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My son has been home-schooled since covid ended. The first year back he was going into Middle School 6th grade for the first time. He missed 50 days that year and they held him back. His repeat of 6th grade he missed 70 days. The amount of anxiety he had we couldn't get him out the door. So we started homeschooling. Now he's fallen behind and does not want to do any work. My wife and I are at a loss and are constantly worried and fighting about what to do. We are making no Headway. We are scared. I just wanted to say thank you for these videos. They are really helping

She doesnt want to wake up and go to school daily

Work hard

Thank you so much for your good advice and it really helps me to support my teen. I learned a lot from yours that i never knew before.

This kind of liberal parenting is the cause of the out of control teenager epidemic we face today.

I’m a very motivated and active person, I love to have a clean home and environment. My daughter is the total complete opposite of me. I’m growing super exhausted with this situation. I’m 30 and she’s 13. It’s tough, I try and set rules I write chores down, I award her when she does it correctly. But she chooses to stay in bed until 6pm, doesn’t even brush her hair or even shower. I don’t understand, I did not raise her this way.

This is completely true!

Hey Daniel, your content is effective, delivery is clear and videos are sharp. I am wondering why more people aren’t following you already. I am your new fan. I am a father of 2 teenagers and I see how your work can impact them. I am Rahul Kapoor from Bangalore, India. Let’s stay connected… Ps. Where r u from?

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Thanks for the presentation! :)

Trying for my first child now and I have been really thinking ahead about the kind of relationship I want to have with my child in the teen years. This video resonates with me. I remember being a teen in an authoritarian family dynamic. I remember feeling like I was never right, always had to prove myself worthy of praise and love, constantly feeling like I had to walk on eggshells and that my emotional needs were a burden on my parents. I had to stuff my pain and soldier on, acting like I was okay and had everything under control all of the time. I often cried myself to sleep from being so lonely even though I did not live alone. I don't want my child to go through that! It effects me even now as an adult. I still revert to suffering in silence with a smile on my face. I have been getting better with time but this is hardwired in my brain from early childhood.

My brilliant son finds very difficult to adjust in new conditions and doesn’t want to go out of comfort conditions…. Now it is affecting his studies in the new school

My teen is 17 years old, and he is grade 12 almost finish school but he's not going to school. He goes only at eletrotechnology class, his school already warned him if he still not going to school he ll'be his enrolment cancel. It's very disappointed as he almost finished school.

It really make sense!

My daughter states after 7 is tv time after studying and comes down to bed at 10.00 kerps chatting in bed when i am tired and sleepy.

studying she manages well on her own hours and hrs.Tv addiction and not doing house chores is problem saying will do later which never comes ,shouting Back if i repeat .says she doesnt feel like doing if keepvreminding ,but things are not getting done at home ending up with me doing all housechores at end. .

Teen is getting jiddi.very adamant.just like other family members behaviour around him.how to overcome it or change behaviour of teen being with other family members

I have done all four mistakes 😢

Thanks for sharing

Brush your teeth

Shutting down conversation or avoiding talking to me.

Bless you sir, thank you very much.

I feel the vulnerability, but often when I show my daughter these feelings she uses this as a manipulation technique

You’re so good

You can tell from the comments how many parents do a lot more talking than listening. For sure non-reactive, non-judgmental listening is so hard

This comment section is heartbreaking. But I’m leery of all the teen-blaming. So few parents taking any responsibility at all for the situation

Great tips! I think strategy 1 is excellent. Trying to find the root cause. However, how do you get them to open up so you can have them discuss what the potential root cause may be? My 13 year old is flunking advanced math, and he blames the teacher and hatred for the subject, but he doesn't understand that he is not submitting homework or putting effort in his class. He ignores and never reads the teachers comments for improving his work and makes the same mistakes over and over again. So he has some cognitive distortion, too. I completely agree that as parents, we get upset and yell too much out of frustration. I definitely agree that spending more time with them is critical. Going on bike rides, getting physically active with them with sports, but they seem more glued to their phones than wanting to spend this time with parents.

I wish mind reading was possible 😭

He is watching mobile how to control

Very defensive and arguing with everyone

How about when they don’t do their homework and spend their time on mobile games? Can you do a video on how to handle mobile phone access ?

Positive thinking!!! I agree

The wild thing about all of this is the concept of a teenager is a post WW2 concept and through most of human history there were two phases in life, pre-puberty and post. Once you went through puberty you were viewed as an adult and expected to act as one.

Great video! What do you think could be logical consequence for the scenario you explain in the video with being disruptive in class?

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Your videos helped to save me and my 13-year-old daughter’s good relationship. THANK YOU! 😊

How does that work if he WONT clean his room??? 😞

Thanks for the work you are giving away. You are allowed to smile. I'm smiling now. I would like to see your smile now and then, Daniel. 〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️ Please think about the consequences of hearing about Judgement Day and not checking if it's true or not.

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Sorry that’s bs. Kids are going to say that to justify that type of behavior because they really can’t explain why they’re rude for no reason they just have a bad attitude towards their parents and look at them as the enemy no matter how nice they can be is what I’ve come to find

The biggest problem I'm facing is she is always on the phone or laptop to play chess and listen to music. She doesn't want to be with family members. She is telling me that I hate humans and she is very aggressive. Nowadays I have hypertension and stress. I'm undergoing the medications. She Don't like to step out of her room

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n4 for me totally :(((

Thanks Daniel, I am also strugling with my teenage son for a few years now. Here i wonder, can i watch this video with my son? Please suggest...

My teen doesn’t study as She is continuously fail in school exams and spend more time on mobile

Biggest challenge i face with my 15 year old is that she says i am tired not able to sleep properly but refuse to floow our advice and communicate less and kind of shows she is suffering but doesn't let is help her.

How to motivate kids to follow policies at home positively

My teen son is not actively looking for a job, despite help from my husband and me. We have tried to show him how to go about it. He has gotten into a lazy rut.

Why I tell my problems she says “ why see you telling me” with a disgusting tone, when I share some of her younger brother’s difficulties then also she says” idojt know go away”