நீங்க ரொம்ப "ஷை டைப்" ஆ? HOW TO OVERCOME SHYNESS | TheLJShow 026

In this video I share my science based step-by-step actionable formula to overcome Shyness.
The quickest way to stop being shy is to understand the reasons you feel shy and taking one actionable step towards overcoming your fear of expressing thoughts, ideas and feelings.
The essential ingredient to build social skills is to develop your ability to SMALL TALK. In this lesson, I teach you my 5 step strategy to level up your Small Talk Skills!
#1 Break The Autopilot
#2 Express Your Actual Feeling
#3 Share A Vulnerable Moment
#4 Question for Reciprocity
#5 Practice Small Talk with your Inner circle
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வெட்டிபேசு உண்மை ஆச்சு.அச்சம் போச்சு.வாழ்க்கை வெற்றி ஆச்சு.உங்கள் பேச்சு மந்திரம் ஆச்சு. ஷைடைப் மறஞ்சு போச்சு. உங்களுக்கு வாழ்த்துகள்.

[@DilipkumarM-DCM]

Akka... Sometimes loose talk vidravangala kuda sila perukku pidikkathu... That's y more of them feels shy to talk with others...

[@Missioniastnpsc]

அக்கா.. வணக்கம்
என்னுடைய நீண்ட நாள் பிரச்சனை இது.. என் வயது 26
எனக்கு வீட்டை விட்டு வெளிய வரும் போது ரொம்ப பயமாகவும் பதட்டமாகவும் இருக்கு.. ஏனென்றால் நான் சிறு வயதில் இருந்தே பக்கத்து வீட்டுக்காரங்கக்கிட்ட கூட சரியா பேசுனது இல்ல.. அதனால் நான் வீட்டை விட்டு வெளிய வரும் போது மத்தவுங்க எல்லாரும் என்னை பார்த்து எல்லாரும் என்ன நினைப்பாங்களோ அப்படின்ற நினைப்பு என்னுள் வந்து கொண்டே இருக்கிறது.. அதனாலயே நான் வெளிய போறத ரொம்பவே தவிர்க்கிறேன்... என் கண் முன்னே நான் இந்த தாழ்வு மனப்பான்மையால தினம் தினம் செத்து {கொண்டிருக்கிறேன் { எனது சிறு வயதிலேயே அப்பா தவறி விட்டார்.. அதனால என்னால இந்த சமூகத்தோட ஒன்றிணைய முடியவே இல்லை.
இதற்காக தனியா ஒரு வீடியோ போடுங்க ப்ளீஸ்..
காத்திருக்கிறேன் நன்றி

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Me too

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Ungalukku irukkura problem Social anxiety.... please contact one good psychiatrist... naanum ungala maathiri thaa irunthaen psychiatrist contact panninathukku apparam feeling better

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உங்களுக்கு உள்ள shyness வேற அதுக்கு நீங்க physcotist டாக்டர் பார்க்கனும் ok...

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@@tamilaruvita i m also like u shall u give me for overcome this

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Very Nice...

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Thankyou mam
Friendly suggestion
it will be useful for me.

[@LavanyaJayakumar]

😇👍⚡

[@moganavasikaran8351]

iDominate, thank you Lavanya very nice ... taking up the challenge now ... but sometimes used to wonder why small talk, is it not unnecessary ... but it does has effect !

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Very useful video mam

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Thanks for your great work.

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Good mam.Thank you so much..

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This video is really address my needs & thank U mam

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I learn many things from you thank you lot pls give advice on how to overcome love failure pls.........

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Now a day ur videos are very useful for this generation, especially for youngsters. Thank u mam 🙏 .

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the greatest results that ive had was by using the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - I found it the best resource that I have ever seen.

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U creating new platform for ur viewer's. .... Its very useful to all..... Ur thinking is quite different. ..

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😍

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i got new fewthinks learned from you.

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[@smishasundar8554]

Good morning madam, I'm really respectful men at the same time so shy type.. so i've no any close friend and no close relative.. this topic is really helpful me to over come my shyness in future madam, thank you so much...🙏🙏🙏

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Keep hustling 😇👍⚡

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Super video it's really help me to overcome my shyness ur self motivation videos are very use full be continue😇😇😇

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Sure mam,i will try it...

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Superb mam... I am basically shy type.. I will try to overcome it... This is very useful video for me.. thank u soooooo much

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I dominate

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Thank you Akka for this video 😊👍

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Thank you so much mam basically I have very shy but now iam very clear after watching ur video definitely I can practice small talk.

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Good try Sis, let's,see how far this works.

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I DOMINATE...surely i will practise lj.excellent video lj.thanks a lot.

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En manasla think panadha apdiye soliteenga,.. i will follow these steps from now,. thank you

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I dominate...
Thank you so much for this video...

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Super idea ... But...It like story telling ...., Thank you...

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i dominate ✍️.. Exact video for me🏌.....Thanks lot Lavanya 🙏.. Great 5 points ....will be useful most of us👍👍👍 Rocking well LJ 🏌🏌🏌

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😇👍⚡ Awesome Nirmal

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for begineers...discuss some tips.

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Madam Lavanya, very good video.i will try
Thanks

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Smart attitude ...

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good.

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Madam your speech is so usefull na romba shyness na ethum pesuna relation enna nenaipangalo nu pesa matten ithukku solution slunga

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Very very very thank you sister

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super

[@sankarnarayanan9831]

Thanks lavanya , I got an awesome answer from you .
I got an answer "small talk ".
இந்த small talk தான் English பேசுறதுக்கும் useful ஆக இருக்கிறது .
கட கட ந்னு ஆங்கிலம் பேசுறது எப்படின்னு என்ண்ட்ட நிறையா பேரு கேட்பாங்க but நான் Technical answer பண்ணிருக்கேன் but அவங்களுக்கு இதுவரை புரியவைக்க கஷ்டபட்டுட்டுருந்தேன் இப்ப அதுக்குண்டான answer கிடைச்சுருச்சு .
இந்த small talk அப்படிங்குற விஷயம் எனக்கு தெரிஞ்சிருந்தாலும் அதை" வெட்டி பேச்சு" அப்படின்னு அறிமுகபடுத்தினீங்க பாருங்க அங்கதான் எனக்கு தெளிவே பிறந்தது .
English chat பண்றவங்க ஆங்கிலம் பேச நினைக்கும் போது முடியாம போறதுக்கு காரணம் - அவங்க எழுத்துல காட்டுற வெட்டி பேச்ச , பேச்சில் காண்பிக்கும் போது அவங்களுக்கு ஏற்படுகிற கூச்சம்(shyness)தான் .
Again, Thanks lavanya .

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Tq

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Thank you 😇

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nice mam. thank you. i try panren

[@LavanyaJayakumar]

👍

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Hi Akka ..
I m basically silent person and shy type
My big problems is not easily mingle with others and
I can't speak well to my friends. Please give some other tips to overcome this problem
I m watching Ur video s

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Super sis
Tq

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I'm Satia here,, I want improvement my eyes problems... Plz help me lavanya...

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Awesome sister I like to speak people but they don't want interested to talk with me the only problem happened in my life

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Thank you sissy

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Thank you sissy...

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I Dominate.
Akka all of your LJ shows are really interesting and life changing.

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Super.nice

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Sema Akka...

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#TribeAwesome, Woooow Amazing video, most of the people challenge this shyness problem even me too, Now I got a solution from your video, it's wonderful, I'm going to try this 2mRw, I Dominate, Thank you for such a valuable content..!👌👌👌😊

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Awesome 😇👍⚡

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I am also shy type and not mingle with other person. Please give some tips for this

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Super Sister

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#tribeawesome, hi Lavanya Akka , I dominate, I am already very talkable person,but sometimes bore feeling varudhu nu friends soluvaanga , adhuku neenga Sona technic very useful la irukum , thank you very much.

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😍👍⚡ Super

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Speech is true

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Mam ennoda ponnu (5 years) ipdidha silentla irukka veetla nalla pesura but veliya pona romba koocham padura naa evlovo solli paathute but ava payama irukunu soldraa na enna seiradhu plz tip sollugga

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sis entha shyness poga Vera ethavathu tips kodunga most ah friends kita pesiduvanga oru class munadi neraya per munadi pesa koocha padravanga epadi overcome pananum reply pls

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Great video. Please take care of audio quality. Echoing...

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Sounds fine to me 🤔

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Hi.. Lavanya.. How are you?

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Why coffee 🤔

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