My interpretation for this is. God used our heartbreaks as an instrument to make us prepared for a better person. “Paubaya” is one of the step to be in that right person. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ So cheer up everyone. ✌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
The Deeper meaning of Paubaya for me is To Surrender Everything To God. Pinapaubaya niya ang kaniyang sarili Sa Diyos. Siya na ang bahala sa kanyang pusong Nawasak at Nasaktan. Ang Totoong Pinapaubaya nya ay ang kanyang Sarili at hindi ang kanyang Minamahal. Dahil walang relasyon na ginawa dito sa mundong ito na walang katapusan dahil tanging relasyon lamang natin sa Kanya ang panghabang buhay . 🙂
I feel eto po ang totoong meaning ng paubaya song according to moira. When she sang the song in asap, she pointed above when she sang the last line "pinapaubaya ko na sa Kanya" which is God. Kudos sir 👍
@@carmssssclanor yes po its not her na pinapaubaya na nya ang kanyang bf sa babae. its not like that. gagawa sana ako video essay about this song. heheh
the song itself is already heart breaking tapos yung explanation mo and the way you digest every single word on the lyrics para mong binudburan ng asin yung sariwang sugat 😭😭😭 good job!
"There will come a time wherein you're walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life, you'll realized why it did not worked out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at ipinaubaya mo yung tao na yun sa iba dahil meron pang isa na mas deserve ka." 💛 It's indeed true. It's just a hurtful way to find your true life partner.
@@minawina9494 sabi nga ni kuya darbs, hindi mo siya kelangang hanapin para matagpuan. 💛 In God's perfect timing, dadating siya nang sa buhay mo (or pwedeng matagal na pala siyang nasa buhay mo, iba pa nga lang ang role niya). Yung timing na kayang kaya mo na din siyang mahalin ng buo dahil healed ka na din. 😊 At hindi mo na siya kailangang ipaubaya sa iba.
This song represent a selfless love, loving without expecting anything in return,, .. it means we love the person so so much that we want that person to be happy even if it's not with us anymore..that's true love..
Love without reason lasts the longest. You love not only when it's convenient for you but you love and choose to stay even when you feel and think like the love is not there anymore because real love is constant. It doesn't change. It's not gone. It's still there. Hindi namin kasi yan fairytale. Love is hard work. And that's why love is also a decision. Because no matter what happens, the person will choose to stay. So if someone you love leaves you for someone else, it's okay. Let go. That person is not meant for you. You are not his or her choice. You are meant for someone who is afraid of losing you and will stay with you come what may. The best kind of love is the kind that will bring out the best in you.
It takes a lot for a person to speak his mind but you did and with tears and I’m sure your words have become a blessing to those whose hearts have been deeply hurt and needs to mend. Real talk indeed. Better to build and mag paubaya so that the person who hurt you would stop hurting other people. True love wins.
the song simply tell us that no matters how much we love someone, at some point, maybe we were just an instrument to guide and lead them to the person they we're really meant to be with🙁🙁🙁
I needed those words.. I loved the wrong person for almost a decade and when this pandemic hit. She suddenly gone cold. Pero hindi kami naging perpekto. Pero totoong minahal ko sya. Behind all the lies, I mustered up everything and accepted it. When I learned the truth, hindi ko ma explain gaano ako nadurog nun. Tama ka sir. Kung kaya kong gawin lahat ng yun para sa maling tao. Pano pa kaya para sa taong nakalaan para sa akin. 💪
Because of your analyzation and interpretation of the song, mas nabubuo na yung decision ko na magpalaya at magpaubaya. Thanks for this. Update: I just received the biggest sign para magpaubaya na talaga. eto na talaga yun. 🙂 edit ko nalang ulit to soon.
Good for you girl, trust me its one of the hardest decision you’ll ever make in your life but at the end it’ll be worthy, PS. 6 months na nkalipas when i made the decision of Pagpapaubaya it still sucks and hurts everyday but Im better now. To everyone you will be too. One step at a time xx
Its been 12 yrs. Sa loob nang mahabang panahon.. marami nang nang yari.. kami ang unang pamilya pero sa iba xa nag settle down.. masakit kung babalikan q yung nakaraan pero love is wonderful thing wala aqng galit. Naiintindihan q at tanggap q ang katutuhanan.. for 12 yrs. Napapaniginipan q pa xa. Sa panaginip na masaya ako. Na kasama xa kahit pa sa panaginip q aq laging nag aantay sa kanya aq laging nag hahanp ng way maksama lang namin xa At sa tuwing nagigising aq. Nakakaramdam aq nang lungkot. Alam q god has a planned for me and my daughter. Pero minsa gusto malaman kung ano planned ni god.. tapos sinasabi q kay lord. Na if my time will come let me be with him even if its only a dream. Na sana sa panaginip q buo kami. Na kmi naman.. god knows what inside my heart. But god has a good planned for me.. 😔
You will never understand unless you personally experienced it. Hindi maiintindihan ng ibang tao ang pakiramdam na , pinalaya mo kahit sobrang mahal mo para maging masaya lang sya. Mararamdaman mo kasi yan pag hindi masaya sayo yung tao. Sobrang selfless nung lyrics. 💯 Minsan nag stay lang kasi kailangan ka pero hindi ka talaga mahal🙂.
Naranasan ko yan, at hangang ngaun mahal ko pa yung taong pinalaya ko, 8yrs na ang nkakalipas at may sarili na syang pamilya, pero sya pa rin ang mahal ko kya single pa rin ako hangang ngayn
@@ramosmarkjayson9179 aww tulungan mo ang sarili mo. Kaya mo yan. Dapat ngayon mas mahal mo na ang sarili mo at nagfofocus ka na sa sarili mo. Easier to say than done, masakit man pero palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa sakit ng nakaraan. Bigyan mo ng chance ang sarili mo na magmahal ulit , buksan mo ang puso mo para makita mo yung mga nasa paligid mo. I feel mabuti ang puso mo kaya for sure meron nakalaan sayo. Basta ipag pray mo yan na dumating at sana mapansin mo sya. Ikaw at ikaw lang din ang tutulong sa sarili mo. Dadating ang tamang tao , pag alam ng Diyos na handa ka na. Girl, sa totoo lang hindi mo makakalimutan ang ex mo kahit ano ang gawin mo , nasa memorya mo na sya , di na yan mabubura dapat tanggapin mo na hindi na sya sayo. Acceptance is the key and only time can heal you🙏🙏🙏
Lalaine Lalaine mahal ko na talaga ang sarili ko. Kaya nga sarili ko na lng mamahalin ko kesa mag mahal ulit ako tpos sasaktan lng ako ulit, for me its better this way. Hindi nko magmamahal ng iba, maliban na lng kung sa Dios mang gagaling.
Thanks God lumabas ang kantang ito Paubaya naka recover fully recovered na ako.dumaan ako sa sobrang depressed pero mabuti na lang thank you God matapang ako or else bumigay na.i feel inlove the person pero d nya ako minahal.walang kami(ang labo noh)pero ganun,then nauwi ako ng pinas,pinagluluko lang ako,sobrang depressed ko siguro balde balde yong nailuha ko sa kanya.wala pala ako lang pinaglaruan ang feeling ko,now kaya ko na.ang definition ko sa love,dont hurt someone you loved,support the person you loved regardless of who she is,or who he is,kc kung darating man ang tym sa lantang gulay na sya,d ko sya iiwan,kc doon ako huhugot kong anong tinanim nya sa akin.wala naman talagang ganyan,kc magsisikap ka din na malampasan mo yan.
This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Kailangan kong ipaubaya sa Panginoon ang taong pinakamamahal ko. 😭😭 you know what really point my attention while watching this video, is when he says, bakiy mo ba mahal yung tao? napaisip ako bakit ko pala siya minahal? kung ang dami daming dahilan para hindi ko siya mahalin. pero eto ako lubos na nagmamahal sa kanya. pero hindi ko inakalang may hangganan din pala, kinuha na siya ng Panginoon kaya ipinapaubaya ko na siya sa Panginoon. 😭😭😭
I felt the song 100% Cause it happened to me. Letting go the person you love for somebody else he love. Ang hirap, ang sakit! Pero d talaga pwd ipilit ang sarili at love. For the sake of what we called dignity. Acceptance sa ngyari is the best. Alamin ang gusto malaman. Kailan? Paano? Sino? Saan? Etc. kahit masakit malaman ang katotohanAn. Coz yan ang paraan na mkamove-on at di magsisi sa desisyonng ipaubaya na xa. Saktan ang sarili til sabihin na it’s enough! Walang paghahabol o ipilit pa na mangyayari. Instead of cursing him for what happened. Smile,laugh while crying. Bring back the memories ang leave a good message for him and his new love. No regrets talaga.
While watching Darbs, on how much he got affected by the song, i really got curious about his life..the true him.where all the advices coming from...maxadong malalim..
_".. you build a man for another woman."_ This is what I feared the most. Yes, the uncertainty is vigorous, we can't predict when will/if he/she has a change of heart. _"Mahirap labanan ang tinadhana.."_ Ang panalangin ko lang ay sana tibayan ng puso ko ang mga masasakit na salitang bibitiwan niya. Dahil ayaw kong harapin ang katotohanan na di na kita mababawi pa. Na hindi ko na kayang habulin ang panahon na pwede pa, nagbabakasaling pwedeng magsimula pa. _To that someone who holds his heart and attention, I know one day you will make a great partner in this lifetime. Just please.. wag mo syang saktan, at alagaan mo sya lubos sa mga panahong akin pa sya._
Bakit ansakit 😭 its been 10 years and hey whenever i hear a song that reminds me of our memories together it still hurts, i always pray that one day will come that the Lord will show me why we didnt end up together,I always pray for you, i know that you’re happy now, I pray the same thing for me.. I pray that my heart heals.
bakit nga ba?minsan ay napaka unfair ang pag ibig,masaya na sila sa iba,pero ito tayo nagmamahal pa rin sa kanila..(me 20 yrs.na pero mahal ko pa rin sya,.)
Having been experienced such heartbreak makes me burst into tears while listening to this song, though it's been 6 years since we split yet I can still vividly recall the pain. hoping that one day I can forget it!
U make me realize about what love is..before i always like that..i give my all but in the end i ended with nothing, no respect and no love at all..even i know that they are with me not becoz they love me just bcoz they need me..true! We build in to someone that will ended up to other person..we cant fill the space that someone need..but we will realize in the end is MAGPAUBAYA...MAGPAPAUBAYA na make them happy in the end..u are the one is sad..masakit oo sobrang masakit pro pra sa kaligayahan nya gagawin natin ang lhat pra lng masatisfied mo sarili mo na u make something or someone happy..thats what love is...thank you for this video...its a realization of love, respect and self love...
Men's have emotions too. Sometimes we build a woman just for another man. We've been 5 year's together. Last week of May "okay pa naman" first week of July "this year" she's happy with someone's arm. It hurt's but we need to let go and move on. Not necessarily kahit ako yung nauna pero di ang wakas. 💔💔
Samin po 6 years kami ng sundalo kong bf but naghiwalay kami sa day mismo ng anniversary namin (6th year) (2017) because of another woman na pinili nya over me. He got married in 2018 1 yr after our break up and until now it hurts me but I already accepted the fact that we are not destined for each other.
You are one of those few people who have genuine way of giving reactions based on life lessons...nakakaiyak yung reaction mo pati mga payo mo sir.. tagos sa puso
".. Ba't 'di ko naisip na merong hanggan.. Ako yung nauna, pero siya ang wakas.." 7th year anniversary namin nang sabihin niyang hihiwalayan niya ako. Lahat naman may HANGGANAN lalo na sa pagmamahal. Masakit, nakakadurog ng puso, nakakabitter talaga sa umpisa, pero ' ACCEPTANCE' lang naman talaga kailngan para mawala lahat yan. Pray lang lagi para sa ikabubuti ng sarili at para sa 4 yrs old kong anak. Godbless RTD. ♥
Totally agree with everything you said. Ang sakit sakit talaga ng kantang to, if you will analyze the lyrics and you'll put yourself into it, mararamdaman mo yung pain kahit hindi ka heartbroken. (and what more if you really got your heart broken!) In every happy relationship, in most cases, there was this ex na nagpaubaya, na kinayang maranasan ang mga sakit na'to, just to let the love of his/her life remain happy.
It's been 10 months since I broke up with him but the pain is still the same. I wish you always the best and happiness in your life. Yeah maybe im in pain right now but soon I know goin to be fine. I still want you but i guess i need to let go. This song really hit me cause why not,right? Every broken people can relate to this song lalo na yung mga naiwan,iniwan at nagpaubaya ng taong mahal na mahal nila.To all people suffering pain rn hope we all heal and be happy for them.Lovelots ❤️
ramdam ko to. napaka-genuine na reaction video. diko mapigil ang luha ko. 🥺😔 masakit, mahirap oo. pero sa pagpaPAUBAYA mo, isang way un para mapunta ka sa tamang tao para sayo.
Dont build the person. Hindi mo responsibility na buohin ang isang tao. Responsibility nya yon at kung tinulungan mo man syang buohin ang sarili nya whether hiningi mn nya o hindi, huwag mong isumbat na tinulungan mo sya. Maging masaya ka para sa kanya dahil buo na sya at handa na sya ishare yung kabuoan niya.
"There will come a time where in when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love you of your life, you'll realize why it did not work out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo ang tao na yun sa iba kasi mero pang isa na mas deserve ka"
Basically, the song embodies the essences of letting go, moving on and acceptance. Minsan, may mga taong dadating sa buhay natin, pero hindi tlga nakatadhana. To the right person, you will always be enough; you will always be worth staying for. There's just love and contentment. *virtual hugs!
I dont know why it's been one year but my tears fell down while watching and listening to your review.. Maybe because lahat ng pain nag flashback sa akin.. But of course it's a part of watching your video yung feel what do you really want to tell to your viewers.. I love how you explained each and every lyrics.. How you defined it.. I am already moved on naman na.. What important is the last part that you said.. Tama ka doon dumaan lang sya sa buhay ko para for sure may matutunan din ako para sa next relationship ko mas ok. And yes, if nagawa ko nga sa maling tao. Why shouldn't I sa tamang tao..God bless you
Letting go of someone you really love doesn't mean you are weak..it only means you are the strongest person.. It may be really hard at first but eventually when time goes by and seeing him/her happy with the present, there you will accept the fact that maybe "hindi nga talaga kayo ang para sa isa't isa at meron nilaan si God sa iyo na mas hihigitan pa ang pagmamahal na ipinakita mo sa taong minahal mo".
"there will become a time when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love of your life you'll realized y it did not worked with anybody else, magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo yung tao na ‘yon sa iba, kasi meron pang isa na mas deserve ka" hanggang ngayon kahit alam kong wala na at hindi na pwede, I‘m still hoping na ikaw ‘yung huling taong makakasama ko.
This is why I like you, kuya Darbs. You give extended analysis and meaningful observations to issues that matter. Things that some of us may neglect, but your analysis made us realize yung value ng isang bagay at art behind it. Galing!
Naiiyak ako khit ako sa taong gusto ko ngayon kht todo effort nako na appreciate nya naman ako. Kso mhirap ung may iba tlga sya na gusto mnsan need natin mag paubaya tlga ang importante msya sila. Ilan beses nko ganto sguro pangtalo ko na naranasan toh sobra sakit kaya kht sbhin ko di na bago sakin ung ganto masakit pa rin. Iniisip ko nalang na sguro main reason ni God sakin na wg ko madaliin muna. May mas preapred syang tao para sakin :)
Keep in mind na if your current relationship doesn't work, there's still a person who would want to be with you, it only takes time for you to discover or find that right person for you. Pain is part of our growth, as a person/ individual . Natural lang ang masaktan sa isang relationship kase package yun eh pag may saya meron ding lungkot. Pero it's up to you if you want to enslave yourself sa past mo pero ang ending eh ikaw parin ang masasaktan. Why not let go? Why not move on? Simple, it's because you still love that person, or it's because you can't accept the fact that you don't deserve them. Be a better version of yourself kapatid😁 the right one will come along😊😊👌
Ganun nga yata talaga ang love. Gagawin mo lahat para dun sa tao na yun, even if it means you have to let go dahil alam mo at ramdam mo na sa iba sya MAS masaya. Yung tipong lahat ginawa mo na, lahat binigay mo na, to the point na wala ka na rin tinira para sa sarili mo and yet parang kulang pa. You start doubting yourself kasi akala mo hindi ka enough, but the truth is hindi lang talaga ikaw yung para sa kanya. Acceptance is the key, tanggapin mo sa sarili mo na hindi ikaw ang talagang magpapasaya sa kanya.
That's how you deal with pain; ang magparaya, magpalaya at magpaubaya. Iiyak mo magdamag tapos kinabukasan lumaban ka, gawing mong strength yung heart break. Be a better person for your next partner; a partner that will be your "last love", that will give you hope to love again. Shot puno Darbie shetttttt sakit
“you build a man for another woman” “pinaubaya” sobrang sakit, nakapag move on na kami ng anak ko pero once na maririnig ko ‘tong lines natu. bigla nalang ako masasaktan, nasasaktan ako para sa anak ko na yung papa niya kinasal na sa iba.
Grabe no? Ako nga 14 yrs nag stay 10 yrs old daughter. Nag sama kami walang wala kasi bata pa nung nag asawa 20 tapos nung umangat na hindi pala ikaw....
Acceptance that ur not meant to be, selfless love 😭😭😭relate wayback 3 decade na pero the scar still there .. but I’m so happy now with own family , living in London.. ganda ng mag words of wisdom about love mo bro tagus sa puso indeed❤️
Thank you! For making me realize that I did love him. I never thought it was selfless love, you know loving someone even if you are not the end game and wishing him the happiness he deserves. I thought it was just selfishness of me because I define my happiness to be at peace with myself and that includes him not being with me. My peace is seeing him grow to be a better person with someone because I believe everyone deserves that kind of love. Love that will make you a better person.
I thought I was okay dahil naka get over na ako sa song yesterday. But, with you Kuya darbs, I was able to feel the pain from yesterday. One year ko na sya pinaubaya tho we have that memories for the last 4 years but the pain was really fresh at nuot na nuot pa ang sakit. Thank you for those encouragements. I hope sa pagpapaubaya ko, makikita ko ang nakatadhana sa akin. A solid fan of you, Kuya. Godbless 😭
Yes I always think before what did I do wrong, Why I'm still not enough? I felt that I am unworthy person that time, but I love him so much so I let him go.
about sa ako ang kailangan pero d ang mahal. Gnda ng explanation sir about dun sa ' kailangan', pero in my opinion those points are what produces love. But love is not permanent, nde lahat ng oras she can make you happy, nde lahat ng oras ay andun yung spark nyong dalawa. Love is a commitment-when married :)
Same 9 years with my ex who cheated on me for so many times until he broke up with me to be with that other woman. But I’m okay now and engaged to amazing guy who truly deserve me. I wish you all happiness too, soon. ❤️🙏🏻
Its better to give up this person. At ipaubaya sa iba dahil alam mo na mas sasaya sya iba.siguro masakit ung sabihin sayo na makakakita ka pa ng mas mamahalin ka at ibibigay ay love mona mas higit pa. Siguro nga ang bawat tao na dumadaan sa buhay natin ay para ihanda tayo sa tamang tao na magmamahal sa atin ng higit pa. "ITS BETTER TO BE A BUILDER THAN DESTROYER"..ngayon masaya na ako sa taong mas mahal ako ng higit. Ganon yata talaga.
Started in LDR Fell INLOVE Made Plans Made time Never met 2 months left before we meet and she said le'ts stop this. No formal goodbyes just unfinished talks asked for a chance and the answer is NO maybe i'll just need to be happy even im not the reason why. i just hope everything will be fine i hope for her endless happiness nothing be angry about but still im making my promise till i'll be back even she's not waiting for me anymore. i hope you are happier than before :)
ang maging masaya sa taong mahal mo na iba ang mahal ay hindi fullfilment .pero pinaubaya mo na kahit masakit kasi alam mong magiging masya siya dun..napakaemosyonal ng mensahe.
Thank you, Real Talk Darbs for being there whenever I feel down. I feel like I have a bestfriend that telling good advices. Thank you. I don’t know what is the perfect word to describe. But THANK YOU. I’m crying while watching this video. 🥺
I find that the purest of love is just selfless. That whatever makes him/her happy, even if that doesn't include you, you're still willing to give it, allow it.
Here's my opinion, I agree to everything you said except the thing you said here at 2:14 to 3:15. I mean you can't just love a person without doing anything. It's like you're saying that you love a person 'cause they're handsome. No. Loving come with doing something. Yes, it is doubtful that you also love a person because of what he did good to you but that's building up emotion, that's building up relationship, or that's building up character. Therefor you need to do something because you love them. When we love a person, we sure do things that make them happy and that's one act of "love". I'm always thinking that action builds up "love" and "emotion", 'cause you can just "love" a person directly, you need to build up your self, both of you. It is like saying that "a not so handsome/beautiful" person will not have chance to do effort because of the idea that a person tend to love them because of "what they do" rather than accepting their effort or accepting them in general. You can't just love a person because you "love" that person, it is because of "what" is that person to you and how he manage to love, like, respect, and admire you. You can't just stand there and do nothing and still wanting to be loved. Love is broad and it's hard to specify it by actually saying "you love that person because you love them" but for a fact they did something that make you love them. And I agree to you that what if 1 day he/she will be in an accident and can't do the things you want them to do for you, it implies that you're the one who don't love them and just want attention or whatever. I mean, if you really love that person, you'll still support him and make him happy despite of what tragedy he/she experience. If his/her happiness and smiles make you feel at ease or make you happy, then that's love for me. Therefor you need to do "something" to make them feel love and not just stay by their said and said "I'm here for you, I love you". You need to act also. Acceptance is also the most important form of love and maybe that's the thing you missed to discuss here on this issue. But either way, I still love everything on the video. Kudos !
I dont know what hurts more ..yung pinagpalit ako ng mahal ko sa bestfriend ko o yung kinalimutan ako ng bestfriend ko dahil sa taong mahal ko na minamahal niya rin pala..its very hard but I realized I was just a bridge between the two of you. Hurts deep pero alagaan niyo isa't isa..I'm signing off from the lives of the two of you..god bless😌😌
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ang dame kong iyak sa video na to.. im in so much pain right now.. 8yrs kme ng asawa ko pero nagkarelasyon sya sa iba ng wala akong kamalay malay.. ilang yrs ng nasa dibdib ko ang sakit hanggang ngaun andito pa rin ang sakit hindi ko pinapaubaya ang asawa ko s babae nya dahil sobra ko syang mahal khit ilang taon n ang sakit s puso ko 😭😭😭😭.. oo kakayanin kong magpaka martir wag lng mawala ang taong mahal ko sa akin.. ang hirap ipaubaya sa iba yung taong sobra mong minahal.. self torture tong ginagawa kong panonood ng ganitong video.. but i think ito yung best way para ma released ko lahat ng pain ang iiyak n lng ang lahat 😭😭😭😭😭..
I agree sa sinabi mo pre.. yes, it should be "Love someone without any reason at all"... kasi any reasons, whatever it is, will fade through time. I had this experience actually, long term relationship, I poured everything to keep us intact, I even sacrificed my career just to keep her with me... but after she left the country, just few months after, someone came in, and ruined everything.. I was shocked and cant believe she would betrayed me... I let time to pass and waited for her to be truthful and tell me about the guy.. but instead I was humiliated, mocked and was blocked from all her accounts... I know about the guy's background, I know exactly how to take revenge, the guy has a wife (broken marraige as he claimed), I could file a case, under the law, its concubinage and both of them is guilty of it... I have the evidence etc etc.... but on the last part when I was about to do it, I realized what will be the consequence, my ex will be deported back to our country and all her dreams will be destroyed.... that is something I cant take... I even message the guy asking him to take good care of her, etc etc... all I received was mockery and more insults.. I was even humiliated to my ex family and friends... Yeah I agree, about this song, loving someone and giving all yoy have is never a guarantee you will keep that certain someone for the rest of your life... however, things happened because someone else worthy enough of your kindness, faithfulness and loyalty. eventually that certain someone will come in time in a very unexpected time.
@@jonathansasi2079 yes, this happened to me years ago, I am with someone now 1yr ldr but worked out perfectly so far... and I am even planning to tie a knot soon... yes God do prepare someone better
masarap magmahal pero mas masarap kung pareho kyo ng nararamdaman.. paubaya is the hard to do but is the best decision if the guy dont love you anymore
I wish him well everyday, and may he find the happiness that he no longer felt with me. Mahirap but i'm trying and praying to be ok someday 😭. we may struggling today but life must go on.
Don't worry there will come a time that you will meet a person who will truly love for who you are and wants to stay with you forever. Keep on praying before you know it its just in front of you and haven'tseen it because you are still thinking of him. Good luck!
Best reaction I've ever seen. Sobrang iyak ko sa kanta nailabas ko lahat ang sakit pati sa reaction napaiyak ako sobra. Paulit ulit kong pinapanood ang hirap maging matatag. Ang sakit ang hirap bumitaw. Ppno ba mg let go ng ndi ka nsasaktan 😭😭😭😭. Sakit sobra
This song really hits me. I was getting married to someone i loved, i was 6 months pregnant that time, when he met someone else. They've become gf and bf. I forgave him and still accepts him, because i was also thinking of our baby. But while planning with our wedding i can feel that he no longer was happy with me. I asked him if he was still willing to marry me. And he said "NO" and i said okay I'm letting you go. I talked to the girls and asked if he really loves him and she said YES. At that time it hurts like hell. Na gusto mo nalng matapis na ang lahat na sana panaginio lang ang lahat. Pero hindi eh, kailangan mong harapin, sinabi ko nalng sa girl ayoko maging kontrabida sa love story nila, na may taong nakalaan pa rin sa akin. At sinabi ko sa kanya na mahalin si ex nang todo. At di na ako mangingialam sa kanila kahit ako ang nauna at kahit na may dahilab ako para magstay dahil buntis ako. Mahal ko siya pero d na ako ang mahal😢.
@@johnpaulangor5123 oo nga naisip ko rin yon. Kaya lang ayoko na ng gulo. At baka sumikat ako😅. Ang importante naka-move on na. At nakakaya ko pa namn suportahan ang anak namin.
Get your baby's right to his father. Di pwedeng happy na sa iba ba bye na. Pano responsibilidad ba bye na rin? Ang swerte naman ni kuya. Di puro love love may responsibilidad din na tinatwagan at kinukuha.
@@annkris15 I did asked some support before pero Sabi nya he will start business with his gf. And now they are already married and have their own child. Ayoko ng gulo. Nasa sa kanya na yon kung magpapaka-ama cya sa anak namin.
Omg parang bumalik sa akin ang lahat dati, pinaubaya ko ang taong mahal ko sa iba kasi nakita kung masaya na sya sa iba, masakit halos ikamatay ko noon,at ang masakit pa nakikita ko sila lagi na para bang pinamumukha sakin na sya na ang mahal nya,Anyway past is past masaya na ako ngaun sa taong pinakita kung gaano ako kahalaga. Tama nga ang kasabihan na pag may nawala may papalit na mas worth it na tao.
Virtual Hugs sir Darbs 😭💔 Im out of words to say about this kasi when this song plays lahat ng mga kaibigan ko naalala nila ako kasi totoo ito yung nangyari sa akin . It really hurts po sobra💔
Minsan dadating sa buhay natin na may dadating na Tao pero di pa pala siya and the one pinagtagpo pero di tinadhana pero wag tayo malungkot keep on loving and trust love and God for he really cares and he knows what's best for you, for us just be thankful to meet a person and learn and know God is good and Will not let every thing happen for a purpose Godbless us..
"you build a man for another woman" Yung pangarap niyang pamilya nangyari na sa iba...pero now happy na ako na makita ko siyang masaya..now i'm with someone who choose me,who loved me more than i love him😊
nakita ko lang .. and i think your reactions at mga sinabi mo make me cry dude. i literaly watch this 20x yata and for that? im giving this reaction a BIG LIKE. and click that subscribe button. i love this reaction and i think this is the best reaction of all. thanks dude
Im on the stage in a relationship romantically or not. Mahal ko sya ng walang kondisyon kung dumating man ang time na may iba at masaktan ako i can let him go as long as I see him happy. Pain from the past teach us to handle new relationship to come better than the past
I remembered my Ex to this song he also told me that "Wag Ka niyang papaiyakin at Sana alagaan Ka nya" nung nalaman nyang masaya na ako sa iba but after a half year of breaking up with him 😊 We had a on and off relationship because of third parties. Sa 3yrs Namin tatlong beses din sya nag luko pero I can't blame him maybe because I'm not enough for him but He also can't blame me for breaking up with him officially .akala nya nong nakipag break ako is babalik din ako Kasi nakasanayan nya na which is also hard for me to let go a 3years of being with him pero sobrang toxic na ng relationship Namin that time so since nag aaral pa ako I let go first at naniniwala ako that time na Kami din sa Huli pero Sabi ko sa ngayon Tama na muna and then habang tumatagal I found my worth to my self mas minahal ko sarili ko than anyone else and may dumating na someone. He's Better ❣️ He's been with me when I started my college degree and next year graduating na Kami❣️ And my Ex had a wife na and a daughter 😊 We're okay and his family was still nice to me ❤️
My interpretation for this is. God used our heartbreaks as an instrument to make us prepared for a better person. “Paubaya” is one of the step to be in that right person. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ So cheer up everyone. ✌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love is Sacrife♥
Indeed!!!
Sobrang sakit pero true
God is the one making us strong and somewhere out ther God is also building that person to be with you.
Agree :) Nung narinig ko to, may pain na nag-flashback pero di dapat panghinayangan kasi hinanda tayo ni God para sa tamang tao para sa atin.
The Deeper meaning of Paubaya for me is To Surrender Everything To God. Pinapaubaya niya ang kaniyang sarili Sa Diyos. Siya na ang bahala sa kanyang pusong Nawasak at Nasaktan. Ang Totoong Pinapaubaya nya ay ang kanyang Sarili at hindi ang kanyang Minamahal. Dahil walang relasyon na ginawa dito sa mundong ito na walang katapusan dahil tanging relasyon lamang natin sa Kanya ang panghabang buhay . 🙂
Ang galing ng reaction mo sir...
I feel eto po ang totoong meaning ng paubaya song according to moira. When she sang the song in asap, she pointed above when she sang the last line "pinapaubaya ko na sa Kanya" which is God. Kudos sir 👍
@@carmssssclanor yes po its not her na pinapaubaya na nya ang kanyang bf sa babae. its not like that. gagawa sana ako video essay about this song. heheh
@@benchsaldivar9822 thank you
Amen
Our biggest heartbreak is our biggest blessings. Cause it lead us to the person God made for us.
Totally agree..😊
I do agree..
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Truer words were never spoken 👏👏👏
yes I agree for that.
"you build a man for another woman, and its okay because its better to be a builder than to be a destroyer"
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The purest form of love, is not a selfish love, you build a man for another woman it is better to a builder than a destroyer.
ang sakeet parin even you look on d brigth side.
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Watch the IPINAUBAYA version po, ang sakit din. Reco ko lang po para damay damay na🥺✌
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love is mutual not one sided kung ayaw sayo let it go wag magpaka martyr marami ka pang makikita na better life is so short
the song itself is already heart breaking tapos yung explanation mo and the way you digest every single word on the lyrics para mong binudburan ng asin yung sariwang sugat 😭😭😭
good job!
Ako ang nauna 😂,pero siya ang wakas
"There will come a time wherein you're walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life, you'll realized why it did not worked out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at ipinaubaya mo yung tao na yun sa iba dahil meron pang isa na mas deserve ka." 💛
It's indeed true. It's just a hurtful way to find your true life partner.
ayy grabe naalala ko dyan ay si P'Bone sa Theory of Love ouch
yes at napakahabng proseso bago mo xa matagpuan thats why we need to preserve ourselves for that special person.
@@minawina9494 sabi nga ni kuya darbs, hindi mo siya kelangang hanapin para matagpuan. 💛 In God's perfect timing, dadating siya nang sa buhay mo (or pwedeng matagal na pala siyang nasa buhay mo, iba pa nga lang ang role niya). Yung timing na kayang kaya mo na din siyang mahalin ng buo dahil healed ka na din. 😊 At hindi mo na siya kailangang ipaubaya sa iba.
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Walang gustong pakasalan ako :-(
This song represent a selfless love, loving without expecting anything in return,, .. it means we love the person so so much that we want that person to be happy even if it's not with us anymore..that's true love..
Love without reason lasts the longest. You love not only when it's convenient for you but you love and choose to stay even when you feel and think like the love is not there anymore because real love is constant. It doesn't change. It's not gone. It's still there. Hindi namin kasi yan fairytale. Love is hard work. And that's why love is also a decision. Because no matter what happens, the person will choose to stay.
So if someone you love leaves you for someone else, it's okay. Let go. That person is not meant for you. You are not his or her choice. You are meant for someone who is afraid of losing you and will stay with you come what may. The best kind of love is the kind that will bring out the best in you.
" The purest answer if you love a person is, you don't know. " that's exactly what my husband told me when I asked him since we started.
thats also my answer to my husband,..
Kaya I cant blame someone na ayaw ng pumasok sa relationship dahil sa takot na masaktan ulit😢😢😢
I agree...🤗
True 😅
You're right. Kase binigay mo naman ang lahat pero wala pa rin talaga. Ending nagpaubaya ka.
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I agree ... 😑
It takes a lot for a person to speak his mind but you did and with tears and I’m sure your words have become a blessing to those whose hearts have been deeply hurt and needs to mend. Real talk indeed.
Better to build and mag paubaya so that the person who hurt you would stop hurting other people. True love wins.
the song simply tell us that no matters how much we love someone, at some point, maybe we were just an instrument to guide and lead them to the person they we're really meant to be with🙁🙁🙁
Ang sakit pero totoo💔💔😥😥
😐😐😐
Its reality and reality hurts so much...
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Huyyyy😭😭😭
I needed those words.. I loved the wrong person for almost a decade and when this pandemic hit. She suddenly gone cold. Pero hindi kami naging perpekto. Pero totoong minahal ko sya. Behind all the lies, I mustered up everything and accepted it. When I learned the truth, hindi ko ma explain gaano ako nadurog nun. Tama ka sir. Kung kaya kong gawin lahat ng yun para sa maling tao. Pano pa kaya para sa taong nakalaan para sa akin. 💪
Because of your analyzation and interpretation of the song, mas nabubuo na yung decision ko na magpalaya at magpaubaya. Thanks for this.
Update: I just received the biggest sign para magpaubaya na talaga. eto na talaga yun. 🙂 edit ko nalang ulit to soon.
Me too🥰
Hirap naman nyan😭😭
Good for you girl, trust me its one of the hardest decision you’ll ever make in your life but at the end it’ll be worthy, PS. 6 months na nkalipas when i made the decision of Pagpapaubaya it still sucks and hurts everyday but Im better now. To everyone you will be too. One step at a time xx
Ipapaubaya ko na rin siguro sya.. sobrang sakit na kasi.. dko na kaya 😢😢😢
Me too. God I'm crying. 😭
Letting go is not a weakness...
It is the most courageous act that a loving heart can do....
Its been 12 yrs. Sa loob nang mahabang panahon.. marami nang nang yari.. kami ang unang pamilya pero sa iba xa nag settle down.. masakit kung babalikan q yung nakaraan pero love is wonderful thing wala aqng galit. Naiintindihan q at tanggap q ang katutuhanan.. for 12 yrs. Napapaniginipan q pa xa. Sa panaginip na masaya ako. Na kasama xa kahit pa sa panaginip q aq laging nag aantay sa kanya aq laging nag hahanp ng way maksama lang namin xa At sa tuwing nagigising aq. Nakakaramdam aq nang lungkot. Alam q god has a planned for me and my daughter. Pero minsa gusto malaman kung ano planned ni god.. tapos sinasabi q kay lord. Na if my time will come let me be with him even if its only a dream. Na sana sa panaginip q buo kami. Na kmi naman.. god knows what inside my heart. But god has a good planned for me.. 😔
You will never understand unless you personally experienced it. Hindi maiintindihan ng ibang tao ang pakiramdam na , pinalaya mo kahit sobrang mahal mo para maging masaya lang sya. Mararamdaman mo kasi yan pag hindi masaya sayo yung tao. Sobrang selfless nung lyrics. 💯 Minsan nag stay lang kasi kailangan ka pero hindi ka talaga mahal🙂.
Totoo 😔
Sobrang totoo 🙂😭
Naranasan ko yan, at hangang ngaun mahal ko pa yung taong pinalaya ko, 8yrs na ang nkakalipas at may sarili na syang pamilya, pero sya pa rin ang mahal ko kya single pa rin ako hangang ngayn
@@ramosmarkjayson9179 aww tulungan mo ang sarili mo. Kaya mo yan. Dapat ngayon mas mahal mo na ang sarili mo at nagfofocus ka na sa sarili mo. Easier to say than done, masakit man pero palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa sakit ng nakaraan. Bigyan mo ng chance ang sarili mo na magmahal ulit , buksan mo ang puso mo para makita mo yung mga nasa paligid mo. I feel mabuti ang puso mo kaya for sure meron nakalaan sayo. Basta ipag pray mo yan na dumating at sana mapansin mo sya. Ikaw at ikaw lang din ang tutulong sa sarili mo. Dadating ang tamang tao , pag alam ng Diyos na handa ka na. Girl, sa totoo lang hindi mo makakalimutan ang ex mo kahit ano ang gawin mo , nasa memorya mo na sya , di na yan mabubura dapat tanggapin mo na hindi na sya sayo. Acceptance is the key and only time can heal you🙏🙏🙏
Lalaine Lalaine mahal ko na talaga ang sarili ko. Kaya nga sarili ko na lng mamahalin ko kesa mag mahal ulit ako tpos sasaktan lng ako ulit, for me its better this way. Hindi nko magmamahal ng iba, maliban na lng kung sa Dios mang gagaling.
Thanks God lumabas ang kantang ito Paubaya naka recover fully recovered na ako.dumaan ako sa sobrang depressed pero mabuti na lang thank you God matapang ako or else bumigay na.i feel inlove the person pero d nya ako minahal.walang kami(ang labo noh)pero ganun,then nauwi ako ng pinas,pinagluluko lang ako,sobrang depressed ko siguro balde balde yong nailuha ko sa kanya.wala pala ako lang pinaglaruan ang feeling ko,now kaya ko na.ang definition ko sa love,dont hurt someone you loved,support the person you loved regardless of who she is,or who he is,kc kung darating man ang tym sa lantang gulay na sya,d ko sya iiwan,kc doon ako huhugot kong anong tinanim nya sa akin.wala naman talagang ganyan,kc magsisikap ka din na malampasan mo yan.
This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Kailangan kong ipaubaya sa Panginoon ang taong pinakamamahal ko. 😭😭
you know what really point my attention while watching this video, is when he says, bakiy mo ba mahal yung tao? napaisip ako bakit ko pala siya minahal? kung ang dami daming dahilan para hindi ko siya mahalin. pero eto ako lubos na nagmamahal sa kanya. pero hindi ko inakalang may hangganan din pala, kinuha na siya ng Panginoon kaya ipinapaubaya ko na siya sa Panginoon. 😭😭😭
I felt the song 100%
Cause it happened to me.
Letting go the person you love for somebody else he love.
Ang hirap, ang sakit! Pero d talaga pwd ipilit ang sarili at love. For the sake of what we called dignity. Acceptance sa ngyari is the best. Alamin ang gusto malaman. Kailan? Paano? Sino? Saan? Etc. kahit masakit malaman ang katotohanAn. Coz yan ang paraan na mkamove-on at di magsisi sa desisyonng ipaubaya na xa. Saktan ang sarili til sabihin na it’s enough! Walang paghahabol o ipilit pa na mangyayari. Instead of cursing him for what happened. Smile,laugh while crying. Bring back the memories ang leave a good message for him and his new love. No regrets talaga.
While watching Darbs, on how much he got affected by the song, i really got curious about his life..the true him.where all the advices coming from...maxadong malalim..
Oo tama ka grabe ang hugot nacarried away xia dahil relate din cguro but everybody can relate
_".. you build a man for another woman."_
This is what I feared the most. Yes, the uncertainty is vigorous, we can't predict when will/if he/she has a change of heart.
_"Mahirap labanan ang tinadhana.."_
Ang panalangin ko lang ay sana tibayan ng puso ko ang mga masasakit na salitang bibitiwan niya. Dahil ayaw kong harapin ang katotohanan na di na kita mababawi pa. Na hindi ko na kayang habulin ang panahon na pwede pa, nagbabakasaling pwedeng magsimula pa.
_To that someone who holds his heart and attention, I know one day you will make a great partner in this lifetime. Just please.. wag mo syang saktan, at alagaan mo sya lubos sa mga panahong akin pa sya._
There' something about his speaking voice. So soothing. 😍
me too...i cried a lot...matagal ko na pinaubaya si ex.pero nasasaktan pa rin ako.
His diction is 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Relate much... crying and crying while watching ur reaction and ur words shared.
Bakit ansakit 😭 its been 10 years and hey whenever i hear a song that reminds me of our memories together it still hurts, i always pray that one day will come that the Lord will show me why we didnt end up together,I always pray for you, i know that you’re happy now, I pray the same thing for me.. I pray that my heart heals.
bakit nga ba?minsan ay napaka unfair ang pag ibig,masaya na sila sa iba,pero ito tayo nagmamahal pa rin sa kanila..(me 20 yrs.na pero mahal ko pa rin sya,.)
huhu same here :( its been 10 years from now hays
Having been experienced such heartbreak makes me burst into tears while listening to this song, though it's been 6 years since we split yet I can still vividly recall the pain. hoping that one day I can forget it!
Yung vulnerable side kuya darbs ❤️ How genuine this episode. God bless this man
U make me realize about what love is..before i always like that..i give my all but in the end i ended with nothing, no respect and no love at all..even i know that they are with me not becoz they love me just bcoz they need me..true! We build in to someone that will ended up to other person..we cant fill the space that someone need..but we will realize in the end is MAGPAUBAYA...MAGPAPAUBAYA na make them happy in the end..u are the one is sad..masakit oo sobrang masakit pro pra sa kaligayahan nya gagawin natin ang lhat pra lng masatisfied mo sarili mo na u make something or someone happy..thats what love is...thank you for this video...its a realization of love, respect and self love...
Men's have emotions too. Sometimes we build a woman just for another man. We've been 5 year's together. Last week of May "okay pa naman" first week of July "this year" she's happy with someone's arm. It hurt's but we need to let go and move on. Not necessarily kahit ako yung nauna pero di ang wakas. 💔💔
Samin po 6 years kami ng sundalo kong bf but naghiwalay kami sa day mismo ng anniversary namin (6th year) (2017) because of another woman na pinili nya over me. He got married in 2018 1 yr after our break up and until now it hurts me but I already accepted the fact that we are not destined for each other.
lupet!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😥😥😥
You are one of those few people who have genuine way of giving reactions based on life lessons...nakakaiyak yung reaction mo pati mga payo mo sir.. tagos sa puso
While he's explaining, my eyes can't hold the water .
me too...i cried while he is talking ang explaining...matagal ko na pinalaya at pinaubaya si ex pero nasasaktan pa rin ako.
@@rainemacaraeg7312 I FEEL YOU 💔
Ify , sobrang sakit.
@@rainemacaraeg7312 kapit lng. Matatapos din yan.
"At magpapasalamat ka na ipinaubaya mo yung tao nanyun sa iba, kasi meron pang isa na mas deserve ka." 💯🙏
".. Ba't 'di ko naisip na merong hanggan..
Ako yung nauna, pero siya ang wakas.."
7th year anniversary namin nang sabihin niyang hihiwalayan niya ako. Lahat naman may HANGGANAN lalo na sa pagmamahal.
Masakit, nakakadurog ng puso, nakakabitter talaga sa umpisa, pero ' ACCEPTANCE' lang naman talaga kailngan para mawala lahat yan. Pray lang lagi para sa ikabubuti ng sarili at para sa 4 yrs old kong anak. Godbless RTD. ♥
Totally agree with everything you said. Ang sakit sakit talaga ng kantang to, if you will analyze the lyrics and you'll put yourself into it, mararamdaman mo yung pain kahit hindi ka heartbroken. (and what more if you really got your heart broken!) In every happy relationship, in most cases, there was this ex na nagpaubaya, na kinayang maranasan ang mga sakit na'to, just to let the love of his/her life remain happy.
It's been 10 months since I broke up with him but the pain is still the same. I wish you always the best and happiness in your life. Yeah maybe im in pain right now but soon I know goin to be fine. I still want you but i guess i need to let go. This song really hit me cause why not,right? Every broken people can relate to this song lalo na yung mga naiwan,iniwan at nagpaubaya ng taong mahal na mahal nila.To all people suffering pain rn hope we all heal and be happy for them.Lovelots ❤️
ramdam ko to. napaka-genuine na reaction video. diko mapigil ang luha ko. 🥺😔
masakit, mahirap oo.
pero sa pagpaPAUBAYA mo, isang way un para mapunta ka sa tamang tao para sayo.
Dont build the person. Hindi mo responsibility na buohin ang isang tao. Responsibility nya yon at kung tinulungan mo man syang buohin ang sarili nya whether hiningi mn nya o hindi, huwag mong isumbat na tinulungan mo sya. Maging masaya ka para sa kanya dahil buo na sya at handa na sya ishare yung kabuoan niya.
How heartbreaking but we haveto look forward. GOD is our ultimate comfort n LOVE.
"There will come a time where in when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love you of your life, you'll realize why it did not work out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo ang tao na yun sa iba kasi mero pang isa na mas deserve ka"
Basically, the song embodies the essences of letting go, moving on and acceptance. Minsan, may mga taong dadating sa buhay natin, pero hindi tlga nakatadhana.
To the right person, you will always be enough; you will always be worth staying for. There's just love and contentment. *virtual hugs!
I dont know why it's been one year but my tears fell down while watching and listening to your review.. Maybe because lahat ng pain nag flashback sa akin.. But of course it's a part of watching your video yung feel what do you really want to tell to your viewers.. I love how you explained each and every lyrics.. How you defined it.. I am already moved on naman na.. What important is the last part that you said.. Tama ka doon dumaan lang sya sa buhay ko para for sure may matutunan din ako para sa next relationship ko mas ok. And yes, if nagawa ko nga sa maling tao. Why shouldn't I sa tamang tao..God bless you
Letting go of someone you really love doesn't mean you are weak..it only means you are the strongest person..
It may be really hard at first but eventually when time goes by and seeing him/her happy with the present, there you will accept the fact that maybe "hindi nga talaga kayo ang para sa isa't isa at meron nilaan si God sa iyo na mas hihigitan pa ang pagmamahal na ipinakita mo sa taong minahal mo".
"there will become a time when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love of your life you'll realized y it did not worked with anybody else, magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo yung tao na ‘yon sa iba, kasi meron pang isa na mas deserve ka" hanggang ngayon kahit alam kong wala na at hindi na pwede, I‘m still hoping na ikaw ‘yung huling taong makakasama ko.
This is why I like you, kuya Darbs. You give extended analysis and meaningful observations to issues that matter. Things that some of us may neglect, but your analysis made us realize yung value ng isang bagay at art behind it. Galing!
"It is better to be a builder than to be a destroyer".
Best reaction ever that i have watched😣😣😣💔💔💔
Trueeeee
Sameeee🤷🏻♀️
The best. Is just cherish all the good moment and let go there’s will always be someone for you
Because of this man, nalaman ko kung ano ang ibig sabihin ng Love...😍 thank you nabago mo pananaw ko..
Naiiyak ako khit ako sa taong gusto ko ngayon kht todo effort nako na appreciate nya naman ako. Kso mhirap ung may iba tlga sya na gusto mnsan need natin mag paubaya tlga ang importante msya sila. Ilan beses nko ganto sguro pangtalo ko na naranasan toh sobra sakit kaya kht sbhin ko di na bago sakin ung ganto masakit pa rin. Iniisip ko nalang na sguro main reason ni God sakin na wg ko madaliin muna. May mas preapred syang tao para sakin :)
Keep in mind na if your current relationship doesn't work, there's still a person who would want to be with you, it only takes time for you to discover or find that right person for you. Pain is part of our growth, as a person/ individual . Natural lang ang masaktan sa isang relationship kase package yun eh pag may saya meron ding lungkot. Pero it's up to you if you want to enslave yourself sa past mo pero ang ending eh ikaw parin ang masasaktan. Why not let go? Why not move on?
Simple, it's because you still love that person, or it's because you can't accept the fact that you don't deserve them.
Be a better version of yourself kapatid😁 the right one will come along😊😊👌
Ganun nga yata talaga ang love. Gagawin mo lahat para dun sa tao na yun, even if it means you have to let go dahil alam mo at ramdam mo na sa iba sya MAS masaya. Yung tipong lahat ginawa mo na, lahat binigay mo na, to the point na wala ka na rin tinira para sa sarili mo and yet parang kulang pa. You start doubting yourself kasi akala mo hindi ka enough, but the truth is hindi lang talaga ikaw yung para sa kanya. Acceptance is the key, tanggapin mo sa sarili mo na hindi ikaw ang talagang magpapasaya sa kanya.
I love kuya darbs. He is raw, honest and he isn't scared of showing his emotions he is a breath of fresh air. Keep it up RTD! Godbless! ❤
That's how you deal with pain; ang magparaya, magpalaya at magpaubaya. Iiyak mo magdamag tapos kinabukasan lumaban ka, gawing mong strength yung heart break. Be a better person for your next partner; a partner that will be your "last love", that will give you hope to love again. Shot puno Darbie shetttttt sakit
“you build a man for another woman” “pinaubaya”
sobrang sakit, nakapag move on na kami ng anak ko pero once na maririnig ko ‘tong lines natu. bigla nalang ako masasaktan, nasasaktan ako para sa anak ko na yung papa niya kinasal na sa iba.
Grabe no? Ako nga 14 yrs nag stay 10 yrs old daughter. Nag sama kami walang wala kasi bata pa nung nag asawa 20 tapos nung umangat na hindi pala ikaw....
Acceptance that ur not meant to be, selfless love 😭😭😭relate wayback 3 decade na pero the scar still there .. but I’m so happy now with own family , living in London.. ganda ng mag words of wisdom about love mo bro tagus sa puso indeed❤️
Thank you! For making me realize that I did love him. I never thought it was selfless love, you know loving someone even if you are not the end game and wishing him the happiness he deserves. I thought it was just selfishness of me because I define my happiness to be at peace with myself and that includes him not being with me. My peace is seeing him grow to be a better person with someone because I believe everyone deserves that kind of love. Love that will make you a better person.
Happy Single day Everyone! ❤️❤️❤️ we’re okay! 🙏🏻🤗
Pain is
An opportunity to
Understand yourself and
Being able to
Accept that
You deserve to be
Appreciated;
Self care at its best...
❤
Ganda ng MEANING 😍😍😍😍😭
Couldn't agree more
Wow ! this is so deep
I love all the words you're saying... You are so open minded person keep it up...
I thought I was okay dahil naka get over na ako sa song yesterday. But, with you Kuya darbs, I was able to feel the pain from yesterday. One year ko na sya pinaubaya tho we have that memories for the last 4 years but the pain was really fresh at nuot na nuot pa ang sakit. Thank you for those encouragements. I hope sa pagpapaubaya ko, makikita ko ang nakatadhana sa akin. A solid fan of you, Kuya. Godbless 😭
Yes I always think before what did I do wrong, Why I'm still not enough? I felt that I am unworthy person that time, but I love him so much so I let him go.
about sa ako ang kailangan pero d ang mahal.
Gnda ng explanation sir about dun sa
' kailangan', pero in my opinion those points are what produces love. But love is not permanent, nde lahat ng oras she can make you happy, nde lahat ng oras ay andun yung spark nyong dalawa. Love is a commitment-when married :)
"Theres a lot of people who thinks your the one for them but thats not the case for you" relate much ako sa sinabi mong to kuya darbs.
_"This is a lost love you wish you would want to have but you were not able to get it."_
I came from a 7 years relationship and my ex boyfriend had a girl for a months. That song literally hit me.
Came from a long term relationship
Same💔😢
Same 9 years with my ex who cheated on me for so many times until he broke up with me to be with that other woman. But I’m okay now and engaged to amazing guy who truly deserve me. I wish you all happiness too, soon. ❤️🙏🏻
Same here 💔😔 8yrs💔
same here.. 9 years.. 💔
That "it's better to be a builder than a destroyer" hits me really really hard
"You build a man for another woman"
"It's better to be a builder than a destroyer"
Its better to give up this person. At ipaubaya sa iba dahil alam mo na mas sasaya sya iba.siguro masakit ung sabihin sayo na makakakita ka pa ng mas mamahalin ka at ibibigay ay love mona mas higit pa. Siguro nga ang bawat tao na dumadaan sa buhay natin ay para ihanda tayo sa tamang tao na magmamahal sa atin ng higit pa. "ITS BETTER TO BE A BUILDER THAN DESTROYER"..ngayon masaya na ako sa taong mas mahal ako ng higit. Ganon yata talaga.
Started in LDR
Fell INLOVE
Made Plans
Made time
Never met
2 months left before we meet and she said le'ts stop this.
No formal goodbyes just unfinished talks
asked for a chance and the answer is NO
maybe i'll just need to be happy even im not the reason why.
i just hope everything will be fine i hope for her endless happiness
nothing be angry about but still im making my promise till i'll be back
even she's not waiting for me anymore. i hope you are happier than before
:)
💔
Awww😥💔💔
Its really hard experiencing LDR seriously!! 😭
Hay naku
ang maging masaya sa taong mahal mo na iba ang mahal ay hindi fullfilment .pero pinaubaya mo na kahit masakit kasi alam mong magiging masya siya dun..napakaemosyonal ng mensahe.
Indeed, you really gave the exact words and perpsective with those lyrics Kuya Darbs. Solid. 👊
- agree ✅
Thank you, Real Talk Darbs for being there whenever I feel down. I feel like I have a bestfriend that telling good advices. Thank you. I don’t know what is the perfect word to describe. But THANK YOU. I’m crying while watching this video. 🥺
I find that the purest of love is just selfless. That whatever makes him/her happy, even if that doesn't include you, you're still willing to give it, allow it.
Here's my opinion, I agree to everything you said except the thing you said here at 2:14 to 3:15.
I mean you can't just love a person without doing anything. It's like you're saying that you love a person 'cause they're handsome. No. Loving come with doing something. Yes, it is doubtful that you also love a person because of what he did good to you but that's building up emotion, that's building up relationship, or that's building up character. Therefor you need to do something because you love them. When we love a person, we sure do things that make them happy and that's one act of "love". I'm always thinking that action builds up "love" and "emotion", 'cause you can just "love" a person directly, you need to build up your self, both of you. It is like saying that "a not so handsome/beautiful" person will not have chance to do effort because of the idea that a person tend to love them because of "what they do" rather than accepting their effort or accepting them in general. You can't just love a person because you "love" that person, it is because of "what" is that person to you and how he manage to love, like, respect, and admire you. You can't just stand there and do nothing and still wanting to be loved. Love is broad and it's hard to specify it by actually saying "you love that person because you love them" but for a fact they did something that make you love them. And I agree to you that what if 1 day he/she will be in an accident and can't do the things you want them to do for you, it implies that you're the one who don't love them and just want attention or whatever. I mean, if you really love that person, you'll still support him and make him happy despite of what tragedy he/she experience. If his/her happiness and smiles make you feel at ease or make you happy, then that's love for me. Therefor you need to do "something" to make them feel love and not just stay by their said and said "I'm here for you, I love you". You need to act also. Acceptance is also the most important form of love and maybe that's the thing you missed to discuss here on this issue. But either way, I still love everything on the video. Kudos !
That's what I'm thinking too!
I dont know what hurts more ..yung pinagpalit ako ng mahal ko sa bestfriend ko o yung kinalimutan ako ng bestfriend ko dahil sa taong mahal ko na minamahal niya rin pala..its very hard but I realized I was just a bridge between the two of you. Hurts deep pero alagaan niyo isa't isa..I'm signing off from the lives of the two of you..god bless😌😌
Awts gege
Stay strong po 😊
@@martinesmomoland9921 😊😊
@@_munchies9264 thank you ..😊
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ang dame kong iyak sa video na to.. im in so much pain right now.. 8yrs kme ng asawa ko pero nagkarelasyon sya sa iba ng wala akong kamalay malay.. ilang yrs ng nasa dibdib ko ang sakit hanggang ngaun andito pa rin ang sakit hindi ko pinapaubaya ang asawa ko s babae nya dahil sobra ko syang mahal khit ilang taon n ang sakit s puso ko 😭😭😭😭.. oo kakayanin kong magpaka martir wag lng mawala ang taong mahal ko sa akin.. ang hirap ipaubaya sa iba yung taong sobra mong minahal.. self torture tong ginagawa kong panonood ng ganitong video.. but i think ito yung best way para ma released ko lahat ng pain ang iiyak n lng ang lahat 😭😭😭😭😭..
I agree sa sinabi mo pre..
yes, it should be "Love someone without any reason at all"... kasi any reasons, whatever it is, will fade through time.
I had this experience actually, long term relationship, I poured everything to keep us intact, I even sacrificed my career just to keep her with me... but after she left the country, just few months after, someone came in, and ruined everything.. I was shocked and cant believe she would betrayed me... I let time to pass and waited for her to be truthful and tell me about the guy.. but instead I was humiliated, mocked and was blocked from all her accounts... I know about the guy's background, I know exactly how to take revenge, the guy has a wife (broken marraige as he claimed), I could file a case, under the law, its concubinage and both of them is guilty of it... I have the evidence etc etc.... but on the last part when I was about to do it, I realized what will be the consequence, my ex will be deported back to our country and all her dreams will be destroyed.... that is something I cant take...
I even message the guy asking him to take good care of her, etc etc... all I received was mockery and more insults.. I was even humiliated to my ex family and friends...
Yeah I agree, about this song, loving someone and giving all yoy have is never a guarantee you will keep that certain someone for the rest of your life... however, things happened because someone else worthy enough of your kindness, faithfulness and loyalty. eventually that certain someone will come in time in a very unexpected time.
GOD prepared Someone better for You Pre
@@jonathansasi2079 yes, this happened to me years ago, I am with someone now 1yr ldr but worked out perfectly so far... and I am even planning to tie a knot soon... yes God do prepare someone better
Magandang balita yan pre! GOD Bless to both of you
@@jonathansasi2079 thanks pre.. :)
..Time will heal the wounds and God will give someone that deserve your love ..GBU!!!
I really love this kind of reaction so pure, you can learn a lot and with wholehearted advice. Make more reaction like these please...
WHEN YOU LOVE HERE ON EARTH.. DISSAPOINTMENT COMES...
ACCEPT.. GRIEVE... AND LOVE AGAIN.❤️
masarap magmahal pero mas masarap kung pareho kyo ng nararamdaman.. paubaya is the hard to do but is the best decision if the guy dont love you anymore
"It better to be a builder than to be a destroyer" ❤ I felt that.
Everything is on God.
One Day he will give us the Right One for us. it was call forever hindi.na tayo mag Papaubaya.
I wish him well everyday, and may he find the happiness that he no longer felt with me. Mahirap but i'm trying and praying to be ok someday 😭. we may struggling today but life must go on.
Don't worry there will come a time that you will meet a person who will truly love for who you are and wants to stay with you forever. Keep on praying before you know it its just in front of you and haven'tseen it because you are still thinking of him. Good luck!
trust the process.
time will come.
and all shall be healed.
Love and Joy will find you again. ❤️❤️❤️
I really don't know why it hits me because I don't have a boyfriend but it still made me cry🤧 Grabe pang ilang ulit ko na to pinanood ang sakit padin🤧
Are you single N available, why not court Moira?
Best reaction I've ever seen. Sobrang iyak ko sa kanta nailabas ko lahat ang sakit pati sa reaction napaiyak ako sobra. Paulit ulit kong pinapanood ang hirap maging matatag. Ang sakit ang hirap bumitaw. Ppno ba mg let go ng ndi ka nsasaktan 😭😭😭😭. Sakit sobra
The perfect answer for the question, "Why do you love me?" is that you don't know, you just loved them.
First, i saw u on tiktok and yes! Real love is selfless. And Yes! It's better to be builder than a destroyer.
This song really hits me. I was getting married to someone i loved, i was 6 months pregnant that time, when he met someone else. They've become gf and bf. I forgave him and still accepts him, because i was also thinking of our baby. But while planning with our wedding i can feel that he no longer was happy with me. I asked him if he was still willing to marry me. And he said "NO" and i said okay I'm letting you go. I talked to the girls and asked if he really loves him and she said YES. At that time it hurts like hell. Na gusto mo nalng matapis na ang lahat na sana panaginio lang ang lahat. Pero hindi eh, kailangan mong harapin, sinabi ko nalng sa girl ayoko maging kontrabida sa love story nila, na may taong nakalaan pa rin sa akin. At sinabi ko sa kanya na mahalin si ex nang todo. At di na ako mangingialam sa kanila kahit ako ang nauna at kahit na may dahilab ako para magstay dahil buntis ako. Mahal ko siya pero d na ako ang mahal😢.
RTIA na yan maam...ung responsibilidad ng tatay ng anak mo pwde mo pa habulin..
@@johnpaulangor5123 oo nga naisip ko rin yon. Kaya lang ayoko na ng gulo. At baka sumikat ako😅. Ang importante naka-move on na. At nakakaya ko pa namn suportahan ang anak namin.
I feel you...
Get your baby's right to his father. Di pwedeng happy na sa iba ba bye na. Pano responsibilidad ba bye na rin? Ang swerte naman ni kuya. Di puro love love may responsibilidad din na tinatwagan at kinukuha.
@@annkris15 I did asked some support before pero Sabi nya he will start business with his gf. And now they are already married and have their own child. Ayoko ng gulo. Nasa sa kanya na yon kung magpapaka-ama cya sa anak namin.
"Pinaubaya mo man siya, meron naman isa na mas deserve ka!"
thanks po! nkagaan ng pkiramdam salamat sa mga inspiring words mo real darbs ramdam ko ung sakit kpg ngmahal ka ng tunay at wagas.
F*CK!! this analysis brought me down to tears!!!! 😭
Omg parang bumalik sa akin ang lahat dati, pinaubaya ko ang taong mahal ko sa iba kasi nakita kung masaya na sya sa iba, masakit halos ikamatay ko noon,at ang masakit pa nakikita ko sila lagi na para bang pinamumukha sakin na sya na ang mahal nya,Anyway past is past masaya na ako ngaun sa taong pinakita kung gaano ako kahalaga. Tama nga ang kasabihan na pag may nawala may papalit na mas worth it na tao.
Virtual Hugs sir Darbs 😭💔
Im out of words to say about this kasi when this song plays lahat ng mga kaibigan ko naalala nila ako kasi totoo ito yung nangyari sa akin . It really hurts po sobra💔
Minsan dadating sa buhay natin na may dadating na Tao pero di pa pala siya and the one pinagtagpo pero di tinadhana pero wag tayo malungkot keep on loving and trust love and God for he really cares and he knows what's best for you, for us just be thankful to meet a person and learn and know God is good and Will not let every thing happen for a purpose Godbless us..
"It's better to be a builder than to be a destroyer" ... _kuya darbs.. Salute to you 🤗😊
Yes Kuya darbs. Masakit cya taggapin but better ikaw yon builder.
"you build a man for another woman"
Yung pangarap niyang pamilya nangyari na sa iba...pero now happy na ako na makita ko siyang masaya..now i'm with someone who choose me,who loved me more than i love him😊
nakita ko lang .. and i think your reactions at mga sinabi mo make me cry dude. i literaly watch this 20x yata and for that? im giving this reaction a BIG LIKE. and click that subscribe button. i love this reaction and i think this is the best reaction of all. thanks dude
Im on the stage in a relationship romantically or not. Mahal ko sya ng walang kondisyon kung dumating man ang time na may iba at masaktan ako i can let him go as long as I see him happy. Pain from the past teach us to handle new relationship to come better than the past
“You build a man for another woman”.
Ouch! 💔 It hits me. Still, feelin’ the pain.
Hoping & praying that this heartache will end soon. 😭
I remembered my Ex to this song he also told me that "Wag Ka niyang papaiyakin at Sana alagaan Ka nya" nung nalaman nyang masaya na ako sa iba but after a half year of breaking up with him 😊 We had a on and off relationship because of third parties. Sa 3yrs Namin tatlong beses din sya nag luko pero I can't blame him maybe because I'm not enough for him but He also can't blame me for breaking up with him officially .akala nya nong nakipag break ako is babalik din ako Kasi nakasanayan nya na which is also hard for me to let go a 3years of being with him pero sobrang toxic na ng relationship Namin that time so since nag aaral pa ako I let go first at naniniwala ako that time na Kami din sa Huli pero Sabi ko sa ngayon Tama na muna and then habang tumatagal I found my worth to my self mas minahal ko sarili ko than anyone else and may dumating na someone. He's Better ❣️ He's been with me when I started my college degree and next year graduating na Kami❣️
And my Ex had a wife na and a daughter 😊 We're okay and his family was still nice to me ❤️