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Men, if you want more than one chick. Just say that up front and find women who are down with it.

Honest man. Thank you for your truth.

Some people aren’t meant to be married but become close friends and I think that’s what make people confused. I hope they remain friends.

Leaving does not fix the problem but repentance does.

The man is humble. His wife seems to be self righteous and may be his wife was secretly dating someone else.

He married someone that didn't need sex and didn't desire sex.

Alot of men have been engaging in p-orn since they were little boys. Then ask for a good Christian woman and have her do all of the things that they have seen and engaged in on the devils playground. Men like this have unrealistic expectations about sex and need to practice celibacy prior to getting married. If you have no self control, getting married won’t change that. If you are still fornicating with women, you are not truly ready for a wifey. Let’s be for real. It makes no sense in reality. You haven’t mastered self-control. You have not fully submitted to God. Until you truly submit outside of marriage, you still lack integrity. Your faithfulness is not unto the woman but unto God. You become a faithful husband by default.

She opened the door. It's never your fault..My husband opened the door too and I am currently in a predicament too like you. I pray that God will help me.

Wow, the comments in this section amaze me and makes me sad as a young husband. The response from women to men cheating has been the same since I could remember being a little boy. It’s always that the man must’ve did something to her or didn’t do the right magical steps to get her to open up or is just a dog. He clearly said she never fully opened up and that led to him finding it somewhere else, which is a common problem in many marriages as I’ve learned. I’m not validating what he did, it was completely wrong and hurtful to her. I was that child that had glimpses of my Dad’s infidelity and it hurt me so bad. I felt betrayed and felt for my mother. So I’m not saying it’s ok. What I am saying is that maybe the problem isn’t always the husband but a women’s past sexual experiences and thoughts around sexuality. I always see videos about all other relationship problems from but rarely around sexuality and understating how our experiences can manifest into our sexual relationships and how we go about sex. Hearing stories about the sexual abuse that many women have endured it short from tragic. But is it being addressed, confronted, understood and healed? From what I can see, the answer is barely. Many women, especially black, have their sexuality’s chained by warped beliefs and experiences through their upbringing. Of course that affects the marriage bed, but because it isn’t being addressed and a man goes and finds the WRONG solution, that gets hyper-focused on and used as the scapegoat as to why the marriage did not work. Even though it takes two to tango. And I’m tired of it, we need more men to open up these conversations with their ladies instead of just trying to solve the problem themselves because it always leads to him stepping out of the marriage, them getting divorced, and reinforcing the narrative from women that men are inherently cheaters, dogs and mess-ups. We need that more men that are bold like Kevin Samuel RIP🕊️. Even though I always didn’t agree with how he said things, I loved that he had the conversations, which is what a lot of men don’t do. To finish, I’m blaming women or trying to make men the victims. What I am saying is that we need to willing to dig deeper instead of going to the conclusion that men are the sole problem and reason for failed relationships.

I’m a lot confused. According to the Bible, he should not get remarried. Did his wife pass away? It does not sound like she cheated on him. Would he not then be committing adultery if he remarries?

This man is a well-oiled liar lol. I’m genuinely concerned for the women who subscribe to his pandering.

Whether the woman gives 💯 of her self to the man or not, the cheating is already in that man's DNA. Some men, just can NOT be Faithful.

Laterras cheated on his wife before they married. I think it was multiple times too. She probably didn't feel safe enough in the marriage to trust him and open up. Guys seem to think that they can get both- live a sexually loose lifestyle pre-marriage and get a 100% of a woman in marriage. It's very difficult to build a house on a verified weak foundation. They probably should not have gotten married. Love and the desire for a healthy marriage is not enough.

If u have kids …. I feel so sorry for them !!! Hopefully they will be somehow ok

The cheater is a piece of 💩!!! Period !!! The fact that ur put ur thing in every hole is disgusting !!! And u have no regard for ur body and self !!! If u cheat once ….. u MUST LEAVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!……… If u cannot get what you wanted, u must tell ur spouse and leave !!! Don’t cheat while u r in it !!! Cheating means u r spoiling ur body with nonsense…..and ask urself how u treat ur wife how she feels about u !!!

I’m confused by him saying getting in like bunny’s the first year. They dated for 7 did they practice abstinence during the dating phase?

I don't like Laterras' presenting style on his show, nor the word Wifey and I wouldn't be surprised if he likes men too.

THANK YOU GOD;.... FOR LOOKING BEYOND MY FAULTS AND SEEING MY NEEDS.....AMEN ALL MY TRUST IS IN YOU GOD I WILL SERVE GOD WHOLE HEARTEDLY.... IT SOUNDS TO ME IT'S NOT SHE DID NOT CARE, SHE WERE SPEECHLESS WITH HIS BEHAVIOR, AT THE TIME IT SEEMS HIS EGO OR PRIDE PLAYED A HUGE PART, ALONE WITH HIM SEEMS TO BE FLIRTATIOUS... AT THE END OF THE DAY I'M GLAD YOU CHANGED YOUR LIFE....AMEN ALWAYS REMEMBER TEMPTATION ALWAYS LURKING AROUND, IF YOUR NOT STRONG MINDED.... YOUR FALL FOR ANYTHING

It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable.

May God continue to bless this podcast "Man Within" very good interview

He’s not saying something very important to this issue. I believe he just didn’t want to be married anymore and found a way out🤷🏾‍♀️

This guy really puts out way more self-importance than he deserves. There is nothing special or unique about his "story." Men cheat and divorce their wives all the time. Some have regrets, some don't. He's not the first, he won't be last. He didn't invent any of that. The people in the relationship and doing the hard work, day in and day out salvaging their marriage deserve all the credit for saving it. To me, he gives off highly narcissistic vibes. Today he is saving marriages, Tomorrow he will be the solution to peace in the Middle East.

They’re always 3 sides to a story! His side Her side and the truth! Amen 🙏🙏.

It’s only flipped because it’s a fallen world. Unfortunately. But so proud of you. Thanks for sharing!

You cheated but you come here sneakly blaming her 🙄 you are divorced because you wanted to go ahead and mess up with other women.

This is real Life and marriage

Laterras, thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. As a Day 1 for DFW, I truly appreciate how you continue to cover your ex-wife, and you stand 10 toes down on owning your part for the demise of your marriage. I am so glad that God is a redeemer of our stories. He does not use an eraser. He simply covers it with the blood, and gives us the opportunity to use the word of our testimony to overcome what the enemy meant for our destruction. Thank you that you did not shrink back even when faced with death of the podcast at 500 subs. You have changed so many lives, including mine. May the host of this podcast gain encouragement as he rises to do the same. 🙏🏾💜

Wow it's God. Thanks Laterras. New subscriber here.

Sounds like he's learned his lesson, the clock is ticking, why wont God give him a new and better wife? Why does he want him to be alone?

Just really would like to hear the wife’s side of this story!

I watch Dear Future Wifey for the interviews of "couples". Laterras' ex wife is not there to share her side. We dont get her memory of what occurred. We dont have the liberty of hearing how she felt and what kind of wife she desired to be to Laterras. Just because a man publicly admits to cheating......it does not mean hes an honest man. This may be "HIS TRUTH" versus "THE TRUTH". THERE IS A DIFFERENCE!!!!!!!

CR MY FOREVER FAMILY❤❤❤

She held back from day 1. That’s so sad. She withheld sex and emotional intimacy. She also didn’t go to church.. unequally yoked spiritually, physically, emotionally.

Wow! Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability.

His cheating had nothing to do with his wife... It was as a result of his desires which didn't align with God's. The wife needed help and he didn't help her

The power of the pivot!! I need to learn that. I recently retired, I'm better however it's definitely been an adjustment. "Submit to the season. Mourn the death of that season and go to the next season"

…..but is it discipline or LOW TESTOSTERONE ❓ I think it’s just low ‘T’ 🤷🏾‍♀️

Well Laterras I have looking at Podcasts for a few weeks they are informative and outstanding. When it's time for your person God will give her to you let's be clear the Devil hears prayers too so be careful to discern which one is for you. Now don't abandon the Podcast when you do 😂😂😂😂😂

It funny how our black people quickly jump on the bandwagon for anything spoken over us such as ADHD, HYPERTENSIVE, CHILDHOOD TRAUMA ETC. THEN USE THESE PHRASES AS THE ULTIMATE EXCUSE FOR EVERY SITUATION OR CIRCUMSTANCE OR SITUATION. ITS EASIER TO USE THESE RATHER THAN DEAL WITH ISSUES HEAD ON WHICH IS REALLY SPIRITUAL AND POSSIBLE WITCHCRAFT OR JUST PLAIN AND SIMPLE DENIAL OF THE TRUTH. MOST BUT NOT ALL. PEACE.

This is only one side of the story people. You need to hear both sides before you cast judgments. Stop blaming the wife when you have yet to hear her side of the story.

Women struggle immensely with accountability. Not black womem, not white wmn, women in general are just very unaccountable. Laterras is 100% responsible for his actions and infidelity BUT his Wife was NOT a loving , nurturing partner and thus she was NOT a good Wife. She was selfish and cared more about appearances than stewarding her marriage. And I see that alot with women. AND i AM a woman , so this isnt misogyny , this is a mirror.

Beautiful demonstrate, we should stand around.

Laterras has grown and his knowledge is so helpful.

I like Laterrace and his podcast. I truly do! But realistically, and respectfully, when he speaks about alignment, and we see the women he be shooting his shot at 🫣… Sir, it is not aligning. In my opinion he needs to take the time and reflect on who he truly is and aim towards women more on his level. I know he is financially good, but he’s not what most women would see as physically attractive. He is very in touch with his feminine, which is awesome, but I feel he wants the same princess treatment a wife would. Last, he always seems correct but not real… if that makes sense. I could elaborate further with other observations but I think I’ve made myself clear.

Not every woman or man is meant to be married. Some people should live alone because they do not know how to open up themselves to love and be loved. Love is about being affectionate, touching and kissing and all that good stuff and some people are just not into that. If you're not then stay by yourself..

100% with CHRIST 100% in mariage. I like it. This is only possible when the union is from God and God at the centre of it.

I like the Buffalo analogy!

This man is a walking contradiction. He still talks as if his divorce was needed and okay. 🙄

Truth is we fall into God's grace not out of it ♥️ . Think about it the Biblical definition of grace is m: A free gift from God that is undeserved and cannot be earned

I pray may god give you a woman that will be comfortable to be in the public eyes.