So i was homeless for a while before, as far as needs and wants...... right now i know I can live on barely anything at all with no home and sleeping outside every night even during winter. How do you differentiate between actually needing something to simply exist or actually live? Does your quality of living matter at all in this?
I have been there too brother and it taught me a lot about needs and wants. For me personally, I differentiate it by is it something I need to live a healthy mental, physical lifestyle. Now some wants can satisfy that mental aspect. Like my ice cream days are wants in general but mentally some days I need that ice cream if say I'm having a rough day. I'm not saying give up wants per say but we can all take a moment to decide rather than doing what we've been programmed to do and that's impulse buys or impulse decisions. as always thanks for interacting!
No i want land and self-reliance, not affected by society. We need security, we need comfort. I'm not jealous at all when I see rich people, sometimes I wonder why they needed to spend 3mil on one car, I would never, even being a car guy. With that much money I could help alot of families by getting them a car and still have enough to buy myself a race car and build a track on my land lol . I used to be jealous big time.... I'm no longer that guy. So I do know i need financial abundance to be able to take care of us. And others. I need the money for all the right reasons, especially now with career ending back issues, i don't think I'll be able to carry on as I have for the last 24 years. I don't feel guilty at all for admitting it's something I need, we need. It's for all the right reasons
@_YourHigherSelf this may be totally unrelated but I just need to share, there's an app called nextdoor and I've been on there for a bit, this morning I saw a post from an older lady and she was asking if anyone knew where she could get a free turkey this year, people were extremely rude to her, one man told her to get a job, she was a cna for 15 years, now she has a special needs daughter and last month she had like 18 appointments and this month she has 11. Trying to find a job that'll work with that schedule is almost impossible as she explained. I remember apologizing for the rude people and thinking I really wanna her a turkey but this year I got hurt at work and things are tight to say the least. About ten minutes ago a man I've never seen put a flyer on my door explaining that he's been blessed and he will be giving a turkey to every unit in my apartment complex this year. I've lived here 4 years and nothing like this has ever happened before. Iono why but I'm extremely emotional after reaching out to this lady to tell her i got her the turkey!
that's beautiful brother. if you put the thought out there and truly desire to help someone I firmly believe the opportunity will be given. Knock and the door shall be opened. :)
@_YourHigherSelf that's the key, being open to all possibilities without attachment to the outcome. If i can do this with my needs my life would change overnight. I'm trying to overcome 45 years of programming so I need to be easy on myself.
Oh man you're guilt tripping me into bringing a PS5 back hahaha great real talk bro 🙏🏿
nah, you're the only one who can tell you want you need or want haha
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Nice voice
aww thanks. I'm still working on levels and breaths but I appreciate the feedback. Momma always said I should have went into radio lol
All I can say is wow
Hopefully it's a good wow 🙏
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So i was homeless for a while before, as far as needs and wants...... right now i know I can live on barely anything at all with no home and sleeping outside every night even during winter. How do you differentiate between actually needing something to simply exist or actually live? Does your quality of living matter at all in this?
I have been there too brother and it taught me a lot about needs and wants. For me personally, I differentiate it by is it something I need to live a healthy mental, physical lifestyle. Now some wants can satisfy that mental aspect. Like my ice cream days are wants in general but mentally some days I need that ice cream if say I'm having a rough day. I'm not saying give up wants per say but we can all take a moment to decide rather than doing what we've been programmed to do and that's impulse buys or impulse decisions. as always thanks for interacting!
No i want land and self-reliance, not affected by society. We need security, we need comfort. I'm not jealous at all when I see rich people, sometimes I wonder why they needed to spend 3mil on one car, I would never, even being a car guy. With that much money I could help alot of families by getting them a car and still have enough to buy myself a race car and build a track on my land lol . I used to be jealous big time.... I'm no longer that guy. So I do know i need financial abundance to be able to take care of us. And others. I need the money for all the right reasons, especially now with career ending back issues, i don't think I'll be able to carry on as I have for the last 24 years. I don't feel guilty at all for admitting it's something I need, we need. It's for all the right reasons
@_YourHigherSelf this may be totally unrelated but I just need to share, there's an app called nextdoor and I've been on there for a bit, this morning I saw a post from an older lady and she was asking if anyone knew where she could get a free turkey this year, people were extremely rude to her, one man told her to get a job, she was a cna for 15 years, now she has a special needs daughter and last month she had like 18 appointments and this month she has 11. Trying to find a job that'll work with that schedule is almost impossible as she explained. I remember apologizing for the rude people and thinking I really wanna her a turkey but this year I got hurt at work and things are tight to say the least. About ten minutes ago a man I've never seen put a flyer on my door explaining that he's been blessed and he will be giving a turkey to every unit in my apartment complex this year. I've lived here 4 years and nothing like this has ever happened before. Iono why but I'm extremely emotional after reaching out to this lady to tell her i got her the turkey!
that's beautiful brother. if you put the thought out there and truly desire to help someone I firmly believe the opportunity will be given. Knock and the door shall be opened. :)
@_YourHigherSelf that's the key, being open to all possibilities without attachment to the outcome. If i can do this with my needs my life would change overnight. I'm trying to overcome 45 years of programming so I need to be easy on myself.
Really I don't want 98 inch tv 😊
Crazy huh 😂