Finally updated!!! Have you reconciled with Er Gou? To be very serious, you are the most beautiful Pakistani girl that all fans have seen so far, which you may not even realize yourself. So, you can definitely become more confident, you have become a star for many Chinese people. That's why so many people are paying attention to you. Of course, there is also the beautiful and lovely Yang San Gou!
@@Rishivlogr-1 Yes, we can all see that you love your baby very much! You are a great mother, and when you decide to go to China, you need immense courage. When you decide to leave your hometown and relatives and come to a completely unfamiliar country, culture, language... I can't imagine how complicated your emotions were at that time. Compared to other mothers, you need to put in much more effort. But since you have made this decision, we sincerely hope that you can integrate into China's family and life as soon as possible, and even more so, we hope that your husband and wife are happy.
You can take more videos of your daughter. People around you are taking videos. As a mother, why don't you take videos of her? In China, she is a hot topic and traffic. At least 70% of people pay attention to your husband because of your daughter.@@Rishivlogr-1
Rishi, just hope the following article may be useful to you. 10 Tips for Dealing with Someone's Narcissistic Personality Traits Maintaining a relationship with someone with narcissistic personality traits can affect your well-being and mental health. Setting clear boundaries and relying on a support system of people you trust can help you find a way forward. The term narcissist is tossed around frequently. It’s used to describe people who seem self-focused, concerned only for themselves, or manipulative of people in their lives. However, it’s important to remember that narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a legitimate mental health condition that can create significant challenges for the person living with it. Only a qualified mental health professional can diagnose this condition based on the criteria outlinedTrusted Source in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5-TR). Still, some people can exhibit narcissistic characteristics without being diagnosed with NPD. Here’s a look at some practical ways to deal with someone who has NPD or narcissistic tendencies - plus some tips for recognizing when it’s time to move on.
1. Educate yourself about NPD People often describeTrusted Source someone with a narcissistic personality as charming and likable, which may make it easy to overlook some of their other more harmful behaviors. However, it’s important to familiarize yourself with the signs of NPD so that they are easier to recognize. This can also help you better understand the person’s strengths and weaknesses so you are prepared to navigate any challenges. Plus, it can be the first step in learning to accept them for who they are and setting more realistic expectations about your relationship.
2. Build your self-esteem Building healthy self-esteem can make it much easier to handle and cope with some of the potentially harmful behaviors you may encounter with someone who has NPD or narcissistic tendencies. Engaging in positive self-talk, practicing self-care, and finding a healthy support system can help you develop resilience and foster your self-esteem. Having higher self-esteem can also make it easier to set clear boundaries, be assertive, and advocate for yourself, all of which are key to maintaining a relationship with someone with NPD.
3. Advocate for yourself Sometimes, ignoring something or simply walking away is an appropriate response - pick your battles, right? But a lot depends on the relationship. For example, dealing with a boss, parent, or spouse may call for a different strategy than dealing with a co-worker, sibling, or child. If you feel your boundaries have been crossed, try not to react, get visibly flustered, or show annoyance. If it’s someone you’d like to keep close to in your life, then you owe it to yourself to speak up. Try to do this in a calm, gentle manner. Tell them how their words and conduct impact your life. Be specific about what’s unacceptable and how you expect to be treated, but prepare yourself for the fact that it may be challenging for them to understand or empathize with your feelings.
4. Enforce clear and consistent boundaries Instead of trying to change someone with NPD or narcissistic tendencies, it’s best to set boundaries about any behaviors that are unacceptable to you and communicate them clearly to the other person. You should also enforce these boundaries rather than making idle threats or ultimatums to ensure you are being taken seriously.
5. Practice skills to keep calm Practicing skills like deep breathing, yoga, or meditation may make it easier to remain calm and avoid reacting when interacting with someone who has NPD or narcissistic tendencies. Becoming clear on your intentions or practicing what you plan to say before asserting your boundaries may also be beneficial. It can also help you anticipate how they may react to challenging conversations so that you can respond appropriately.
Rishi，one of my friends just sends her regards to you. You are cared and loved by many kind people in China and around the world, wish you well❤
Thanks i no in china have good people all chinese not same
You and your friend good people and thanks talking to me
@@Rishivlogr-1 You are not alone, if you want to chat, we will be here with you at any time, you do need support. Take great care of yourself ❤
Rishi，you are very beautiful both inside and outside, hope all goes well with you and your baby, take care x
Thanks far taking to me and i wish my life better
You should be treated like queen .give me orders
Hope your little girl get well soon!
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Lovely, hope you are alright.
Hope you everything goes well ❤
so cute
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Finally updated!!! Have you reconciled with Er Gou? To be very serious, you are the most beautiful Pakistani girl that all fans have seen so far, which you may not even realize yourself. So, you can definitely become more confident, you have become a star for many Chinese people. That's why so many people are paying attention to you. Of course, there is also the beautiful and lovely Yang San Gou!
Am come to china because i love my baby in china good study my baby
@@Rishivlogr-1 Yes, we can all see that you love your baby very much! You are a great mother, and when you decide to go to China, you need immense courage. When you decide to leave your hometown and relatives and come to a completely unfamiliar country, culture, language... I can't imagine how complicated your emotions were at that time. Compared to other mothers, you need to put in much more effort. But since you have made this decision, we sincerely hope that you can integrate into China's family and life as soon as possible, and even more so, we hope that your husband and wife are happy.
You can take more videos of your daughter. People around you are taking videos. As a mother, why don't you take videos of her? In China, she is a hot topic and traffic. At least 70% of people pay attention to your husband because of your daughter.@@Rishivlogr-1
You can search for 杨三狗. There are videos of your daughter there.
@@xccxcc360 如果哪一天视频里出现老公，宝贝女儿的时候，证明她想开了。而不是藏着掖着，怕别人知道似的。
Rishi, just hope the following article may be useful to you.
10 Tips for Dealing with Someone's Narcissistic Personality Traits
Maintaining a relationship with someone with narcissistic personality traits can affect your well-being and mental health. Setting clear boundaries and relying on a support system of people you trust can help you find a way forward.
The term narcissist is tossed around frequently. It’s used to describe people who seem self-focused, concerned only for themselves, or manipulative of people in their lives.
However, it’s important to remember that narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a legitimate mental health condition that can create significant challenges for the person living with it.
Only a qualified mental health professional can diagnose this condition based on the criteria outlinedTrusted Source in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5-TR).
Still, some people can exhibit narcissistic characteristics without being diagnosed with NPD.
Here’s a look at some practical ways to deal with someone who has NPD or narcissistic tendencies - plus some tips for recognizing when it’s time to move on.
1. Educate yourself about NPD
People often describeTrusted Source someone with a narcissistic personality as charming and likable, which may make it easy to overlook some of their other more harmful behaviors.
However, it’s important to familiarize yourself with the signs of NPD so that they are easier to recognize.
This can also help you better understand the person’s strengths and weaknesses so you are prepared to navigate any challenges.
Plus, it can be the first step in learning to accept them for who they are and setting more realistic expectations about your relationship.
2. Build your self-esteem
Building healthy self-esteem can make it much easier to handle and cope with some of the potentially harmful behaviors you may encounter with someone who has NPD or narcissistic tendencies.
Engaging in positive self-talk, practicing self-care, and finding a healthy support system can help you develop resilience and foster your self-esteem.
Having higher self-esteem can also make it easier to set clear boundaries, be assertive, and advocate for yourself, all of which are key to maintaining a relationship with someone with NPD.
3. Advocate for yourself
Sometimes, ignoring something or simply walking away is an appropriate response - pick your battles, right?
But a lot depends on the relationship. For example, dealing with a boss, parent, or spouse may call for a different strategy than dealing with a co-worker, sibling, or child.
If you feel your boundaries have been crossed, try not to react, get visibly flustered, or show annoyance.
If it’s someone you’d like to keep close to in your life, then you owe it to yourself to speak up. Try to do this in a calm, gentle manner.
Tell them how their words and conduct impact your life. Be specific about what’s unacceptable and how you expect to be treated, but prepare yourself for the fact that it may be challenging for them to understand or empathize with your feelings.
4. Enforce clear and consistent boundaries
Instead of trying to change someone with NPD or narcissistic tendencies, it’s best to set boundaries about any behaviors that are unacceptable to you and communicate them clearly to the other person.
You should also enforce these boundaries rather than making idle threats or ultimatums to ensure you are being taken seriously.
5. Practice skills to keep calm
Practicing skills like deep breathing, yoga, or meditation may make it easier to remain calm and avoid reacting when interacting with someone who has NPD or narcissistic tendencies.
Becoming clear on your intentions or practicing what you plan to say before asserting your boundaries may also be beneficial.
It can also help you anticipate how they may react to challenging conversations so that you can respond appropriately.