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I have 4 kids - ages 33 to 21... and I never wanted to be a mom. I resent my ex husband (divorced 15 years ago)... and I resent my kids for being so much like him. I just hate being a mom. I wish I was alone literally ALL THE TIME. If I could go back in time and NOT be a mom... I would.

41 week + 6 days, going for ultrasound tomorrow

No toxic is toxic they're not going to listen and especially the boundaries

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I like sour and spicy food.

My grandparents were the rudest and the most deceptive set of people I have ever met. They hated the fact that my mum was pregnant with me. They favoured my half brother because he was born from sperm provided by his father, Leonard, a fellow farmer like them. Also, they controlled my mum behind her back by making sure we were evicted over and over because they felt a box under a bridge was too much housing for us. They were also fellow landlords for a long time and knew landlord talk, so that way they could convince a box of cornflakes that our stomachs were not worthy of the cereal. The maternal grandmother would be kind one moment (like a shopping trip) and then vindictive the next moment when she would feel regret for taking me on a shopping trip. Mum was always financially strapped so any help was naturally thanked by anyone who could help and mum was just as flabbergasted as I was when we would face eviction by our latest crummy landlord at that time. She is still trying to do this today as a widow by having others do it for her, as she is approaching 100 years old. The latest that this awful woman is trying to do, is trying to get her trying to get my mum into financial trouble because she knows someone who knows my mum's bank account information as she is a bank employee. Thank you for posting this video.

Indeed, watching them melt away within 48 hours felt so good, and yes, I used what I mentioned the other day. It actually took a bit more to make them totally disappear, I just go’ogled Melissa Thanderski and the pain unexpectedly disappeared so quickly.

My son just turned a year old a few days ago. I hate my life. It feels like I live in hell. I had to have an emergency c section and it ruined my body. I have adhesions inside that will never go away and feel tugging whenever I move. I have done massage extensively on my scar and abdomen but it no longer does anything. My abs will never come back together because I have scar tissue holding them apart. I have worked on strengthening my core but it never gets better. So I have to carry my son around all through the day and it feels like my insides are bulging out the entire time. My back also hurts because of this. I’m the thinnest I’ve ever been but I still have a gut because of my messed up scar tissue and permanent diastasis. He cries and screams at the top of his lungs constantly. My ears hurt from all the screaming. I feel terrible because I am so miserable all the time I find it hard to smile at him. I cry all the time. I feel like I’m screwing him up because I can’t be happy and silly and play with him because I am so miserable constantly. I fantasize about killing myself every day. My husband works hard and pays for everything, and takes care of the baby when he gets home but he still needs breaks here and there too so I still have to help. My family doesn’t help watch him. His family lives far away. I want to give up my rights to my son but I love my husband and don’t want to separate from him. Even if I were to leave my husband and give him full rights to my son I would still never be free because I would know he was out there with a mom that didn’t care to be in his life. I feel the only escape is in death. Every night I fall asleep to the thought of killing myself and ending this nightmare. I was never meant to be a mom. My son deserves better. I hate myself.

Why have children? I like to teach, so I’m a teacher. I want to inspire, I can create. I want to have an impact in the world, I can write a book. Leaving this comment for anyone who thinks a kid is necessary to be someone in life or experience the things you want.

Oh I love the name Indiana

I have a question does fetal fraction of 4.5% mean anything in gender in week 8 ? I feel like it’s too early and I accidentally saw my lab results but it was earlier on . This Saturday I will be 12 weeks and it will be the real gender test at the scan but I’m scared I ruined the surprise for myself I really want a boy 🥺🥲

11w5days 🤍

You can’t say your child free till you can no longer conceive up till then you never know

I don’t know what happened to my mother and what traumas she experienced when she was young but my Abuelita her mother was exactly that grandma that was the ideal, loving, nurturing, non judgemental, loved playing board games, connecting and very affectionate and generous. My mother on the other hand is a malignant covert narcissist and I lived under the tyranny of her passive aggressive forms of punishment daily. She provoked me until I would react with rage and fury and then she would shame me and send me to my room to go look at myself in the mirror. I was a glorified pet until about the age of 6-7 and after that I became the target of all her contempt, hatred and she loved to watch me suffer to the point where I would become completely non functioning and battling clinical depression. She’s tried to push me to the brink of death but I somehow managed to pull through in the nic of time after months and months of battling severe treatment resistant mental illness and active SI. She’s truly evil and has no qualms at all about her malicious and vindictive ways against me. There’s so much more but this grandma also managed to poison my son against me and now I’m trying to carefully draw him back but he feels stuck now in the middle and knows if he shows me any loyalty he will also have to contend with her ruthless forms of covert punishment so he’s chosen to align himself with her for now. It’s awful and heart shattering to experience parental alienation at the hands of your own mother.

I don’t know what me and my grandma were talking about one day but she said to me “everybody in your life has moved forward and you haven’t you’re stuck” and then one day I told her I was moving out of state and she said “well how could you leave me here by myself” FUCK YOU she gets uncomfortable when I tell her shit that makes me happy or good news because realistically it’s hard to see me achieve things she never has Im starting to see she got some shit wrong wit her my other grandma died so I feel trapped and not seen or heard ever since no parents nobody

Thank you so much 🙏🏻

Wow! Unreal.

I have the problem of looking at the menu highlights from local restaurants and then I just NEEEEED a certain thing I see and when I get it I get so happy I cry.

my belly is paining

hi I think am 15 weeks old but am not feeling well 😢what's going on

This is what I needed to hear

Life is very expensive, difficult, and exhausting. I hate the -Good Vibes Only people.

Oh wow my grandfather is all of the above

If i knew it was going to be this hard i dont think would have done it ..

I am child-free because as an observant child, I saw the miserable life my mother was living, taking care of three children, a husband, and a house, cooking three meals a day, never having a moment of free time, no vacations, not even any new clothes, no money, being under my father‘s thumb financially. Nope. Not for me. and now that I am 72 years old, my 94-year-mother considers that I made a poor choice in life by not having children. Personally, I think she’s just resentful and jealous. thanks for the perspective. Good luck to you.

I hate my grandmother bcoz she is manipulative ,and always crying like she didn't do anything wrong and. Ijust hate her for that , !!!

This is really good, thank you!

11 weeks today🎉

Thank you moms for making these videos and spreading the word of what motherhood is actually like. This saves womens lives. This is why Im child free. Thank you.

If you don't want kids, don't have them.

I am very happy to have 43 single without kids that was my choice and have not regrets!!! Love my liberty 💋

You say we aren't alone but go figure, every time I throw a line out, other moms look at me like I'm crazy.

I encourage women who need constant therapy to not have kids. If you can't handle yourself, you can't handle other human’s life. It's a horrible choice that ruins so many people's lives.

I literally hate it

Well done - good Aussie accent and no rambling - ❤

Great video

Thank you for all the info!

I’m thinking about fostering older teens when I’m a little older, but I have no interest raising babies or kids.

Truly appreciate this video 🥹

This is exactly what has happened. Except I am a single mom. Physical assault by proxy also and now that my daughter is 18 she’s fully alienated from me brainwashed and my mom and her lied to police tried to put me in jail and the last time I saw my daughter months ago she said very very scary. Things has no empathy I feel I’ve lost her and worse than that but mentally she won’t be able to handle the isolation in my parents basement my mom has undone all values I taught her and she’s turning into my mom with no empathy very scary.

11 weeks 1 day today💙👣🎉great video

Don't forget that the burden and pain of childbirth was bestowed upon women by God through sin in the Garden of Eden. Should have never ate the apple. " I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception, in sorrow thou shalt bring forth CHILDREN ; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall RULE over thee " . Genesis 3:3 : 16.

My mil and her husband are very controlling, they constantly demand that we let them take my son out to spend time with them. The this is, my son has autism so he finds it very stressful and traumatic. The in-laws dont care how he feels, they just want to take gim out because "we are his grandparents, he needs us"

I'm 41weeks+3days pregnant

The kid may have given u the confidence to put yourself first, but now that u have the kid, u have to put them first. 🫠

Her name is karen and she suport transgender for shur

I hate having lost all my 3 children during pregnancy..having children Must be very Hard, poor girl I feeling so sorry for you…

It helps to know other Moms out there are hating this… for me it depends on the day. Today I hate it. But happiness is a choice, and I figure I can either reject and hate it, or embrace and at the very least get by kind of ok. Lol. I quit drinking and that helped a ton. That lead to more energy and less conflict/abuse in the marriage and that’s also helped. My dreams did die with having kids, and they have me picking up after them constantly, so it’s hard to not resent them sometimes, but, there is beauty in it. And i know one day freedom will return. I think we need to remember there are two sides to absolutely everything, and we need to be able to see both. And we need others to see that, too, and give us a freaking hand once in a while. Stick together, Moms!!

I am becoming a Grandma for the 1st. time I found out it's a Boy and I am Sad as I wanted a Girl I Feel I Need to just stay away from the Baby due in January as I am Not Happy about it I know this isn't a Good thing so I believe I Need to Stay Away I had the Best Grandma and I would want that for it

Watching this now 41 weeks pregnant and looking for reassurance that I'm not the only one! The doctor pressure is intense, especially since I'm also 36 years old and considered a "geriatric" pregnancy!