Same though- I dressed more "gay" as kid than I do now 🤣 Rainbow pants, overalls, flannel, tucked in shirts, capris. Now my only fashion sense is hoodies and jeggings 😭 I'm bisexual :) 💗💜💙
Hey, I really like this video and you have a great style but I just wanted to let you know that the word "stud" is for LGBT women of color. A lot of people don't know this so I don't blame you but maybe use butch instead? If you do some research you'll find that the term "stud" was coined by masculine POC lesbians and wasn't meant for the white LGBT community. I love your videos and this isn't meant to be hate, just throwing out this information!
I’m Latina is it OK if I say stud I don’t want to take a word away from black lesbians. Also by proxy is it OK to say stem or is there another term that you can use because I don’t really like Futch. I am bisexual though so I think there’s specific terms for us correct? I want to make sure I’m educated on this
I’ve heard a few people say this, but I’m not exactly sure. I haven’t done much research into it, so let me know if I’m wrong, but isn’t the word “stud” just for lesbians of color?
My understanding was that they created the look but since i was young its mostly been used to describe the look of lesbians who dress like 2012+ justin bieber. Idk what youd call a nonblack lesbian w that look. I see it as an aesthetic.
this video gave me the realisation that i dress very much like a chapstick lesbian...and now i'm gonna have that entire conversation with myself if i'm a bisexual or a lesbian HERE WE GO AGAIN
My grandfathers new wife gave me docs for my birthday 3 weeks ago, me sitting there like: Do you sense anything? I absolutely love them I now know the power of gayness
I just wanna say your outfits always slay periodtt and you make my life so much better and your existence is a major motivational aspect of my life stay gay and gorgeous xoxo-fAmeyah
When I only have a flannel that doesn’t fit me one beanie and a pair of jeans that I religiously wear because the other ones are uncomfortable.and one pair of vans that don’t really fit me and a beetlejuice themed button up shirt Me: fashin 👁💋👁 (I spelt fashion that way on purpose)
We now must wait 10 hours with one night in between now and the time when I may watch the video of our queen. Will I sleep? Will I stay awake all night and inevitably annoy my family because I haven't slept by 8:30? Only time will tell. But now, we drink tea.
megannnnnnnnn this was an amazing video and also you’d be adorable as a red head 🥺🥺 just a friendly reminder to come by discord again if you have the time ahah
I have a grown out buzzcut, I wear weird graphic eyeliner + spock brows, my go-to outfit is a crop top, hawaiian shirt, and corduroy trousers with my trusty kelly green adidas. I look so androgynous children ask me what my gender is if I'm not wearing makeup. And that's how I like it!
I had kid walk up to me the other day when I was dresses similarly and ask me if I'm a girl or a boy. As a closeted trans guy I didn't want to talk about that. I made a six y/O guess my gender. She said girl and I was like seriously I was about to pass in my head.
Hey Dutchy! I LOVE your videos soo much, you have such a great style and such a great personality, I really enjoy watching your videos!🥰🏳️🌈 However, I wanted to let you know that the label "stud" isn't meant for the white lesbian community. This term has a lot of history for black lesbians/lesbians of colour and it's actually quite offensive to them if we as white people use it. I don't blame it on you because so many do not know this. But maybe in future try to use masc or butch instead and chapstick or futch/fetch for stem💗 (Also sorry if I made any grammar/language mistakes... I'm from Germany🙈👉👈)
@Lauren Victoria I totally agree with you about the fact that the lgbtq+ community shouldn't be divided by race. But i think you did not fully understand the history behind the term "stud" and why it's racist when we use it(ofc we can have the characteristics/ that style - > has just nothing to do with this term). Please educate yourself on that💕🥰
Okay so honestly I need help My favorite outfit in my closet is: -Black turtleneck (slim fabric) -Plaid pants (b&w checkboard ish style) -Black belt with (sometimes) a chain What category does that fall into?
My problem with cuffing jeans. Im 5'10 and im 90% legs so all jeans on me ,that arent specifically for tall people, already hit above my ankle and if i cuff them they hit mid calf. Its a truggle. I love the look (and im tired of guys thinking im attracted to them, and girls thinking im straight)
1 flannel, 1 pair of cons, buying vans soon, 3 beanies, 8 caps (i buy one every time i go to the shops lol, i have an addiction), 2 pairs of cuffed jeans, 1 pair of boots, oh and i have an orange worm on a string
What I would do is try and ignore it. Maybe try and inform them that hey this is not okay and I don't feel comfortable with you saying this. If they don't stop tell someone who you trust to come help and just leave those low life losers be because no matter your sexuality or gender you are amazing!
Hi! I just wanted to remind everyone that stud is a term coined by the black LGBT community and should not be used by non-poc people. This is because of the history of racism in our community. Thankfully we as a community have gotten better at being inclusive and accepting of all races, but please respect the history and do your own research! Butch is a great word for non-poc/white people to use. However stud is OFF LIMITS. Thank you lovelies💕
Lauren Victoria Hi, thank you for responding! Its not just about skin color, there are things that can and can’t dictate what you can be especially when it has a racial or cultural history behind it. Especially when historically Black and POC have been previously (and sometimes still are) excluded from the community because of who we are and our race and cultures, which is why “Stud” and many other terms were created...Like I said, please do research into these terms because we are not entitled to say and claim everything. I agree with you, the LGBTQ+ community should not be divided by skin color, race, cultural backgrounds, etc... but please respect the history so that we can continually move forward.
So I found a shirt today that I instantly grabbed and bought at the store. It says 'Be A Nice Human', and the letter outline is rainbow. My brain went 'PRIDE FLAG!
What’s your fave stereotypical style? 🦋🌈🌸💗⭐️
I don't know also great video on the big fan oh and can we do a collab for my UA-cam channel
Chapstick 😚
I do love a good flannel shirt aha
It was 100% worth waiting hours for the this amazing vid💖💛💙 If u have time can u maybe come back and chat on the discord some more Megan??
I like the bi stereotypes style because I’m bi
Dutchy: Here we are! Back in the closet!!
Me quietly: Some of us never left Dutchy
Same.....✨💗😂🏳️🌈😫
And I'm never leaving it :'D
same 💗💛💙
i might be realizing that i live in the closet...
Im sitting on the closet door, some know, some I refuse to let know 🤸
Rolled up jeans, tucked in shirt and occasionally a flannel shirt to put over it. Job done
eeek
Dutchy why, is that bad? 😂
@@chaza1008 I think that was an excitement kinda eek. Lol
BabyGoth MetalHead ah, I got it 😂
Ok ok what about ripped jeans, chain to pocket to pocket, black long sleeve shirt, then white shirt with a cat on it with vans. LOL
Me, owning 12 flannels and 5 pairs of vans: *step aside, amateurs.*
hey shinx
@@enderclowns hey ashhh
I own one flannel and one pair of vans 😳 it makes me laugh because my cousin who is straight owns more flannel than me
@@gabbyf4281 You still pass the gay test for having flannels and vans lol
I own around 20 flannels, and my excessive amount of hiking shoes makes up for the lack of Vans.
I've owned the essentials before I even knew I was gay. This is probably why my brother knew before I came out to him
Mood 😂
Same though- I dressed more "gay" as kid than I do now 🤣 Rainbow pants, overalls, flannel, tucked in shirts, capris. Now my only fashion sense is hoodies and jeggings 😭
I'm bisexual :) 💗💜💙
I love how this looks like it has more different styles than the previous ones
YASS! I tried to do a little bit of everything in this one 😍😍
Hey, I really like this video and you have a great style but I just wanted to let you know that the word "stud" is for LGBT women of color. A lot of people don't know this so I don't blame you but maybe use butch instead? If you do some research you'll find that the term "stud" was coined by masculine POC lesbians and wasn't meant for the white LGBT community. I love your videos and this isn't meant to be hate, just throwing out this information!
I didn't know that! Thanks for letting us all know
I’m Latina is it OK if I say stud I don’t want to take a word away from black lesbians. Also by proxy is it OK to say stem or is there another term that you can use because I don’t really like Futch. I am bisexual though so I think there’s specific terms for us correct? I want to make sure I’m educated on this
Oh saw a comment below that said you can use the term fetch Instead of stem so I’ll use that and as a mean girls fan I love it
@@mariannebrandon8891 thats awesome!
@@mariannebrandon8891 I'm not really sure about latinas using the term I'm not as educated in that realm, maybe ask around the community?
Me with more than 20 flannels, a dad shirt, an excessive amount of hiking shoes, around 5 beanies, and too many caps to count:
Move over, lesbeans
Hehehehe
Dad shirts? More like stealing my dad's shirts
I’ve heard a few people say this, but I’m not exactly sure. I haven’t done much research into it, so let me know if I’m wrong, but isn’t the word “stud” just for lesbians of color?
I’ve also heard this.
Yeah it is it's for black lesbians. But the word gets used wrongly all the time.
My understanding was that they created the look but since i was young its mostly been used to describe the look of lesbians who dress like 2012+ justin bieber. Idk what youd call a nonblack lesbian w that look. I see it as an aesthetic.
Specifically black lesbians and as far as I’m aware possibly Latina lesbians but yeah if you’re white it’s butch, not stud...
@@olivialesbian butch and stud are diff aesthetics though
My friend: *the closet*
My enemy: *ignorant ppl, my mom, church*
Me: *in the closet*
Dutchy: Here we are! Back in the closet!
Me: I was never in the closet, I was in the cupboard with all the other pans
😭 why is this so funnyyy
dutchy: Morniiinnggg
me watching this from england so its like midnight: ._.
Hehehe
Same
@@MsDickerz not to be a fan girl or anything but, OMG OMG OMG OMGGGGGGG
Haha... I just see suit. Hot 🥵
What a mood, who doesn’t like a gal(or guy) in a suit 😍😂
❤️❤️❤️❤️ mood
this video gave me the realisation that i dress very much like a chapstick lesbian...and now i'm gonna have that entire conversation with myself if i'm a bisexual or a lesbian HERE WE GO AGAIN
Whatever you are you’re valid and you can rock any style you wish :) 🌈💖💜💙
"I'm gonna wait until then"
Battery : Nah...
Charger : yes
Chargey charge
Who here like dies of excitement when dutchy posts like 😆
Awwww 🥺❤️
My grandfathers new wife gave me docs for my birthday 3 weeks ago, me sitting there like: Do you sense anything? I absolutely love them I now know the power of gayness
Even as a stud lesbian I still need this video
only 6 more hours till the QUEEN arrives!! 🏳️🌈💖💛💙
Yeet
Holo ashhhh
Ashhhhhh hellloooo it is I Reyna :> need to change my name but its my UA-cam channel so ;-;
Hehehe hello 😍
@@MsDickerz hiyaaaa megannnn!! Its Ash from discordddd
I just wanna say your outfits always slay periodtt and you make my life so much better and your existence is a major motivational aspect of my life stay gay and gorgeous xoxo-fAmeyah
Aww thank you so much angel eeek xxx
@@MsDickerz I'm dying tyy
Love your videos and they gave me the courage to come out to my mom today, you've helped me a lot. Thanks❤️😁🏳️🌈
Duchy: we are back in the closet
Also dutchy: looking through it……finding some of us lesbians in there
hehehe
When I only have a flannel that doesn’t fit me one beanie and a pair of jeans that I religiously wear because the other ones are uncomfortable.and one pair of vans that don’t really fit me and a beetlejuice themed button up shirt
Me: fashin 👁💋👁 (I spelt fashion that way on purpose)
FASHIONNNNNNN!
did you just say... beetlejuice themed button up shirt :o
I need
@@lololololololololololololol. it’s a available at hot topic I’m pretty sure
I didn't even notice it wasn't spelt correctly 😂
my mum got annoyed at me for ranting about how awesome suits are... but I could totally rock it, ngl
When ur parents realize ur gay before u do so at this point they just say boy or girl section when shopping 😂😂
No im gonna miss it :(
Im going camping 2day so cant b here to watch it but i'll b sure to binge when I get back.
aww I hope you have fun camping!!
I love you so much Dutchy! You have really inspired me to be open about my sexuality! (I say this when im not out to my parents)❤🙃
Aww I love you too cutie!!
Well I have 20 flannels 5 pairs of vans and 6 beanies take a hint- 💀
YESSSS!
I thought i was more gayer then anyone here. 20 flannels! U have won this round ahhaah....meow
The 1st stud outfit is exactly how I dress everyday. No wonder people keep asking me if I'm gay at school
Not me realizing I'm bi like 6 months ago, but being obsessed with flannels and tucking in my shirts since I was like 10... 😂
Dutchy is such a vibe I can’t
We now must wait 10 hours with one night in between now and the time when I may watch the video of our queen. Will I sleep? Will I stay awake all night and inevitably annoy my family because I haven't slept by 8:30? Only time will tell. But now, we drink tea.
hey elfyyyy
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Our fashion QUEEN Megan has arrived 💜💗💙
wattup toasty boiii
More Pan than Peter and twice as magical hey ash
Hiiiiii
Dutchy omg hello
Literally freaking out
This is gonna be great I can’t wait 💖💜💙
Hi gacha it’s toasty
Hey gacha
8 hours 😩😂❤️
Hey gachaaaaaa
Hey Toasty, Hey Shinx, hey Ell, Hey Ash
Dutchy hasn't been back in the closet since Tom Holland's debut as Spiderman.
I need this video for Christmas brunch this friday. It's my first year out as genderfluid/non-binary and I'm ready to confuse my relatives
I feel like more people should do this type of videos, they're so useful and entertaining
btw, HECK YES OFFICIAL DUTCHY MERCH!!!
Aww thank you!!
the tame impala poster in the background... oh my meghan you are stylish and tasteful im here for it
Dutchy: must have a beanie
Me with a tomatoe head: 😳
Me: I wanna be a stud!!
Also me: hehe... hi.. 😅
Hi cutie
Dutchy hi!!
You have no idea how helpful all of your videos are to me! ily!
Aww I’m so glad to hear it!
I'm pan also I'm
The 591 view
The 302 like
And
The 190 comment
But what you are is valid and beautiful
megannnnnnnnn this was an amazing video and also you’d be adorable as a red head 🥺🥺
just a friendly reminder to come by discord again if you have the time ahah
Aww thanks cheeky!!
The openings of your vids are so on brand 😂 we stannn 😍
Hehe thanks Abi!!
Those stem outfits were fire 🔥
Isn't "Stud" a label for PoC?
I'm so excited for this!!!! and you look absolutely beautiful in all those outfits
aww thanks angel x
Could you do something on LGBTQ professional wear?
I like this idea
Great video thank you so much!! I really like the outfit with overalls bc those are definitely a staple for lgbt style 👌
Drink every time she says we’ll see what shoes I decide to go with and it’s air forces every time😂
Me on my birthday: searches up *the most gayest outfits* PERFECT
I've always hated wearing dresses. Hoodies and jeans have always been my go to fit
ur so pretty 🥺🥺🥺 omgg im in love with ur accent
Lol i would’ve been shocked if overalls didn’t make it into the gender neutral picks! Love overalls man ❤
gotta love the plant on a longboard
👌👌👌
I have a grown out buzzcut, I wear weird graphic eyeliner + spock brows, my go-to outfit is a crop top, hawaiian shirt, and corduroy trousers with my trusty kelly green adidas. I look so androgynous children ask me what my gender is if I'm not wearing makeup. And that's how I like it!
I had kid walk up to me the other day when I was dresses similarly and ask me if I'm a girl or a boy. As a closeted trans guy I didn't want to talk about that. I made a six y/O guess my gender. She said girl and I was like seriously I was about to pass in my head.
Hey Dutchy! I LOVE your videos soo much, you have such a great style and such a great personality, I really enjoy watching your videos!🥰🏳️🌈 However, I wanted to let you know that the label "stud" isn't meant for the white lesbian community. This term has a lot of history for black lesbians/lesbians of colour and it's actually quite offensive to them if we as white people use it. I don't blame it on you because so many do not know this. But maybe in future try to use masc or butch instead and chapstick or futch/fetch for stem💗
(Also sorry if I made any grammar/language mistakes...
I'm from Germany🙈👉👈)
@Lauren Victoria I totally agree with you about the fact that the lgbtq+ community shouldn't be divided by race. But i think you did not fully understand the history behind the term "stud" and why it's racist when we use it(ofc we can have the characteristics/ that style - > has just nothing to do with this term). Please educate yourself on that💕🥰
Yes! Iv been waiting for this one! Also, “heck yes dutchy official Dutchy ” haha
💗💗💗
Just wondering where you got your sweater that ur wearing at the beginning of the video...I LOVE IT! 🏳️🌈🏴
Okay so honestly I need help
My favorite outfit in my closet is:
-Black turtleneck (slim fabric)
-Plaid pants (b&w checkboard ish style)
-Black belt with (sometimes) a chain
What category does that fall into?
Check out the youtuber StrangeAeons! She's queer, and dresses almost exclusively like this ;D
How can she rock ALL of these!?
aww bless
Not me picking my jaw off the floor after seeing u in that suit
This is basically everything I wore when younger!(Aging myself)
My problem with cuffing jeans.
Im 5'10 and im 90% legs so all jeans on me ,that arent specifically for tall people, already hit above my ankle and if i cuff them they hit mid calf. Its a truggle. I love the look (and im tired of guys thinking im attracted to them, and girls thinking im straight)
1 flannel, 1 pair of cons, buying vans soon, 3 beanies, 8 caps (i buy one every time i go to the shops lol, i have an addiction), 2 pairs of cuffed jeans, 1 pair of boots, oh and i have an orange worm on a string
Oh my god Dutchy looking like a ~!snack!~
Chapstick at ur best. Could u do a vid about beanies and how to wear them the best.
it’s sad i don’t have the confidence to dress that way i basically just wear oversized hoodies and shorts every single day lmao
HECK YES OFFICIAL DUTCHY MERCH!!!
It is quarter past eleven at night in the uk and I have stayed up to watch the queen of gay fashion
Totally worth it but now ima sleep
You’re the sweetest
OMG thank you 🌈✨
everyone has a different place in their friendship group... I’m the friend who wears rainbow suspenders 😂
stud isn’t the appropriate term here. stud is used for black lesbians
Button up shirt, tucked into rolled up jeans, a shoe lace belt, and converse platforms
"I have no pants on"
Sooo, no rolled up pants today?
Move over guys I am coming through ❤️❤️😂
hehe hello Ellie!
Dutchy hi😅❤️
Back in the closet! *laughs in dead inside*
Hey people guess what!
I’m finally out!
To myself.
Still progress tho
🎉🎉🎉
I remember I was once shopping with my grandparents and (w/o realizing it one of the stereotypes) she had me look through some button ups on sale
classic!! love that
For real the chapstick looks match my style perfectly!
Here lay the plans I had to sleep early👁️👄👁️it's 12am in South Africa 🇿🇦
Love u tho your literally my favorite UA-camr😍❤️
Love you!!
@@MsDickerz * proceeds to hyperventilate and faint *
I need this!! Go my queen!
Three hours to go!
🥰🥰🥰
@@MsDickerz 😱😍 thx!! 💕♥️♥️
im confused why your dressing as a stem, if its a combination of stud and fem, because stud is black wlw and nblw
i love that Dutchy has a car plate with my name in the closet, i indeed DO live in Narnia
Hehehe
How do i deal with people using homophobic slurs and it making me uncomfortable?
What I would do is try and ignore it. Maybe try and inform them that hey this is not okay and I don't feel comfortable with you saying this. If they don't stop tell someone who you trust to come help and just leave those low life losers be because no matter your sexuality or gender you are amazing!
Yesss!! Ignore! Don’t give them what they want!
Hi! I just wanted to remind everyone that stud is a term coined by the black LGBT community and should not be used by non-poc people. This is because of the history of racism in our community. Thankfully we as a community have gotten better at being inclusive and accepting of all races, but please respect the history and do your own research! Butch is a great word for non-poc/white people to use. However stud is OFF LIMITS. Thank you lovelies💕
Lauren Victoria Hi, thank you for responding! Its not just about skin color, there are things that can and can’t dictate what you can be especially when it has a racial or cultural history behind it. Especially when historically Black and POC have been previously (and sometimes still are) excluded from the community because of who we are and our race and cultures, which is why “Stud” and many other terms were created...Like I said, please do research into these terms because we are not entitled to say and claim everything. I agree with you, the LGBTQ+ community should not be divided by skin color, race, cultural backgrounds, etc... but please respect the history so that we can continually move forward.
I didn't realized how gay I dressed until I actually realized I was gay 😂
Is it sad I feel like I will own all of these clothes
not at all 👌
I have a lot of big t shirts. Sometimes I wear a long sleeve underneath. It’s looks good to me
Hmm guess I’m chapsticking it on the daily in carhartt head to toe lol
Lol yessss
What where the awesome black boots/
shoes you had on with the overalls?
Should I be jealous that Dutchy can put on any piece of clothing and make it look hot
Dutchy I’m telling you make a podcast
So I found a shirt today that I instantly grabbed and bought at the store. It says 'Be A Nice Human', and the letter outline is rainbow. My brain went 'PRIDE FLAG!
I have that shirt too!
I love these videos because I have trouble matching outfits so these help a lot aha 💕
I’m glad I could help!
Closeted going on a Dutchy fashion tips spiral!
mandalorian shirt tucked in, red flannel over it and ripped jeans
The only thing I don't have is the ripped black jeans
Oh what the hell I need new jeans anyway
I’m quite small and I find a lot of men’s clothing in stores to be too big for me :(((
HECK YES OFFICIAL DUTCHY MERCH 😜😜❤❤
Hehehee
@@MsDickerz ❤❤😘
Ha last time I was this early....
I've never been this early
hehehe