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Les Chat Podcast by Jojo & Dayra
United States
Приєднався 24 січ 2022
Not your average couples page, ANOTHER LGBTQ+ Podcast/UA-cam page. Jojo & Dayra host The Les Chat Podcast, a podcast created by a queer latinx couple, focusing on LGBTQ+ topics. Every week on Les Chat they discuss stories on labels, sex, astrology, relationship topics and everything queer. This podcast has become a safe space for many queers, where they seek advice from the Les Chat family.
So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
SPOTIFY LINK: open.spotify.com/show/0gpZcsCGe9HjIYWVTm6C2m?si=0690ca2971ef4583
Follow us on our other social media pages!
TikTok: @Les.ChatPodcast
IG: @Les.ChatPodcast
JoJo's TikTok:@JoDiddy
Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss
Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra
Instagram: @Dear.Dayra
So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
SPOTIFY LINK: open.spotify.com/show/0gpZcsCGe9HjIYWVTm6C2m?si=0690ca2971ef4583
Follow us on our other social media pages!
TikTok: @Les.ChatPodcast
IG: @Les.ChatPodcast
JoJo's TikTok:@JoDiddy
Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss
Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra
Instagram: @Dear.Dayra
115. Ex Girlfriend Drama
Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights.
FAMILY MEETING
“Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks after my father passed away”
“My gf of 3 years recently broke up with me to try things out with her ex, a man”
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
IG: les.chatpodcast
TIKTOK: www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
UA-cam: www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
Link tree: linktr.ee/leschat
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Les Chat Merch: leschat.bigcartel.com/
FAMILY MEETING
“Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks after my father passed away”
“My gf of 3 years recently broke up with me to try things out with her ex, a man”
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
IG: les.chatpodcast
TIKTOK: www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
UA-cam: www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
Link tree: linktr.ee/leschat
Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 www.luckyskivvies.com/
Les Chat Merch: leschat.bigcartel.com/
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114. September Recap
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Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline. In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of LGBTQ Latinas who have paved the way for represe...
113. Falling For Your Friends
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In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend-or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations. Family Meeting: "My girlfriend and I were dating for a year . She recently found out that when we took a break I cheated on her w...
112. Understanding PDA & LGBTQ+ Challenges
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In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time. Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face discrimination and violence, which can make them he...
111. Single Vs. Relationship You
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It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone? THAILAND TRIP DETAILS: trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-jojo-torres-jul-2025 Family Meeting: 1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were ...
110. Long vs. Short Term Relationships
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Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. Family Meeting 1. "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day" 2. "Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m very i...
108. Fem VS Femme
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Bali 2025: Sign up for updates trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc". We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Ha...
107. Post Pride Month
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Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife. Family Meeting “Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for over 2 years” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PA...
106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly
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This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” .. In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, shedding light on the differences Lily has discovered ...
105. Breaking the One-Year Barrier: Lesbian Love
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From the blissful honeymoon phase to the real challenges of long-term commitment, we explore it all. Learn how falling in love can impair critical thinking, why we unconsciously pick partners with familiar flaws, and how attachment issues and milestone pressures can impact your relationship. Discover the importance of tolerating each other's bad habits, overcoming grudges, and negotiating diffe...
104. Navigating Queer Dating Apps
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In this episode 104, we explore the evolving world of queer dating post-pandemic. Technology has made dating easier, yet it comes with challenges, especially for queer women. We review top lesbian dating apps like Zoe, Lex, and Her, highlighting their unique features. We also share 10 essential tips for a secure and successful online dating experience, from setting boundaries to avoiding catfis...
103. Coming Out With PRIDE
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!! Family meeting: 1. “Did you guys hear about the 16yr old high...
102. Coming Out At Work
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In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs. PRIDE NOCHE LATINA NYC TICKETS: lasreinas.ticketleap.com/pridenochelatina/t/leschatlatinpride/ - EARLY BIRD TICKETS UNTIL 5/31 Fam...
101. Unraveling Jealousy
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EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ dynamics. Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, past traumas, or attachment styles. We emphasize...
100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups
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100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups
98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures
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98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures
91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later
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91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later
So glad you left a review that shut would have ticked me offf Bruhh like make it make sense how they going to change the channel on you like that 😤
And yeah not 500 or so bills against teaching about differences in the human experience, but not a damn one about pollution, the war, climate change, etc?? Crazy
On Dave Chapelle also; he doesn't give a fuck about feelings from his perspective it doesn't change the hurtful context of the things he says right after saying he doesn't care. He also does not make any effort to educate himself from a perspective he would understand because he purposefully makes an effort not to learn, not to care, because of trauma perhaps, but it doesn't make it better. So many folks like him want to sign trans folks off because of not understanding when understanding is not required for respect. Not to mention; trans people being forced to say they FEEL xyz instead of they ARE xyz, because of presentation and societal pressure, has lowkey given more room for a foot in the door with that "I do not care" mindset and it is especially cis men who perpetuate it, and LGBT+ folks need to stop attacking each other based on stupid shit like that same mindset. It's a backwards way of thinking and it spreads like a disease. The male loneliness epidemic is self caused by patriarchal beliefs put onto others who deserved better from those who taught them. This is why teaching is so important. And why therapy should be free in this country. And any cis man who "doesn't care" but wants to complain about trans folks' lives; please go and get a job! A hobby! A book! A friend?? A pet???? Anything. Find some business, make it yours, and mind it❤
Love yah and the transparency of how real life is ❤. You girls should do a Q&A full video 🖤
Yes!!❤
i rlly wish i watched this 3 weeks ago oml…
When I date a girl and she is suddenly rlly mad at me and idk why I just run up to my guy besties and am just like: “guys she’s mad at me help what do I do idk how to talk girls pls help meee”😂😂😂❤❤😭
You guys were missed, but please don’t feel guilty for living life enjoy and live unapologetically we gonna be here regardless
FINALLY🙆🏼♀️🥳
I just rewatched this episode as my gf broke up with me on Saturday. All this makes so much sense and I am respecting her decision as much as I dont like it because I respect her as a person and I still very much care for her. She still wants me in her life and currently still acts like how we where before the breakup which is confusing. I have never been friends with exes and I feel like I can be with her though I know I need to have no contact for a little bit to grieve the relationship before even trying to be friends. Any tips? Also where is your breakup playlist I could use it right about now. ❤
There was an episode of Mujer: Casos de la Vida Real that a similar premise, but with the genders reversed. An older man secretly having an affair with his son-in-law. Also, do you guys have a link to the Reddit post?
I want to do a birthday dinner but I’m scared my 2 friend groups won’t mix and it’s going to be very separate
Not a lot of people seem to know that this "master doc" was written when the original poster was a teenager, and that poster later came out as bisexual. If you dig more into comp-het theory you can see that the original writer didn't really know what she was talking about and instead was mistaking heteronormativity for comp het (not the same thing.) As consumers of this kind of content, its important to do our research into the history and sources of docs like this that end up going viral. Are we really going to hold up a word doc written by a teenaged bi person as gospel for determining whether someone is a lesbian or not? Sorry not sorry only time and experience can help you determine that, not a checklist from Tumblr.
Such a good episode! Fell for my friend and it was a hard fall, LET ME TELL YOU….
i kissed a girl is on youtubeeee that’s how i watched lmao
Competition…Dayra want to see some action 😜😂 me too!
Love you girls!!!! I love that you girls are from Jersey!!!! I am from South Jersey!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 I have to talk to my honey about Thailand. I am scared to go just us so in a group sounds nice.
Falling for a friend is the WORST thing because once you go there, there’s no going back to “normal”
falling for your friend as a gay is typically a canon event but ends so poorly lmao
This was an interesting topic. I know for me, I don't think I have ever had feelings for any of my friends mainly because once I realize I have feelings for someone I can no longer be friends with them for the very reason that Jojo mentioned about the pressure or fear of being a certain person or a certain way around them especially if I plan to pursue a relationship with them. So I've fallen for someone I was friendly with but never friends with lol.
What herpes or stds lol first kiss
Watching from Chicago! Definitely interested in this topic. 😅
Watching from Cameroon 🇨🇲 ❤❤❤
I think a big key peace to the conversation of comphet is childhood trauma!
No no no...never depend on men for anything.... please... Financially,..noooooo And definitely never emotionally physically, mentally...never... You will get a breakdown eventually... unrecoverable sometimes... Except rare cases... Not saying as a man hater or something
I love your podcasts ❤🌈
Women have 0 Rizz.
Can you please tell us how to know if a fem is flirting. Love your podcast keep up the amazing work
Y'all are so relatable and real. ❤❤ You're right. Money is the ultimate gatekeeper of access to therapy which sucks. I'd say it's probably the majority of people who need it can't afford it. Yay American healthcare.
I am in Cameroon 🇨🇲 and I want to come with you guys ❤
DM us on IG ❤️
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Happy Virgo season ❤
I'm in agreement with your "do it now" attitude, as it relates to travel. I'm an OWL (older, wiser lesbian) LOL I've done some traveling, I want to do more, and plan to...but time is not always kind. Thankfully, I'm still fairly active and in good health. Continue to do as much as you can...ENJOY!
Insignificant.... damn but I get it🤣
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it's kinda wild to me that someone would mind if someone they're hooking up with is friends with their ex, when they're not even in a relationship or monogamous? like if yall are just messing around, is it any of your business who she's talking to or even if she was hooking up with an ex, it wouldn't be cheating. i get if she was talking to someone who hurt you, but i think until what you're doing is at least a little serious, the other person can talk to whoever they want. and being open and direct about it with you is a green flag, she's not sneaking behind your back to talk to this ex, she's just establishing that yeah, that person is important to her.
PTO WHO? 😂
Why call it Les Chat Podcast when y’all both bi? Hard to avoid y’all when you advertise as gay.
Another great episode🙏🏽🤍 Thank you
Link ?
I feel like I waited forever for yall to post again
okay spicyyyy im boutta order this book
also such a potent topic, love the perspectives !
Can't wait for Bali 2025🎉
Okay medium bun 🔥🔥🔥
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Jojo’s hair slicked back😏😎
I’m a bi cisgirl (bt actual gay man🙋🏾♂️) and I just want to re-illuminate the person expressing initial interest in the most pressurized & vulnerable type of sex (anal)should most definitely be mature enough to accept the realities of said location. But also one shouth not feel fear of unpredictability bc also if you’re a mature bottom you should do your lover the courtesy of prepping and running clean water(douching) .Both involved ultimately it’s going to be seggsier if you can offer your most sacred space with forthought, consideration, and trust. Also: women exert about double the energy on top. We can’t exert that even when men r “putting in work” it’s even closely equivalent. Im literally in my Meagan knees position on unbalanced mattress counting “How many “slaps” does it take til u get to the center of ta..”Lil Kim & Sisqo version😂
Where can I watch this episode!?
Whoreable Decisions YT
Im wondering why kids now all of a sudden care about pronouns. I was in school from 1988-2004 and not once did I ever come across a kid talking about their pronouns or insisting on being called a different pronoun. Now suddenly, its all they talk about.
Where the story about the mother in law and daughter in law ?
It is ep 107 around 26 mins
I'm here for that too
Not here
Damn that’s what I was looking for 😂
Muscle memory to the tongue….oooouuuuu 😂😂😂