MAKE A WARDROBE YOU ACTUALLY WEAR | How to figure out your me-made style
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- Like it or not, the sewing and knitting communities are full of trends. While these can be fun and inspiring, they can also distract us from really understanding our me-made style. In today's video, I'm giving you my secrets for distancing yourself from outside influences, so you end up with an inspiring, wearable handmade wardrobe.
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"Do you want a beige linen jumpsuit, or do you want to spend more time outside?"
Cackled. Instant sub.
I had a mindset change recently when it comes to linen: I now consider linen to be a luxury fiber, so letting the wrinkles show is a way of broadcasting "Yeah, I'm wearing 100% linen"
I think, especially for casual wear, letting your linen show it's character - not torturing it to be perfectly flat - that's beautiful.
I wear a mostly linen wardrobe and I hang pieces up right out of the dryer, only rarely touching up with an iron. Good linen gets softer and softer and has a lovely easy texture. I wear loose fitting Lagenlook pieces so this works for me. I wouldn't recommend wash and wear linen for very fitted clothes though.
You have freed me
As an older woman (70’s) I know my style but I still find it difficult to walk away from the lovely styles which I won’t end up wearing. One trick I have is to cover the model’s face when I’m looking at fashion so that I’m not seduced by the person I’d like to be. Also, I use my existing patterns where possible to introduce some contemporary twists to the clothes I make.❤ Helen
Love this. I, too, am 70 and often have a difficult time deciding if my personal style is my fantasy self style or vice versa. I gravitate toward classic, old money esthetic but, gee, that 70's California Dreamin' esthetic often grabs me unaware. My life style is rural, mostly stay at home and only "dress up" for church or "town days". I generally survive in T-shirts and shorts/jeans, plus being a minimalist at heart, often talk myself out of actually making a larger wardrobe because it just seems so wasteful. I enjoy a good DIY remake from a thrifted item but, unfortunately, because of where I live, thrift stores carry more Polyester than linen, cotton, and rayon, my preferred fabrics. Sigh. Add in champagne taste on a plain water budget plus designing for a "mature" woman's body rather than sweet 16 and there you go.
As a Canadian who actually lives close to a babbling brook, I promise that a beige linen jumpsuit is possibly the worst thing to wear in that situation. Thank you for a great video with wonderful advice!
This made me lol. Am imagining spending my day in a muddy, wet linen jumpsuit now 😅
I was taught in the 70s to look at the line drawings for patterns, not the fabrications. Just focusing on those will keep you out of a lot of trouble. Spend some time understanding what you feel most comfortable wearing, what shapes you like and make you feel best. Then find patterns that will help you make those.
Very good advice, thank you! I’ve taken this onboard! 💐
I do that too. Great advice.
This is so true!! Not only will you not get sucked into making things that don't suit you, I've also sometimes been turned off by patterns because the photo used fabric I didn't like. Once you imagine the line drawing with different fabric, you can definitely be more objective.
I would love it if pattern companies sold a basic block with expansion packs for sleeves, skirts, collars, trouser variations, etc suitable for a specific type (or types) of fabric. Great video!
That's a great idea! I think some of the vintage brands have these measurement based systems (Lutterloh pops up often on Etsy) but I've never tried them. There is a French pattern designer, Charlotte Jaubert, who has some modular dress and skirt designs if you're interested!
That would be a great idea!😅
They do to some extent. You can a pattern that just has different sleeves. Balloon sleeves, puff sleeves. Flutter sleeves, leg of lamb sleeves. You can swap out a sleeve for the one you want easily.
Mimi G just released a sewing book on how to make humdreds of variations on five basic garments.
That would be heaven!
I completely agree with what you said. It is very important to sew what works for our lifestyle not because of what social media wants to sell us.
It's amazing how intense the trends can be, even for creatives!
I agree with everything you said in this video- When I was younger I picked out a pattern, bought material for the pattern, then sewed the garment , then wore it. I think online bargain shopping for fabric is too easy- I have to remind myself that I need to do more sewing less fabric/pattern buying.
It's so hard sometimes! I actually find it's even harder when I have less time to sew, because I then miss it and spend more time online looking at fabrics 😅
Thank you for finally speaking sense to fashion. One of this country’s biggest landfill problems is “fabric”. Many of todays high tech fabrics take decades to decompose. Do one better than the “fashionistas”…if you sew, please recycle or refashion your garments.
Because I garden, I only use cotton or wool that compost after I wear, use as cleaning rags. Now I am looking at undyed, natural fabrics, the dye industry is so toxic. I have experimented with natural dyes, and love the softer colors. I have a bolt of cotton on order. Come winter a bolt of wool!
I entertain myself ;)
I am having such a mom moment! I remember her saying once “oh, there’s the flour sack with a string tied around the middle pattern again.” As an experienced sewist, she knew exactly what she was looking at when she looked at new patterns. And now when I saw that rainbow looking check thing, I just laughed because… Mom made me a pantsuit out of that kind of fabric back in the 70s! I can’t believe it took me until I’m in my 60s to actually start trying to sew my own clothes again. (I actually made wearable bathing suits, jumpsuits, skirts, Simple dresses back in the day, and my mom created the things with more detail, like perfectly fitting bodices on sundresses from vogue patterns, buttons hooked onto garments with tiny loops of fabric, perfectly scalloped edges on Sunday school dresses, elastic-shirred bodices, etc.). How I wish she had lived longer and that I could have felt like I could’ve learned those things as well.
As someone who has always aspired to wear a certain period of historically inspired clothing (and being an older woman who definitely fits the plus size range) I have finally come to a life changing conclusion. Simply put "Life is too short to wear clothes you don't love." Given that I have started spinning the fiber I will weave into the cloth that will be sewed into the first piece of my new wardrobe.
This is so impressive to me! Not only is it amazing to have learned all those skills, you'll be so connected to that garment because you had a role in so many stages of its creation 👏🏾
Steph, this is the first vid i have seen from you. You just popped up in my feed and i really loved your message. It is one i have been feeling for a while. I am tired of influencers showing me more stuff to buy when i don’t really really like it. I really appreciated you helping your audience to understand their own unique style! I am a boho girl. I am tired of all the trends that really do not speak to me. I do sew, but i have not sewn clothing for a long time. I have refashioned many times though. I like clothing that actually fits and something interesting such as beading or embroidery.
I am now a new subscriber! Thanks!
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
Such an intelligent attitude about something that’s passionate… logic and heart don’t always come together in the same conversation.
Your beige linen jumpsuit comment got yourself another subscriber 😂
Thank you so much for this video! It’s one of the best things I’ve seen so far, and I think you’ve saved me from making a foolish and expensive purchase just this morning! I’m 65 and I’ve been sewing basically all my life-I should know better, but still, when I see something again and again and AGAIN, on the Instagram and the UA-cam I can find it hard to resist. I’m a short, busty, old lady who has NEVER liked her belly-do I really need the Saguaro Set? (No shade, it’s lovely on other people.) I’m going to watch this video every time I’m tempted to buy something. I’m a slow learner. 😉
So glad you liked it! And I hear you on that pattern. It's SO cute but I know that it's not for me, weatherwise and lifestyle-wise. I'm sure you'll see the perfect pattern soon ❤️
What is the saguaro set?
haha, I am in the same boat as you and also felt a little obligated to love the Saguaro Set, it is simply too boxy a cut for me and would not flatter imo. I am planning on drafting a template for clothes from ones I've bought and love, for me that is the same level of difficulty as trying to follow a pattern . It doesn't need to be amazing, it just has to get me working on my goals and what skills I'll need to do the things I want to.
@@lynnleipold2617it's the Friday Pattern company set. Look them up, they are an indie sewing pattern company. And I just fell for it and have it on my list, now I'm thinking did I make a mistake 😢
You're so right about really thinking about what we're creating! When I first started sewing I was so excited and just went mad and made tons of stuff that I've not really worn! After a few of these projects I realized that I had to make a choice. If I wanted to have lots of clothes quickly, I could just walk into any store and buy stuff and get rid of it after a few wears. On reflection, I figured out that I wanted to have unique items that I would wear over and over again, but to do that I had to really start thinking and planning. I'm so glad I took that step back to consider what I really wanted. It means that I can really invest the time into each piece I make to add in those extra details (embroidery, a bit of beading, hand finishing, etc.) that can make all the difference between a so-so-wear-a-couple-of-times-and-forget-about-it garment and something that I'm so proud of that I am more than happy to tell folks I made it myself!
I hadn't included the hand finishing point but it's SUCH a good one. A little embroidery or beadwork can really turn something from "nice dress" to "truly one of a kind". Definitely something I want to incorporate more of!
This is such a good point. I think I'm on a craze of creating quantity over quality, but I also think it's may be a process of learning, the technics and the Ina and outs of the craft, and once you have enough knowledge you can actually sit down and analyze. So many good advices on hand made wardrobe start with "analyze your wardrobe you wear already" and I have no idea how to do that. Things that I have I'm not a big fan of, they don't bring me much joy, so finding "t-shirt that you truly like from your closet" to copy later with hand made touch is a complex issue on its own :)
@@slastenushkaslast3402 I think what you mentioned also pushed me to make in a frenzy as well. I wanted to learn all the techniques and I wanted to learn them right now! Now that I'm carefully considering what I want to make, I can choose projects that include techniques I want to learn. For example, I wanted to learn smocking so I'm currently working on making a traditional English smock with embroidery and smocking. It's taking ages, but it will be worth it in the end and I will have another skill (or two) that I've added to my arsenal. As for the whole analysing your wardrobe thing - I'm in the same position as you. I'm pretty much a jeans and t-shirt girl, but I've been taking stock of what things really draw me in and items I really find beautiful - but this also leads back to the point made in the video about being careful to be sure that you're really drawn to the clothing being shown and not the setting/lifestyle. It's so shockingly easy to get the two mixed up.
As a brand new sewist who hasn't even started on a wardrobe yet, I really enjoyed this video and the advice and views you've offered. I'm also a larger bodied 53 year old woman who's lived much of my life with pretty limited options when it comes to clothing. So, when I find something I really like, I'll buy several colors/patterns of that thing. I've never paid much attention to trends, because I was often left out of them as a teenager and young adult... trendy things that fit me were nonexistent. As I've started following sewists on Instagram, I've noticed that some patterns are made by just about everyone, and I can see how people get caught up in wanting to make that thing, too. What's been particularly interesting to me is seeing people in bodies similar to mine wearing things I never would have considered for myself even a year ago, and they look good, and I wonder if those things might work for me. As I take my baby steps forward to being ready to tackle making garments for myself, videos like these are helpful. It's good to be reminded of fomo, to take a breath and figure out what it is that's actually appealing about a particular image or aesthetic. I know, for instance, that I want to find some good solid basic pieces that I feel good in... tops that have sleeves that I like, for instance. I've never worn a lot of dresses, but I see so many online these days that I really like, and wonder if I'd wear them if I had them. One of the reasons I haven't worn dresses much, I think, is because of things like length, sleeve preferences, and fabric/color options. With the control that sewing should give me over those things, maybe I'll find I enjoy dresses, or maybe I'll discover that they're still not something I reach for. I'm in that place where I want to make all. the. things. even though I've hardly made anything yet, but visions of patterns are dancing in my head. I've got a lot to learn about sewing, and some things to learn about myself and what I actually like, I think. And, I much appreciate the things you've given me to ponder while still at the beginning of this new adventure.
Yes, sewing let's you pick your sleeves, color, fabric, etc. I had similar issues not finding RTW options that fit me. I hope you find a simple dress pattern to start your sewing journey. Once you find a silhouette that suits you, you can go from there.
Thanks so much for sharing this! It's a very relatable feeling. I think you're absolutely spot on that social media gives us such a fun opportunity to expand our views of styles which may work for us, but the level of inspiration definitely can be overwhelming. I hope you keep experimenting (sewing should be fun!) and find the silhouettes and construction techniques that you enjoy. Let me know if any recommendations are useful!
Apparently what I needed in order for dresses and skirts to be something I reach for, was pockets.
I spent years telling myself skirts were impractical, long after there was any remote likelihood of spontaneous tree climbing.
I can appreciate lots of what you have said. I was bullied at school for being short and skinny, nothing trendy fitted me and my Mum couldn't afford it anyway. Now at 56yo, 5ft 5" and 7st 7lbs I'm having a good look at my wardrobe. Partly due to middle age and partly due to a change in climate (moving to somewhere very cold!) and partly due to a change in lifestyle from professional to mostly retired with occasional care assistance to my aging community.
I spend most of my time in jeans because I can't find warm, comfortable trousers, so here I'm looking for a relaxed pattern to make in wool. And I'd like to wear dresses that are a comfortable fit and will accommodate tights, thermals or thigh/ knee length t shirt to act as a petticoat extra layer, for this I have chosen the Hinterland dress, all other patterns I choose Tilly and the Buttons patterns from her 2 last books (these also include real models).
I think I'm right in saying that if you go onto the Minerva website and type in 'Hinterland dress' (for example) you will see what other seamstresses have made and ha ks made to personalise the clothes, I find that really useful.
Was great to read your comments, best wishes with your sewing journey, enjoy it, it is liberating xx
Tip: go to a nice store and try on things like mad. You’ll soon find what looks best on you.
UA-cam just blessed me with this video. It's all solid advice!
Also, I'm tired of the block-y style. It's all so cute, but I hate wearing it.
Amen . Be yourself
I would love to see the European pattern companies, that's a great idea. I vibe with all these thoughts and have found it helpful to repeat outloud a mantra for every time I feel influenced by garments I know I won't wear. "Nope. I don't wear jumpsuits. Nope. I don't wear spaghetti straps" etc.
I really can't think of anything to say that hasn't been already covered in the comments here, but I'm a huge fan of your clarity and genuineness on this topic! Looking forward to more from you-- thank you for your work!
This is so kind- thank you! I'm glad it's resonating with people and not coming off snarky or shame-y
You hit the nail on the head with this one. I’m on Zoom all day so from the waist up, I’m dressed professionally so I focus on making tops/blouses. And I prefer natural fabrics and blends. The bottoms need to be comfy. I just followed those hashtags and would love if you shared more!
This is EXACTLY the video I was looking for! I, too, have tons of clothes and nothing to wear - partially because I also love pattern - and partially because I recently gained weight due to menopause and COVID. I am learning to sew and have been looking for some guidance on creating a cohesive wardrobe that wasn't "make everything beige, black, and white, and go buy a trenchcoat". Thank you!!!
You can do it!! Capsule wardrobes can still be colourful. Hope you create things that you love ❤️
Hahaha I love that. I feel like someone was influencing me to buy a trench coat this season :) you know I learned today that all figures are amazing it's just the clothes that is wrong. It's not that it's a groundbreaking truth that I've never near before, but yet again I went through stores and malls trying to find smth good to wear and couldn't cause I've been trying the wrong clothes :)
@@slastenushkaslast3402 Oh my gosh, this is me exactly. I even bought a trench coat. I'm definitely making some changes...lol...this has been a real eye opener.
This is the first time I’ve seen one of your videos. I so appreciate your clear, concise approach to sharing your ideas. You come across authentic and professional. In my opinion, you’ve raised the bar. I’m subscribing! I do not have Instagram because I know that it would suck me in. I’m fairly confident in my style and really try to stick with that, but there have definitely been some mistakes along the way…looking at you, poofy sleeves that won’t fit under any blazer or sweater😂
A. Thank you so much for your kind words and B. ABSOLUTELY YES I hate stuffing balloon sleeves under a coat in the winter
Amen!
"Do you really want those clothes, or do you just want to spend more time outside?" 😂 I find pinterest a great help for this tendency. I dump all the cozy cottagecore pics in a board, then scan through later to try and discern a specific element im attracted to. Saves time and money! Speaking of cottagecore and linen, lol i actually love the chill look of slightly wrinkled linen hung up damp after a few minutes in the dryer. I do choose patterns that will work for that look, no button-down shirts with pointed collars, etc.
I also try to figure out and follow hashtags in languages i don't know, i've found some really inspiring creators that way 😍 Another great inspiration is following vintage clothing sellers. Modern styling for unique cuts of clothing ❤
That was line that resonated with me too!!
So glad this resonated with you! And that's a great tip on linen, both re: the dryer and the pattern choices! Would love some recommendations on your fave international creators!
You randomly popped up as a rec, but I’ve thumbed up based on the title and thumbnail caption alone. Now let me watch the video.
This is such an uplifting video. I thought it was just me seeing the same Indie companies producing similar garments and then dozens of UA-camrs raving about them and then recreating them. It’s all so predictable. Many of the designs don’t suit many people and yet they still make them (very well and in beautiful fabric). The ‘Mimi G Make it yours’ book looks interesting and allows/encourages individual changes to suit individuals and their lifestyles. But your vintage inspiring books also make a lot of sense. Great vlog - thanks again
Thank you so much! And agree with you on the Mimi G book- I really feel like she's leading the charge on putting out varied and interesting designs.
Great video. It's so easy to conflate attraction to a lifestyle with liking the actual clothes.❤
I realised I don't actually like much of the fashionable clothing so I subbed to a lot of vintage style sewists or ones who draft their own patterns. I learnt to draft myself and have been doing that for about a year now. I tend to get coordinating colours/think about how my garments fit together and where I would wear them. They all need to be practical/comfy to wear and something I would wear several times (and they need to last).
I go about fabric selection the same way - go mad with dresses of whatever pattern/colour I like, trousers neutral colours no pattern, t-shirts must match the trousers (at least half of them) and be a good variety of f.e sleeve length, collar style. Completely agree on the maintenance of them as well, I won't hand wash so everything needs to be machine washable for me.
Im still learning in my late 50s. I worked in the beauty industry and had to wear really nice clothes, and high heels. After the recession of 08, I started nursing school and working in Hospice care. Now, I'm disabled and stay home. It's so hard for me NOT to buy those beautiful clothes I used to wear. I'd like a uniform to wear daily but I want a beautiful wardrobe I want to love to wear. So hard to decide.
Very helpful! This could explain why I just can't get myself to sew this giant three tiered dress with big puffy sleeves that I know would look really ridiculous on me. I know in the back of my mind that when I finish it I'm going to put it on and go oh my God what was I thinking? And loads of linen I was going to use!
I made one and I looked like a wedding cake 😂
"Do you want a beige linen jumpsuit or do you want to spend more time outside?" I feel so attacked, but like really gently attacked 😂😂😂. Social media and posting on social media makes it difficult to separate what I want vs what I want to post. Great video, well thought out!
Haha just know the attack is always with love 😘
For me, I always get sucked in when it's a sort of bohemian girl at a farmers market. She's putting kale into her worn burlap bag while I scroll Instagram and eat cheese crisps 🌚
I’m a new sewist. I started sewing because I couldn’t afford to buy clothes to wear in decent fabric. 🇨🇦 I’m on my third dress. Great advice. Thx
We'll said! I was feeling really overwhelmed from following fabric stores on social media and ended up buying things I wouldn't normally.
I've set myself a no but on fabric this summer and I've been feeling really good about using what I already have, making the projects I had wanted to do but hadn't gotten around to. I'm thinking of buying a small sketchbook so I can draw my ideas for garments I want to have.
Love this video! As a 60+ retiree who does caregiving for hubby, mom, sister and grandkids, my lifestyle does not require couture clothing. My lifestyle leans toward jeans and sweatshirts or knit tops. Comfort over style, yes, but I still love to sew new things that make me feel good when I wear them.❤
I retired and got rid of 90% of my wardrobe. Lost 2 dress sizes and spent time taking in everything.
After a couple years living in sweats and creating a food forest... I sure miss fully lined suits.
I didn't even know what I want to wear or what size I need. Ordered jeans that fit and look so much better, ordered another pair. Went to the thrift store and found one casual button up blouse, a simple summer shift dress, and a gauzy layered summer dress... that FIT. My new patterns.
I have been watching influences, but I am not going to Paris in the spring, I am working in my food forest! Ocassional dinners out, grocery shopping, post office, I only need a couple outfits for "town".
I got 4 new Jean shorts and hiking boots for the forest.
This has taken me six months! Total lifestyle change, and you are the only one online which is practical about clothing. 69 is not 20-something and tromping in a mountain food forest is not cruising the mall.
Wow, this really sounds like a huge life change and a ton of hard work. I find food forests really fascinating- I'm jealous! I hope you are reaping the rewards this summer 🌞
@@StephSewn It is a huge life change that I love. It is a native edibles food forest, so I study a lot. I pick a few seeds within a mile or three and bring them home to plant. Sometimes I root cuttings. I prepare weird natives for dinner ;) I walkabout to see what shows up, since birds contribute, too. Mostly I identify and encourage. Last year I built a mushroom bed and this spring I got 2 bitty mushrooms, yay! I can feed myself and family and wildlife.
As you can imagine, I haven't attended to my wardrobe. Ordered a soft jacket pattern, and will fully line it. Maybe with a bright print. Looks like I will have softer, draped dresses with blouses or jackets over top. Less structured than my old work suits.
That is the plan so far.
Love your tip on searching in other languages.
Well agree with all your tips, but that one is unique
I really enjoyed this item. I too find the online sewing and knitting communities can be quite repetitive and boring. Everyone is making the same thing. Example - top down knitting - how many yoked, raglan sleeved sweaters can you have. And the loose tiered dresses are not attractive. So saying, I have learned so much from all these contributors. Seeing what other people are wearing and making allows me to be better at selecting what I like and what will suit me. I am going to subscribe.
So I got sucked into the big puffy sleeved blouse patterns… made about five until I realised that I almost always have to wear a jacket when I leave the house (I live Scotland) and when I remove said jacket my once gorgeous puff sleeves are sad, crushed, deflated droopy messes hanging off each shoulder 🙈. Great video, I’m definitely giving more thought to what suits me and the climate I live in! X
I have never made a garment from scratch (yet), but my sewing curiosity comes more from getting to mend, upcycle or/and increase the size (lenght, width, circumference?) Of an item already own. And while following mending videos that look easy enough to do, I realised it would be useful to understand how a garment is made from scratch, so (I thought) I could reverse the process in a garment that already exists. And UA-cam suggested your video. So here I am. Thank you for showing me that making my own clothes will also have its challenges like (not just technical ones, as of assembling properly, which will be my case) choosing a pattern and a material that will have longevity on my wardrobe. And the tip about following hashtags in other languages was brilliant! Fortunately I also speak Spanish, so I can figure things out from another Latin based language, but for me... now I'll look for Scandinavian sort of hashtags as I love their point of view. Thank you for making it easy, guilt free by showing examples of what not to do and why, and keep sharing your discoveries. You have a new subscriber today. 🙂
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Welcome to the sewing party 🥰
I just love the guard rails ,I will be adopting these. Thank you ❤
I got a tip on linen from a guy Online, he wears it all the time in Italy. Very casual linen. I tried it on not just my linen pants but on pretty much all of my pants that I want to keep out of the dryer as much as possible. Just hang up the pants from the hem, and attach a heavy clip hanger as a wait at the other end. Let it dry. (I often do a cold tumble briefly to knock out a lot of the wrinkles before hanging, and I keep a little table top fan in my laundry room to gently blow on the garments that are hanging there. I do this with most of my clothes, actually, it’s just that I only add weights to the pants. It’s a little extra time to make sure I’m available to hang things immediately, but they go straight from the laundry room to the closet on the hangers that they will live on. The velvety surface of the hangers keeps the shoulders exactly where I want them. I love this time saver.
Ooo have never heard of this- will give it a go!
Could you make a video talking about international pattern makers or sewists? I am interested to learn more.
Coming up soon, starting with French pattern designers 😊
I’ve learned to appreciate the ubiquity of certain styles. Once you find a pattern company which fits you with a minimum of alterations, it’s nice you can find the style you like, even if every other company has the same style.
This is so true. Once you know a designers basic block fits you, taking chances on their other patterns is definitely easier!
Thankyou, I found this extremely helpful. Instead of daydreaming the background of fields of flowers when I'm wearing the pattern they are presenting I'll be more realistic on everyday reality life and really study the pattern. Same with fabrics.
Yes yes yes. For me, I need to TRY lots of patterns and relearn what actually looks good on me (dresses for curvy ladies, i.e., 1940s style) versus what my eye naturally goes to (Japanese minimalist boxy fashion) and what feels comfortable versus fashionable. I recently made a dress that I didn't think would be that flattering, intending it to be a nightgown. But I love it so much I have a nightgown in one fabric and now a summer dress in a different fabric. And imho when I really get the FIT right (muslin muslin muslin) suddenly I feel fab in my handmade clothes.
I love when those pleasant surprises happen! Can I ask what pattern this was?
@@StephSewn Yes! Closet Core Charlie Caftan pattern, View C!
This all makes so much sense. Thank you!
Most important 'trend" advice I've heard thank you. And have fallen prey to all of them lol, the latest was the mohair strand added in when I was just a beginner knitter and can't even wear sweaters in my climate.
Oh nooo! Honestly it happens to all of us, but I'm sure it must be frustrating to see your creations going unused.
Well done….classic with a twist!!!🎉
You are so right, It is easy to be confused and led astray into style paralysis. I am still discovering my style, and sometimes what i really like to wear is boring. . Still, there is a lot of duplication.
Yes, totally agree. Everything comes back in time.
Wow. This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you for the perspective ❤
I LOVE deer & doe patterns. Not sure where they come from, but my favourite fabric shop here in Nantes sells them, and I love the fit (not being model thin, I find them to be more inclusive). Also, I loved your Nordic patterns videos. Stunning!
This was sooooo needed. Thank you!
I got sucked into sewing trending indie patterns that absolutely are not my style (too many prints, ruffles, and too many tiers) - what i do love is the The Assembly Line aesthetic of clean lines and minimalism in beautiful plain fabrics. Now i have adopted a technique thatI never understood when i was younger - my grandma and mum used to drag me around the shops (with a toy shop stop of course) to try on the new trends to see what suited/didn't suit their style, and what shapes or patterns went with core pieces in their wardrobe (which they would already be wearing to go shopping in), then take those ideas and sew them up at home. At the time I think they were subscribed to the Japanese "Lady Boutique" magazines where they had 1/8 scale patterns and you had to draft your own pattern from interpreting the tiny diagrams. Ah such fond memories, and such a handy trick that didn't occur to me for some reason!
Thank you for your video.
Personally i dont follow trends. I have sewing magazines and i try to make as much as possible those patterns instead of buying patterns.
I wrote down what kind of clothes i like to wear and then search for patterns in my own stash. If i don't have it, i will buy the pattern.
For years i have been searching for my own style but it has become clear to me that i already have my own style. Especially when people compliment me on what i am wearing. Now that i am more confident of wearing the clothes that fit and suit me best i dare to experiment with necklaces, bracelets and shoes and stuff, and my gosh it is fun!
I also think that there are too many trends going on that it doesnt matter what you wear.
Just wear whatever you like and makes you feel good, your own style is your trend😉
I'd love to know which sewing magazines you like?
I smashed the subscribe button when you suggested following hashtags in other languages. Love love love seeing international awareness especially in my sewing spaces which are often dominated by Americans.
It is SO important. I also am noticing an unfortunate trend of people applying American (or Canadian or UK) standards to everyone. I recently saw a brand new Swedish pattern designer get absolutely SHREDDED on Instagram for not offering a fully inclusive size range, and then she wasn't able to immediately and coherently explain her decision in English. Comments like "these patterns are not for real bodies" as if the sizing landscape in Sweden is exactly the same as the US. Even as someone who is sized out of her current range, it was just really sad to see the level of judgement.
I'm so glad I found your channel, this video is very helpful!
Totally agree!
I LOVE your "Rules". Very practical😊
Fab video, thank you!
I just found your channel and really appreciate your perspective! I have been on a journey to sew my own wardrobe and discover what I like to wear. I have a lot of patterns that I have procured myself or that were passed on to me from my grandma. I find that I'm learning to see the parts of the pattern I like and then pattern hack them where they need adjusting to better fit my style and needs. I like the part of the video where you encouraged us to try to ID what you actually like in those inspo pictures. I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos!
love the fabric in the background! I'm a fabric addict :)
totally agree
thankyou
Excellent advice!
Thanks! I’m taking the leap into sewing my own wardrobe and this is the exact type of video I was looking for. Subscribed!
Love this video! Exactly what i needed to ear!
Love this video! My FOMO is beautiful fabric, but working on that, determined to make wearable clothes I can wear in my everyday life!
Great video! Thank you for the tips. Practical is appreciated.
Great video! I completely agree with your points. I think having a focus on wearable and practical things for your *actual* life frees you up to occasionally experiment with trends that speak to you, without the pressure of trying to keep up with everything that's coming out.
I also think it's important not to be ashamed of what you make/wear if it happens to be on trend at the moment. I definitely gravitate towards the "dark academia" style as it completely fits with a lot of the clothes that I have loved over the years, yet I've still found myself questioning if I should make certain things because it might look like I'm jumping on a bandwagon*. Which is stupid. I did make a conscious effort a while ago to list things I actually wanted/needed in my wardrobe which, among many benefits, helped me to focus a bit on styles I found wearable and not get overwhelmed by the 95762935 tiered dresses and milkmaid style crop tops.
*Though at the speed I sew I'm pretty sure most of the stuff will be pleasantly dated by the time I get to it 😅
I think this is such a great point! The intensity with which a trend can come on can really make a person feel like rejecting something they've loved for years. I've heard people say similar things about wanting to make the same patterns over and over. I sometimes feel that way, especially when I'm tryin to use social media more. But as long as the maker is happy, that's all that should matter!
Also lol'ing because that is the EXACT number of tiered dresses and milkmaid crop tops that have been released 😅
@@StephSewn Exactly! Now I'm off to make more poofy sleeved shirts and sweater vests...
These are all great things to think about. I especially like what you were talking about with separating the garment from the pretty photo that it's in.
I’m currently hating most of my wardrobe and this (along with similar video from Mariah Pattie) is going to make my rebuild so much better
Thank very insightful.
Really great tips in the video, thank you. Also, I’d be so here for your French pattern reviews I’m intrigued!
Totally agree, this is such good advice! I’m definitely guilty of following trends- I fell for the bulky, boxy knitting patterns too, and then was seduced by the speed I could knit one up… I made 3 and don’t wear any of them because of the pilling, shedding and the fact they’re too warm to wear unless it’s really cold and they’re too bulky to wear under a coat… they have been in vacuum sealed bags for 3 years now, I need to let go! I particularly like your advice on separating the style from the lifestyle, I need to keep that in mind. However, I hate ironing (beyond pressing whilst I sew) and yet most of my wardrobe is linen… but I still don’t bother ironing it- I just embrace the “texture” 😂 great video, thank you!
Yes I love this! Lived in linen is beautiful ❤️
Also I hear you on the warmth as well. Those very thick sweaters just aren't practical for the weather where I live too. Especially when it randomly rains!
Also need to point out that you're totally one of my Instagram crushes and this comment made my day 🥰
@@StephSewn aww thank you, back at ya! 🫶
I love how concise and clear you are. I have been very mindful to sew things I will actually wear because I don't want to waste all the time and energy only to set the project aside. My wardrobe has been quickly wearing out, so my main sewing motivation is replacing my day-to-day clothes which means a lot of basics. I also know which colors and fabrics I like and stick to those. And I do end up wearing them! I really love the suggestion to follow hashtags in languages other than English.
👍great ideas on where to find new inspiration!! Thanks for this video
Such an excellent video! - As much as inspiration is important, it is so true that taking a step back from what we are exposed to is essential- I recently purged a lot of patterns that I know I am not interested in making again, and realised what a waste of money that was. I have enough excellent patterns that fit me great and that I can play with for different versions and styles. Not buying print fabric anymore, polyester knits etc that I wouldn’t buy in the rtw. My exploration time as a beginner sewist is over, and now I am working on making a good wardrobe- and that mean to go slower and wait before getting anything (fabric/pattern) new ;))
Love this video and especially the great tip on searching non English hashtags. Thanks for sharing and so glad you popped up in my feed!🎉
Great video. I was going to sew a pair of woven trousers recently and then realized I don't want to iron them in the summer. I much prefer wearing and sewing knits.
Great topic!
« Lots of clothes, really no outfits. ». Oh so true ! I have to force myself away from the beautiful prints, because I end up with pieces that go with nothing except jeans. And I don’t like wearing jeans.
I am so happy I found your video. It is spot on. I have been struggling to come up with a plan for my garment sewing that makes sense for me and what I will wear everyday. I see all these pretty dresses others are making but I rarely ever wear a dress (although I do want to make a few to have in my closet when I need one). Its easy to get carried away by what we are seeing others are making but buying more fabric and patterns isn't the answer.
Love the advice about basic colors on the bottom and more colorful tops and dresses! This has been my fashion philosophy forever. It allows so much flexibility in my wardrobe and usually draws attention up toward my face where people can see who I really am, not just what I'm wearing. Thank you for so many great and logical tips.
This is such a thoughtful and well-made video! I've just started my sewing journey and it's so useful to hear some of your tips. I had a break from the online fibre world a few months ago and I feel like I've come back with a much better perspective on my personal style and what I feel good wearing. Sometimes it's good to get out of the online echo chamber and think about what inspires you outside of trends. 🥰
I enjoyed your video. I am just getting back into sewing and realized most of my wardrobe is what was on sale and not really my color or fabric type. I am going to try sewing with nicer fabric, something that feels light and luxurious.
I wish there was a way to see what a style looks like on my body as I am not a model and am often disappointed with how things look on me.
Thanks for your perspective you are adorable 😊
Just found your channel and will probably binge your videos, loving them! As a sewist trying to re-find my personal style this is such a great review of things to keep in mind to not get sucked into trends or the images you see in social media (also dislike the term quiet luxury). I love the idea of following hashtags in other languages too! Thanks for sharing!
You were on my feed this morning, so first time watching. Your video is so thoughtful in the process. I can say I’ve been caught up in these things too. Being older (70s) I’ve learned not to get into the hype but for many years, long before social media, it was easy to do that because I didn’t have other sewing friends to talk to about what works. Your rules are excellent and I want to thank you and now I have subscribed because you are an intelligent woman with great ideas and I want to see all your processes for sewing. Thanks.
Thank you so much for these kind words!
Great video - the voice of common sense.
Great video, love it! 😍👌
This is the first of your videos I have seen, and I really enjoyed hearing what you had to say, so I subscribed. I do not knit, but I do sew a lot of my clothes, and I look forward to seeing more from you.
Just found you! Such fabulous and thoughtful content!!! Thank you!
Many great tips here. I started sewing in the early 80s. I learned to looked at the line drawing and did a lot of what is called hacking now on my own. Merging two or three patterns to get the I wanted was part of the creative fun. Thanks for sharing your insights.
I had to come back again after doing the #hashtags. OMGoodness you brought me to a WHOLE new world of inspiration and JOY!!! The styles from those hashtags are just so beautiful and unique. I came back to say - thank you so much! Amazing!! 💗👏🏼🕯️🙌🏼🙏🏼🪡🥰🎉💗
You are so welcome! This is so lovely to hear 😊
Love love love this video! I do follow trends as an FYI, but I tend to sew what I will wear. You're right; many of us tend to sew and buy clothing that doesn't really fit with our lives. I was highly entertained watching this and LOL several times. Appreciate you and you have a new faithful subscriber!
I’m just getting into sewing some clothes for my own and this was so helpful!!! Thanks!
Thank you for this… so helpful! Subscribed ☑️
So interesting ! I just discover your channel and I love your way of thinking about sewing. I'm actually in deep thoughts about how to evolve in my current style and the questions you make here are so powerful for me, so thank you for sharing !
Love the advice you shared, thank you! 🎉 Looking to get my first sewing machine after ideas brewing for years. I think starting with some of these mental guidelines in place will be such a big help. I know myself and i can easily get sucked down rabbit holes of looks that are beautiful on someone else but not my style 😂 Im excited to focus on what i actually like on me.
This ABSOLUTELY needed to be discussed. Wonderfully said. I actually have seen so many repetitions in main pattern manufactures which has made me want to create my own basic classic modern pieces that are interchangeable. I think within the last 2 years I think I may have only purchased (8) patterns in total due to the repeat patterns. This was great to hear and I have subscribed. I look forward to your content in the future. Take care. ☕👏🏼🕯️😁🪡