Not even two minutes into the video, but the statement “hurt people hurt people” really hit close 😔 I pray hurt people can find clarity and peace of mind. Thank you Coach for another awesome video!
“ A true success is moving on” Craig you have helped me through my first break up. 2 years of dating and then having that happened was devastating. Without you, I do not know where I would be! Thank you so much
Craig I thank my ex, because if he hadn’t break up with me, I wouldn’t have found you and I wouldn’t have made improvements to my life. I see my break up as a positive and it has made me think about who I am and how better can I become. Thank you x
I would love a coaching session but I just can not afford it at this time .So I will continue to watch the videos . They alone have been a big help to me .
I’m a doctor 😂 yet when it comes to romantic relationships I have anxious attachment and I lose emotional self control. The Knowledge has been absolutely essential for me to address this.
Whenever I'm feeling lost and my anxeity is kicking in; I always watch your videos and they make me feel better. Thank you Coach Craig for the all the information you are sharing. Because of the knowledge that I'm learning from you, I'm also able to help my friends how to handle their situation, and to create a better outcome.
Picked up your information about a year now after issues with break up and depression. Great video. I deserve to buy the knowledge. I deserve personal goals in this area of life. Thank you for you and Margaret Service. We’ll talk soon
Ex called me yesterday. He’s actually been getting weekly counselling and working on himself - which shocked me a lot more than his call itself (whcih was expected as per Craig’s videos). We had lots of red flags but if he’s actually working on himself - I might actually consider giving him a second chance. He has to work on himself pretty hard though and do all the work between us. Either way, I’m still working on myself for the reasons you say in this video. I want to improve myself and my attachment style.
It’s been a hard day. This was so much needed. Still shuffling through all the videos, at this point I’m sure I’ve watched over 100 of them. But this one came when I needed it.
This video is great, Coach. I've been going through a bad breakup for the past few months and it happened because of me. Like you said hurt people hurt people. I was abused a lot as a kid and I hurt the woman I loved in my first real relationship. I've been working on improving myself little by little and your videos have been a great source of comfort especially when I'm down. Thank you.
I needed this today, Craig. My breakup has taken a huge toll on my self esteem. I got the first workbook and feel so low but I will keep on working hard to improve myself.
Hi coach Has there ever been a video on fearful avoidant attachment? I think I have watched all of your videos in the last 3 months, but still feel confused with the 'come here, go away' messages I get from my ex.
Hi Craig can you do a video on ex’s reaching out & when the conversation turns sexual/breadcrumbing that type of thing. Just because your ex reaches out doesn’t mean they want the relationship back/yet!
I am in a relationship and he is a very hurt man... I am not sure how much longer I can stay in it, but I'm doing all of this anyway.. because whether you're in a relationship or not, try to be the best person regardless.
I just listened to The Five Second Rule by Mel Robbins ... Anyone that's having issues with motivation should read/listen to it and use the technique. It's fabulous.
Or, instead of searching for that...download Coach Craig's workbook series "The Knowledge" Vol. I & II available now (after all, we are on Craig's channel here). These bring down anxiety and forward your personal growth, people! Stop listening to other, uneducated, coaches out there who rely on slimy tactics like the "XYZ" rule...blah blah blah. These workbooks and Craig's videos are the real deal.
@@CorporateQueen I understand and can appreciate that point. I guess mine however is that Mel Robbins is a lawyer, not a psychotherapist. She's going to make a quick-tactic product to try to appeal to millions. The content here is much deeper and of a clinical psychological nature. Not attacking you here, but if you advertise other people on Craig's channel, you can expect others to poke holes in the people/products being advertised. Good luck. :)
@@android1012 not remotely bothered by your comments. One is a 20 buck book about motivation. The other is an investment in relationship. Maybe there are people who don't have all the $$$ who can't afford much. I mentioned it because it's a good book and I wanted to share it with the nice people who watch this channel because I think it might help some folks. Don't care who it's written by or what they do for a living. If you've read it you'd know. You clearly haven't. I wasn't 'advertising'. I take no cut. It's merely a recommendation. Take it or leave it in the spirit it was intended.
Me and my ex got closer from not talking to hanging in a group to me staying the night on the couch after hanging out till 4 am just us. We talk all week planned on going out to play pool her next weekend off after me giving time over the weekend last Monday I asked how her weekend was she said nice work wasn't bad and she just took some her time...she started to text distant over the week Saturday I asked what time she would be there she said can't make it... I know it was a text and wasn't said but it felt cold like oh yea not coming forget to tell you.. I stayed calm just said o ok that's fine is everything alright? She replied yea everything is great... so o just said alright just checking I'll let you get back to work have a great night... so I'm thinking 9f radio silence 8m going on vacation this Friday and thinking just enjoy myself and not reach out..
My girlfriend and I have been working to save for traveling. Shes finally fed up that I havent taken the lead and quit my job, so shes breaking up with me after 4 years. She needs time away from me and is moving to Colorado. Shes still living with me until the end of March. Very mixed signals.
I hope you make video about what to do if you've done all the mistakes like begging, pleading, crying and being so needy after a breakup. Will NC still work even after them saying they will never be back, they dont love you anymore and they just wanted you to move on. It would be a great help. From PH. Thank you Craig and Margarette
my ex and me are on 3 months nc. i didnt chase her, i focused on me and my growth..but now she posts 3-5 memes every day on facebook like "i only want good or not toxic people in my life" etc...she posts many of them, and she knows that they will hurt me. i did not reached out, but why she does this? every day there are more like this. is these a trick to break no contact? and why so hard things? ...i dont know what to do, please help. / thank you for all the videos! they helped me a lot through this hell.. and sry for my english ;-)
Hi coach Craig I was wondering if you could make a video on how to regain attraction from a woman that you neglected and took for granted I’ve been getting mixed messages from lots of coaches saying NC isn’t the way to go?
Tyler Zuluaga they’re wrong. You go full Nc. Other coaches suck man, you do whatever coach Craig says this guy knows his stuff - just watch his thousands of videos and you’ll see that for yourself. No contact.
I can give you direct experience on this. I neglected someone who loved me for four years. I never told her I loved her even though she told me constantly that she was in love with me. I was cold and distant, so when she eventually left me I was ok with it at first but then I slowly but surely started to really miss her. Soon after, found out she was with someone else and I was devastated. I went no contact but my pain and regret for causing her to leave me were too much. I reached out to her because I trusted she still loved me. I trusted that our bond we built was still there. Well she responded positively and we are reconciling, with me being much wiser to my actions that caused the problems. I'm not saying your story is the same but if she really loves you and you were that neglectful and only cause of breakup. It's worth a shot. In going no contact (for myself) all kinds of scenarios went through my mind, none of them were true, but I finally had to trust my past experiences with her and act on that. I'm glad I did. Good luck, it's a tough experience to go through.
literalsteve I gotta say your story gives me some hope, it’s been 3 weeks haven’t heard anything from her, she’s not the type of girl to just go to a new guy, so I’m not too worried about that, but yeah when would be a healthy time to reach out? Or should I just confront her right now?
How do I handle my ex being best friends with his ex wife? They don’t hang out all the time only when it’s something for their kids or family function. She was married to someone else for about 3 years or so and my ex became that guy’s friend as well of course. She is now single again. They have been divorced for about 18 years and when their kids were still little decide to put whatever behind them for their kids and coparent well. I have met her when my ex and I dated and it was a little awkward but not too bad. He had invited to me their daughter’s graduation party. I obviously don’t have a say now because he is my ex. I just wanted to know if maybe you could do a video about that? I don’t know what the future holds but what if my ex and I did get back together. I just don’t want to say or do the wrong things. I respect him for doing what he does but it does kind of bother me although I believe I have an anxious attachment style I have been working on that and I currently am seeing a therapist. I cNt afford a coaching session rt now but if possible would you be able to do a video on that topic and how to handle your ex or actually the person you’re dating being really good friends with their ex? Since he is contacting more now and he has been initiating it. However I’m not sure yet if we would get back together. Thank you. You’re videos have helped me so much.
Just reached out to my ex after 60 days of no contact. texted her and asked her how she was doing. She actually responded, but just said she was fine and thanks for asking. Didn't leave any room for conversation. Not sure what to do now. Probably just leave her alone for awhile.
You're still subscribing to a "30 or 60 day NC followed by a reach out" policy. You may be new to Craig's channel here. Watch all 600+ videos, then reassess your situation...AND don't reach out to her ever again UNLESS she reaches out to you first. Best wishes.
@@android1012 Iv'e been watching coach Craig since November. I wasn't sure if I agreed with the never contact your ex again. So I gave it a shot. We dated for 6 years and had what I thought was a pretty good relationship. But whatever. I guess I messed up
Coach can you make a video on men addicted to paying for prostitutes. My ex cheated a lot. He now took a second trip to Thailand and its obvious what is for. He is a 49 year old with a low self esteem and can’t get a grip with aging. He makes it his business to reassure me he would not pay for sex. Blah blah. That I’m the last he has been with and him not being with anyone. I don’t get it. I’m not a fool, why would I even want him back after this trip. He cheated the first time he went and we were together, he would definitely cheat now. I should not want him back, my heart is struggling. He has an avoidant relationship style. His mother cheated. He has narcissistic characteristics as well. He also has anger problems. Does not address the problem logically. Can he change with counseling?
Is X really gets on my nerves his whatever friend that was supposed to be my friend and she's in front of me or something and I hate it I'm getting up and I'm very negative mood him and her spending any time together just floors me and I don't know why I ever even let him do it
Don’t misss out on my Instagram content! Loads of fun
Not even two minutes into the video, but the statement “hurt people hurt people” really hit close 😔 I pray hurt people can find clarity and peace of mind. Thank you Coach for another awesome video!
I didn't quite relate until I read your comment. Now it hit me.
“ A true success is moving on” Craig you have helped me through my first break up. 2 years of dating and then having that happened was devastating. Without you, I do not know where I would be! Thank you so much
Craig I thank my ex, because if he hadn’t break up with me, I wouldn’t have found you and I wouldn’t have made improvements to my life. I see my break up as a positive and it has made me think about who I am and how better can I become. Thank you x
I would love a coaching session but I just can not afford it at this time .So I will continue to watch the videos . They alone have been a big help to me .
I’m a doctor 😂 yet when it comes to romantic relationships I have anxious attachment and I lose emotional self control. The Knowledge has been absolutely essential for me to address this.
Whenever I'm feeling lost and my anxeity is kicking in; I always watch your videos and they make me feel better. Thank you Coach Craig for the all the information you are sharing. Because of the knowledge that I'm learning from you, I'm also able to help my friends how to handle their situation, and to create a better outcome.
Picked up your information about a year now after issues with break up and depression. Great video. I deserve to buy the knowledge. I deserve personal goals in this area of life. Thank you for you and Margaret Service. We’ll talk soon
Ex called me yesterday. He’s actually been getting weekly counselling and working on himself - which shocked me a lot more than his call itself (whcih was expected as per Craig’s videos). We had lots of red flags but if he’s actually working on himself - I might actually consider giving him a second chance. He has to work on himself pretty hard though and do all the work between us. Either way, I’m still working on myself for the reasons you say in this video. I want to improve myself and my attachment style.
It’s been a hard day. This was so much needed. Still shuffling through all the videos, at this point I’m sure I’ve watched over 100 of them. But this one came when I needed it.
Thank you for the words of encouragement Coach Craig. It really helps 😊
Perfect timing. It should be all about you. Make yourself priority!
Thank you! It's about the commitment to myself! I really like how you take the time to motivate us in your videos.
This video is great, Coach. I've been going through a bad breakup for the past few months and it happened because of me. Like you said hurt people hurt people. I was abused a lot as a kid and I hurt the woman I loved in my first real relationship. I've been working on improving myself little by little and your videos have been a great source of comfort especially when I'm down. Thank you.
I needed this today, Craig. My breakup has taken a huge toll on my self esteem. I got the first workbook and feel so low but I will keep on working hard to improve myself.
This show actually helped me through my break up. Great work Craig.
It's super easy to get negative guys! I suggest hangout with good friends. Stay away from to much drinking. Focus on working on yourself!
I really needed this, Thank you. 6 months since my breakup...
Hi coach
Has there ever been a video on fearful avoidant attachment? I think I have watched all of your videos in the last 3 months, but still feel confused with the 'come here, go away' messages I get from my ex.
Hi Craig can you do a video on ex’s reaching out & when the conversation turns sexual/breadcrumbing that type of thing. Just because your ex reaches out doesn’t mean they want the relationship back/yet!
I am in a relationship and he is a very hurt man... I am not sure how much longer I can stay in it, but I'm doing all of this anyway.. because whether you're in a relationship or not, try to be the best person regardless.
Thank you for the motivation!
I still can't imagine doing this only for myself, I have no words for how much l miss my ex
Hey, how are things now? Did you manage to move on? *hugs*
Love you Coach Craig. Your videos are a gift to my life.
Break up can be a bless for yourself if you can see the positive part of this situation and take advantage of it. Be relentless!
Thank you for the extra motivation :)
Mind reading again Coach Craig!
Very encouraging and inspiring!! Thanks Coach!!
I just listened to The Five Second Rule by Mel Robbins ... Anyone that's having issues with motivation should read/listen to it and use the technique. It's fabulous.
Or, instead of searching for that...download Coach Craig's workbook series "The Knowledge" Vol. I & II available now (after all, we are on Craig's channel here). These bring down anxiety and forward your personal growth, people! Stop listening to other, uneducated, coaches out there who rely on slimy tactics like the "XYZ" rule...blah blah blah. These workbooks and Craig's videos are the real deal.
@@android1012 you can do both. They're not mutually exclusive.
@@CorporateQueen I understand and can appreciate that point. I guess mine however is that Mel Robbins is a lawyer, not a psychotherapist. She's going to make a quick-tactic product to try to appeal to millions. The content here is much deeper and of a clinical psychological nature. Not attacking you here, but if you advertise other people on Craig's channel, you can expect others to poke holes in the people/products being advertised. Good luck. :)
@@android1012 not remotely bothered by your comments. One is a 20 buck book about motivation. The other is an investment in relationship. Maybe there are people who don't have all the $$$ who can't afford much. I mentioned it because it's a good book and I wanted to share it with the nice people who watch this channel because I think it might help some folks. Don't care who it's written by or what they do for a living. If you've read it you'd know. You clearly haven't. I wasn't 'advertising'. I take no cut. It's merely a recommendation. Take it or leave it in the spirit it was intended.
We sincerely love you CC.
Me and my ex got closer from not talking to hanging in a group to me staying the night on the couch after hanging out till 4 am just us. We talk all week planned on going out to play pool her next weekend off after me giving time over the weekend last Monday I asked how her weekend was she said nice work wasn't bad and she just took some her time...she started to text distant over the week Saturday I asked what time she would be there she said can't make it... I know it was a text and wasn't said but it felt cold like oh yea not coming forget to tell you.. I stayed calm just said o ok that's fine is everything alright? She replied yea everything is great... so o just said alright just checking I'll let you get back to work have a great night... so I'm thinking 9f radio silence 8m going on vacation this Friday and thinking just enjoy myself and not reach out..
Amazing video just what I needed
I love this video so much! ❤️
My girlfriend and I have been working to save for traveling. Shes finally fed up that I havent taken the lead and quit my job, so shes breaking up with me after 4 years. She needs time away from me and is moving to Colorado. Shes still living with me until the end of March. Very mixed signals.
Amazing content in this video!
I hope you make video about what to do if you've done all the mistakes like begging, pleading, crying and being so needy after a breakup. Will NC still work even after them saying they will never be back, they dont love you anymore and they just wanted you to move on. It would be a great help. From PH. Thank you Craig and Margarette
Any update? Ph din po ako.
This is my favorite video 🥺
I really loved this one, no negativity allowed here :')
Great video!!!
my ex and me are on 3 months nc. i didnt chase her, i focused on me and my growth..but now she posts 3-5 memes every day on facebook like "i only want good or not toxic people in my life" etc...she posts many of them, and she knows that they will hurt me. i did not reached out, but why she does this? every day there are more like this. is these a trick to break no contact? and why so hard things? ...i dont know what to do, please help. / thank you for all the videos! they helped me a lot through this hell.. and sry for my english ;-)
Remember man it's all about attraction. Everything else is bullshit if she is attracted (you have higher SMV) than her she will come back.
@@t1234-q5z thank you! i hold on the focus on me and on growth. and on my way! ;-) cheers
Hi coach Craig I was wondering if you could make a video on how to regain attraction from a woman that you neglected and took for granted I’ve been getting mixed messages from lots of coaches saying NC isn’t the way to go?
Tyler Zuluaga they’re wrong. You go full Nc. Other coaches suck man, you do whatever coach Craig says this guy knows his stuff - just watch his thousands of videos and you’ll see that for yourself. No contact.
I can give you direct experience on this. I neglected someone who loved me for four years. I never told her I loved her even though she told me constantly that she was in love with me. I was cold and distant, so when she eventually left me I was ok with it at first but then I slowly but surely started to really miss her. Soon after, found out she was with someone else and I was devastated. I went no contact but my pain and regret for causing her to leave me were too much.
I reached out to her because I trusted she still loved me. I trusted that our bond we built was still there. Well she responded positively and we are reconciling, with me being much wiser to my actions that caused the problems. I'm not saying your story is the same but if she really loves you and you were that neglectful and only cause of breakup. It's worth a shot. In going no contact (for myself) all kinds of scenarios went through my mind, none of them were true, but I finally had to trust my past experiences with her and act on that. I'm glad I did.
Good luck, it's a tough experience to go through.
literalsteve I gotta say your story gives me some hope, it’s been 3 weeks haven’t heard anything from her, she’s not the type of girl to just go to a new guy, so I’m not too worried about that, but yeah when would be a healthy time to reach out? Or should I just confront her right now?
I would LOVE to buy your workbooks and have skype session with you but I'm a skint student!!
How do I handle my ex being best friends with his ex wife? They don’t hang out all the time only when it’s something for their kids or family function. She was married to someone else for about 3 years or so and my ex became that guy’s friend as well of course. She is now single again. They have been divorced for about 18 years and when their kids were still little decide to put whatever behind them for their kids and coparent well. I have met her when my ex and I dated and it was a little awkward but not too bad. He had invited to me their daughter’s graduation party. I obviously don’t have a say now because he is my ex. I just wanted to know if maybe you could do a video about that? I don’t know what the future holds but what if my ex and I did get back together. I just don’t want to say or do the wrong things. I respect him for doing what he does but it does kind of bother me although I believe I have an anxious attachment style I have been working on that and I currently am seeing a therapist. I cNt afford a coaching session rt now but if possible would you be able to do a video on that topic and how to handle your ex or actually the person you’re dating being really good friends with their ex? Since he is contacting more now and he has been initiating it. However I’m not sure yet if we would get back together. Thank you. You’re videos have helped me so much.
It's unfair to you to have to walk on egg shells with him. Live your life with Authority!
Just reached out to my ex after 60 days of no contact. texted her and asked her how she was doing. She actually responded, but just said she was fine and thanks for asking. Didn't leave any room for conversation. Not sure what to do now. Probably just leave her alone for awhile.
You messed up homie. She wasn't ready for you to reach out and you let your anxiety beat you. Let it go and keep working on you.
You're still subscribing to a "30 or 60 day NC followed by a reach out" policy. You may be new to Craig's channel here. Watch all 600+ videos, then reassess your situation...AND don't reach out to her ever again UNLESS she reaches out to you first. Best wishes.
@@LaMiGrAFrAnK I did mess up. we are both older 58 and 60 so I thought maybe it would work. it didn't
@@android1012 Iv'e been watching coach Craig since November. I wasn't sure if I agreed with the never contact your ex again. So I gave it a shot. We dated for 6 years and had what I thought was a pretty good relationship. But whatever. I guess I messed up
@@azazel3944 Dumb move on my part
Love from INDIA! ♥️♥️♥️🇮🇳
Coach can you make a video on men addicted to paying for prostitutes. My ex cheated a lot. He now took a second trip to Thailand and its obvious what is for. He is a 49 year old with a low self esteem and can’t get a grip with aging. He makes it his business to reassure me he would not pay for sex. Blah blah. That I’m the last he has been with and him not being with anyone. I don’t get it. I’m not a fool, why would I even want him back after this trip. He cheated the first time he went and we were together, he would definitely cheat now. I should not want him back, my heart is struggling. He has an avoidant relationship style. His mother cheated. He has narcissistic characteristics as well. He also has anger problems. Does not address the problem logically. Can he change with counseling?
Ewww why would you want that guy?!!
another banger!
Ur truly r brilliant ☀️☀️
this is very similar what im going throu how ironic I must be doing good lol
Is X really gets on my nerves his whatever friend that was supposed to be my friend and she's in front of me or something and I hate it I'm getting up and I'm very negative mood him and her spending any time together just floors me and I don't know why I ever even let him do it
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