95. Questioning My Sexuality
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching for our identities as we continue to grow.
- Is sexuality a spectrum?
- Do you have to limit yourself to a label?
- Is it because of growing up in a heteronormative society?
Family meeting:
1. " I was with a guy/married for 10 years, came out as gay a year ago & left him. Since being out of that relationship, I have realized that he is a huge narcissist and emotionally abused me. He used to say I had saggy boobs to the point I had a breast reduction, big thighs, big arms, etc."
2. "I feel like I am being tested in my life/career. I just graduated with my masters degree & started a new job but I have never felt so lost and alone than I do right now."
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You can tell Darya is queer by how she described her interactions with men. Not wanting to argue and not really being emotionally involved. Many women are so pressed for men. Lesbians are admirable in that sense because they don’t get caught up with chasing guys, hating on women and not putting themselves and career first. Great content ladies and you both make a striking couple!
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Wow Jojo, I had the same experience I would stare at girls and envy them and think to myself “damn I wish I was that pretty” or “I wish I had their 🍑 or their chest” not knowing at the time I liked them and was attracted to them, and was not in fact insecure about myself! 🤯
Sexuality is made out to be so complicated. I wish we could have real conversations instead of relying on labels for quick classification. I normally identify as lesbian but i think sapiosexual is more accurate for me because I can say women or men have the potential for beauty but I'm only really interested in a woman if we click on a mental level first. I don't find a mental connection like this capable with men just because I can't stand the arrogance of most American men but there might be potential in another culture where the men are both confident and open minded.
I personally have never gotten the stigma with the bisexual label either. Most of the women I've dated have also been bi so i couldn't imagine not dating them at all unless I just wanted to be single forever. I've also met so many women identifying as lesbians that sleep with men or make out with men and I'm just like aint that bi? But hey we can all use whatever labels we want
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Can I share my recent dating story with you guys for an opinion on the situation? I don’t need it to be apart of the podcast though just genuine insights. Please let me know if an email is the best place to share my story.
I feel like no shade to bisexuality and bisexual women but I feel there is enough promotion out there regarding women who like men who so happen to be bisexual. It is counter productive to keep making space for the status quo especially concerning same gender loving topics. Gay men never give so much space to concern themselves with bisexual men and that’s because gay men are very specific in the that fact that they are focused on being with the same gender. I kinda feel like if you are bisexual in a same gender loving space that should be the focus, and when you get around heterosexual spaces who understand your love for men, then that’s the time to talk about it. Otherwise it’s just counter productive in a space that is kinda already singled out in society because they are gay and or lesbian. There is plenty of promotion and topics for women who like men or could be with a man.
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i actually enjoy their podcast but not when they speak about 'men'