I was about to say “you can’t teach old dog new tricks.” 😂

    • @brandonliles
      @brandonliles Рік тому

      Stale bread only feeds birds and rats

    • @thomasgoss9988
      @thomasgoss9988 Рік тому +8

      That was perfectly said

    • @MrBmo82
      @MrBmo82 Рік тому +7

      You can mold stale bread, but it will never be in the good shape you found it.

    • @pastorshandonellis4682
      @pastorshandonellis4682 Рік тому +1

      Yes!Now that's the Truth!

  • @MrJames769
    @MrJames769 Рік тому +105

    When Men makes money 💰 he wants to provide for a family
    When most women make money 💰 they want someone "equally yoked"

    • @keithjackson2035
      @keithjackson2035 Рік тому +11

      Yep

    • @Buckshott_54
      @Buckshott_54 Рік тому +1

      WORD 💯🙌🏽

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому

      If black men were the providers, protectors, and builders they are supposed to be, they would even be in this situation. I know black men run from accountability, but they are to blame for the attitudes of today's independent black women. The minute they get a bag, they are ready to run it to the white community. These women are clearly saying that, You can get a bag, but this independent black woman is not going to help you. Get Becky to marry the bus drivers.

    • @geralds6131
      @geralds6131 Рік тому

      It’s not truly equally yoked when his money is family money and her money is HER money. Male lawyers aren’t looking for another female lawyer….he’s looking for her secretary.

    • @mowilliams8511
      @mowilliams8511 Рік тому

      It's all part of the plan.. They don't get it....

  • @SimplyAdiva
    @SimplyAdiva Рік тому +195

    I was on the path for law school and even got accepted. I changed my mind when I started doing real estate and realized we got paid better than most real estate lawyers.
    My trucker husband pulls in a minimum of $8500 weekly on his trucks after expenses unless down for repairs. I took my real estate profit and got the first one.
    As a company driver, he did 150k annually. I will never understand this education vs. blue-collar workers. All the blue-collar clients I have do well. Plus, they own multiple properties. I have three degrees and didn’t earn my first six figures until I worked for myself. Now I've expanded into IT. Thankfully, I have no student loan debt, thanks to the Army.
    My Jamaican father always told us it's not how much you earn.
    It's how much you keep. He didn't finish school and migrated here and owns his home free and clear with a second grade education.
    My stepson is now going into a plumbing apprenticeship, starting salary 105k after he completes everything. Unless you have true ownership, you're at the mercy of that employer. I don't care how valuable you are. Don't look down on anyone's profession. Worse mistake you can ever make. Some of the people you idolize are busy chasing fool's gold😂😂.

    • @mikeb.3189
      @mikeb.3189 Рік тому +11

      Just had to big you up!!! Loved the comment!!!

    • @SimplyAdiva
      @SimplyAdiva Рік тому +15

      @Sayeeda Harem I went to real estate closings where my commission was 20k+, and the attorney check was $1500. I'm a Broker, so I get my full commission and investor. My college professor was an ADA in NYC. He told me to choose wisely. He regrets going to law school.
      So it worked out, I'm doing so much more, and I get to stay home if I choose.

    • @Brothapocalypse
      @Brothapocalypse Рік тому +14

      Well said 💯 I have several friends with law degrees and never really made money with it

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 Рік тому +23

      When my husband and I met I was managing a business that grossed 1/2 a million a year. My bonus checks were more than his annual salary as a welder. We fell in love despite the difference in the amount of money we each made. We have now been married for 26 years and he is the most amazing husband and father. I became disabled 6 years ago and now he is the sole breadwinner. He takes care of me and does the housework that I am no longer able to do. We invested in real estate years ago so we will be fine when he retires. I would not trade him for anyone. He’s my blue collar hero!

    • @SimplyAdiva
      @SimplyAdiva Рік тому +15

      @Brothapocalypse Yes, trades make great money. You can take that same trade and start a business. I have a daughter with a STEM endorsement focused on aeronautical engineering. We made sure to set up an eBay store for her. She draws a decent income only 15.
      My son has a property I purchased from the tax auction for him. We will deed it over after graduation. He's also practicing coding and has two vending machines at 17 that's his income until he lands a job in tech. I start every day with gratitude, and all my needs are met. That's what's missing ppl don't appreciate where they're at.

  • @thewaywayback7284
    @thewaywayback7284 Рік тому +97

    “When people show you who they are, believe them the first time." ~Maya Angelou🙏🏾

    • @mstlovemusic8215
      @mstlovemusic8215 Рік тому +1

      Right & Lisa Raye admitted that she married for money & said the love would come later!!

  • @malachiy13
    @malachiy13 Рік тому +7

    As a blue collar truck driver, I turn down two marriage proposals due to their high college debt. Both women had debt ranges from $75k-90k.

  • @ianj4389
    @ianj4389 Рік тому +140

    It's not about the money. It's about the title. Women want to be able to go to the sisterhood and say that their boyfriend is a doctor or a lawyer or a business owner. That's more important to them than the actual money itself.

    • @dearbrave4183
      @dearbrave4183 Рік тому +8

      It's both. The money and the title. That's why Eve was created after everything was perfected. Only pickmes love struggle, women love comfort and wealth. I stand with Eboni❤

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Рік тому +33

      ​​@@dearbrave4183 eve was NOT created to live in a lap of luxury. She was created to be. Help mate to Adam and a companion. That means she was created to do whatever he needed her to do. God created everything before both man and woman ( who came from the man's rib). Yall be twisting the Bible to suit your skewed views.
      Yall be trying to refer to the Bible when it's clear you either don't actually read it nor believe in it's primary tenants. God has NEVER placed money, wealth, and status above integrity, morales, and conviction through struggle. Every prophet was deliberately select by God from some of the poorest and most disadvantaged of people who went through severe struggles that are documented in those pages of the Bible.
      Farmers, Shepard, carpenters. The very blue collar type of men Eboni Williams immediately discounts as worthy of her. So men who work these kinds of jobs can be worth of selection by the creator but are unworthy of consideration by a woman who thinks her title or achievements render her superior to both men and God?!

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Рік тому +10

      The shepard became a King. The slave became the prophet who led Jews from captivity from Egypt. A carpenter became the martyr who sacrificed his life for the sins of mankind.
      It's funny how black women can laud themselves for going through struggles and claim its a sign of strength and independence, that God chose his favored and selected to go through severe trials and tribulations, but a lot women and pandering men will mock the average man who has his own struggles to face, regardless of his good character, and mock the women who stand by those very men.

    • @johnlawful2272
      @johnlawful2272 Рік тому +3

      @@sayeedharem4673 of course but it looks like she doesn't qualify for her preference

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Рік тому +3

      ​​@@dearbrave4183 ​ in exchange you are suppose to be submissive and obedient to that man. A help mate to him. Independent and partnership should no longer be in yo vocabulary with him. If we wanna get biblical

  • @brookswashere3400
    @brookswashere3400 Рік тому +224

    You all don’t stress yourselves out. I guarantee if she found what she was looking for, she would still complain . Look past her and see for yourself: it’s never enough for these types of people .

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +28

      She has found what she is looking for. Her problem is that what she's looking for isn't looking for her. 😅😅😅

    • @eugenedantzler4485
      @eugenedantzler4485 Рік тому +15

      Prime example... Steph currys wife....

    • @zeezydoesit7416
      @zeezydoesit7416 Рік тому +21

      Life is already whooping her ass. She had a 7 figure C-Suite white Zaddy and he tossed her behind back to the streets when she was 36. That was the last train leaving for her 😂😂She doesn’t realize it yet but she’s done for.

    • @MJSGamingSanctuary
      @MJSGamingSanctuary Рік тому +6

      @@evos469 More like the issue is what she wants doesn't want her.

    • @brandonliles
      @brandonliles Рік тому +8

      ​@@zeezydoesit7416 she went from White Knight to Goodnight

  • @SoSuave3
    @SoSuave3 Рік тому +126

    Shout out to ALL the Brothers putting it down on all levels! Keep your head up Bros, many of our girls need mental help. Stay focused and make sound, vetted decisions.

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому

      Why would the Brothers have their heads down, I'd have thought Becky would have raised your socioeconomic level by now. Isn't her daddy helping you advance in society since he is The Man and you're his precious daughter's choice. Doesn't he want his little girl to live well. The Brothers should all be working corporate jobs, living in upscale white communities, driving F150's, blasting country music. Oh that's right, you need the Eboni Williams' of the world to help you get that bag then white daddy might accept you into the family. I can see why you're so angry with her and black women like her because they are saying, it ain't going to happen! Unfortunately for you, Becky is going to have to get her little fit and friendly a** out there and help advance you.

  • @lauriepassione753
    @lauriepassione753 11 місяців тому +12

    Married to a retired truck driver for 42 years. He drove truck and I raised our kids. We own our home, but we didn’t do fancy vacations or drive brand new cars. What we did do was put a strong work ethic onto our kids and they are both doing really well as adults

  • @kackie62
    @kackie62 Рік тому +26

    Also, remember how you want to be treated. My late husband worked in a steel mill. I'm proud of him he took care of me and our children. And in death, he continues to take care of us. He treated me like a queen.

    • @heathercurtin1093
      @heathercurtin1093 Рік тому

      I dates millionaires briefly yuk Love me a blue collar man. Highly intelligent manly men ❤❤❤

  • @m.x.refrigxolani8365
    @m.x.refrigxolani8365 Рік тому +685

    "As a black woman, as a black woman, as a black woman". Give me a break!!!!!!

    • @roneshajoy
      @roneshajoy Рік тому +133

      The most overrated trend phrase ever!!!!!

    • @bJT42
      @bJT42 Рік тому +30

      Facts

    • @ITech2005
      @ITech2005 Рік тому +76

      "As someone that breathes for a living I fail to see the relevance here" 😂

    • @jamescarter5041
      @jamescarter5041 Рік тому +55

      As a black man, I agree with you.😂

    • @AT-ts1se
      @AT-ts1se Рік тому +17

      Right 😂🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @ramolitaflores9661
    @ramolitaflores9661 Рік тому +192

    Then, when those strong black women lose their homes, they'll blame the banks for being predators to the black community. Zero accountability at EVERY LEVEL. My husband pushed our son to learn welding at the community college while finishing school. He literally is graduating H.S in 2 wks with a H.S diploma, A.A degree & a welding certification. He has been using that certification for a year. Just taught him to file his taxes, and the boy made 25k doing welding jobs in our small town , he's 18yrs old!

    • @pinkbooklessons
      @pinkbooklessons  Рік тому +37

      This is amazing what your husband did with your son. You both are setting him up for a great future. This is real parenting! 🙏

    • @mbthegreat7
      @mbthegreat7 Рік тому +9

      Y’all did an amazing job by getting him set for life and in return, he will take care of y’all down the line!!!

    • @MichaelBrown-ti1un
      @MichaelBrown-ti1un Рік тому +6

      Excellent. Salute! I really enjoyed reading how you set up your son's future.

    • @shinre
      @shinre Рік тому +11

      $25k at 18 years old living at home. That's good money.

    • @johnq4520
      @johnq4520 Рік тому +3

      Awesome

  • @TheDCGuitar13
    @TheDCGuitar13 Рік тому +199

    It gets really annoying debating with disingenuous people. They know men aren’t telling women to not have standards. They know. They just keep pretending men are saying one thing when it’s another. If you wanna be alone, do what Williams and whoever defends her do. If you don’t wanna be alone, just don’t be an asshole… it’s not that damn hard… really…

    • @andrewjackson2914
      @andrewjackson2914 Рік тому +8

      I have been seeing your comments around for awhile and you speak unfiltered truth, I will be surprised if you don't float when you attempt to walk.

    • @BLee09
      @BLee09 Рік тому +14

      That's the most frustrating part and then speaking out both sides of their mouth so that they can always have a counter for anything against what they said.

    • @dillon2829
      @dillon2829 Рік тому +8

      @@BLee09 those are the people you just have to ghost and watch them go crazy as they try to find someone else’s mind to play with, they feed off manipulation and confusion.

    • @numbers5796
      @numbers5796 Рік тому +1

      ​@@BLee09 it's demonic

    • @TheDCGuitar13
      @TheDCGuitar13 Рік тому +1

      @@dillon2829 they’ll write 6 more comments when they realize they’re being ignored🤣🤣

  • @GETBIG4WARD
    @GETBIG4WARD Рік тому +59

    When she said “these new modern women work for the devil” I almost spit blood 😂😂😂

  • @user-yd6wv8wd8h
    @user-yd6wv8wd8h Рік тому +31

    I graduated from college with a degree in business management with a ton of debt and struggling to find jobs. Meanwhile my boys who went to the work at the paper mill were buying houses and driving nice cars. So I went blue collar after sleeping in my car and passing out resumes for months.

    • @waltlafi6913
      @waltlafi6913 Рік тому +6

      It just depends what your degree is in. Some degrees are worthless. I wanted to be a music major. My father said he would not pay for it. I majored in STEM CS do very well after second year in the workforce I made over 100K .

  • @TyroneDewayne
    @TyroneDewayne Рік тому +117

    These women are broken beyond repair.

    • @keepmoving2023-ku7nb
      @keepmoving2023-ku7nb Рік тому +9

      Unfortunately fellas it's only going to get worse with majority of these women focus on yourself and get money leave these women for the streets 💯

    • @TyroneDewayne
      @TyroneDewayne Рік тому +2

      @@keepmoving2023-ku7nb sad but true.

    • @MyMarketingGuy101
      @MyMarketingGuy101 Рік тому

      Yep, I agree. Straight insurance write off. GEICO does not want to deal with these.

  • @MirandaSinistra
    @MirandaSinistra Рік тому +49

    It wasn't just her having a preference, it was the utter contempt that underlied her response.
    She clearly sees blue collar men as beneath her.

  • @robchurch881
    @robchurch881 Рік тому +40

    I will say this. I worked as a mechanic all my adult life. I broke six figures at the age of 28 and im 55 now. Since first breaking six figures, i maintained making between 120k to 180k aberage per year. A couple of years i went up to the mid 200k range. That is until six years ago when i bought an auto repair shop and now make 300k a year. I did get a degree in computer science in my 40's. I was also single and dating all through my 40's. During that time, i met a lot of women who looked down on me simply because i was a mechanic. As we went our separate ways, i said, oh BTW, i make about 200k a year. Many of them wanted to give us another chance when learning that. I just laughed and said no thanks.
    It took me ten years but i met a woman who honestly thought i was barely getting by. Why did she think that? Because thats exactly what i wanted her to think. She still wanted me, appreciated me, even offered to get a second job so we could have a good life together. Even with this, she was willing to work and take care of me. It is the most amazing thing i have ever experienced and we have been together for three years now. She doesnt work anymore but has an income from selling her paintings. Over the last three years we have been on so many interesting trips and go on weekend getaways almost every weekend. She is just an amazing woman.

    • @sissarow
      @sissarow Рік тому +1

      I love your story. I have a 40 year old son who just started working for sanitation. He's currently divorced with three teen age children and he's finding it hard to date as most black women turn their nose down at blue collar workers. In my opinion he's a great catch but unfortunately the Eboni K Williams give the blue collar worker a bad rap.

  • @leshawnspruiell8196
    @leshawnspruiell8196 Рік тому +14

    My father worked for GM for about 35 years, while mom took care of home and raised us. They are sitting comfortably since he's retired. My husband was an electrician in the US Navy for 20 years. Once retiring from the navy he worked as an electrician on a civilian ship until he was forced to retire due to him having a heart attack. Thankfully he's doing well healthwise. I have to say we're living very good! One of my brothers is a fire fighter and another works for the post office as a rural mail carrier. There's a song by the Stylistics called "People Make the World Go Round." We all need each other!

  • @mirabellachangwa9123
    @mirabellachangwa9123 Рік тому +16

    My husband is a bus driver, and he is the most hardworking man I know. I know our family is secure. Must of this women are asking for too much when they know they can even have it.

  • @Aaron-gm5tr
    @Aaron-gm5tr Рік тому +73

    The truth is they are still single and no one is buying their bs grift. Wish they would just go away and stop adding stupidity to the conversation?

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому

      So what if she is single. There is nothing wrong with being single; as a matter of fact it is peaceful. Not everyone wants a man or woman lying next to them every night or someone using or moving their things without asking, or having to wash more dishes and clothes than they use or wear, or having someone spending more money than they earn, or arguing over silly sh*t, or having to change diapers or wipe noses, or fight over homework and dating. Being single has many wonderful benefits. Marriage on the other hand can have if the person is worthy and right (since the divorce rate is over 50% everyone has less than half a chance of finding Mr. or Mrs. Right.). Black men need to stop trying to sell the hell hole of marriage to women who are doing very well without it. Go marry fit and friendly Becky and turn her into a raging bit*h!

    • @Aaron-gm5tr
      @Aaron-gm5tr Рік тому +2

      @@nophiliamurphy8749 tldr I'm not reading your novel

    • @siyabongabhongoza939
      @siyabongabhongoza939 Рік тому

      @@Aaron-gm5tr lol

  • @ericheart1198
    @ericheart1198 Рік тому +61

    What Eboni is failing to realize is that she's the "bus driver" to the men she wants. At this point, most avg earning men don't want women like williams.

  • @pharriscollier1506
    @pharriscollier1506 Рік тому +41

    Bus divers, construction workers electricians etc these type men not only have morals, integrity principals but they raise families that stays together 💯👍🫤

    • @therealistone2003
      @therealistone2003 Рік тому +4

      That's fact and many of us make six figures or close to it....

    • @Rachel_Robinson
      @Rachel_Robinson Рік тому +2

      You’re absolutely right!

    • @godisgoodtv36
      @godisgoodtv36 Рік тому +1

      Mine is a school custodian and I’m happy with full of joy because is a man with big H and maintain our house as it supposed to be. All men out there keep up your heads and women like me we are proud and respect you for all you’re doing for us

    • @47shadows76
      @47shadows76 Рік тому +2

      Um... so are lawyers, doctors, businessmen...
      The point Eboni missed is the character of the man, not his profession.
      You all are also too focused on the financial aspect when character is the real issue. There are plenty of blue-collar abusers as well that money settle for because he got money.

    • @pharriscollier1506
      @pharriscollier1506 Рік тому +1

      We all know the title of a mans job plays a mayor role, if he would have ask her would she date a lawyer or a Doctor, she would’ve said, but of course, cuz she would assume they got or maken $ & that’s a myth also do ur research ☺️✌️

  • @Kingstyles05
    @Kingstyles05 Рік тому +7

    Ayana made a good point saying she can build with a bus driver. Building together are what makes relationships last. Selfishness is what tears them apart.

  • @Steviesstoriess
    @Steviesstoriess Рік тому +18

    Ms narrator is on point with her analogy of this situation 👍🏾 Very well said sista, we need more of these teachings to our community of women on a daily basis.

    • @sissarow
      @sissarow Рік тому

      And there will be a lot of single unmarried women in the community with your type of attitude that judges men based on their jobs and income. It's not always about how much money you make

  • @RemixxxDe
    @RemixxxDe Рік тому +38

    I think Eboni missed a major point....these bus driver owners that she talked about are either already married or if they're single aren't checking for her. I think it's weird how some black women look down on blue collared men like myself. I retired from the military at 37 after 20 years. I don't want or need to be a business owner. All I want is to spend time with my daughter, cause to me that's generational wealth....when my time has come and gone, I want my daughter to have those memories of me and her doing things together not the times of me missing her important life events or missing her younger years. Build better families first and the generational wealth will follow.

  • @lolivingston6827
    @lolivingston6827 Рік тому +20

    Never let em Shame ya Blue collar Brothas! We're the glue... Not the liberal arts major w/ 150k in student loans...
    I made the most money ever during the pandemic. And im thriving now. 0 debt. 0 stress. Job security. Stay strong fellas. And stop arguing with Sistas that despise your existence... Focus ONLY on supporting the Pink Book Lesson-esqe type sistas 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Jah Bless

  • @spookdust
    @spookdust Рік тому +57

    Thank you greatly. As a black man that has followed you for some time. You get it. From age 13 we have to be men. Without guidance or guidelines yet we are making strides regardless of how small.

    • @dapperfan44
      @dapperfan44 Рік тому +5

      Hopefully my generation (33 y/o millenials) can reverse the trend of black fatherlessness-I had my dad.

    • @spookdust
      @spookdust Рік тому +5

      @dapperfan44 you can and will. You about my Man age. And we talk support and critique. But it's done with that tough Love...

  • @CoolAssMom
    @CoolAssMom Рік тому +4

    "You really have to be out of order if I agree with Vivica Fox!"

  • @b.a.badboy7630
    @b.a.badboy7630 Рік тому +4

    I'm a blue collar worker, now. As someone who ran away from the white collar/corporate life lemme tell you... ain't no money in them cubicles. For the hours they got you working and the demands they put on you, you are not getting paid enough by a mile. That corporate lifestyle died a little after Y2K. So, unless you're in tech, I know for certain you're struggling with anxiety, depression, and stomach issues 😂😂😂 I was there too, don't be ashamed!!!

  • @Rell40
    @Rell40 Рік тому +111

    I think the Bus driver question hit Eboni hard because her mother was a Bus driver and she grew up struggling. That's why her demeanor and posture changed

    • @lolivingston6827
      @lolivingston6827 Рік тому +25

      I agree!.. Deeper than the bus🤌🏾 Interesting take boss

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +23

      Don't think it wasn't a weapon Iyanla had in her go kit. She did her research and knew all of the topics she could segue into challenge Eboni. Eboni came to the conversation unprepared. That was very unbecoming of a so called rich lawyer.

    • @sosopepper
      @sosopepper Рік тому

      ???

    • @PhoenixRising82672
      @PhoenixRising82672 Рік тому +8

      Craig from The Corey Holcomb show said this was really directed at her mother

    • @Rell40
      @Rell40 Рік тому +3

      @@PhoenixRising82672 definitely possible. I just heard their take on it . I think that definitely can be true

  • @everyonecanachieve
    @everyonecanachieve Рік тому +50

    My brother just got married and his wife said the exact thing. His money is her money and her money is her money. She is an animal doctor with a PHD and he is a mechanical engineer. So you’re right. It doesn’t matter how much money she makes as a vet, he’s not going to see that.

    • @pinkbooklessons
      @pinkbooklessons  Рік тому +30

      Unfortunately, that’s not a good sign. Sounds like he married a strong feminist. At some point she will probably end up your “ex” in-law. It’s just sad, their mindset. Blessings to you and your brother 🙏

    • @dillon2829
      @dillon2829 Рік тому +6

      Sounds crazy, but I’ve learned to stay away from people with PHDs, nasty human beings. I felt the weird narcissistic energy from professors when I was in college, learned it more as I grew older.

    • @BigSleeveLess
      @BigSleeveLess Рік тому +11

      Damn that crazy I feel sorry for your brother 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @carlitojohnson300
      @carlitojohnson300 Рік тому

      Men should not get married. Most women are golddiggers

    • @bennyvolleny186
      @bennyvolleny186 Рік тому +4

      Damn! That wasn't a smart move at all. He's either a fool or just all the way in love! I guess if he's happy that's all that matters.

  • @goldheart47
    @goldheart47 Рік тому +35

    Pink you gave the assessment on this woman, nothing but truth 👏🏽

  • @dman221
    @dman221 Рік тому +3

    All I am going to say is I was 36 years old when I met my wife she was 26 years old. I have a High School diploma and she had a Bachelor. She waited until her job offered to pay for her Masters. I had excellent credit and she had awful credit. I was renting an apartment and she was renting a house. We got married and I brought her a house. Fast forward today she is making well over 6 figures and and I never made over $40,000 a year. Through real estate investments and my VA Loan at the time. We were able to pay off our mortgage on our dream home and own several other properties. I am about to retire at the end of the year. Our net worth is probably more than Ms. Eboni. Ms. Eboni it’s been 22 years together. My wife thanks me for being in her life. Because I lead her away from countless of financial mistakes along the way. Blue Collar, Working Class, Essential Workers and Military. While we work towards our goal. Don’t be surprised to see Eboni on the way down. 😊😊 My wife and worked together and figured out each other’s strengths and weaknesses.

  • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
    @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 Рік тому +4

    You are so right. I am an attorney and while I mainly know other attorneys who are in the 150-200k range, that often comes with school debt that makes a diesel mechanic making 115k with no debt better off financially. There are multiple ways to skin a cat.

  • @nettienewsom9506
    @nettienewsom9506 Рік тому +105

    I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone I agree with Vivica Fox

    • @Uriahjr01
      @Uriahjr01 Рік тому +18

      I know right..... I think it's the sign that we're in the end of times 😅

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +2

      Same here!

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Рік тому +2

      Freaking facts. I can't stand these cackling hens.

    • @jaydub8596
      @jaydub8596 Рік тому +1

      ​@Water Sniper the queen is your woman who sticks by you while bringing value to your life. Stop calling random bw queen just because she's black and speak words of honey. Stop it bm.

    • @LifeIsNotorious
      @LifeIsNotorious Рік тому +1

      At least she finally came to some sense.

  • @LT-wt8jn
    @LT-wt8jn Рік тому +10

    My sister, God rest her soul, had a master's degree, and was in upper mgmt on the job she had.
    Her husband was an average man by today's females standards. Beneath them if you will. I asked her once how it worked in her marriage with her making close to twice his salary. Her answer, I respect him as the man in our home, and I never bring up money with him. They shared expenses, and whenever they traveled abroad, they planned and saved for it. They were married for 45 year's. I'm sure that she could have left, and leveled up as they say now, but they were happy, and had a good life together.

  • @TenplusSounds
    @TenplusSounds Рік тому +34

    Bus drivers will be safer without sis😂😂😂 please and thank you 😂

  • @swhitton4984
    @swhitton4984 Рік тому +8

    Pink book you totally drop the mic on the segment 💯 percent facts!!. I literally sat up in my bed and turn the TV up so I can hear word-for-word what you were saying. Thank you for being a supporter of the culture and for men . I support you by sharing your videos with every woman I know. Whether they like it or not LOL 😂. And your videos start a great conversation at my workplace. Keep doing the awesome work and I'll keep smashing that like button sharing and asking people to subscribe.

  • @no1beda
    @no1beda Рік тому +8

    You are so researched and accurate with your details. I’m going to continue to push your content to anyone with a pulse! Keep doing EXACTLY what you’ve been doing.

    • @pinkbooklessons
      @pinkbooklessons  Рік тому +2

      I appreciate your kind words and support! Thank you! 🙏

  • @williescott7317
    @williescott7317 Рік тому +34

    Rich lawyer she's not even practicing law. She would have said the same thing if she was a school teacher. She's just a gold digger period with no humility.

    • @loristone9242
      @loristone9242 Рік тому +5

      And she speaks like she is announcing a Tornado Warning no matter what is coming out of her mouth.

    • @williescott7317
      @williescott7317 Рік тому +1

      Lori Stone ABSOLUTELY lol 😂

    • @johnq4520
      @johnq4520 Рік тому +2

      ​@@loristone9242 Hahaha but women sadly enough can care less about delivery and more about the message. Do women just LIKE being miserable and wrong

    • @loristone9242
      @loristone9242 Рік тому +2

      @@johnq4520 I hope it's not all women! I know a lot of women who are happy in general and do not have these masculine characteristics. I think we are a dying breed, but Ms. Pink Book Lessons is on the case!! We need to spread the word.

    • @ladellmimms
      @ladellmimms Рік тому +1

      She’s not going to do anything but divorce that rich man and take half she’s not going to be cooperative

  • @DizzyDDaRealist
    @DizzyDDaRealist Рік тому +23

    Every woman on that panel are perfect examples of what men avoid... Superficial Post Wall Know It Alls.

  • @analyticalchick3064
    @analyticalchick3064 Рік тому +10

    White woman here. I'm married to a hazmat trucker. Combined we made 60k last year. It should be more this year, mostly because I've been hustling. We don't have kids. We're pretty happy with each other, but I know when I was marrying him last summer, there were non-white women that assumed he made really good money. This was just on the note that I was getting married. They assumed women want very wealthy men only.

    • @johnq4520
      @johnq4520 Рік тому

      Most women don't know what they really want and that's the problem

  • @MrBmo82
    @MrBmo82 Рік тому +5

    I really felt this…this right here?!?! The deepest, realest, wholesome, truest….best UA-cam video in 2023!

    • @pinkbooklessons
      @pinkbooklessons  Рік тому +2

      I appreciate your kind words 🙏Thanks for watching!

  • @CHARZANNA82
    @CHARZANNA82 Рік тому +2

    I agree cause my truck driving husband is taking me to the UK at the end of this month! We don't need degrees over here 😂🤣

  • @tonycampbell2020
    @tonycampbell2020 Рік тому +26

    My ex girlfriend is a doctor (ob gyn) but she’s $250,000 in the hole with student loans. She told me her monthly payment is $1,800.00. Doctor or not, that’s alot of jack.

    • @michaeljohnson-ym8zp
      @michaeljohnson-ym8zp Рік тому

      So black people shouldn’t become doctors? Do you want all your doctors to be white asian and Indian?

  • @timscottie1166
    @timscottie1166 Рік тому +21

    I bust out laughing when she said "wait did I agree with her "😂

  • @philplouis84
    @philplouis84 Рік тому +25

    DJ Envy went after her. I was shocked. He be clowning sometimes but props to him. Holy crap on Ms. Fox too... Yeah you messed up bad when these people are checking you 😂😂😂😂

  • @hedeep3195
    @hedeep3195 Рік тому +8

    I'm a welder,,, and I thank you for what you are saying,,,

  • @kooljerk
    @kooljerk Рік тому +4

    Lisa Raye incident...I remember around 2009 we were at Fox Sports grill in Atlantic Station. We saw Lisa Raye at a table of mean masculine looking women but my buddy wanted to meet her. I knew he was gonna get fronted on viciously. I warned him, so we walked over to that table. I stayed back just enough to hear Lisa Raye say "don't you see I'm eating what you want..." The women at the table were looking mean as hell. I walked back to the bar and waited on him, she was still going off. When he came back to the bar I said bruh I told you she was gonna show out. True story.

  • @nysaxman
    @nysaxman Рік тому +13

    Actually Nick Ashford slept on a bench in Bryant Park in NYC, not Central Park. There's a bench in the park with a brass plaque that reads "Nick Ashford slept here". He slept on that bench when he arrived in NYC in the early 1960s with $57.
    In 1997 Nick & Valerie auctioned off the bench to raise funds for Bryant Park's renovation. But the bench with the inscribed plaque still sits in Bryant Park.

  • @zanieyoung2201
    @zanieyoung2201 Рік тому +29

    I'm glad you included Ashford and Simpson. These young women just don't understand what is their role. Not to mention where they came from, or simply choose to forget. Even when I was growing up, I knew that in order to get out of the ghetto, I had to start from the bottom, learn important skills that will last a lifetime, and live within my means. Having had white- and blue-collar jobs in the past, I could not only survive the struggle, but thrive into a comfortable retirement just with hard work alone... not expensive college degrees that may not lead to a career, nevermind the fact I had a GI bill that could've paid most of my college expenses, which I never used. That's fine by me, because women like her aren't worth my attention, anyway!

    • @nophiliamurphy8749
      @nophiliamurphy8749 Рік тому

      Trust, women like her wouldn't give you any of their attention or want any of yours. Not because you not a good guy, but because you do not meet their standards. What, besides growing up in a male worshipping culture, would make you even imagine that a woman like her would want to be with you. The fact that you didn't use your GI bill to go to college and get a degree says much more than you just didn't want a degree; and you don't get it. This is why guys like you are so unhappy in your dating life. Your standards are much higher than your drive to level up. You all want a Rihanna, a Beyonce, a Eboni Williams and don't have anywhere near the resources to provide, protect, or build a life for her. Meanwhile you overlook or misuse the women within your own socioeconomic group, because you think because you make a hundred dollars more a month than she does, you're too good for her. You're so full of yourselves, you really think much too highly of yourselves. You're butt hurt because this is a preference saying that she does not want you; the great black man that every woman wants. Please, for your own sakes, get over yourselves, because being a black man lying in a hospital bed at 40, 50, or 60 with no one to advocate for you is a death sentence.

    • @The_Old_Soul_Artist
      @The_Old_Soul_Artist Рік тому +2

      LisaRaye may have said all that, but she's just as ignorant as Eboni. Vivica too....

  • @GingerSpiritSmurf
    @GingerSpiritSmurf Рік тому +2

    I am married, and my husband is in the military. He is stable, I don’t have to work, and we are stationed overseas (so now I get to travel the world). I get to take care of my babies, and we are in our early and mid twenties. I never wanted a “rich lifestyle”, I wanted the stability that my parents never gave me. I wanted my children to have a loving mom and dad. I have my degrees and I can work, and I perhaps will in the future when my babies get older, but as of now I get to enjoy the family we made. Eventually the job my husband does will translate VERY well in the civilian world as well, so really “financial gain” is for the long run, but family gain is for now and forever :)

  • @smoochy2919
    @smoochy2919 Рік тому +1

    My cousin graduated from Harvard Law school. She was recruited by a law firm in Manhattan, NY. She made close to $500,000/year. But, she had no life. She had to work constantly. She eventually took a job an assistant district attorney, with set hours, and half the salary. But, she’s happier doing that. She’s far from rich, and her husband is a doctor. They live comfortably. But, they wouldn’t consider themselves rich.

  • @Arguewityamama
    @Arguewityamama Рік тому +89

    Claudia’s ignorant to literally everything (politics, gender norms, marriage, you name it) so many things she says on that show are questionable, but don’t let anyone go back and pull those clips of her being the literal definition of a colorist, talking about Tiny’s features and her being a “waste of light skin” Claudia is one of the most fake personalities with a platform, doing anything she can to deflect from her past.

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +9

      Yep. She missed the "bus" on this topic.

    • @aae7583
      @aae7583 Рік тому +3

      Claudia being a colorist has NOTHING to do with what Eboni said. Moreover, both Eboni and Claudia are preferences in the Black community. so if you are going to bring up colorism, you might as well bring up that Eboni is an AKA and they have a strong colorist history too. HOWEVER, Eboni and Claudia are not wrong when it comes to income and lifestyle preferences for their mates.

    • @thecramptons
      @thecramptons Рік тому

      Claudia is horrible

    • @LifeIsNotorious
      @LifeIsNotorious Рік тому +16

      Claudia’s love life sucked anyway. She’s an OG groupie and how many fiancé’s she had? Claudia is jealous because Tiny married to type of man she wanted. Funny thing is she had her nerve to shade Tiny but her last boyfriend didn’t even find her attractive. Claudia admitted that on tv with him there. If anyone’s a waste it’s her ass.

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 Рік тому +3

      The BROAD thinks that "SHE'S A KNOW IT ALL!!"

  • @SL-fx9bp
    @SL-fx9bp Рік тому +23

    You’re absolutely right,I’ve been making 50,000 and (or) more driving trucks for 25 years. And I don’t have school loans to pay back. Peace,Pink you’re the BOMB!! Continue to be great!!!

    • @SL-fx9bp
      @SL-fx9bp Рік тому +2

      @@Yougotthis1212 And how is that average? That’s rhetorical. Y’all need to stay off of social media. Got you thinking that making 50k or more a year for 25 years is average. No that’s extraordinary.

  • @steviemak10
    @steviemak10 Рік тому +11

    I can’t believe what Vivica actually said! I’m extremely shocked!🤣‼️

  • @sweetandsweeter1975
    @sweetandsweeter1975 7 місяців тому +1

    My husband is an industrial electrician. Thank you to him and all the men who make sure our infrastructure is intact and viable. His blue collar money and work ethic has been foundational to our family from day one. He’s allowed me to be a SAHM, then put me through nursing school when our baby child started school. Men like him make the world go around and deserve to be recognized for it.

  • @smallbusinessdreams
    @smallbusinessdreams Рік тому +1

    This is your best video yet. Thank you pink book lessons. Blue collar work can make generational wealth.

  • @loristone9242
    @loristone9242 Рік тому +21

    Headache part 3. The manliness is overwhelming. Stealing shoes and running from the repo man, yet capping on the service workers. The backbone of the community. And Claudia singing back up for her. Such a shame. You lay out all the counterpoints so clearly. Would love to see you on a panel like this in real time. Brilliant.

  • @rlazz
    @rlazz Рік тому +19

    Really, Vivica? I had to rewind. The important thing is that Eboni was true to herself, and men also are true to themselves for not even considering her as girlfriend or wife.

  • @Nicole-yj5cu
    @Nicole-yj5cu Рік тому +15

    Eboni just secured herself a spot on Fox Soul.

  • @sidellesydney2192
    @sidellesydney2192 Рік тому +3

    I could understand if the lady said it and was living it. But to be 40 & childless is proof that chasing pride, status, luxury will leave you lonely. I rather be working class or middle class with a family.

  • @LBrownoffical
    @LBrownoffical Рік тому +1

    I never knew the legacy of Ashford and Simpson. Beautiful. Thank you sis

  • @michaelharris8405
    @michaelharris8405 Рік тому +5

    I studied economics and what these women are saying makes no sense. Roughly 8 percent of men in America make over $100,000 a year. If we follow their logic that every man should make$100,000 a year in America, that would cause hyper inflation and the value of the Dollar would be worthless. Hence why only a small percentage of people in America are able to obtain $100,000 a year status.
    Secondly, they are preaching this idea that black women should bring their 6 figure income to the marriage as a prerequisite to marriage. Again, this makes no logical sense. There has never been a time in history where more than 8-10 percent of a population or gender of human beings has experienced high economic status. There is no such thing as a village of kings and queens. Society could simply not function if the majority of people were economically wealthy because there would not be a population of service people to perform the daily labor like building, policing, hunting, gathering, farming, inventing,
    Repairing, and education by that keeps the civilization operating. The women are highly miseducated on economics and how markets operate.they are advocating a utopian society where everyone is economically wealthy. Then who would perform the essential labor 🤔

  • @TClint850
    @TClint850 Рік тому +15

    I knew Claudia Jordan would step up like Michael Jordan in the clutch. I knew she'd agree with Eboni

  • @TimReaper81
    @TimReaper81 Рік тому +18

    I hope the perfect man for Eboni, literally the love of her life, is out there driving a bus right now… And she’s too busy turning her nose up to him to ever meet him.
    Enjoy your loneliness, Eboni. You REALLY deserve it.

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Рік тому +1

      You are probably correct. God has a sense of humor. I think he uses us to correct us.

  • @intelligentthinker8085
    @intelligentthinker8085 Рік тому +1

    APTTMH for you PBL, I share your lessons with my daughters.

  • @anthea875
    @anthea875 Рік тому +1

    Thank you kindly for the blast from the past. I grew up listening to those songs, but I didn't know who sang them 🌻💙💜🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @captainty21
    @captainty21 Рік тому +23

    That’s exactly how I felt when she was tryna defend herself on her show & on the breakfast club. She keeps tryna capture people’s emotions & stroke their pride so they don’t notice the slights that’s she’s making.

  • @mr.g5480
    @mr.g5480 Рік тому +6

    Imagine if a celebrity man said he only dates women with low body count , young and fit . The uproar

  • @rm5282
    @rm5282 Рік тому +7

    PBL, you taught me something I didn't know. I was unaware of Eboni getti g caught attempting to steal a designer handbag. I bet Iyanla knew about it. 😅😅😅😅

  • @barbaradhart672
    @barbaradhart672 Рік тому +1

    I'm so happy that Eboni spoke out and told her truth. Vivica Fox is Not gonna date a bus driver, garbage collector, or a janitor. If a woman wants security, love and what she thinks she deserves, she will marry a man. Other women want and need more. I want more than what I'm used to. Marriage is a contract and an investment. Love is great but not enough.

  • @stronglywordedletter.
    @stronglywordedletter. Рік тому

    PBL is on fire with this one!
    You are out of order, you are out of order, you are out of order…you are all out of order!
    Keep up the good work.

  • @Mmm_Feminist_tears
    @Mmm_Feminist_tears Рік тому +12

    This 💩 is so crazy. You have BW that work for McDonald's talking about they can't settle for a bus driver.

    • @MoniqueSWarden
      @MoniqueSWarden Рік тому +2

      Right 😩 I would have never thought I would hear such blasphemy come out of the mouths of these women 😭

    • @keepmoving2023-ku7nb
      @keepmoving2023-ku7nb Рік тому

      Unfortunately it's only going to get worse with these women smh

  • @eugenedantzler4485
    @eugenedantzler4485 Рік тому +19

    She better get her a nice dog.. Or cat... Y'all know the rest!!!!
    Rip KS!💯

  • @Divine_Beauty-uh9xi
    @Divine_Beauty-uh9xi Рік тому +8

    You are definitely the truth. There is nothing wrong with preferring a husband equally yoked economically but influencing women to believe blue collar work means settling for less than, the bigotry of low expectations and evidence of white supremacy is a problem. A lifestyle without magazine covers, movie roles, or rubbing elbows with celebrities and politicians don’t necessarily make a person “mediocre “. The elitist attitude of this woman is unreal.

  • @nkosicazoe2247
    @nkosicazoe2247 Рік тому +3

    They don't want your money but when that divorce comes around they want it all. Child support, the house, clothes on your back everything 😮😮

  • @denverjohnson5640
    @denverjohnson5640 Рік тому +1

    The conversation shifts with the market. Marriage being at an all time low with men refusing to get married is affecting a lot of financial bottom-lines

  • @bigdoggham4269
    @bigdoggham4269 Рік тому +18

    Wish they could have u on the Breakfast Club because u say the thing most people can relate and understand too!!! Thank you, Thank you . This is how the our Black Community continue to Fail. Great Clip Much Respect

  • @lolivingston6827
    @lolivingston6827 Рік тому +7

    So many Gems in this Vid Pink! Sista goes in... My latino colleagues are thriving in their respective communities.. If i was Hispanic id dang near be a celebrity lol They love a hard working man. Period.

  • @Larry84J
    @Larry84J Рік тому +6

    💯 agree. Until people acknowledge and follow the Most High everything done will fail.

  • @purejoy1985
    @purejoy1985 Рік тому +2

    I remember the days when it was a blessing to have a man who worked for the city. He was always treated like he worked in Washington and was close the President or something. Amazing how times have changed 🥺🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @realestatetipsbyakileach6032
    @realestatetipsbyakileach6032 Рік тому +2

    YOUR SPITTING STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!!!! I DO NOT HAVE ANY DEGREE AND MAKE SIX FIGURES!!!!

  • @uncleboslifelessons2448
    @uncleboslifelessons2448 Рік тому +7

    My mom worked in the emergency room and my stepdad in a factory but they own three houses and land and doing very well.
    My wife is a respiratory therapist and I buy old houses and renovate and sell them and we own two homes, blue collar workers are the backbone of the country.

  • @Sheng-Li248
    @Sheng-Li248 Рік тому +10

    Yeah... I legit thought Vivica was being sarcastic. 😂

  • @kane99560
    @kane99560 Рік тому +22

    I dont believe Vivica one bit...she just dont want none of that smoke 🙄

    • @shaymay2892
      @shaymay2892 Рік тому +3

      Yep!! She has Eboni's mindset. C'mon..

  • @SammieKCIAFFFLLTGF0303
    @SammieKCIAFFFLLTGF0303 Рік тому +1

    To the blue collar men, who built and maintain the world we live in, Salute to you Sirs. We thank you.

  • @werd2182
    @werd2182 2 місяці тому

    Fantastic video. Love your mindset and the truth you are bringing. The state of affairs of the original Americans (misnomer - black folk) is being programmed for self destruction and so many refuse to see the writing on the wall (that has been there and getting worse for years). I dont think its over for many of us, but some that believe and push these self destruction narratives, it is beyond tenable. I appreciate your channel and thoughts, it is refreshing to come across.