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Dear Mother - A short film about toxic mothers
This is my final major project for UAL level 3 Media. This is a 10 minute short film about toxic mothers.
This idea coming from my own experiences, as well as others. I wanted to bring light to this subject which I feel is overlook, and the effects it can have on people.
Cast
The mother is played by Aneta Robak
[Email - aneta.robak91@gmail.com]
The daughter is played by Lauren Mooney
[Email - ​laurenmooney@btinternet.com]
Music
The Hungry ghost - UA-cam Library
[UA-cam channel -I think I can Help You]
Joachim Heinrich - Stjärna
[UA-cam channel - BLUME]
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Відео

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Making a silhouette in After Effects (cowboy side profile)
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In this video I show how I turned my green screen footage into a silhouette using After Effects
Lost in the woods (cottage core) ambient loop - Farrah Harvey
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This is my final product for my ambient loop animation project.
The Device (Film)
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The Device (Film)
moving leaf animation (acid warp)
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moving leaf animation (acid warp)
falling 3D animation
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falling 3D animation
rainbow cat (recap)
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rainbow cat (recap)
Blinking cat (year 1 Recap)
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Blinking cat (year 1 Recap)
X ray phone
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X ray phone
Spider Gump 2 (gumpin')
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Spider Gump 2 (gumpin')
Furry cube
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Furry cube
slow motion
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slow motion
based on a true story (2 week film project) - Farrah Harvey
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based on a true story (2 week film project) - Farrah Harvey
Sun and Cloud - by Farrah Harvey
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Sun and Cloud - by Farrah Harvey
My first rotoscope
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My first rotoscope
Trooper Beer turn table
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Trooper Beer turn table
dark soul advert
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dark soul advert
Farrah's sound project - UP
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Farrah's sound project - UP
Sun and cloud Animation
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Sun and cloud Animation
EXTREME CLOSE UP
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EXTREME CLOSE UP
P O V
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P O V
DUTCH TILT
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DUTCH TILT
CONTRA ZOOM
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CONTRA ZOOM
PAN
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PAN
LOW ANGLE
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LOW ANGLE
HIGH ANGLE
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HIGH ANGLE
CLOSE UP DEEP
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CLOSE UP DEEP
CLOSE UP SHALLOW
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CLOSE UP SHALLOW

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @christinacramp
    @christinacramp 2 дні тому

    The fight is practicly word for word of what i had with my own mother. Absolutely great work

  • @XenXen_Ec-k5f
    @XenXen_Ec-k5f 15 днів тому

    this situation is so reatable. Im just 13 and its like a non stop cycle, if i would tell my mom would be pissed and start guilt tripping me like the last time, but i dont think i can take it anymore.

  • @mdalizakaria9563
    @mdalizakaria9563 18 днів тому

    Nothing to say 😅 It was always happened and still happening 😊😂

  • @k_dee9168
    @k_dee9168 18 днів тому

    Cute. That is considered toxic? You haven't met my mom 😂😂😂

  • @mishmacD26
    @mishmacD26 2 місяці тому

    Scapegoat’s are also Truth Teller’s. Some of us are neglected and ignored, no effort wasted on us. We have this to be grateful for bc if we can brake free we still have our Souls and remnants of an identity. My siblings have neither Souls or identities. Marianne swallowed them up and they are her minime’s. No contact is the only way to begin to heal imo.

  • @messinalyle4030
    @messinalyle4030 2 місяці тому

    I have mild prosopagnosia, or "face blindness". Are there two adult women in this film--one who treats the girl lovingly and the other who is toxic? Or are they the same and we're supposed to realize the relationship has changed over time? If there are two mother figures, then my impression is that she tells the first one (presumably her stepmother?) that she'll see her next week. I assume she stays with her dad and her stepmom on weekends. Then when she goes home to her birth mother, her birth mother accuses her of "thinking she's too good for her now," and I assume that that word "now" means that something has changed about their living situation. Presumably because the parents have divorced and the stepmother has entered the girl's life, showing her a more loving mother-daughter relationship than her birth-mother is willing to provide for her. BM would rather feel jealous, blame the girl and probably the stepmother, and guilt the girl into putting up with it than change her ways.

  • @felllla4512
    @felllla4512 2 місяці тому

    ouhh😊

  • @felllla4512
    @felllla4512 2 місяці тому

    ouhh

  • @Daughterofthemosthigh02
    @Daughterofthemosthigh02 3 місяці тому

    I wanna leave.

  • @byaprilnda
    @byaprilnda 3 місяці тому

    Everything is real, except that if I leave I wouldn't stop, he replaces me with my brother and that's it, they get along better.

  • @kostascholas8751
    @kostascholas8751 4 місяці тому

    So narcissistic and self centered.

  • @rabit_bookshelf
    @rabit_bookshelf 4 місяці тому

    She laugted didn't she. Please somone tell me she didnt 😭

  • @Skoviet71
    @Skoviet71 5 місяців тому

    3:10 THIS!!! when they play as the victims and try to make you feel guilty so that they get to have an excuse for shouting at you.

  • @ameerhamza6386
    @ameerhamza6386 5 місяців тому

    I am 23 years old but my mother never talked to me

  • @TwerkingJelly
    @TwerkingJelly 5 місяців тому

    "I am your mother" is such an awful sentence for so many people and it is just so sad

  • @collinhackett5582
    @collinhackett5582 5 місяців тому

    I've been through something like this against my toxic stepmother. 😥😥 Now I'm in a happy and better place and back with my mother who actually cares about me.

  • @Trissydoesart
    @Trissydoesart 6 місяців тому

    "I don't need therapy, I just need a mother"

  • @LUNARMUSHR00MS
    @LUNARMUSHR00MS 6 місяців тому

    I honestly feel selfish, I wasn’t planed at all. My mom was raped, and she is a good mom don’t get me wrong. It’s the little things though. Ever since I was seven I’ve been terrified of brushing my hair, she used to accidentally pull out my hair a lot of the time. And another example, I had been making something, and had went upstairs to talk to my mom, and forgotten to turn off the glue gun, and came back down and she yelled at me, because it was on the carpet, and then proceeded to tell me in detail how I could’ve killed my family. (Keep in consideration I live with 4 other people and two dogs) this happend about a month ago, and that’s just the surface. I want to blame it on her being physically abusive to her for years…but it doesn’t make up for the things she’s done. Am I the problem?

  • @lessyxoxo
    @lessyxoxo 6 місяців тому

    I have a toxic mother bordering on abusive, she says she'll threten to send me to my dads if I misbehave due to my homelife because o her and my brother and my dad is an alcholholic who allegedly hit his ex and from what i can remember I believe it happened and I feel like it''ll get worse-

  • @evewrubel3000
    @evewrubel3000 8 місяців тому

    Exactly my child’s but with without the I need u part more punishments and being grounded constantly and no phone

  • @evewrubel3000
    @evewrubel3000 8 місяців тому

    When my mom made to do therapy in elementary school I told them she needed therapy and not me lol

  • @TheGenevieveRose
    @TheGenevieveRose 8 місяців тому

    I say this to my mom and she denies it, yells at me, blames me and tells me “well if you didn’t”

  • @Anakinthusphus
    @Anakinthusphus 8 місяців тому

    My toxic mom isolated me from my friends and family. She force me to choose a major which wasn't of my choice. This led to my academic downfall, in such hard time the only thing that was keeping me together was religion and even there she would interrupt me during prayers. I just don't want to be with her anymore.

  • @__-hv3ln
    @__-hv3ln 9 місяців тому

    Why they don't understand us ? 😔

    • @-RainBreeze-
      @-RainBreeze- 8 місяців тому

      🫂 (If you're comfortable with it)

    • @Waldemar_la_Tendresse
      @Waldemar_la_Tendresse 3 місяці тому

      Watch some Gabor Mate and you will understand. There are so many reasons for such behavior. Generational trauma is just one of them, bad family constellations is another. But in short term you could probably say that people who are not completely self aware should probably not get any children at all for the sake of the children.

  • @derecknell7941
    @derecknell7941 10 місяців тому

    The only hope I had was never being born, that too came and gone. Abuse, Neglect, Tried killing me, kick me out one day and church the next, Working like a Slave, Refusing to take me to the Doctor's when I needed it. If there hope in life, I have yet seen it. Take care of yourself cause no one else will.

    • @-RainBreeze-
      @-RainBreeze- 8 місяців тому

      🫂 (If you're comfortable with it)

  • @paxbodhi7566
    @paxbodhi7566 11 місяців тому

    "cant we just have one morning without this?" how i've felt my whole life

  • @gigibarrett1777
    @gigibarrett1777 Рік тому

    I DONT even remember my mom in my childhood even tho she raised me till 12. But thank God I somehow I turned out to show my daughter nothing but love❤️

  • @Isabel-mo5bl
    @Isabel-mo5bl Рік тому

    I just want to be set Free 😢

  • @SilverNara-eq9oz
    @SilverNara-eq9oz Рік тому

    4:50 so relatable giving blame on the other parent

  • @arwahashmi
    @arwahashmi Рік тому

    I don’t need therapy, I just need a mother 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @aaishaaa76
    @aaishaaa76 Рік тому

    She won't leave us alone. They won't leave us alone until we're dead. 🥹

  • @aaishaaa76
    @aaishaaa76 Рік тому

    🥹

  • @rainyrainr3571
    @rainyrainr3571 Рік тому

    can't wait to walk out and never come back

  • @Skiiitheog05
    @Skiiitheog05 Рік тому

    I wish I was strong enough to stand up like that…:(

  • @phose2999
    @phose2999 Рік тому

    My mom hasn't spoke to me in about 35 years but has everything to do with her other children my grandma told me that my mom told her that she never wanted me

  • @MsKarma-187
    @MsKarma-187 Рік тому

    Oh well.. it was fun while it lasted.. My relationship whit mom started crack when i was 8 since i replace to orphans house , now im 27 il tried to keep mom in my life till 25 than she made a final mistake that end our family ship totally and il dont regret it keeping her out of my life permanently

  • @Inertia12308
    @Inertia12308 Рік тому

    Yup my exact life lol

  • @jelenaorevic7716
    @jelenaorevic7716 Рік тому

    I am trapped with my toxic parents,i have nowhere to go,but they are acceptable so i can live my life in peace and just get away in other room❤🙂

  • @angelathatdoll9110
    @angelathatdoll9110 Рік тому

    It'took me some time to Recover from that Horrendous Damn Beep!!

  • @angelathatdoll9110
    @angelathatdoll9110 Рік тому

    I'm sorry but that long ass! Loud Asss beeping sound is Horrible! You should Re Edit and Take it out! Or at least give a warning when it's about to Happen!! THAT WAS ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE!!!

  • @bri-annaedwardine1697
    @bri-annaedwardine1697 Рік тому

    That' was quite scarily almost exactly like my own mother, it was really shocking to see that word for word. The thing is I realised years ago what she was doing and several times I've said to her, I know what you're doing, I can see that. She just gets vicious, i have NO idea what you're talking about, inbetween narcissistic pity party sobs for which I am meant to feel guilty . They don't change, even when you are an adult and live miles from them. Be careful . they are toxic and will isolate you from those who might step in to help you, and they will also talk to your friends and other relatives behind your back and yes, make out it's you who is crazy

  • @tiffanyt4005
    @tiffanyt4005 Рік тому

    My mom was never toxic with me, but my ex-stepdad was always so toxic to my mom and me. He was critical, manipulative, and decisive over what he wants what is best for us! I feel trapped because it was always about what he wants instead what me and my mom wants. It’s like his choices and decisions are manipulating us to live in a healthy lifestyle, but it’s our family relationship that is unhealthy. The reason why my mom cut ties with him is because we wanted to move to Turnberry on the Greene because it’s close to Aventura Mall, but my stepdad wanted us to live in Coconut Grove. That was a bad decision because there are no bus stops to wait for the bus to drop me off at Miami Dade College! My mom had enough of his decisions, due to the fact that he wasn’t helping us with packing the furniture, so my mom supported my decision on the apartment building we moved into because she likes the view of the golf course and it has an open kitchen and two closets. My mom was really happy with my decision because it’s close to Aventura Mall so I can walk across the street, through the mall to the bus station. Moral of the lesson: If people aren’t going to accept or be supportive of your decisions, cut them out of your life. Don’t ever let anyone manipulate you into thinking that they want what’s best for you. You decide what is best for yourself. Your decisions can make a positive difference

  • @yashogare172
    @yashogare172 Рік тому

    That's not even 1% of what I face every day

  • @djpatt81
    @djpatt81 Рік тому

    The hardest thing when I was a teenager was trying explain to teacher that my mother has no time to even check my school diary and sign it and if I did ask her she would push me away. I actually had learn her signature and sign diary myself to avoid complications it worked. In last year I was very close to my female support assistant teacher she was like a mother I actually managed to explain what my mother was like that she never did help with homework or even looked at school diary didn’t sign it ever entire school years. I shown on a blank paper written in signature matching in dairy I did felt ashamed the teacher assistant didn’t realize it was that bad she did had idea somethings odd. It was first time I opened up to another then was very nervous she did it’s okay to speak what you’re experienced in and it’s not my fault. It was nice to have someone who didn’t think I was wrong.

  • @leonas2600
    @leonas2600 Рік тому

    In this video seems like both are toxic... anyway, As a child I didn't notice, until I was an adult that I was around toxic and narcissist parents and siblings, so sad, but I still love them, just keep some distance

  • @aprilausthetic443
    @aprilausthetic443 Рік тому

    I watched this out of curiosity. But I realized this is my reality right now I don’t have a dad So I just have her she hit my sister for asking for flour and she locked me out of the house when I was eight but she said every mum does it

  • @jelenaorevic7716
    @jelenaorevic7716 Рік тому

    My mum is not good to herself,my dad is not good to himself,but i am good for myself and decided that won t be my behaviour and charachter,i want to live a happy,normal life,i am vegan❤😄🌈🍓🌺👏

  • @djscottyg2520
    @djscottyg2520 Рік тому

    My mother tried setting me up as if i was something really bad to avoid her abuse towards me,turned my family and my dads side of the family against me,and friends. I finally left when i realised all of it was her that had happened to me before i took matters into my own hands. Beware of your narcissistic mother,it wont be a happy ending!!!

  • @Deedlit9997
    @Deedlit9997 Рік тому

    It looks exactly like the relationship with my mother. It’s so scarily accurate

  • @idcanymore8626
    @idcanymore8626 Рік тому

    The fact that I can instantly see my mother in her mother