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Craft Room Redo Pt 6 "EXPANDING" my craft room/Office
Hello Friends,
Well that didn't take long! I outgrew my area and have taken over another part of the apartment! My dinning room is now my office and my craft room will solely be for arts and crafts! WHEW! And I'm no where near done! 🤔 How much space does my hubby need to live here with me?... Only time will tell ...Muhahahahaha!!!
((((HUGS))))
Jody
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Відео

Life and Business update. Health, Filming, Future Plans and more!
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Hello Friends, I thought I would do a little sit down with you and give you an update as to what has and will possibly be happening...and why. This is a long and chatty video so if you are interested, grab a cup of coffee and let's chat for a hour! If you want to just listen and not watch you will hear me say things like medicaid instead of medicare...I boo bood .. but you will get the gist of ...
Redoing my Craftroom My Dailyish Struggle & Willowing Spirit
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A quick look at my craft room redo process.
Craft Room Redo pt 5!! Closet, Journaling pens and Markers, oh my!
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Hello Friends!!! Well we made it to the closet FINALY!! Is it done? NO... But then I haven't opened all my boxes. But it's a start. I had to move to other things on my list in a bigger, air flowing room... So I sorted and organized journaling pens (does one need so many pens? 👀... yup!) and markers. Those wretched white marker holders have been sent to Goodwill, hopefully someone else will love...
Craft Room Redo pt 4
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Dear Friends, LET THE MAHEM BEGING!!!! I must create chaos to find a calm place, that's my story and I'm sticking to it! Come along as I move furniture and chat while playing Tetris in my head. I hope you find this video inspiring if not a bit quirky. ((((HUGS)))) Jody
Pantry Organization
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Hello Friends, Since we live in a very small apartment I do not have space in my kitchen for a pantry, or really holding any groceries. So I purchased a pantry when we moved here and just shoved food in it... well it's time now to organize it! We had to move it as we are turning our dinning room into a second office...expanding my craft room and business into the rest of the apartment... no pla...
Craft Room pt 3 Setting up my Art Filming Desk
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And so it continues... Setting up my art filming desk as part of my Craft room redo...Pt 3. I hope this inspires you and that you enjoy the process. ((((HUGS)))) Jody All items found on Amazon Beusoulover Quick Release Plate Victiv storeTripod for camera, 72" tall Neewer 6" camera suction cup mount VIJIM LSO8 Flexible overhead camera mount NEEWER overhead Camera mount Rig for top down shot Cano...
Home Blessings- Cleaning my Bathroom
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Just a quick clean up in my messy bathroom to get the day started! Oh, and I show you my new bedroom items as well as rant about tech laden washer and dryer... me vs tech.... spoiler tech wins the day and I go old school. Gotta get the job done and move on, peeps. No music was used today.😉 ((((HUGS)))) Jody
Craft Room Redo pt 2
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Hello Friends!! AND IT STARTS! The opening of boxes and putting craft supplies away. I am so excited to be reminded of what I have left after my big purge before the move. Even more excited to get using my supplies again! Nothing is where it will ultimately go, I am putting where I think I want it, later I will organize according to space required and ease of use. I hope this inspires you to go...
Home Reset while still surrounded by boxes!
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Let's do a home reset even though I am wading through boxes for my Craft Room Redo! No matter the situation you can still do a base reset which will make all the difference in the world! ((((HUGS)))) Jody Music from Epidemic Sound Summer Love by Kylie Dailey www.epidemicsound.com/track/CFewTkhCEh/
Craft Room Redo!! pt 1...
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Hello Friends!! It is Autumn time!! YAY!!!!! With the changing of the leaves and of my entire life situation, I have decided to embark on a transformation of my craft room/ office. This will be a series of videos that will show you my process of finding my happy place, creating a space where I can work all day and into the night without thinking 'this place needs...'. I will be organizing, purg...
Home Blessings/ Bedroom and Nightstand Cleanup
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Hello Friends! I'm finally feeling better from our last trip to Ga and getting sick... so let's get my bedroom and nightstand cleaned up so I can continue to get better and find a restful spot. I hope you enjoy and get inspired to clean up an area you have put off for some time! My nightstand was a nightmare! Let's change that. ((((HUGS)))) Jody
Best Layed Plans.... Our Georgia storage clear out trip!
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We started off strong and with a good plan.... then reality kicked our butt. We rolled with the punches and survived to tell the tale. That's all I got for this long, rambling video. Enjoy. 🥵🤪🤧= our trip ((((HUGS)))) Jody Music by www.epidemicsound.com
Deep Clean and Organize Lower Half of my Kitchen! No talking, just music.
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Hello Friends, Welcome to my kitchen today. I am doing a deep clean and organize on just the lower half of the kitchen as not everything has to be done all to once. Baby steps. I could have done just one cabinet, but frankly, I don't have that much in may kitchen so the whole lower half it is! I hope you get inspired and enjoy the video and music! ((((HUGS)))) Jody Music www.epidemicsound.com
Gatlinburg, TN (drive through and lunch), and a small Hobby Lobby haul.
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Gatlinburg, TN (drive through and lunch), and a small Hobby Lobby haul.
My Hodgepodge Life
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My Hodgepodge Life
August 2024 Haul Plus! A bit of cleaning...
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August 2024 Haul Plus! A bit of cleaning...
Journaling and August Schedule set up. Be "selfish" for your health and well being.
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Journaling and August Schedule set up. Be "selfish" for your health and well being.
Cleaning, Clearing my mind and Moving on from a toxic situation.
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Cleaning, Clearing my mind and Moving on from a toxic situation.
Trials and Errors; Organizing 1 drawer at a time until it feels right.
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Trials and Errors; Organizing 1 drawer at a time until it feels right.
A week in my life plus a first time Bucee's trip!
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A week in my life plus a first time Bucee's trip!
New Upload Day.
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New Upload Day.
What does the first month of a total life change look like? Chaos to (almost) calm.
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What does the first month of a total life change look like? Chaos to (almost) calm.
A much needed (quick) beach vacation!
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A much needed (quick) beach vacation!
(Nearly) Complete apartment HAUL! Furniture, Decor and More!
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(Nearly) Complete apartment HAUL! Furniture, Decor and More!
We moved...again. New apartment tour.
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We moved...again. New apartment tour.
The move to Tennessee
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The move to Tennessee
Did the house sell?
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Did the house sell?
Empty house, final days before move.
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Empty house, final days before move.
Let the PURGE and PACK begin!!
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Let the PURGE and PACK begin!!

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @sadimontoya965
    @sadimontoya965 3 дні тому

    I feel you with the moving crap 😂😂😂

  • @Digitv4free214
    @Digitv4free214 11 днів тому

    Good morning from Houston Texas!

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 10 днів тому

      Good Evening!! Never been to Houston! Thank you for stopping by and saying hi!

  • @introvert22
    @introvert22 15 днів тому

    You have taken on a big job. I recently re did my craft room and it took two weeks.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 10 днів тому

      2 weeks? Oh I only wish...but then again I'm unpacking other boxes as well and taking it very slowly, to my husband's dismay as he trips over the piles. LOL! I hope you love your craft room even half as much as I miss my crafts! Thanks for the comment!

  • @scrappypedsdoc
    @scrappypedsdoc 22 дні тому

    Cant hear anything but music. it is very distracting. I am interested in your video and want to watch but I dont want to listen to music.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 21 день тому

      I'm in the process of learning and am currently working out all the editing. Thank you for your comment.

  • @sandraramirez6116
    @sandraramirez6116 24 дні тому

    Thanks for sharing. I could only watch 10 min of it because the music in the background is making me sleepy. It’s too calming.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 23 дні тому

      Hmmm...I will try to not be so relaxing next time ☺️. I'm still working out music themes, it takes time. Thank you for watching though!

  • @lena_antonsen
    @lena_antonsen 26 днів тому

    Loved the video, and you have a wonderful craft room. But can I come with a wish? Please don’t play music when you talk, I had to turn off the sound and turn the texting on. Not the way I like to watch a video 😕

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 25 днів тому

      YES! And thank you! No-one ever told me they didn't like it. You may find coming videos with it that way as I do film ahead a bit, but the ones I haven't posted yet I will go in and re-edit them.

  • @44hopeful
    @44hopeful 26 днів тому

    Very nice job rearranging your room! I hope your finger heals quickly 😊. Looking forward to seeing how your office turns out 😊

  • @tishspirationstation2845
    @tishspirationstation2845 29 днів тому

    Impressive. It was hard to hear you over the music when you talked, but the transcript helped. Don't be so down on yourself, I know it is a hard habit to break, but I am harder on myself than I should be. Talk to yourself like you are your friend, or even if you talk to your plants, give yourself little pep talks like that to help break the habit. Love the new desk. I would TOTALLY get those doors taken down, I have a few removed here, and I do not miss them. You did a LOT!!! Can't wait for the next one. I have my office, craft corner, and living room all in the same space. It is a challenge, and I need to dedicate some time to finishing the craft purge and organization of the whole space. Way to go! You are making me want to get to it!

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 25 днів тому

      Thank you for your comments!! And I will be re-editing some videos before they go up to cut the music. If you do hear in in some coming videos, I am sorry, they have already been scheduled and I can't redo them. 😕. As for your space, I hope I have and will be inspiring you to find creative ways to organize and arrange things! ❤️

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee Місяць тому

    Woot! For getting done early! You have inspired me to get busy on my list.

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee Місяць тому

    I thought that little foot move was totally cute! It made me giggle. And I was impressed at your agility - keep going, it is all about health, and you are obviously on the right road. Huggzzz for the injury but stuff happens, and you got it done! Can’t wait for part 2. It is gonna be a studio to die for!

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle Місяць тому

      Thank You!!! LOL I might just die for it if I don't start paying attention and be careful! I am finding everything in my life runs on slow right now...ugh. Pt 2 is already scheduled and craft room redo will be on Tuesdays the home and or travels stuff on Thursdays for the moment. ;)

  • @sarahriddick9375
    @sarahriddick9375 2 місяці тому

    I appreciate you keeping it real

  • @sarahriddick9375
    @sarahriddick9375 2 місяці тому

    How is it going with your room now it is almost be a year for year right now

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 2 місяці тому

      Well... Look at some of the more recent videos and you will see...sadly.. we had to sell the house, I had to get rid of a ton of crafts and we now live in a little apartment in Tennessee. BUT! we are soon going to pick up what is in storage and I will be organizing a whole new craft room! Much smaller but I do have less stuff. 🤷‍♀️ Maybe it will fit? We will see! Thank you for watching and your comments!

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 2 місяці тому

    I love when paper is upcycled, especially journal books!!! I hate to throw them out!

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 2 місяці тому

      Amen... gives me guilt and then if I do throw it away I will need it for something. LOL!

  • @punkidunk
    @punkidunk 2 місяці тому

    I have to commend you, because I am just like you, and I also have a tendency to want to keep every little thing. I am going through the planning stage of moving my craft room. I am currently in a 10x10 room. It triples as a home office, toy room for my grandchildren, and my craft room. We are going to convert the garage into a craft studio and a workshop for my husband. My side of the garage will be shared with the laundry and spare fridge, also having to be mindful of the pull-down attic access door. I love the way you broke down the small items into tubs. That is a very helpful idea. I think that I will borrow that one! Thank you for the encouragement that you gave, and the incentive to do a little something every day! We have to lift each other up and hopefully it will help someone along the way!!👏👏👏

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 2 місяці тому

      Thank YOU for your reply! Yes we do have to start lifting everyone up! You are free to borrow anything you want from my videos! I am still in the "what's the perfect organization style for me" stage. It changes all the time according to my temperament. LOL! Keep an eye out for my current craft room organizational videos starting sometime in September. As we have moved, most of my supplies are in storage and will be back with me by September 1. All new storage and organization to come! BTW...I think craft rooms should become as manditory as bathrooms in homes...Let's start a movement! 😉

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 2 місяці тому

    I call that a “log jam”, when you have something constantly blocking progress - you have cleared a lot of log jams recently!!! Inspiring 💜👏🌟

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 2 місяці тому

      Thank you and yes I have!!! But dang, the universe keeps sending forests of logs in my direction right now!! LOL! And where does all my stuff come from? I swear it multiples and parties over night and I'm the one woman cleanup crew. 🤷‍♀️ Answer is Amazon... Amazon it my downfall. LOL!

    • @999lizzybee
      @999lizzybee 2 місяці тому

      @@Mydailyishstruggle I hear you!!! Too easy to push that button, especially in times of stress 😱😱😱I can’t believe some of the stuff I have bought and still in the box or not used as planned 🤦‍♀️

  • @vntofu
    @vntofu 3 місяці тому

    i hope everything goes well for you, and also looking forward to your art channel! i think layered hair with curtain bangs would look good on you 🙂

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 3 місяці тому

      Thank You! I'm thinking that too, now to get the nerve up to start chopping... eee!

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 3 місяці тому

    You have made such progress! Such a cute little place. So glad hubs got the job, you must both be so relieved!

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 3 місяці тому

      Oh my word we are thrilled!!! Thank you! I am really loving having a small place to live and it truly is a nice place all around.

  • @kerricicolani4524
    @kerricicolani4524 3 місяці тому

    I love the pantry!

  • @lhale9176
    @lhale9176 3 місяці тому

    Its a process...it takes time to undo the chaos...into a more peaceful space....its so worth it...never give up.....keep moving forward.✌️👍💪

  • @athomeinaz5421
    @athomeinaz5421 3 місяці тому

    Your apartment is looking really cute. I really like that pantey and the chest of drawers in your office.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 3 місяці тому

      The pantry is awesome! I'm still in love with the concept of the chest of drawers but I think they are really more for show or long term items where you don't have to get into it often. every other day I'm having issues with the drawers opening and closing. ugh. LOL! But they are so cute!!!! I'd buy them again...

  • @SimpleLife365
    @SimpleLife365 3 місяці тому

    Beautiful cross 🤍

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 4 місяці тому

    Congrats! Sorry that the MIL was a problem - but what price independence, eh?

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 4 місяці тому

      Amen to that! It is all working out well, we truly are enjoying this new home so far! ❤️

    • @SimpleLife365
      @SimpleLife365 3 місяці тому

      @@MydailyishstruggleCongratulations and blessings in the new home. Everything looks lovely! I have found it is usually best for everyone to keep their nests separate and to fly in to visit or help. Seems to keep feathers from getting ruffled. ☺️ Enjoy your next adventure.

  • @amiw9339
    @amiw9339 4 місяці тому

    ❤congratulations 🎈 the haters gonna hate ! Everyone is free to move around and live in their peace ! 1 persons experience won’t be yours ! Welcome from Dekalb Co Tn !❤

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 4 місяці тому

      Amen! But I do like hearing from haters qs they may have had bad experiences and it gives me a heads up if their experience was because they hit a bad area. I hated living in GA and especially Atlanta but others LOVE living there. 🤷‍♀️ To each their own I guess. 😉

  • @movinngroovin2104
    @movinngroovin2104 4 місяці тому

    Love Tennessee we have lived here almost three years we left NC taxed us to death . You will love Tennessee rolling hills and farm land. We live in a small area just beautiful.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 4 місяці тому

      We just got a place outside of Pigeon Forge and it is much better than Atlanta all around.

  • @wanderingweh405
    @wanderingweh405 4 місяці тому

    welcome home -from middle TN

  • @bishopsease1
    @bishopsease1 4 місяці тому

    Wrong move to Tennessee... oh you about to have an adventure alright. Not the kind you thinking

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 4 місяці тому

      Do tell! Thus far I have found it good. But I've been busy moving then moving again.

  • @dolliedoty8907
    @dolliedoty8907 4 місяці тому

    That music😮

  • @athomeinaz5421
    @athomeinaz5421 5 місяців тому

    It looks beautiful there. Hope your hubby has good luck with the job hunt.

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 5 місяців тому

    So glad for you! Well, except the sick part - feel better soon! And good luck with the job hunt, hubby!

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 6 місяців тому

    Sooooo happy to hear this! Can’t wait for your next installment!!!

  • @jenniferduarte-hernandez775
    @jenniferduarte-hernandez775 6 місяців тому

    New Subscriber here. It’s ok to grieve & be human. Keep your chin up. God blesses the faithful & I would say 30yr is more than faithful. Pray & read God’s word, you’d be amazed at the unexplainable peace that reading His promises & faithfulness brings. He is a just God who does not abandon His children! I will be following your journey & praying for strength, resilience & peace for your family.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 6 місяців тому

      Thank you for the subscription and the kind words. Yes, our faith is strong and we believe God has bigger plans for us in the future! ❤️

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 6 місяців тому

    Impressive! You have done a GREAT job. You two are unstoppable - better days are ahead.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 6 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! I appreciate that and we believe so as well!

  • @camillemccraw
    @camillemccraw 6 місяців тому

    Wow! Excellent job!

  • @tammylee6141
    @tammylee6141 7 місяців тому

    I went through this a year and a half ago. Being laid off due to downsizing. It broke my heart bc I worked so hard, I felt lost, scared, and it really messed with my self esteem. I see your face and know that lost, hurt, confused look. I went through a couple of lesser paying jobs until I found one much better than the one I lost. Started last week. I hope you can get some sleep. You have each other and I hope that helps. It’s hard starting over at 56 for me but it can be done. I’m a new subscriber and will be along for your journey. Also, I started journaling when I first lost my job and I like to look back and see the hard fought progress I’ve made. I’m just sorry for your loss.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      I'm sorry you experienced this too and Thank you for your comment, it means a lot and gives us hope. Journaling! Yes. Because we are moving in with MIL I purchased LOCKING journals. One for my sanity (I might need a few), one for our finances and one for my work plans. Even as a child I didn't own locking journals. This move to MIL's will, I am finding, be one of the biggest hurdles and a time I will be focusing on God, marriage and work. I will be bench pressing Buicks in my sleep I will be so strong after this trials and tribulations time. 😉❤️

  • @happymeihls1484
    @happymeihls1484 7 місяців тому

    There should be a law against this type of betrayal.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      Sadly they would find a way to make it worse if there were laws against this stuff. There are always loopholes. ❤️

  • @marcia6722
    @marcia6722 7 місяців тому

    I just subscribed. I am sorry for your struggle. Thank you for being real.

  • @athomeinaz5421
    @athomeinaz5421 7 місяців тому

    New subscriber here. So sorry to hear about your husband's job loss. It is difficult. 31 years ago my husband was fired from his job, i only worked part time and we had a 2 and 8 year old. We had no savings ir credit cards. We lost everything... Moved to a new state with $1200 to our name. The Lord was faithful and we made it... We were never rixh but we made it. My advice is to put your faith and trust in the Lord. Blessings and I will pray for you.

  • @camillemccraw
    @camillemccraw 7 місяців тому

    do you have an emergency fund?

  • @gmateri67mc39
    @gmateri67mc39 7 місяців тому

    You’re doing amazing keep going

  • @gmateri67mc39
    @gmateri67mc39 7 місяців тому

    My heart aches for you but you both seem to have your heads screwed on tight you’ll be ok I will pray for you both! But I’d still see a lawyer he had to sign under extreme distress

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      Thank you. Yes we spoke with a lawyer and there is nothing more we can do. But all is not lost, even though it feels like it at moments, as we are seeing a brighter future than we thought we could. We are looking at this bump in the road as mini (some jagged some smooth) mountains and as long as we don't go crazy we will get to our much better and new life looking forward to ( I made my hubs promise me a big beautiful craft room in the new place) a fresh start. I told him to buy stock in IKEA before then because when I get to that point THIS CHIC WILL SHOP! ❤️😉

  • @sjordan7085
    @sjordan7085 7 місяців тому

    After dealing with sorting possessions of five family members who all died within eighteen months I can certainly sympathize with what you are doing. I am now sorting boxes of items I had shipped from the UK, for the last couple of years, I did not have the physical, emotional or mental abilty to handle the job due to serious medical issues. Recently, I started sorting. Progress is being made, albeit slowly, and I am exhausted lifting heavy items without help, Social Security doesn't make paying someone feasible, it is what it is. My goal is to have a clean and tidy and simplified home. You are doing a great job!

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry for all your losses! You are in my prayers. Yes it is exhausting sorting things and feeling emotions you thought were long gone. Decision fatigue is a real thing and I hit that the other day. But we must persevere because the alternatives are worse. My hubs and I have decided that we have lived long enough with tons of stuff. I kept somethings that are now in storage that I wish I had just donated, BUT!, I will look forward to selling them when we buy our new house. 😉

  • @maryl234
    @maryl234 7 місяців тому

    Fired or laid off? It's pretty common to be cut/laid off like that. Happened to a friend of mine the year before he was planning on taking social security and retiring. In Massachusetts we have MassHealth for medical insurance for low income. You're in Georgia? www.benefits.gov/benefit/1626 What is income eligibility for SNAP? Food pantries help. Utility discounts - call gas/electric. Have a huge yard sale and purge - you don't want the cost of moving junk..and get the smallest storage and pack it full - storage units are a total waste of money. It's a new start - jump in! You don't have a choice so go with it. I've been through mulltiple layoffs and financial ruin. Don't waste too much of you life grieving or life will pass you by is my best advice. Out with the old! Minimalism is freedom!

  • @kathryn653
    @kathryn653 7 місяців тому

    This is heartbreaking. Prayers from Japan❤

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 7 місяців тому

    Also: you can get far more done in small bursts - so naps are important self-care, and will fuel your progress while helping your body deal with the exertion. You are On Your Way!

    • @sjordan7085
      @sjordan7085 7 місяців тому

      I agree, but personally, I also needed to slow down in life. I gave up, volunteering, and have eliminated actiivities other than walking my little dog, or cycling. I discoved that being distracted by too much business is not productive. Speaking of dumpsters, they are shockingly expensive to hire. I counted a total of eleven at one family member's home. They had lived in the same house for more than sixty years. People in the UK who lived through two World Wars did not part with anything they considered to be useful and/or of value. For instance they used parts from one lawn mower to repair another, nothing was ever wasted. I work on sorting something every day, without pushing myself to do as much as possible, or keep to a time schedule. I am thankful to be able to work without pressure from anyone.

  • @999lizzybee
    @999lizzybee 7 місяців тому

    Amazing, impressive progress, both physically & emotionally - inspiring!

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      Thank you! It isn't easy nor will it be smooth going but I believe that as long as my hubby and I stop periodically and talk and readjust our plan we will get through this with minimal bumps, bruises and long term hard feelings! So far, so good!

  • @KeepingITreal24-7
    @KeepingITreal24-7 7 місяців тому

    New subscriber. Keep your head up beautiful. One day at a time. You got this! 💪🏼💚🌻

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much!! I'm trying and thank you for subscribing!

    • @KeepingITreal24-7
      @KeepingITreal24-7 7 місяців тому

      @@Mydailyishstruggle you bet sweets!! If I can help in any way pls let me know. I know I am a stranger on YT but your story hit home with me just know YOU GOT THIS ONE DAY AT A TIME. 🫶🏼💪🏼🙏🏼🫂

  • @solomonrivers5639
    @solomonrivers5639 7 місяців тому

    I knew of a situation in an “employee” owned company. One of the early employees passed away suddenly leaving a huge chunk of company stock to his wife. Being good Christian men, they held a board meeting where they conspired and passed a motion that would dilute the share price, and since the widow wasn’t an employee she was forced to sell the shares back to the company at an extremely low rate. This was the wife of a man who had literally helped found the company. The owner knew this woman for 30+ years and pulled that crap during the worst season of her life. Everyone wants to think employee owned businesses are this wonderful equitable thing. They even use it to advertise on packaging. But humans are humans, and humans suck. My advice: Be loud. Post on social media tagging the company. Get on the news. Screwing your husband will cost them less than bad publicity. And see if his shares entitle him voting rights within the company and take advantage of them if he has them. Sorry you are going through this

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      My husband is not a man to make waves and he believes in what you do to others will come back on you 10 fold. We will be fine financially, not as well as if they hadn't done all they did but we will be ok. I don't typically get in his business or tell him what to do, but he agreed me using his situation to inform others and maybe inspire others to watch their finances or tell them they will be ok if they are going through similar things is what my purpose is here. I get emotional, I am human, and scared, but I will not let some of these people who feel I am lying or not being as truthful as I can be run me off this channel. I have reached more people in a positive way than in a negative way. We are blessed to be in our decent position and I need to remind myself and my husband of that daily. Thank you for your comment. ❤️

  • @TheBlazeboy69
    @TheBlazeboy69 7 місяців тому

    He should have never signed to get his $$$. That is the lynch pin where you guys sort of blew apart your options. Labor atty's that specializes in ESOP's are easily accessible and work on small retainers. The fact he acquired more stock than his Mgr, and he got fired for that? That is extremely unlikely..

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      I'm sure it isn't the only reason ( if it is the reason) but quiet hearsay at the office is it did play a part in the whole thing. But the biggest thing that they actually told him during the firing is that he made too much money for his position and they are downsizing the division he was in. He left this company years sago to see if he could make it outside of their safety net, ( he did and did very well but you remember 2008?) they allowed you to do this once and come back within a certain period of time with no consequences to leaving, as in they didn't say ok you left for a year so you start at the bottom when you come back. They took his ESOP and put in in an account on hold for 5 years and the stock prices were very high at that point, he was gone for 1 year and 4 months and he negotiated his way back into the company when he saw things going south in 2008 and he was put on salary instead of hourly. Then he took the money in the bank and bought as many shares as he could in 2008 when they were at their lowest in 30 years.You see where this is going, he owned more shares than the vast majority of the company. It is a privately owned company so there is no buying and selling shares at your leisure. Then he continued yearly to buy shares until he was fully vested. Now he has years plus age and that should have gotten him his ESOP asap. HOWEVER, they said they are giving it to him based on what it is worth this year, which means he does not see the money until next year after their financial review. Yes I agree he should have contacted a lawyer but he didn't. He felt cornered as we live essentially paycheck to paycheck on a zero balance budget. We have no debt other than mortgage but we did kinda go crazy in living comfortably with extras that crept up over the years. We made that mistake and are paying for it now. But we will be fine financially in the long run. Now our long term question is do we want to invest next year in building our own business up or do we want to diversify the money and not "retire" from working for another company. Or split it and do both? Neither of us knows anything about diversifying and Hubby's Money man works for the company so we are on the hunt for another person too. I'm not attempting to gain sympathy in doing these videos as I have been accused of, I am reacting emotionally to the situation and trying to inform and inspire others to not see the glass as half empty. But I'm human if people couldn't tell. This channel was for cleaning and organizing but I guess this is the ultimate cleaning and organizing challenge that someone could face. 😏 Thank you for your comment.

    • @TheBlazeboy69
      @TheBlazeboy69 7 місяців тому

      @Mydailyishstruggle ok so what I am hearing is the universe is telling, well screaming at him to make a change. That company doesn't give AF about him..nor does mine. Been an engineer here for 20 yrs. I am amazed my key card works on a Monday sometimes.

  • @bhp123654
    @bhp123654 7 місяців тому

    It's great that you have each other; dealing with this alone is significantly worse.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      Thank you. Yes we are VERY blessed to not only have each other but we balance each other out well. We have our moments, of course, but I am glad we get along well enough and give each other grace periods to vent and calm down then talk things through. We survived my daughters battle with cancer so this is a walk in the park...albeit sometimes the park is dark and cold with unknown fears lurking in the shadows...LOL. We will make it though to the end ultimately. Thank you for your comment. ❤️

  • @DJProphetNM
    @DJProphetNM 7 місяців тому

    Something tells me you are not being completely forthcoming or maybe not fully informed as to the reasoning for his firing. Either way, focus on solutions rather than excuses. You have my empathy but not my sympathy. Looks like you're living better than 90 percent of the planet, so maybe instead of coming on UA-cam with a sob story, you should probably go on Indeed and find a job. Best of luck.

    • @zeballos5757
      @zeballos5757 7 місяців тому

      I’ve never been on this channel before it popped up in my feed today, but your comment is over the top rude. So stfu and just hope this doesn’t happen to you in the future. There’s a good chance that might happen for you too. It’s called Karma, for your crappy comment.

    • @MannyTalaveraCoaching
      @MannyTalaveraCoaching 7 місяців тому

      No details or amounts on the severance package or how much is in the 401K. My guess is the 401K is substantial and the PERSON controls the 401K not the EMPLOYER. They can not hold his money until 2025. Just not how it works at all. And what about the equity in the house? Sucks this person lost his job but they are still way better off than most people

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      I'm not looking for sympathy at all, I am looking to bring information and give hope to those going through what we are right now. I have been looking for a regular job and have interviewed many times, but I'm not qualified for many things so I came started this UA-cam channel to inspire people and reach out to make connections. I never claimed to be living in poverty or even close. I have in the past lived in my car and in a room at the back of the salon I worked at with 2 kids while working 3 jobs and getting a divorce from an abusive husband. I know poverty, pain and being one of the unfortunate people in this world, and I worked very hard to just feed my kids. After getting my own place so my kids had a place to safely lay their heads at night I met the man I am married to now. I still worked 2 jobs at that point and he worked 2 jobs as well. We are both very hard workers however my genetics have torn my body apart and I am not in a position to "go get a job" as you seem to think I need to do. So I created my own company, and this last year my husband and I created a second company. They are small but growing and I am about to pick up work writing blogs. I'm not great at grammar or spelling some days and I have essential tremors so there are days I can't even brush my teeth without help, My husband has had to help me use utensil at times, so tell me again how I "just" need to go on indeed and get a job. My husband has been unemployed now 7 business days and he has gotten up every morning and has had to deal with legal stuff, ins, references, resumes, job hunting, unemployment paperwork, and many more things that will ultimately get him working again. Yes we are of the privlaged 10% of this country and ultimately we will be fine, as I keep stating, but that does not make it less shocking to lose a job after 30 years. I am here to inspire and uplift people in their lives, that doesn't mean I'm not human and can't show emotion. I am here to keep things real in relatively real time. Thank you for your comment but I need neither you sympathy or your "just do it" attitude when you clearly have not grasped the entire situation. Have a blessed day and go do something nice for someone in the world.

    • @Mydailyishstruggle
      @Mydailyishstruggle 7 місяців тому

      I have stated many times that financially we will be ok. We do not have credit cards, we live by what we make alone. Yes we will be selling the house and hopefully making enough money to be comfortable until my husband gets a job. Yes the ESOP and 401k will put us in a position of being able to retire happy but we don't control the ESOP, the company does and until they cash that out and put that money into our 401k we don't have anything but what's in the bank, which at the moment is $84 because we live on a zero balance and zero debt life and put everything into our future. Only debt we have is our mortgage and we have been paying on that for 12 years. We did take money out of our 401k the other day but that hasn't gotten to us yet, it is enough to make do until we sell the house. The severance package from what I understand will be given to us either this week or doled out over the next 8 weeks, we are waiting to see what they actually do. It is 8 weeks of pay plus vacation pay. Again, I have stated we will be fine ultimately, last week was just a a blow to our immediate financial situation as I had paid all the bills for the month and then there was only about $400 left in our account. I was not looking to gain sympathy in my videos, I was looking to show people what we are doing and how we are handling this situation and maybe help others stay calm and upbeat but have grace and know they will experience waves of emotions that normally you don't associate with a job loss. Thank you for your comment.

    • @zeballos5757
      @zeballos5757 7 місяців тому

      @@Mydailyishstruggle these people are rude. Too bad you felt the need to explain yourself, but it was good of you to reply.