I don't get why people want to remain friends with their ex's. There's a reason you broke up in the first place. The only reason you would remain friends is as a back-up plan in case you don't meet anybody else.
Maintaining a friendship with an ex isn't necessarily a bad thing if both parties have established clear boundaries. They may still have feelings for each other but choose not to rekindle their romantic relationship.
Story 1: translation for you OP, she remained "friend" with her ex only as a back up plan (some action in bed from time to time to leave him on hook, dont be naive)...same reason why she want you as a friend, just to monkey branch on another better dude in future. What she did with ex will await you, she will throw you out after you dont have use for her
First story: OP is a fool. She absolutely did disrespect you, and you were a fool to want to see her again and then to agree to remain "friends". Her mental health stopped being your problem when you broke up with her, which you were absolutely right to do when she went to her ex's party without you. Second story: which is more important to you: this job or your wife?
Dude don't allow guilt and compassion keep you in a bad relationship.let the people in your exes life pick up the pieces give yourselves the distance that the both of you need to heal
The ppl that think somebody is only friends with their ex is because their “a backup” a weird as hell and are pathetic i have a ex we both broke up due to long distance but randomly saw each other at a store one day and just became friends both are in relationships right now also we care about each other but we we don’t in a lovers way.
What? You basically lied to her. Of course, she disrespected you. You should have told her this as a learning so she can have better relationships in the future.
"Feeling uncomfortable with your partner's close friendship with an ex is valid, but breaking up over her attending a party might be seen as overly controlling."
How horrible to breakup with someone who continuously disrespect you over and over again, right? Don't be naive, her ex was plan B all the time...with some action on side just to keep him on hook
@@scaredpaul540 Both points are valid-feeling uncomfortable with a partner's close friendship with an ex is understandable, but repeated disrespect is unacceptable. It’s crucial to communicate boundaries and ensure mutual respect in the relationship.
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I don't get why people want to remain friends with their ex's. There's a reason you broke up in the first place. The only reason you would remain friends is as a back-up plan in case you don't meet anybody else.
I mean i do have an ex that im still friends with. We dated in highschool and broke up on mutual terms, we still hang out but we know our boundaries
Maintaining a friendship with an ex isn't necessarily a bad thing if both parties have established clear boundaries. They may still have feelings for each other but choose not to rekindle their romantic relationship.
Story 1: translation for you OP, she remained "friend" with her ex only as a back up plan (some action in bed from time to time to leave him on hook, dont be naive)...same reason why she want you as a friend, just to monkey branch on another better dude in future. What she did with ex will await you, she will throw you out after you dont have use for her
OP is a nice guy, not a good guy
He set his ex up to fail in so many ways on her next relationship all to placate his own feelings
1st story OP is such a simp that she was likely sleeping with the ex and he was totally okay with her remaining in contact. what an idiot
You’re hella insecure
First story: OP is a fool. She absolutely did disrespect you, and you were a fool to want to see her again and then to agree to remain "friends". Her mental health stopped being your problem when you broke up with her, which you were absolutely right to do when she went to her ex's party without you.
Second story: which is more important to you: this job or your wife?
Dude don't allow guilt and compassion keep you in a bad relationship.let the people in your exes life pick up the pieces give yourselves the distance that the both of you need to heal
The ppl that think somebody is only friends with their ex is because their “a backup” a weird as hell and are pathetic i have a ex we both broke up due to long distance but randomly saw each other at a store one day and just became friends both are in relationships right now also we care about each other but we we don’t in a lovers way.
I swear…I can’t deal with these narrators. “Fian-kay”
This story is so fake and nonsensical, it’s crazy 💀
What? You basically lied to her. Of course, she disrespected you. You should have told her this as a learning so she can have better relationships in the future.
"Feeling uncomfortable with your partner's close friendship with an ex is valid, but breaking up over her attending a party might be seen as overly controlling."
How horrible to breakup with someone who continuously disrespect you over and over again, right? Don't be naive, her ex was plan B all the time...with some action on side just to keep him on hook
@@scaredpaul540 Both points are valid-feeling uncomfortable with a partner's close friendship with an ex is understandable, but repeated disrespect is unacceptable. It’s crucial to communicate boundaries and ensure mutual respect in the relationship.
@@EasyTaless he did communicate his boundaries, all she did is crap on them...
@@scaredpaul540 It's really unfortunate that his boundaries were ignored. Respecting each other's limits is essential for a healthy relationship.
A party for only two people.