Love these kind of stories. Only women can live with a husband with this kind of dysfunctional issue. If it was the women, the husband would’ve divorced her and the in laws would push him to divorce or marry a second wife.
The largest heart goes to this woman. Intimacy is VERY important and an integral aspect of marriage. He could do other things, orally, manually, toys, if it doesn’t work but it seems like he’s not creative or using his imagination in his issue and she’s very much in denial. That’s what she should demand in return instead of holding it all inside. She was tricked into marriage and she knows it and if the tables were turned - you all know he’d eat other places. This woman deserves respect for being the larger person and loving from her heart and soul.
To the lady in the story, you are absolutely selfless. What beautiful relationship you have established with your deceased husband and in laws! May you be blessed with all that you deserve and more.❤
Wow! That is true love when you can forgo pleasures of the flesh and just love your spouse unconditionally for who he is. Not many can do that and I applaud you for your strength and loyalty until the end.
Zoo rau txhau leeg txhua tus. Tseem ceeb tus viv ncau koj soab zoo kawg. Thaum kawg koj tau lub neeg nyiaj txias muscua koj lub neej tshiab muaj mes tub me nyuam.
S*x is just a bonus for any relationship. To find someone special or a companion to share your life and love is hard. And that's what people fail to see.
To the woman in the story… you are such a selfless person… you deserve the best in life.. los hlub ib tus neej ua nws tsis pom dab tsi zoo li lawm… he’s so grateful for you and so lucky to have someone who loves him endlessly!
How could u build a marriage based on lies? That was selfish of him to do that. He knew what he isn't capable of, yet he trapped u into the cage. You're too kind so u stuck with him. Most women would have left.
I'm sorry but intimacy is a big part of marriage that bond and strengthen a relationship. The man and his parents are selfish and the woman hummmm I don't know if she is too nice or too insecure to be on her own. Sad life and story!!!
Wow! Only women would stay with a men who can’t perform. If it was a women, the men would never stay. And especially the in-laws and his relatives will tell him to go marry someone else! They using all these excuses to convince her to stay. I don’t know if it was a a good or bad thing 🤷♀️
Wow cas yuav hlub neb ua luaj li os ♥️💖❤️😍 thov kom lwm tiam neb muaj hmoo rov qab los sib hlub nawb kom koj tus txiv Tsheej ib tug txiv neej yawg rau koj nawb foom koob hmoov rau never ob leeg os ua rau kuv quaj tag li os koj yog ib tug neeg siab zoo lawm lwm tiam ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag thov kom neb tau sib ntsib kom tau raws txoj kev ntshaw os mog
If he knew he was like that, he should have never involved anyone in his life. Regardless I’m glad you’re big heart enough married him until his dying day.
Sister, he deserved to be loved too! In his case, he needed emotional love from a partner. Can't blame him. Try to put yourself in his shoes, he was sick. He was lucky to have found her.
@@ytv1610 jus bc he deserves to be loved too doesn't give him the right to lie, or doesn't mean he should lie and conceal the truth. Doesn't she deserve the truth from thd beginning, if he truly loves her?
why would a man using the trick of love to entice women to marry him? We need to be honest because marriage is a long long term relationship. past women left him quickly. He should not hide his problems.
Yes! That is a major part of marriage and tricking her by telling her to make promises without the other half of the marriage, that’s malicious. But if you’re creative and have imagination it could work. Yes he definitely has to satisfy her in other ways if he can’t function.
Depression is a serious mental illness. I met someone with depression where they have to take medication, but it doesn't always work. I'm proud of your husband for being so strong til the end.
Cas tsis paub tias poj niam txoj kev cia siab yog dab no es kom txiv neej to tau thiab tsis txhob to txiv neej tai2 heev vim txiv neej tsis paub poj qhov kev nco.
To the man - You should be honest if your down there don’t work. To the woman - you gotta try it first before you marry him. Lol cuz you know forever is a long time.
Nyob zoo o kab lias, niam neej vam, koj lub me sua mas nrov meej nkig nkuav qab zib kawg, peb nyiam mloog koj kawg nawb, kab tsij hais2 tiag2 peb ua hauj lwm thiaj tsi nco nkees
Not sure Not sure about this story don’t know how much truth is in that. Sounds a little bit too good to be true. We are all human beings we have our human needs
SO SAD!! Not many women will do what you do! But only women can do what you do. If it was the other way around, men will say bye bye so fast! Luckily we live in mekas n there R many toys & ways to pleasure a person but there’s nothing better than the real thing. I give you lots of credits for loving n caring for this man!!
tuav tes tas mus li thiab ua zoo tsis yog kev hlub, yog kev lam ua zoo xwb. Tus neeg dag yus, yog tus tsis hlub yus. Yog kev sib hlub tiag, yuav tau qhia txhua yam phem ua ntej sib yuav. He intentionally lied to you. it's not love it's a trick to lock you into his hidden world.
Cov phooj ywg aw kuv hno cov poj nrauj coob tu hai lawm xua coob 3 cov txiv neej ua zoo222 nraug heev ib ces nws tsi muaj khoo zoo 2 ces tau poj niam tsi zoo nkauj no raw li kuv pom coob tu ma cov txiv neej zoo22 neaug tau poj niam tsi zoo nkauj yog cov coob xwb o
You MUST try the person before you marry that person. My cousin dated a girl for THREE YEARS before TRYING to marry her but as they were on their way home and stopped by a hotel she asked if they could "only be together as friends" because she said she doesn't have a LOVE hole. He tried to feel it but didn't find it either. He brought her home and told cov laus. They ended up sending her back. The problem is he dated her for THREE years and knew nothing about her.
Wow tus sister koj mas yog ib tus zoo neeg tiag tiag. Tus Txiv neej twg tau koj mus mas tus ntawv muaj hmoo heev os. Poj niam feem coob ces twb tsis hais ua tsis tau Txiv li koj tus qub Txiv, yog yus ua tsis tau tuab ntws thiab tsis txawj ua ces twb tseem Yuav tso yus tseg. Koj mas yog zoo Poj niam ua neej nrog kev hlub tiag tiag.
Mab Vaj es koj lub npe tiag2 yog Mab Vaj los yog Kab Lia naj yom..... koj sim txhais lo lus tias Kab Lia no rau peb seb koj txhais li cas....raws li kuv to taub mas hu ua Mab Vaj no zoo zog.....hos hu ua Kab Lia no sais ntxim2 luag laid.....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Koj tus txiv mas kuj tsis ua licas tiam sis koj na yog ibtug pojniam uas zoo tiag2 hauv lub qab ntuj no thov muab koj ua tis #1 tsis muaj ibtug pojniam yuav ua tau li koj li os 👍👍👍👍👍.
Your husband knew if he looked for the beautiful women , they would immediately leave once they know he's impotent. He had to find an average or even ugly woman so that they probably won't leave bc he probably felt those kind of women can't get a good looking man. Not saying you're ugly ok? but I'm thinking that was probably his logic. He was very wrong, selfish and dishonest with you. I don't appreciate any kind of secrecy before jumping into any commitment. But he was so lucky with you that even if you're not beautiful on the outside, you're beautiful on the inside, and sadly he felt that life would only be complete if he were married. If only people would realize that that's not all there is to life. You can do soooo many things, meaningful things to help others if you don't have anyone else to tie you down. I'm married, but at times I would like to have the single life so I can be able to go anywhere and help anyone and do meaningful things with purpose. I'm glad that you both had a strong love for one another. I'm sorry he passed, but I'm also happy that you got a chance to have kids.
Sister, you kept your marriage vows and I commend you for it. It’s sad but on the bright side, he couldn’t cheat on you. Just think, some women are married to cheaters and he rather sleep with other women than his wife. Some women are married to men with porn addiction and they also suffer from lack of intimacy. You are not alone and probably luckier than some women.
Love these kind of stories. Only women can live with a husband with this kind of dysfunctional issue. If it was the women, the husband would’ve divorced her and the in laws would push him to divorce or marry a second wife.
The largest heart goes to this woman. Intimacy is VERY important and an integral aspect of marriage. He could do other things, orally, manually, toys, if it doesn’t work but it seems like he’s not creative or using his imagination in his issue and she’s very much in denial. That’s what she should demand in return instead of holding it all inside. She was tricked into marriage and she knows it and if the tables were turned - you all know he’d eat other places. This woman deserves respect for being the larger person and loving from her heart and soul.
He should have been honest with her from the beginning. But, you're amazing for sticking with him.
We’ll even if it doesn’t work, he can stimulate her orally, manually, other things but no creative but a victim in his circumstance.
To the lady in the story, you are absolutely selfless. What beautiful relationship you have established with your deceased husband and in laws! May you be blessed with all that you deserve and more.❤
Wow! That is true love when you can forgo pleasures of the flesh and just love your spouse unconditionally for who he is. Not many can do that and I applaud you for your strength and loyalty until the end.
I believe I can do that.
@@MissPeachie Agree. It’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make for the one I love.
Zoo rau txhau leeg txhua tus. Tseem ceeb tus viv ncau koj soab zoo kawg. Thaum kawg koj tau lub neeg nyiaj txias muscua koj lub neej tshiab muaj mes tub me nyuam.
Such a beautiful story.
What a great love story. Wow
S*x is just a bonus for any relationship. To find someone special or a companion to share your life and love is hard. And that's what people fail to see.
To the woman in the story… you are such a selfless person… you deserve the best in life.. los hlub ib tus neej ua nws tsis pom dab tsi zoo li lawm… he’s so grateful for you and so lucky to have someone who loves him endlessly!
I'm sorry for your loss, you are a beautiful soul, I wouldn't have been able to do what you did. Best wishes to you ❤️
Wow, blessed your heart sister. Love your story 😊
Viv ncaus aw... koj yog 1 tug neeg zoo tshaj plaws li lau...ntshe ntiaj teb no tsuas muaj koj 1 leeg nkawd xwb os...thiaj ua tau li ko nawb
How could u build a marriage based on lies? That was selfish of him to do that. He knew what he isn't capable of, yet he trapped u into the cage. You're too kind so u stuck with him. Most women would have left.
Women like you are rare. He's a lucky man. Cov ua taus taus txivneej los twb nrhiav tsis tau zoo npaum koj os!! God bless!
I'm sorry but intimacy is a big part of marriage that bond and strengthen a relationship. The man and his parents are selfish and the woman hummmm I don't know if she is too nice or too insecure to be on her own. Sad life and story!!!
Lub siab loj li koj thiaj tseem2 yog lub siab nom.
Wow! Only women would stay with a men who can’t perform. If it was a women, the men would never stay. And especially the in-laws and his relatives will tell him to go marry someone else! They using all these excuses to convince her to stay. I don’t know if it was a a good or bad thing 🤷♀️
Wow cas yuav hlub neb ua luaj li os ♥️💖❤️😍 thov kom lwm tiam neb muaj hmoo rov qab los sib hlub nawb kom koj tus txiv Tsheej ib tug txiv neej yawg rau koj nawb foom koob hmoov rau never ob leeg os ua rau kuv quaj tag li os koj yog ib tug neeg siab zoo lawm lwm tiam ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag thov kom neb tau sib ntsib kom tau raws txoj kev ntshaw os mog
You’re a good person
Ob ceg tsis work ces only poj niam thiaj yuav xwb yog tias poj niam tsis work txiv neej yeej tsis yuav ib sim neej.
koj hais yog lawm
Vim pojniam siab zoo Dua
Koj hais yog tshaj plaws li!!
Tus me niam tsev koj siab zoo kawg li. Thov lub ntuj pov hwm koj nawb mog.
Sister, you fulfilled his missing piece of life. He was loved unconditionally by you.
If he knew he was like that, he should have never involved anyone in his life. Regardless I’m glad you’re big heart enough married him until his dying day.
Sister, he deserved to be loved too! In his case, he needed emotional love from a partner. Can't blame him. Try to put yourself in his shoes, he was sick. He was lucky to have found her.
@@ytv1610 TRUE, everybody needs love regardless if u disable, mental, etc. It’s a sad story. No one have control over being born different.
@@ytv1610 jus bc he deserves to be loved too doesn't give him the right to lie, or doesn't mean he should lie and conceal the truth. Doesn't she deserve the truth from thd beginning, if he truly loves her?
Sad story....
Wow. Koj yog ib tug neeg siab zoo tiag tiag. God bless you.
Yog txiv neej ces hais li ko ntag...tab sis yog tu poj niam tsis muaj lub qhov ces lawv twb muab xa ua ntej 3 tag kis lawm os
🤣 twb muaj ib zaj li ntawd lawm. Yuav tau tus hluas nkauj Los ua pojniam no tsis muaj qhov ces muab xa rov qab
true
LOL agrees
Zoo heev !!! Tsis ua cas li, mam li nrhiav qws txob yas Los pab koj xwb Los mas.
why would a man using the trick of love to entice women to marry him? We need to be honest because marriage is a long long term relationship. past women left him quickly. He should not hide his problems.
Yes! That is a major part of marriage and tricking her by telling her to make promises without the other half of the marriage, that’s malicious. But if you’re creative and have imagination it could work. Yes he definitely has to satisfy her in other ways if he can’t function.
Pab hlub thiab pab tu siab tag ib sim neej li os
Depression is a serious mental illness. I met someone with depression where they have to take medication, but it doesn't always work. I'm proud of your husband for being so strong til the end.
Cas tsis paub tias poj niam txoj kev cia siab yog dab no es kom txiv neej to tau thiab tsis txhob to txiv neej tai2 heev vim txiv neej tsis paub poj qhov kev nco.
You have such a good heart.
wow!! thank you sister, for sticking through with your 1st husband no matter what.
That's why you always try before you buy, we live in America.
😅
❤
Why would your location make any difference lol
@@maichang4958 nnñj JB cook no
It’s good to know that you tried before you buy. Lol
To the man - You should be honest if your down there don’t work.
To the woman - you gotta try it first before you marry him. Lol cuz you know forever is a long time.
Maybe tiam tas los he was a txev dev Liam2 rau pojniam e ntuj thiaj tso nws los zoo li lo them nws txoj kev npam.
Koj yog ib tu zoo niam tsev tshaj plawv li os.
According to God's word in heaven there's no husband and wife. Everything there will be perfect. However you will not find it here on earth.
She a good woman
Nyob zoo o kab lias, niam neej vam, koj lub me sua mas nrov meej nkig nkuav qab zib kawg, peb nyiam mloog koj kawg nawb, kab tsij hais2 tiag2 peb ua hauj lwm thiaj tsi nco nkees
Ua tsaug mog
Zoo heev py
Sad if it was the opposite the in laws would tell the son to divorce or go marry a second wife.
You are good woman.we women stick with men..my now diabetic n rarely perform i still stay.your hubby must be depressed loyalty n love hard to find
Not sure Not sure about this story don’t know how much truth is in that. Sounds a little bit too good to be true. We are all human beings we have our human needs
SO SAD!! Not many women will do what you do! But only women can do what you do. If it was the other way around, men will say bye bye so fast!
Luckily we live in mekas n there R many toys & ways to pleasure a person but there’s nothing better than the real thing. I give you lots of credits for loving n caring for this man!!
Wow!
Love is all that matters.
He was so selfish. How can he trap someone into a marriage with dishonesty?
yes, it was totally wrong and unfair.
....Sim tas mam yuav v thiaj tsi .
.....mus doctor lawv puab rau koj ces zoo tshaj tus tuag nawb
Cas tsi qhib thawj hmo thiaj paub qhov khoom ciaj los tsi ciaj naw?
I think he didn't gave his wife the right amount of $100,000. His wife should get 70% of $100,000 not 30%.
koj yog ib tug poj niam zoo heev li naw. yeej tsw muaj leej tws ua tau li koj ua li os yom
Wow koj yog nkauj xwb koj thiaj hlub thiab uv nws vim koj nyiam nws tshaj lawm nrog rau koj lub siab zoo heev os.. nrog koj tu siab uas nws ncaim koj tabsis kuj nrog koj zoo siab tias nws mus los koj kuj rov muaj neej nrog ua luag es muaj tub kis lawm os mog..
The bible mention that there will be men like this in this world, it's meant to be that way.
Koj siab zoo kawg. Kuv ces kawg foob nws kom tis txhas ua li cas ho tsis ws qhias thaum tsis tau yuav. Yuav koj mus txog mam qhias tsis yog neeg zoo
Koj mas siab zoo tiag2
tuav tes tas mus li thiab ua zoo tsis yog kev hlub, yog kev lam ua zoo xwb. Tus neeg dag yus, yog tus tsis hlub yus. Yog kev sib hlub tiag, yuav tau qhia txhua yam phem ua ntej sib yuav. He intentionally lied to you. it's not love it's a trick to lock you into his hidden world.
Ua cas kuv twb nyuam qhuav mloog zaj no tag tom May Vang qhov channel thiab es
Cov phooj ywg aw kuv hno cov poj nrauj coob tu hai lawm xua coob 3 cov txiv neej ua zoo222 nraug heev ib ces nws tsi muaj khoo zoo 2 ces tau poj niam tsi zoo nkauj no raw li kuv pom coob tu ma cov txiv neej zoo22 neaug tau poj niam tsi zoo nkauj yog cov coob xwb o
Yam no tsis yog noj tsau tiam sis yam no yog zoo nyob tsau.
Txog ntawm kev hlub ces yuav tswm muaj qhov zoo nyob tsau thiaj ua tau niam txiv.
Tsis yog lub ntuj npam, yog koj npam
As long as he can fulfill me in other ways then I’m fine with it, lol 😅
Txivneej siabPhem heev lawv zoo li koj tus txiv thiaj nyob zoo2 nyob taus xwb…yog lawv yog txiv neejyawg ces txiv Hmoob yeej noj sab nrauv lawm
You MUST try the person before you marry that person. My cousin dated a girl for THREE YEARS before TRYING to marry her but as they were on their way home and stopped by a hotel she asked if they could "only be together as friends" because she said she doesn't have a LOVE hole. He tried to feel it but didn't find it either. He brought her home and told cov laus. They ended up sending her back. The problem is he dated her for THREE years and knew nothing about her.
What? That’s crazy!
You may sound like an angel but you were wasting your life.
You're so sweet
Sister, get a txiv yau, cuz that's what men would've done if tables were turned.. just saying.
When you shopping, always try it to see if it’s fit you or not lol vim nej cov ntxhais pheej tsis kam sim ua ntej ne
I would have left the first night. Lol
Tsi hais poj niam txiv Ua ntej yuav sib yuav mas yuav Tsum sim muaj sim txaus mas mam yuav neej thiaj kawg ntsis😅😅😅
Its sad
Zaj story nod yog ib zaj kev sib hlub loj loj thiab zoo zoo ua cas muab this lub npe phem ua luaj.
Wow tus sister koj mas yog ib tus zoo neeg tiag tiag. Tus Txiv neej twg tau koj mus mas tus ntawv muaj hmoo heev os. Poj niam feem coob ces twb tsis hais ua tsis tau Txiv li koj tus qub Txiv, yog yus ua tsis tau tuab ntws thiab tsis txawj ua ces twb tseem Yuav tso yus tseg.
Koj mas yog zoo Poj niam ua neej nrog kev hlub tiag tiag.
Test drive before you buy
You mean to be his wife nowonder he's no die from suicide. Very sad 4 you both .you're very kind and beautiful in side
tus mi niam tsev aw, koj ib leeg thiaj li ua tau xwb nawb, kuv tus kheej los yeej ua tsis tau nawj.
Koj ib tug neeg zoo os me niam tais.
Nyuam qhuav haum xwb os. Kuv twb hais tias kom sim kuv no koj tsis kam ne. Tuag tsis tuag.
You have to test drive the car before you buy...but for some of these girls, they test drive every damn car...SMH.
Hahaha cas tsis Sim tas mam yuav naw.
Mekas tsis zoo li ntuj qub qab. Sim ua ntej tas mam yuav twb tsis lig
The way they split the life insurance 🤦🏻♂️
Koj tus txiv yog ib tug neeg siab dub thiab phem tshaj plaws nyob rau tiam neej nrog koj no. Nws twb 100% paub lawm tias nws yuav nyob tsim ntev ua neej mas twb tsis nyog nws tsis txho tuaj yuav koj ua nws tus poj niam. Koj los ruam heev thiab ces koj thiaj yuav nws yam tsis tau deev nws ua ntej tso.
Tsam yog neb hmoov tsi haum xwb NES muaj ib txia se yog tsi haum pas CES tsi tawv li os
Mab Vaj es koj lub npe tiag2 yog Mab Vaj los yog Kab Lia naj yom..... koj sim txhais lo lus tias Kab Lia no rau peb seb koj txhais li cas....raws li kuv to taub mas hu ua Mab Vaj no zoo zog.....hos hu ua Kab Lia no sais ntxim2 luag laid.....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My auntie still wants to marry my uncle even though he's going to die. They marry for maybe 10 or more yrs before he passed.
Koj tus txiv mas kuj tsis ua licas tiam sis koj na yog ibtug pojniam uas zoo tiag2 hauv lub qab ntuj no thov muab koj ua tis #1 tsis muaj ibtug pojniam yuav ua tau li koj li os 👍👍👍👍👍.
Twb nrog tsis taus poj niam ho yuav thab yuav ua ab tsi os
He's lying, he wouldn't marry any woman with the woman part. She's only saying he would because he's in that shoe.
Your husband knew if he looked for the beautiful women , they would immediately leave once they know he's impotent. He had to find an average or even ugly woman so that they probably won't leave bc he probably felt those kind of women can't get a good looking man. Not saying you're ugly ok? but I'm thinking that was probably his logic. He was very wrong, selfish and dishonest with you. I don't appreciate any kind of secrecy before jumping into any commitment. But he was so lucky with you that even if you're not beautiful on the outside, you're beautiful on the inside, and sadly he felt that life would only be complete if he were married. If only people would realize that that's not all there is to life. You can do soooo many things, meaningful things to help others if you don't have anyone else to tie you down. I'm married, but at times I would like to have the single life so I can be able to go anywhere and help anyone and do meaningful things with purpose. I'm glad that you both had a strong love for one another. I'm sorry he passed, but I'm also happy that you got a chance to have kids.
Zaj no ces pab tsis tau li os..thib 1
But I needed buck too!
Sister, you kept your marriage vows and I commend you for it. It’s sad but on the bright side, he couldn’t cheat on you. Just think, some women are married to cheaters and he rather sleep with other women than his wife. Some women are married to men with porn addiction and they also suffer from lack of intimacy. You are not alone and probably luckier than some women.
He's a freak!
What a story. Lol
Tus no thiaj tsis txawj ua lub El Cheater. 😆
I love you but I need a txiv yau to give me babies.
Yog koj zoo li koj tus txiv ua tsis tau noamtxiv ces nws twb tsis yuav koj lawm os
Txoj hmoov...smh!!
Cas es nplaig tsis ntxhib li mas..lol
Let me be your secret lover.
Lols 😂 no working no honey 🤣 😂 😅 🙃