Facts. Problem is too many mfs just want it to go one way and most good women ain't gonna have it. The ones that let ya walk all over em will eventually burn ya down the road 💯
If he's working and you're not by all means your job is taking care of him. But if I'm working and paying half the bills he can wash he own clothes and sometimes mine too. It's 50/50.... Obviously unless he's unable to work.
I absolutely agree 110% with all of this. When a woman has self respect and conducts herself like a lady...she will be treated as such, this includes knowing to whom she belongs and always honoring his position in or outside the home. Deep down every woman wants a strong man who loves, honors and protects her. This runs true in any chosen lifestyle.
Agree 100% This isn't just the way 1%er ol ladies should be, its exactly how it should be in any MC. Ive had bad experiences in the past where an ol lady just didn't get it, but this hits the nail right on the head.
You do know what 1%er's are right? They're the shit stains of society, the ones that give bike enthusiasts a bad name. The ones that are associated with illegal activities. Selling/manufacturing drugs, pimping, extortion, gun running etc. Basically organized crime. What this woman is saying is that 1%er's "Ol Ladies" need to support his lifestyle and keep things managed on the home front. So while he's running a stable or cooking meth or selling automatic weapons to gang members he loves knowing she has his back. And you 100% agree. Lmao, you people are unbelievable.
I was a biker wife, he's been gone 2 yrs. I never understood how just regular women didn't treat their husband's with this kind of respect that us biker wives do. I wanted my man to look good, it was a reflection on me, which reflected back to him.
#Ghostin. I’ll add that much of this was good advice for anyone, man or woman who’s partnered with a military service member. Thanks and much love to both Sose and this young lady for bringing this to the public!
I’m not a biker nor is my husband, but we treat each other just like she’s describing! Jealousy says nothing about your spouse, it says everything about you! If you have trust & respect you’ll have a successful relationship!
Jealousy says everything about your spouse. You are not an extension of them and not responsible for their emotional stability. Your self discipline is for self, not for validating a fragile ego.
Anytime I’m at a motorcycle event or I’m wearing my cut I talk to no females at all. Not even a hello. Anytime a female has tried to talk to me I politely excuse myself.
Bruh. Not going inside your bro's house while his woman is there and he ain't is just good etiquette, biker or not. I went by to see a bro in the days before cell phones and found he wasn't home ...waited on the porch 1/2 an hour till he got back from work. She thought I was being weird, but I knew he appreciated the respect.
@@SoseTheGhost if your bro needs a part/tool/whatever in that category and sends you, a trusted bro, he should be calling his lady. If it's in the house, she brings it out to the porch. If it's in the garage or shed, your bro grabbing it AFTER KNOCKING AND ANNOUNCING HE IS THERE, is usually ok. This is theoretical in an emergency situation like a mechanical breakdown. My two cents. Don't show up without the man of the house there, unless he sends you.
@@ZetaN7 yes and no… it’s honestly such an uncomfortable situation that members should be avoiding it all together. It’s best just to avoid the whole situation so all the humans involved dont fail and end up causing a potentially dangerous situation where trust is lost.
Life is so much sweeter when everyone knows thier role an plays thier position respectfully. Blue is a solid lady an definitely hip to the rules. Great content Brother. PEACE!!!!!
@@TheOutlawFeminist If safety is the number one priority, why put yourself in a position of peril, i,e., joining an organization that regularly puts you in possible danger? And for odd reasons... "don't speak to anyone of the opposite sex" Life's hard enough. Why dick with this shit? Find something else that gives meaning to your life. Chill, dudes, have ACTUAL fun.
My ol lady new to my life style and has been trying hard to adjust and understand, I sent this to her and it helped her a lot, thank you Sose and thank you Blue
Not sure how or why I got here, I've never been into motorcycles and I'm not with a man who rides them. But I really liked this. I've been married to my husband for almost 21 years now, I applaud and share her values. I think that if more women embraced the notions that she suggests - they'd find a lot more fulfillment and joy in life. This whole third wave feminism of today is flat out damaging to our society, and even more damaging to that of our future generations. I have gone from frustration to utter disgust with it and I HATE that it is becoming the acceptable main stream new social order way of things. Today's feminists seem to have no clue what a disservice they are doing to that of our entire gender, or the embarrassment they are imposing onto women who actually do have dignity, morality and value of character and frankly, it pisses me off something fierce. The truth is that, men today do not get enough credit, appreciation or respect for how crucially important they are - in fatherhood, husbandry, and as well modeled citizens. All of the men who've come in and out of my life(with the exception of just a mere few) all have been worthy of respect, admiration, love, and admiration. My father - a retired Marine and Vietnam Veteran was my hero, he instilled values, ethics and principals that I have carried with me my entire life, all of them have shaped me into the lady that he raised me to be. In turn, I married the type of man who would swim through shark infested waters to bring me a cold lemonade! He is an outstanding husband, and an exceptional father and role model to our two children. I believe that men who have high-character, understand the priceless value of a lady who has refinement, gentility, and poise - a lady who takes pride in the way she presents herself, in her character and in her (GASP) looks as well. The type of lady who takes unapologetic pride and honor in her man is a woman to be treasured, valued and is worthy of a high-character man devoting his entire heart to her. Sadly, todays feminists notoriously denounce these types of values, undermining them as submissive, subservient or even oppressed. (Insert eye-roll.) A man who can be a Gentleman and a woman who can be a Lady is becoming rarer and rarer. I just loved the way this woman unapologetically embraces her feminine wiles, and I love how she champions male masculinity. To the lucky man who'll one day prove to her that he is worthy of winning her heart, you've been very blessed. Many thanks for this video, and Cheers to the Demons Row channel!!
Hey Kelly listen to blue..trust me she has the knowledge of an old lady In the Mc culture.. if you love your old man then definitely have his back in every way. Seems you have true intrest of becoming A true old lady just like blue.. Keep it real that's what it's all about. Be well Dave, AKA , .. " SINBAD" From NY.
Hey big shout out to your platform. My parents were riders before I was born, and there is so many parallels to what was said here. I know there was a great impact but this confronts me with how much good it did for me.
Good advice, knowledgeable woman. Having the right ol' lady is a world of difference. For the brothers, as a former SAA I'll add if it's becoming an issue with balancing home and club bring it up before it gets brought up. Taking a leave of absence to sort some shit out, is a lot easier on everyone than being told to take one. Things change, sometimes priorities change, that's life, but leave on good terms by recognizing your limits. Often, your Prez, your SAA, they have families, they will understand, we'd rather you sort your shit out than have it cause issues with your brothers and with your home.
@@DemonsRow That had stupidest thing a member could do. If you know the bylaws than don't do it, certain clubs handle this kind of things differently. It could end up ending violently for a member who breaks this rule.
@@jamesrichardson3322 2 rules we had, no needles, cause you can't trust a junkie and oh my The Wrath Of God will rain down upon u even if the chick is naked passed our and begging you. You heard of "Out Bad" how about out bad and chucked off a Mountain in Colo.
@@artnim7172 Yes I have heard of Out Bad, You are dead too the club and NO one but NO one allow speak too former or have any association with ex- member. Yes NO junkies, because they could be rats at anytime. Well it's depends who the naked woman is ?? 😆😂🤣 Kidding. Rules are rules, you don't break the rules or you get punished.
Hella love that chick and am happy to see her on your channel! I asked a ol lady of a NoMad what was required/expected of me cuz I knew the bros had those and made sense that I would be expected to know some shit as well. Thanks for the info and loved seeing you Blu
I agree with it all, I've lived it. Only my old man wanted to organize his own gear, pack his own stuff though I offered many times. But otherwise? She is 100% on point
Thank you for this video! I recently started seeing someone who's a member of a club and I simply wasn't understanding the short term memory loss, having to leave at the drop of a text/call....even if we just finished doing the humpty hump🤔 so naturally, to a civilian like me, I got in my feelings even when he did his best to explain. Thinking we should remain as we were, friends, and save us both some time as I'm realizing while writing this, that Im probably not the best fit. Thank you both again, feel like I have clarity❤
This was an AWESOME Video. I love the flow of the edits. Blu was amazing at explaining everything. Simple but yet still fully informative, and easy to comprehend. This is a great video, and honestly a good video that a man can show his Lady even if they aren't 1%ers themselves, just knowing some basic etiquette in the Motorcycle Lifestyle is just overall a good thing to know.
I’m not a biker, but I encountered a biker club and the old lady phenomenan years ago. Nothing bad happened but it was a culture shock for sure and as I was always taught to be respectful there was no issue. I was in my early twenties and working at a bowling alley. The local MC was in a run and showed up at the bar where I was working. I knew one of the women because she was a friend of a friend. Actually a lot older than me so I would never have even thought to talk to her like that anyway but she came up to say hello and her man was behind her. I can’t remember why but she felt the need to really explain to him that I used to date our mutual friend and make sure he was ok with her talking to some dude. He was cool as hell but I just found it interesting
Now that is some very important information to a rally or a private event my hats off to the lady pretty lady with all respect thank you Mr Chris in Memphis
Thanks Sose, great information as usual. Blue, not only are you an absolute Badass, you have extreme clarity. Every piece of information you delivered is beneficial to everyday life even if someone isn't wearing a cut. All respect to you both!
As far as my brothers ol’ lady. When our club went to a Pagans sisters club support party I was in charge of keeping an eye on all the ol’ ladies and one of them was my SA’s wife and he ordered me to. This brother knew I would do exactly as I was told by him and nothing more and she even roads with me and my ol’ lady.
Well said blue.. cool ofyou to share...I'm a 71 baby so I know about old school traits...wish I could find one like u... I'm non 1%er but was a hang around right after highschool. Family was a bunch of motorheads and military.. never lost my interest in Harleys and hotrods but followed in the family footsteps of the marines. Never lived the 1%er path... saw enough bloodshed overseas.. Your segment reminds me of the David mann artwork...hot girls being righteous to her man's lifestyle. You had alot of righteous heart in your outlook Of your dedication towards what it means to a 1% biker. Nice to see there's still hot ones like yourself within the motorcycle culture. Your angle on all u had to say Was bullseye for me. I don't know what turned me on more...your words and knowledge or your blessed hot looks... To blue, stay hot, keep cool, for my eyes she's to good to be true 😉😘 maybe we ride somewhere sometime, xoxo, SINBAD DOUBLE D. Here In NY.
Blue, you're incredible. I was never an "old lady"; my man introduced me as his "lady". I always tried to be just that, and he treated me accordingly for over three decades. I'm a feminist but I agree with you completely.
Facts. Honestly if a female is already being a wife this list shouldn't be hard for females to do. Alot of common sense things that some people lack. So this video should definitely help inform them lol. #Ghostin
I am not a biker but had lots of biker friends when I lived in Orange County CA. I always gave them respect and in return they did the same. So with that said Merry Christmas to all you bikers. PS I love watching your You Tube videos brings back great memories.
7:00 yo that’s some straight facts bro like Ik shit can get crazy in a heart beat and why would you put your wife in that situation were she can get hurt she is not a brother 💯💯
I knew a girl that was kind of wild, and I was really concerned about the company she kept, and she wanted to introduce me to her guy, and it was in the middle of some weird drama to. He was a biker, and I couldn't have been more relieved, for her that made sense her father was a biker, and I know the culture, and I know he would die for her. Shout out to the boozefighters
You got to watch them haters in them clubs and beaches be hating on you cuz you up there at the top so they trying to do everything they can to knock you down you do you blue I respect you 100 sister from Texas
"It's important to bond with your brothers", especially on nights you aren't there to murder them for some perceived insult that never actually happened.
Oh god, thank you for this! I'm laughing so hard. Are these people toddlers with murderous tendencies? There's no subtlety to these people's lives. This is the most ridiculous shit I've ever seen. Why make life so hard? Why look for grievances where they might not exist? Guess the answer is that this culture gives shape and meaning to an otherwise bland life.
@@villalajolla - I've often viewed motorcycle clubs, especially the 1%er's as large children. They dropped out of society because they rejected their culture, standards and laws. They wanted to be free from societal restraints. So they formed their own society with even stricter, more draconian culture, laws and standards. 🙄
This is absolutely so true sose my brother. A strong shoutout to blue for telling how it is !! She's definitely earned my respects as my sister on the row!
I’ve been riding motorcycles since I was 5 years on this small, beat up dirt bike my Pops fixed up. I’m 42 now and motorcycles and riding all day are so important to me. Now I’m a sport bike kinda dude, I now have a 2024 Ninja ZX10R and absolutely love it! I think joining a club would be fun! But a club that’s in it just for fun. Mad respect to all MC’s out there! Where I’m at in Indiana I’ve never seen any clubs or its members riding with the vest and the patches, but I think it would be cool if I did! Just to talk to them and hear their story. Everyone in life has a story to tell, and I would appreciate hearing a life style that I have no idea about. This is a very cool channel! And I appreciate you taking the time to put this all together!
#5 was a big one with me. My Pres stopped at our house when I was working the overnight. The relationship with the club and the pres was never the same!
Great advice on the sunscreen, however, if using the spray/aerosol type sunscreen, DO NOT SPRAY IT NEAR NICE PAINTED BIKES! Or even just the bikes in general. If that spray gets on the paint, you can really mess up the clear coat and boooooyyyyyyy.... just find a space 10ft from the bikes.
GREAT INFO! ON POINT!! Theres a time & place for drama & bullshit. The CH is NOT that place. Take your dirty laundry home… I can’t stress enough how important it is for an OL to stay out of club business, its NOT your club. Its safer for BOTH of you to avoid a run, events etc. If you can’t avoid going because of a special occasion, keep your mouth shut. Mind your business & be respectful. GENERAL values for ALL… Be classy, Not trashy…
@@TheOutlawFeminist the culture needs it more than ever. I get so chapped watching and listening to folks over-stepping as well as allowing improper behaviours simply out of ignorance. Don't want anyone to have to prospect but there is a reason for it. Maybe put a dvd together spelling out what you and Sose have done here and expand on it with situations etc... IMO it would be a home run.
@@TheOutlawFeminist personally, I cant stand when a brother's lady hugs everyone hello and goodbye. They don't do it to me anymore as there have been discussions on the side with them. What are your feelings on that?
U are so beautiful. I've been married my whole life, 39 years. My husband has a harley, just a hobby.. he passed away unexpectedly in June of 2022. Now I'm alone and struggling to pay mortgage, well struggling at everything. Just wanted to say thanks for video and I think u are so pretty and calming but l feel bad ass chick vibes 2. U brightened my day
First I like to wish you a Merry Christmas and I hope Santa is good to you guys . I watched three times because I want really to understand how she communicates her thoughts and how each word is spoken Blu is gorgeous and looks alot like Cher and if I had to take a guess of what her motto would be then I would say : may you never go to hell but always be on your way . If more women were like her then we would have more men instead of mindless pansies and less women who are pill popping anxiety freaks .
A wife should never embarrass her husband or call embarrassing attention to her family, parents, children, etc. period. From a partiers’ perspective I wish there were things I hadn’t done in my crazy years with my first husband. But different time and actions that led me to my quiet masculine husband who commands attention without saying a word. Ain’t life funny!!!…. ✌🏻🫶🏻
Hey sose i would love to try to get in contact with you so you can spread this story and save a lot of life’s,,, put it this way people won’t trust doctors no more.
Yeah I had to learn these rules too and I was considered a good old lady myself I kind of still live by these rules even though I'm no longer with my ex it's just some rules that are better to follow the whole life cuz it makes things a little easier in the long run
Absolutely. Many of the old school bikers will say hello but purposely avoid talking to the OL out of respect. However, you’re always going to taken care of & safe. Just act right!!!! Be classy… not trashy
I'm a 62 tear old woman who hung around with bikers in the mid-70s in KC. In those days, there was a lot of passing around and getting beat up. Thank the gods never to me, but I got away from that group pretty quickly. Glad to know it's not a thing.
@@HerMajesty1 I have never heard of or witnessed anything that I would have to speak up about. I know that members in these clubs are very careful with liability so all abuses are kept on the downlow. In your day, abuse of a woman was a right of a man.
This is why I only ride baggers . You can carry all weather gear in the saddle bags . I keep a lightweight backpacking tent and a telescopic fishing pole in my saddle bags too.
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DO IT!
Mister, I have a question. What happens if a child skins their knee and a biker cuts his hand and puts it over their knee? What does that mean?
Agreed! 💪👍👊
That’s right
@@curiousvibes76😢9bb
This is how it should be in everyday life not just MC culture. Having support from your wife(old lady) is priceless. IMHO!
Truth
Absolutely
Facts. Problem is too many mfs just want it to go one way and most good women ain't gonna have it. The ones that let ya walk all over em will eventually burn ya down the road 💯
If he's working and you're not by all means your job is taking care of him. But if I'm working and paying half the bills he can wash he own clothes and sometimes mine too. It's 50/50.... Obviously unless he's unable to work.
Perfectly said.
I absolutely agree 110% with all of this. When a woman has self respect and conducts herself like a lady...she will be treated as such, this includes knowing to whom she belongs and always honoring his position in or outside the home. Deep down every woman wants a strong man who loves, honors and protects her. This runs true in any chosen lifestyle.
Much love rita
Do iron horsemen have sex with multiple women if he has an ole lady like I get having respect but he’s not respecting me
Please help me understand that
Walk around America today there are hardly any strong men women marrying for money when of money disappears there in a whole lot of trouble
There's no such thing as a lady in the MC world. They're skanky, rude, loud & trashy. Everything a lady is not.
Agree 100% This isn't just the way 1%er ol ladies should be, its exactly how it should be in any MC. Ive had bad experiences in the past where an ol lady just didn't get it, but this hits the nail right on the head.
Yes def i agree
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You do know what 1%er's are right? They're the shit stains of society, the ones that give bike enthusiasts a bad name. The ones that are associated with illegal activities. Selling/manufacturing drugs, pimping, extortion, gun running etc. Basically organized crime. What this woman is saying is that 1%er's "Ol Ladies" need to support his lifestyle and keep things managed on the home front. So while he's running a stable or cooking meth or selling automatic weapons to gang members he loves knowing she has his back. And you 100% agree. Lmao, you people are unbelievable.
I was a biker wife, he's been gone 2 yrs. I never understood how just regular women didn't treat their husband's with this kind of respect that us biker wives do. I wanted my man to look good, it was a reflection on me, which reflected back to him.
#Ghostin. I’ll add that much of this was good advice for anyone, man or woman who’s partnered with a military service member. Thanks and much love to both Sose and this young lady for bringing this to the public!
Yea i agree rob
BIG HUGS & MERRY CHRISTMAS.
Happy holidays to you, m’lady!
@@robertross5201 blush
I’m not a biker nor is my husband, but we treat each other just like she’s describing! Jealousy says nothing about your spouse, it says everything about you! If you have trust & respect you’ll have a successful relationship!
Truth
Jealousy says everything about your spouse. You are not an extension of them and not responsible for their emotional stability. Your self discipline is for self, not for validating a fragile ego.
HAPPY TO SEE BOTH OF YOU COME TOGETHER.RESPECT TO BOTH OF YOU
Much respect
It’s all Sose. Hardest working biker on UA-cam.
She's a bad ass. More women need to view life how she does. Someone fucked up letting her get away
Anytime I’m at a motorcycle event or I’m wearing my cut I talk to no females at all. Not even a hello. Anytime a female has tried to talk to me I politely excuse myself.
Im the same way
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Same bro. The only exception is if I'm introduced by a brother or his old lady to an interested female.
@@Calvinmob681 interesting females… excellent choice of words! #wordsmith
You must be ugly
Top 10 Do’s: 5:17 “Ensure Your Old Man Is Home ANYTIME one of his brother’s is in your home!”
Bruh.
Not going inside your bro's house while his woman is there and he ain't is just good etiquette, biker or not.
I went by to see a bro in the days before cell phones and found he wasn't home ...waited on the porch 1/2 an hour till he got back from work.
She thought I was being weird, but I knew he appreciated the respect.
Yea thats how we grew up your head will roll off if you forget 😅
The human condition dictates that somebody is gonna trip. Stay out on the porch. I appreciate you!
@@SoseTheGhost if your bro needs a part/tool/whatever in that category and sends you, a trusted bro, he should be calling his lady. If it's in the house, she brings it out to the porch. If it's in the garage or shed, your bro grabbing it AFTER KNOCKING AND ANNOUNCING HE IS THERE, is usually ok. This is theoretical in an emergency situation like a mechanical breakdown. My two cents. Don't show up without the man of the house there, unless he sends you.
If you're still out there chillin. Would it be inappropriate if she offered a food or drink while you waited?
@@ZetaN7 yes and no… it’s honestly such an uncomfortable situation that members should be avoiding it all together. It’s best just to avoid the whole situation so all the humans involved dont fail and end up causing a potentially dangerous situation where trust is lost.
Life is so much sweeter when everyone knows thier role an plays thier position respectfully. Blue is a solid lady an definitely hip to the rules. Great content Brother. PEACE!!!!!
Truth brother appreciate you
Sose came up with this idea and I think it’s easier for women to hear this from another woman. Safety is the number one priority.
@@TheOutlawFeminist Great video an it was refreshing to hear a female viewpoint. Much respect. PEACE!!!!!
@@patrickhatrick6215 so glad you enjoyed! Merry Christmas
@@TheOutlawFeminist If safety is the number one priority, why put yourself in a position of peril, i,e., joining an organization that regularly puts you in possible danger? And for odd reasons... "don't speak to anyone of the opposite sex" Life's hard enough. Why dick with this shit? Find something else that gives meaning to your life. Chill, dudes, have ACTUAL fun.
Is it just me or does she have one of those super soothing voices? Lol. Straight common sense, I’m very glad she came on and laid this out.
My ol lady new to my life style and has been trying hard to adjust and understand, I sent this to her and it helped her a lot, thank you Sose and thank you Blue
Yes he is, you are smart to use this to help your relationship
I new she wasn’t a 1% biker chic anymore when she said she was a feminist…
Right? Names and titles have meaning, and in my crowd thats not a red flag, its a black flag
I’ve seen this girl Blue’s channel before. She’s really smart & knows a lot about MC culture.
She def does
I'm like a genius, except for dummer. ahhahaha
Looks, brains, attitude = wow!
@@tomperry1048 SOOOOO MUCH ATTITUDE! OXOXOXO
Not sure how or why I got here, I've never been into motorcycles and I'm not with a man who rides them. But I really liked this. I've been married to my husband for almost 21 years now, I applaud and share her values. I think that if more women embraced the notions that she suggests - they'd find a lot more fulfillment and joy in life. This whole third wave feminism of today is flat out damaging to our society, and even more damaging to that of our future generations.
I have gone from frustration to utter disgust with it and I HATE that it is becoming the acceptable main stream new social order way of things. Today's feminists seem to have no clue what a disservice they are doing to that of our entire gender, or the embarrassment they are imposing onto women who actually do have dignity, morality and value of character and frankly, it pisses me off something fierce.
The truth is that, men today do not get enough credit, appreciation or respect for how crucially important they are - in fatherhood, husbandry, and as well modeled citizens. All of the men who've come in and out of my life(with the exception of just a mere few) all have been worthy of respect, admiration, love, and admiration.
My father - a retired Marine and Vietnam Veteran was my hero, he instilled values, ethics and principals that I have carried with me my entire life, all of them have shaped me into the lady that he raised me to be. In turn, I married the type of man who would swim through shark infested waters to bring me a cold lemonade! He is an outstanding husband, and an exceptional father and role model to our two children.
I believe that men who have high-character, understand the priceless value of a lady who has refinement, gentility, and poise - a lady who takes pride in the way she presents herself, in her character and in her (GASP) looks as well. The type of lady who takes unapologetic pride and honor in her man is a woman to be treasured, valued and is worthy of a high-character man devoting his entire heart to her.
Sadly, todays feminists notoriously denounce these types of values, undermining them as submissive, subservient or even oppressed. (Insert eye-roll.) A man who can be a Gentleman and a woman who can be a Lady is becoming rarer and rarer.
I just loved the way this woman unapologetically embraces her feminine wiles, and I love how she champions male masculinity. To the lucky man who'll one day prove to her that he is worthy of winning her heart, you've been very blessed.
Many thanks for this video, and Cheers to the Demons Row channel!!
thank you for sharing feminism is part of destroying the family. We wont let it happen!
I couldn't agree more. Perfectly said.
Hey Kelly listen to blue..trust me she has the knowledge of an old lady In the Mc culture.. if you love your old man then definitely have his back in every way.
Seems you have true intrest of becoming
A true old lady just like blue..
Keep it real that's what it's all about.
Be well
Dave, AKA , .. " SINBAD" From NY.
I couldn’t agree more and I really appreciate the message you posted and thank you for taking the time to express your thoughts and emotions here
@@DemonsRow ???? Women can have rights tho …And health care…And choices…wtf
These are rules that work outside of the M.C. Life as well. That’s a real old lady. Much respect
Very true
Hey big shout out to your platform. My parents were riders before I was born, and there is so many parallels to what was said here. I know there was a great impact but this confronts me with how much good it did for me.
Much love neil
@@DemonsRow Thank you for upholding their values. You have my respect.
Good advice, knowledgeable woman. Having the right ol' lady is a world of difference.
For the brothers, as a former SAA I'll add if it's becoming an issue with balancing home and club bring it up before it gets brought up. Taking a leave of absence to sort some shit out, is a lot easier on everyone than being told to take one. Things change, sometimes priorities change, that's life, but leave on good terms by recognizing your limits.
Often, your Prez, your SAA, they have families, they will understand, we'd rather you sort your shit out than have it cause issues with your brothers and with your home.
so true
Such a lovely lady! If more women behaved like her, there would be hope for the West. Congrats and respect.
Some clubs have it in the bylaws. Even just hitting on a brothers old lady you're gone.
Truth
@@DemonsRow That had stupidest thing a member could do. If you know the bylaws than don't do it, certain clubs handle this kind of things differently. It could end up ending violently for a member who breaks this rule.
@@jamesrichardson3322 2 rules we had, no needles, cause you can't trust a junkie and oh my The Wrath Of God will rain down upon u even if the chick is naked passed our and begging you. You heard of "Out Bad" how about out bad and chucked off a Mountain in Colo.
@@artnim7172 Yes I have heard of Out Bad, You are dead too the club and NO one but NO one allow speak too former or have any association with ex- member. Yes NO junkies, because they could be rats at anytime. Well it's depends who the naked woman is ?? 😆😂🤣 Kidding. Rules are rules, you don't break the rules or you get punished.
Hella love that chick and am happy to see her on your channel! I asked a ol lady of a NoMad what was required/expected of me cuz I knew the bros had those and made sense that I would be expected to know some shit as well. Thanks for the info and loved seeing you Blu
It’s all sounds pretty accurate for the most part! Couple of things we did differently but every club rocks their own🖤
Def true lorena
@@DemonsRow 🖤🙌🏽
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@@TheOutlawFeminist 🙌🏻🖤
Good video, Sose. Blue was right on point. Especially about keeping your home business at home.
Def brother
I never wanted anybody to know that my man wasn’t behaving. Lol.
Top 10 Do’s: 7:42 “Save Home Drama for Home! Club Business is Club Business and doesn’t involve you!”
Top 10 Do’s: 4:29 4.) “Make sure his riding gear and clothes are ready to go and clean!”
I agree with it all, I've lived it. Only my old man wanted to organize his own gear, pack his own stuff though I offered many times. But otherwise? She is 100% on point
Much love dee
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Boy you lucky mine wanted me to take care of all this stuff ridiculous no aside from regular clothes and making sure his stuff was right,
"be safe, and baby be dangerous" that's one cool chick.
Yes
Thank you Blue for all your insight and experience and for sharing that with us!
my honor! Merry Christmas
A strong woman will have a strong man...heard that here and it's SO true...
Top 10 Do’s: 6:10 “Allow your old man to kick it with his motorcycle club and his brothers! Without you and without a fuss!”
Word! This is the shit that men need to have their Ol Lady in.a MC. These are life lessons for a good life and relationship.
It’s all about safety. ❤
Top 10 Do’s: 8:08 “Get the riding gear and dress appropriate!”
That Biker Lady has got it going on , DANG I would do anything to have her in my corner forever . Ride hard , die free .
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Thank you for this video! I recently started seeing someone who's a member of a club and I simply wasn't understanding the short term memory loss, having to leave at the drop of a text/call....even if we just finished doing the humpty hump🤔 so naturally, to a civilian like me, I got in my feelings even when he did his best to explain. Thinking we should remain as we were, friends, and save us both some time as I'm realizing while writing this, that Im probably not the best fit.
Thank you both again, feel like I have clarity❤
This was an AWESOME Video. I love the flow of the edits. Blu was amazing at explaining everything. Simple but yet still fully informative, and easy to comprehend. This is a great video, and honestly a good video that a man can show his Lady even if they aren't 1%ers themselves, just knowing some basic etiquette in the Motorcycle Lifestyle is just overall a good thing to know.
appreciate you
I’m not a biker, but I encountered a biker club and the old lady phenomenan years ago. Nothing bad happened but it was a culture shock for sure and as I was always taught to be respectful there was no issue. I was in my early twenties and working at a bowling alley. The local MC was in a run and showed up at the bar where I was working. I knew one of the women because she was a friend of a friend. Actually a lot older than me so I would never have even thought to talk to her like that anyway but she came up to say hello and her man was behind her. I can’t remember why but she felt the need to really explain to him that I used to date our mutual friend and make sure he was ok with her talking to some dude. He was cool as hell but I just found it interesting
So the old lady is basically a mom?
Blu knows how to be a good ol lady. Man I'd like to see some shots of her posing on the Harley
I’ll add some to my UA-cam channel. I got some!
I like and respect Blue, shes always on point and totally chill.
Glad you enjoy
We need more women like this.
She’s not like that anymore she’s a feminist
@Brian McK say that to her face.
@@heidi22209 shes one tough cookie 😡 🤣 soiled my pants just thinking about confronting a tattooed feminist 😭
@@brianmck7363 haha you don't know her
No....we dont
I’m not sure why she calls herself a feminist? She is so much a traditional woman. Quality woman right there.
You probably have a misconception of what a feminist actually is
Now that is some very important information to a rally or a private event my hats off to the lady pretty lady with all respect thank you Mr Chris in Memphis
❤ be safe and be dangerous.
@@TheOutlawFeminist thank you.
Ps. Merry Christmas and happy holidays.
@@chrisbedsole4095 you too!!!! Christmas 🤶 🎅🏿
Thanks Sose, great information as usual. Blue, not only are you an absolute Badass, you have extreme clarity. Every piece of information you delivered is beneficial to everyday life even if someone isn't wearing a cut. All respect to you both!
Thanks hd
I’ve been sending my woman this videos, since I am trying to get myself involved in this mc lifestyle
Appreciate you
It's all about safety. Be safe. Be dangerous.
As far as my brothers ol’ lady. When our club went to a Pagans sisters club support party I was in charge of keeping an eye on all the ol’ ladies and one of them was my SA’s wife and he ordered me to. This brother knew I would do exactly as I was told by him and nothing more and she even roads with me and my ol’ lady.
Well said blue.. cool ofyou to share...I'm a 71 baby so I know about old school traits...wish I could find one like u... I'm non 1%er but was a hang around right after highschool. Family was a bunch of motorheads and military.. never lost my interest in Harleys and hotrods but followed in the family footsteps of the marines.
Never lived the 1%er path... saw enough bloodshed overseas..
Your segment reminds me of the David mann artwork...hot girls being righteous to her man's lifestyle.
You had alot of righteous heart in your outlook Of your dedication towards what it means to a 1% biker.
Nice to see there's still hot ones like yourself within the motorcycle culture. Your angle on all u had to say
Was bullseye for me. I don't know what turned me on more...your words and knowledge or your blessed hot looks...
To blue, stay hot, keep cool, for my eyes she's to good to be true 😉😘
maybe we ride somewhere sometime, xoxo,
SINBAD DOUBLE D.
Here In NY.
Top 10 Do’s: 2:25 2.) “Hold down the fort!”
What an absolute gem. Never met this woman in my life and immediately have the utmost respect for her!
Blue, you're incredible. I was never an "old lady"; my man introduced me as his "lady". I always tried to be just that, and he treated me accordingly for over three decades. I'm a feminist but I agree with you completely.
Facts. Honestly if a female is already being a wife this list shouldn't be hard for females to do. Alot of common sense things that some people lack. So this video should definitely help inform them lol. #Ghostin
Def true lol
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@@TheOutlawFeminist Blu! I miss you I just ran across this.
I am not a biker but had lots of biker friends when I lived in Orange County CA. I always gave them respect and in return they did the same. So with that said Merry Christmas to all you bikers. PS I love watching your You Tube videos brings back great memories.
Appreciate you merry christmas
BE SAFE. BE DANGEROUS. BIG HUGS & MERRY CHRISTMAS.
7:00 yo that’s some straight facts bro like Ik shit can get crazy in a heart beat and why would you put your wife in that situation were she can get hurt she is not a brother 💯💯
So true brother
Top 10 Do’s: 3:52 3.) “Allow him to care for and Store His Own Patch!”
I knew a girl that was kind of wild, and I was really concerned about the company she kept, and she wanted to introduce me to her guy, and it was in the middle of some weird drama to. He was a biker, and I couldn't have been more relieved, for her that made sense her father was a biker, and I know the culture, and I know he would die for her. Shout out to the boozefighters
You got to watch them haters in them clubs and beaches be hating on you cuz you up there at the top so they trying to do everything they can to knock you down you do you blue I respect you 100 sister from Texas
I’m not a biker but I absolutely love this channel and learning about the biker culture. 🤘🏻
PS, Blue the Outlaw Feminist is an absolute gem! 😍
appreciate you
hug
@@TheOutlawFeminist Happy New Year to you and the Demons Row brethren! 🤛🏻
Hate to tell you that most of the riders on here. Are not bikers either!
@@whiplash7186 I'm sure he is gonna be okay with it tho. :)
I respect tf out of her. Reguardless if you disagree with club life or anything like that, she takes care of him and he takes care of her
Love this! Much love and respect.
❤❤❤❤ merry Christmas!!!!🎁🎄 🎉❤
Much respect amy
"It's important to bond with your brothers", especially on nights you aren't there to murder them for some perceived insult that never actually happened.
Oh god, thank you for this! I'm laughing so hard. Are these people toddlers with murderous tendencies? There's no subtlety to these people's lives. This is the most ridiculous shit I've ever seen. Why make life so hard? Why look for grievances where they might not exist? Guess the answer is that this culture gives shape and meaning to an otherwise bland life.
@@villalajolla - I've often viewed motorcycle clubs, especially the 1%er's as large children. They dropped out of society because they rejected their culture, standards and laws. They wanted to be free from societal restraints. So they formed their own society with even stricter, more draconian culture, laws and standards. 🙄
This is absolutely so true sose my brother. A strong shoutout to blue for telling how it is !! She's definitely earned my respects as my sister on the row!
Much love brother
“Sister on the row” badass!❤❤❤
Everything she is saying is so true in any relationship
I’m not a biker, but blu speaking truth! She’s beautiful AF too! Wish more women rocked like her!
Much Respect to all the other Ol Ladies out there. ❤️💛
You keepin it real much respect
Much respect
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I’ve been riding motorcycles since I was 5 years on this small, beat up dirt bike my Pops fixed up. I’m 42 now and motorcycles and riding all day are so important to me. Now I’m a sport bike kinda dude, I now have a 2024 Ninja ZX10R and absolutely love it!
I think joining a club would be fun! But a club that’s in it just for fun.
Mad respect to all MC’s out there! Where I’m at in Indiana I’ve never seen any clubs or its members riding with the vest and the patches, but I think it would be cool if I did! Just to talk to them and hear their story. Everyone in life has a story to tell, and I would appreciate hearing a life style that I have no idea about.
This is a very cool channel! And I appreciate you taking the time to put this all together!
Thank you for the information knew to this much love an respect
Much love cecilia
I was told early on by a seasoned ol lady, "You have two ears and one mouth for a reason". Best advice for that time in my life.
#5 was a big one with me. My Pres stopped at our house when I was working the overnight. The relationship with the club and the pres was never the same!
I dont blaim you huge mistake on his part
#Ghostin. I really like Blu and her list. Though I don't think I could ever be an Ol' Lady, these points were probably spot on.
All that means is your hubbys in a club
Being an ol lady is absolutely no joke. A civil version of being a military wife.
Both of y'all are 100! Bro, you the 2Pac of the Biker World!
Top 10 Do’s: 8:59 “Always wear your property patch when you’re out with your old man and he’s in his patch! Unless you’re instructed otherwise!”
Great advice on the sunscreen, however, if using the spray/aerosol type sunscreen, DO NOT SPRAY IT NEAR NICE PAINTED BIKES! Or even just the bikes in general. If that spray gets on the paint, you can really mess up the clear coat and boooooyyyyyyy.... just find a space 10ft from the bikes.
GREAT INFO! ON POINT!!
Theres a time & place for drama & bullshit.
The CH is NOT that place.
Take your dirty laundry home…
I can’t stress enough how important it is for an OL to stay out of club business, its NOT your club. Its safer for BOTH of you to avoid a run, events etc. If you can’t avoid going because of a special occasion, keep your mouth shut. Mind your business & be respectful.
GENERAL values for ALL…
Be classy, Not trashy…
Truth
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How much she charge to do a seminar? There are quite a few that could use some re-education....
Charge me?
@@DemonsRow lol, no, for the clowns I know.. she could make a mint talking to ole ladies.
I can totally put together a seminar for y’all! 🎉😂🎉
@@TheOutlawFeminist the culture needs it more than ever. I get so chapped watching and listening to folks over-stepping as well as allowing improper behaviours simply out of ignorance. Don't want anyone to have to prospect but there is a reason for it. Maybe put a dvd together spelling out what you and Sose have done here and expand on it with situations etc... IMO it would be a home run.
@@TheOutlawFeminist personally, I cant stand when a brother's lady hugs everyone hello and goodbye. They don't do it to me anymore as there have been discussions on the side with them. What are your feelings on that?
Blue got it right and she top shelf for helping explain rules
The rules are for everybody's protection. No need to reinvent the wheel. ;)
Merry Christmas!
@@TheOutlawFeminist thts for real
Merry Christmas SOSE
🎅🤶☃️🎄🎁🙏🥶❄️🛐
Merry christmas brother
Mad respect for the breakdown Thank you 🙏
Much respect
I'm not a biker but that lady Blue is got being a lady down. Too bad other woman don't think like she does. Like her a lot 👉
❤…❤…❤ merry Christmas!
@@TheOutlawFeminist Merry Christmas Blue. You got the right idea. ✅️
Salute leo
No one touches my rag other than me even at home
Best way. Safest way.
U are so beautiful. I've been married my whole life, 39 years. My husband has a harley, just a hobby.. he passed away unexpectedly in June of 2022. Now I'm alone and struggling to pay mortgage, well struggling at everything. Just wanted to say thanks for video and I think u are so pretty and calming but l feel bad ass chick vibes 2. U brightened my day
Informative list Blu 💪
Thank you! It's all about their safety.
She probably lives up to her name.... How many prospects u think she blew?
That's a good way to explain that, "it's the wedding ring of the biker community".
First I like to wish you a Merry Christmas and I hope Santa is good to you guys . I watched three times because I want really to understand how she communicates her thoughts and how each word is spoken Blu is gorgeous and looks alot like Cher and if I had to take a guess of what her motto would be then I would say : may you never go to hell but always be on your way . If more women were like her then we would have more men instead of mindless pansies and less women who are pill popping anxiety freaks .
Much love frank
Being a good ol lady to a bad brother is a nightmare....
Merry Christmas Sose,. Merry Christmas Blue, well spoken.
Merry christmas brother
Merry Christmas to you, friend! Be safe. Be dangerous.
@@TheOutlawFeminist thank you Blue, Happy New Year
In my view these are all common sense relationship guidelines no matter what organization is under consideration. Basic wisdom.
Some of that can be applicable here in normal world as well. A wife should never embarrass their Husband in front of others.
Yes def agree
A wife should never embarrass her husband or call embarrassing attention to her family, parents, children, etc. period. From a partiers’ perspective I wish there were things I hadn’t done in my crazy years with my first husband. But different time and actions that led me to my quiet masculine husband who commands attention without saying a word. Ain’t life funny!!!…. ✌🏻🫶🏻
That is the right type of woman, she was on point with the way it should be, respect is important
Glad 2 see u have Blu on here! Shout out organ! Another classic sose! ⚡👻merced co gho⚡tin!
Thanks brother
He said, "organ"!!!! Good to see you here, Mr. Gaines!
My bad! 🤣😂😂 I spelled Oregon wrong! I'm from nor cal forgive me! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love your channel blu!
@@changaines7533 love your patronage.
WOW!! That voice!! Much respect to you!!
Hey sose i would love to try to get in contact with you so you can spread this story and save a lot of life’s,,, put it this way people won’t trust doctors no more.
My people mostly dont trust doctors already whats up?
@@DemonsRow whoop.
Any woman who hangs with 1% should understand the ins and outs. This chick is 1000% accurate and most likely knows he'll of alot more.
They should.. but some woman think they're with a Social Club.
She dropped hella knowledge
Yeah I had to learn these rules too and I was considered a good old lady myself I kind of still live by these rules even though I'm no longer with my ex it's just some rules that are better to follow the whole life cuz it makes things a little easier in the long run
It's good to hear from a females point of view let's people know it's not like they get passed around abused or degraded
Yes thats exactly my point
Safest I ever been.
Absolutely.
Many of the old school bikers will say hello but purposely avoid talking to the OL out of respect. However, you’re always going to taken care of & safe.
Just act right!!!!
Be classy… not trashy
I'm a 62 tear old woman who hung around with bikers in the mid-70s in KC. In those days, there was a lot of passing around and getting beat up. Thank the gods never to me, but I got away from that group pretty quickly. Glad to know it's not a thing.
@@HerMajesty1 I have never heard of or witnessed anything that I would have to speak up about. I know that members in these clubs are very careful with liability so all abuses are kept on the downlow. In your day, abuse of a woman was a right of a man.
She lost me when she said "allow".
#Ghostin #Zman on point as always Sose. That’s the reason your channels are blowing up. Much love from Detroit.
Thank you joe
❤he is the best
#ghostin
All day
This is why I only ride baggers . You can carry all weather gear in the saddle bags . I keep a lightweight backpacking tent and a telescopic fishing pole in my saddle bags too.
An Ol Lady is sacred territory - HIS! Amen!