When my daughter came out to me, I already knew. I had always known. But I cried for days. Only because I KNEW that people she loved...family...would disappoint her by not accepting who she was. I will protect her with everything I have, though. She deserves a beautiful life and I swear to God, she WILL have it.
Because he is finding his voice in a lose lose situation and his voice is beautiful, powerful and strong. It gets me too. It's the Rising. Everybody can hear the Truth in him, even when they don't want to.
From what I think, I think it's because people kept telling him that by being this way, hes hating this parents and is building up anger from his parents when that isnt true. He loves them both so much but cant control the way he is. Sometimes anger just comes out from one person and because it's so pent up, he explodes. Its not because of someone in our lives who just wanna help in a detrimental way. But that's just what I think.
Because he said in no plain terms, but was by no means disrespectful. He was raised properly in a respectful manner, but their core beliefs were messed up in the fact they practically preached hate. If you get what I'm trying to say
I was married to a gay man who wanted nothing more than to be straight. The extent our church went to in order to "pray the gay away" was disgusting. Nothing "Godly" about the bullshit they spewed. He is still my absolute soul mate and nothing makes me happier than when he and his partner bring their two adopted children over for family dinners. The church set him and myself up for so much pain. It hurt like hell when I knew I had to let him be who is was/is but after some time to heal I wouldn't trade our new dynamic for the world.
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Your husband is the bullshit. What if every man on Earth was like him. Wouldn't that be a nice World?
As a Christian I am emotional just watching the trailer! It breaks my heart there are people using Gods name to spread hate and discrimination. God CAN and DOES love you the way you are. Anyone telling you something different is mistaken.
Nicole Moana First of all, you are a great person and I wish more Christians were like you. Second of all, the Bible is full of extremely backwards and cruel ideas, like the hatred of homosexuality, and on top of that, it's full of contradictions and was written by multiple authors hundreds of years after the alleged events occurred. Many former Christians like myself have come to the conclusion that it's all made up. I don't want to pressure you but I highly encourage you to question your beliefs, the fact that you don't think homosexuality is wrong means you already are to some degree.
If you rewatch the movie and pay close attention you will see photos of members, in the hall of the conversion place, who are supposedly "ex-gay." Meaning that the movie implied that the pastor "used to be gay," including all the employees at the therapy place. The leutenant guy even says "that your teachers have overcome." Referring to homosexuality. I watched the film about 7x already 😁
Sapphire Axel I hope that he lives with the guilt of hurting people like him forever. He is a victim of this society but as soon as he became an abuser I stopped feeling sorry for him
i am a christian, and also a part of the lgbtq+ community. i would be thrilled to have a child that is a part of this community. idk how you can say that this is ok and this is loving your child. because it’s not. you’re hurting your child
I am a straight woman. I do not understand homophobia. How can this be a problem to anyone is beyond my comprehension! 2 adults love each other, want to be together, don’t wanna hurt anyone --> where is the problem in accepting this situation?
@InaudibleBoom Emotional doesn't equal illogical. Your comment is shallow generalizing and I would say sexist to both genders. Stop thinking with stereotypes. Maybe try to understand what is actually meant by this phrase. You have not the slightest idea of what mother-child connection is possible of.
@InaudibleBoom You sound like a bitchy queen. What the fuck are you even talking about? Do you love to put people down for no reason? Transgender has absolutely nothing to do with this film. If you don't like the trailer then get the fuck out and let others enjoy it. You obviously have a lot of hate in your heart. I am a LGBTQ supporter through and through... I'm Christian and I'm also bisexual. I am also a mother, and married to a straight man. None of that shit matters, you know why... God made me like this and I will not apologize.
I waited a lifetime to come out. My mother stopped talking to me, my minister brother told me I’d never be happy and hasn’t spoken to me in 4 years. He told me that if I ever wanted “to come back“ that he would be waiting for me with open arms. But I told him I hadn’t gone anywhere. I was still the good son, still the loving big brother. I was just being true to myself. And guess what? I am happy! Life is too short to hide behind fear and ignorance.
Heck yeah! I am sorry about your family though. :/ I hope you have people who support you, though. Everyone deserves to be who they want to be without fear and judgment.
Sir, you have done the right thing to be honest with yourself. My mother also thinks I have a mental disorder. Okay, it is true that I have 2 mental disorders, anxiety and depression that was caused by her. Okay, the point is that you have to be honest, not only to yourself but others and for that, you are strong and God blesses you with so much love and grace everyday.
When he breaks the news that he is gay, I started crying watching Nicole Kidmans reaction! It was so real. Like she knew in that moment her entire world was gonna about to change.
Thanks everybody for supporting the movie. It was an honor to have a role in this movie - I played "Phillip" - I was one of the conversion camp attendees. If you have any questions about the production of the movie - ask a question in the comments and I'll answer what I can. Thanks again!
@@nickperez3301 Hey Nick - i shot for almost a month just outside Atlanta - the total film shot for about 2 months. My favorite part was working with Joel Edgerton - such a complete pro. Great actor, even better director.
to think there are supporters of this therapy in 2018 is heartbreaking. when will humanity understand we're all just people instead of trying to label categorize and separate. hate is a destructive force. love each other. All we need is love
I was raised a catholic because of my family but I don't feel identified with it anymore, it's been years since I decided to believe in love, that's my only religion. If you believe in love you have the power of faith without the double moral standards, without the judgement, without the bullshit of religion! Catholicism needs to explain lots of things before they can point fingers and talk about love. From the persecution and atrocities of the inquisition up to the atrocities of these days. Like the hush hush approach towards pedophiles in the clergy and lots of other things. Lots of explaining to do!! So I pass...
ChemicalFX can’t tell if you are supporting gay people or not, but there is scientific evidence to show the being gay is in the brain and a lot of the time it cannot be helped.
ChemicalFX what is your explanation to homosexuality then? because i am gay and what i know is i never found opposite gender sexually attractive or never had any romantic inclination toward them, it always has been with a same gender person
Lol i can relate to this.. catholic schools focus soo much on keeping the girls away from the boys and then are flabbergasted when the girls end up "crossing to the other side"
I'm 72, have been out for years - but this one trailer hit me so hard ... to think that there are people who actually have to go through that kind of torture ... I'm crying ... deep and sobbing. How sad we as a people have become ...
..and this movie too! this movie is already in my fav collection of movies on boxxy software and i wanna re-watch it cause i discovered that boxxy can be run 100% perfectly safe and private if i activate the built in vpn
As a believer and a out gay man (I'm currently 25 years old) I first saw this when I was 23 years old. A friend at my church actually told me to watch this. It brought me to tears. I'm very lucky that although I lost my church I went to when I came out, a lot of friends. I didn't lose my faith. I was lucky to have found a place to call my home spiritually. But I believe all Christians need to see this movie. It's so moving.
Putting gay people in camp WITH troye sivan isnt gonna work (Edit: this comment got 2x platinum yall!!! wig oh my god tea) (Edit again: this got 4x platinum, i would like to thank my parents, and my manager.. also m-)
Not gay. Nor do I know anyone going through anything like this. But I am human. I feel like this story will bring a necessary attention to those with dehumanizing attitudes.
@@MorgaineLionett Any state, condition or practice that goes against nature and scripture, "He created male and female" is an indication that something has gone wrong. So, no matter what name you choose to apply doesn’t negate this fact. In conclusion you need to know that God never intended for men to lay with each other and attempt to have sex in some unnatural way. Unfortunately, he’s given us the freedom to choose so therefore we feel whatever we choose must be right or whatever we feel must be right. Nothing could be further from the truth. Truth is not based on our psychological beliefs, emotional state or circumstances. Truth is based on the spoken and written word of God which again you can choose to believe or disbelieve.
@@inneedofchangenow He also created women to be servants to men. I don't see you complaining about gender equality. God didn't intend for technology to exist, and you don't complain about that either. And I have another little something for you: Paul says in one of his letters that "a woman shall not assume authority over a man. She is to remain quiet." Paul states that women, like you, have no right to educate (though you try to educate me about untrue things) men, like me. I'd you want to bring the Bible into this, please do it all the way, or not at all. Also I don't believe that God has a problem with homosexuality, based on my own studies on the matter.
@@inneedofchangenow Why don't you stick to 1 Timothy 2:12? That's right, two can play that game. Are you going to tell me that this is outdated? Well, so are your views on homosexuality.
Just watched this movie and OMG I cried my eyes out. I’m a 35 year old closeted male, and in my family it’s not accepted. I don’t want to loose my family so I learned how to fake it till you make it. It’s not healthy but I’m content. Maybe in another life I’ll get to live my true life. Not seeking attention, i just related so much to this movie.
I hope you realize you've not been 💯 authentic with yourself in this lifetime. You cried your eye out for a reason. There is an inner true self of you that wants...and NEEDS to be authentically transparent.
Coming out is the single hardest thing I've ever had to do. My family is still healing from it. And yet, I can also tell you that living in the closet, there is never a point that you "make it." Because I was in the closet, I sealed off huge parts of who I was from my family for 33 years, and as a result, I have, and continue to have, many difficulties connecting with people emotionally. Coming out does not make life better, nor does it magically solve all of life's problems. However, when I finally did come out to my family, despite the hardship, despite the heartbreak, despite the pain, tears, and distress, I also witnessed more love than I ever believed possible. My coming out brought my family closer. It doesn't make the 33 years of living in the closet worth it, but it has proven to me that my family is stronger than I ever gave it credit. I can't promise that you won't lose your family by coming out. However, you will always resent them in your heart for your choice, and your family will never truly be at peace with you when you keep such a huge part of your identity from them. No one can make the choice for you, and no one can say what is, and is not worth it. All I can say is that coming out was worth it to me, despite the pain and disruption it caused everyone involved.
They are all spin-offs about their lifes after the movie, it’s cleary. She became a actress and play this historic movie. Tim turns out a chemical dependency and about Lucas, the history just continues, and unfortunately, through painfull ways, with Troye Sivan
God loves all means He's willing to forgive those who sincerely want forgiveness (which means they will seek to deny themselves and deny their sin nature and follow Him). God doesn't instead ignore someone spitting on that forgiveness, refuse to stop sinning, and say "sin all you want, it doesn't matter". It's why He went to the cross. If we reject that forgiveness because we want to live in sins of any kind, we'll be facing God not only for judgment for our actions, but for refusing His offer to forgive and forget. Please read the gospels again and forget what anyone else has "told" you it says. Eternity depends upon it.
Those who know Scripture,know that God does not love all...He loves His own.He doesn't cast sin into Hell,He casts sinners into Hell.He cannot love sin,or sinners.No where in Scripture does it say this.God in His infinite mercy,made a way for sinners to be reconciled to God,through the sacrifice of His only Son,Jesus Christ.Most "Christians" don't read their Bibles or they wouldn't be spewing out false teachings.God is righteous and holy and cannot look upon our sin.But He is merciful and made a way.One Way,through Christ.Repent means to turn from your sin.And yes,if someone is truly grieved over their sin,ALL sin,they can,through the work of Christ in them,be delivered from sin.He is enough.He is able to do what no man can do.
@@ForumLight We live in such a death defying society. So much so, people like you crave immorality and are willing to believe in heaven. And use hell to motivate religious faith. Be that as it may, it is called faith for a reason. Not facts. You can believe in God all you like. It is no different from having faith that Zeus exists.
@@Noa...... Although it will not make anyone believe, these are things that prove God is real, that the Bible is divinely inspired, and that we will be without excuse when we face Him to give account for our lifetime of breaking His laws *AND* refusing to be forgiven for it: The Bible is the only 'religious' book that dares to make prophecies, almost 2,000 that have come true after the fact of them being written down, even up to thousands of years later, proving it's divine origin. Easily searchable. Although it is not a science textbook, there are dozens of facts about reality in the Bible that scientists didn't and couldn't figure out until hundreds and thousands of years later, up to the 1890's, also proving its divine origin. Easily searchable. All religious texts were written in one lifetime by one person - the Bible was written over 1,500 years through 40 people and reads as one mind. The grave of all false religions' prophets has their bones - the grave of Christ is empty - although they're desperately trying to find it to try discrediting Christianity. You can_kill thousands in the name of a false religion like islam, and people of that country will bend over backwards to help you build a church where you did it. You dare mention Christ, hand out a tract, and you're met with the utmost hatred. As Jesus said: John 15.18-19 *"[Jesus said]If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you."* People who profess faith in Christ have major changes instantly from the inside out that they were unable to overcome over a lifetime. It won't really make people believe who need to reject the truth of God, but we know all we need to know. The world seeks to keep us blind to the truth of God. When we face Him, it won't work to say "well how was I supposed to know?" We know all we need to know and will be without excuse. I implore people to re-read the gospels yet again and forget what anyone or any book or any church claims it says. Judgment is coming for us all for breaking God's laws - crimes against God - and refusing His offer to forgive and forget in the person of Jesus Christ. Forgiveness is through Christ Jesus, not through a religion that says we must do what they say to get forgiveness from Christ.
@@ForumLight The claim on truth always seems to rest on religion that you happen to be indocnitninated. Reading the Bible or gospels and feeling God in your heart are not evidence. Of course, you would claim that all of the other 4200 religions are false religions. Faith is just another word for ignorance. I care more about wisdom of mind in rationality. Good day.
I came here for Troye, but honestly this seems like an amazing movie and I really want to go see it now skskks (but I mean, still a plus because t r o y e s i v a n)
I want to live in a world where everyone gets accepted for who they are. no matter their skin, their origin, their sexuality, their interests etc. let people live. let them be happy. being happy is the most important thing in life
I am a christian. I love God. I do not hate on the LGBTQA+ community. As a follower of the love, light, and peace of Jesus Christ, I want to make it my mission on topics like this to let people know they are truly loved the way they are. You are BEAUTIFULLY and WONDERFULLY made. God is love, and love is love.
If God is all about love, why is he against the love between two individuals of the same sex. Oh, wait. The Bible said something about our "love" being lust and sexual immorality. Erm...
@@Noa...... Why are you attacking her? She said she doesn't believe in this God, she believes in God who accepts you the way you are. Chill out, she is your friend.
I was 32 years old when I finally found the strength to tell my parents, Nov. 10th 1998, a day I could never ever forget. The hardest thing I've ever done.
My Dad had a bit of a rough time coming to grips with it, but he did. A few years later he told my partner that he loved him. The weight of the world on my shoulders was relieved on that Nov. day. Thanks for asking.
Watching this hurts. A young man I know killed himself two years ago. His religious parents put him in a conversion program when he told them, as a teenager, that he was gay.
im sorry that he committed suicide. its so sad that people still think that homosexuality is bad or disgusting, and they put people through things like that...I dont understand it and it makes me sad
As a Christian myself it pains me to see young people go through something like that. I do not agree with these 'conversion programs'. They do nothing but do more harm than good. What they truly need is for us to show that we still love them despite their differences.
watched a young man die in our ICU from a tylenol overdose. Parents sent him to gay camp, and when he came back he was still gay, they wanted nothing to do with him, so he overdosed; family was not at his death bed. Just the nurses and aides.
“They say sometimes you got to hurt a child in order to help them, but a mother knows when something isn’t right.” Nicole Kidman’s acting is going to tear me apart 😭❤️
This movie hurt my soul. I'm still closeted at 26 and I don't know if I'll ever be fully out, but I'm so glad I never had to attend conversion therapy. It is actual psychological abuse. Amazing film and brilliant acting. I'm so glad that Jared made it through alive.
I'm 15 and still in the closet. All I can say to you is that life is short, and it would be a terrible thing for you to spend more of it NOT being your true self than living freely and happily. I hope you can find people in your life who give you the support you need and the courage you need to be your authentic self.
sweetbaybabz It’s sad in this day and age that you don’t feel that you can be your true self. Life is too short and before you know it your old and to never have found love would suck.
Hey guys! Have any of you come out in the years since commenting? I hope so, or I hope u have found inner peace and are accepting of urself. There is nothing wrong with being gay, I know the struggles hard, I been through it myself. But please know that other people are always gonna talk, regardless of if ur out or not. People love to gossip. I hope one day that people will be able to never have to “come out”.
@@devinpeirce7152 This question, "why do you feel the need to advertise it," feels like a micro aggression. Maybe it is just ignorance. Coming out isn't about a need to advertise. It's about knowing where it is safe to "just live your life." "Just living your life" as a queer person inevitably "outs" you, and it is helpful to know beforehand where you will be affirmed.
Malak Sh the same thing happened in my country too I fucking hate this Some people want to watch a gay movie some people don't, let the people watch what ever the fuck they want
My kid can be straight, bi, gay whatever. But the important thing is they grow up to be good people with honest hearts. I also want them to finish college, period.
Earning a college degree has nothing to do with being a republican or a liberal. It's an investment towards a better future but that is my personal belief. I think most people of Asian descent like me greatly value education.
SleepDa Mouse Conversion therapy harms people and is trauma-inducing. It is NEVER a good thing. Why do you think it was banned from so many places? No, it’s not a choice that belongs to the family because it’s literally mistreatment. Have you even seen the movie?
Rubicon V Helped What? I've seen "But I'm a Cheerleader." I've seen the aftermath of an exorcism. I've lived through getting it beaten out of me. What would a place like that have done to help me besides taking my religion from me?
See the issue here isn’t religion but people who decide to use religion to justify their anger or hate. This movie is going to be so meaningful to so many. I’m very much looking forward to seeing it next week
This looks incredibly hard to watch, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. The idea of conversion therapy is so fucked up and personally I know people who have been very damaged by it. It’s a really rough subject and I’m glad this film doesn’t seem to hold back from that.
Y'all are hateful and mad because you never got to express yourselves when you were younger... I feel bad for you guys, honestly. Is straight love any better? According to the Bible, the same one I'm sure we've all read, it basically says that all love is bad. Besides. Most straight people get abortions anyways because they don't want to take care of a child... at least homosexuals actually care about the life God gives us.
Timothee Chalamet: BEAUTIFUL BOY Armie Hammer: ON THE BASIS OF SEX / SORRY TO BOTHER YOU Saoirse Ronan: MARY QUEEN OF SCOTS Lucas Hedges: BOY ERASED Luca Guadagnino: SUSPIRIA *This year is AWESOME!*
Nikaya Lazuli The only nominations I care about are Phoenix You were never really here, Gyllenhaal or Ahmed or C Reilly Sisters brothers, Bale, Adams or Rockwell Backseat, Pattinson for anything since the Dicaprio or De Niro, Pacino, Plemons only come out next year
MidKry LeGda The only nominations I care about are Phoenix You were never really here, Gyllenhaal or Ahmed or C Reilly Sisters brothers, Bale, Adams or Rockwell Backseat, Pattinson for anything since the Dicaprio or De Niro, Pacino, Plemons only come out next year
Conservative Hamster huh. Ive seen more family's ripped apart by conservative parents. So maybe you should be less insensitive. And look past your own pride to see that there are actually people hurting because of this. And it is not a joke. What ever your experience is, im sorry. But saying things like that is hurtful to people and unnecessary.
_Boy Erased_ is actually adapted from Garrard Conley's memoir, titled _Boy Erased: A Memoir_ . It is written, co-produced and directed by Joel Edgerton who also stars in the film as the head therapist at a gay conversion therapy program.
you shouldn't be mean to your mother and father when you come out to them and they can't accept it right away. You must be understanding of them too. Empathy. The people who scream and yell at their parents for not accepting them are just spoiled rotten (usually white hipster and emo kids from the suburbs. They're always mad about something). I'm gay and do not feel ashamed. I told my family and they had a hard time with it. But I didn't scream and yell and slam doors like some maniac. My mother was a full on Catholic woman and was embarrassed by my gayness (she passed away). Oh well, it is what it is. God made me and that's not a mistake. I'm not a mistake.
I was brought up as a jehova's witness and this rings so close to home.. especially the part where the father said "we are not done" and he said "I am, because you won't listen..." That was the exchange with my own father that broke my heart for a long time...
Andre Gayle my mom and dad are both Jehovah’s witnesses too but I think they’re cool with it since my dad has been asking me if I’m a lesbian since years ago but I denied everytime he asked because I’m not ready to explain yet
maziebunny2 Honestly, I left that one out because of all the problems behind the scenes. I'm still excited for it because Rami Malek looks like he's going to be great as Mercury, but between the drama involving Bryan Singer and the talk that the movie neuters who Freddie Mercury was outside of Queen, my excitement has gone to cautious.
and in my town, they do early bird showings for the important ones. and I have a feeling that this and Bohemian Rhapsody will get that treatment and that'll start my Oscar season (which officially is November 1st) right.
The dad in this film, Hershel"Marshall" Conley is now the pastor of The Bridge Baptist Church in Mountain Home, AR. He preaches NOTHING but hate against every single kind of person he doesnt like or doesn't agree with him. I used to go to his church when I was a kid. Ive met Garrard and his mother and they are both wonderful people.
This reminds me of how scared I was to tell my parents. They're still critical of it, but my goodness they're a lot more accepting of it than some people. This trailer is some powerful stuff. I'm not crying. You're crying. It's just the onions ;-;
Calling it: Nominations for Best Picture Best Director Best Actor (Lucas Hedges) Best Supporting Actress (Nicole Kidman) Best Supporting Actor (Russel Crowe) Best Adapted Screenplay Best Original Song
I am gay, and I am living in a Christian household. I feel like I'm hiding a HUGE part of my life by not telling my parents, and they've already said that I will not be gay in this house. I've already chosen to move out when I'm 18 bc I can't take it anymore I don't want to hide and lie about who I truly am. I've told my friends and they accept me but not my church friends or any of my family, but I really hope someday that will change.
Just a suggestion Natsuki, wait until you move out before you tell them, that way if they do reject ya you'll have somewhere to go and won't have all ya stuff piled up on the curb with no where to go.
I don't know your beliefs or thoughts, but... Everything IS already fine, NOTHING bad is gonna happen. You ARE a great person, you CAN love anyone you feel you DO. Just like that, everybody's got to learn sometime
This is so heartbreaking as a Christian I sincerely apologize to any person in the lgbt community that has to endure this these people are wrong you are worthy of love anyone who preaches hate was not preaching the words of Jesus
Tit Cheese of course . But it condemns many other things as well . Sin is sin . And it is no man or women's business to shame or throw stones at others . If you believe in Jesus you treat everyone with respect and let God do the judging . If you sit around and judge everyone you are really only hurting your own soul and could end up in hell just for judging . 🤷♀️ people who claim to know God and judge people and treat people nasty are disconnected from Jesus and his true teachings .
the problem is that no one should at first impose its religious view on anyone, if a religion says that homosexuality is a sin, everyone can still believe in something but outside this religion, that's simple
When you hear a parent, tell you that they cannot have you live under their roof is the most devastating thing you’ll ever hear in your life. I too was kicked out of my home because of my lifestyle and I remember the exact day. My mom told me that. I have never been the same since…..
In my years before retirement I counseled many survivors of these programs. There has to be a special place in hell for any parent who would send their own child to such torment.
Kell Brigan wtf are you even saying, change their entire life? Uh no they aren’t asking to change your entire life they’re asking for acceptance, they’re not asking you to do anything more than that, and if you can’t then you’re the one who is selfish
hon ty, I hope you have other people in your life who are accepting of you. The people who don't love and accept you for who you are don't deserve you and are wrong.
Just watched this. Its was unreal so deep and upsetting. Its really really great film. Can't believe this goes on. It must be stopped. Thank you all for making this film.
I’m in tears watching this. This movie hits extremely close to home for me. This is how my parents are. I once asked my mom what would happen if me or one of siblings turned out to be lgbtq+ and she said that that child would have to talk to our bishop and tell him why we chose to sin and I asked if that child would be kicked out or sent to therapy...she said yes and this is the reason why I probably won’t ever come out as bi I’m legitimately terrified of her or my dad finding out.
Geeky Fangirl I was in the same spot you are. I was terrified to come out, terrified of what my family would say. But over the years, I’ve gotten older and my passion for my community couldn’t be pushed back. Fifteen years later, I’m completely out. It’s not perfect, far from it, but I’ve gotten support from people that I never thought I’d get it from. It’s a horrible thing to hide yourself but it won’t last forever. Believe me.
Don't run from who you are, embrace yourself and love yourself for the awesome person you are. No one is to blame here, we can't blame ourselves for how we feel and believe and we can't blame them for those same reasons, because if we did we'd be just as bad. It's not gonna be easy but keep your head up and keep moving forward. #MuchLove#Suppport#OnePeople
oh my God! Are you kidding? I come from a Catholic latino background and it was very machismo. My mother hated the fact I was gay. They basically told me "it's okay, but we don't want to hear about it". So I found my own community and "family" etc. Never a question from family if I have a boyfriend, etc. When "Love, Simon" came out in the theaters I wanted to go with my sister. She said she didn't want to see that movie. She was tired of always seeing gay characters, and transgender, etc. in movies and television. She said it was being overdone (!!!). Can you imagine?? Meanwhile almost every freakin' movie and television show has a straight couple loving each other and speaking romantically. I'm bombarded with straight couples everywhere and one history making movie (first mainstream big screen movie about a gay teen (Love, Simon)) makes my sister angry. What kind of a double standard is THAT? Am I rambling? Sorry. The point is, just because you're meeting with obstacles (we all are) just keep pushing forward and don't let people get you down, even if they ARE family members.
mickeymouse2able I know it’s just hard for me because she has agreed with other people about kicking lgbtq+ people out of homes and I have so many health problems and disability (I can’t a job due to stress migraines) that I can’t really fend for myself if I was kicked out that’s a huge reason why I’m so scared to tell them.
oh. I'm sorry. It's hard. It's none of my business, but you need to come out when YOU"RE ready not when other people tell you. There are people coming out and re-inventing their lives at 60, 70, 80!!!! When I was only out to my friends and some co-workers I educated myself on LGBTQ his / herstory. So much history out there. Movies like "The Celluloid Closet" (about the history of LGBTQ representation in motion pictures from the dawn of film until 1993 (movie came out in 1993)). Notice how I keep using the word "out". Do they have a LGBTQ Center where you live I found the one in New York City (where I live) quite by accident. How about a Pride Parade? Next year in June 2019 should be a BIG one since it's the 50th anniversary of Stonewall.
I am so fucking lucky to have been born in an accepting family. I was so nervous about coming out because being gay was never really talked about in my family, but when I told my parents that I wanted to ask a girl to homecoming, they were so supportive. I've been out for almost three years to my family (not my extended family since they aren't as accepting) and I really couldn't be happier. I can't imagine what these kids go through when their family isn't supportive and they send them to a conversion therapist. It makes me so mad knowing that there are kids who feel like they have no one to talk to about their sexuality. If you truly loved your child, you would accept them no matter what.
I just hope against all hope that this movie doesn't end in a death or suicide.... I'm just so exhausted by all the sadness in the world right now; we don't need another LGBT movie that ends in tragedy.
Isaiah Schultz Well the man who wrote the memoir is still alive today, and wrote the screenplay for this movie as well. So I think we’re at least a little bit safe.
We can only hope but a lot of these stories don't having happy endings. Conversion Therapy is very harmful to a person and can be deadly. That's why it needs to end.
I can relate to a certain extend. My father was the one that was so accepting and loving, he welcomed my partner and I, embraced us with open arms (the best part is that he was Catholic (may my papa's soul r.i.p.🙇🏼♂️)). My mother was the one that hurt me the most. The one that was suppose to be my support pillar and show unconditional love, did none of it😶. She was the one that tested my strength and to say, I am stronger than I was before and more proud to be a homosexual, multiracial male🏳️🌈. We won't be silenced nor be oppressed🚫.
@Brutus Augustus You don't know even a quarter of the things I had to go through, with and without her. It is quick to say something without going deeper into the matter. Plus what do you mean by 'wanted your soul saved'👀?
I can’t believe this happens in real life. No human being can be fixed,,we all make desicions for ourselves. God loves each an everyone of us no matter our race,sexuality etc. we are all equal and have the choice to do good
Does God hate? If God is love, how can He hate? It might seem a contradiction that a God who is love can also hate. Yet that’s exactly what Bible says is true: God is love (1 John 4:8), and God hates (Hosea 9:15). God’s nature is love-He always does what is best for others-and He hates what is contrary to His nature-He hates what is contrary to love. No one should be surprised to learn that God does hate some things. He created us with the capacity to both love and hate, and we acknowledge that hatred is sometimes justified-we naturally hate things that destroy what we love. This is part of our being created in the image of God. The fact that we are all tainted with sin means that our love and hatred are sometimes misplaced, but the existence of the sin nature does not negate our God-given ability to love and hate. It is no contradiction for a human being to be able to love and hate, and neither is it a contradiction for God to be able to love and hate. When the Bible does speak of God’s hatred, the object of His hatred is sin and wickedness. Among the things God hates are idolatry (Deuteronomy 12:31; 16:22), child sacrifice, sexual perversion (Leviticus 20:1-23), and those who do evil (Psalm 5:4-6; 11:5). Proverbs 6:16-19 lists seven things the Lord hates: pride, lying, murder, evil plots, those who love evil, false witnesses, and troublemakers. Notice that this passage does not include just things that God hates; it includes people as well. The reason is simple: sin cannot be separated from the sinner except by the forgiveness available in Christ alone. God hates lying, yes, but lying always involves a person-a liar-who chooses to lie. God cannot judge the lie without also judging the liar. The Bible clearly teaches that God loves the people of the world (John 3:16). God spared wicked Nineveh, bringing them to repentance (Jonah 3). God takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked (Ezekiel 18:32). He is patient to an extreme, “not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9). This is all proof of love-God wants what is best for His creation. At the same time, Psalm 5:5 says about God, “You hate all evildoers” (ESV). Psalm 11:5 is even harsher: “The wicked, those who love violence, he hates with a passion.” Before a person repents and believes in the Lord Jesus Christ, he is the enemy of God (Colossians 1:21). Yet, even before he is saved, he is loved by God (Romans 5:8)-i.e., God sacrificed His only begotten Son on his behalf. The question then becomes, what happens to someone who spurns God’s love, refuses to repent, and stubbornly clings to his sin? Answer: God will judge him, because God must judge sin, and that means judging the sinner. These are the “wicked” whom God hates-those who persist in their sin and rebellion, even in the face of the grace and mercy of God in Christ. David writes, “You are not a God who delights in wickedness; evil may not dwell with you” (Psalm 5:4, ESV, emphasis added). By contrast, those who take refuge in God will “be glad” and “ever sing for joy” (verse 11). In fact, both Psalm 5 and Psalm 11 draw a stark contrast between the righteous (those who take refuge in God) and the wicked (those who rebel against God). The righteous and the wicked make different choices and have different destinies-one will see the ultimate expression of God’s love, and the other will know the ultimate expression of God’s hatred. We cannot love with a perfect love, nor can we hate with a perfect hatred. But God can both love and hate perfectly, because He is God. God can hate without sinful intent. He can hate the sinner in a perfectly holy way and still lovingly forgive the sinner at the moment of repentance and faith (Malachi 1:3; Revelation 2:6; 2 Peter 3:9). In His love for all, God has sent His Son to be the Savior. The wicked, who are still unforgiven, God hates “for their many sins, for they have rebelled” (Psalm 5:10). But-and this is important to understand-God desires that the wicked repent of their sin and find refuge in Christ. At the moment of saving faith, the wicked sinner is removed from the kingdom of darkness and transferred to the kingdom of love (see Colossians 1:13). All enmity is dissolved, all sin is removed, and all things are made new (see 2 Corinthians 5:17).
I don’t know much about god but everyone says he loves everyone but god forbid you be gay or else he sends you to hell, I dunno it sounds like a contradiction
I went through this "conversion therapy" as an early teen. While it's a disgusting, bigoted with the backing of religion, joke, I am so happy to know that a story like this is being told. And I'm even more happy that this is becoming illegal so no one else has to suffer this nightmare.
This conversion crap needs to end !! It’s very important for stories like this to be told and to get the truth out. Big huge thank to everyone involved in this 🎥 👍🏻🤠👍🏻🏳️🌈
This film will always make me emotional. This movie came out around the same time that my parents had sent me to a conversion therapy camp ( at the age of 17 ) by the name of “ Hope for Wholeness “. It’s crazy because the same guy that ran the camp has now shut the camp down as a result of him being a gay man himself. I’m just glad to see that things have progressively gotten better when it comes to these types of camps etc. being ran.
It’s heartbreaking that people use religion as an excuse for discrimination. No religion is supposed to be used for hatred. Not Judaism. Not Catholicism. Not Islam. Religion is a peaceful understanding of the creation of the world and a higher power. It isn’t bigotry and hatred. It’s loving everybody, because that’s how people’s god or gods created people. And they did it that way for a reason. I’m a confirmed catholic but I’m not very religious because I just don’t know what I believe or feel. But religion helps a lot of people, just not this way.
It is clear that you are not aware of the verses that centre around homosexuals and acts of homosexuality. Both Christianity and Islam do not support the rights of LGBT individuals. With that said, many do cherry-pick parts of their religion to suit their interests, likes, dislikes and political agenda. And there is no objective and concrete evidence that Gods even exists.
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ORIGINAL BIBLE = TRUTH.
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Conservative Hamster is correct and speaks THE TRUTH IN ALL.
You put him in conversion therapy with Troye Sivan and you thought it would work?
Sam Love hahaha 😂
BAHAHHAHAHAH YES
lmao
hahahaaaa
i’m screaming ahahahahahahahaha
When my daughter came out to me, I already knew. I had always known. But I cried for days. Only because I KNEW that people she loved...family...would disappoint her by not accepting who she was. I will protect her with everything I have, though. She deserves a beautiful life and I swear to God, she WILL have it.
Ha! So it is, Eerimen...awesome observation.
Thank goodness for parents like you. Bless you!
Respect.
so much DRAMA. Seriously, people, you have to stop bothering about who is sleeping with who.
Wow i really respect you for this
The part when he says “because you’re making me angry” really gets me and I don’t know why
it's just too real, i think. gets me too
Because he is finding his voice in a lose lose situation and his voice is beautiful, powerful and strong. It gets me too. It's the Rising. Everybody can hear the Truth in him, even when they don't want to.
From what I think, I think it's because people kept telling him that by being this way, hes hating this parents and is building up anger from his parents when that isnt true. He loves them both so much but cant control the way he is. Sometimes anger just comes out from one person and because it's so pent up, he explodes. Its not because of someone in our lives who just wanna help in a detrimental way. But that's just what I think.
Because he said in no plain terms, but was by no means disrespectful. He was raised properly in a respectful manner, but their core beliefs were messed up in the fact they practically preached hate. If you get what I'm trying to say
It's Lucas' acting for me. So convincing. I love him too in 'Ben is Back'. Amazing young actor ❤️
I was married to a gay man who wanted nothing more than to be straight. The extent our church went to in order to "pray the gay away" was disgusting. Nothing "Godly" about the bullshit they spewed. He is still my absolute soul mate and nothing makes me happier than when he and his partner bring their two adopted children over for family dinners. The church set him and myself up for so much pain. It hurt like hell when I knew I had to let him be who is was/is but after some time to heal I wouldn't trade our new dynamic for the world.
Your husband is the bullshit. What if every man on Earth was like him. Wouldn't that be a nice World?
Now I want a movie about your story!
@ youre disgusting
@ update your profile pic, spineless spiteful coward.
agreed! So beautiful! @@Ricardo-fv2qi
As a Christian I am emotional just watching the trailer! It breaks my heart there are people using Gods name to spread hate and discrimination. God CAN and DOES love you the way you are. Anyone telling you something different is mistaken.
Though I disagree about God, you are the type of person I like to see in the church.
AMEN!
If only more were like you. x
Nicole Moana First of all, you are a great person and I wish more Christians were like you. Second of all, the Bible is full of extremely backwards and cruel ideas, like the hatred of homosexuality, and on top of that, it's full of contradictions and was written by multiple authors hundreds of years after the alleged events occurred. Many former Christians like myself have come to the conclusion that it's all made up. I don't want to pressure you but I highly encourage you to question your beliefs, the fact that you don't think homosexuality is wrong means you already are to some degree.
Amen. God loves everyone. We r all sinful and he still loves all of us. God bless
Fun fact: The real life pastor in this film just quit being in that program and turns out actually gay and now have a husband.
@@SleepDaMouse-xd8dn wtf
If you rewatch the movie and pay close attention you will see photos of members, in the hall of the conversion place, who are supposedly "ex-gay." Meaning that the movie implied that the pastor "used to be gay," including all the employees at the therapy place. The leutenant guy even says "that your teachers have overcome." Referring to homosexuality. I watched the film about 7x already 😁
@@freddie5411 Doesn't some of the film make your jaw clench? I found it difficult to watch at times
@@freddie5411
Thank you so much for sharing. A diamond shaped by the lathe.
Sapphire Axel I hope that he lives with the guilt of hurting people like him forever. He is a victim of this society but as soon as he became an abuser I stopped feeling sorry for him
I’m not gay or Christian, but this is truly heartbreaking on every level, I feel for these people.
Mediawatcher it’s lgbt propaganda
@@SleepDaMouse-xd8dn how? it actually happened!
Sharon Jensen omg 💯
i am a christian, and also a part of the lgbtq+ community. i would be thrilled to have a child that is a part of this community. idk how you can say that this is ok and this is loving your child. because it’s not. you’re hurting your child
camilla v true
I am a straight woman. I do not understand homophobia. How can this be a problem to anyone is beyond my comprehension! 2 adults love each other, want to be together, don’t wanna hurt anyone --> where is the problem in accepting this situation?
Indeed
cz there are some stinkbrains out there who think they are on the earth to keep everything in order. they succkk. pscyhos
the first man and woman was adam and eve not adam and william the topic is over
I’m gay and a lot of homophobia comes from defensiveness when someone is unsecure... or they’re just a twat
___ ___ human beings have the free will to make choices of their own “preferences” when it does not harm anyone else!
"A mother knows when something isn't right."
Powerful stuff.
Haha yup i had to tell mine they had no idea lol
Nicole Kidman really nailed her role
Amen!
@InaudibleBoom Emotional doesn't equal illogical. Your comment is shallow generalizing and I would say sexist to both genders. Stop thinking with stereotypes. Maybe try to understand what is actually meant by this phrase. You have not the slightest idea of what mother-child connection is possible of.
@InaudibleBoom You sound like a bitchy queen. What the fuck are you even talking about? Do you love to put people down for no reason? Transgender has absolutely nothing to do with this film. If you don't like the trailer then get the fuck out and let others enjoy it. You obviously have a lot of hate in your heart. I am a LGBTQ supporter through and through... I'm Christian and I'm also bisexual. I am also a mother, and married to a straight man. None of that shit matters, you know why... God made me like this and I will not apologize.
I waited a lifetime to come out. My mother stopped talking to me, my minister brother told me I’d never be happy and hasn’t spoken to me in 4 years. He told me that if I ever wanted “to come back“ that he would be waiting for me with open arms. But I told him I hadn’t gone anywhere. I was still the good son, still the loving big brother. I was just being true to myself. And guess what? I am happy! Life is too short to hide behind fear and ignorance.
Exactly!!!💜💜💜
Heck yeah! I am sorry about your family though. :/ I hope you have people who support you, though. Everyone deserves to be who they want to be without fear and judgment.
I hope everything is smooth in your years to come my friend i hear you
Amen brother!
Sir, you have done the right thing to be honest with yourself. My mother also thinks I have a mental disorder. Okay, it is true that I have 2 mental disorders, anxiety and depression that was caused by her. Okay, the point is that you have to be honest, not only to yourself but others and for that, you are strong and God blesses you with so much love and grace everyday.
When he breaks the news that he is gay, I started crying watching Nicole Kidmans reaction! It was so real. Like she knew in that moment her entire world was gonna about to change.
Andy Zaturno and Russel Crowes eye twitch at that moment
Joel Edgerton isn’t Jewish. What are you talking about?
Eerimen Bzej and?
@Eerimen Bzej Why don't you move your nazi piece of shit ass out of here, dipshit?
Eerimen Bzej
thank you, your comments are making the movie even more real.
Thanks everybody for supporting the movie. It was an honor to have a role in this movie - I played "Phillip" - I was one of the conversion camp attendees. If you have any questions about the production of the movie - ask a question in the comments and I'll answer what I can. Thanks again!
Thanks for this movie!
How long did it take to film and what's your favorite experience
what is the most important thing you’ve learned while filming
I guess he lied about answering questions.
@@nickperez3301 Hey Nick - i shot for almost a month just outside Atlanta - the total film shot for about 2 months. My favorite part was working with Joel Edgerton - such a complete pro. Great actor, even better director.
Lmao, putting gay men in a camp with Troye Sivan doesn't work.
Think of your own original comment, you little copycat.
@@lindseymays144 its not that original...
Why Troy Sivan isn’t that attractive
@@scouser2010ify Legally Blind? LMAO
Mostor actually I am 😂 but he has a weird face in my opinion we’re all allowed to have different types
to think there are supporters of this therapy in 2018 is heartbreaking. when will humanity understand we're all just people instead of trying to label categorize and separate. hate is a destructive force. love each other. All we need is love
I was raised a catholic because of my family but I don't feel identified with it anymore, it's been years since I decided to believe in love, that's my only religion. If you believe in love you have the power of faith without the double moral standards, without the judgement, without the bullshit of religion!
Catholicism needs to explain lots of things before they can point fingers and talk about love. From the persecution and atrocities of the inquisition up to the atrocities of these days. Like the hush hush approach towards pedophiles in the clergy and lots of other things. Lots of explaining to do!!
So I pass...
Mad Media Do you read your bible ?
YOU DON'T SEE THEM BUILD A CAR, WHAT IS YOUR POINT
ChemicalFX can’t tell if you are supporting gay people or not, but there is scientific evidence to show the being gay is in the brain and a lot of the time it cannot be helped.
ChemicalFX what is your explanation to homosexuality then? because i am gay and what i know is i never found opposite gender sexually attractive or never had any romantic inclination toward them, it always has been with a same gender person
troye with an american accent i’m sCREAMINGGGG
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Oóutstanding móvie! Sehr zu empfehIen, es auszuprobieren!
HES ACTUALLY GOOD LOL
after seeing troye...
He has risen!
OMG ME TOOOOOO💕💕
My parents sent me to an all girls catholic school to avoid me having boyfriend but guess who has a new girlfriend every 3 months?
god i wish that were me
Lmaoo
😳
Lol i can relate to this.. catholic schools focus soo much on keeping the girls away from the boys and then are flabbergasted when the girls end up "crossing to the other side"
That made me blush i have no idea why im hetrosexaul tho
Oh Lawd Troye Sivan!
I know right 🌈😍❤️
Oh my my my
I love you nick
YASSSSSSSSS
The Scran Line look this is incredible ua-cam.com/video/3Bzz4tNcp-I/v-deo.html
I'm 72, have been out for years - but this one trailer hit me so hard ... to think that there are people who actually have to go through that kind of torture ... I'm crying ... deep and sobbing. How sad we as a people have become ...
Get off UA-cam Grandpa
Wilson 7397 nah, you can get off tho
William Shryock ikr❤❤
Do you remember Harvey Milk?
Nice try. That's not my real name. I use a pseudonym online.
This trailer deserves an oscar
lol.
pffffff no
A category
..and this movie too! this movie is already in my fav collection of movies on boxxy software and i wanna re-watch it cause i discovered that boxxy can be run 100% perfectly safe and private if i activate the built in vpn
As a believer and a out gay man (I'm currently 25 years old) I first saw this when I was 23 years old. A friend at my church actually told me to watch this. It brought me to tears. I'm very lucky that although I lost my church I went to when I came out, a lot of friends. I didn't lose my faith. I was lucky to have found a place to call my home spiritually. But I believe all Christians need to see this movie. It's so moving.
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Jesus loves you!!❤
Putting gay people in camp WITH troye sivan isnt gonna work
(Edit: this comment got 2x platinum yall!!! wig oh my god tea)
(Edit again: this got 4x platinum, i would like to thank my parents, and my manager.. also m-)
I had to literally Google him to understand LOL!!!!!
*dead*
TRUE
Loool
loooolz. ikr.
Not gay. Nor do I know anyone going through anything like this. But I am human. I feel like this story will bring a necessary attention to those with dehumanizing attitudes.
Agree
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@@MorgaineLionett Any state, condition or practice that goes against nature and scripture, "He created male and female" is an indication that something has gone wrong. So, no matter what name you choose to apply doesn’t negate this fact. In conclusion you need to know that God never intended for men to lay with each other and attempt to have sex in some unnatural way. Unfortunately, he’s given us the freedom to choose so therefore we feel whatever we choose must be right or whatever we feel must be right. Nothing could be further from the truth. Truth is not based on our psychological beliefs, emotional state or circumstances. Truth is based on the spoken and written word of God which again you can choose to believe or disbelieve.
@@inneedofchangenow He also created women to be servants to men. I don't see you complaining about gender equality.
God didn't intend for technology to exist, and you don't complain about that either.
And I have another little something for you: Paul says in one of his letters that "a woman shall not assume authority over a man. She is to remain quiet." Paul states that women, like you, have no right to educate (though you try to educate me about untrue things) men, like me. I'd you want to bring the Bible into this, please do it all the way, or not at all. Also I don't believe that God has a problem with homosexuality, based on my own studies on the matter.
@@inneedofchangenow Why don't you stick to 1 Timothy 2:12?
That's right, two can play that game. Are you going to tell me that this is outdated? Well, so are your views on homosexuality.
"stop using religion to hate people"
That's not how I use it
If you want to see a good example of using religion to hate people look at Islam
Christians, Jewish people, Muslim people, etc. Religion is used all the time to keep people down. To keep people in slavery and mind-bondage.
Crumbler sea if you want to see a good example of people hating people, look up “ignorance”.
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Just watched this movie and OMG I cried my eyes out. I’m a 35 year old closeted male, and in my family it’s not accepted. I don’t want to loose my family so I learned how to fake it till you make it. It’s not healthy but I’m content. Maybe in another life I’ll get to live my true life. Not seeking attention, i just related so much to this movie.
I hope you realize you've not been 💯 authentic with yourself in this lifetime. You cried your eye out for a reason. There is an inner true self of you that wants...and NEEDS to be authentically transparent.
Where u from btw?
I couldn't keep myself in the closet and I'm only fourteen...I have so much respect for you
@@elizas1981 same, but i'm 17 years old
Coming out is the single hardest thing I've ever had to do. My family is still healing from it. And yet, I can also tell you that living in the closet, there is never a point that you "make it." Because I was in the closet, I sealed off huge parts of who I was from my family for 33 years, and as a result, I have, and continue to have, many difficulties connecting with people emotionally. Coming out does not make life better, nor does it magically solve all of life's problems. However, when I finally did come out to my family, despite the hardship, despite the heartbreak, despite the pain, tears, and distress, I also witnessed more love than I ever believed possible. My coming out brought my family closer. It doesn't make the 33 years of living in the closet worth it, but it has proven to me that my family is stronger than I ever gave it credit.
I can't promise that you won't lose your family by coming out. However, you will always resent them in your heart for your choice, and your family will never truly be at peace with you when you keep such a huge part of your identity from them.
No one can make the choice for you, and no one can say what is, and is not worth it. All I can say is that coming out was worth it to me, despite the pain and disruption it caused everyone involved.
Saoirse Ronan: Mary Queen of Scots
Timothee Chalamet: Beautiful Boy
Lucas Hedges: Boy Erased
The Lady Bird gang will slay awards season for sure.
Alexandro Tirador yeah pretty much
There is a possibility those three will be in Little women...
Steve Carell will definitely got the oscar for leading actor, Lucas Hedges might be just nominated, Saoirse and Timothée might get the oscar tho.
They are all spin-offs about their lifes after the movie, it’s cleary. She became a actress and play this historic movie. Tim turns out a chemical dependency and about Lucas, the history just continues, and unfortunately, through painfull ways, with Troye Sivan
YESSS I am so excited.
I smell *Oscars*
YouPube it has two of the greatest actors of all time in it, Nicole and Russell
Jameson WTFE bro
An unorganized mess of a movie
You mean you have a pretty good idea that the virtue signalling will be strong?
Unearnd Oscar
Troye is winning life, YES!
Lilac um what
@@tonythomas7009 , um what
@ Just shut the fuck up, you worthless piece of garbage. Nobody wants to hear how fucked up your brain is.
wesh asawi
By app
@@MorgaineLionett , You would like to shove it down my throat, wouldn't you? ;)
for some reason hearing Troye singing mixed with all the heartbreak in this trailer made me cry
Nicole Kidman looks great in this. Very convincing.
I didn't know she was so good at accents.
hahahahahahahha
Susi si And what’s your point you idiot?
lmao. but i'm also mad at whoever put that wig on her.
Andy Zaturno
Thats nicole. Man she is old now
Christians: "God loves all"
Also Christians: "God cannot love you if you are gay"
God loves all means He's willing to forgive those who sincerely want forgiveness (which means they will seek to deny themselves and deny their sin nature and follow Him). God doesn't instead ignore someone spitting on that forgiveness, refuse to stop sinning, and say "sin all you want, it doesn't matter". It's why He went to the cross. If we reject that forgiveness because we want to live in sins of any kind, we'll be facing God not only for judgment for our actions, but for refusing His offer to forgive and forget. Please read the gospels again and forget what anyone else has "told" you it says. Eternity depends upon it.
Those who know Scripture,know that God does not love all...He loves His own.He doesn't cast sin into Hell,He casts sinners into Hell.He cannot love sin,or sinners.No where in Scripture does it say this.God in His infinite mercy,made a way for sinners to be reconciled to God,through the sacrifice of His only Son,Jesus Christ.Most "Christians" don't read their Bibles or they wouldn't be spewing out false teachings.God is righteous and holy and cannot look upon our sin.But He is merciful and made a way.One Way,through Christ.Repent means to turn from your sin.And yes,if someone is truly grieved over their sin,ALL sin,they can,through the work of Christ in them,be delivered from sin.He is enough.He is able to do what no man can do.
@@ForumLight We live in such a death defying society. So much so, people like you crave immorality and are willing to believe in heaven. And use hell to motivate religious faith. Be that as it may, it is called faith for a reason. Not facts. You can believe in God all you like. It is no different from having faith that Zeus exists.
@@Noa...... Although it will not make anyone believe, these are things that prove God is real, that the Bible is divinely inspired, and that we will be without excuse when we face Him to give account for our lifetime of breaking His laws *AND* refusing to be forgiven for it:
The Bible is the only 'religious' book that dares to make prophecies, almost 2,000 that have come true after the fact of them being written down, even up to thousands of years later, proving it's divine origin. Easily searchable.
Although it is not a science textbook, there are dozens of facts about reality in the Bible that scientists didn't and couldn't figure out until hundreds and thousands of years later, up to the 1890's, also proving its divine origin. Easily searchable.
All religious texts were written in one lifetime by one person - the Bible was written over 1,500 years through 40 people and reads as one mind.
The grave of all false religions' prophets has their bones - the grave of Christ is empty - although they're desperately trying to find it to try discrediting Christianity.
You can_kill thousands in the name of a false religion like islam, and people of that country will bend over backwards to help you build a church where you did it. You dare mention Christ, hand out a tract, and you're met with the utmost hatred. As Jesus said:
John 15.18-19 *"[Jesus said]If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you."*
People who profess faith in Christ have major changes instantly from the inside out that they were unable to overcome over a lifetime.
It won't really make people believe who need to reject the truth of God, but we know all we need to know. The world seeks to keep us blind to the truth of God. When we face Him, it won't work to say "well how was I supposed to know?" We know all we need to know and will be without excuse.
I implore people to re-read the gospels yet again and forget what anyone or any book or any church claims it says. Judgment is coming for us all for breaking God's laws - crimes against God - and refusing His offer to forgive and forget in the person of Jesus Christ. Forgiveness is through Christ Jesus, not through a religion that says we must do what they say to get forgiveness from Christ.
@@ForumLight The claim on truth always seems to rest on religion that you happen to be indocnitninated. Reading the Bible or gospels and feeling God in your heart are not evidence. Of course, you would claim that all of the other 4200 religions are false religions. Faith is just another word for ignorance. I care more about wisdom of mind in rationality. Good day.
I came here for Troye, but honestly this seems like an amazing movie and I really want to go see it now skskks (but I mean, still a plus because t r o y e s i v a n)
do you know what song is this?
@@haneenal-halabi1269 revelation, it just officially came out
Ayyy is that dan
at first i literally only watched the movie cause troye was in it, but i have to say I'm glad i watched it! incredible!!
Lol right!?!?!? 😂💜
I want to live in a world where everyone gets accepted for who they are. no matter their skin, their origin, their sexuality, their interests etc.
let people live. let them be happy. being happy is the most important thing in life
Exactly
this
I am a christian. I love God. I do not hate on the LGBTQA+ community.
As a follower of the love, light, and peace of Jesus Christ, I want to make it my mission on topics like this to let people know they are truly loved the way they are. You are BEAUTIFULLY and WONDERFULLY made. God is love, and love is love.
Very nice
If God is all about love, why is he against the love between two individuals of the same sex. Oh, wait. The Bible said something about our "love" being lust and sexual immorality. Erm...
Thank you ❤️
@@Noa...... Why are you attacking her? She said she doesn't believe in this God, she believes in God who accepts you the way you are. Chill out, she is your friend.
@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 Do tell how my response is a personal attack on the individual?
I was 32 years old when I finally found the strength to tell my parents, Nov. 10th 1998, a day I could never ever forget. The hardest thing I've ever done.
Did it get better? After you told them?
My Dad had a bit of a rough time coming to grips with it, but he did. A few years later he told my partner that he loved him. The weight of the world on my shoulders was relieved on that Nov. day. Thanks for asking.
how brave of u, how r u doing now?
What a waste of oxygen you are, Dmitry Zhukov
Doing well, thank you.
Watching this hurts. A young man I know killed himself two years ago. His religious parents put him in a conversion program when he told them, as a teenager, that he was gay.
Bonobo3D God rest his soul
im sorry that he committed suicide. its so sad that people still think that homosexuality is bad or disgusting, and they put people through things like that...I dont understand it and it makes me sad
As a Christian myself it pains me to see young people go through something like that. I do not agree with these 'conversion programs'. They do nothing but do more harm than good. What they truly need is for us to show that we still love them despite their differences.
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watched a young man die in our ICU from a tylenol overdose. Parents sent him to gay camp, and when he came back he was still gay, they wanted nothing to do with him, so he overdosed; family was not at his death bed. Just the nurses and aides.
LADIES AND GENTLEMEN
THE VOLUME ON THIS COMMENT SECTION, IS
A S T R O N O M I C A L
“They say sometimes you got to hurt a child in order to help them, but a mother knows when something isn’t right.” Nicole Kidman’s acting is going to tear me apart 😭❤️
"...but a mother knows when something isn't right." And this is when the tears started flowing.
Am I the only one cutting onions while watching this?
Nope
Vinicius Scheuer nope ;-;
Vinicius Scheuer definitely
Lilac what?
I had my hand on a cookie in a cup of milk
This movie hurt my soul. I'm still closeted at 26 and I don't know if I'll ever be fully out, but I'm so glad I never had to attend conversion therapy. It is actual psychological abuse. Amazing film and brilliant acting. I'm so glad that Jared made it through alive.
I'm 15 and still in the closet. All I can say to you is that life is short, and it would be a terrible thing for you to spend more of it NOT being your true self than living freely and happily. I hope you can find people in your life who give you the support you need and the courage you need to be your authentic self.
sweetbaybabz you don't have to be out . Just live your life like anything ! Why do you feel the need to advertise it
sweetbaybabz It’s sad in this day and age that you don’t feel that you can be your true self. Life is too short and before you know it your old and to never have found love would suck.
Hey guys! Have any of you come out in the years since commenting? I hope so, or I hope u have found inner peace and are accepting of urself. There is nothing wrong with being gay, I know the struggles hard, I been through it myself. But please know that other people are always gonna talk, regardless of if ur out or not. People love to gossip. I hope one day that people will be able to never have to “come out”.
@@devinpeirce7152 This question, "why do you feel the need to advertise it," feels like a micro aggression. Maybe it is just ignorance. Coming out isn't about a need to advertise. It's about knowing where it is safe to "just live your life." "Just living your life" as a queer person inevitably "outs" you, and it is helpful to know beforehand where you will be affirmed.
Who's ready to cry violently in the cinema?
Not me cuz they'll probably ban it in cinemas here just like they did with love simon cuz people are homophobic af here 😒
Same in my town. Fucking homophobic
Malak Sh the same thing happened in my country too I fucking hate this
Some people want to watch a gay movie some people don't, let the people watch what ever the fuck they want
too late- already started from this trailer alone
Amanda Pereira IKRRRRRR! where are u from btw?
My kid can be straight, bi, gay whatever. But the important thing is they grow up to be good people with honest hearts. I also want them to finish college, period.
... 🤔 ... Good point
And college is mostly sjw propoganda
So it's terrible
Oh stfu. You conservitard.
Earning a college degree has nothing to do with being a republican or a liberal. It's an investment towards a better future but that is my personal belief. I think most people of Asian descent like me greatly value education.
That's why I'm of Asian descent. Biracial people are everywhere.
*REVELATION by TROYE SIVAN and i heard that GOOD SIDE at the intro OMG I CRY*
멍멍비비 IK SHSJSJS
Where can I listen to the whole song?
멍멍비비 SAME
AH I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO HEARD THE GOOD SIDE AND I WAS LIKE AH IM CRAZY
Drowning on my own tears.
Just accept people for who they are. Life is too short to discriminate.
Michele Huffman let people live their lives. Stop spreading anti conversion propaganda’s
SleepDa Mouse Conversion therapy harms people and is trauma-inducing. It is NEVER a good thing. Why do you think it was banned from so many places? No, it’s not a choice that belongs to the family because it’s literally mistreatment. Have you even seen the movie?
Thank God, that I was able to lie well enough to not get sent to one of these.
Breyonna Morgan I’ve been through the same thing. This is a sad and bitter reality in the world.
Maybe it would have helped? This is a just a movie. It's not real.
Rubicon V Helped What? I've seen "But I'm a Cheerleader." I've seen the aftermath of an exorcism. I've lived through getting it beaten out of me. What would a place like that have done to help me besides taking my religion from me?
Rubicon V ??? Elaborate conversion therapy is real and in humane
Hey, Rubicon, you dumbass. "Conversion therapy" is definitely REAL and the film was BASED ON A TRUE STORY.
I don’t know why I’m crying in the club rn
... you aren't
Cause you are not in the club lol
Did that really happen though?
Ain’t no crying in the club... ay ay let the beat carry your tears into ecstasy 🤣
Reioki look this is incredible ua-cam.com/video/3Bzz4tNcp-I/v-deo.html
See the issue here isn’t religion but people who decide to use religion to justify their anger or hate. This movie is going to be so meaningful to so many. I’m very much looking forward to seeing it next week
Troye is so good at an American accent oh lawd that fought me off guard 😂
It kinda makes me uncomfortable 😂😂
Lmao your profile pic is sick (rogerina Taylor is hot af)
"...a mother knows when something isn't right."
Dads do too
@@Ianisatool His dad is a piece of shit. I knew him personally.
@@whispererbordah4991 what does that have to do with my or their comment? No offense but just asking.
OMG TROYE'S ACCENT IS MY LIFE.
Looks like a little pre pubescent boy
YESSS
I love him
Rose sivan OMG TOTALLY AGREE! At first I was like... something is odd about troye... hmm i wonder whaOMG HIS ACCENT
shut the fuck up you big wuss
oscar nominations committee has entered the chat
Academy Award for best song
@@kennedythedford9102 ikr this song fits so perfectly
Oscar nominations committee didn’t give a shit
Neil Godfrey 😂
I cried watching this movie for the first time on a crowded plane and just watching the trailer.........like omfg I'm sobbing at one minute
This looks incredibly hard to watch, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. The idea of conversion therapy is so fucked up and personally I know people who have been very damaged by it. It’s a really rough subject and I’m glad this film doesn’t seem to hold back from that.
Lilac And you know what no one else seems to be agreeing with you so far
Lilac I know what’s more fucked up than CT... YOU ARE. Ignorant fuck
You're f ed up.
Lilac thankyou. Coming from you that means... nothing.
Y'all are hateful and mad because you never got to express yourselves when you were younger... I feel bad for you guys, honestly. Is straight love any better? According to the Bible, the same one I'm sure we've all read, it basically says that all love is bad. Besides. Most straight people get abortions anyways because they don't want to take care of a child... at least homosexuals actually care about the life God gives us.
Timothee Chalamet: BEAUTIFUL BOY
Armie Hammer: ON THE BASIS OF SEX / SORRY TO BOTHER YOU
Saoirse Ronan: MARY QUEEN OF SCOTS
Lucas Hedges: BOY ERASED
Luca Guadagnino: SUSPIRIA
*This year is AWESOME!*
Seetha Golden don't forget A Star Is Born
Emma Stone: The Favourite
Damien Chazelle/Ryan Gosling: First Man
Barry Jenkins: If Beale Street Could Talk
don't forget love simon
Nikaya Lazuli The only nominations I care about are Phoenix You were never really here, Gyllenhaal or Ahmed or C Reilly Sisters brothers, Bale, Adams or Rockwell Backseat, Pattinson for anything since the Dicaprio or De Niro, Pacino, Plemons only come out next year
MidKry LeGda The only nominations I care about are Phoenix You were never really here, Gyllenhaal or Ahmed or C Reilly Sisters brothers, Bale, Adams or Rockwell Backseat, Pattinson for anything since the Dicaprio or De Niro, Pacino, Plemons only come out next year
I screamed as soon as I saw Troye Sivan
Sammy Lee I DROPPED MY PHONE BSCNCKCM
Did you detect "The Good Side" in the first 28 seconds?
SAME
HOLY SHET IM BOUT TO COMMENT THE SAME
RaymondHng started crying when i heard it 😭
I just love how angry and done Troye looks in the trailer
I came out to my family and friends publicly about a month ago and I’m so thankful I didn’t have to deal with any of this.
what did they say?
NestorV S everyone loves me no matter what and said it doesn’t change how they feel about me which is amazing. It feels so free to just be yourself.
Congrats...
wood van thank you :)
Sucheta Ghosh thanks! :)
This is based on many many many true stories
Conservative Hamster
huh. Ive seen more family's ripped apart by conservative parents.
So maybe you should be less insensitive.
And look past your own pride to see that there are actually people hurting because of this. And it is not a joke.
What ever your experience is, im sorry. But saying things like that is hurtful to people and unnecessary.
what ur doing is wrong please leave
_Boy Erased_ is actually adapted from Garrard Conley's memoir, titled _Boy Erased: A Memoir_ . It is written, co-produced and directed by Joel Edgerton who also stars in the film as the head therapist at a gay conversion therapy program.
wasn't Rachel McAdams recently in a movie like that? Called "Disobedience". I must see it.
you shouldn't be mean to your mother and father when you come out to them and they can't accept it right away. You must be understanding of them too. Empathy. The people who scream and yell at their parents for not accepting them are just spoiled rotten (usually white hipster and emo kids from the suburbs. They're always mad about something).
I'm gay and do not feel ashamed. I told my family and they had a hard time with it. But I didn't scream and yell and slam doors like some maniac. My mother was a full on Catholic woman and was embarrassed by my gayness (she passed away). Oh well, it is what it is. God made me and that's not a mistake. I'm not a mistake.
I was brought up as a jehova's witness and this rings so close to home.. especially the part where the father said "we are not done" and he said "I am, because you won't listen..." That was the exchange with my own father that broke my heart for a long time...
wow
My family too :c
Andre Gayle my mom and dad are both Jehovah’s witnesses too but I think they’re cool with it since my dad has been asking me if I’m a lesbian since years ago but I denied everytime he asked because I’m not ready to explain yet
Eerimen Bzej Why do you care if they dont reporduce? Do you WANT this world to be croweded with to many people?
@Eerimen Bzej definitely not
I'm not even gay but this trailer breaks my heart!
You don't have to be gay for it to upset you
The world would better when there is man and women. When men turn to softy and lost, the world is doomed. Period.
Why you keep deleting my comment? Are you lost too? Looser.
I'm just thankful that I was born in a Christian family that still love me even if I'm gay. I wish others were as lucky. :(
Cant relate
Sounds like your family are true Christians:)
Sounds like your family are FAKE Christians.
@ Yes, because Christians that still love others no matter what are obviously fake.
@@CedarCritter , Christians who accept homosexuality are FAKE Christians.
Between "Boy Erased" and "Suspiria", November 2nd is going to be a really heavy day.
hey now, don't forget Bohemian Rhapsody. and I fear Best Actor will be very heavy for me as I aim to keep my winning streak going.
maziebunny2 Honestly, I left that one out because of all the problems behind the scenes. I'm still excited for it because Rami Malek looks like he's going to be great as Mercury, but between the drama involving Bryan Singer and the talk that the movie neuters who Freddie Mercury was outside of Queen, my excitement has gone to cautious.
Will C why don’t you just watch both instead?
Khaleesi That's my plan for that day. Or technically evening since I know the indie theaters around L.A. will do screenings on November 1st.
and in my town, they do early bird showings for the important ones. and I have a feeling that this and Bohemian Rhapsody will get that treatment and that'll start my Oscar season (which officially is November 1st) right.
TROYE SIVAN IN A COMING OUT MOVIE?! TAKE MY MONEY!!!
The dad in this film, Hershel"Marshall" Conley is now the pastor of The Bridge Baptist Church in Mountain Home, AR. He preaches NOTHING but hate against every single kind of person he doesnt like or doesn't agree with him. I used to go to his church when I was a kid. Ive met Garrard and his mother and they are both wonderful people.
This reminds me of how scared I was to tell my parents. They're still critical of it, but my goodness they're a lot more accepting of it than some people. This trailer is some powerful stuff.
I'm not crying. You're crying. It's just the onions ;-;
Yo-Yo Master ua-cam.com/video/r5z1ebn7y_w/v-deo.html
Got emotional the second "the Good Side" started playing, sooo exited for this !!
"they sent you to fix you but you're perfectly normal"
this line just hit me.
Bruh when Anakin said "I don't like send" that line hit me in the feels harder then a fault in our stars
good people think well, bad people think badly, homosexuals think wrong! 😝
Nate Bullard Why are you even here? Are you just here to comment shit like that?
There's no truth in any of what you just said, buddy.
Of course not, I just happen to know the definition of 'truth', ''in accordance with fact''. Bible writings and personal beliefs aren't facts
Troys voice made me so emotional, he is perfect for the soundtrack because he feels the lyrics
Calling it:
Nominations for
Best Picture
Best Director
Best Actor (Lucas Hedges)
Best Supporting Actress (Nicole Kidman)
Best Supporting Actor (Russel Crowe)
Best Adapted Screenplay
Best Original Song
This will surely give A Star Is Born and Bohemian Rhapsody a run for their money!
I am gay, and I am living in a Christian household. I feel like I'm hiding a HUGE part of my life by not telling my parents, and they've already said that I will not be gay in this house. I've already chosen to move out when I'm 18 bc I can't take it anymore I don't want to hide and lie about who I truly am. I've told my friends and they accept me but not my church friends or any of my family, but I really hope someday that will change.
Natsuki is best girl good people think well, bad people think badly, homosexuals think wrong! 😝
Natsuki is best girl change what? you belive you only one who has the problems? 😝
Natsuki is best girl everything will be OK in the end. Trust me❤️
Just a suggestion Natsuki, wait until you move out before you tell them, that way if they do reject ya you'll have somewhere to go and won't have all ya stuff piled up on the curb with no where to go.
I don't know your beliefs or thoughts, but... Everything IS already fine, NOTHING bad is gonna happen. You ARE a great person, you CAN love anyone you feel you DO. Just like that, everybody's got to learn sometime
This is so heartbreaking as a Christian I sincerely apologize to any person in the lgbt community that has to endure this these people are wrong you are worthy of love anyone who preaches hate was not preaching the words of Jesus
I don't have an issue with gay people etc, but if you are going to bring religion into it the bible very clearly condemns homosexuality.
Dorcas Gitimu It’s mainly because of Christianity if there is always homophobia in the world (or at least the Western world) 😑
Dorcas Gitimu right . GOD loves all his children .
Tit Cheese of course . But it condemns many other things as well . Sin is sin . And it is no man or women's business to shame or throw stones at others . If you believe in Jesus you treat everyone with respect and let God do the judging . If you sit around and judge everyone you are really only hurting your own soul and could end up in hell just for judging . 🤷♀️ people who claim to know God and judge people and treat people nasty are disconnected from Jesus and his true teachings .
the problem is that no one should at first impose its religious view on anyone, if a religion says that homosexuality is a sin, everyone can still believe in something but outside this religion, that's simple
When you hear a parent, tell you that they cannot have you live under their roof is the most devastating thing you’ll ever hear in your life. I too was kicked out of my home because of my lifestyle and I remember the exact day. My mom told me that. I have never been the same since…..
Troye in this movie is going to make it extra special for me!
In my years before retirement I counseled many survivors of these programs. There has to be a special place in hell for any parent who would send their own child to such torment.
ooooooo
omg
But you would have no problem sending a pedophile to such a place would you?
well thats a completely different thing
Daniel DiDonato one is consenting. The other is not. You’re too young to understand. Stay in school kid.
you know it’s gonna be a good movie when the trailer already makes you wanna bawl your soul out
At my old school a boy would come up to me and tell me that he was gonna pray me straight and that I was disgusting.
Virtual hugs 🤗. Hope you're doing great now..
sairindhree saha thank you!!!
@@shikhasaha8166 I'm doing much better now!!!
I like reading the Bible just to quote their own propaganda back to them. :)
"Judge not, lest ye be judged"
I love Nicole Kidman in these mom roles
troye's just casually acting in this, yes boy
WOW ! I feel for all the people who have to actually live this.
The GOLDEN FAMILY thank you! 💕
Do you also feel for the men who are lynched and killed in the Middle East? What about them?
Yeah, it's pretty awful having a selfish narcissist kid demand that you change your entire life just to suit him.
Kell Brigan What are you talking about
Kell Brigan wtf are you even saying, change their entire life? Uh no they aren’t asking to change your entire life they’re asking for acceptance, they’re not asking you to do anything more than that, and if you can’t then you’re the one who is selfish
finally a gay movie that i can cry my little gay heart out too
I'm not gay, but it will be a good movie for me to see where I can cry my humanity's heart to. Love and peace to you!
You need to watch prayers for bobby. 10x more emotional than this one. I gaurantee you will love it! True story starring sigourney weaver.
Jaelee thibault moonlight is also a good watch though it’s not about coming out
I am not gay and I don't cry often but this movie truly made me cry
i cry at love simon, but that'll only work of you cry at romcoms. it's not as heavy as this movie (based off the trailer i haven't seen this yet lol).
And the song... #Revelation by Troye Sivan...it will be mind blowing ...can't wait for the song...
I got chills every time Nicole Kidman spoke. She’s so talented!
She's sure to get a Oscar nomination
Ironic that nicole was molested by her father
Terrible that this is a reality for some young men and women.
Ann M my life
hon ty, I hope you have other people in your life who are accepting of you. The people who don't love and accept you for who you are don't deserve you and are wrong.
Ann M thanks but I don't 💕
hon ty, I'm sorry, it shouldn't be that way for you. I know nothing about you and you know nothing about me, but know you aren't alone.
Ann M ik ur amazing person + I can't even watch this movie 💔☺
Just watched this. Its was unreal so deep and upsetting. Its really really great film. Can't believe this goes on. It must be stopped. Thank you all for making this film.
Lucas, Russell, Joel, Xavier, Troye, Joe, and Queen Nicole! I'm totally sold! The Dream Cast!
Yel Yint yeah!But where is dolan in the trailer???
abhishek joarder yep, i haven't seen him either
abhishek joarder you can see him at 1:22
Rokki _dolan spotted at 1.17
Sir Johnny yeah!!!!!
I’m in tears watching this. This movie hits extremely close to home for me. This is how my parents are. I once asked my mom what would happen if me or one of siblings turned out to be lgbtq+ and she said that that child would have to talk to our bishop and tell him why we chose to sin and I asked if that child would be kicked out or sent to therapy...she said yes and this is the reason why I probably won’t ever come out as bi I’m legitimately terrified of her or my dad finding out.
Geeky Fangirl I was in the same spot you are. I was terrified to come out, terrified of what my family would say. But over the years, I’ve gotten older and my passion for my community couldn’t be pushed back. Fifteen years later, I’m completely out. It’s not perfect, far from it, but I’ve gotten support from people that I never thought I’d get it from. It’s a horrible thing to hide yourself but it won’t last forever. Believe me.
Don't run from who you are, embrace yourself and love yourself for the awesome person you are. No one is to blame here, we can't blame ourselves for how we feel and believe and we can't blame them for those same reasons, because if we did we'd be just as bad. It's not gonna be easy but keep your head up and keep moving forward. #MuchLove#Suppport#OnePeople
oh my God! Are you kidding? I come from a Catholic latino background and it was very machismo. My mother hated the fact I was gay. They basically told me "it's okay, but we don't want to hear about it". So I found my own community and "family" etc. Never a question from family if I have a boyfriend, etc.
When "Love, Simon" came out in the theaters I wanted to go with my sister. She said she didn't want to see that movie. She was tired of always seeing gay characters, and transgender, etc. in movies and television. She said it was being overdone (!!!). Can you imagine?? Meanwhile almost every freakin' movie and television show has a straight couple loving each other and speaking romantically. I'm bombarded with straight couples everywhere and one history making movie (first mainstream big screen movie about a gay teen (Love, Simon)) makes my sister angry. What kind of a double standard is THAT?
Am I rambling? Sorry. The point is, just because you're meeting with obstacles (we all are) just keep pushing forward and don't let people get you down, even if they ARE family members.
mickeymouse2able I know it’s just hard for me because she has agreed with other people about kicking lgbtq+ people out of homes and I have so many health problems and disability (I can’t a job due to stress migraines) that I can’t really fend for myself if I was kicked out that’s a huge reason why I’m so scared to tell them.
oh. I'm sorry. It's hard. It's none of my business, but you need to come out when YOU"RE ready not when other people tell you. There are people coming out and re-inventing their lives at 60, 70, 80!!!! When I was only out to my friends and some co-workers I educated myself on LGBTQ his / herstory. So much history out there. Movies like "The Celluloid Closet" (about the history of LGBTQ representation in motion pictures from the dawn of film until 1993 (movie came out in 1993)). Notice how I keep using the word "out".
Do they have a LGBTQ Center where you live I found the one in New York City (where I live) quite by accident. How about a Pride Parade? Next year in June 2019 should be a BIG one since it's the 50th anniversary of Stonewall.
Troye Sivan in this movie
This movie is *straight* perfect.
maybe one of the best of 2018 i know it cause i saw all movies ever made and for free since i became a boxxy software usert
I am so fucking lucky to have been born in an accepting family. I was so nervous about coming out because being gay was never really talked about in my family, but when I told my parents that I wanted to ask a girl to homecoming, they were so supportive. I've been out for almost three years to my family (not my extended family since they aren't as accepting) and I really couldn't be happier. I can't imagine what these kids go through when their family isn't supportive and they send them to a conversion therapist. It makes me so mad knowing that there are kids who feel like they have no one to talk to about their sexuality. If you truly loved your child, you would accept them no matter what.
Happy 4 you
I just hope against all hope that this movie doesn't end in a death or suicide.... I'm just so exhausted by all the sadness in the world right now; we don't need another LGBT movie that ends in tragedy.
Isaiah Schultz Well the man who wrote the memoir is still alive today, and wrote the screenplay for this movie as well. So I think we’re at least a little bit safe.
it has a happy ending. search Garrard Conley the real guy
I feel like im the only LGBT person who likes the dark depressing movies
Isaiah Schultz by can you plzz tell me the song name ( Revelation))
We can only hope but a lot of these stories don't having happy endings. Conversion Therapy is very harmful to a person and can be deadly. That's why it needs to end.
This is really an eye opener. Plus Troye! Omg. Enough pretending. This is not a choice! This is who we are. This is not a moment.
Troye🖤
In this world it
Yeet or be *YEETED*
What will you 🅱️ *E*
I just watched the movie in cable. It made my cry a lot, because I'm a bi girl in Orthodox Greece :(
you go girl❤️όλα καλά θα πάνε
Κουράγιο φίλη, κάποια στιγμή θα συνέλθει αυτή η χώρα 😀
Ironic, because your ancestors were Hella gay.
@@SirFaceFone 🤣🤣🤣 Say that to the macho Greek guys
I can relate to a certain extend. My father was the one that was so accepting and loving, he welcomed my partner and I, embraced us with open arms (the best part is that he was Catholic (may my papa's soul r.i.p.🙇🏼♂️)). My mother was the one that hurt me the most. The one that was suppose to be my support pillar and show unconditional love, did none of it😶. She was the one that tested my strength and to say, I am stronger than I was before and more proud to be a homosexual, multiracial male🏳️🌈. We won't be silenced nor be oppressed🚫.
@Brutus Augustus You don't know even a quarter of the things I had to go through, with and without her. It is quick to say something without going deeper into the matter. Plus what do you mean by 'wanted your soul saved'👀?
Kiowa Links she wanted you not to get aids
Brutus Augustus
Would you still say that if it was the mother who was accepting and not the father
I can’t believe this happens in real life. No human being can be fixed,,we all make desicions for ourselves. God loves each an everyone of us no matter our race,sexuality etc. we are all equal and have the choice to do good
Does God hate? If God is love, how can He hate?
It might seem a contradiction that a God who is love can also hate. Yet that’s exactly what Bible says is true: God is love (1 John 4:8), and God hates (Hosea 9:15). God’s nature is love-He always does what is best for others-and He hates what is contrary to His nature-He hates what is contrary to love.
No one should be surprised to learn that God does hate some things. He created us with the capacity to both love and hate, and we acknowledge that hatred is sometimes justified-we naturally hate things that destroy what we love. This is part of our being created in the image of God. The fact that we are all tainted with sin means that our love and hatred are sometimes misplaced, but the existence of the sin nature does not negate our God-given ability to love and hate. It is no contradiction for a human being to be able to love and hate, and neither is it a contradiction for God to be able to love and hate.
When the Bible does speak of God’s hatred, the object of His hatred is sin and wickedness. Among the things God hates are idolatry (Deuteronomy 12:31; 16:22), child sacrifice, sexual perversion (Leviticus 20:1-23), and those who do evil (Psalm 5:4-6; 11:5). Proverbs 6:16-19 lists seven things the Lord hates: pride, lying, murder, evil plots, those who love evil, false witnesses, and troublemakers. Notice that this passage does not include just things that God hates; it includes people as well. The reason is simple: sin cannot be separated from the sinner except by the forgiveness available in Christ alone. God hates lying, yes, but lying always involves a person-a liar-who chooses to lie. God cannot judge the lie without also judging the liar.
The Bible clearly teaches that God loves the people of the world (John 3:16). God spared wicked Nineveh, bringing them to repentance (Jonah 3). God takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked (Ezekiel 18:32). He is patient to an extreme, “not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9). This is all proof of love-God wants what is best for His creation. At the same time, Psalm 5:5 says about God, “You hate all evildoers” (ESV). Psalm 11:5 is even harsher: “The wicked, those who love violence, he hates with a passion.”
Before a person repents and believes in the Lord Jesus Christ, he is the enemy of God (Colossians 1:21). Yet, even before he is saved, he is loved by God (Romans 5:8)-i.e., God sacrificed His only begotten Son on his behalf. The question then becomes, what happens to someone who spurns God’s love, refuses to repent, and stubbornly clings to his sin? Answer: God will judge him, because God must judge sin, and that means judging the sinner. These are the “wicked” whom God hates-those who persist in their sin and rebellion, even in the face of the grace and mercy of God in Christ.
David writes, “You are not a God who delights in wickedness; evil may not dwell with you” (Psalm 5:4, ESV, emphasis added). By contrast, those who take refuge in God will “be glad” and “ever sing for joy” (verse 11). In fact, both Psalm 5 and Psalm 11 draw a stark contrast between the righteous (those who take refuge in God) and the wicked (those who rebel against God). The righteous and the wicked make different choices and have different destinies-one will see the ultimate expression of God’s love, and the other will know the ultimate expression of God’s hatred.
We cannot love with a perfect love, nor can we hate with a perfect hatred. But God can both love and hate perfectly, because He is God. God can hate without sinful intent. He can hate the sinner in a perfectly holy way and still lovingly forgive the sinner at the moment of repentance and faith (Malachi 1:3; Revelation 2:6; 2 Peter 3:9).
In His love for all, God has sent His Son to be the Savior. The wicked, who are still unforgiven, God hates “for their many sins, for they have rebelled” (Psalm 5:10). But-and this is important to understand-God desires that the wicked repent of their sin and find refuge in Christ. At the moment of saving faith, the wicked sinner is removed from the kingdom of darkness and transferred to the kingdom of love (see Colossians 1:13). All enmity is dissolved, all sin is removed, and all things are made new (see 2 Corinthians 5:17).
I don’t know much about god but everyone says he loves everyone but god forbid you be gay or else he sends you to hell, I dunno it sounds like a contradiction
I went through this "conversion therapy" as an early teen. While it's a disgusting, bigoted with the backing of religion, joke, I am so happy to know that a story like this is being told. And I'm even more happy that this is becoming illegal so no one else has to suffer this nightmare.
Swiit Lime wow that's so not cool
By your logic no mental illness can be fixed.
This conversion crap needs to end !! It’s very important for stories like this to be told and to get the truth out. Big huge thank to everyone involved in this 🎥 👍🏻🤠👍🏻🏳️🌈
This film will always make me emotional. This movie came out around the same time that my parents had sent me to a conversion therapy camp ( at the age of 17 ) by the name of “ Hope for Wholeness “. It’s crazy because the same guy that ran the camp has now shut the camp down as a result of him being a gay man himself. I’m just glad to see that things have progressively gotten better when it comes to these types of camps etc. being ran.
"I've had to ask myself and God if I'm ready to lose you" - terrible that it has to come to that...
Riiiiiight???
I saw the names Lucas Hedges and Nicole Kidman and immediately remembered the award season is coming.
It’s heartbreaking that people use religion as an excuse for discrimination. No religion is supposed to be used for hatred. Not Judaism. Not Catholicism. Not Islam. Religion is a peaceful understanding of the creation of the world and a higher power. It isn’t bigotry and hatred. It’s loving everybody, because that’s how people’s god or gods created people. And they did it that way for a reason. I’m a confirmed catholic but I’m not very religious because I just don’t know what I believe or feel. But religion helps a lot of people, just not this way.
Hi, I'm Sky AGREED! AGREED! Couldn’t have said it better myself!
@Conservative Hamster you're fucking crazy. I'm Muslim as well and I definitely don't support that. You sound like a crazy extremist
It is clear that you are not aware of the verses that centre around homosexuals and acts of homosexuality. Both Christianity and Islam do not support the rights of LGBT individuals. With that said, many do cherry-pick parts of their religion to suit their interests, likes, dislikes and political agenda. And there is no objective and concrete evidence that Gods even exists.
ORIGINAL BIBLE = TRUTH.
Conservative Hamster is correct and speaks THE TRUTH IN ALL.
Thank you to all people who were involved in the making aswell as the actors for portraying the characters in such an heartfelt and realistic way ❤