It's not just the skits, it's all of _you_ who really warm my heart and inspire me to see through the tough times. Stay awesome, everyone! You are all loved and appreciated for who you are.
I’m starting to think it’s not an act… considering the state of things it wouldn’t surprise me if they all fight with depression or anxiety or have a tendency to dissociate, or even suicidal thoughts. Look, if any of you feel like you need someone to talk to, even to the guys in viva la dirt league, you can come to me if you feel up to it, I know it can be excruciating to even bring yourself to talk about the things your dealing with with someone you care about, likely much more so to a stranger. I don’t judge, I’ve caused pain to others I can’t forgive myself for, I’ve been wrong by others and can’t bring myself to forgive them, I’ve been broken for so long and it’s to the point I’m an amazing listener… but I don’t know how to truly talk one on one. I can’t seem to bring myself to speak, because I hate myself and believe I deserve every bit of pain I go through… my name is Justin Holdren. Leave a comment in any of my videos to get in touch with me or add me on facebook messenger. I’m the guy with headphones on holding a big fish
@@Dawood_Awan Honestly, I wonder if he's acting at all, or just being himself. With many of the Mental Health videos they've done (even the maybe unintended ones, like when Ben meets Sunbro in the Dark Souls ones), he really does make it seem so natural, like he's just being himself. Also, Ellie is such a babe. I don't mind saying it, nobody's going to read this comment anyway.
The roleplaying sketch with Brit and Ben is honestly perfection. Many gamers retreat into games to live a life they want to live because of their own mental health issues. You'd be surprised to know how many of your online gaming friends are suffering silently in their every day lives. This does a great job to pull back the curtain.
Totally this. The team I game with for the last 2 years are quite open about it where they have issues and particularly with socialising and communicating in real life. Not all do but those who do are valued and appreciated in part because they are real about their struggles and we understand that. They are the only reason I still play bloody Raid Shadow Legends!
That first sketch gets me every time. And the second time he's on the bridge..... Hits you in the gut. Though seeing the end where his cat came, and the suddenly he was gone.... I don't know how many times when I was younger our cat took away all my worries! Never underestimate the power of a pet!
Yeah me too! I’m French and used to live very near from Paris at the height of my depression. I don’t remember how many times I was tempted to jump on the tracks of the subway when I was in college or right after losing both of my parents. Still not in a good place at the moment but I guess the medication I got helps. Yeah that first sketch is so accurate. Thanks to the team for all of these! If only it could also show people not dealing with mental health issues how it feels like. I guess it does but they’ll only see them as sketches I guess.
Magic kitten dispels depression, anxiety, ... Okay. There is often some truth to that. Particularly if said magic kitten has a large personality and is heavily bonded to the individual having issues. We can only hope for the individual to form multiple additional bonds and support. Social animals are ment to be social. Even the antisocial from time to time. :-) ? Wait. Did Ben fail to spend quality cuddles time and feed the kitten in the morning? No wonder he had a bad day.
I'll heartily concur that having a loving pet can do the world of good to your psyche. I know that I was really down and depressed from losing my job, fiancee and all my future plans, and when a little kitten adopted me, he really helped me to carry on and cope. Sure he nips my nose from time to time, and I've usually got at least one scratch, but that's cats for you 😉
@@moisemust Oh, fuck, man! I'm so sorry to hear! 💔 Lost my father when I was 10. But both......fuck. Hang in there, man! I understand it's harsh. But please. Having an opportunity to get better is better than not having an opportunity at all! Take care, man ❤
I'm going through a breakup right now, and I can relate to really most of this. The social anxiety, the self-doubt, the feelings of inadequacy. This... well, it hurt. But it helped, too. Thank you for making these.
Same. My mom is starting to have a cognitive decline, and I've spent most of my adult life sending those responses. I'm afraid I may not have many chances left. This hit hard.
I'm not supposed to cry during your videos. It's been a while since I've felt seen, not alone, and accepted for what I'm going through. Thank you for reminding me that I'm allowed to feel.
I've never met either of you, but I can tell you you're not alone. Sending support in the only way I can. But know this, my heart goes out to both of you.
The reason their acting stands out in these sketches, is because they themselves can call upon their own experiences. It's the reason they started doing them, to normalise the conversation of mental health in a more upbeat way. Viva la dirt
And I mean... look at Ben, you'd think the guy is all happy. Buff, good looking, successful. He clearly gets those emotions from somewhere. It is not something you can learn unless you experience it. Same with Rowan in Simon Says. You can learn to show certain emotion and act it out, sure. But if you've been there and have acting talent you can replicate it.
So much this.... Something I told my Mom ... " I'm glad you don't really understand what I'm going through, I hope you never really do....cause the only way to truly understand this is to go through it and I love you too much to want you to do that" 😢😅😢
No kidding... I tried telling a coworker about my ex's depression once. She said she'd never stay with someone who was that much of a downer. I never brought it up around her again
I like how in that skit, they weren’t really making fun of the people with mental illnesses but more making fun of society and how they don’t take mental illnesses seriously. This was meant to be funny but also I opening. Showing how maybe we need to start thinking how certain things may be harder for some then others. Really trying to understand one another and help one another as well.
To be completely fair, eveyone is scared. People who don't have mental issues are afraid of losing their friend, who's probably never shown them their weaknesses, to this monster of sadness, anxiety and fear that their friend are posting in front of them and calling it with the same name of the same friend that for years, having hidden all this, seemed more happy go lucky and ok with his personal life. People are scared because losing a friend to depression and crippling anxiety is bad for both parties, so most people just try what their brain tells them would world for THEM, but clearly not for their friend. They're simply too focused on themseleves, in a non negative way, to notice how their "helping" isn't working, subconsciously speaking. That's why they "don't understand" most of the time, because they try to, but deep down they still can't. Not eveyone can. But that's where you draw the line. If they start being toxic, and when confronted they choose to deliberately ignore the effects that this "help" is having on you, dump them. They'll eventually come around with an apology and some better understanding skills, or they won't come around at all.
The bit with the cat warding off depression hit home. Sometimes thats the only time I feel happy and content in a day, petting a cat knowing they don't need you to be anything more than you are, the unconditional love animals give is amazing. Best anti depressant.
What about people like me? No wife, no children, and my sister who was my best friend and my last living family member died a year ago tomorrow. Now, I'm an old man who's just watching the days pass while waiting for MY turn to leave this shitty world behind.
@@itsjustme8947 Hey man, I won't pretend to understand what you're going through but I have a personal belief that to be alive and have the opportunity to make choices is meaningful. Just as Sisyphus can choose to push his boulder, the choices we are afforded are valuable no matter how big or small.
@@itsjustme8947Seek help. Don't ask internet strangers what to do and expect them to know what you're going through. You know yourself better than anyone else.
The one with Adam in the party and leaving into a quiet room and relaxing with someone like him is a nice touch. I wish some people were like that at genuine parties.
The mental health series is my favourite on VLDL. All of your sketches are great, but these are so sentimetal and impactful. I was on a verge of tears when I saw them the first time. Thanks.
@@Eroll-dw8ex I already commented that I watch vldl so that I DON'T put a gun to my head. Awareness is fine for people who process emotions normally. There are too many people who could watch this and it ruins their day. Maybe even pushes them over the edge.
I felt that, I have really low bandwidth when it comes to social interaction, so I also tend to break away from time to time, usually just sitting somewhere more secluded or talk to people like me at parties
As a person who suffers from crippling depression, anxiety, and a desire to no longer be alive at times, the first skit really spoke to me, and then the cat showed up and I actually shed tears. I relate so much, thanks to my cat, Luna.
I find it weird that you had to say mental health is real as if people deny its real. I have heard lots of disagreement but never heard anyone say mental health is not real. you see it everywhere now. Crazy people. The real question is why it's blown out of control? I have my theories
I have mental illness and I would say there is more than plenty of awareness of mental illness, to the point that it no longer helps but instead exacerbates the issue and allows everyone to, including myself, to choose to play victim instead of doing something to change their circumstances.
I really love these. You guys just get how so many of us feel. It’s also just a testament to the acting skills of the whole team. That last one with Ben really hit home. VLDL is the best. Thank you,
Funny mental health sketches that hit a little too close to home, I love how you do highlight mental health while putting in a lot of humor in them. Someone out there may have watched some of these and been inspired to take that first step to getting better. So yeah thanks for these, it means a lot to your community that you do these
@@waynedieckmann9840It is, but there can be great times too. I have been through a lot of bad stuff in my life, and have complex PTSD as a result. But, I keep on going, and good stuff does happen, even though at times it doesn’t seem that it will.
...and some of us watched these, waiting for the punchline and instead take that pistol out of the desk. Time to fight THAT fucking demon again. So, yeah, thanks vldl.
I appreciate this content, not only does it show a relatable version of many struggles people have on a daily basis. It also shows the acting abilities yall have. The last part with Ben I want to point out especially. He was able to go so smoothly from an online scumbag to a man who feels he has no one in his life who cares and that he can let care. Very well done to all involved, cast and crew alike.
As a guy who experiences this daily I relate a lot to the first skit. The last few years has been hard. Pretty much the only thing that keeps me waking up in the morning is the three little creatures that I see every day. Probably couldn’t do it without them.
Please keep up the good fight. It is hard to see life's little joys when they appear. But I promise you that they will appear. Mental health is a marathon so pace yourself.
I promise, things DO get better. You do have to keep on fighting. As a badge I've got says, "Survive out of Spite" 😉 if nothing else 🙂 I spent many years struggling with myself, but with time, you learn that you do have worth and meaning, even if it might be tough to see or accept sometimes. But if you keep going, you have the opportunities for your life to improve, sometimes exponentially. 🙂 Keep going bud, and chin up. Keep working and one day you will realise that somehow, things HAVE gotten better, and that you are actively happy without realising. Good luck and be stubborn, remember, you are worth it 🙂
I really love the intovert one because it shows how complicated mental health it and that it’s not necessarily being around people but the types of interaction that cause the mental drain. Like I can talk to my best friend all night and feel fantastic the whole time, but even though I loved comic con I had to isolate myself several times to keep myself going.
That last sketch really took its mental toll on me. As an actor in training, I really learned to appreciate the honest emotions you're putting into these videos, and I am impressed with the level you reached in making them. You're inspirational both as fellow actors, aswell as in regards to your willingness to tackle hard topics like mental health. Maybe I should have just written: "Nice video my doods"
Between them, these videos have probably saved dozens of lives, and helped hundreds more. Thank you. You use comedy and nerd cred to make yourselves relatable, and that gives people the desire to want to listen to what you're saying and the ways that they can be helped. Don't stop.
I think almost every one of these sketches left me with a lump in my throat. You guys are doing great work! I know there are tons of people all across the world who are getting some help from these, just because it reminds us that we’re not alone in this struggle. Keep it up! You’re making a difference. (:
@danhall7991 I think it is the influence of the dark spiritual side that God allows in our lives. Intrusive thoughts are intrusive because they don't come from us.
These are some of the best sketches. So well rounded, tragedy, comedy, heartbreaking, heartwarming, so real. And *some of the GREATEST acting!!!* Thank you ❤
You all make funny sketches that are just brilliant, but these sketches are what truly make Viva La Dirt League special. Everyone goes through phases of depression it different ways. It's not something that goes away entirely, which is what makes it hard to deal with. Thank you all for everything that you do and the compassion that comes across to all your fans.
This super cut came out at the perfect time. I’m having easily the worst time in my life and it’s refreshing to see this stuff. Thank you all for everything you do.
You guys blend funny with serious seamlessly. Thank you for spending time making these skits and for wanting to help people talk about their mental health. ❤
what I love about these sketches is that although they make it humorous, they also convey the seriousness and importance of mental health. easy to say VLDL is one of the best UA-cam channels ever ❤
Everytime I see that skit with Ben texting his mom it brings tears to my ears cause its been how ive been for quite a while its not as bad anymore, but there was a periode where I just never left my bed and havent been able to speak to someone about it, he play it so incredibly well.
These videos are so great, lot of people out there need help and it is good to see you guys using your platform in an amusing but serious way, thank you VLDL x
This is too real, but I feel better that I am not alone and struggling. I applaud you guys for using your channel for addressing what some, if not most, people go through at some point in their lives. Thank you.
When I clicked on this video, I don't know what I was expecting. After watching it, and relating to many of the skits, It just feels wonderful to once again have a reminder that I am not alone. That one feeling, that one thought, has always been the thing that has held me back in life. It has encouraged me to open up more honestly to my therapist and to seek out others like me. Thank you Viva la Dirt League, for all that you do for me and for everyone else.
Thank you all for making these skits. For people who might not even know that they might be struggling with mental health, these shed some light on knowing that maybe it’s not a normal thing to feel these ways, maybe we need to take a step back and focus on our self. The emotional roller coaster of the videos they can inflict on a viewer shows that these are for better understanding and help. Thank you again everyone at VLDL.
I’ve been crying watching these videos. Every one of us has a struggle inside, fighting our demons every day. These mental health videos are really helping. Thank you, guys. VLDL is my most favourite channel on UA-cam. And you are getting better and better. Best regards! Andrew, Russia
If Depression Was a Dude was the very first VLDL video I ever watched, the link sent to me by a fellow teacher. Fell instantly in love with this group.
The last one made me tear up. Everything you described in that last long text is exactly how I feel everyday. I'm constantly in dark spots, wondering if I'll ever get out. I've shut myself out from my family and friends. I've never had a video relate so much to me before. Thank you so much for making these
I still go back and watch the "Dealing with roleplayers in a video game" (the Fireheart video) video often whenever I need to feel understood and need a bloody good cry
These are my favorites of all the videos on the channel. I've struggled with my mental health all my life, so I really appreciate them and relate to them. Thank you for making them.
For a channel that delivers so much great comedic content, you guys hit way harder than you have any right to, lol. I love the range of emotions and how genuine you all can be portraying them. Even more amazing, is how quickly you can swap between them, like Ben and Fireheart. The juxtaposition makes the emotions feel so much more real. I can also only imagine that at least some of you deal with these issues yourselves, and the skits are all relatable. I definitely felt the introvert one and internet overload. The number of things I've written out and then deleted because I can't figure out how to press send and put the vulnerability into the world.
Same here... too many times I've spilled my guts to a friend then change my mind & delete the whole message. I literally get the same look that Ben has on his face, it's eerie
these sketches are genuinely some of your best, with that combination of marvellous acting, subtle humour, and really tactful and important messaging. appreciate it so much that you made these ❤
That bit where he crossed the bridge a second time and actually took a look hit hard man, been there once and it was hard to watch that, Kudos on broaching the subject matter
I’ve lost both my dad and my dog suddenly in the past year, I don’t really have anyone to talk to and even when I do they just say things like ‘we’re all going through it’ or ‘just try and stay positive’. Watching these sketches just felt really relatable and affirming, it’s nice seeing your feelings acknowledged and made light of and having something to relate to.
This is so good because you guys are spot on. These are my daily struggles. Anxiety is paralyzing and depression makes you feel empty and useless. Medication made my body sick and my life a dull blur. Life is either a comedy or a tragedy, I choose comedy, thank you for sharing yours.
Im 4 minutes in and I'm laughing so hard I'm crying. If you ever watched self help things or been around narcissists, this video is spot on. Best video I've ever seen from you all!
Mental health is such a great taboo in many places. Many people are 'scared' to talk about. It's such a shame. Talking about it, having a person nearby that can lend you an ear or 2 for a moment. It's such a wonderful gift that can save a lot of people their lives.
If I recall correctly, Britt wrote the Fireheart sketch. If so, fantastic work Britt! And Ben was perfect for the role. He's also perfect for the Internet Overload sketch.
The last sketch had us all emotional....that one hit home...let's all face it. We all want to speak out loud and tell what's on our heart but we don't want anyone see us breaking down...especially our mothers may our mothers live to be 100 years old...you know you want that
Thank you so much. I struggle with mental issues since 20 years. And it's pretty obvious many of you guys went through this in real life to write this stories so well which aim straight to the brain and Heart with so much power. It trully resonates in people like me. I have never seen or heard people describing so perfectly "how it feels". You made my day. Knowing we are not alone is the most precious pill to begin to cure i guess. I hope it will also help people around to understand better, and then try to help better, if they can. PS: sorry for my english, not my native language, but i am sure your hearts understood.
The best part is that you don't get exclusively just one disorder, it always come in combinations like depression and anxiety, panic attacks and suicidal thoughts, all of those mentioned and more...
Every single one of these skits was beautiful and affirming. As someone who has been living with depression, anxiety, and neurodiversity, I have struggled so hard to tell my friends and family what it feels like. But once I showed this to my parents, they were able to see it, comprehend, and start to reach out in more than platitudes. Thank you, VLDL.
@robertnope1993 As a straight huwyte man, I'll give you one guess as to how schools treat many of their students (and that's without getting into groomers).
My school pays people to come in and do these sketches about problems like vaping and bullying, which are much less prevalent than issues like mental health problems and are often not even applicable to our lives. I've spoken to some of my friends about this and we all agree that they actually make us feel worse, especially those of us who struggle with mental health. I would gladly watch VLDL instead of whatever they're giving us.@robertnope1993
This hit a spot i already knew was there but how raw and vunerable you all made your video. Just wow made me cry. I know this video was probably tough for a few of you making it. But thank you for doing it.
You know rowan playing as different mental issues is not surprising i mean dude is literally the manifestation of all the problems of alan,ben, and adam
These skits are honestly really affirming. Feels like a hug across the screen. Thank you, everyone.
Thought the same
It's not just the skits, it's all of _you_ who really warm my heart and inspire me to see through the tough times. Stay awesome, everyone! You are all loved and appreciated for who you are.
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That last one made me wanna talk to my mom 🥹
Fireheart talking about his friend Ben is perhaps the best sketch you've ever done. Fantastic writing and acting.
Ikr? Ben acts so smooth, you don't even feel like he's acting
@@Dawood_Awan Ben has absolutely amazing emotional range as an actor.
I’m starting to think it’s not an act… considering the state of things it wouldn’t surprise me if they all fight with depression or anxiety or have a tendency to dissociate, or even suicidal thoughts. Look, if any of you feel like you need someone to talk to, even to the guys in viva la dirt league, you can come to me if you feel up to it, I know it can be excruciating to even bring yourself to talk about the things your dealing with with someone you care about, likely much more so to a stranger. I don’t judge, I’ve caused pain to others I can’t forgive myself for, I’ve been wrong by others and can’t bring myself to forgive them, I’ve been broken for so long and it’s to the point I’m an amazing listener… but I don’t know how to truly talk one on one. I can’t seem to bring myself to speak, because I hate myself and believe I deserve every bit of pain I go through… my name is Justin Holdren. Leave a comment in any of my videos to get in touch with me or add me on facebook messenger. I’m the guy with headphones on holding a big fish
Ben is really a good actor. Brit I like a lot, so it's hard for me to tell whether she is actually good, or I tend to love her nonetheless.
@@Dawood_Awan Honestly, I wonder if he's acting at all, or just being himself. With many of the Mental Health videos they've done (even the maybe unintended ones, like when Ben meets Sunbro in the Dark Souls ones), he really does make it seem so natural, like he's just being himself.
Also, Ellie is such a babe. I don't mind saying it, nobody's going to read this comment anyway.
Rowan, wearing a shirt that says “suicidal thoughts”:
“My name’s Rowan, and I’m a model!”
Everyone who liked this comment is a very official VLDL fan
Was hoping he'd try push rowan off the bridge...
Rowan would be the depressing thoughts!
The roleplaying sketch with Brit and Ben is honestly perfection. Many gamers retreat into games to live a life they want to live because of their own mental health issues. You'd be surprised to know how many of your online gaming friends are suffering silently in their every day lives. This does a great job to pull back the curtain.
Totally this. The team I game with for the last 2 years are quite open about it where they have issues and particularly with socialising and communicating in real life. Not all do but those who do are valued and appreciated in part because they are real about their struggles and we understand that. They are the only reason I still play bloody Raid Shadow Legends!
I know I am. I retreated into books and music at age 13, the retreated into games, living a life that was epic and amazing... because mine wasnt
28:35 "This video was sponsored by BetterHelp."
That first sketch gets me every time. And the second time he's on the bridge..... Hits you in the gut. Though seeing the end where his cat came, and the suddenly he was gone.... I don't know how many times when I was younger our cat took away all my worries! Never underestimate the power of a pet!
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Yeah me too! I’m French and used to live very near from Paris at the height of my depression. I don’t remember how many times I was tempted to jump on the tracks of the subway when I was in college or right after losing both of my parents. Still not in a good place at the moment but I guess the medication I got helps. Yeah that first sketch is so accurate. Thanks to the team for all of these! If only it could also show people not dealing with mental health issues how it feels like. I guess it does but they’ll only see them as sketches I guess.
Magic kitten dispels depression, anxiety, ...
Okay. There is often some truth to that. Particularly if said magic kitten has a large personality and is heavily bonded to the individual having issues. We can only hope for the individual to form multiple additional bonds and support. Social animals are ment to be social. Even the antisocial from time to time. :-)
? Wait. Did Ben fail to spend quality cuddles time and feed the kitten in the morning? No wonder he had a bad day.
I'll heartily concur that having a loving pet can do the world of good to your psyche.
I know that I was really down and depressed from losing my job, fiancee and all my future plans, and when a little kitten adopted me, he really helped me to carry on and cope.
Sure he nips my nose from time to time, and I've usually got at least one scratch, but that's cats for you 😉
@@moisemust Oh, fuck, man! I'm so sorry to hear! 💔 Lost my father when I was 10. But both......fuck. Hang in there, man! I understand it's harsh. But please. Having an opportunity to get better is better than not having an opportunity at all! Take care, man ❤
I'm going through a breakup right now, and I can relate to really most of this. The social anxiety, the self-doubt, the feelings of inadequacy. This... well, it hurt. But it helped, too. Thank you for making these.
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Damn, was about to comment basically the exact same thing. Keep going mate, just know you ain't alone.
Simon says, you'll be okay. Simon says there will be another. Simon says, the one is waiting for you somewhere out there!!!
Feel better. 👍
Glad I helped.
That last skit, Ben trying to talk to his mom about his struggles, really hits home with me.
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Same here.
Same
same, mine died last year, i wish i would have hit send on that message before then
Same. My mom is starting to have a cognitive decline, and I've spent most of my adult life sending those responses. I'm afraid I may not have many chances left. This hit hard.
I'm not supposed to cry during your videos. It's been a while since I've felt seen, not alone, and accepted for what I'm going through. Thank you for reminding me that I'm allowed to feel.
Same. Oh life is so hard.
I've never met either of you, but I can tell you you're not alone. Sending support in the only way I can. But know this, my heart goes out to both of you.
You matter. Remember thoughts are just thoughts. They come and go. Don’t allow your mind to dictate to you. You are loved.
I like that in these sketches the guys could really show their acting skills.
Ben really shines in these, and Adam is not far behind either.
Rowan's Simon Says is out of this world.
WERE THEY REALLY ACTING? ...
Rowans in the tv show, Spartacus. i think season 2 ep1 around 2 minutes in
i dont think they are acting , its a normal feeling these days
The reason their acting stands out in these sketches, is because they themselves can call upon their own experiences. It's the reason they started doing them, to normalise the conversation of mental health in a more upbeat way. Viva la dirt
And I mean... look at Ben, you'd think the guy is all happy. Buff, good looking, successful. He clearly gets those emotions from somewhere. It is not something you can learn unless you experience it. Same with Rowan in Simon Says. You can learn to show certain emotion and act it out, sure. But if you've been there and have acting talent you can replicate it.
So much this.... Something I told my Mom ... " I'm glad you don't really understand what I'm going through, I hope you never really do....cause the only way to truly understand this is to go through it and I love you too much to want you to do that" 😢😅😢
The button is still one of the most absurdly accurate visuals i've ever seen about how people treat mental health.
No kidding... I tried telling a coworker about my ex's depression once. She said she'd never stay with someone who was that much of a downer. I never brought it up around her again
I like how in that skit, they weren’t really making fun of the people with mental illnesses but more making fun of society and how they don’t take mental illnesses seriously. This was meant to be funny but also I opening. Showing how maybe we need to start thinking how certain things may be harder for some then others. Really trying to understand one another and help one another as well.
*eye opening
I mean from both perspectives, the button is both true, but also useless when you're the depressed one.
To be completely fair, eveyone is scared. People who don't have mental issues are afraid of losing their friend, who's probably never shown them their weaknesses, to this monster of sadness, anxiety and fear that their friend are posting in front of them and calling it with the same name of the same friend that for years, having hidden all this, seemed more happy go lucky and ok with his personal life.
People are scared because losing a friend to depression and crippling anxiety is bad for both parties, so most people just try what their brain tells them would world for THEM, but clearly not for their friend. They're simply too focused on themseleves, in a non negative way, to notice how their "helping" isn't working, subconsciously speaking. That's why they "don't understand" most of the time, because they try to, but deep down they still can't. Not eveyone can.
But that's where you draw the line. If they start being toxic, and when confronted they choose to deliberately ignore the effects that this "help" is having on you, dump them. They'll eventually come around with an apology and some better understanding skills, or they won't come around at all.
The bit with the cat warding off depression hit home. Sometimes thats the only time I feel happy and content in a day, petting a cat knowing they don't need you to be anything more than you are, the unconditional love animals give is amazing. Best anti depressant.
I've been on a slow way up (on my own) for years now and it definitely went faster after I got Ruckus. I love that little black bastard so much
That last bit with his mum, that really hit home, hope everyone has a great day and someone to reach out to if needed!
What about people like me? No wife, no children, and my sister who was my best friend and my last living family member died a year ago tomorrow. Now, I'm an old man who's just watching the days pass while waiting for MY turn to leave this shitty world behind.
@@itsjustme8947 Hey man, I won't pretend to understand what you're going through but I have a personal belief that to be alive and have the opportunity to make choices is meaningful. Just as Sisyphus can choose to push his boulder, the choices we are afforded are valuable no matter how big or small.
@@yejoyt So, just shake it off? Eat an apple, eh?
@@itsjustme8947Seek help. Don't ask internet strangers what to do and expect them to know what you're going through. You know yourself better than anyone else.
@@itsjustme8947 Big hugs from this stranger to you 💜
The one with Adam in the party and leaving into a quiet room and relaxing with someone like him is a nice touch. I wish some people were like that at genuine parties.
The mental health series is my favourite on VLDL. All of your sketches are great, but these are so sentimetal and impactful. I was on a verge of tears when I saw them the first time. Thanks.
Def not what i'm seeking when looking at vldl
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@@Eroll-dw8ex I already commented that I watch vldl so that I DON'T put a gun to my head. Awareness is fine for people who process emotions normally. There are too many people who could watch this and it ruins their day. Maybe even pushes them over the edge.
i did cry..they are so accurate.
Their mental health sketches helped me to figure that there is a support. Their other sketches helped me to deal with my mental health.
The one with Adam trying to take a break from the party was really poignant, a well told story.
I felt that, I have really low bandwidth when it comes to social interaction, so I also tend to break away from time to time, usually just sitting somewhere more secluded or talk to people like me at parties
I was the one at parties who was always with the animals.
I liked that one most, that fall more for introvert people who love peace of mind and not too much noise
I've rewatched the Simon Says episode like 10 times. It's the one that has stood out the most. Rowan's acting is insane.
Love how he tries to play it off
As a person who suffers from crippling depression, anxiety, and a desire to no longer be alive at times, the first skit really spoke to me, and then the cat showed up and I actually shed tears. I relate so much, thanks to my cat, Luna.
Luna sounds awesome. Give her many hugs, including one from me.❤
@@slake9727 Thanks. She is a life saver. She can read a room like no person I know. She gets hugs all day.
This too shall pass
These sketches were great! Mental health is a real issue in this world and I'm glad you guys are using comedy to bring more awareness.
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I find it weird that you had to say mental health is real as if people deny its real. I have heard lots of disagreement but never heard anyone say mental health is not real. you see it everywhere now. Crazy people. The real question is why it's blown out of control? I have my theories
Yup, outrageous acting from all.
I have mental illness and I would say there is more than plenty of awareness of mental illness, to the point that it no longer helps but instead exacerbates the issue and allows everyone to, including myself, to choose to play victim instead of doing something to change their circumstances.
I really love these. You guys just get how so many of us feel.
It’s also just a testament to the acting skills of the whole team. That last one with Ben really hit home.
VLDL is the best. Thank you,
Funny mental health sketches that hit a little too close to home, I love how you do highlight mental health while putting in a lot of humor in them. Someone out there may have watched some of these and been inspired to take that first step to getting better. So yeah thanks for these, it means a lot to your community that you do these
Life is painful mate
@@waynedieckmann9840It is, but there can be great times too.
I have been through a lot of bad stuff in my life, and have complex PTSD as a result.
But, I keep on going, and good stuff does happen, even though at times it doesn’t seem that it will.
...and some of us watched these, waiting for the punchline and instead take that pistol out of the desk. Time to fight THAT fucking demon again. So, yeah, thanks vldl.
@@waynedieckmann9840True enough, but also 🤦♂️
I appreciate this content, not only does it show a relatable version of many struggles people have on a daily basis. It also shows the acting abilities yall have. The last part with Ben I want to point out especially. He was able to go so smoothly from an online scumbag to a man who feels he has no one in his life who cares and that he can let care.
Very well done to all involved, cast and crew alike.
As a guy who experiences this daily I relate a lot to the first skit. The last few years has been hard. Pretty much the only thing that keeps me waking up in the morning is the three little creatures that I see every day. Probably couldn’t do it without them.
Please keep up the good fight. It is hard to see life's little joys when they appear. But I promise you that they will appear. Mental health is a marathon so pace yourself.
I promise, things DO get better. You do have to keep on fighting.
As a badge I've got says, "Survive out of Spite" 😉 if nothing else 🙂
I spent many years struggling with myself, but with time, you learn that you do have worth and meaning, even if it might be tough to see or accept sometimes.
But if you keep going, you have the opportunities for your life to improve, sometimes exponentially. 🙂
Keep going bud, and chin up. Keep working and one day you will realise that somehow, things HAVE gotten better, and that you are actively happy without realising.
Good luck and be stubborn, remember, you are worth it 🙂
Kids will do that to you, lol!
Have you tried snapping out of it or eating an apple?
Honestly same bro.
I really love the intovert one because it shows how complicated mental health it and that it’s not necessarily being around people but the types of interaction that cause the mental drain. Like I can talk to my best friend all night and feel fantastic the whole time, but even though I loved comic con I had to isolate myself several times to keep myself going.
Said it once and I'll say it again. Best content creation team online. Thank you for making these and caring about your audience.
100% with ya .
The diversity of their stuff too.
And all of it is good
That last sketch really took its mental toll on me. As an actor in training, I really learned to appreciate the honest emotions you're putting into these videos, and I am impressed with the level you reached in making them.
You're inspirational both as fellow actors, aswell as in regards to your willingness to tackle hard topics like mental health.
Maybe I should have just written:
"Nice video my doods"
Between them, these videos have probably saved dozens of lives, and helped hundreds more. Thank you.
You use comedy and nerd cred to make yourselves relatable, and that gives people the desire to want to listen to what you're saying and the ways that they can be helped. Don't stop.
I think almost every one of these sketches left me with a lump in my throat. You guys are doing great work! I know there are tons of people all across the world who are getting some help from these, just because it reminds us that we’re not alone in this struggle. Keep it up! You’re making a difference. (:
As someone who suffers from anxiety and depression this hits home
You are absolutely right.
It really hit’s because I’m one of them who struggles!
Stay strong!
It's mad how correct the first 3 minutes is. What's crazy is a lot of us are feeling the same. Why?
@@danhall7991 my personal opinion is that it has to do with religion, but i dont want to be that guy
@danhall7991 I think it is the influence of the dark spiritual side that God allows in our lives. Intrusive thoughts are intrusive because they don't come from us.
These are some of the best sketches. So well rounded, tragedy, comedy, heartbreaking, heartwarming, so real. And *some of the GREATEST acting!!!* Thank you ❤
Mental Health is still swept aside by much of society. Productions like this continue to make a change for good.
but if society cares about mental health how will we PROFIT PROFIT PROFIT!!!!!!!
Who the f*** sweeps away mental health nowadays?
If anything, big pharma overdiagnoses us in an effort to pop as many pills as possible.
You all make funny sketches that are just brilliant, but these sketches are what truly make Viva La Dirt League special. Everyone goes through phases of depression it different ways. It's not something that goes away entirely, which is what makes it hard to deal with. Thank you all for everything that you do and the compassion that comes across to all your fans.
"Take that, me... you bitch" is still a hilarious line and delivery.
Well well, fancy seeing you here.
This super cut came out at the perfect time. I’m having easily the worst time in my life and it’s refreshing to see this stuff. Thank you all for everything you do.
You guys blend funny with serious seamlessly. Thank you for spending time making these skits and for wanting to help people talk about their mental health. ❤
what I love about these sketches is that although they make it humorous, they also convey the seriousness and importance of mental health. easy to say VLDL is one of the best UA-cam channels ever ❤
Oh my gods that first sketch hit close to home. Not sure I can actually watch a whole bunch of that in a row. I'm so happy the cat saved the day 😭❤️
Similar thing happened with me years ago, and a little kitten stepped into my life out of nowhere and made things better 🙂
@@dahn57 Glad to hear it ❤️ My cat Charlie (picture) is a great support for me too. 😊
For me, its my jack russell terrier. ❤😸🐶❤
Everytime I see that skit with Ben texting his mom it brings tears to my ears cause its been how ive been for quite a while its not as bad anymore, but there was a periode where I just never left my bed and havent been able to speak to someone about it, he play it so incredibly well.
This should be shown everywhere. To everyone. This is how you spread awareness
The Fureheart scene in this compilation is a tear jerker.
Fantastic acting, Ben and Brit.
'Simon says' was always a tremendous piece of acting by Rowan
Thank you for doing these skits! It's so great that you guys make this a topic❤ Never stop! Wish you all the best❤
These videos are so great, lot of people out there need help and it is good to see you guys using your platform in an amusing but serious way, thank you VLDL x
This isn't funny skits.
This is... I don't know how to describe it, but it feels comforting and real.
Thank you.
This is too real, but I feel better that I am not alone and struggling. I applaud you guys for using your channel for addressing what some, if not most, people go through at some point in their lives. Thank you.
When I clicked on this video, I don't know what I was expecting. After watching it, and relating to many of the skits, It just feels wonderful to once again have a reminder that I am not alone. That one feeling, that one thought, has always been the thing that has held me back in life. It has encouraged me to open up more honestly to my therapist and to seek out others like me.
Thank you Viva la Dirt League, for all that you do for me and for everyone else.
Thank you all for making these skits. For people who might not even know that they might be struggling with mental health, these shed some light on knowing that maybe it’s not a normal thing to feel these ways, maybe we need to take a step back and focus on our self. The emotional roller coaster of the videos they can inflict on a viewer shows that these are for better understanding and help. Thank you again everyone at VLDL.
The first one still hits really hard, and gets me to tear up. Feels very real and as I teared up, my own kitty came to cuddle up ❤ 😢
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Man the last one made me cry so hard, I was hoping it would end on some happy note but it was just sadness 😢 Way too relatable..
I’ve been crying watching these videos. Every one of us has a struggle inside, fighting our demons every day. These mental health videos are really helping. Thank you, guys. VLDL is my most favourite channel on UA-cam. And you are getting better and better. Best regards! Andrew, Russia
If Depression Was a Dude was the very first VLDL video I ever watched, the link sent to me by a fellow teacher. Fell instantly in love with this group.
The last one made me tear up. Everything you described in that last long text is exactly how I feel everyday. I'm constantly in dark spots, wondering if I'll ever get out. I've shut myself out from my family and friends. I've never had a video relate so much to me before. Thank you so much for making these
A great supercut! Even with a bit of humor mental health can't be talked about enough.
ive been watching vldl for quite some time now, but this is this the most relevant video ive seen... thank yall for portraying these things.
I still go back and watch the "Dealing with roleplayers in a video game" (the Fireheart video) video often whenever I need to feel understood and need a bloody good cry
these mental health and couple struggles are my fav video! i like the idea that cat on the first video helped the bad thoughts go away
"Funny mental health sketches" sounds a bit strange 😂
Yeah
Why
Any mention of mental health has an instinctive negative connotation. Unfortunately.
That's probably because you don't understand that a lot of humor is drawn from the absurdity of the situation.
I applaud them for taking a new way of addressing it
My god you guys did such an awesome job getting everything right especially the anxiety and introverted videos
These are my favorites of all the videos on the channel. I've struggled with my mental health all my life, so I really appreciate them and relate to them. Thank you for making them.
For a channel that delivers so much great comedic content, you guys hit way harder than you have any right to, lol. I love the range of emotions and how genuine you all can be portraying them. Even more amazing, is how quickly you can swap between them, like Ben and Fireheart. The juxtaposition makes the emotions feel so much more real.
I can also only imagine that at least some of you deal with these issues yourselves, and the skits are all relatable. I definitely felt the introvert one and internet overload. The number of things I've written out and then deleted because I can't figure out how to press send and put the vulnerability into the world.
Same here... too many times I've spilled my guts to a friend then change my mind & delete the whole message. I literally get the same look that Ben has on his face, it's eerie
@@gretchen8100 I just watched that part again. I've had that same face more times than I care to admit, for sure.
Mixing humour and serious issues like MH is a difficult balance.
This made me laugh and cry in equal measure. Great work. Xxx
You guys are the best, the literal best, to make videos about these things and understand and care.
these sketches are genuinely some of your best, with that combination of marvellous acting, subtle humour, and really tactful and important messaging. appreciate it so much that you made these ❤
'That Voice' and 'Roleplaying' actually had me in tears. Great videos guys. The main guy in the voice sketch is an excellent emotive actor. Well done!
That bit where he crossed the bridge a second time and actually took a look hit hard man, been there once and it was hard to watch that, Kudos on broaching the subject matter
I’ve lost both my dad and my dog suddenly in the past year, I don’t really have anyone to talk to and even when I do they just say things like ‘we’re all going through it’ or ‘just try and stay positive’. Watching these sketches just felt really relatable and affirming, it’s nice seeing your feelings acknowledged and made light of and having something to relate to.
"Anything goddammit! None of them mean a fucking thing!"
Brilliant
This is so good because you guys are spot on. These are my daily struggles. Anxiety is paralyzing and depression makes you feel empty and useless. Medication made my body sick and my life a dull blur. Life is either a comedy or a tragedy, I choose comedy, thank you for sharing yours.
Rowan is depression and anxiety in every skit,and then he tries to be the cure and a psychologist?We all knew it wouldn't work out!
You made so many great videos, but this one is by far the best! So many layers!!
Half the time I laughed, the other half I cried. Thanks for this.
Simon says, "I'm very emotional right now," than the real Rowan comes out and is totally disrespectful lol
Im 4 minutes in and I'm laughing so hard I'm crying. If you ever watched self help things or been around narcissists, this video is spot on. Best video I've ever seen from you all!
I think if your 4 minutes in and thinking like that your probably just crying. It's gonna be OK man.
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Mental health is such a great taboo in many places. Many people are 'scared' to talk about.
It's such a shame.
Talking about it, having a person nearby that can lend you an ear or 2 for a moment. It's such a wonderful gift that can save a lot of people their lives.
I mean, they created a movie-level production. The whole cast have really come so far with their acting skills ❤️
Honnestly the best and most meaningful serie of skits VLDL did ... I love everything they do, but THIS, this matters!
If I recall correctly, Britt wrote the Fireheart sketch. If so, fantastic work Britt! And Ben was perfect for the role. He's also perfect for the Internet Overload sketch.
Every single one of these skits are so relatable to me. Almost made me cry at the end. Absolutely amazing
bro the first one was so wholesome at the end 😭
That suicidal thoughts bit made me laugh. Then realise I haven't had them for a while. Good on ya lads.
Thank you guys for making videos about mental health, Its a issue alot of people have trouble talking about. ❤
I love all VLDL videos, but these mental health sketches are really something special. Thank you for making these.
These are too true, Rowan just pointing over the bridge smiling 🤣💀
The last sketch had us all emotional....that one hit home...let's all face it.
We all want to speak out loud and tell what's on our heart but we don't want anyone see us breaking down...especially our mothers
may our mothers live to be 100 years old...you know you want that
After Ben ran away I half-expected a white shirt Brit to be on her shoulder destroying her self-confidence.
That, among most of the rest of it all really, was a heartbreaker.
Superb actors, and wonderful people ♥
Dark humor for the win. Loving these compilations.
Can tell these were written by people who know *exactly* how it is. Viva ♥
Thank you so much.
I struggle with mental issues since 20 years.
And it's pretty obvious many of you guys went through this in real life to write this stories so well which aim straight to the brain and Heart with so much power. It trully resonates in people like me.
I have never seen or heard people describing so perfectly "how it feels". You made my day.
Knowing we are not alone is the most precious pill to begin to cure i guess.
I hope it will also help people around to understand better, and then try to help better, if they can.
PS: sorry for my english, not my native language, but i am sure your hearts understood.
The best part is that you don't get exclusively just one disorder, it always come in combinations like depression and anxiety, panic attacks and suicidal thoughts, all of those mentioned and more...
Your sketches are usually awesome, but this set is not only awesome, it's probably the most important one you've made, at least up until now !
Very funny, but also painfully accurate!
Also, cats are THE BEST! Have one myself!
The suicidal thought in the first skit just made me lose it with laughter 😆👏🏼🤗😆 You all are Awesome👏🏼😆
We’ll done VLDL for doing these skits 👏 a tough subject but you absolutely nailed it 😊
The 1st sketch really hits hard
Every single one of these skits was beautiful and affirming. As someone who has been living with depression, anxiety, and neurodiversity, I have struggled so hard to tell my friends and family what it feels like. But once I showed this to my parents, they were able to see it, comprehend, and start to reach out in more than platitudes. Thank you, VLDL.
I relate so much, I can't decide if i should laugh or cry so i do both.
Both is good too
Love what you say at the end of the video 👏🏼🤙🏼🤜🏼🤛🏼 this is a really good idea with the normalizing of it 🙌🏼👏🏼
It's great seeing funny but impactful sketches like these instead of whatever schools are giving us nowadays. Keep it up!
@robertnope1993
As a straight huwyte man, I'll give you one guess as to how schools treat many of their students (and that's without getting into groomers).
My school pays people to come in and do these sketches about problems like vaping and bullying, which are much less prevalent than issues like mental health problems and are often not even applicable to our lives. I've spoken to some of my friends about this and we all agree that they actually make us feel worse, especially those of us who struggle with mental health. I would gladly watch VLDL instead of whatever they're giving us.@robertnope1993
This hit a spot i already knew was there but how raw and vunerable you all made your video. Just wow made me cry. I know this video was probably tough for a few of you making it. But thank you for doing it.
You know rowan playing as different mental issues is not surprising i mean dude is literally the manifestation of all the problems of alan,ben, and adam
That kind of talk is liable to get him to inspire himself with a speech about his hammer (which is rightfully his, apparently.)