Regarding question #2: I’m living that life of being the spouse that was given a generic set of statements and am lost. Although MH and their resources have been tremendously helpful-my husband has yet to explain to me what the emotions are behind all of this. I hang on to hope everyday but it’s almost impossible. Why it is that those who aren’t the initiator of these life changing remarks aren’t the ones who seek the help-it seems it’s always those who didn’t feel that way. Makes it even harder when they are those who truly need this priceless info but don’t seek it out.
Lack of emotional maturity; Lack of responsibility and accountability; If they were to seek answers, that would be like an admission that they aren't perfect, and they aren't the victim, and they just might be partially responsibility. They like playing the victim. They don't want to grow intellectually, emotionally, and relational. They don't want to face and accept responsibility. They don't have a realistic view nor Christian view of marriage. They are "quitters," "lazy," and immature. They haven't been "vested" in the relationship. They haven't made sacrifices for the relationship. They are selfish, self-centered, and wise in their own eyes. Do you want to go on???
It's almost impossible to have a productive conversation with a passive, avoidant personality. They leave instead of growing up, maturing, and working through issues.
Mature people own up to their faults, issues, and work on growth.
Regarding question #2: I’m living that life of being the spouse that was given a generic set of statements and am lost. Although MH and their resources have been tremendously helpful-my husband has yet to explain to me what the emotions are behind all of this. I hang on to hope everyday but it’s almost impossible. Why it is that those who aren’t the initiator of these life changing remarks aren’t the ones who seek the help-it seems it’s always those who didn’t feel that way. Makes it even harder when they are those who truly need this priceless info but don’t seek it out.
Lack of emotional maturity;
Lack of responsibility and accountability;
If they were to seek answers, that would be like an admission that they aren't perfect, and they aren't the victim, and they just might be partially responsibility.
They like playing the victim.
They don't want to grow intellectually, emotionally, and relational.
They don't want to face and accept responsibility.
They don't have a realistic view nor Christian view of marriage.
They are "quitters," "lazy," and immature.
They haven't been "vested" in the relationship.
They haven't made sacrifices for the relationship.
They are selfish, self-centered, and wise in their own eyes.
Do you want to go on???
you guys are amazing..why have I never seen you before
It's almost impossible to have a productive conversation with a passive, avoidant personality. They leave instead of growing up, maturing, and working through issues.
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How come so few comments?
Cause people don’t want to go further
She's using her maiden name as well.
Je remercie toujours et énormément merci