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Freedom And Peace Chris
Spain
Приєднався 21 вер 2024
Find happiness, freedom and peace.
My name is Chris, and I’ve been on a lifelong journey of trying to find happiness. I define happiness as having freedom and peace and I am here to share what I’ve learned.
My name is Chris, and I’ve been on a lifelong journey of trying to find happiness. I define happiness as having freedom and peace and I am here to share what I’ve learned.
Forget instead of forgiving by not giving people your attention and energy #forgiveness #resentment
When we feel wronged by others, society pressures us to forgive. But I believe it is a much better strategy to forget because if someone demonstrated with their actions and their behavior that they don’t value us, then it makes no sense to further invest in the relationship by forgiving. Cut people who don’t deserve you out of your life by not giving them your attention and energy.
#forgiveness #resentment #relationships #entitlement #responsibility #collectivism #locusofcontrol #freewill #codependency #psychology #mentalhealth #philosophy #intj #infj #solipsism #lawofattraction #lawofassumption #covertcontracts #awareness #awakening #subconscious #conscious #reality #life #success #happiness #feelings #emotions #neuroticism #choices #limitingbeliefs #acceptance #limitations #change #truth #lies #beliefs #individualism #freedom #peace #putyourselffirst #beselfish #needs #society #mentalhealth #abundance #money #relationships #assertiveness #selfimprovement #selfhelp #selflove #selfesteem #confidence #personalpower
#forgiveness #resentment #relationships #entitlement #responsibility #collectivism #locusofcontrol #freewill #codependency #psychology #mentalhealth #philosophy #intj #infj #solipsism #lawofattraction #lawofassumption #covertcontracts #awareness #awakening #subconscious #conscious #reality #life #success #happiness #feelings #emotions #neuroticism #choices #limitingbeliefs #acceptance #limitations #change #truth #lies #beliefs #individualism #freedom #peace #putyourselffirst #beselfish #needs #society #mentalhealth #abundance #money #relationships #assertiveness #selfimprovement #selfhelp #selflove #selfesteem #confidence #personalpower
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Let go of resentment by becoming a responsible adult #resentment #entitlement #collectivism
Переглядів 934 години тому
The bitterness created by resentment poisons our life and creates many other negative emotions that can keep us trapped for years. The reason is the expectations that we have from people, the belief that society owes us something and that we owe something to society. These expectations condition our behavior and prevent us from reacting to unfair treatment and circumstances. The solution is to ...
Locus of control: The cause of free will and determinism #locusofcontrol #freewill #collectivism
Переглядів 1357 годин тому
The belief that external people, entities or factors, can and should have control over your life, is the most damaging belief that a collectivistic society shares. It eliminates free will and it creates determinism. A person cannot be happy if they don’t have the freedom to pursue that happiness. In this video I explain the causes and consequences of this belief, and how to eliminate it. en.wik...
Death is the end of all past, present and future versions of you #death #life #fear #consciousness
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A big thing that holds us back and prevents our happiness is the fear of dying. But we can’t actually experience death since experience requires consciousness and death is the end of consciousness. What we actually fear is the end of what we were and what we could be in the future. But this means that in order to not fear death we have to live life to the fullest so that we can experience all p...
Question your family and your culture #family #culture #limitingbeliefs #nocontact
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We usually think about family and culture as a good thing, but if our environment shares limiting beliefs and habits, if your family brings you more pain than pleasure, then it might be time to consider if maybe going no contact, despite being painful, might be more worth it for us than struggling always with the same limitations. #family #culture #limitingbeliefs #change #nocontact #limitation...
Put yourself first because no one can meet your needs better than yourself #putyourselffirst
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If you want to be happy you have to put yourself first. And if you want to put yourself first you have to see yourself as the most important person in your life. Every time you make a decision, ask yourself if that is the best thing for you. No one will be able to meet your needs better than yourself. Don't get distracted by people who tell you that happiness is someone or something external. D...
Love, Limerence and Infatuation explained #love #limerence #infatuation #attachment #relationships
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If you struggle with relationships it means your definition and perception of love is distorted by your childhood and your parents. Society also reinforces this definition because this version of love is sold to us by advertisements, songs, books, movies and tv shows. We use the word love to refer to ice cream, your mother or child, a stranger, your job, and basically everything else as well an...
Taming the ego: Sometimes you have to lose the battle in order to win the war #egodeath
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The ego triggers us into defending an entity that doesn’t have a physical existence. Meanwhile we are ignoring our psychical needs such as shelter, food, sleep, health, etc. In this video I give several examples of how reacting from the ego instead of acting from our real self, sabotages us. #egodeath #success #putyourselffirst #limitingbeliefs #happiness #acceptance #limitations #change #truth...
Communication is not always an efficient and effective way to defend your interests #communication
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Every time there’s a conflict, I hear people say “Have you tried talking with them?”. But a conversation requires two willing participants, otherwise it’s a monologue. Also, just because people participate in the conversation, that doesn’t mean they have the same goals as you. For example, a debate is not communication because its purpose is to feed the ego, not to convince the other person. #c...
Psychiatry is a pseudoscience #antipsychiatry #mentalhealth #therapy
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You might think that a psychiatrist’s purpose is to help you, but that is not true. Psychiatry as a field of medicine, was created with the intention of protecting society from crazy people. Therefore, it doesn’t really matter what happened to you because they will always spin it in a way that paints you as dangerous. Their training creates this bias and that’s the only thing they see in you. Y...
Intelligence is the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills #intelligence #stupidity
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Very few things will be as useful to you in life as intelligence, which is the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills. This means you can decide to be intelligent if you decide to see everything as an opportunity to learn. Conversely, stupidity is the refusal to learn and the refusal to see your own failures as a choice. Stupid people prefer to play the victim and see successful peop...
No such thing as truth, there is only honesty #truth #lies #honesty #perception #facts #realty
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One more way in which idealism hurts you is that the more you insist on the truth, the bigger the probability that people are gonna lie to you. People dislike conflict, and so they are going to tell you what you want to hear, so you end up creating the very thing that you are running away from. There is no such thing as truth, there is only honest communication about your perception. #truth #li...
Need does not equal potential, potential does not equal reality
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You can waste a lot of time and be overwhelmed with confusion and frustration if you don’t realize that your desperation is creating your failures. It doesn’t matter how much you want to achieve something, how much effort you put into it, or how much you need it. Only actual compatibility will bring results (right place, right time, right person, right skills, right motivation, etc). I realized...
Take control of your life by becoming aware #awareness #subconscious #emotions
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Our perception of reality is a construct based on our senses, our interpretation of our senses, and the feelings that we decide to have based on that interpretation. We take action based on our feelings, and those actions further create events that create feelings. This is the cycle that creates our life and our reality, and our perception of happiness and success. The magical moment when we ha...
Doublespeak: learn how to communicate indirectly #doublespeak #communication #plausibledeniability
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In certain situations it can be useful to communicate using several layers of meaning, so as to hide your intentions, have plausible deniability, make controversial information more palatable, be passive-aggressive, tailor your message to different audiences, etc. I use two examples to explain this language: the “Let’s get together sometime” phrase, and the “I’m sorry you feel that way” phrase....
If you want to be attractive, you need to try harder #beauty #ugliness #effort #limitingbeliefs
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If you want to be attractive, you need to try harder #beauty #ugliness #effort #limitingbeliefs
Idealism is responsible for your limiting beliefs #idealism #limitingbeliefs
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Idealism is responsible for your limiting beliefs #idealism #limitingbeliefs
Acceptance and free will: the key to healing #trauma #healing #egodeath
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Acceptance and free will: the key to healing #trauma #healing #egodeath
Find the bottom line before you hit rock bottom #egodeath #limitingbeliefs #collectivism
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Find the bottom line before you hit rock bottom #egodeath #limitingbeliefs #collectivism
Saving money as a strategy to get rich #money #wealth #value #savingmoney
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Saving money as a strategy to get rich #money #wealth #value #savingmoney
Collectivism creates Drama Triangles #dramatriangle #conflict #collectivism #individualism
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Collectivism creates Drama Triangles #dramatriangle #conflict #collectivism #individualism
The education system is not designed to make you smart #education #intelligence #collectivism
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The education system is not designed to make you smart #education #intelligence #collectivism
Sheltering is a lazy way to parent children #parenting #lifelessons #wisdom
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Sheltering is a lazy way to parent children #parenting #lifelessons #wisdom
Rich people are NOT a$$holes #money #envy #limitingbeliefs
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Rich people are NOT a$$holes #money #envy #limitingbeliefs
How to fake being nice until people like you #fakeit #putyourselffirst #hypocrisy
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How to fake being nice until people like you #fakeit #putyourselffirst #hypocrisy
Become confident by eliminating fear #fear #anxiety #confidence
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Become confident by eliminating fear #fear #anxiety #confidence
How to find your limiting beliefs #happiness #limitingbeliefs #acceptance
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How to find your limiting beliefs #happiness #limitingbeliefs #acceptance
5 groups of people that gained freedom and rights because of capitalism #minorities #capitalism
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5 groups of people that gained freedom and rights because of capitalism #minorities #capitalism
Racism & discrimination are not about skin color, they are about culture and values #discrimination
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Racism & discrimination are not about skin color, they are about culture and values #discrimination
Rejection: give yourself the freedom to not care #rejection #shame #limitingbeliefs
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Rejection: give yourself the freedom to not care #rejection #shame #limitingbeliefs
I think this may also be a video on the concept of gratitude, I haven’t finished it yet. That’s even more impressive if it is.
Why do you think it’s about gratitude?
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Enjoy the weekend Michelle 💟
Erm excuse me are you suggesting I should let go of all my grudges? Jamais!! 😆 Just kidding!! Another excellent and thought-provoking video Chris, am enjoying it while having my coffee. ☺
Coffee and music 😂 I love that song btw 👍🫶
Do you believe that the solution to resentment is forgiveness?
It is fairly common to watch a video with flashy titles, with different lightings on the background and people trying to interpret their text. Decided to hit play and see what’s up and you now have a new subscription. :) awesome content.
It’s funny because I tried that as well. If you watch earlier content on my channel, I used to script my videos, use 3 camera angles, wear makeup, add zoom ins when I edited, etc, and I didn’t get much views and could only do one video every week because of all these steps. Now I write down some basic ideas and hit record and I can do one video almost every day, it’s easier and more enjoyable for me and I also get more views.
Yep, after watching your videos repeatedly, I can safely say that you are a brilliant and wise person Chris.
Thank you for the compliment 🙏🫶
Great video once again. When you touched on external control and how predators target them it makes since. Their well being is tied to the group or that faction and it kind of shows that they care about being seen in a particular light. I think that's why if your internally confident independent of the group it can be quite scary for the other folks in the group to deal with you. Its a interesting concept.
Yep, internal locus of control is basically confidence and believing in yourself.
With everything happening in Hollywood and California, especially with the recent fires 🔥, it really makes you think about celebrity culture and the way we view fame. It seems like there’s this tendency to idolize celebrities in a way that feels overly superficial. We often see these glamorous lives portrayed on social media, but I can’t help but wonder how real those relationships are behind the scenes. Do you have a take on the topic of “Celebrity Culture and Fame” too? It’s very relevant right now as I noticed a decline in seeking fame and “popularity”. 🌟🔥
I am adding it to the list of topics for future videos 👍
Epicurus was here :-)
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Damn,so many insane theories come from a common fear of death. You will die,I will die,death is a part of life. We die. Life ends. We are no better than the rest of the natural world.
True, but it's also true that we are living beings and like the rest of the natural world, the fear of death and fear in general is a mechanism designed to protect us from extinction. Life is only alive if it doesn't die, without the fear of death life wouldn't exist.
maybe a stupid question but is it cold in your house? 😁Have a nice day!
🤣 I don't like winter and summer, I prefer spring and autumn, I'm only comfortable with a very narrow range of temperatures. There are 19ºC right now in the room and I am wearing a hat and gloves and I have a heating blanket in my lap 🤣
@@FreedomAndPeaceChris Hahahahha,thats whats funny,whenever i open your video i ask myself my god where is this women live if she is trying to stay warm in every video🤣🤣🤣 , by the way i cant stand hot weather,i love winter so much
@@milosp4975 It's noon and there are 10ºC outside right now, so it's pretty decent, but it's still not warm enough for me. 😂
Do you take action when circumstances are unfavorable to you, or do you passively abandon yourself and become bitter?
I used to hold this Epicurean view. However every profound experience I have had on psychedelics such DMT has led me to believe, as much as it's possible to be convinced, that conciousness does in fact survive death and we will fully experience the death process. These chemicals obliterated my rather naive certainty that death was the end of conciousness.
The basic mechanism of action of these substances is by altering the perception that reality is "real" and fixed and that we are a separate self. It induces a temporary ego death using a chemical dissociation from our senses. You can achieve the same result by simply becoming aware. It is much more sustainable, healthy and constructive. It is basically what I teach in my videos and why I talk so much about the ego and ego death.
@@FreedomAndPeaceChris Yes I meditate and have seen through the illusion of the self while sober, but I've not yet met anyone who has experienced anything as wild as what DMT has to offer through meditation. I have however read of people who claim to, and I don't doubt it may be possible. I totally agree with you though - psychedelic substances can be excellent tools to show us what is possible with conciousness but our ultimate goal should be to replicate and integrtate these insights in our day-to-day lives.
Attempting to perform a lobotomy on yourself is extremely dangerous and should never be attempted. Lobotomy is a Medical Procedure: Lobotomy is a serious medical procedure that should only be performed by qualified neurosurgeons in a controlled hospital setting. Severe Risks: Performing a lobotomy on yourself would have devastating consequences, including: Severe Brain Damage: You could cause irreversible brain damage, leading to severe cognitive impairment, paralysis, and even death. Infection: There is a high risk of infection during any brain surgery, which could lead to serious complications and even death. Unpredictable Outcomes: The effects of a lobotomy are unpredictable and can vary greatly from person to person.
Should lobotomies and experimentation be the alternative for all forms of capital punishment?
You're wrong about a lot of things but I'm sure you can improve. You talk about capitalism being created recently, but capitalism has been around for as long as humanity has been around. Exchange of value has been around when people still traded chickens for wood, traded protection and safety for sex (we still do), etc. "Collectivism" itself isn't obsolete, it never was real, you have confused the meaning of altruism with collectivism. Humans are not pure individualists, the altruist gene is inside of them or else we wouldn't have "evolved" from living in caves to today. There are a lot of things I could point out but you're basically trying to justify why YOU being an individualist is ok. You try to point out that "unconditional love" usually isn't the case, but love doesn't mean "saying things that I like" it means caring for a person, and if someone cares for you they will try to guide you out of bad decisions, instead of "accepting the way you are".
Yay! You’re making more longer videos! I’m happy to add to your channel’s watch time! 😄
🙏 Thanks so much. Also, some topics are more complex than others and require more time. Some are simpler and require less time. Some other topics are so complex that I will have to split them into several videos.
@ That makes sense!
Do you feel like the creator of your life or do you feel at the mercy of your environment?
Creator
you've been missed!
That is a huge compliment, thanks so much 💜
16:05 that’s a great quote that a lot of people likely don’t realize.
Yeah, it took me a while to get it as well, it's a painful realization.
What an appropriate topic for January. Love it.
🤗 Thanks Victor!
I have a topic, what’s about our relationship with A.I and Technology. Like, will it evolve?
That's a great topic, I'll add it to the list. 👍
@ yes, Science Technology and AI is such a great and relevant topic to discuss. 😃 Like what is it a reflection of humanity or is it something else entirely? 🤷♀️ This topic is SO revealing it may need multiple parts to it than just one video.
@@Vernea2626 I work in IT so I can definitely talk about science, technology and AI 😂
@ Yes 😁 thank you Chris for all the value lessons you have taught!!
Happy New 2025 😍🤩
Thank you for listening to my recommendations. Happy New Year to you too
@@stewpew7354 My pleasure, thank you for the idea 🙏👍
YES! You dropped!
Thanks 🫶
I got a video suggestion how about speak on the government.
Thank you, I will 👍
love your nails and style
I’m actually doing my nails right now 🤣🤣
<3
I hope you wrote down all the requests and video ideas, me and others sent you.
Here are a few extra topics as well: - “Sadness, Guilt, Shame, and Remorse Explained (the Antithesis of Peace/Joy/Happiness)” - “What is Gratitude (not the inauthentic kind)” - “Churches and Religions Explained from Chris’ perspective”
Yup, I started a list, I already had a long list of my own but now I made a separate list of requested topics. I will be posting again every day (almost) starting next Tuesday which is when my vacation ends. 😝😍😎
looking beautiful Chris
Thanks 😝
Freedom and Peace! ❤
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Another awesome short. Straight to the point. 🙏
Awesome ❤❤❤
Thanks 🤗
Now to watch all.of your videos and learn and rewatch and learn and apply ❤
You got this! 🙌
.. at 25 minute mark and hve just got to drop another massive thank you for making this video and sharing your research, experience, intelligence...everything...just...wow....this is probably the most valuable video I have seen all year 🙏
I am very glad you found it helpful! 🫶
Can relate to your video today. Very much on point.
🤗 Thanks for watching and commenting Michelle 🙌
If you unconditionally love your family and your culture, do you feel like they would unconditionally accept you as well if you decided to change?
This depends heavily on a lot of factors. Time will likely say no, since everything is transformative/changing, overall.
I needed to hear this 💖 thank you 🙏
So glad you found it useful ☺
Why are your views dropping
Just how the algorithm works I guess.
Your words come from such an honest place, thank you Chris for sharing your videos, happy holidays to you to. Please keep making more videos that help you and others grow like you are doing.
I definitely will make more videos, thanks so much for watching and commenting. Happy holidays 🥳
How would you define Peace? How would you define Freedom?
Those are very good questions, defining those words deserves a video, thank you 👍
You discuss love, what about a video on hatred and power.
I will definitely make videos about hatred and power!!!
@ I agree, a video explaining your views on the nature of Resentment is recommended.
@@JohnnyGreenvilleResentment is a great topic, thank you for the suggestion.
This is a great video. Make longer videos like these.
Thank you, I'm glad you liked it, I will definitely make more long videos!!
happy holidays Chris! appreciate your videos and your hair looks really nice.
Aww thanks 🤗
How long can someone be their own best friend, without getting tired?
You can’t get tired of yourself, you are the only person who will never leave you. If you feel tired of yourself it means someone taught you to hate yourself.
@ You often glance over the subject of “death” in your videos, particularly in relation to time. What does death mean to you? Do you believe in an afterlife, or do you think everything just magically ends? If you discuss death and explain why you view it as an ‘end-all-be-all’ event for a video, I might understand why you perceive time the way you do; as a deterministic, absolute, independent phenomenon. This maybe a dark video suggestion, but “what is death to you”?
I love the suggestion, I will definitely make a video about death soon. Thank you 🫶🙏
Hey! I think a video about government could be super fun! There’s just so much happening around us that affects our daily lives, right? I love how you can dive into topics that really matter to people!
That’s a good topic 👍 Thanks for the idea !!
@@FreedomAndPeaceChris ok, then talk on bureaucracies.
Happy holidays 🏂 Gift yourself the gift of self-love this Christmas 💝
Happy holidays to you too
@@Vernea2626Thanks 🤗