The Dark Side Of Self Improvement (Watch Out)

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2023
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  • @ayalayeb
    @ayalayeb 7 місяців тому +25

    And that’s what makes people feel lost , i’ve had the same feeling all the time ; blaming myself for not reaching my goals and feel depressed, i was putting myself under pressure and the worst thing is that I didn’t move a bit while thinking this way ! Thank you so much Thom your video came at the right time 🙏🏻♥️

  • @mutatedrabbit8821
    @mutatedrabbit8821 7 місяців тому +7

    I've been in an existential crisis for a while. The emptiness I feel, especially not having achieved all these goals by December, is gnawing at me from within. I would prefer not to exist at all rather than facing the reality of how unsuccessful I am each time. I know taking action is a better option, but there's nothing inside me that triggers it. Even breathing feels incredibly difficult. I need all of yours prayers.

  • @user-ku1oj2ln1k
    @user-ku1oj2ln1k 7 місяців тому +6

    I swear this video came at the right time❤❤

  • @draqsabatool24
    @draqsabatool24 7 місяців тому +10

    Iam already in the middle of self improvement journey and this video came at right time.

  • @Bayan__20035
    @Bayan__20035 7 місяців тому +6

    The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
    The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allaah than the weak believer, although both are good. Strive to do that which will benefit you and seek the help of Allaah.
    - Strength in the body
    - Strength in wealth
    - Strength in morals
    - Strength in knowledge
    “ The meaning is that strength is not confined to a singular aspect.”

  • @Motasem321
    @Motasem321 7 місяців тому +2

    حديثك مُلهِم بحق.
    أُحييك.

  • @yusuf792
    @yusuf792 7 місяців тому +2

    This information should be introduced to people from the beginning, this is really what i was lacking.

  • @mimona112
    @mimona112 7 місяців тому +3

    You are one year younger than me and I enjoy learning from you. Thank you, your videos are very helpful❤

  • @nihannada48
    @nihannada48 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my god it's really !! I ask myself why I haven't made progress when all I do is learn and not apply because I fear failure or making mistakes. Thank you for this golden advice. I'll follow it and let you know the results, God willing.😊❤

  • @kalithazzan
    @kalithazzan 7 місяців тому +5

    I appreciate it, Bru. You give me everything I won't right now, and i accept what you are saying tnks bro 💯

  • @ArslanKhan21112
    @ArslanKhan21112 7 місяців тому +6

    Your content is improving day by day young man. Can't wait to see you reach that million subscribers ❤

  • @MuhammadShahidullah-jk7of
    @MuhammadShahidullah-jk7of 7 місяців тому +5

    Waiting for your vedio for many days Brother...At last it come.......❤
    Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩❤

  • @arafatislamzihad
    @arafatislamzihad 7 місяців тому +2

    Better than yesterday

  • @zahrarasuli668
    @zahrarasuli668 7 місяців тому +2

    It’s true! This happened to me, I started to listen to motivational videos and worked hard for seven months, after seven months I got badly sick and very weak physically and emotionally. Now, I’m doing the things without stress and taking enough rest too.

  • @hacenahmed4598
    @hacenahmed4598 7 місяців тому +3

    Greetings to you from Mauritania 🇲🇷
    May Allah bless in you
    Good luck

  • @parlonsdargent9056
    @parlonsdargent9056 7 місяців тому +2

    This video deserves more than 1,000,000 views

  • @motivemystic
    @motivemystic 6 місяців тому

    Wow, this video really hit home! Self-improvement is such an important journey, but we often forget about the dark side lurking behind it. It's crucial to maintain a balance and not get consumed by unrealistic expectations or comparison. Thanks for shedding light on this, Thomdefilet! Your insights are truly valuable and relatable. Keep spreading positivity! 🌟

  • @SupremeJourney
    @SupremeJourney 7 місяців тому +1

    The person whom I listen to whilst making my environment productive.

  • @arafatislamzihad
    @arafatislamzihad 7 місяців тому +1

    When I clicked this video I thought it’s possible to have the dark side of self improvement. But after watching the whole video I really amaze.

  • @zhoor_hana5378
    @zhoor_hana5378 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for the advice man ,it opened my eyes

  • @adeel-videoeditor
    @adeel-videoeditor 7 місяців тому +5

    Learning lessons from past and mistakes. Enjoy the now! That was a good one! Thank you Thom, keep going 💪

  • @hossamel2006
    @hossamel2006 7 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for the benefecial videos, I love them. Jazakallahukhairan

  • @Anoniem-os7uo
    @Anoniem-os7uo 4 місяці тому

    Jazaaka Allahoe ghairan our dear brother. This is by far one of the best videos that I have seen about self-improvement, it really gave me very important insights about this topic. Baraka Allahoe feek

  • @amelalshugaa904
    @amelalshugaa904 7 місяців тому +1

    We love you from Yemen🇾🇪

  • @azlanshah1137
    @azlanshah1137 7 місяців тому +2

    Rayan I don't have words for you I just wanna say thank you for this video It will change my life In Sha Allah❤

  • @Mohamm3d111
    @Mohamm3d111 7 місяців тому +2

    Couldn't have been said any better brother👍

  • @ilmeemalam5518
    @ilmeemalam5518 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this great motivation

  • @Alpha-jw6sy
    @Alpha-jw6sy 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for advice, You are 100% right.

  • @TwoSecundo
    @TwoSecundo 7 місяців тому +1

    There was a period in my life when personal development literally ruined my life. I still think it's essential but I've taken a step back.

  • @sumaiyalimbada2
    @sumaiyalimbada2 7 місяців тому

    💯 agreed. Amazing video 👏👏

  • @thefabricationof512people
    @thefabricationof512people 3 місяці тому

    self-improvements are good but do not forget one crucial material to craft your journey so called “life” to be the one that is both balance between gratification and appreciation, it’s self-acceptance. Self-acceptance is to be aware and acceptance to every attributes of oneself, either positive or negative. For positive we grow it, construct it. For negative, you understand it, sympathizes it in order to understand yourself better and to make the best use out of it. It’s Equilibrium for oneself. (IMO ofc)

  • @aznagomar465
    @aznagomar465 7 місяців тому +1

    I want I have friends in the another city but I think it's very hard because I,m Muslim and just people like you who can understand this thank you for your motivation ❤❤❤

  • @Asmitaali123
    @Asmitaali123 7 місяців тому +2

    Merci beaucoup bro

  • @yasminhashem4260
    @yasminhashem4260 7 місяців тому

    I dearly don't how to thank you brother!!
    You just deeply described me I am really stuck now since 4 years just taking motions without any real results😢
    May Allah reward you Jannat Alferdous..

  • @ridamhamdi6137
    @ridamhamdi6137 7 місяців тому +1

    I was browsing UA-cam and found your amazing channel and keep working 💯

  • @chaudharyawais786
    @chaudharyawais786 7 місяців тому

    MashaAllah bro you are doing great job! I’m really happy for your converting in Islam and I think you are motivated many others non Muslim about our religion! MashaAllah do it more things!

  • @Rujenai
    @Rujenai 7 місяців тому +1

    "In this fast-paced world, we should be wary of the constant self-improvement trap, ensuring that we do not miss out on the beauty of the present moments. True success lies in striking a balance between personal growth and enjoying the journey of life. Let us be cautious and wise in our pursuit of a better self 🌺."

  • @ahmadsaid1734
    @ahmadsaid1734 7 місяців тому +1

    Nice advice, thanks!

  • @mualotus6804
    @mualotus6804 7 місяців тому +2

    You are good man 😊

  • @5gislamicera
    @5gislamicera 7 місяців тому +1

    mashallah brither today i am really facing this exact problem

  • @xSallif8
    @xSallif8 7 місяців тому +6

    Thank you for everything you provide for us in every video that has benefited more from you, May Allah bless you 🥹🫶🏻 💗

  • @mohamedalahmadani5174
    @mohamedalahmadani5174 7 місяців тому +1

    I’d argue that feeling bad because you’re not getting the work done is a good thing. In a way, you deserve to feel bad because you know you’re not fulfilling your own potential. Not that anyone should look down on themselves, rather they should look up to the person they are going to be!

  • @user-vx1qj1ci1v
    @user-vx1qj1ci1v 7 місяців тому +4

    You always change me for the better, thanks to God and then thanks to your videos. Don’t ever think about stopping posting videos 💪💗
    #Free_Palestine 🇵🇸🌿

  • @ured37
    @ured37 7 місяців тому +1

    JazakAllah bro
    Allah bless you 😊❤

  • @user-vm7dl4sd9y
    @user-vm7dl4sd9y 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow
    you explained very complex yet important point very professionally like a piece of cake
    May you have more blessings of Allah(S.W.T)

  • @samadahmadi7
    @samadahmadi7 7 місяців тому +1

    Ohh damn man, brother, these are the real secrets I've ever heard, i know a little about that, but owww, your description is from the heart. I wanna hug 🫂 you, brother.
    Keeps going as you encourage us.
    Keeps going, say the point best way sas much as possible, this is what i wanna do in my life, that your doing now, telling the truths
    That's what i wanna do, and share the points in truth way.

    • @samadahmadi7
      @samadahmadi7 7 місяців тому

      I wanna have contact with you, is that possible??

  • @majidsultan3353
    @majidsultan3353 7 місяців тому

    Love you bro❤❤❤❤

  • @Idar_
    @Idar_ 7 місяців тому +1

    Machallah bro Thom ريان .Allah bless u

  • @Jeebadag
    @Jeebadag 7 місяців тому +1

    Actually i was like that fat man who omly reads books and watches youtube videos about exercising but not action. I asked why you waching videos but not making any change, i knew that the only thinh i missing was Action and that it was makes you better than your generation. Thank brother. Love you from Somalia 🥰

  • @ALLABOUTGTA321
    @ALLABOUTGTA321 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks my brother to help me on self improvement ❤❤ ALLAH make you happy

  • @ErenAlpErtem
    @ErenAlpErtem 4 місяці тому

    Thank god I found your channel brother❤❤

  • @user-eb4xh4gu2i
    @user-eb4xh4gu2i 7 місяців тому +1

    this video is destinated for me

  • @samirahtss
    @samirahtss 7 місяців тому +1

    The video editing is soo good 👏

  • @amoola-h3
    @amoola-h3 7 місяців тому +1

    thanks for the useful video rayan😊

  • @fuxxs5994
    @fuxxs5994 7 місяців тому +2

    May Allah bless you brother👍🏼

  • @MDRasel-rt9xt
    @MDRasel-rt9xt 7 місяців тому

    great brother your videoes helping me a lot to improve myself

  • @khanpti592
    @khanpti592 7 місяців тому

    This is actually really true, whenever I try to become a hood person pr a good muslim, I begin to dig in more and more and at the end of the day I get too much pressure that I become tired..I start to regret of the things that I couldn't do being good..That's actually true..!But I think it is good and that regret keeps u alive

  • @OpBaloch556
    @OpBaloch556 7 місяців тому +1

    Love from Balochistan ❤

  • @yousefelgohari8383
    @yousefelgohari8383 7 місяців тому +1

    very good brother

  • @Kdramaluves
    @Kdramaluves 7 місяців тому +1

    Congrats for your achievement

  • @sharmeenmallick
    @sharmeenmallick 7 місяців тому +2

    Assalamualaikum
    Appreciating your work from India😊

  • @aliyamohamed5405
    @aliyamohamed5405 7 місяців тому +1

    شكرا جزيلا ❤

  • @mastervanish3775
    @mastervanish3775 7 місяців тому +1

    جزاك الله خيرا

  • @khadijanayal8840
    @khadijanayal8840 7 місяців тому

    that what I needed thank you for your intersting content

  • @sirmoha.editor11
    @sirmoha.editor11 7 місяців тому

    Mahadsanid>thanks

    • @samiirogobaadsamiirogobaad6235
      @samiirogobaadsamiirogobaad6235 6 днів тому

      Meshan ma joogta wllhi wiilkan wan jecelhay hdda Naag thay ha iska damcina okey wan ku sheegay 😂😂😂

  • @user-cz6er8lt5w
    @user-cz6er8lt5w 5 місяців тому

    Thanks. I’ll write in a couple of weeks about the impact of your words, how much I’ve changed..

  • @user-vf6vv9nw8d
    @user-vf6vv9nw8d 7 місяців тому +1

    Masha allah you are good brother i love how advising and explaining good things for people

  • @bluemoonfairy
    @bluemoonfairy 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you a lot for sharing such vital advice, it helps not to lose the focus on life goals! Wouldn't you mind if I ask some questions: Who or what triggered you to change your mind? What was the turning point when you began to work on your better self?

  • @yahya.m27
    @yahya.m27 7 місяців тому

    Would be great to see a video for Amazon FBA or other business models. Great video bro as always

  • @amiraidris2632
    @amiraidris2632 7 місяців тому +1

    Smart thinking. Showing d dark side of self improvement. Pls show us ur morning routine

    • @thomdefilet
      @thomdefilet  7 місяців тому +1

      This one is coming soon 😉

    • @amiraidris2632
      @amiraidris2632 7 місяців тому +1

      @@thomdefilet can't wait

    • @amiraidris2632
      @amiraidris2632 7 місяців тому

      Not like you owe us anything on UA-cam but can u show us how u relax and unwind as a businessman, your free time, if its with ur mum and sister don't worry don't show them in Islam we don't show women.

  • @Jalilabduh-uj3gh
    @Jalilabduh-uj3gh 7 місяців тому +1

    I do like your deep voice and english accent

  • @xamakowramram7730
    @xamakowramram7730 6 місяців тому

    Thanks bro

  • @sbb485
    @sbb485 7 місяців тому +1

    you are so inspiring, your words are soothing . I am so proud to have the same religion as you , I wish you the bests . may Allah bless you .

  • @vinayak648
    @vinayak648 4 місяці тому

    Great vid bruh

  • @user-wy9dw2om1d
    @user-wy9dw2om1d 6 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @XTimmyXD
    @XTimmyXD 7 місяців тому +1

    The god (allah) send you to me at the right time
    I was need someone to encourage me to do my work
    Thank you

  • @ManiWarraich-lk4ls
    @ManiWarraich-lk4ls 7 місяців тому +1

    i just believe that all happenings and things and also worries are no permanent.i think we should only work hard to get their goals and should trust on god.we need to quit to find peace in movies and song.we need to close to Allah.work hard and hope is also very important.thank to make such informative vedios.

  • @irfangull1461
    @irfangull1461 7 місяців тому +1

    MashaAllah ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @iftikharahmad296
    @iftikharahmad296 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @Jubaer5
    @Jubaer5 7 місяців тому

    Mashallah 🥰 Brother. May Allah Bless you 🥹🤲

  • @ahmadsworld516
    @ahmadsworld516 7 місяців тому +1

    Masha Allah Very nice video 😊

  • @NarutoUzumaki-bz5os
    @NarutoUzumaki-bz5os 7 місяців тому +1

    I think i am in the same situation right now

  • @galleryrie_
    @galleryrie_ 7 місяців тому +1

    so basically for me, watching ur videos actually did me favor to understanding one of the books that you already recommend us to read. and.. can i call this free course too, sir? feel like i'm back to the college hehe

  • @extraordinary2623
    @extraordinary2623 7 місяців тому +1

    this is agreat video brother

  • @gadan_nalgahum
    @gadan_nalgahum 6 місяців тому

    السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
    جزاك الله خيرًا، سبحان الله هذا بالفعل ما كنت أفكر فيه.. بعد أن بدأت في تطوير نفسي كنت سعيدا ولكن بعد فترة وجيزة بدأت أشعر بشعور سيئ تماما كما وصفته، سألت نفسي لماذا أشعر هكذا؟ لقد كنت بخير رغم أنني كنت أقضي أياما وأسابيعا فقط أمام التلفاز!
    والآن بعد أن أصبحت أفضل؛ أقرأ الكتب وأستمع إلى البودكاست والفيديوهات التعليمية وأتعلم أكثر وأكثر عن ديني.. لماذا لم أعد سعيدا رغم أنني تقنيا في مكان أفضل بكثير مما كنت عليه قبل سنتين مثلا.
    شكرا لك على النصائح في 07:20 أنت محق تماما لقد فهمت لماذا أشعر هكذا وكيف يجب أن انظر إلى الوضع بصورة صحيحة وعادلة حتى لا أجلد نفسي.
    الحمد لله، وجزاك الله خيرا وبارك فيك.

  • @organicguyz
    @organicguyz 7 місяців тому

    I like your videos ❤

  • @MohammadAlsabahi
    @MohammadAlsabahi 7 місяців тому +1

    Barak allah fek , my brother

  • @user-hb2vc7sd5e
    @user-hb2vc7sd5e 7 місяців тому +1

    @thom please add subtitles so people like me catch your speed

  • @mdalisher2823
    @mdalisher2823 2 місяці тому

    Mashallah you content I love it

  • @bobobo5406
    @bobobo5406 7 місяців тому +1

    Hey,Thanks. I wanna know how do you Edit your Videos?
    I wanna Learn Video editing. Guide me plz!

  • @Consumer0003
    @Consumer0003 7 місяців тому +1

    like me i watch 1000 of yt videos on making money and self improvement but i dont take action

  • @maryammalik1374
    @maryammalik1374 7 місяців тому +1

    😊

  • @FreshlyWithSun
    @FreshlyWithSun 7 місяців тому

    Please could someone tell me how i can make a video like this. I mean how is possible to add animation and effects such as this video. Thank in advance for your help.

  • @zamateradein-ov8xo
    @zamateradein-ov8xo 7 місяців тому

    Really

  • @Consumer0003
    @Consumer0003 7 місяців тому

    you do in the age of 16 i knew all of the things in the age of 21 and now I'm 22 i spend year on these things and i think im not goodd

  • @catylover6720
    @catylover6720 7 місяців тому +2

    🤍🤍

  • @genius.community
    @genius.community 7 місяців тому

    BACKGROUND SOUND NAME ?

  • @shifalj369
    @shifalj369 7 місяців тому

    ❤️👍

  • @zahamedic1779
    @zahamedic1779 2 місяці тому

    What I do my son 15 years old with bed friend and his take som drugs and vomiting blood hi dont want learning Kuran

  • @td2222
    @td2222 7 місяців тому

    Thom please, I'm curious about your birth chart! I need your birth date, place, and time 😅👀