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Would this happen while drugged on roffies?.

Thank you for this . I didn’t know it was opioids . But now I know what was happening. The flat affect after is the trauma of figuring out how to process it all. It’s like the rape continues on in your head.. like being in the twilight zone

Dissociation is real 2:33

I had an out of body experience

I had an out of body experience

Thank you thank you thank you so much.

I was violently molested at 10 by our neighbors son. He was 19. I suffered not just mentally but physical injuries to my body from him that still affects me to this day. It's been 33 years and I still have nightmares and bad thoughts. I have learned to keep moving forward but the issues still come up. Trying to block it out only made it worse for me, acceptance and knowing I'm more than what happened to me helped me so much. I agree with the vid I have felt many emotions and even denial. This is a lifetime issue that will always be there but you can move forward and find happiness.

This commentary does not take into account a childhood experience of ongoing rape

I truly believe what happened to me was driven by the consumption of violent porn, what they like to call bdsm, which caused this man and several others like him out there to think he was entitled to do whatever he wanted without asking if I was okay and being concerned with my welfare. I have not pressed charges but I'm diagnosed ptsd and two months on, basically live in a sort of haze. I constantly blame myself for trusting this person and going along with his wishes/ freezing. I have been in therapy; the therapist says EMDR might actually retrigger me and lead to more trauma. So I'm doing neurofeedback. I just want to be normal again... very few people in my life know about what happened and this causes me to feel cut off from people around me and family members. I am doing the best I can, but this has been a horrific summer and I just want to move on 😭

Harrassement is the most horrible crime in world 😮😢

Ive never came to stage 4, with every individual situation from 2008 up to 2024

A woman raped me. My life partner. She used false arrest and intimidation. The police officer laughed at me when I was giving a report. This was 19 years ago and I’m still messed up- nothing works very well. My career goals ended that day. I lost my ability to stand up for myself. Everyone walks over me. I have lost everything. It has only gotten worse. My psychiatrist won’t take me seriously about it. FTW

I don’t know I want to kill myself i can’t deal with it. My family are awful and my parents are mentally ill they have no clue what they are even doing

The statute of limitations should not exist with rape/sexual assault case. I was raped when I was 13. I spent the rest of my teens trying to understand what happened. The next 15+ years taking lots of drugs to forget. And the following years trying to deal with the reality that I was raped, and that I wasn't at fault. And now, at 47, when I have decided to deal with the assault legally, I'm being told that I 'didn't pursue a case years ago when I should have'. However, I will endure to get this in front of a judge, because it has eaten away at my life for long enough now. And the statute of limitations isn't making the journey any easier

This was very helpful for me leaning the stages at 48 I feel like I have been through all the stages and now since my daughter and revealed to me what happened to her as a child from the same person I'm reliving it again and now married I dont know what to say to my husband. 😢😢😢 as I relive this horrible trama.

No walk in the park 😮

My friend said to me that he didn’t believe I was raped Bcz everytime I told the story that I told a different story The police didn’t believe me Bcz i told them I was raped before when I was alot younger The judge understood me though and the rapist is now serving 10 years in jail for what he’s done to me 🙏🏻💜☘️✨🌸💛🎶

I still hardly change my clothes in front of a mirror. If I do I don’t look until I’m fully clothed. I feel I can’t be seen I still feel uncomfortable. I keep clothes on until I absolutely have to wash a body part. I look like ur everyday girl. ..idk what else to say 😞 I hope one day my pain can contribute bc I’m an aunt and the best one (aunt humor..).. bc I’ll be extra protective of their childhoods and adult life. ❤

Why would something happen years apart. Am I a creep magnet 🧲😭

if you’re reading this know it was not your fault and i feel your pain. you are not alone <3

Thanks for putting this out there I have survived a more horrible complex situation in a Covid pandemic situation

Thankyou! For explaining why I couldn’t protect myself.

When I have a PTSD episode I often can’t sleep until sunrise..

I got RAPE ex boyfriend choked me

sleeping fully clothed, playing a radio in the bedroom 24/7, panic when people get physically too close (feels like intimidatiion)

Used to take hot showers with all my clothes on

Thats why there has to be no statute of limitations.

HE'S A TOTAL TOTAL IDIOT ! ALL THESE ""EXPERTS" ON RAPE ARE TOTAL TOTAL IDIOTS, I'M GLAD I DIDNT GO TO THE COPS TO BE RAPED A SECOND TIME.

Thank you

I found out about this man from the movie "The Rape of Richard Beck", he is so much like the character played by Richard Crenna whom he is based on both in the way and looks and the way he talks, for that movie there couldn't have been a better casting.

It was a big deal.

Merci.

This one was tough

Can I ask a question

Can you upload a video and publish free documentation on how to overcome a porn addiction with a biblical foundation for born again Christians?, that is using the BIble as a basis and combining it with your practical experience and knowlwdge, and specially oriented for a long data addiction, not a recent one.Thank you

This is heartbreaking! I have no words :(

Thank you John! I read your book two years ago and will be talking on this topic this week. I wondered about the latest research and sure enough you have it! Your evidence based research is so helpful.

As a victim of sexual assault at the age of 15 over 15 years ago, I really didn't take into consideration what happened. My case was described as "Roughhousing that Crossed the Line." Mattress behind my apartment at a dumpster, taking an evening walk and I see some friends playing, join in some harmless fun until without warning I'm held down. Next thing you know they are telling me not to get off the mattress, but I know they are kidding around so I faked being scared. I get pinned on my stomach, and one boy cups in between my legs (thumb in my butt, palm on my perineum, and his fingers poking my jewels) but my pants never came off thank God even though an attempt was made. The other boy pulls down his pants and tries to put his bare butt on my face, and his left cheek hit my forehead. Not a single soul helped me. At that time in my life I was manic where my only focus was school, and having to cope with being a child abuse victim from my alcoholic Dad, Clinical Depression and Asperger's Syndrome. Girls gave me sympathy, guys were calling me homosexual slurs despite the fact they knew I was straight, went to school the very next day. I was chastised by faculty, making me think I did it to myself and that I was at fault, a self-made victim. No arrests were made because no one bothered to come forward, and I attempted suicide twice shortly after by trying to choke myself with a belt, and lived. All of that happened to a then 15 year old, 5'8", 110 pound teenager on the night of Thursday November 3rd, 2005. How I've recovered I honestly don't know, there was no handful of tricks to numb the senses.

Help bring peace to our world; help end trafficking, traffickinghub.com. In addition to many other places in Scripture, for rape prevention, I believe laws in Deuteronomy 22 supported by Romans 13 and Luke 16 would help. Thank you God for people like Dr. John Foubert who are bringing healing to the broken hearted and working on prevention of future victims.

Please link your sources in the description of your videos. That way, people can actually believe in you way more & I'm writing a scientific text on the book you wrote "brain on sex". The more I can trust you, the more I'll use your book as an example.

Very interesting. Can you link some of these studies?

Great talk - will you also be posting the evening talk that you referenced?

Thank you!

In 2006, the US Dept of Justice published a study called The Sexual Victimization of College Women. To see this study, enter “The Sexual Victimization of College Women” into Google. On page 11, you see 3.1% of undergraduate women reported surviving rape or attempted rape during an academic year. Page 18 states that 10.1% reported experiencing rape prior to entering college, 10.9% reported attempted rape prior to college. Add 3%, 10% and 11% and you get 24% or the proportion one in four.

How did you arrive at the conclusion that 1 in 4 is an accurate number for a combined number of women who have a reported or unreported rape or attempted rape?

All profits from DVD sales go straight to the nonprofit organization, One in Four. Prices were set to be lower than market rates for other DVDs, and are now controlled by the publisher. As for the books, my royalty is 10%, the publisher gets 90%. My annual gifts to charity have always exceeded this amount by 10 times or more. I also tell people I meet in person that if they buy my book, I'll buy them a cup of coffee, and they will make out ahead on the deal. Have a great 2013.