Everything DESTROYED - No idea how to handle this - Nomad life for PVP NOOB in

NO IDEA how to handle this... Started four days ago. From Building Bases to Breaking them, right? This is my first time playing ARK PVP, usually spent my time on work friendly private PVE Servers but I am seriously intrigued by this challenge that had been brought up by the communities popular demand (one person). So help me to to #survivetheark in #arksurvivalascended in Ark Survival Ascended Gameplay with #arkpvp in this cute little #arkpvpseries.
The goal for today is to, yes, SURVIVE, but also finding an #argentavis and maybe bring some niceness to this cruel PVP world... or maybe try my first raid?
Deathcount currently is to overwhelming for me right now
By Dinos: a lot
By stupidity: more than necessary
By someone else: DUDE, this guy took EVERYTHING from me
The server settings are: Official
Please help me though, backseat gaming highly appreciated!
Have fun!