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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @rachel-po5rm
    @rachel-po5rm Рік тому +12

    I love how he says not to have children if your not in a healthy relationship

  • @Shannon.Hazleton
    @Shannon.Hazleton Рік тому +8

    Welding career?! I didn’t see that one coming- can’t wait to watch the video!! (After I get kids to bed 😉)

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +5

      😂 Yep. I remember crossing the US border from Canada and the border guard couldn't understand what I did when he asked about my employment, haha.

    • @Shannon.Hazleton
      @Shannon.Hazleton Рік тому +2

      @@jayellealafi5797 😂😂😂

  • @aspenenglish4976
    @aspenenglish4976 Рік тому +7

    Congratulations on your sweet baby boy! I had no idea you were pregnant. Thank you for sharing your life.

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much! Yes, up until late March. 😊 You're very welcome!

  • @Crystal11Skulls
    @Crystal11Skulls Рік тому +5

    Thank you for another great video! It's funny the contrast of you answering questions- you're detailed, you tell a story. Your husband answers a question- no story, quick to the point. 😆
    I use to work as a barber, and I (being a hopeless romantic) always asked, "How did you meet your wife?"
    Most men just gave a basic, quick to the point answer. "We met through friends." The end.
    Then I would cut their wife's hair, ask her the same question, and there's a whole story, and background story to the story. It's just funny. 😆

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +4

      Hahaha! 😂 He can tell a story when he wants to, but I thought he should keep it succinct this time!
      His first take was like 45 minutes, so I was like, "ummm...😬"
      We will try again to do one together at some point. :)
      💗

  • @Deep_Blue_Sapphire
    @Deep_Blue_Sapphire Рік тому +5

    I love hearing about all your adventures before you were married. It must have been an exciting time for you. You really have journeyed through life with conversion, marriage, and family. You seem happy, content, and fulfilled, which is, after all, the goal. ❤ Lil' man is adorable!

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому

      Thank you so much! Yes, looking back it has been quite a ride! 🤗

  • @helensh2
    @helensh2 Рік тому +3

    Omg, you are so adorable! BH, I found your Chanel. I’m also Kurdish …

  • @marilyn6604
    @marilyn6604 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your life. I really enjoy your cooking and shopping for food. Your religious ideas are interesting. I really admire you and your individuality. Your story is very unique. It is nice to hear from your husband.

  • @mrtech2259
    @mrtech2259 Рік тому +5

    Wow you really had an amazing upbringing! I'm from canada too, btw, now visiting Israel

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому

      Wow, enjoy your time there! I haven't been in almost 5 years...😔

    • @mrtech2259
      @mrtech2259 Рік тому

      @@jayellealafi5797 ha I'm already back 😊😂

  • @debracubitt6191
    @debracubitt6191 Рік тому +2

    We lived in the middle of nowhere with gardens and the weekly trip to town for laundry 🌞

  • @marthaaliceallen8711
    @marthaaliceallen8711 Рік тому +3

    So nice to see you again!....you had had a fascinating life!!

  • @jeaniecohen2701
    @jeaniecohen2701 Рік тому +3

    You are an amazing person!! I enjoy and appreciate your UA-cam’s

  • @Shannon.Hazleton
    @Shannon.Hazleton Рік тому +2

    Jayelle- thanks for sharing. I can’t believe it took me so long to get around to watching. You have such an interesting story; I’d love to sit down and talk over coffee (although it looks like you prefer tea☺️) shalom!

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому

      Hi Shannon, so glad you enjoyed it! I would love that too, maybe someday we will. 😊 I enjoy coffee occasionally, not so much since the baby arrived and I'm nursing again. I do love herbal teas! ❤️
      What about you, coffee or tea?

    • @Shannon.Hazleton
      @Shannon.Hazleton Рік тому

      @@jayellealafi5797 both!! My girls and I stay well-stocked on tea but I also love coffee. ☺️

  • @marybee4734
    @marybee4734 Рік тому +2

    JAYELLE THANK YOU FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL VIEDO SO INTERESTING I NEVER WOULD HAVE THOUGHT YOU AS A WELDER AND YOUR HUSBAND IS SO SWEET YOU MAKE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE AND THOSE BABIES SO CUTE🥰🦋🦋🦋🌻🌻🌻🐝

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому

      Thank you Mary Bee, yes it's true haha! Thank you for the kind words! 💗😊

  • @nooncactus
    @nooncactus Рік тому +2

    I really like how beautifully your husband spoke about his love for you. 🩵

  • @danielmagana8429
    @danielmagana8429 Рік тому +2

    Yay another video!!! Fascinating life!!! Also I did your super food cereal recipe its delicious!!! More healthy and delicious recipes please!!!!!!

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому

      Oh that's awesome Daniel! Glad you enjoyed it! I will definitely look to do more recipes and food content, thank you for the feedback! 😃

  • @sherry-anneking7103
    @sherry-anneking7103 Рік тому +3

    Jayelle it’s soo nice to meet you! I enjoyed every bit of your story it was very engaging. Mazal Tov!

  • @JewishEducationatHome
    @JewishEducationatHome Рік тому +2

    Mazal tov on your new little one, what a sweetie! This was so interesting to hear about your life!

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +2

      Thank you, Chana! 😊. He was a big reason I didn't upload for a while 🥴
      Glad you enjoyed!

  • @ShmirchikArt
    @ShmirchikArt Рік тому +2

    You're such an inspiration and a strong woman, defender of the 1 creator god, and that is special, Please continue your good work, just like RaBBI Tovia singer who brings light to the lies of Christianity,

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +1

      Thank you, bH I will! Rabbi Singer is a living legend, I wish to have 1% of his knowledge and wisdom. 😊

  • @enodmilvado148
    @enodmilvado148 Рік тому +2

    I feel like my soul relates so much to yours
    Love your insights and journey to find and stick to hashem
    Its a life long journey every time you think you reached a path hashem opens a door to the next chapter of finding him right?
    Anyways thank you for sharing these good vibes have a wonderful day and mazal tov:)

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +2

      Such a nice comment, thank you, Yael! 🥰 It's so true what you say about the journey, it never ends and always carries a surprise.
      💗

  • @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw
    @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw Рік тому +3

    1:45 That is so killer. I was on the news when I was a baby as well; when I was still crawling I escaped my grandma's house and crawled all the way across the street on my own and a bunch of people freaked out

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +1

      Oh wow! Did anything come of that?

    • @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw
      @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw Рік тому +1

      Not really, the news just painted my family in a bad light, even though disappearing is just a habit of mine (at 5 years old I escaped my old church and got all the way out to the street and am now the reason they have security at the church's child ministry) and no one could keep me in one place.

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому

      😂 Oh my!

  • @heatherwiner2883
    @heatherwiner2883 Рік тому +2

    Mazel tov on your new son!!!

  • @Sarah61548
    @Sarah61548 Рік тому +2

    You are amazing.

  • @zayiith
    @zayiith 11 днів тому

    From personal experience as real estate investor, i can tell you, and so do Chazal, and Poskim, that wealth causes death. This death decree is cancelled by giving radical charity. It also affects the family.
    My dad died because of it, and my mother was literally killing herself starving. Now she is so much better, happier, healthier as never before, and i literally dump lots of tzedakah, in order to avert the death decree. This year alone i gave $30K to yeshivos, kollel, and beis dins. And will probably give away at least one property soon.

  • @eytonshalomsandiego
    @eytonshalomsandiego 6 місяців тому

    p.s. what a lovely story!

  • @sharonlee7111
    @sharonlee7111 Рік тому +2

  • @Imdone2020
    @Imdone2020 Рік тому +1

    I’m sorry about changing the subject, I saw another video where you spoke about human sacrifice and how Jesus of Nazareth is used as a human sacrifice to save us from sins. Christians use the binding of Isaac as the foreshadowing of the crucification as a sacrifice for-the forgiveness of sins for humankind. I was always curious about why G-d asked Abraham to kill his son and sacrifice Isaac to Him. I know that during that time pagan gods demanded human sacrifice from worshipers which was why G-d Abraham wasn’t so surprised that G-d asked him to do this. But I have never heard an explanation that satisfied me why HaShem would have asked that of Abraham? What is the Jewish perspective?

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +2

      Good question! Yes I spoke about this in my Rosh Hashanah video, since we read about the story of Abraham and Isaac on that holiday.
      Just to clarify, human sacrifice is antithetical to the Torah. The prophets spoke about it at length, how it is an abomination.
      G- did not ask Abraham to kill his son.
      He didn't use the word which would signify the slaying of the sacrifice. Abraham was asked to "offer him/lift him up (upon the alter). From the outset, therefore, there was no intention to accept a human sacrifice. In Hebrew the text is peculiar, and is interpreted more like G-d saying, "Take now, I pray thee, your son..." G-d spoke to Abraham as a "friend to friend."
      THE BINDING OF ISAAC (AKEDAH) from Notes on Genesis, (pg 201) of my Hebrew/English Chumash.
      This chapter is of great importance both in the life of Abraham and in the life of Israel. The aged Patriarch, who had longed for a rightful heir ('Oh, Lord G-d, what wilt Thou give me, seeing I go hence childless?'), and had had his longing fulfilled in the birth of Isaac, is now bidden offer up this child as a burnt offering unto the Lord.
      The purpose was to apply a supreme test to Abraham's faith, thus strengthening his faith by the heroic exercise of it. The proofs of a man's love of G-d are his willingness to serve Him with all his heart, all his soul, and all his might; as well as his readiness to sacrifice unto Him that which is even dearer than life.
      It was a test safe only in a Divine hand, capable of intervening as He did intervene, and as it was His purpose from the first to intervene, as soon as the spiritual end of the trial was accomplished; Abraham proving his complete and unconditional surrender to the will of G-d. This is the positive lesson of the Akedah.
      The story of the trial of Abraham also brings a great negative teaching.
      The story of the Binding of Isaac opens the age-long warfare of Israel against the abominations of child-sacrifice, which was rife among the Semitic peoples, as well as their Egyptian and Aryan neighbours.
      In that age, it was astounding that Abraham's G-d should have interposed to prevent the sacrifice, not that He should have asked for it.
      A primary purpose of this command, therefore, was to demonstrate to Abraham and his descendants after him that G-d abhorred human sacrifice with an infinite abhorrence. Unlike the cruel heathen deities, it was the spiritual surrender alone that G-d required.
      Moses warns his people not to serve G-d in the manner of the surrounding nations.
      'For every abomination to the Lord, which He hateth, have they done unto their gods; for even their sons and their daughters do they burn in the fire to their gods.' Deut 12:31
      All the Prophets alike shudder at this hideous aberration of man's sense of worship, and they do not rest until all Israel shares their horror of this savage custom.
      In Jeremiah 19:4-6, G-d tells us that human sacrifice is so horrible a concept to Him, that it did not even come into His mind to demand it from His creation, ‘They have built also the high places of Baal, to burn their sons with fire for burnt offerings unto Baal, which I commanded not, nor spake it, neither came it into my mind.’
      We see the same thing in Psalm 106:37-38, and in Ezekiel 16:20.
      This teaches that G-d would not accept Jesus’ death on the cross as a blood sacrifice for the forgiveness of sins. The very idea of that G-d would accept a human sacrifice for the forgiveness of sins is absolutely unbiblical, a pagan idea.
      It's like adding a crime (murder) to an abomination (human sacrifice) and claiming it was an acceptable sacrifice.
      In my opinion, there is a fundamental misunderstanding of sacrifice/atonement/forgiveness of sin in Christian circles, and I say this since I was a Christian once.
      Here's a great read if you'd like to learn more about this topic from a Jewish perspective.
      nojesus4jews.weebly.com/sophiees-blog/category/blood-atonement
      Hope this helps!

  • @eytonshalomsandiego
    @eytonshalomsandiego 6 місяців тому

    wise choice! returning the ring...buying property...a yiddishe kop!

  • @ronagreenfield9545
    @ronagreenfield9545 Рік тому +2

    "People at the mall who look like they forgot to get dressed"...😂🤣 I am so sorry your orthodontist violated your trust in such a despicable way. Technology has definitely brought out the worst in a lot of people.

    • @jayellealafi5797
      @jayellealafi5797  Рік тому +1

      Well, I try really hard to find the positive in some of the tougher situations, and it worked out in the end.
      I also learned an important lesson about trusting in so-called "professionals", doctors, etc. Turns out they can be just as messed up as anybody.
      💗

  • @user-dh6pz5eo2r
    @user-dh6pz5eo2r Рік тому

    Please read Quran my sister ❤🙏

  • @T_WC123
    @T_WC123 Рік тому +1

    Just found your channel and your videos are interesting! Do you know the UA-camr Chana @jaroffireflies? She is also a Shephardic convert and I think you may have much in common! Wishing you great luck with your channel and thank you for the videos!