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Making your birth preferences; The perfect birth plan from an OBGYN!
If you are pregnant right now; you have probably thought to yourself ‘How do I write the perfect birth plan?'. Amongst obstetricians and labour ward midwives, birth plans can sometimes get a bad rep, but I dont necessarily agree.
Whether you're planning a birth on a labour ward or considering other options, having a birth plan-or as we prefer to call it, birth preferences-can help you feel more prepared, and ready to adapt according to the situation, leaving you with a more positive experience of your birth in the end.
We will cover:
00:00 Introduction
00:44 Who should make a birth plan?
01:34 What is the difference between birth plan and birth preferences?
02:39 How do you prepare to fill out your birth preferences?
04:05 What should be included?
08:45 What if you are unsure about what to choose?
Download my birth preferences template here:
theobgynmum.com/how-to-write-the-perfect-birth-plan-tips-and-template/
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The Video Content on this channel is for educational purposes and not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read or seen on this UA-cam channel. The statements made throughout this video are not to be used or relied on to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent health conditions.
In addition, transmission of this Content is not intended to create, and receipt by you does not constitute, a physician-patient relationship with Dr Brooke Vandermolen, it’s employees, agents, independent contractors, or anyone acting on behalf of
Dr Brooke Vandermolen.
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Відео

5 top tips for managing urinary incontinence and stopping the leaks!
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Leaking urine, also known as urinary incontinence, is a common issue many women face after giving birth. It can be surprising and sometimes distressing, but it's important to know that it's quite normal. Here are some top tips to help reduce the number of leaks Let me know if you have any of your own to add?
How to make smear tests more comfortable; tips for your pap smear. #cervicalscreening
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How to make smear tests more comfortable? I get it. Going for a smear test might not be your idea of a fun day out. However, Cervical cancer is one of the most preventable cancers and getting your screening can help to stop it before it starts. People often avoid smear tests due to fear of discomfort from the speculum, embarrassment, past negative experiences, and lack of information about thei...
PMS: What can be done to help the symptoms?
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Have you ever wondered what can help with PMS symptoms? PMS can really mess with your life, for a large part of every month by physical symptoms as well as mood swings, and trouble focusing, making everyday tasks feel much harder. People often misunderstand PMS because its symptoms are different for everyone and are sometimes may be dismissed as just being moody. This leads to a lack of support...
Pain relief options in labour: What is available?
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Are you wondering what pain relief options in labour you might be offered? Whether it's your first baby or your fifth, understanding your options for pain relief can help you feel more in control and prepared for the big day. Im Brooke, an obstetrics & gynaecology doctor. Let's talk about the different ways to manage pain during labor, from the early stages all the way through delivery. In this...
Tips for getting started with breastfeeding - what I wish I had known during pregnancy!
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Breastfeeding your new baby can be extremely rewarding as it is a lovely way to bond as well as being convenient and cheap! However, it can often be challenging, especially in the early days. If you are hoping or planning to breastfeed, here are some tips for getting started! You can also seek help if needed, from breastfeeding specialists such as lactation consultants. Do you have any tips for...
You can manage your kids Apple devices without touching them!
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You can manage your kids Apple devices without touching them!
Am I in labour? How do you know when to go to hospital in labor?
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Am I in labour? How do you know when to go to hospital in labor?
You are having a miscarriage - What happens next?
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You are having a miscarriage - What happens next?
Is freezing your eggs a good idea? Does egg freezing guarantee a baby later?
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Is freezing your eggs a good idea? Does egg freezing guarantee a baby later?
What is a hysteroscopy? What can you expect from an outpatient hysteroscopy?
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What is a hysteroscopy? What can you expect from an outpatient hysteroscopy?
What is an ovarian cyst? What are they and what will happen next?
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What is an ovarian cyst? What are they and what will happen next?
What is the morning after pill? What are my options for emergency contraception?
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Top tips for birth partners - how to be the best support in labour!
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Top tips for birth partners - how to be the best support in labour!
What to expect from a diagnostic laparoscopy? Diagnosing endometriosis, ovarian cysts or fertility!
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What can you expect when your waters break? #ytshorts
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What can you expect when your waters break? #ytshorts
What is a stretch and sweep? Why am I offered a membrane sweep in pregnancy?
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What is a stretch and sweep? Why am I offered a membrane sweep in pregnancy?
My third birth story - An OBGYN's own birth VLOG!
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My third birth story - An OBGYN's own birth VLOG!
First trimester bleeding in pregnancy - Am I having a miscarriage?
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First trimester bleeding in pregnancy - Am I having a miscarriage?
Which is better: Female or male sterilisation (vasectomy)? Your guide to permanent contraception!
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Which is better: Female or male sterilisation (vasectomy)? Your guide to permanent contraception!
Can a home pregnancy test be wrong? #youtubeshorts
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Can a home pregnancy test be wrong? #youtubeshorts
Tests for fertility | What will happen if I am referred with infertility?
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Tests for fertility | What will happen if I am referred with infertility?
8 questions about life as an OBGYN; the best and worst bits!
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8 questions about life as an OBGYN; the best and worst bits!
C section: what to expect and how to make it a positive experience! #caesarean #birth
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C section: what to expect and how to make it a positive experience! #caesarean #birth
Diabetes in pregnancy - top tips for managing GDM, type 1 & 2 diabetes and more!
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Diabetes in pregnancy - top tips for managing GDM, type 1 & 2 diabetes and more!
3rd pregnancy VLOG: An OBGYN experience of pregnancy, my birth stories and whats in my bag!
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3rd pregnancy VLOG: An OBGYN experience of pregnancy, my birth stories and whats in my bag!
Best IUD for birth control - is the mirena or copper coil best for contraception?
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Best IUD for birth control - is the mirena or copper coil best for contraception?
Instrumental birth: I don't want forceps! What should I do?
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Instrumental birth: I don't want forceps! What should I do?
Is it true our periods can sync with our friends? #youtubeshorts #didyouknow #periods
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Is it true our periods can sync with our friends? #youtubeshorts #didyouknow #periods
Periods after pregnancy; What to expect, when, what about breastfeeding?
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Periods after pregnancy; What to expect, when, what about breastfeeding?

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @1m.l3v1
    @1m.l3v1 6 днів тому

    Disclaimer: DONT use wd-40

  • @JannahMa
    @JannahMa 11 днів тому

    Hi im going to get my birth control soon. I’ve done a test before and the doctor told me i had low follicle count . I really don’t know what that means and does that mean im not as fertile? (Im 18) However im planning to do birth control and not sure if i should go with hormonal ones like the implant or non hormonal ones like iud . Im scared if i take the hormonal ones this will effect me severely . But getting IUD seems like its super complicated. Please advise asap . Thanks

  • @Jules_in_time
    @Jules_in_time 14 днів тому

    What about syphilis ?

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 12 днів тому

      Syphilis can lie dormant in your system for years actually

  • @MrsBagels
    @MrsBagels 15 днів тому

    There is something very unsettling about something being inserted in your spine

  • @jaynejohnson895
    @jaynejohnson895 15 днів тому

    THANK YOU SO MUCH. you have absolutely no idea. Body dysmorphia has absolutely taken over me and my body shape has made me feel like less of a woman.

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 15 днів тому

      So glad it is helpful because these myths have circulated for far too long!

  • @_-mx2gw
    @_-mx2gw 16 днів тому

    My vagaina just farted and it burned me like it was a shot what is this is this normal-?? So bad I literally jumped

  • @BigRyse97
    @BigRyse97 23 дні тому

    What about trich? I was with two women my entire life (27 years old) and I always used a condom. My wife and I met, we initially had unprotected sex. Sex life slowed down, then I go months without sex, and right around our anniversary she tests positive for trich, I tested negative.

    • @BigRyse97
      @BigRyse97 23 дні тому

      Bare in mind 2 years together and UP sex was only for a couple of months.

    • @BigRyse97
      @BigRyse97 23 дні тому

      I tested negative for everything prior our relationship and still tested negative.

  • @mariarazo1022
    @mariarazo1022 25 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing. What is a fetal heart rate that would require a c section like?

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 21 день тому

      It depends on a lot of situations. We don’t usually make decisions about C sections just on heart rates alone. I have a separate video about C sections if that helps

  • @Sheisthedevilyouknowwho-ft9we
    @Sheisthedevilyouknowwho-ft9we 26 днів тому

    🤔what ? I thought a discharge was about how to get out of the army

  • @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699
    @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much ❤❤❤😊

  • @cheryaltry5346
    @cheryaltry5346 Місяць тому

    I love my copper iud it's great !

  • @zandiletshabalala8223
    @zandiletshabalala8223 Місяць тому

    This was so informative! Thank you so much. I'm definitely leaning towards the hormone-free option of the copper coil, however, the possibility of heavier periods worries me so i have to weigh my options a little bit more

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum Місяць тому

      I’m so glad it was helpful. Remember they are all reversible so you can always try and change your mind!

  • @unuajefeovovwero4774
    @unuajefeovovwero4774 Місяць тому

    Ma please i took postinor 2 on the 25th of April and up till now June 18th i haven't had my period and my breast has increased in sized abit i have done 6 pregnancy test and all came out negative i am scared 😢😢

  • @Galastic_Fitzpatrick
    @Galastic_Fitzpatrick Місяць тому

    I went for mine today and I couldn’t do it I tensed up so much I have to go back

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum Місяць тому

      I hope that some of these tips can be helpful for your return. Hope all goes smoothly

  • @myalyk4018
    @myalyk4018 Місяць тому

    “If it wasn’t for #DrMadida on UA-cam my sister 👯‍♀️wouldn’t have been cured of herpes 🦠 🦠 virus.🎉🎉🎉”••• my sister cold sore all gone completely. Dr madida is the best and only option for you if you needs health assistance ❤❤️❤.”

  • @hellokittybae1
    @hellokittybae1 2 місяці тому

    I bled horribly after they put the mascara looking thing in there. I had to rush to ER. I also went to a well known OBGYN in Henderson NV

  • @dkhowimalivev3633
    @dkhowimalivev3633 2 місяці тому

    I am so excited to be pregnant with my husband to be! I changed my health to get to this point

  • @GailOwens
    @GailOwens 2 місяці тому

    In this day and age, there should be proper pain relief

  • @ps2062
    @ps2062 2 місяці тому

    My problem of constipation 10 days before periods have become so severe that i have developed fissures and piles. And even medicines for piles are not working for me during this time. Any suggestion please

    • @relaxwithmeasmr1729
      @relaxwithmeasmr1729 Місяць тому

      Magnesium Citrate… Take it a week before your cycle, works like a charm.

    • @ps2062
      @ps2062 Місяць тому

      @@relaxwithmeasmr1729 ok I will try it . Thank you

    • @relaxwithmeasmr1729
      @relaxwithmeasmr1729 Місяць тому

      @@ps2062 No problem

  • @americaroleplayer
    @americaroleplayer 2 місяці тому

    Absintence is the only pregnancy preventive that's 100%. That's why it's taught in schools. Granted GOOD sex Ed would tell people that there is a very very small chance that you get pregnant even WITH other pregnancy prevention, but. . . * shrugs *

  • @sitiaisyah7467
    @sitiaisyah7467 2 місяці тому

    Thats why biology and math important, just see the percentage,, its not full 100%

  • @penguinqueen421
    @penguinqueen421 2 місяці тому

    My uterus got taken out after my last pregnancy, my sister said I could have hers and we are the same blood type. This gives me hope.

  • @MissJudyLee
    @MissJudyLee 2 місяці тому

    I’m getting my Pap smear on Friday. I’m scared and nervous 😰

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 2 місяці тому

      Aw hope all goes well. Make sure you tell the healthcare provider that you are nervous and I’m sure they will do all they can to help!

    • @smugggles
      @smugggles Місяць тому

      how did it go? I’m having one done tomorrow and I’m so nervous):

  • @markae0
    @markae0 3 місяці тому

    "morning after pill" is not talked about because some people think human "life" occurs on fertilization. Other people define life as a certain number of days of embryo growth. FYI if you believe "life on fertilization", then nature-time kills millions of "babies" as most embryos do not join with the uterus. "85% of the embryos placed into the uterine cavity fail to implant".

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 3 місяці тому

      Absolutely. The morning after pill is not a form of abortion because the embryos never implant

  • @monserratortega3143
    @monserratortega3143 3 місяці тому

    Yes, thank you for mentioning that it depends on where you are in your cycle. Many women have gotten pregnant due to not knowing this bit of info.

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 3 місяці тому

      Yes sadly it’s not very well known!

  • @NicK-wu8xy
    @NicK-wu8xy 3 місяці тому

    Wow they don't have to treat you like a turkey they're stuffing? They can give you choice? And empowerment?

  • @AlbertaJ.
    @AlbertaJ. 3 місяці тому

    Nice, feeling how the bloating and pain receded within approximately two months made all the difference, I simply go’ogled the latest by Tilly Strankten and her Ovarian Cyst Guide and although it really took about 10 weeks for it to totally shrink and vanish I’ve never felt so light and relaxed.

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 3 місяці тому

      There’s no evidence of these guides/ home remedies shrinking ovarian cysts. However they may dissapear spontaneously and this is more likely for cysts smaller than 5cm

  • @adilheart3931
    @adilheart3931 3 місяці тому

    I had a c sec and uterine rupture...can we go for vaginal delivery???

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 3 місяці тому

      The main risk of vaginal delivery is uterine rupture, and if this has already happened the risk of recurrence is high. Usually it wouldn’t be recommended but best to discuss your own case with your doctor

    • @adilheart3931
      @adilheart3931 3 місяці тому

      @@theobgynmum thank u so much for reply...and if we take 4 to 5 years gap..doctor said atleast 2 years wait for next pregnancy..

  • @adilheart3931
    @adilheart3931 3 місяці тому

    Is it possible vaginal delivery after uterine rupture????

    • @bismahsaif3729
      @bismahsaif3729 Місяць тому

      no VBAC is not recommended after uterine repture. You'd require planned C-Section to avoid repture happening again. how long did you wait to conceive after uterine repture?

    • @adilheart3931
      @adilheart3931 Місяць тому

      @@bismahsaif3729 doctor said two years

    • @adilheart3931
      @adilheart3931 Місяць тому

      ​@@bismahsaif3729 doc asked for minimum 2years to wait

  • @Emily-ko9dl
    @Emily-ko9dl 3 місяці тому

    Getting my diagnostic Tuesday and beyond terrified, this video helped so much! thank you!

  • @dancelover4906
    @dancelover4906 3 місяці тому

    does every woman get the ring of fore😢😢😢

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 3 місяці тому

      No definitely not something everyone experiences!

    • @dancelover4906
      @dancelover4906 3 місяці тому

      ok good bc i am scared

  • @malaikanaveed9333
    @malaikanaveed9333 4 місяці тому

    I get constipation almost every month during peroids. Especially during first 4 days and get disturbed alot 😒

    • @sonujat1297
      @sonujat1297 Місяць тому

      Right now....I am suffering the same Any remedy plzzzzz😢😢??

  • @1inMany
    @1inMany 4 місяці тому

    Hey!! How to contact you?

  • @petergriffin1409
    @petergriffin1409 4 місяці тому

    Chinese torture when you have your period

  • @JRR1313
    @JRR1313 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this I got worried before

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 4 місяці тому

      I’m glad it was helpful!

  • @kariblackwood5811
    @kariblackwood5811 4 місяці тому

    I had a severe case of it and my daughter did as well. My Mom never had it but her sister did.

  • @skassees
    @skassees 4 місяці тому

    No, Boys ALWAYS have XY and girls ALWAYS have XX. The video is not relevant for a "girl" who is XY because that girl is actually a boy.

  • @sashs.9988
    @sashs.9988 4 місяці тому

    I been on the pill for 8 years and honestly i want to take a break from the hormones But i want to maintain the freedom of contraceptives.... i want to do IUD but im scared idk

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 4 місяці тому

      A copper coil is a great hormone free alternative that gives you reliable contraception. Definitely make an appointment to discuss it with your doctor or nurse if you are worried!

  • @khadijamadani7459
    @khadijamadani7459 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing your birth story! What is the thing you are using during labour during breathing?

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 4 місяці тому

      That’s the gas and air (nitrous oxide) - it’s offered in both hospitals and in home birth/midwife led settings in the UK.

  • @VijisVlogZ
    @VijisVlogZ 4 місяці тому

    Mam pl provide a permanent solution😢😢😢

  • @YasminVeiga-pz4bz
    @YasminVeiga-pz4bz 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing your birth story, Brooke! I have a question, why do you have sweeps from week 38-39? Is there a reason related to your particular situation or is it common practice in the UK? Cheers!

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 4 місяці тому

      No there wasn’t any specific reason apart from that I was just fed up and uncomfortable and already had contractions so was hoping to get things going more! In hindsight I should have waited - in the UK they are usually offered from 40 weeks. My next video covers this more!

  • @deathbloom27
    @deathbloom27 4 місяці тому

    It's probably different per area, ours they won't even take you in as a patient if they don't see you by 10 weeks. Which i didn't know because the last time i was pregnant i scheduled it as soon as i found out and they saw me at 8 weeks. This time, i decided if i had i wait that scheduling it too early would make me too anxious. So we called them on a Friday and they said "uh you need to come in asap or we wollcan't take you as a patient." So i came in the following Monday and found out a was 9 weeks 6 days, about a week more than i expected. But the ob told me that by where i am now, there's a 90% success rate so i can understand why some places wait so long.

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 3 місяці тому

      Yes it will be different in different areas. I’m based in the UK if that helps

  • @humblecode1699
    @humblecode1699 4 місяці тому

    Doctor I was treating PCOS with Myo Inositol to conceive. Within one month I am pregnant. I have put onto Folic acid, Can I also include Myo Inositol to prevent sugar spike, is it safe during pregnancy?

  • @humblecode1699
    @humblecode1699 4 місяці тому

    Doctor I was treating PCOS with Myo Inositol to conceive. Within one month I am pregnant. I have put onto Folic acid, Can I also include Myo Inositol to prevent sugar spike, is it safe during pregnancy?

  • @SheliaB-qo3lb
    @SheliaB-qo3lb 5 місяців тому

    If everything goes well this should do the job. But listen, there's one factor that's usually overlooked that can considerably speed up the process, unfortunately I do not have it at hand, but it can be go’ogled Dobbie Nerkstrol's Infertility Cure, I think.

  • @MGS.037
    @MGS.037 5 місяців тому

    Correct

  • @lena-ly3cm
    @lena-ly3cm 5 місяців тому

    If my discharge is a lotion consistency, does that mean i haven't ovulated yet?

  • @junicajoyescaros
    @junicajoyescaros 5 місяців тому

    Me sticky slimy like white same egg white uncook? I thought i have period but not😅

  • @bronsonleach3573
    @bronsonleach3573 5 місяців тому

    Or 8 like most women prefer anyway just do it at home in send it in the mail or drop it off at the doctors office. Men get a similar test for STDs and the kit can easily be done at home.

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 3 місяці тому

      This isn’t available everywhere but home HPV testing is a fantastic option if you can!

  • @jamakathegreat1110
    @jamakathegreat1110 5 місяців тому

    But is it dangerous to the baby?

    • @theobgynmum
      @theobgynmum 5 місяців тому

      The device uses ultrasound so no that’s not harmful, but there is no benefit to the baby of using the device either and the potential harm of misdiagnosing a heartbeat is significant

    • @ashleymorgan1687
      @ashleymorgan1687 27 днів тому

      so basically we dont need to get confused… not a good enough reason for me to