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❤Thank you so much for this video. It is years old but came up in my recommendations. I'm on my own. This was like talking to a real welcome long lost friend. When you started saying about going dizzy at the PC and how you understood I felt as if you was talking just to me. Brought tears to my eyes. I'm so grateful that you understand. Thank you for being completely realistic and validating. You are so right about advice videos it just ends up worse if you was to follow them. When you feel deep down that you know there's nothing you can do and why there's nothing you can do and it's like there's nowhere to turn, then at least having somebody who completely understands somebody who gets it and speaks to you decently and kindly, well all I can say is, you helped a lot tonight. ❤❤❤ Thank you for keeping your video in place. You are so kind 🕊️

all my workplace bullies have been extremely overweight. All were very controlling and greedy too.

I beat a psychopath at work. He decided to mess with my mentality and it seriously backfired on him. I learned yrs ago that people at work are NOT my friends so it wasn't that bad when they ganged up. From day 1, I just got on with my job (which I was good at) completely ignored them. I didn't participate in their workplace banter and they found me "Boring". Basically whilst they were busy skylarking around, I was busy doing my job. I didn't complain to the supervisors once. I just let management notice for themselves. After a Yr, I was promoted and I was the only one in the company who was interviewed. I absolutely loved rubbing their faces in the 💩 afterwards. I don't need lots of friends, something I learned earlier in life. I'm not like everyone else, requiring attention or needing to prove myself. They didn't bank on that when trying to bring me down.

What is this guy's name?

Still relevant

I've been mobbed. I complained about it. I got fired. If you're mobbed, leave. Get a new job!

Schools have a similar structure.. teachers and faculty that target and play favortism.

This is elite

… workplace bullies do things covertly - like defrauding . These bullies complain about their own bosses a lot and do not like rules and regulations

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I don’t like the term bullying. IMO it’s harassment and stalking. Coworker did it to me for 5 years. It’s worst when the environment is toxic and the ringleader makes it hostile.

"Having a panic attack, going to the hospital, getting put on SSRI's" That's my story to a T.

“Workplace sexual harassment isn’t really so bad” says the male who’s never sexually harassed at work. Add the sexual harassment to the bullying. That’s what woman often receive at work

I hate to say it but most of the psychotic micro managers I've worked for were women.

Psychopaths see people as objects, if they raise your blood pressure or anxiety, they dont care

Yup man and women. Very dangerous and evil. They even hack your computer and android.

This is why I like to work alone or in the comfort of my own home. People are weirrrd these days

They are not normal they are sick in the mind.

Some of them do things to make others look bad. They have low self esteem and bully others or outshine others just to feel good. It is not only home they do it at home too. To their wives and kids. They are sick

Absolutely true 👍

Its not JUST the people at the top. They are everywhere

I feel like it's the other way around, the majority are psychopsths/narcissists. When you say most people want to be left alone, I disagree. Most people like drama and conflict. Not many people have empathy. But you described them to a tee lol

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Family bullies are psychopaths too, my brother was a psychopathic bully ,he committed suicide

I was baited by my former manager. And each time I reacted she framed me as the bad one. Usually they are keeping a paper trail and under GDPR you can raise a freedom of information request to see what lies they are documenting and then send this to HR. They will be forced to settle. Also join a union if you can and document everything

Finally…Workplace mobbing comes from management; when you complain to mgmt or HR they know what you’re thinking and how to handle you; they will turn up the heat; Psychopaths and more😡

I learned from a master hypnotherapist that "wishing them well" as internal-dialogue in the heat of the moment allows a deep engagement of our own mind's subconscious reaction. Doesn't matter if they pick up on that or not, it's a way to bringing our own perceived peace about the situation. Their insanity, their disapproval, their lack of control - not our damn problem in the ultimate objective reality of the situation and we can feel completely sound and at peace about moving on from that which is doing literally nothing but consistently eroding our mental and physical health survival.

*Brilliant*

If you work in NYS. Document the incidents. If you have to quit NEVER go to HR. Report to the State Labor Department.

1:01 "Most people want to be left alone." Exactly.

This is spot on

I am amazed by how thorough and accurate your video is, 12 years after you posted it! As you say, these people are in every social setting. I was "raised" by people like this, and both my siblings are this way. They are obsessed with power and control, and generally are rewarded for their abusive and bullying behaviors. There is nothing to do but keep your emotional distance, do not react emotionally (because this feeds them, thereby encouraging them), and walk away as soon as you possibly can.

Absolutely bullies are there’s something wrong either they have no soul

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The video is so relevant even in 2024. Thank you sir.

Also I agree 💯 percent. Micromanaging is the number one red flag of getting bullied at a workplace. Every case of bullying at work involves micromanagement.

I also question the term "Bullying". Because people tend to think of bullying as a juvenile type dynamic. But actually, it's more like abuse and harassment. But it may not always be the case of abusing a protected class, but abuse in general. I feel like many people don't take the term Bullying seriously enough. Especially in relation to the workplace. I know that it generally includes emotional abuse, harassment, humiliation, sabotage and in some cases other (e.g., physical abuse and/or threats). Long term exposure to moderate to severe workplace "bullying" can be really hard on a person. It causes significant stress, emotional and mental health consequences, loss of good reputation, financial problems, even physical health consequences and trauma as well. Among other things. I feel like this should be illegal in workplaces. Sorry to say, it's not. At least in the U.S.

I was actually searching for an answer why i am bullied at work and i came accross your video, that person is exactly how your deacribe a psycopath. She was a headnurse in her previous job, and when she came to our workplace being a new staff, she acts like she is the headnurse and wanted to control people including a senior staff like me, and she wanted to run the floor as she wanted it to be, she’s trying to control me , treat me as her staff. She mentioned to me before that people dont like her because of her attitude, and that she still cant get over with her previous positon. Thanks for your video which is very informative .

I literally just ignore these people. After work, I pray a lot, listen to music, comedy, things that uplift my spirit, I also exercise a lot. I’m sending everyone love and light that are dealing with these bullies

What surprised me they have flying monkeys who have no thought of what they are engaging in the bullying.

They bully wrong one it might end up ugly for em

They’re demons wearing a human costume

They part animal part human. A different type of species native to this earth that look like us. They have no soul.

Thank you for posting this. I starting crying when you said, "..... you don't care about the money anymore... you just want to get away,.... you just want to work with good people.... This post is enlightening.

Devils run this world

Ppl know how evil they are they dont say anything about it because evil ppl get blessed while victims get tortured unprovoked

Yes evil ppl are evil, how do u get bullies to experience the evil they spew at innocent undeserving victims

This videos deserves a gold medal 🥇

Well said! I put out a storytime about this and you nailed my experience. However, I also dealt with the extra evils of microaggressions and racsim, it was a terrible terrible time.