They seem like pretty bad parents. Sure, losing a child is hard. We've lost several in my extended family, both as children (various cousins) and adults (my own sister). Parents aren't the only ones who suffer from the loss. But these two losers seem to be so wrapped up in themselves and their own feelings that they lost sight of the fact that they still had two kids who needed their parents and didn't have them because their parents were busy caring for their own needs.
Way out of line they didn’t know whether or not marrying Doug was a mistake even if it was which it was it was Maddie’s mistake to make they should’ve been there for her regardless they should’ve been there for her especially when things got bad with Doug
THIS SCENE! I have so many feelings about this. It makes so many good points about parent-child relationships. It is NOT a kid's job to make life easy for their parents! And for parents to blame the child for being too difficult to be loved or cared about is such a shitty thing to do. "Love me anyway." Yes!!! This is so important!!!
This scene made me so emotional 😭 I felt that line “love me anyway “ absolutely broke my heart 💔and “I have walked through fire every single day of my life because of u”
@@gemdre - Indeed, that was the litany of Boomer parents that many of us had to endure. They resented the fact that we weren't born miniature adults and that we were instead children who required parenting. They made it very clear to us that we were an intrusion on their lives and thus we should be grateful and stay out of their way so that they could live their own lives. This has since spread to subsequent generations because way too many kids grew up never knowing any other way.
Buck had good reason to be angry with his parents cuz they barely paid attention to him and Maddie and what’s worse is that the expected perfection from them of the number one rules of being a good parent never expect perfection from them root them in a way they should go yes but NEVER expect them to be perfect
This made me resent maddie a little bit because Buck was always there for her and she wasn't always there for him and this scene proves it when she is trying to tell him to stop. He was in so much pain and you could see it in his eyes but she didn't want to relive her pain, at the expense of her brothers, even though Buck would do so in a heart beat
To be fair, it's a very complex dynamic here. Buck's pain is primarily with his parents but in order to address it all, Maddie has to relive a very abusive relationship while she's pregnant, and unknowingly has to be thinking about the brother she lost that Buck didn't even know about at that point. I don't blame Buck for going in but I don't blame Maddie for not wanting to.
Remember when he was crushed by fire truck? Maddie was not even at dispatch centre, she just stayed at home watching injured Buck from TV, anxiously waiting him to be rescued instead of rushing to the scene, if the roles were reserved, Buck would definitely rush to the scene in desperate (when Maddie was kidnapped by Doug and when Maddie as well as other dispatchers were held hostage)
@@mr.crossover6633I think you are thinking of Ally/Allie. Bucks girlfriend at the time. She was the one sitting at home watching (at his apartment). Maddie was at the dispatch center watching what happened with Josh. It’s not like she could go at that point in time. There was a bomber still at large. But as soon as Josh said she should/could go she left. Well that is if I’m not getting my scenes mixed up that is 😂.
Go Buck!!! This is seriously one of the best scenes in the entire show! Those two parents seriously can be the worst! They literally treat Buck like he is a spare, just a body for parts, nothing more. And to make it even worse, they try to play victim, innocent in their wrongs, and blaming their children for their reactions when they need to take a long, hard look in the mirror. I wanted to slap them so hard knowing that they don’t even have a baby box for Buck, not a single thing. I understand that they will forever mourn their son, Daniel but their love for Maddie and Buck should have come above all else. Instead their grief took over and expected their children to remain in line like a sort of pet, making it easy like they said. If I was Buck, I would have forgiven them however never forget either. I would have cut them off from my life just like they did with Maddie. Thanks for uploading the entire scene. 🙂🧡🧡
This scene honestly just gives more proof that maddie was buck’s real parent and when she left him for dug it must have like he was being abandoned all over again and left with people who probably didn’t even know he was even there, that’s why when he found out about his past and maddie decided to hide it from him, siding with his “parents” he reacted like that, there is so much I wanna talk about when it comes to buck and his family and his mental but there’s not enough room for everything
Buck’s relationship with his parents explains a lot about his character he is super persistent when about to lose something because he has abandonment issues
The worst thing any parents can do in life is fail their children and even though this is a television show these two are prime examples. Kudos to Buck for ripping them a new one despite Maddie not wanting him to so she would not have to relive the pain and trauma. Sometimes you just have to let it out.
@@crystalsherman8896 All humans make mistakes but that card can only be played so many times. At some point human beings have to own up to their mistakes and not repeat them. In the case of Buck and how he grew up, his parents owed him a heck of a lot more than "Buck...we made mistakes but we always loved you."
In 2023 they still haven't learned, when Buck ended up back in hospital they weren't there while 118 was there night and day and Christopher did everything he could to get to Buck to reassure him. The Buckley bought a couch
This whole scene (and episode really) destroyed me, for many different reasons. The first is the backhanded compliments from the parents to Maddie, about how she "finally came to her senses" and "picked a good one this time", as if completely forgetting that whilst they might have been right in their dislike of Doug, Maddie went through absolute hell because of him, and she shouldn't have to be reminded of it, or made to feel as if it was her fault in the first place. The second is their reluctance/refusal to visit their children in the hospital. I know that they lost a kid after spending 3 years in the hospital, and I won't even pretend to understand that pain, but I'm also a grown woman, and when I'm sick/injured/in hospital, the only person I want is my mom, and I'd be absolutely crushed if she chose not to be there for me. The next is them presenting Maddie with her baby box in front of Buck, knowing damn well they never made one for him. It's like if your friends all talked about the party they are going to in front of you, getting you excited for it, and then telling you you aren't invited, except worse, because it will just confirm to Buck that they never cared about him as much as they did for Maddie. The fourth is the parents saying that the kids "never made it easy for them", because that is not a child's job. As people, none of us asked to be brought into this world, we had no choice. Our parents had us, and it is their job to love us, take care of us, and raise us to be who we want to be. It is not our responsibility to make our parents' lives easier whilst we are children, because we don't even know anything about the world yet. And the last thing is not this scene, but this episode, and that is the parents and Maddie keeping Daniel and the truth about Buck's birth/life a secret from him for 29 years, with no intentions of ever telling him. If my entire family kept the fact that I was only born for the sole purpose of being my sibling's bone marrow donor, that I was never wanted for any other reason other than that, for almost 3 decades, and then I find out they never intended to tell me in the first place, I can confidently say that some people would be getting some decent back hands. I don't care what their reasons were, after 29 years they become null and void, after that it's your own selfishness that is preventing you from being honest.
See! This scene frustrates me cause later on after Buck's next big injury it almost glosses over years of hurt he experienced and made it seemed like everything was magically fixed in their family
Good on ya they need to hear the truth weather they want to hear it or not they meant to love their children unconditionally but clearly they have not clue
Exactly they should’ve just been there for her regardless you never expect perfection from your kids have expectations but never expect perfection from your kids
That is absurd first of all they didn’t know whether or not Maddie marrying Doug was a mistake and second even if it was which it was they should been there for her regardless like Buck said people make mistakes but that doesn’t mean you turn your back on them
And now they’re making him buy or whatever I’m like stop with all this crap we already got hidden caring good couple right book to find himself a good girl settle down have a bunch of little baby bucks and then Athena
One of the worst things the buckley parents did was give maddie her baby box in front of buck when they know full well they didnt make buck one.
They might as well be asking for it
They seem like pretty bad parents. Sure, losing a child is hard. We've lost several in my extended family, both as children (various cousins) and adults (my own sister). Parents aren't the only ones who suffer from the loss. But these two losers seem to be so wrapped up in themselves and their own feelings that they lost sight of the fact that they still had two kids who needed their parents and didn't have them because their parents were busy caring for their own needs.
Way out of line they didn’t know whether or not marrying Doug was a mistake even if it was which it was it was Maddie’s mistake to make they should’ve been there for her regardless they should’ve been there for her especially when things got bad with Doug
@@CamdenakaNeptunesdaughter1213😢😢😢😢😢
It's like they threw it in his face that loved Daniel and Maddie more.
I’m very proud of Oliver for this scene because he’s British and I feel like yelling in a whole other accent is like next to impossible
Let’s not normalize being proud of British ppl ✨
Let's not normalise americans 💫
@@lilylovesanime17 that doesn’t even make sense lmao
@@wwertyhdsawq5505you’re comment doesn’t make any fckng sense tho? so you’re one to talk?
@@wwertyhdsawq5505let's not normalise obese Americans
One of the most powerful child/parent scenes in TV. "Love me anyway."
"Love me anyway" broke me when I first saw this episode.
THIS SCENE! I have so many feelings about this. It makes so many good points about parent-child relationships. It is NOT a kid's job to make life easy for their parents! And for parents to blame the child for being too difficult to be loved or cared about is such a shitty thing to do.
"Love me anyway." Yes!!! This is so important!!!
This scene made me so emotional 😭 I felt that line “love me anyway “ absolutely broke my heart 💔and “I have walked through fire every single day of my life because of u”
That’s practically verbal abuse
The sad part is this scene is reality for lots of people.
@@gemdre - Indeed, that was the litany of Boomer parents that many of us had to endure. They resented the fact that we weren't born miniature adults and that we were instead children who required parenting. They made it very clear to us that we were an intrusion on their lives and thus we should be grateful and stay out of their way so that they could live their own lives. This has since spread to subsequent generations because way too many kids grew up never knowing any other way.
These parents are suchhh good actors. Years later I still HATE THEM SO MUCH 😂
She was the mom in E.T.
The most despicable people to ever appear on the show.
@@pipoo1 true. And now they’re back for Maddie’s wedding which I think is weird as hell.
while it's sad that this is the state of their relationship, it feels so good to hear buck say this and get all his feelings off of his chest:')
ngl when he growled while saying “ i have walked through fire every single day of my life because of you” that resonated deep
“I HAVE WALKED,” when Buck said that I felt it
I felt bad for Buck when they gave Maddie her baby box and didn’t make Buck one. I’m proud of him for standing up to them.
way to go Buck for standing up for yourself and Maddie your parents deserve it for treating you like you're nothing
Buck had good reason to be angry with his parents cuz they barely paid attention to him and Maddie and what’s worse is that the expected perfection from them of the number one rules of being a good parent never expect perfection from them root them in a way they should go yes but NEVER expect them to be perfect
i just love how buck is protective of maddie
2:34 - 2:39 Oliver's micro transition from frustration to anger to disappointment. God damn! What an actor. Impressive acting.
His mom was a literal Karen
Haircut, whiny voice and all
FR
Only thing missing is that her name is Margaret.
@@smilegirl6429 Maren. Or Marga. Marga could well fit here. Don't be such a Marga.
''You never made it easy on us! Either of you!''
''We were supposed to?''....''We were kids.''
That line hit so hard for me because my parents told me and my older sister the same fckn thing ! They punished us simply for being born !
And what’s worse they assumed Maddie marrying Doug would be a mistake even though it was but Buck was right you never expect perfection from your kids
This made me resent maddie a little bit because Buck was always there for her and she wasn't always there for him and this scene proves it when she is trying to tell him to stop. He was in so much pain and you could see it in his eyes but she didn't want to relive her pain, at the expense of her brothers, even though Buck would do so in a heart beat
To be fair, it's a very complex dynamic here. Buck's pain is primarily with his parents but in order to address it all, Maddie has to relive a very abusive relationship while she's pregnant, and unknowingly has to be thinking about the brother she lost that Buck didn't even know about at that point. I don't blame Buck for going in but I don't blame Maddie for not wanting to.
Remember when he was crushed by fire truck? Maddie was not even at dispatch centre, she just stayed at home watching injured Buck from TV, anxiously waiting him to be rescued instead of rushing to the scene, if the roles were reserved, Buck would definitely rush to the scene in desperate (when Maddie was kidnapped by Doug and when Maddie as well as other dispatchers were held hostage)
@@mr.crossover6633I think you are thinking of Ally/Allie. Bucks girlfriend at the time. She was the one sitting at home watching (at his apartment). Maddie was at the dispatch center watching what happened with Josh. It’s not like she could go at that point in time. There was a bomber still at large. But as soon as Josh said she should/could go she left. Well that is if I’m not getting my scenes mixed up that is 😂.
@@urgurlkayla3114you got it right maddie was at work when buck was crushed by the truck. ali was the one sitting by the tv
Not me rewatching this every single day....
Same
Same😭
Go Buck!!! This is seriously one of the best scenes in the entire show! Those two parents seriously can be the worst! They literally treat Buck like he is a spare, just a body for parts, nothing more. And to make it even worse, they try to play victim, innocent in their wrongs, and blaming their children for their reactions when they need to take a long, hard look in the mirror. I wanted to slap them so hard knowing that they don’t even have a baby box for Buck, not a single thing. I understand that they will forever mourn their son, Daniel but their love for Maddie and Buck should have come above all else. Instead their grief took over and expected their children to remain in line like a sort of pet, making it easy like they said. If I was Buck, I would have forgiven them however never forget either. I would have cut them off from my life just like they did with Maddie. Thanks for uploading the entire scene. 🙂🧡🧡
This scene honestly just gives more proof that maddie was buck’s real parent and when she left him for dug it must have like he was being abandoned all over again and left with people who probably didn’t even know he was even there, that’s why when he found out about his past and maddie decided to hide it from him, siding with his “parents” he reacted like that, there is so much I wanna talk about when it comes to buck and his family and his mental but there’s not enough room for everything
Buck’s relationship with his parents explains a lot about his character he is super persistent when about to lose something because he has abandonment issues
The worst thing any parents can do in life is fail their children and even though this is a television show these two are prime examples. Kudos to Buck for ripping them a new one despite Maddie not wanting him to so she would not have to relive the pain and trauma. Sometimes you just have to let it out.
Parents are human and make mistakes
@@crystalsherman8896 All humans make mistakes but that card can only be played so many times. At some point human beings have to own up to their mistakes and not repeat them. In the case of Buck and how he grew up, his parents owed him a heck of a lot more than "Buck...we made mistakes but we always loved you."
In 2023 they still haven't learned, when Buck ended up back in hospital they weren't there while 118 was there night and day and Christopher did everything he could to get to Buck to reassure him. The Buckley bought a couch
His parents were there
@@absujawal
Barley, not like his 118 family
I SCREAMED AT THIS BIT. POOR BUCKY
I just watched this episode yesterday, and this scene still hits. They treated Buck like he wasn't worth having. 😢
This whole scene (and episode really) destroyed me, for many different reasons. The first is the backhanded compliments from the parents to Maddie, about how she "finally came to her senses" and "picked a good one this time", as if completely forgetting that whilst they might have been right in their dislike of Doug, Maddie went through absolute hell because of him, and she shouldn't have to be reminded of it, or made to feel as if it was her fault in the first place. The second is their reluctance/refusal to visit their children in the hospital. I know that they lost a kid after spending 3 years in the hospital, and I won't even pretend to understand that pain, but I'm also a grown woman, and when I'm sick/injured/in hospital, the only person I want is my mom, and I'd be absolutely crushed if she chose not to be there for me. The next is them presenting Maddie with her baby box in front of Buck, knowing damn well they never made one for him. It's like if your friends all talked about the party they are going to in front of you, getting you excited for it, and then telling you you aren't invited, except worse, because it will just confirm to Buck that they never cared about him as much as they did for Maddie. The fourth is the parents saying that the kids "never made it easy for them", because that is not a child's job. As people, none of us asked to be brought into this world, we had no choice. Our parents had us, and it is their job to love us, take care of us, and raise us to be who we want to be. It is not our responsibility to make our parents' lives easier whilst we are children, because we don't even know anything about the world yet. And the last thing is not this scene, but this episode, and that is the parents and Maddie keeping Daniel and the truth about Buck's birth/life a secret from him for 29 years, with no intentions of ever telling him. If my entire family kept the fact that I was only born for the sole purpose of being my sibling's bone marrow donor, that I was never wanted for any other reason other than that, for almost 3 decades, and then I find out they never intended to tell me in the first place, I can confidently say that some people would be getting some decent back hands. I don't care what their reasons were, after 29 years they become null and void, after that it's your own selfishness that is preventing you from being honest.
Agreed, with everything!
You said it all perfectly
Maddie and Buck (especially Buck) deserved so much better parents than them.
Chimney at the front seat of the Buckley family drama
Buck love me anyway 😢😢😢😢😢😢 the acting in this scene from Oliver Stark and Jennifer Love Hewitt is amazing
See! This scene frustrates me cause later on after Buck's next big injury it almost glosses over years of hurt he experienced and made it seemed like everything was magically fixed in their family
Not magically fixed, it signalled the turning point.
The hand synchro with the parents is hilarious
I don’t blame Buck, I’ve been there myself.
You can only be pushed so far with this crap before you finally snap
Good on ya they need to hear the truth weather they want to hear it or not they meant to love their children unconditionally but clearly they have not clue
I’m Glad Buck And Maddie Spoke Up!
This explain it so much and that was exactly what it feels like
lol I’ve had this exact conversation nearly word for word
Good for Buck! I felt so bad for him. Buck/Oliver is hot when he’s angry tho. They’re mom constantly acting like her and her dad are the victims 🙄
I’m the child of a seasoned social worker and I gotta say they are horrible people and parents
They are the reason I made the phrase “tornado wrapped in a fluffy cloud”
3:26 just look that face, he really tried
Wow, I haven't seen Dee Wallace and Gregory Harrison in years. I love when shows cast like this, with great retired or forgotten actors.
Seriously this is an Oscar worthy of Oliver Starkk
If Maddie's parents hadn't cut her off she could have gone to them and told them what Doug was doing to her!!!!!
Exactly they should’ve just been there for her regardless you never expect perfection from your kids have expectations but never expect perfection from your kids
Parents: “You never made it easy on us!”
Kids as adults: “NOWHERE DID IT SAY PARENTHOOD WOULD BE EASY!”
omg i loved this scene
Omg i love love this secene
Same
That is absurd first of all they didn’t know whether or not Maddie marrying Doug was a mistake and second even if it was which it was they should been there for her regardless like Buck said people make mistakes but that doesn’t mean you turn your back on them
You picked a good one this time that’s not a complement only toxic people see that as one
That walked thru 🔥 part 🥺
Btw it “Evan I don’t know what u excepted us to do” not “and I don’t know what u excepted us to do”
Oliver Stark reminds me of James Dean
I know Maddie says that they are not bad people just bad parents. No if you cant be good parents and love your kids, that makes you terrible people.
I can hear my parents in this😢
i look at Buck and I still see a boy angry but he wants to cry 😢
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
If they wanted east kids then they should have gotten dolls Barbie’s instead,
Their mom at least grew a bit as she visited Buck in the hospital.
3:20, you didnt' know what you were supposed to do? Don't have kids.
I wish Maddie would have left with him that would have made this scene for me
These guys are the worst parents ever
Buckley mom is Kelly’s mom from just add magic and also the mom of the mom in 7th heaven, right?
Nope. But she is the mom in ET
I wonder what their opinion would be after they know their son is bisexual.
Buck's mom looked…less than thrilled when Buck showed up with all that soot on his face from kissing Tommy lmao. But I guess we'll see.
Episode and season
What episode and season please? I watched on a binge and everything is blurry lol
Season 4 Episode 4 :)
Dee Wallace Stone ET
Done
what episode?
9-1-1 what's your grievance? It's season 4
Season 4 ep 4
What's ep???? / qual ep????
S4E4
Thk @@mark99k
Some people shouldn't have children what can i say but there is no law against breeding
what episode
nvm i found out
kto
Episode?
Season 4 what's your grievance
Season 4 ep 4
Is not there mom and dad fault
Evan parents don't and didn't care about him. They are lousy parents .
And now they’re making him buy or whatever I’m like stop with all this crap we already got hidden caring good couple right book to find himself a good girl settle down have a bunch of little baby bucks and then Athena
And Bobby needs to adopt him
Stop using that word ‘go off’
It’s sends a message… don’t like it???
Ravi using that Word go off
but he did lmao